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19

Most times that my nights out have resulted in a lay were when I specifically did not have that in mind. The weirdest scenarios led to getting laid
/r/seduction01/09/24 06:19 AM
18

If you’re going to the festival anyway (I’m assuming with a separate group of friends?), it’s really up to you. Do you want to chat with her and catch up? You can easily remove yourself from any situation you’re not comfortable with
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:46 PM
1

If you didn’t mislead or hurt anyone, you’re good
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:01 AM
108

Because any girl you meet there is likely from somewhere else and travelling there for fun
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:41 AM
11

Then I would suggest showing her your interest through actions. Keep in contact more often, meet, go on real dates. Start treating her as a girl you like. This would also show you a lot about the dynamic between you two and if it’s something you enjoy
/r/seduction02/04/24 05:05 AM
17

Aside from these fun meetups with her, how do you feel about her as a person and possibly someone to be in a relationship with? Also are the feelings there?
/r/seduction02/04/24 04:12 AM
3

Who was talking during that moment? A lot of us were taught that eye contact is simply a show of respect whether you or the other person are talking
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:23 AM
1

Could you fill us in on the scenario? How were previous conversations with this girl?
/r/seduction03/03/24 12:52 AM
10

You basically want to get “LOL stoppppp”’s out of her
/r/seduction26/02/24 07:15 AM
97

I hate how there’s no easy cleavage equivalent that can be used in a pinch
/r/seduction06/10/23 06:27 PM
2

The best is when you approach women in the most joke ridiculous way and her rejection is like “LOL stoppp”
/r/seduction07/04/23 02:59 PM
1

Become less obsessed then proceed
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:18 AM
1

Early on when you start texting her and you notice that she only responds for the sake of responding, but otherwise engages like a dead fish, just cut your losses early and ghost
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:26 PM
1

That’s shitty behaviour on her end and I personally wouldn’t give her the time of day. The best thing to do is call her out on this behaviour
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:26 PM
1

Respond with the first thing that pops into your head
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:37 AM
2

The most genuine connections will have the conversations still going and the meetup picking up where you left off from texting
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:02 AM
42

I’d argue it’s not even a flag. It just is
/r/seduction15/10/22 03:34 AM
111

A woman who wants you will make it easy and remove all roadblocks
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:44 PM
1

I assume IRL a girl wouldn’t appreciate being asked her body count. Why do they think it’s okay to ask though?
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:47 PM
3

Now imagine if we asked a girl
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:41 AM
11

Back in my day we only had two pill colours
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:04 PM
2

Agree to reschedule. But on the day of the rescheduled date, text her before you leave home to confirm it’s still on. If she doesn’t respond, you don’t leave
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:15 AM
268

Just met her - why does she already deserve to be a plus one to an important personal event? Made it clear she’s gonna sleep on the couch/asked for two beds Calls you a friend Your gut gives you friend zone vibes These are the tidbits I picked up. I’d highly recommend re-thinking about the current status between you and her. Is there any way you can change the plan and go solo?
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:26 AM
-1

Is there no research on the ick and how to prevent it?
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:35 PM
2

Are you talking about your work business cards or making some custom cards with your insta on it?
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:06 AM
8

The only market worse than the housing market is the dating market
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:50 PM
1

If you’ve been dating for 5 months, talk to her and tell her what you’re noticing then ask what is going on
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:58 AM
3

I’ve always wondered why this is
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:57 AM
106

A girl who’s not interested: “oh wow, I’m really happy for you :)” A girl who is: “LOL stoppppp”
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:11 AM
1

You’re not leading her on because you already made it clear what you’re looking for. For right now though, if you’ve tried to set up a date and given options that don’t work for her, stay in touch a little bit and let her reach out for a meet up
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:03 PM
1

Just be gracious and tell her no worries, and thank her for the times you had. Do this even if you don’t intend to stay friends. It’s not like you’ll be texting/hanging out regularly from now on
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:00 PM
8

If you don’t want a relationship, you shouldn’t be wasting anyones time by making them think you do. I’d recommend finding someone who’s on the same page rather than hurting someone
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:43 PM
1

Not gonna lie, the pornstar martini part is genuinely funny if the other person is expecting you to respond with a fancy and professional drink
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:21 AM
3

No tinnitus?
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:32 AM
2

Done. Now how to download that to myself?
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:49 AM
1

This is my favourite type of flirting. The playful rejection gives me butterflies
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:36 AM
1

I just think the chances of my being so into a girl that I’m willing to pay AND happening to be willing to burn through some cash is very low
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:10 PM
5

“I’d hope not. At least take me to dinner first”
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:44 PM
10

This post can be summarized as: go out, embrace another culture, spread love and have fun
/r/seduction17/02/21 10:58 PM
15

You mind sharing the story?
/r/seduction21/01/21 06:46 AM
2

Regarding #3 - when pursuing a girl I’m interested in, how do I push forth the “approval from other girls” as much as possible so this girl takes notice?
/r/seduction15/10/20 07:21 AM
5

I know the voices are distorted, but it’s funny to hear the girls voice amplified to sound even more like a 5 year olds
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/20 07:19 PM
3

This one time when I had tinder I did a parody of the classic fish prize photo. It was of me in sunglasses, fishing attire and all, but holding the tiniest little 2 inch fish I caught. It was an absolute hit
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/20 11:15 PM
0

Did she actually hide assets? I can’t find a source claiming she did
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 05:05 PM
1

3/4 (tall missing) ain’t bad right?
/r/seduction26/07/20 06:21 PM
20

True. I find that by simply living my life I get texts saying “where have you beeeeeen”
/r/seduction23/07/20 07:08 AM
1

On this note, how would one go about compensating for height? Would it simply be a matter of maximizing and milking every drop out of other qualities?
/r/seduction12/07/20 05:43 PM
2

If a girl is flaky in replies, she’s not interested. If a guy is flaky in replies, he’s soooo fucking rude.
/r/seduction06/07/20 01:37 AM
3

Lol seriously?
/r/seduction01/07/20 05:41 PM
2

The last first date I went on, we went to a large furniture store and then got donuts. It was so fun and lots of laughs
/r/seduction16/06/20 09:43 PM
2

Jesus fuck. Burn her
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/20 06:28 PM
6

Same. When I’m comfortable and enjoying company, I’m on fire
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:23 AM
3

This is the real truth
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 07:48 PM
89

White knight: “hey- HEY!”
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 04:02 PM
3

Amber Turd
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/20 07:22 PM
2

Thank god this was only the second comment down
/r/seduction17/03/20 04:01 AM
1

But are those 5 other guys legit decent guys?
/r/seduction14/02/20 08:18 AM
2

This is called deep frying
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/20 07:05 AM
49

Or just forget about her?
/r/seduction25/01/20 08:36 PM
1

I use hires guns as a warmup if I’m in a shitty mood and feel like lightening up a bit. It really helps me there
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:01 AM
1

It doesn’t matter what you do for a date. All that matters is that she knows it’s a date and that you’re interested
/r/seduction09/01/20 08:32 AM
2

Yeah exactly. The guy wrapped up in a fake cast and used crutches to ask women for help with things like putting a bag into his car. Making something difficult to say no to is not charming
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:08 PM
1

Which movie is this? I’m spending a Saturday night in tonight and I’m looking for a movie
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:00 PM
1

I agree with SociopathicCamper. Keep in touch with this girl but don’t put in too much effort. Meet others and don’t get fixated on one person
/r/seduction21/12/19 05:56 PM
1

Ideally stay in some kind of contact but still love your life and meet others
/r/seduction21/12/19 05:27 PM
1

I’d create some distance. She did say let’s be friends, and it seems like you’ve shown her that you’re unfazed (good). Do you know why she said that? Your life should be business as usual without stopping for this girl who may not be interested
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:10 AM
3

No wonder things went from fire to shit when I didn’t open the app for 2 months
/r/seduction21/12/19 08:05 AM
7

God I fucking can’t stand her as a person
/r/PussyPassDenied14/12/19 05:31 PM
1

I reckon I could have saved for a down payment by now if I was a girl
/r/PussyPassDenied12/12/19 05:20 PM
2

I’ve always wondered why “nice” seems to be the initial tendency. It would have been a lot easier to start off as not nice and work on niceness and stop at the perfect amount of niceness
/r/seduction03/12/19 05:21 AM
1

Wtf he gives her two chances to get away
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/19 05:16 PM
5

There’s no need to make such an event out of approaches. Just fucking converse. I was at a night market lining up to order some exotic asian food, and all I did was ask the girl in line behind me what she’s ordering. That led to a quick chat and an introduction to two of her friends she was with. Just fucking spread the love. God dammit
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:11 AM
1

If I see a post/comment I love, I’m going to screenshot it. That lasts forever
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:36 AM
1

Even 9/10
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:23 AM
30

Don’t forget the good old “jabbing index finger in the guys forehead”
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/19 06:37 PM
20

The better Khalifa
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/19 06:33 PM
65

It’s intended for a sentence to. Sound. Like. This. People, usually black girls, actually do this in person while they are arguing. See below. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/547zpx/why_do_black_women_clap_their_hands_when_they_are/
/r/PussyPassDenied09/11/19 06:11 PM
1

Just be the top 3-5% then
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:24 PM
1

LOL am I going crazy or does the text in the second pic also have some imperfections
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/19 04:59 PM
-2

r/bluepassdenied ? r/badgedenied ?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/19 05:29 PM
1

Precisely why I always give my number and immediately move on/forget. Get a text? Cool.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:47 PM
1

Oh god yeah the “wealthy” comment
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:14 PM
1

Stay friends if you want but I would advise against pursuing romantically. You don’t need to wait around while someone figures themselves out
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:03 PM
1

Happened to me. She was lost and trying to find her group in the club, but her favourite song came on and I guess she just wanted to dance with someone/anyone at the time
/r/seduction20/07/19 08:02 PM
1

Why don’t you want to? Girls love oral, and it seems kind of unfair that you won’t return the favour unless there’s a valid reason
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:01 PM
1

For the purpose of your self respect, you should know that there is no such thing as a break. Like others have said, any attempt to make you feel guilty for moving on is nothing but manipulative behaviour on her part. Move on bro. The best skill I’ve ever acquired over the last little while is the ability to cut losses
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:59 PM
1

I once had a picture where I held the tiniest fish in that same pose guys do. Lots of matches and they thought it was hilarious
/r/seduction19/07/19 05:10 AM
1

If guys were 100% at seeing these all the time, they’d be surprised at how much is thrown their way. Last week I went on a date to a nightclub, and the girl I was with met this other group of girls and just started chatting, then introduced me, etc. But later on she tells me, we’re getting tf out of here. Outside I’m like, wtf?? She tells me “were you just gonna ignore how much [one of the girls we met] was hitting on you??” I had no words because it all flew over my head.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:39 PM
3

I just put mine on and... I don’t feel any different. I think mines defective
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:31 PM
9

Always do the same day confirmation text. No reply means you don’t show up. Double texting doesn’t matter right now
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:30 PM
2

If I did this with the emoji there’s no way in hell it would have worked
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:19 AM
10

r/bojackhorseman
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/19 04:01 PM
1

I know for a fact that some girls are into me whereas some girls are repulsed by me, and the best character development I ever had was becoming okay with that fact
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:34 AM
0

No they don’t. The successful ones are just labelled douchebags by others for nothing other than being themselves
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:33 AM
6

I guess yeah, because if I’m seeing a few girls at one time it’s quite inevitable that one or two will be my favourites based on past experience. I think it’s only natural to compare and subconsciously choose a favourite
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:21 AM
4

The challenge I find is that out of girls I’m seeing, one girl seems to win
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:09 AM
12

The lesson here: if something is very useful, screenshot it
/r/seduction07/05/19 02:58 PM
2

Really? These things are pretty universal as to how people should treat themselves
/r/seduction04/05/19 01:37 AM
12

Sadly it’s also my lift with the slowest progression out of the aforementioned
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:46 PM
1

Does #1 not focus on STDs?
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:18 PM
-17

Black people are naturally such good dancers that everything they do has rhythm flowing
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/19 06:41 AM
11

Fuck, thanks for this comment.
/r/seduction07/04/19 08:56 PM
1

Canadian here. I think tinder in any country aside from my own is awesome
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:53 PM
1

Then just be one of those small amount of guys?
/r/seduction30/03/19 05:01 PM
1

First of all, the lack of response is a response on its own. As you keep doing this you’ll rely less and less on having things explicitly said to you. Second of all, she said she’s going out with friends and you asked her out for the same night?
/r/seduction18/03/19 06:45 AM
7

I have never in my life heard of a single woman doing this. Could be true for a few, but who knows. If you want to do dinner dates, stick to your guns and say that’s what you’re schedule allows
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:06 AM
1

I’m in Canada and as soon as I fly south of the border, I get more matches on both tinder and bumble. I’d say US is better than Canada for these apps
/r/seduction10/03/19 12:51 AM
4

I fucking hate this. I take it as such an insult
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:53 PM
3

Holding you accountable
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:30 PM
21

Thanks, I like these. The first one is great because you’re literally saying what you’re thinking which makes you transparent and vulnerable because it’s revealing.
/r/seduction18/02/19 11:33 PM
5

Idiot could have done this in the restroom
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/19 05:27 PM
1

Im more transparent and comfortable in showing others that I’m a person with quirks and flaws. For example, I’m way more comfortable telling stories about embarrassing moments. I met a girl last night and we exchanged stories about worst drunk moments. I told her mine, which involves me puking and sharting
/r/seduction16/02/19 09:54 PM
1

If the date is on a Sunday and happens to be afternoon, drop into random open houses
/r/seduction10/02/19 01:54 AM
3

Yeah people give looks way more credit than it deserves. In my case I went through a transformation only after which I was considered good looking. I got fit to the point where my face looked different. So initially I was like fuck yeah this is what true happiness and confidence feels like. But then I started to become reliant on my self perception that “now I look alright, things should be okay”. But then the reliance I placed on my looks was far beyond the importance most girls placed on a guy…
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:49 AM
2

Yes it matters because it shows how much you take care of yourself (health, grooming, dressing, etc). It shows how much you respect yourself. How much you respect yourself is a sign of what you expect in a potential partner.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:24 AM
5

I’ve also had the problem of assuming looks will carry me. Boy was I wrong
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:20 AM
2

I once did what you’re planning because I felt the same about breaking up. I couldn’t bring myself to break someone’s heart. When I did this, I felt like I put her through unnecessary suffering for longer than needed. Think about it.. you have to do your act, get her to notice problems, and there’s no guarantee when she’ll leave. I genuinely felt bad after I did this.
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:13 AM
15

Girls do make moves, but most don’t make moves the way guys do. A typical girl move is something that paves the way for the guy to initiate. Personally aside from a girl directly initiating conversation with me (not super common), one of the most obvious moves has been when I locked eyes with a girl in a bar and she moved closer to me and my friends so I can start a conversation
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:53 PM
12

Lawful evil
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/19 06:29 PM
4

If you read, memorize, and simply apply you’re gonna have a hard time with results. This goes for seduction and any other reading material. When you read, don’t just read for the sake of memorizing and applying. That’s too procedural. When you read, you need to internalize, understand and ask yourself why the author is saying what they’re saying. Questions I naturally think of when I read anything: Does it make sense to me? If so, why? Is what I’m reading consistent with any of my prior understa…
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:07 PM
4

Ever heard the saying “smile with your eyes”? Smile in the mirror and take note of how your eyes look. Likely warm and welcoming and relaxed. Now try doing a slight smile and see how far the smile must go in order for your eyes to be in that smiling position. You likely only need a very slight smile. So to answer your question, usually only a slight smile is enough for eye contact
/r/seduction29/01/19 05:47 PM
30

It must be so fucking exhausting to play games like she is
/r/seduction19/01/19 06:57 AM
2

In this case if the 3 hot option is guaranteed to have no second date, I’d go for the average girl. However if the 3 hot option had unknown possibilities after the first dates, I’d choose that option
/r/seduction17/01/19 05:23 PM
2

She went down like a barrel of used cooking oil
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 06:55 PM
1

Sorry what is the 20 80 rule?
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:35 AM
0

Who hit first? I didn’t quite see. When the guy recording said “hey we recording, it’s all good”, I can only hope it was an “I got you, bro”
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/18 09:01 PM
42

Exactly what I expect the crowd to look like
/r/PussyPassDenied19/12/18 07:20 AM
1

Bad boys 2. The soundtrack 👌🏻
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/18 03:30 AM
2

I’d have expected her to be knocked out sooner and easier
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/18 02:25 AM
1

That picture is giving me the creeps
/r/PussyPassDenied06/12/18 03:40 PM
14

Great post. And very accurate about the whole “not wanting to feel like a slut” thing. As much as I hate the word slut and don’t believe in referring to people as slutty, it’s unfortunately a thing many people are quite conscious of
/r/seduction17/11/18 10:03 PM
131

For many things in life, you don’t accept every deal that comes your way. There are options
/r/seduction09/11/18 08:00 AM
2

You shouldn’t have to tell her. Your actions should speak for themselves if you don’t hide your interest
/r/seduction06/11/18 05:24 PM
1

How the fuck does one choke out a bouncer without being flipped over front
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/18 08:11 PM
172

I love the fact that they’re lifting her up while the lion king song is playing 😂
/r/PussyPassDenied05/11/18 12:20 AM
3

It’s weird that some girls wonder why they don’t get a reply in dating apps after a “hi” only
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:43 AM
7

I don’t get why the laws aren’t being changed to reflect this. It sounds like a nice quick and simple rule to follow
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/18 07:00 AM
9

My condolences to his family, in and outside of Reddit. F
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/18 06:57 AM
1

LOL I like how she went unconscious after the officer expected her to start moving again
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/18 06:53 AM
1

Even if it is some twisted IOI in her mind, do you really want to involve yourself with someone who first step towards courtship is misleading with rejection?
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:33 AM
3

Yeah even when my bio says something like: “Quote [movie everyone knows] to me.” Like cmon I tried to make it easy for ya.
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:30 AM
1

Have you noticed this happening more often lately than before? I sure have
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:29 AM
1

Have you gone to a doctor to make sure everything is okay?
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:27 AM
238

Not gonna lie this made me tear up a bit, no clue why. Beautiful post
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:55 PM
1

When I was in his position, I asked the girl what’s she’s looking for dating-wise. I was into casual, but she wanted a bit more. So I explained to her that this might potentially be an issue for her if we were to go through with this. So I would say make sure you and him are on the same page first and foremost. It’s not a turnoff, it’s absolutely common.
/r/seduction04/10/18 02:09 AM
1

lol yeah. They escort her away in a very gentlemanly manner
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/18 09:07 PM
2

I’m not trying to speak low of the language, but holy fuck hearing her suddenly speak Arabic and have an accent is creepy as fuck in a exorcism sort of way. I’m genuinely curious. Does she know Arabic?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/18 05:49 PM
20

Spraying someone with windex... what the fuck is wrong with some people?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/10/18 05:30 PM
8

Yeah I see what you’re saying and for this reason you should be careful with alcohol. For most people, sober/few drinks down is an ideal place. But once you keep drinking after that things go downhill. Take me as an example.. too many drinks and I’ll be yelling instead of talking normally, can’t pick up ok cues as well. Among other things. So balance and pace are key
/r/seduction30/09/18 09:07 PM
112

Yeah there is a vocal white night, but I’m happy the cops knew exactly what was going on and acted accordingly
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 05:56 PM
1

“Hey, HEY—“
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/18 05:48 PM
1

Another way is to get it through phone numbers. No need to use your own. Just download a burner phone app that gives you a fake phone number that you can receive texts on. Keep doing that whenever you wanna start fresh
/r/seduction24/09/18 05:54 AM
4

Since you mention that you have limited experience, there’s something I must tell you. Lying and manipulating is not the way to do it. Any way to turn this into sleeping with her would involve a degree of lying and manipulation. I advise you to move on from her since there are many other girls in your classes
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:22 AM
54

I would love to be in your position. For some reason I find it so much easier to talk to random people if I’m the only guy who’s new in some way
/r/seduction21/09/18 02:25 AM
4

I tell lies to make the situation easier. Like “gotta go, early morning tomorrow!” When really that’s not true. But I’m not a fan of lying about anything about me, like age.
/r/seduction19/09/18 05:26 PM
2

You’re not missing anything. People can be shit
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:23 AM
17

It’s not suddenly created. You have to be playful and be suggestive with innuendo when you first start talking to the person. That way they know what to expect from you, and sexual tension will only become easier after that. So to answer your question (sort of), the date should be an opportunity to continue and progress the sexual tension that you would ideally have already communicated
/r/seduction17/09/18 06:46 AM
5

Omg so true. And this was the exact issue I had when I was in my teens. I would be a serious non-joking guy, and only be funny for the purpose of flirting. And exactly, I came across as someone I was not at the time
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:55 PM
10

Regardless of the norm about where to meet, I would feel more comfortable meeting in a public place and I recommend you also do that. There’s always the option to take them to your place.
/r/seduction15/08/18 04:16 PM
16

It does make you attractive, but not in the way many people think. You don’t explicitly say that you’re talking to other girls, to the girl in front of you. Rather, dating multiple girls causes you to give off a vibe that’s a mix of “too busy because of multiple girls” and “I don’t care if I lose you because there are a few more just like you”. And THAT is key. If you have only one of something, you’ll start treating it like gold. But if there is an abundance, you don’t
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:26 AM
2

What does rejection have to do with being solo? I think if you make it an issue, it’ll become an issue
/r/seduction10/08/18 06:53 AM
3

Use this. This term is powerful enough to make me learn my lesson
/r/seduction09/08/18 08:54 PM
7

Or Stale Seduction
/r/seduction09/08/18 08:42 PM
19

Omfg I agree that it becomes harder the longer you keep fucking around doing nothing. For me I’m generally trying to be a happier person when I’m out, even if it means that I treat everywhere I walk into as a wonderland.
/r/seduction09/08/18 08:34 PM
1

Thanks for the guide! Question for you.. so tinder offers phone number sign ups instead of Facebook. Right now mine is connected to Facebook. If I delete my tinder profile that’s connected to Facebook and start fresh using the phone number, will that be an effective fresh start? Same thing goes for making a new Facebook. I was under the impression that part of the algorithm is Facebook friends which then branches off into possible matches they show you.
/r/seduction08/08/18 02:22 AM
4

Showing your interest: Why limit yourself to flirting during the show? I think you should set expectations early on. Make her laugh over dinner, ask her stupid questions from AskReddit, be ridiculous and light hearted. This will (1) warm up; and (2) give her an idea of what to expect from you during the show instead of being blindsided. Seeing if she’s interested: You need to see how well she’s receiving it. Whether she laughs along, tries to one up your jokes, throws smartass insults your way, …
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:54 AM
1

Wait how does meditating = banging?
/r/seduction31/07/18 12:39 AM
1

You made it seem like you were upset after Nina called you a whore. So maybe the others felt bad
/r/seduction29/07/18 01:10 AM
2

Yes. Quantity is key. Lack of quantity causes each encounter to be treated like gold.
/r/seduction22/07/18 04:52 PM
2

though friends during hangouts other than bars classes/library if you go to school online dating dog parks fitness classes miscellaneous (coffee shop, random encounters elsewhere)
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:05 AM
3

I live by this, and it’s the best thing I’ve ever learned
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:13 AM
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How will lying fuck anyone over? I lied when I was in this situation and I’ve never looked back
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:32 AM
2

You can do whatever you want. If you wanna be honest, do that. If you think you can lie effectively, go ahead. I think whatever you feel comfortable doing will come across as most genuine
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:31 AM
1

How long is a little while before you met with her?
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:55 PM
1

You have the flawless black people skin. You’re good
/r/seduction26/06/18 06:58 AM
1

I have. Shit hurt and stung for a while
/r/seduction23/06/18 09:31 PM
4

I believe that going forward, you should always remember that you have achieved what you’re tying to achieve again. If you were once in a great place by having great confidence, who says you can’t be there again? I doubt that everyone is always in a good place, and it’s pretty normal for life to happen and shake people up. Based on what you describe, i think it’s very likely that you’ll get the ball rolling very soon if you just put yourself out there. I’m a strong believer in immersion therapy
/r/seduction22/06/18 04:10 PM
5

God damn I needed a reminder of this. Thank you
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:04 PM
3

Agreed. I’ve always been one to be honest and open when talking about embarrassing moments, for example. I find that this really brings two people closer in a conversation.
/r/seduction21/06/18 04:03 PM
1

Precisely why I send the confirmation text a few hours beforehand. No reply = make other plans
/r/seduction21/06/18 05:27 AM
12

Too often from the wrong girls
/r/seduction19/06/18 06:25 AM
1

How do I make girls think other girls are attracted to me, while not making it look obvious that I’m trying?
/r/seduction30/05/18 07:34 AM
7

What is he 80 20 rule in terms of texting?
/r/seduction26/05/18 04:56 PM
15

And if I screw up, I’m less likely to be recognized in the future
/r/seduction23/05/18 02:58 PM
1

Were you still as up for it as you were when you sent the message? I feel like I have a very tight write off policy
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:19 AM
15

This is a big one. The problem is, selfies are so easy to take and so convenient. Last week I got dressed up to go to a wedding, took a selfie. But when I’m with people I never think to say “hey everyone let’s take a pic!”
/r/seduction21/03/18 05:57 AM
2

What’s the conversation like, any flirting?
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:07 AM
1

How can you be unsure of where she stands if she clearly says she wants this meet up to be “as friends” if it were to happen. And as for turning this situation around, who knows. It might be possible, sure. But when these things happen you need to think about whether pursuing further is worth your time and energy. Based on what you’ve shared, this whole texting back and forth thing would tell me to give up and use my energy elsewhere. Honestly, even though you’ve invested a bit of time and hope …
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:16 PM
1

You don’t even owe her a polite ending. If you wanna end it (I would) by all means do it. Send her a text message without expecting a reply and tell her it’s over. Start the message off with “So I hope your phone is working right at this moment...”
/r/seduction07/03/18 07:49 AM
1

That’s why I hedge my bets by not investing 100% of my angle turned to her. I’ll be next to her and maybe turn a bit to say hi. And if that doesn’t quite work out I can easily turn back to where I was originally
/r/seduction03/03/18 07:43 PM
1

Well the way I see it is, right now it’s best you cut losses. And if she texts you again and puts in effort to see you, then that’s a bonus. I say cut losses now because it saves you time and energy to move on to someone else
/r/seduction19/02/18 01:39 AM
10

Lol maybe leave out the “younger” part
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:45 PM
1

So.. was it her house to begin with?
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:44 PM
1

Yeah. Let her wonder and text you if she wants
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:44 PM
1

Have lots of casual sex. That way when you’re romantically involved with someone you care about, you’ve had all the practice you can get
/r/seduction18/02/18 11:41 PM
4

Don’t do it. This is not okay
/r/seduction10/02/18 05:28 PM
3

The beta mindset makes life quite difficult for everyone involved though
/r/seduction07/02/18 05:29 AM
2

Personally I would be honest. But it’s up to you what makes you more comfortable. I can’t see the result of one answer being better than the other
/r/seduction01/02/18 08:11 AM
1

Good job! She could have at least uttered a word
/r/seduction22/01/18 12:23 AM
1

Doesn’t it make it seem like this guys got it goin on?
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:21 AM
2

For me, all my approach anxiety goes away when I’m in a new city. Why? Because the reason for the anxiety is that I might see people again. Not in a new city though
/r/seduction17/01/18 08:11 AM
2

One doesn’t need to be super handsome. Just look nicely put together and make sure your body language is open and inviting. I’m 5’7 and hairy, and I occasionally get approached
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:31 PM
1

Sometimes friends just don’t let their friends do things. I’ve never seen this happen without girl 1 at least turning around to look. Hell, I’d feel the need to look behind me for comfort, even if the most gorgeous hands grabbed me from behind.
/r/seduction07/01/18 06:21 PM
1

It’s weird. When we’re texting or talking on the phone she’ll have a great time. But in person if others are around she’s like a different person. I ain’t about that so I’m moving on
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:28 PM
1

That was my hunch, thanks
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:26 PM
1

Maybe start DMing to comment on her stories, if she posts any. I once posted a story of myself doing hookah, and this girl commented being like “omg where is this??” After we chatted I said let’s go smoke sometime, and it went well. My point is, I like the way she initiated conversation. And it’ll be easy for you to do the same
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:54 PM
1

Do you and her follow each other?
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:39 PM
2

How do you remove it? I usually take a q tip and poke around until it surfaces
/r/seduction29/11/17 04:29 PM
4

Those are fucking horrendous. The smell is so distinct that you just know it when you smell it
/r/seduction29/11/17 06:35 AM
2

Exactly. Given society’s obsession with shaming, I’d hate to ruin my future.
/r/seduction22/11/17 04:24 PM
3

This. I wanna learn about this weird chemistry thing and learn how to make it happen in my interactions
/r/seduction16/11/17 06:03 AM
2

Momentum. Once you start doing kinda well, you learn what you’re doing right and you keep doing it and improve on it
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:51 AM
1

Start chatting on the chat part. Comment on their snaps, etc. One time on Instagram I posted a story of my grandma’s birthday, and this girl (we follow each other but don’t know each other) messaged me being like “awww so cute!” so we started chatting for a bit. I didn’t progress to getting her number and getting a date but it could have easily gone that way.
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:38 PM
1

Congrats! One question though.. what kind of appointment and what context was this in?
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:02 AM
67

Thank you. Every time I click on a post and I see that it’s a video, I roll my eyes.
/r/seduction14/10/17 04:24 PM
6

As you age it'll become easier to gain weight. I used to be like you. Every piece of clothing I wore was slim fit; not skinny but rather more body fitting. The slim fitting shirts I wear showcase a V rather than a stick figure. I did stretching and strengthening exercises even though I knew I wouldn't add muscle. Why? Because that develops and maintains good posture which is usually lacking in skinny guys. Look up some posture exercises which focus on the back and neck; although you won't build …
/r/seduction12/10/15 08:00 AM
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