Sexual teasing with plausible deniability is the KEY TO EVERYTHING

PNMHB90 · 2022-02-21T00:39:25+00:00

This has surprisingly worked too many times lol

We’re at a bar, I ask her what drink she would like, most of them order like white wine or rosé or gin & tonic or mojito. I then say « psshhhh, those are amateur drinks » (making fun of her or myself always makes her laugh) So she then says « ok mister professional, what are you having? » then I’ll say « I’m gonna have a pornstar martini » (with a wink).

She’ll then start questioning my sexual orientation and ask, « why are you having that? That’s a woman’s drink!! » I then reply by saying ironically sarcastic « don’t be sexist now, (she laughs) I love that drink and besides I like my women like I like my cocktail! » Then looks at me smiling and says (the most I’ve heard was) « oh really? And how do you like them? » I then confidently reply by saying « conversation wise, I like them passionate and bubbly! » 8/10 times I get eye rolling anxious laughter with the « OMG »

Btw I was generalising the convo, it doesn’t go down like that every time, but most times.

P.S. if you didn’t get the joke, a pornstar martini is passion fruit flavoured cocktail with a shot a Prosecco hence the « passionate and bubbly »

SebastianPatel · 2022-02-20T19:47:19+00:00

I usually joke around and say “I’m a virgin. This is my first date.” They usually know I’m joking but play along and it gives that sense of safety like I’m not there just for sex, but also they want to pry out the truth and see if I’m for real by actually being intimate.

TheMadShaman · 2022-02-20T08:43:43+00:00

That is the trick! I do this all the time. It can be talking about pastries and strawberries. Or stretching after gym. It can be about liking things a little too cheesy or my warm moist comfort place etc etc.

Happy to know others do it too!

crowbarguy92 · 2022-02-20T09:53:30+00:00

How exactly do you come up with these things? I just can't think about anything similar no matter how hard I try...

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-02-20T08:44:47+00:00

Hard to remember the context but using the word finger or fingering especially if they're fiddling with something moist or wet.

incognito3107 · 2022-02-20T16:28:48+00:00

You are very right, but your example is pretty extreme, I prefer to start low and keep going until the pressure is so high that things are beginning to happen on their own. It is also good to take some sexual pleasure away from her, going one step backwards, and watch if she desires more :)

Simple phrases like "That's what she said", "This is pretty potent aphrodisiac", "I like your collarbone", "Many couples are first kissing here" can really turn the heat on.

Title	Sexual teasing with plausible deniability is the KEY TO EVERYTHING
Author	SebastianPatel
Upvotes	31
Comments	28
Date	February 20, 2022 7:58 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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