I'm an average looking guy, I'd say looks wise 5'9 3/4", starting to hold myself well/posture, lost 35 lbs and starting to build (medium frame for my body-170'ish lb) now, bought some new, well fitting clothes but have a slightly advanced receding hair line. I started cutting my hair short fade from fatter guy and crazy hair. I'd say I went from a 5.5 to about a 7.

My thing is I'm a nice guy in one last major area: I laugh a lot and while that's good, its to much. I come across really upbeat and girls always respond anything but well. They are checking me out on the regular, (which is fucking awesome to see response to how I've really cleaned up and take care of/carry myself.) so its obvious I need to learn how to control my demeanor more, bring it down a couple notches.

Who are some good role models for this type man and what advice do you have to give these guys? I really feel like I'm close to a break through.