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This really hits home for me in light of a small trip I'm making to a group of Female friends and the reason why they liked me in the first place.. I'm me, kinda a dork (These girls are super surfer type california girls) at times but always with a smile and relaxed, genuinly happy with myself. The last few years I've lost that putting to much pressure on myself. Another big reason is I recently legitimately got diagnosed with ADD. I feel like I'm beginning to understand me which makes me feel m…
/r/seduction26/06/12 04:53 AM
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I'm that guy.
/r/seduction08/06/12 03:25 AM
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Solid thoughts here. Personal maintenance/grooming is the devilish detail needed that shows you have things on lockdown, all the way down to nose hairs (ha!) Woman are tough to find, real woman..girls(most femals these days) are after physical things like what was posted. Find a woman who values you, you can find that by finding a lady who has been through some life experiences.
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:04 PM
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I liked what I read so bitch slap me. Now where do I go from there?
/r/seduction16/03/12 01:53 AM
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If thats the foundation for the marriages, can't wait to see what new out of control expectations bring us to next.
/r/MensRights12/03/12 01:16 AM
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same, can we..no..I was not about to ask for a pass on r/seduction.
/r/seduction09/03/12 12:01 AM
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right on, that is some classy advice.
/r/seduction08/03/12 11:59 PM
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I think tall women are hot. Really.
/r/seduction07/03/12 06:33 AM
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Happened to me. Go be fair I was on a journey to improve myself vs just getting a girl, but it worked and here I am, working hard on bettering myself.
/r/seduction15/02/12 01:12 PM
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fuck yeah. you just, in one fucking seduction comment, made me totally lose all my fear over approach. That's it. if she were to wake up and be like what are you doing, I'd be like, I'm making a sandwich.
/r/seduction21/01/12 06:57 PM
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This is me, to the T: I really have been overthinking things. Granted I have some things to work out but this is somewhere I can be very quickly once my circumstances. Truth be told, I am an awesome guy, it just comes out weord when I gry to apply things that aren't cohesive with the rest of my personality. Thank you for the time and sharing your story, you've inspired a lot of people. Rock on man.
/r/seduction04/01/12 10:52 PM
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I realize this but I feel its something I could for personal enrichment. So I need to look for meditation classes: anything more specific?
/r/seduction01/01/12 03:13 AM
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I lol'd at that. I'm the one with the penis, I just wanted that location:) edit: your take on willing hypnotism and/or proper hypnotism classes, techniques, etc?
/r/seduction31/12/11 09:14 PM
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Thats the plan next year.
/r/seduction29/12/11 04:44 AM
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I'm a guy who was at about a 7 looks-wise before dropping to a 3 or 4. How do I deal? I am going to the gym getting my body in shape. Going to pick up your book, looks great from the preview. Thanks ahead of time.
/r/seduction09/12/11 04:01 AM
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I'm a great fucking guy, it'll be to late though. thanks for your response.
/r/seduction09/12/11 12:02 AM
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rock on.
/r/seduction09/12/11 12:00 AM
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he's got a pretty nice looking shaved head:)
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:59 PM
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thank you:) saw this go down with a girl giving me eyes at a college bar the other night.
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:54 PM
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I don't bring it up. It is pretty obvious, hence me cutting it short, I'm not trying to hide it. life is way to short for that hoax.thanks for your reply.
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:53 PM
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this has been my general feel. college girls not so much but try keeping the 30-35 yr old high sex drive women away..
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:52 PM
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thanks for replying, pardon my late response. I just recently started getting it cut really short. The way my head is it wouldn't look good bald but I have begun major grooming that has just begun to pay off and thereby boosted my confidence a bit. Your right though, I do question it. I question a lot of cards I've been dealt (the last 2 years have been an uphill battle with my body) but facing it is better than avoiding. I'll start asking around, thanks for your input. cheers.
/r/seduction08/12/11 11:50 PM
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Lady sedditors thoughts on guys with receding hairline? Its been cut short and I'm working out and looking good but I'm curious to know how its percieved and ways to handle it.
/r/seduction04/12/11 09:41 PM
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I've seen countless friends get pregnant or get their SO pregnant to the point where I will NOT NOT use a condom until I'm married and sure kids are in my plan. Sure it sucks but being in my late 20s and watching women crawl all over themselves because their clock is ticking scares the shit out of me. Should be noted I've never had a healthy romantiv relationship ever.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 06:18 PM
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I will, thanks man.
/r/seduction30/11/11 03:38 AM
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love this man, gotta agree, that line is really just gold for self worth.
/r/seduction21/11/11 09:47 PM
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Request: regular contributions from SunsetMission..I've enjoyed what I read here. I learned a lot about normal life.
/r/seduction17/11/11 07:54 PM
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it was only a matter of time. The younger the girls (25 or so and under) will be using this..the older ones not so much. Its really just a matter of time. I have lots of it, they don't..I don't care what type of app they have to try and distort who I am. better hope they have a good lawyer;)
/r/MensRights09/11/11 03:08 AM
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thanks for sharing, the principles were good.
/r/seduction01/11/11 11:24 PM
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At work. Will download and rate later!
/r/seduction01/11/11 06:43 PM
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St johns wort. A natural anti depressant.
/r/seduction01/11/11 06:26 PM
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Part of my growth has unconsciously come from living by this. Confidence realizes this and adapts to the outside forces as your interpersonal communications grow. In this forum, it is women but there are plenty of other ways to apply this. Great post
/r/seduction07/10/11 01:33 PM
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really like that, first quote that really struck me about Jobs.
/r/seduction06/10/11 10:06 PM
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If I'm asking permission to be a man, then I'm not doing it right.
/r/MensRights28/09/11 12:49 AM
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I spent several years volunteering but this goes back awhile, I think that would be a good place to pick back up. What are your thoughts on certain development points I should be reaching emotionally? I guess I'm looking at reaching a point in my life where I'm not constantly second guessing myself without analyzing all the points to see if its "best" for me or not. i.e. I may be being to careful after taking chances: middle ground.
/r/seduction22/09/11 03:39 PM
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Doing, I stopped waiting.
/r/seduction05/09/11 01:37 AM
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There those who look like they have cancer when they shave, find the point of moderation for ones self.
/r/seduction02/09/11 07:07 AM
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Excellent and yes, an article would be fantastic.
/r/seduction28/08/11 06:28 AM
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Its a two way street and it comes down to whether your trying to 'game' a girl or have a relationship. Here is where your definition and direction in the material will determine your result. One must come to terms with the uses and attempts made, otherwise inner inconsistency will show. Op know what you want and do not stray from that path. Make sure whatever you use (material-wise) is congruent with itself and who you are/are becoming. Bottom line, if your looking for the real thing and she's n…
/r/seduction28/08/11 06:26 AM
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I can laugh at some of, the rest I'm trying to understand while I do lines..
/r/seduction27/07/11 07:35 PM
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central, close to NYC but depending I will travel. hit me with a PM.
/r/seduction26/07/11 11:26 PM
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I was about 2 hrs from home and if she was out of highschool that would be pushing it..look at the hands:) no excuses though, when I drove off I thought about it but am more happy it all came out smoothly. I'm working on day game and small talk since I am atrocious at both and feel its affecting my night game.
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:57 PM
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I asked her if I was keeping her from something while she texted through a museum we were in..hehe, last time I'm ever nice about it
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:25 PM
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Right on. We've all put way to much time into things that don't deserve it and aren't worth it. This isn't just seduction, this is intelligent matchmaking.
/r/seduction25/07/11 04:52 PM
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This is always a good thing to be refreshed on..
/r/seduction24/07/11 10:29 AM
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Good advice..but what no one seems to have asked was how old these kids were? Sheltered bible study kids can, albeit rarely, be exceptionally unaware.
/r/seduction20/07/11 06:48 AM
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I don't this is an item which I am going to begin working on though!
/r/seduction17/07/11 03:10 PM
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I checked some you tube vids, wow. Anything specific you had in mind?
/r/seduction12/07/11 10:45 PM
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HA! what a joke: the article had a David DeAngelo advertisement right smack in the middle of it! [http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_3D2Wc2Wigl0/S4Q_2-vIjRI/AAAAAAAAAeo/7F74ymbRke4/s1600-h/David_DeAngelo_doubleyourdating_image_ad.JPG]
/r/seduction07/07/11 11:20 AM
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well I make a semi formal entrance most of the time, introductions from friends, etc but maybe need to give the floor to others so I don't dominate..give and take if you will.
/r/seduction06/07/11 03:54 AM
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I find this principle fascinating and have come to realize my own breathing habbits are terrible and need to be changed. Where would I go to study up on this as a whole?
/r/seduction04/07/11 12:38 PM
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A lot of PUA is your attitude, communication of yourself (body language) and don't forget to become the man you want to be- this is the best part about starting over.
/r/seduction26/06/11 02:17 PM
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light smile and eyes.. thats it. thank you. I know what I need to go for
/r/seduction09/05/11 11:35 PM
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I jumped off a stage. what followed was a year and a half of weight gain, surgeries, Dr's, physical therapy and living hand to mouth: I won't go into any real detail but it changed me. The first night I layed in the hospital bed in excruciating pain I knew my life had changed FOREVER. (Proof of scar and a folder of medical records upon request for MaysonNss & afungi only. I fucking overcame: took life's curve ball as an opportunity to start my life over on my terms, my way, the right way. Its be…
/r/seduction30/04/11 02:56 PM
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I'm in my late 20's and just moved home to save money. My parents (being pretty good people) would not be cool with any sort of random sleepover but do constantly relate stories of meeting parents with kids my age at home, no job, after college with a shit ton of debt on them. Its the real world, being grounded in reality isn't a panty wetter but its you first, them second.
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:59 PM
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awesome, great seeing this..this is a big help
/r/seduction23/04/11 08:05 PM
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Just bought a new wardrobe with MFA's help based on that.
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:31 AM
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how do you know which of the two is getting thrown at you?
/r/seduction12/04/11 02:26 AM
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seriously, I don't mind the approach, I just don't have SHIT to say..where the hell do I go to amass a solid group of things to say.. I feel like I can be the fucking tool at times when I talk. I see the results from working out, which is nice and i'm working on posture, creating space for myself..but after a smile what do you say?
/r/seduction01/04/11 04:20 AM
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how do I prepare myself before/during/after?
/r/seduction01/04/11 04:14 AM
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where can I sign up for humor like that?
/r/seduction01/04/11 04:12 AM
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I'm not implying through what I've said that I seek out all the answers, but rather, figure out who I am thus being able to enjoy the world in a much more (I would think) personal and really much more in my element. I will take check out, I've never heard that piece, I liked it, I'll have to ponder at that. ultimately everyone who comes here will have an opinion but only I end up living with the consequences of what decisions I make.. So Reddit becomes a sounding board so that I may bounce ideas…
/r/seduction29/03/11 11:35 PM
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You are on my level and this is exactly where I'm at. I see pickup now and i see who i should become as a person- essentially the transition to a more, what some here have called, 'natural game.' I feel this embodies who i am developing into. This is not to downplay other tactics of seduction, game, etc for there are greater men than myself in this. I want to take the principles of seduction and proper behaviour into my new attitude, i can accept imperfection because i can accept who i am: someo…
/r/seduction29/03/11 07:39 PM
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Im in the middle of this. I started. Going to the gym, dressing better, getting personal shit together. My friend not so much. Bottom line after 6plus months, its time for me to live my life. You can keep in contact and hang out occasionally (everyone from your old crowd will always say the same things:wow you've changed/look so good/etc) but they have to want to change. You may be the inspiration for them over time especially when they see the end results of your hard work. at that point be ope…
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:51 PM
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And here in lies a question I keeeping asking myself: for years I've worked on me: my, now defunct, dreams to the detriment of ghe rest of my life. I'm getting my shit together, in shape but when is the right time to launch or so its not premature. I believe a natural, in state happiness coincidences with correct life decision/living which i am doing but still have some work. Am i using this as my excuse instead of being profitted by self restraint and patience in reaching my goals?
/r/seduction27/03/11 02:34 PM
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I really appreciated that point. I feel like I've goten a good all around feel of PU but what classification would that fall under and where do I learn more of that?
/r/seduction27/03/11 01:07 PM
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been cruising fittit, occasionally asking questions and generally following advice. Never looked better in my life and this summer is going to be epic. I'm glad Seddit has a link to Fitnes, they go hand in hand.
/r/seduction20/03/11 01:36 AM
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Besides, let's be honest..the hell wants to go out with someone who obviously thinks of themslevesin a light that allows them to go out with an asshole? The other party in this scenario is never examined, it should.
/r/seduction08/03/11 05:28 AM
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There are a lot of positive elements to r/seduction that i feel are good and bring you closer to helping you put yourself together, the one i loved i read the other day talked about reading outloud to yourself, talk slower, put pauses etc. Today i had a chance to talk to the ladies at the front desk of the gym, both nice girls(oh yeah, let's not swap uninterest by the female sex with nice. If she doesn't like ya she's gonna think your a 'nice guy' that's her being nice about the fact that she's …
/r/seduction08/03/11 05:17 AM
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Every scent/cologne has a different way of coming off a man as he wears it. You have to fiind what's best for you..even looking for certain smells based on the time of year or where you will be going
/r/seduction05/03/11 01:08 AM
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That is one young man who will truly appreciate everything you have to offer
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:55 PM
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My besy guy friend went out with one of the hottest strippers I've ever seen for over a year. He's tough shit but an awesome guy, we go way back. His buddy worked as the bouncer and that was his in. This girl was pulling 2k plus a weekend no problem (this is the midwest) the shit he told me though..have fun, enjoy yourself but in reality your chances of her not being nuts or actually being willing to quit to be in a relationship with you are very low..this is the one time you can honestly say 'i…
/r/seduction26/02/11 03:45 PM
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I need to find more 'clutch' phrases for alpha's. One liners are really all i want
/r/seduction26/02/11 03:26 PM
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The breakfast club in nj, that is all.
/r/seduction26/02/11 03:04 PM
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Even better, go by yourself, practice alone time. ( i plan to do this semi occasionally for the sake of me, not anyone else)
/r/seduction22/02/11 11:04 PM
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If you take a look at some of my profiles history you'll see I've been through some pretty crazy shit: to sum it all up I've had a wild life ride the past couple years that ended up bringing me back home where I've literally taken the oppertunity to not get down on myself(though at times it is easy to do) but instead start life over, everything, my way. One of the guys i used to hang out with was always the 'cool' guy/alpha male growing in our group. The past weekend i visited him and his friend…
/r/seduction22/02/11 11:02 PM
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Had one the other day. It went well, i won.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:14 AM
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Best advice i can give to you awesome group of people on silence and learning to deal with yourself? Go to an art museum, dress up, go out to have fun and learn. Focus on each piece of art.what's the author trying to communicate, etc. at the end of the day you have learned, you have grown within yourself. It really works.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:11 AM
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I fucking love you Seddit.
/r/seduction20/02/11 07:42 PM
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I give certain grace depending on a young women's mindset and goals: to be fair, this is my interpretation of what i feel is necessary through life experiences i.e. my opinion.
/r/seduction16/02/11 04:13 AM
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Third: my logic is let someone graduate college, get a job and assimilate into real life(1-2yrs).
/r/seduction15/02/11 09:34 PM
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Sometimes its going out on a limb in the conversational flow; i know because I've felt the same way. I am in the process of correcting this by reading, studying and becoming a more intelligent, multi-faceted person. Win/win...at least try/try ha
/r/seduction14/02/11 04:15 PM
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I know it wasn't the best layout, ill do better next time, thanks for the positive feedback and advice!
/r/seduction06/02/11 05:43 PM
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so good. this is my new motto when going out, etc.
/r/seduction05/02/11 02:53 PM
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That was totally natural. Just goes to show how great this community is when applied ideas are put to everyday use..or workout ha. Wish you the best op!
/r/seduction04/02/11 01:32 PM
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"If you want to attract women, be attractive to yourself." awesome.
/r/seduction27/01/11 11:25 PM
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Bo yah!
/r/seduction13/12/10 03:05 PM
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God damn.
/r/seduction06/12/10 10:05 PM
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Want to remember? Key word: Nurse. Yes, I said nurse the beer, your not at a frat house. Turns out you can speak in whole sentences.
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:05 PM
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No lie, I had a girl tell me she fingered herself to my music, wow.
/r/seduction28/11/10 03:14 PM
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I've got to say thankyou for this dynamite piece. I think this is a huge part when starting out. You go looking for action and get the cart before the horse. I've been so frustrated that even when I get a number, the follow up gets fucked up becauseI'm STILL overthinking everything. You can't have anything if its not natural, not if its going to stick around. I swear to god reddit is changing my life, love this site.
/r/seduction23/11/10 07:00 PM
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That online chat feature is from hell..check. less than 200 friends..check. eliminate friends every cple mnths..check. eliminate bad pictures...check (what about baby and or family pics?) Profile pic with social proof (sittting on couch with a tour lanyard, on the tour bus, high...check. I need more hot girls as friends
/r/seduction22/11/10 01:42 PM
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These both will be favorited in my web browser. Getting yourself pumped before you go out has begun to be the most important part of my night, it sets the entire direction of the evening.
/r/seduction20/11/10 08:45 PM
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These both will be favorited in my web browser. Getting yourself pumped before you go out has begun to be the most important part of my night, it sets the entire direction of the evening.
/r/seduction20/11/10 08:44 PM
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These both will be favorited in my web browser. Getting yourself pumped before you go out has begun to be the most important part of my night, it sets the entire direction of the evening.
/r/seduction20/11/10 07:42 PM
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These both will be favorited in my web browser. Getting yourself pumped before you go out has begun to be the most important part of my night, it sets the entire direction of the evening.
/r/seduction20/11/10 07:41 PM
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This article is fantastic, A must read for everyone. Then I read your scathing review of that book and not only purchased it from Amazon but also things to know before getting married. I love reddit referrals
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:18 AM
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but..but..why!?
/r/seduction10/11/10 02:51 AM
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remember confidence as trying to put on a shirt before you leave the house: fuck it, who cares, we work for Chippendales anyway.
/r/seduction07/11/10 05:47 PM
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your a friend. I want you to take all the frustration of totally missing out (because there is no point chasing) and make it confidence, yes, be awesome..YOU are FUCKING awesome..repeat that, believe that. STOP suggesting with bodily actions. I went to a bar last night and watched a guy literally suggest with bodily actions, forgiveness for encroaching on life as he walked through a crowd of people. Don't be that guy, square your shoulders, walking intently. Being a leader/confident is about tak…
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:30 PM
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I enjoyed this, I've really begun to work on diversifying myself, my personality, etc after dealing with my weight problem. Its amazing how my eyes have been opened with both this and other aspects as I begin to better myself, great post. One important note on the being yourself, a lot of people feel rejected as themselves or alternatively feel the need to be someone else to others because of past rejection. This is where the article really makes sense, its about following the right steps in pro…
/r/seduction16/10/10 01:09 PM
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'Imperative that you learn how to build attraction without even really saying anything' this point needs it own post
/r/seduction16/10/10 12:43 PM
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