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| 1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?I spent ten years with my ex, never giving up on us, trying everything I could to make it work. But he never came through to me, he never grew up, he never cleaned his room, he never stopped verbally abusing me, I put up with it until he monkey branched to someone else. NOW he’s getting his shit together. NOW he’s trying to be a better friend, a better boyfriend, a better person — he took all my help and support and then leveled up with someone else. So now I’m a 35yo woman who will probably end… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 09:18 PM |
| 5 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveI developed a spark for someone eight years after I met him. A series of interactions that led me to realize how eerily compatible we are, random thoughts of him popping into my head, and then BAM. Spark ignited on my end. It caused me to see him completely differently almost overnight. It was crazy to experience such a profound shift in my perception of something in such a short amount of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attentionI think it’s more mature for a man to be able to say “we don’t always get what we want” and working through and past those feelings of unrequited attraction. It’s kind of gross to me for a man who likes a woman enough TO WANT TO DATE HER but not enough that he doesn’t even want a friendship if she doesn’t reciprocate. Honestly, as a woman that mentality scares me. The thought that I could date someone who only sees value in what I can offer him sexually, and not my value as a true friend. It’s t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Women's "entitlement" to men's nonsexual attention and company is a byproduct of their objections to unattractive men trying to get sex and sexual attentionThis must be why I am able to stay friends with my exes lol. Friendship is priceless to me, so gaining a new friend in your ex after realizing you’re just fundamentally incompatible with them is a true blessing. Twice now I’ve spent years and years with someone, trying goddamn everything I could to make a relationship work, but finally calling it. And being able to remain friends with them. First boyfriend was 7 years, most recent ex I was with for 10. I don’t understand why most people aren’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | There is VAST chasm between the amount effort required to secure a partner that is reasonable for a healthy realtionship, between men and women.Idk man, I think it’s equally difficult for men and women to date and find lasting love, it’s just that the ways in which they are difficult tend to be so different. To the point where if you don’t have close platonic friends or family of the opposite sex to talk to about these things and to learn from, you will struggle to understand that EVERYONE struggles, regardless of sex. With every aspect of being a human, not just dating. It’s gonna be hard for someone to learn that BOTH men and women st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:53 AM |
| 0 | The situationship , a new, emerging form of relationshipYeah, I guess you could say that I’m in a “situationship” (of ten years!) because while I love the guy I’m seeing and many things about our time together, we fight wayyy too much for people who only spend the weekends together. If we lived together, we would hate each other. We are not fully compatible and have found that living separately and having limits on the amount of time we spend together works for us. I love him so much, but I’m starting to realize that maybe our arrangement isn’t going… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:59 PM |
| 10 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalIt’s not always easy to put into words. Often it’s how a man moves through the world, his unique and specific mannerisms, his energy, how you feel when you’re with him. What you believe you’re making him feel about you. So often it’s so specific, unique, and individual to a particular man that it takes time to really pinpoint. I think attraction works this way for men too, don’t get me wrong. But I think men are more apt to cite the surface level stuff because they don’t realize that there is mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 10:31 PM |
| -1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughWe are great communicators. Men tend to struggle more with subtlety though, which is sometimes required on the woman’s part to avoid a man feeling offended and harshly rejected. So we try to soften the blow to be kind, and that’s a problem too. So often we can’t win. My solution as a woman is to be very assertive, direct, but gentle about it. It’s a balancing act. Not every woman is going to have the energy or the motivation to figure out how to authentically strike that balance for herself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:03 AM |
| -1 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughWe do… what gave you the idea that we don’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | We (women) wear makeup for ourselves is not 100% falseI like things that look aesthetically beautiful to me, including art, interior decor/design, I have an obsession with lava lamps and other type of decorative lighting, I love looking at nature, especially trees and the night sky. I just enjoy any and all visually aesthetic things in life, because I find life to be a wonderful visual feast. None of this is sexual to me. When it comes to makeup, I do enjoy wearing it, especially eye makeup. This is because I enjoy looking periodically looking in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | This video explains why the way men look at women creeps them outIt’s how someone is looking. The eyes are an incredible tool of communication and we can register subtle subconscious details in how someone is looking at you. A man gazing at a woman he finds attractive can be done in a respectful way if he is literally surveying her as a human being first and foremost, it’s perceptibly different than when the gaze is objectifying and dehumanizing. Things like length of the look, how wide or narrow the eyes are, how piercing, whether the man is smiling, how he’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Lonely single men who get little to no sexual attention project their loneliness onto women about to hit the mythical wallIt’s really unfortunate for those men to place so much emphasis on sex because if they stopped prioritizing it so heavily, they could form genuine platonic bonds with women and get their emotional needs met through friendship. And then they would have practice socializing with women on a human level, leading to meeting other women with dating potential through their female friends. They get in their own way by placing sex above all other concerns, and essentially ensure they will go without it b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverYeah exactly. I have many reasons why I do not want to have biological children, but I have in the back of my mind the thought that if I wanted to raise children someday I would adopt or become a foster parent. There are multiple ways to become a parent, ways that aren’t limited by a woman’s biological clock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 01:13 AM |
| -2 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?That belief of yours is a result of what kind of person you are, not what kind of people women in general are. I absolutely care about a man’s character, as well as the character of my friends, my family, my coworkers, and myself. I don’t fuck with people who lack integrity, I have high standards of the people I am close to. And so do the people I’m close to… hence why they’re the people I’m close to, and not other people (like the kind you describe). You attract things into your life based on w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 12:48 AM |
| 84 | Tell Women The Truth About Butt Sex (FDS PATREON)I’m not worried. They can try to stop women from waking up, but it’s global now. Change is coming. Every day I put more and more energy toward finding connection and kinship with the women in my lives, I’m doing my part, just gotta get to the 100th monkey. Progress isn’t linear and it can’t be stopped, so we just have to keep faith and keep moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a lifeThe trick is… to start by thinking more positive thoughts about other people. How you feel about yourself is ultimately the same as how you feel about other people. They’re two sides of the exact same coin. So if you’re struggling with thinking positively about yourself, then turn your thoughts outward. Find things to admire and value in the people around you. Hell, even just thinking positive thoughts about anything and as often as you can. Make it into an unconscious habit by consciously doing… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a lifeThe trick is… to start by thinking more positive thoughts about other people. How you feel about yourself is ultimately the same as how you feel about other people. They’re two sides of the exact same coin. So if you’re struggling with thinking positively about yourself, then turn your thoughts outward. Find things to admire and value in the people around you. Hell, even just thinking positive thoughts about anything and as often as you can. Make it into an unconscious habit by consciously doing… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 6 | What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person?Your comment makes me think about why I find the whole red pill thing to be so insidious. A person high in self-esteem who knows their value would never put up with someone treating them like this, so these kind of mind games only work on the vulnerable. People who utilize red pill strategies like “dread game” and “negging” and such are ultimately predators looking for prey. They are users looking to take advantage of someone weaker than them in some way, to exploit that person to get something … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 12 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?Yes exactly! I had many female friends over the years that have left their male partners in large part due to recurring bouts of anger. It’s so incredibly draining and honestly most of the time it doesn’t get better. Male anger and rage doesn’t get discussed nearly enough despite it being an incredibly common problem… and probably plays a part in many failed relationships! | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 31 | Why do women leave when men are in an emotional rough patch?How is the man treating the women during this time? Many men are unable to deal with their primary emotions in a healthy way, so they use the more socially acceptable second emotion — anger — as a means to let their feelings out. Dealing with a partner’s high levels of anger (and sometimes rage!) can become really unbearable for a lot of women, we eventually reach the limit of what we can take and make the hard choice to leave. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 04:06 PM |
| -5 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialEvan Rachel Wood was essentially a child when she was groomed by a sadistic rapist predator, it’s not the same thing at all. And the fact that you’re so gleeful about your hatred is really disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Anal sex increases the risk of STD transmission because of how thin the anal lining is, it’s just biology, not a political opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the timeI live in the Midwest and I see hotter guys with subjectively less attractive women ALL THE TIME. And vice versa. At least where I live, proximity and common interests seem to trump “looks matching.” I see a lot of long term relationships where the couple glows up together, or the uglier partner gets hotter while their partner stays the same or gets uglier, etc. I like where I live because people seem to date each other based on more than just looks🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 21 | Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self imagesI guess I just don’t see the problem with staying single until you meet someone worth giving up your freedom for. Most people seem to hate being alone though, whereas I love it. I thrive when I have all my free time to myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:41 PM |
| 14 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Like if he would have IMMEDIATELY apologized profusely and begged forgiveness, while ALSO clearing up the false implication that his mother still felt that way about her, and spent the entire rest of that night sharing his true feeling of gratitude, respect, and deep love for her, it could have easily been forgiven as a momentary lapse of self-control. But he didn’t feel remorse for it. He didn’t feel guilty for hurting her as deeply as he did. He didn’t have the courage or the humility to own h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areSeems like you’re the one making it alllllll about money, and that’s really sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areSo you rejected women who initiated their divorces? May I ask why? Because I’m imagining many women who initiate their divorces being fed up of being mistreated, being emotionally neglected, being sick of their husbands not contributing to the household chores or childcare or financially. And if I were a man, I’d want to date a woman who was strong enough to go through the immense effort, pain, trauma, and cost of a divorce because she wanted better for herself🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areHere’s a good mental exercise: pretend that every shitty trait you attribute to women at large has a MALE equivalent. Try to figure out how those same underlying traits would manifest if they were coming from a man instead of a woman. To do this, try to understand the thoughts and beliefs underpinning these shitty behaviors — that’s where you will find true understanding. That’s what will allow you to see that women aren’t better or worse than men, they’re just as good, and just as bad — and any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areYou nailed it in essentially very few words. People constantly turning this into a men vs. women debate instead of a simple “this just how people be” discussion is so tired, and FRANKLY more shallow than any of the ways in which either sex is accused at large of being. It’s a shallow argument, usually made by correspondingly shallow people. Sorry OP…just how I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Is it possible to find a woman who doesn't care/isn't attracted to confidence?Dude. I used to think I’d be alone forever because — in my mind — no guys liked me. Or some did, but I didn’t like them back. And well, the guys I WERE interested in weren’t interested in me! So I believed I’d be alone forever. Well in my mid-twenties I met someone who ended up being perfect for me and we are still together a decade later. And I laugh now because I realize…you just need to find one special person. Who cares if you’re having trouble finding “someone.” You’re not trying to find so… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 19 | Is it possible to find a woman who doesn't care/isn't attracted to confidence?I just had to comment to say this comment is everything, you fucking nailed it. I truly hope OP rereads it a few times and takes some insight from it | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 05:26 PM |
| 12 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Nah. I have high standards, my partner didn’t meet them all initially, but over the years he grew to meet them all. If people don’t want to become better to attract a partner then they have chosen their own loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Question for BluePill - do you genuinely deny that women have a significant advantage, that men are regularly forced to settle below their SMV, and that women’s dual mating strategy and “the wall” exist?That’s true. I do have some insecurities about my appearance, but I refuse to allow myself to indulge them. I’ve put a lot of work into valuing what I consider more important things and I think that energy causes me to attract people who don’t care much about the wall either. Which reinforces my ability to not care about the wall… and back around again. I think at first glance I come across as someone who does care about the wall, because I am very feminine in appearance and I spend time on make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:19 PM |
| -1 | Question for BluePill - do you genuinely deny that women have a significant advantage, that men are regularly forced to settle below their SMV, and that women’s dual mating strategy and “the wall” exist?My protection as a woman against the wall is 1) I make my own money and invest in my career. 2) No kids. Not worth it! My time, energy, money, all for me and whoever I choose to share it with. A child FORCES you to always give of yourself, you can’t just decide not to. The only relationship imo that is true about! 3) Nurture lifelong true friendships with truly good, ethical people. 4) Date only men who pursue me based on my other good qualities and not just my appearance (which is important but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 0 | What should be the consequence of false paternityMen have a responsibility to make sure they’re sleeping with women of sound judgment, their ability to avoid situations like this starts and ends with thoughtfully picking their sex partners. Otherwise, you get what you get | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 06:24 PM |
| 35 | LVM f*cked around, found out.Yep, almost 45 minute drive to take him and then pick him up…so she should have took even more time out of her day to dress up just to sit inside a car with tinted windows??? FUCK THAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to truly love a woman and convey it without her losing attraction for you?Your “picker” is off. That thing that attracts you to some women and not others, it’s out of whack. Why are you only dating women like that? I see this with some guys, and they have so many similarities between them. They keep dating the same kind of woman and then complain about ALL women, completely ignoring their own responsibility for their individual choices. Don’t like the women you’ve been dating? Dating different kinds of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a child support cap?He can choose to not have sex with a woman who is pro choice. The men’s choice begins and ends with sex, and that’s perfectly fair. Women bear the burden of the risk of getting pregnant, and all of the consequences of that. If a man doesn’t want to risk a woman aborting a pregnancy he contributed to, then he should opt not to have sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:34 AM |
| 25 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindWhat a piece of shit. I feel so bad for this woman and what she went through ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 35 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindThis checks out — the part about wearing the same shirt three days in a row? Famous sister? Yep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 9 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressI never thought I’d learn to sew but I taught myself in a few days using YT videos and web articles. I’m no expert but I’m definitely proficient, and it truly is like learning to ride a bike. It’s hard and frustrating at first, until it just all of a sudden makes sense and before you know it you can do it with your eyes closed. I recommend getting a simple machine and just trying it out. Just set small goals at first, like learning to thread the machine one day, then sewing a straight line, etc,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of needI have a twin brother, and an older brother. Neither one has ever had my back for anything really during my life so I don’t really have any kind of real relationship with them. Instead, I have beautiful friendships with amazing people who would take bullets for me. In my experience blood is NOT thicker than water. My friends are my family and that’s it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Your partner should never ask you for a gift wish list.That’s adorable❤️and so thoughtful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:03 PM |
| 36 | Strategy - make him jump through hoopsThis is such an amazing, unique, yet perfect example of the kind of energy we should be expecting in a relationship. Thank you so much for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:42 PM |
| 63 | Pursuing men never ends well from the women's perspectiveMy boyfriend pursued me HARD and after a lifetime of crushes that went nowhere at best or ended in heartbreak at worst, I feel your post so deeply. Eight years together and he’s still completely crazy about me. I’ll never ever consider dating any men who doesn’t feel determined to catch me AND keep me and put in tons of effort to do so, continually and unwaveringly. (We aren’t married by my choice, if I wanted a ring he would have put one on me yesterday!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:52 PM |
| 98 | Scrote’s own 16 yo daughter knows her dad is a creep. Call out the scrote no matter who it isSo far I’ve told two women that they were being cheated on. Both times, girlfriends of MINE had no clue these men were already in a relationship. It was interesting to see the parallels between the two women who I reached out to (I messaged each of them myself on FB because neither of my girlfriends had one). One wanted all the information I had and kept asking more and more questions, the second immediately got angry and in the end ended up blaming my friend. The first woman did end up leaving … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 41 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”Right it’s just crazy how women are able to see a man as attractive or not based not just on appearance but on character and integrity. Men don’t typically have that same ability which makes them more unattractive imo lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!My dad does this to my mom who has COPD and can’t walk as fast as him. I just sent him a screenshot asking him to be aware of it haha let’s see what he says😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:15 PM |
| 15 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"Really? That’s disgusting, and disturbing. What’s with men always trying to bypass and conquer nature? We evolved certain things for certain reasons… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I don’t particularly like giving or receiving, but if my partner wants to have sex and I’m not feeling it I’ll give him oral. He likes it but he would prefer to have sex with me. He also prefers BJs to no orgasms haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….So, I have a male best friend (and a female). AND I actually dated him for seven years! So I feel I am someone who can provide some good insight into what an appropriate male-female best friendship should look like. So yes, we dated. For a very long time! However, our romantic relationship ended about nine years ago and transitioned into a true friendship. My best friend and I basically grew up together (we dated late teens to early twenties, and are in our mid thirties now) and experienced so m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 16 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”Or when they do, men steal all the credit anyway. Didn’t Madame Curie only get proper credit for her contributions to science because her husband insisted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:49 PM |
| 8 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.Old comment, but this isn’t entirely true. A man will still love and desire a woman even over the long term IF SHE CONSISTENTLY MAINTAINS HIGH STANDARDS without deviation, without question, without negotiation. Expectations of him — and everyone in her life, for that matter — are high and remain consistently so for years and years. A man respects a woman who respects herself, and won’t put up with any disrespect, from anyone. That’s it. That’s all it takes. Assuming the man in question has chara… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:20 AM |
| 16 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimThis was truly terrifying to read. I’m so sorry you had to experience such a horrific nightmare. Being that it was a long distance relationship, it must have felt like he morphed into a monster in front of your eyes as the day and night and hours spent with him progressed. I mean 20hrs, what the f? No doubt he got a sick, twisted, depraved thrill from literally risking your life by forcing you to continue such a dangerous climb, where your choice was between keeping up with him and the only ligh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:18 AM |
| 16 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesYep. If they want to tell me things, fine, but I don’t hold back on telling them when they’re being a piece of shit. A couple times of being called out makes them real hesitant to drop their shit on my doorstep again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 42 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮Not to be a dick but these are the kind of women that get cheated on and left by their SO’s. I don’t care how much a man says he wants to be in charge, deep down they all want a woman with self respect who will stand up to them when they’re not acting right and will hold them to a high standard. Even the shitty ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:14 PM |
| 18 | Psychologist ScroteEXACTLYYY. I was pretty turned off from sex with my boyfriend because of three reasons: 1) he wasn’t that great in bed, 2) he didn’t brush his teeth enough and asking him to brush before we had sex was a huge turnoff, and 3) he would get into moods and be short and snap at me. I told him very bluntly and clearly that I would not desire him like he wanted unless he changed all those things, and that asking and reminding him was itself a lso a huge turnoff. I communicated these things a few times … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.Exactly, I totally agree with you! True friendship and healthy relationships naturally involve sacrifice. I don’t feel like visiting my friend in the next town when she is sick but I do it because I love her and want to help her feel better. I don’t bring my boyfriend coffee when he has to work early because I feel like it, I’d rather sleep in, but I do it because I know it will make his day better. I didn’t feel like video chatting with my best friend but I forced myself to start doing it becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.I hated phone calls and my best friend hated texts, so we compromised and do both now. She’s gotten better with texting and we video chat now so I can talk to her for longer periods of time on the phone, it’s worked out great for us. True friends will compromise so everyone feels like their needs are being met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.I ended a friendship with a woman like this with a simple “I’m calling it, you’ve been a terrible friend to me and I deserve better. I wish you the best and hope you find lasting happiness in your life” text and that was it. She didn’t try to reach out after that, so I’ve fully moved on. It sucked and was painful for a while, we were friends for ten years, but after the sting had faded I feel empowered and healthy and proud of myself for doing that. One less drain on my mental, psychological, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…Yep I have a great boyfriend and two best friends, one male and one female, that I’ve had for half my life. That’s all I really need, so for me to add someone else to life they have to be really great. I have so little free time that what I do have is incredibly precious, and I love being alone and engaging in reading and hobbies, so I wouldn’t benefit from trying to make a bunch of shallow friendships anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Not having children in this pedophilic society.Yeah. In the first year or so of dating my boyfriend of eight years, and I was still a Pick Me, I asked if he would be into me dressing up like that. He said absolutely not and was actually disturbed by it. Turns out he’s a really good person and this was an early sign. We aren’t married by my choice by the way, he’d follow me to the moon and do anything to make me happy. If I wanted marriage he’d be saving for a ring. Just wanted to make that clear because it’s all related, if someone is a good… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 14 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Why is this such a problem for this guy? Women don’t want to be hassled in public and he’s probably making weird eye contact and such that makes women feel uncomfortable. Women especially notice body language and he probably doesn’t even realize what vibe he’s giving off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 23 | What an absolutely vile person!Yes same but I’m 33 and began to stick up for my mom in my mid twenties, this young woman is 19 and may not have the ability to do that yet. Just a horrible situation all around :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men who are into petite women are creepy lvm?I’m a petite woman and I’ve worried about this in my life. I’ve had two boyfriends, one I met online when I was in high school and we “fell for each other” before we met in person. We dated seven years, ended the romantic relationship, and have been best friends/family for eight more years now. My current boyfriend of seven years is tall and skinny and looks younger than he is, we met through friends and he’s dated a lot of different women of different shapes and sizes. His gf before me was invo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 59 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Peddit, haha. Gonna start using that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 31 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.Sound it out, out loud to yourself hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that many men are more fun to have around as platonic friends than they would be as husbands or boyfriends?My best friend is also a man I dated when I was younger. We dated for seven years, ended the relationship mutually and ten years later he is a true lifelong best friend. We went on a fucking journey together though, went through A LOT of shit. We have a ton of common interests and our connection is philosophical, cultural, spiritual. Similar beliefs — we are just on the same wavelength, we finish each other’s sentences. He understands me better than anybody. We have deep and meaningful conversat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 12:31 AM |
| 45 | Just imagine all the NVM raging at this 🤣Nobody owes anyone anything when it comes down to it. Someone is nice to me, they aren’t OWED kindness in return. Kindness and generosity should always be gifts freely given without expectation of reciprocity. If someone doesn’t reciprocate, cut them out of your life. If you don’t want to reciprocate someone else’s kindness or generosity, for whatever reason, set them free so that they may find someone who does. People who only give because they expect something in return are to be looked at wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | The Abortion Sub is being held hostage by a power tripping person without a uterus, Furry Porn Enthusiast, and *checks notes* Aimee Challenor supporterIf you go to the url for the post and change “Reddit” to “removeddit” it will show the post before it got deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 21 | I have no wordsGET RID OF ALL THESE PEOPLE!!! The OP needs to divorce this man, get away from his equally shitty friends and family, this kind of shit doesn’t get better. Abusive people don’t change very often — and when they do, it’s only because people in their lives hold them accountable for being better. The husband has shit friends and a shit mom, neither of which care about integrity or being kind to others. These people are gross and I hope OP finds it within herself to get away from them all :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 3 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘Right? I’m not anyone’s mom. If you don’t willingly keep yourself clean on your own then BYE. I don’t even want to give a man a chance to fix it, if you don’t know you smell that’s already a huge problem. Needing someone to tell you that you stink shows you don’t have the ability to adult or consider other people. I ended a friendship with a friend (woman) over her body odor, it was truly noxious. And she knew it (one of our early hangouts, her mom calls to make Thanksgiving plans and at the end… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 38 | Beware of self identifying 'feminist' men and performative feminism.The guy I’m seeing says he’s not a feminist because he can’t be — he’s not a woman. But that he supports women as an ally. I appreciate that so much more than these supposedly enlightened liberal “male feminists,” it’s all performative with them. Just regurgitating what they think makes them sound like a good person, instead of actually being one. You dodged a bullet in getting away from that creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happinessI agree 100%, but I don’t think the solution is to discourage or restrict the discussion of certain topics (like jaw posture, for example) but to instead encourage more conversations about other topics like the things you listed. Always better to add than to take away. Provide alternatives rather than restrict choices and options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 18 | I got called “high maintenance” at work 😁“I’m not high maintenance, you’re just low effort” I read that somewhere, maybe on here, I still love it as a reply haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Since y’all liked the first one so muchLegit watched this five times in a row, she’s goddamn hilarious and NAILS IT SO PERFECTLY. She seems like she’d be so much fun to hang out with!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | wow.This breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Murder vs. menstruationI am not shy about mentioning menstruation with men in my life. One time at a work a male coworker asked how I was doing and I said I wasn’t feeling that great. He asked why and I told him I had cramps, immediately he was like “TMI!!” and I said “is it really though?” and after thinking about it for a second he conceded that no, it wasn’t. I would never be like “I’m gushing blood!” but mentioning cramps is no different than sharing I have a headache or back pain. In my mind, bringing up my perio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who has had disruptions to their cycle after taking a COVID vax?I love vaccines — rabies, tetanus, amazing marvels of modern science, saved many lives and I’m grateful they exist. I don’t know about this vaccine. We don’t know if it causes infertility, what it might to do women’s reproductive health in the future, months even years after taking it. WE DON’T KNOW YET and can’t know yet because it hasn’t been studied long term yet. The fact that the medical establishment already doesn’t care about women’s health is in the back of my mind when I think about the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Word 🌸✨Women as a whole just need to refuse to entertain these scrotes entirely. Personally I’ve structured my life so that I only give my TIME ENERGY and ATTENTION to men who show me respect 100% of the time. My boyfriend, my male best friend, my male family members, even my bosses and coworkers at work. Everyone knows to treat me with respect and I’ll reciprocate, if you don’t I won’t fuck with you. I combine this with being genuinely kind, compassionate, and present to women indiscriminately and sel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | I literally don’t understand how this is supposed to be heartwarming or romanticMy relationship transformed as soon as I stopped accepting even a hint of mistreatment. Not even a tiny bit. Various expectations I’ve set with myself and my boyfriend: The only acceptable reason for a man I’m with to not watch porn is because it’s wrong, unethical, and because he doesn’t want to contribute to the exploitation of women. NOT simply because I don’t want him to. Also, this is not a democracy, you treat me how I want and deserve to be treated 100% of the time or I’ll surgically cut … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 31 | The Friends with Benefits Hollywood narrativeWhen I was in high school I met my first real boyfriend and we slept together the first time we hung out. We ended up dating for seven years, and broke up eight years ago. In those eight years after ending our romantic relationship, we’ve become best friends, true lifelong “til’-we-die” friends. His parents are like my second parents. His brothers are like my brothers, and we are pretty much family now. I always use my experience as evidence for how RARE it is for a real relationship to form bet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:48 PM |
| 32 | Men are complex creatures....what?I always picture myself and my male best friend in posts about situations like this. My best friend and I are as close as two friends could possibly be, and I can’t fathom ever having the kind of dynamic or arrangement that the OP’s boyfriend has with his woman friend. Never ever! Super inappropriate boundaries.., I couldn’t imagine just showing up to my best friend’s house unannounced, let alone not immediately leaving if I did and found him in bed with a woman he’s seeing. Hell, my woman best … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:04 PM |
| 65 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡I feel like there may be a difference between actual porn addicts and occasional users. Porn addicts are probably a lost cause tbh, but casual users can definitely be reformed. My SO stopped watching porn and the changes were dramatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 25 | Weird Red Flags?It’s seriously no accident that my three closest and truest best friends all LOVE cats. We are all cat people. Whenever I meet someone and we just click, turns out they love cats too. Just something I’ve noticed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 2 | A quick word on friendships between men and womenYeah I always hesitate to comment on these posts because I know the exceptions do NOT negate the rule. My male best friend is someone I dated for seven years, we ended the romantic relationship, and continued on as best friends after that for nine subsequent years. He’s a unique person though. The most ethical and kindhearted and generous person I’ve ever met, also has a decent sized ego that prevents him from harming or taking advantage of others in any way (partly because his self esteem deriv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | tw: pedophilia, cp - i didn’t learn what happened to brooke shields until today. i wanted to look up an article about it but this is the first one i found and the way it’s written is so disgusting...I just found out someone I know has two of the original pictures in his possession — I saw them. Horrifying. I am so freaked out and disturbed. Worse my best friend (good friends with this guy) sees no problem with it. My heart is broken over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Psychopath posing as HVM: the case of dirty John. It's a little long, but definitely give it a watch. It's chilling to see how this HVM poser used things like love bombing, lies, manipulation, isolation from family..almost as if he inspired the modern red pill.Do you know how I can read the whole thing without paying for a subscription? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | This post on the front page makes me want to barfThat’s about 23%, seems to be normal from some of the other comments on the thread. Kids are expensive folks, don’t have them if you don’t want to pay. Men’s options are: 1) don’t have sex. 2) If you do and don’t want kids, make sure the women you’re sleeping with also doesn’t want kids (so any accidental pregnancy —> abortion). 3) if you can’t ensure 1 or 2, then get a vasectomy and wear condoms. Otherwise you get what you get🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Analysis | Britney Spears and the trauma of being young, female and famous in the ’90sWhat about the time he and his wife made fun of homeless people at their fucking wedding??? Read about that, it’ll cement him in your mind as literal fucking trash forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 30 | Woman writes to advice columnist about her husband’s inability to parent and gets told that she is the problem.And he probably only tried to get custody to avoid paying child support. Scrotes gonna scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:56 AM |
| 22 | Imagine being disrespected like this and having sex with him anyway. Yet Another one of GiGi Engle’s “Hot Takes” 🤦♀️Smash too, just 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:50 AM |
| 16 | Gets one teeny tiny taste of objectification and immediately seeks out a female sub to tell his whole story and somehow thinks he ranks high enough to Personally Apologize for decades of misogyny. Comments all bowing at his feet.Screaming😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Nooo I’m saying making THEM pay for it, three way split lol. Sorry if I didn’t make clear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Had sex with a new guy and I could tell immediately that he doesn't jerk off to porn regularly.These are exactly the things I’ve experienced with my SO the entire time we have been dating, seven years. I took them for granted but when I started learning about porn and about how sex goes for most women in this pornified male centric culture, I was horrified. Even when I was in college and had several different partners, I think I was just old enough to avoid pornified men who were just selfish and bad at sex. Most of my partners have been thoughtful and present and able to wear condoms and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.That’s still a ways away. Make them all chip in to pay for a cleaner, that’s the only way this ends fairly and peacefully. I know covid and all but I’m sure there’s something that can be worked out, if the cleaner wears a mask and has their temp taken before entering the house? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | HVM story found on r/tumblrYeah I think it’s sweet. When you’re first dating someone you get excited and imagine them in your life, I could see a man with real feelings developing for an amazing woman he’s dating being excited to do something nice for her, to show that he listens and that he cares. It COULD be a shitty “she’ll be more likely to sleep with me if she sees I did something thoughtful for her, ha ha ha!” but I’m just not seeing it. A guy that only cares about getting laid wouldn’t put even that amount of effor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 8 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Nope. Female celebrities are public property after all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:01 PM |
| 5 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?The level of pop ups is insane, who even clicks on those? I’ve never clicked a pop up and just being advertised to in that way would turn me off a company completely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡I don’t give head anymore — my SO lives an hour from me so we only have one weekend night to spend together each week, so if anything we have sex so it’s about both of us and not just him. And if he preferred head to sex then BYE. Luckily he doesn’t really care about oral and wouldn’t rather have sex. Tbh I’ve always hated giving head and I don’t even really like to receive, I’m just too sensitive down there and I just don’t like it. If my SO liked it more I still probably wouldn’t do it very of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Be Happy for YourselfMy current SO is like this and he actually taught me to be more generous myself. We’ve been through ups and downs and his generosity is a big reason why I stayed early on when I had some very good reasons to leave. It’s more rare for men to be generous like this than women, it’s a huge thing that I believe is constantly overlooked when women as a group consider when vetting men. My parents are like this too, they’re constantly doing things for each other and for me and my siblings and for their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 10 | This shit just wreaks of self hatred.Yeah I’m sorry but I don’t buy the majority of those stories I hear about men being taken advantage of. I’m sure it’s possible, but is it likely? How likely is it? Is it common? No. The average man has vastly superior strength to the average woman, it would have to be a truly diabolical woman who got a man drunk enough to where he literally couldn’t move, yet somehow his dick still works. No doubt it’s happened before, but you hear examples so often now that I’m just...so skeptical. I bet the ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 5 | I’m new to FDS but I have already been made aware of the men who absolutely despise this sub. I think this tweet sums that matter up nicely.And when women did invent or discover things, men just went and stole the credit for it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | I’m new to FDS but I have already been made aware of the men who absolutely despise this sub. I think this tweet sums that matter up nicely.Holy shit. This is one of those times I read something so true and so obvious that I’m shocked I hadn’t realized it before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Video games are more important to him than helping his wife with their babyFucking bravo, seriously, this is SO IMPORTANT yet it’s never talked about because it’s “shaming victims” or whatever. Bullshit!! It’s about educating and empowering women to be picky and not saddle themselves with some loser who will ruin them and their child’s lives! We can’t continue avoiding harsh truths because they make some people feel uncomfortable. That just perpetuates the cycle of suffering that unfairly harms women so much more. We owe it to our sisters to not just speak these truths… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 4 | oofSo simple, so true. Men need to EARN our time energy and attention by providing value to our lives. If we don’t expect anything from them, if we don’t require them to prove their value before giving away of ourselves, then why would they value us in return? People most value the things which they had to put the most effort into getting. It’s not about sex at all, it’s about what I said above: time, energy, and attention. Those are precious things that we shouldn’t waste on just anyone, not just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 14 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍That’s... like purposely insulting. “Women who want huge rocks are gold diggers so ima get her the smallest one I can find! That’ll prove she wants ME and not just my money!” When what’s really going on is “I don’t respect her, I don’t care about her feelings, she needs to be grateful for whatever she gets” Gross🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 5 | "Don't kink shame, don't you know there are women who ENJOY having their ribs broken? Lolol" 🤢🤮🤮🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:55 PM |
| 7 | boy BYEI don’t usually stan for anyone but I definitely stan for Rose. She’s a goddess and a queen, I’m so inspired by her❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 47 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.This is why I would never date let alone fuck any man that enjoys that kind of shit ever again. Sometime during the early months/years of dating my SO of seven years I suggested rougher sex, choking etc to “spice things up” (still brainwashed at the time) and he was horrified, he said if he even tried he’d lose his boner. The idea of hurting me was a complete turn off. I’m glad for that because I feel so incredibly safe and fulfilled with him, if we’d had that kind of sex together I’d probably h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 4 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPFlushable wipes still clog city sewers FYI, never flush a wipe no matter what the label says! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPApparently a lot of men think it’s “gay” to clean their assjoles in the shower, no doubt many think it’s also “gay” to wipe their own ass more than once. Disgusting in many ways, both bigoted and ignorant AS WELL AS just plain nasty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPThank god I’ve never dated a guy like this, and my father wasn’t like this either! He wore righty whiteys and we never used bleach growing up. I don’t think my mom would have put up with that. Don’t get me wrong I’ve dated many a LVM but somehow I’ve managed to avoid this particular trait lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 16 | LVM and ChristmasI hope you called him out for that! That’s just shameful shit. They should all be called out for this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 16 | LVM and ChristmasI do this too! I work at Costco and get killer markdown deals throughout the year. This enables me to get meaningful tailored gifts to the small list of people I buy for, all year long. I buy something originally $25 for $5 and put it away until the right time. Whenever someone mentions they want something in passing or I think of a good gift idea, I order it right away. Ends up that I only need to do a little shopping in the weeks leading up to Christmas and the last time I really need to do is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 8 | Women die younger who get married--Men die 7-18 years younger if single! You're just a tool for their survival Studies state some reasons why--men get driven to the hospital having a heart attack. Are taken care of by women. Caretaker.My kitty smells like a clean warm blanket! I ❤️her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:46 PM |
| 3 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!I’ve been the friend who hesitated to give the advice they need to head but don’t want to, and never again. If you don’t want my unfiltered perception and insights then we ain’t real friends. Gentle but blunt honesty is something I NEED in relationships, both given and received. I’m done with pickme friends that want to live in denial and fantasy! They make terrible friends and give the worst advice tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 13 | Why do so many men hate gift giving?My boyfriend made a joke about me giving him a PS5 and I just cackled. It’s funny to know it came from a meme, he’s always joking about me buying him expensive gifts because he knows anything >$100 ain’t happening haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 28 | Why do so many men hate gift giving?It’s totally not how much you spend either. I gave a work friend a few little gifts that probably cost $15 total and she was so touched and appreciative! My boyfriend gives me little gifts that cost <$10 all the time, he loves doing it. My best friend (male) also frequently gifts meaningful inexpensive things often. I’m a huge gifter and love surprising people as often as I can. It feels so good and is such a good way to make people feel special and understood — receiving a thoughtful gift is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 19 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsMy best friend is a man, we dated for seven years and we have been broken up for eight. I hate saying it like that because aside from six months or so in between dating and best friendship, we were still friends but distant. During that time we were each getting clean from drug addiction. I grew up with him, been through some of my/our most painful life experiences together, it bonded us together even more deeply than most friendships. It’s such a unique thing that I don’t think is possible to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.I fucked up by forgiving my cheating boyfriend a few years ago. It was three years into our relationship, some months after finding out I forgave him and life went on. About a year ago though I discovered feminism and FDS and my worldview completelyyy changed. I began to stop accepting ANY treatment from him I don’t like, and when we argue I tell him he does what I want or he can leave. I don’t negotiate. This isn’t a democracy. Since I began drawing a hard line and letting him know very clearly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 18 | "Relationships require work, its a give and take"A relationship will only work if the man 1000% wants to be in it and will do whatever it takes to make his woman happy, and if he does it won’t feel like work. He will be grateful for the opportunity to make an amazing woman feel appreciated and valued, that’s when men are the happiest tbh. When they know they’re earning something instead of just being handed something they don’t deserve! I will never date a man who doesn’t adore me completely, absolutely, beyond any doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 20 | The Holidays are Coming: You dont need to buy him a Gift or show up with himA man needs to prove he will be appreciative of any gift I give him, and that means I don’t start gifting (and I’m an amazing gifter) until waaayyy into a relationship. The man I’m seeing now 1) spends a lot more money on me 2) gifts me random things frequently, and 3) expresses A LOT of appreciation for gifts I give him. If he stopped doing all three of these things he wouldn’t be getting a thing from me ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 35 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.I don’t even think he’s fine, he’s just not ugly. He’s a completely average not overweight white dude. He’s generic and strikes me as boring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 15 | Say it louder for the back, sis 👏Loooove this, and love her!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 12:31 PM |
| 12 | Commentator got it wrong. This is who needs to see Kamala speak tonight.Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Megan Fox calls out Brian Austin Green( who groomed her when she was 18 and he was 30) for doing LVM things.Eloquent wise Queen right there. Fuck BAG, he’s a tool and I’m glad she’s out of what seemed like a super toxic relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogYeeeeah that’s extremely concerning. It’s a gift it happened though so you can see who he really is before investing any more time and energy. Good people with integrity and character have a respect for the personal space and experience of all other beings and would never intentionally annoy or bother another creature or human for entertainment. It’s as simple as that. You really can tell so much about a person by how they treat animals — they may not be as conscious or complex as we are, but th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 24 | Breaking away after truama bonding done easy for the new queensI totally get needing to delete FB altogether but I like being able to keep in touch with and communicate with my family and real friends. So I set a goal that I’d never let my friends list exceed 300 people and I regularly prune. I don’t add random people, including men, I’m not friends with in real life. It works well. I enjoy looking at my feed because it’s only people I care about, and I am able to use my page to post positive things and quotes I find inspiring. I get why people would want t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:22 PM |
| 15 | Drew and Sharon on why they are done with dating. So relatable!The insincerity, the ego, the immaturity, and the entitlement — absolutely these things are, without a doubt, MUCH more pronounced in men. This is indisputable. However, I do see all of these things on a smaller scale in women too. Spending so much time here (and the sub that-shall-not-be-named that got shut down a while ago😆), radical feminism, integrating these things into my perspective and beliefs about life, it’s radically changed me. Throughout my entire journey I’ve had the same best frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Good men hold other men accountable. End of story.Good people always have to be willing to cut shitty people out of their life. Better to lose an entire group of terrible people as friends than risk further destroying your own humanity by indirectly condoning it by your silence. Being unwilling to take uncomfortable actions like immediately cutting bad people out of your life when they show you who they are will leave you feeling hollow and lost. The only way to have true fulfillment in life is to invest in your insides, your heart, soul, and m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:13 PM |
| 17 | Mashable decides to celebrate International Female Orgasm Day by dedicating a whole week to porn. Because what better way to celebrate female orgasms than focusing on an industry KNOWN for women faking it.I don’t even get mad anymore. It’s so obvious to some of us how depraved and diseased this world is, and our numbers are growing every day. I’m so glad to have this place with all the wonderful ladies here to laugh at and shit on all this nonsense with! My latest goal is to make myself laugh as much as possible, and how can you not laugh at this? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:05 PM |
| 31 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.PORN IS NOT SEX God I am sick of the two being conflated. They’re two goddamn completely different things!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Big Cringe: If She isn't Worth Washing Your Dishes for, Make Sure Your Paper Plates are as Deep as Your LVM BSThe mental picture here is hilarious haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Why all the rape jokes??I think she meant that’s the closest male equivalent, which just shows how disparate and unequal the male and female experiences are. I’ve also heard the male equivalent was being laughed at. Either way, it just shows how inequitable it all is. Men being used for their money or being laughed at by women is nowhere even close to women being raped. Men don’t know how good they have it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | (Why I stopped watching porn | Ran Gavrieli | TEDxJaffa) 20 million views and worth the 15 minutesThis was an amazing watch, thank you so much for sharing it. He hit all of the major points I think and it’s good to hear it from the male perspective. Men like this give me hope, and I feel like I’m doing MY part by refusing to share my body, mind, presence, or energy on any man who doesn’t deserve it. I’m done dating scrotes, men like this exist, and no matter how rare they may be, I will not contribute to the global suffering of women by giving any man the time of day who is not worthy of me.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Thank god this girl realizes he wants a new mommy. Stay strong girl or you’ll be participating in #kickhimout2020Like how do you even need to be taught how to clean or basic cooking any of this really basic simple shit? We have the internet, search engines, streaming sites. Anyone can do basic web searches “how to clean the bathroom” or “how to balance your budget” or any of the million basic cooking tutorials and “learn” how to do these things in like a day. Dude is just lazy and stupid. NEXT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...What a disgusting man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:14 PM |
| 61 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexWith my ex we did it once. I told him “weird it doesn’t hurt like last time I did it with someone,” and he realized without me having to say it was because his dick was small. So he never asked again, he didn’t want to be reminded he had a smaller peen🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Study links OLD to lower self esteem and depressionNothing has helped me build up my self esteem as much as this sub! Now I realize that any shit I get from scrotes is about them and not me. It makes it easy to block and delete. To demand to be treated with respect, otherwise I cut the other person off. Even worked with my make manager at work. Made it clear I wouldn’t put up with mistreatment and he is respectful to me now. If I ever try OLD again I’ll bring my FDS strategies with me and it’ll change how I use that too. Thank the universe for F… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 32 | “Used like a human fleshlight, how do I move on??!!”Yes same. It’s just a waste of time. I’ve come to view developing a crush on a man to be a sign of something inside myself I’m lacking, some quality I’m attracted to in the person I have a crush on. Just being ABLE to have a crush on a man is a sign I lack self-love and inner confidence. That I don’t currently feel whole and complete in myself. It’s one thing to have lust or attraction to a man who reciprocates it back, but that’s not a crush to me. That is mutual attraction that’s developing he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 13 | Every one needs to unsub from r/feminism right now. Read below.I don’t think there’s any women mods left on any of the top “women’s” subs. I remember reading that here some time ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 12 | Every one needs to unsub from r/feminism right now. Read below.That place is trash. I never liked “feminism” as a concept until I discovered GC and radfem. Then it all made sense. Liberal feminism doesn’t deserve to be called feminism, it’s faux, it’s a lie. Yet when people think of feminism that’s what they think — where you’re not allowed to question any choice a woman could make, an ideology where you have to call every choice a woman could make as equally empowering. If you question any of these choices that we all know deep down hurt women as a class (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 40 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsHe probably doesn’t even work and gets some kind of “allowance” from mommy. Enough for fast food and video games but not a decent hotel room for one night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:27 PM |
| 44 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsSad but true. I hope she learns from this and it’s a wake up call to stop accepting this kind of appalling treatment from these scrotes. They don’t deserve even a second of our time, energy, presence, sexuality. They deserve invisibility until they do the work to become men of value and integrity instead of worthless trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 14 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsWhat a loser! If you can’t afford a place to have uninterrupted sex, whether that be your home or a hotel, you shouldn’t be having it. The motivation to level up should come from having to go without what you want while you work to earn it for yourself, but with the current structure of our society — entitled, narcissistic, immature, lazy men and submissive insecure pickme’s brainwashed by “sex positive” liberal feminism poison — men are enabled to treat women like trash, they have no incentive … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | FDS Approved Must-Have Products??I found my perfect fitting bra and perfect undies (had to be full coverage — no cheeky or thongs — but also seamless) and stocked up on them. Six bras and thirty pairs of underwear. It’s hard for me to find both of these things so I splurged in advance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Dr Karin discusses the question, 'What if I never find my person?'I love that sentiment! It’s hopeful and inspiring rather than the mainstream narrative that we’ve somehow failed to “find a relationship” because we are single. Instead we have managed to avoid becoming attached to the wrong man, we have freedom in front of us instead of being stuck with someone who holds us down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Dr Karin discusses the question, 'What if I never find my person?'That’s the realization I’ve come to as well! I’m currently in the process of exiting a seven-year relationship (we’re on a break, which is going to become permanent he just doesn’t know it yet) that’s sucked my joy and my self-esteem and my emotional stability and I know that I’m never going to let myself get to a place like this again. All that energy I put into him I could have been putting into my friendships, my passions, my inner work, and I’m excited to rebuild my life as an unattached fre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:38 PM |
| -5 | For those who have a tall preference, what does seeing a tall guy feel like to you?Male sexuality is dehumanizing and objectifying to the woman. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Rant on some more LV things to warn you all aboutLiterally half this list applies to my on-off again of seven years. I’ve been distancing myself to soften the blow when I break up with him officially, and your post is helping cement that decision for me! Gamer, job hopping, always doing favors for his loser friends, PUTTING MUSIC ON HE KNOWS I HATE, playing youtubers or Netflix shows I have zero interest in and then getting mad at me for “not sharing in his interests” when I get irritated at him for doing so. Not taking care of his pets. Never… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 4 | How are women so brainwashed that when a man actually steps up and changes his life we see him as sick??If you’re interested, grab a copy of the Psychedelic Explorer’s Guide. Set, setting, trip sitter, appropriate amounts, reagent test your substance first — the majority of “bad trips” that end up destabilizing people are people who take them carelessly, not having any idea of the effects, doing them for the wrong reasons, escapism. I’ve never heard of anyone having a bad trip when they planned ahead and took it seriously, as a spiritual tool instead of a recreational escape. Psychedelics should b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Paragraphs exist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Can We Please Not Normalize This...That would blow my mind. My parents have always split housework. Now that they’re retired and my dad is in better health, he does probably 75% to my mom’s 25%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:23 PM |
| 6 | What a lovely surprise I received today.It’s the only way she can justify her husband’s low value behavior, by blaming the “loose women” instead of him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Her BF's parents expect her to clean. What would be the FDS way of dealing with this?Yeah this is what my parents would have done in this situation. If my brothers gf was living with him rent free in one of their condos...no way they’d approach the gf and not my brother. No way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingHoly shit. My mind can’t wrap around this beautiful and intelligent woman falling over herself for such an ugly, unappealing man. She needs FDS! She has such a beautiful and happy life ahead of her if she just develops self love and confidence. She can do a million times better than her ex, jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:36 PM |
| 9 | It's nothing crazy, but I've never been treated like this until I found FDS and ditched the LVM/NVM I had been dating.Get it girl!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 7 | This poor woman. Her BF/Husband doesn't want to buy her pads in an emergency!Literally anyone ringing up a man for period products would think “what a great guy!” It’s just stupid to be embarrassed about it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Your timeline is non-negotiable.I was honestly afraid to really comment on Reddit before finding that big feminist sub that got banned not too long ago, you know the one 😝. Anyway I remember being anxious after writing my first comment there, afraid I was going to get flamed or attacked (as was often the case when commenting in other subs). To my surprise it got tons of upvotes and genuine, thoughtful replies! It was so unlike the rest of this site and its users that I was just blown away. I’ve never had a single lady on that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 15 | LVM bamboozled me into a shit date where i starved and froze to deathReminds me of the time I went to a party with my ex-boyfriend some years back, at his best friends house. I had had a few drinks and thought it was a good idea to hit the joint being passed around — I don’t smoke weed — and I got super sick and spinny. Instead of my boyfriend taking me home he made me wait in the car for him FOR HOURS while he partied and did drugs. I should have dumped his ass the next day. Never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studiesMy mom is having major surgery today and my dad has been preparing for days to make sure she’s going to be comfortable at home during her recuperation. Things like making sure she easily access her phone and tablet from the couch, food she likes to eat, comfortable blankets and pillows, moved furniture around so she can get around with her walker. We even laughed at a friend of his who tried to go golfing with my dad after his own wife’s surgery — the other man said “she will be fine for three h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studiesI don’t think this is always true — but to find a man who falls in love with a woman like we fall in love with men is admittedly extremely rare. Those types of men are incredibly rare. But it’s possible. And personally I’m not setting for anything less than a total connection — spiritual, emotional, physical, sexual, mental, and psychological. I imagine I’ll remain single my entire life, but I’m fine with that. My standards are so high that I’m not willing to settle for anything less than a comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:40 AM |
| 23 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manI’m 31 and look 21 and I get asked out by obese, 45+ men at work. Scrotes really do have zero audacity, that never stops whether you’re 21, 31, or 51. My beautiful lady coworkers in the 40-50 age ranges get hit on by ugly men at work, they’re way out of the scrotes league but they still try. They never stop trying! Yet we are expected to let them down nicely instead of laughing and saying “are you kidding me?” So they never learn😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:26 AM |
| 13 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manFucking ROLLING girl!!!🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:24 AM |
| 18 | Food for thought on what makes a person high valueYep you ain’t wrong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:22 AM |
| 20 | Men: I wanna hook up with women who ONLY want a relationship so I can emotionally abuse them and inflate my egoOr it’s a happy landscape because we can work on being our best single selves! That’s where I’m at. Actually growing grateful for this sort of forced singledom, I’ve never been so confident and so self-focused in my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:20 AM |
| 6 | I—????????????This fat piece of racist shit talking about women’s bodies like that? What a complete loser. He has no business commenting on ANYONE’S appearance, lmao. He’s never hit the inside of a gym or eaten a salad in his entire life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:15 AM |
| 20 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!My mom raised me to make my own money and never to depend on a man for survival, and she provided me with the support, tools, and the resources to be an independent woman. I am forever grateful to her for that. Now that they’re retired my dad shares the housework and cooking with her, even doing more than his share because my mom is in worth health. I feel like I’ve learned a lot from my parents and I’m grateful for the lessons they’ve given me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:51 AM |
| 4 | Help from older FDSers: how to not get down about my ageGirl I have a coworker who is in her mid-forties and she met an amazing HV man this year. He has a prestigious well paying job, he travels nine hours to see her every weekend, he pays for everything, last winter he surprised her with an expensive heated coat because he “knows how cold she gets.” They have a lot in common and go for runs and hikes together. He supports her in everything she does. And he’s hot AF. She is divorced and has had bad experiences with men in the past, had given up on me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to have both a HVM and LVM in the same person?I skimmed the “good” stuff because tbh nothing can make up for your long list of red flag behaviors. I am super sensitive to loud noises and no way in HELL could I EVER be in the same room with a man who was yelling like that, no way! That’s horrifying. He doesn’t value your need to get sleep — proper amounts of sleep are critical to health. So his behavior is literally harming your health. He doesn’t respect your bodily autonomy by forcing hugs on you? GIRL NO! He doesn’t respect your rights to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | FDS made me realize I deserve more and I shouldn't "settle" on men I am not attracted tooThis is where I’m at. And men will choose a woman who is more attractive over someone he has more of a spiritual, emotional, and mental connection with. That’s why I’m happy to be single for the rest of my life — unless I find someone I match with on EVERY level, it’s not worth it to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | A scrote almost killed my dog tonightI’m not about pit bulls tbh. They kill and disfigure women and children, they’re unreliable and randomly violent. Im against creatures that cause pain to weaker members of society — violent men, the elites, dangerous animals that no one should be keeping as pets. I’m about protecting the innocent no matter how unpopular it is. I’m so sorry that happened to you and your dog :( I hope he pulls through and makes a complete recovery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 20 | An award for the lamest excuse goes to...? (Backstory in the 2nd pic)I never thought about this but you’re so right about that. A definite red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 10 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???This is stomach churning! What a piece of shit, omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 12 | Don’t give the keys to your castle so easily.Smart woman, your mother!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | AOC talks her signature red lip, femininity as power & Self-Confidence as a form of protest (18 mins)I love her! Wrestled with these things myself and I’ve gotten to the point where I accept my interests in beauty and fashion. I look around my home and see beautiful art, decor, vibrant colors, beautiful fabrics. I just like aesthetically beautiful things. I spend maybe ten minutes max on my makeup in the morning, and it helps me feel more confident all day. I don’t think that’s anti-feminist. I enjoy highlighting my features and making my face slightly more appealing to look at in the mirror. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 21 | How do I forgive myself for letting myself be usedI’m so sorry you went through that :( that is rape and he is a despicable, degenerate scumbag. The main thing you need to realize is that you were mistreated by a horrible human, you didn’t know any better and you can’t beat yourself up about it. You are worthy of love and respect and what happened to you is not okay. Be patient with yourself while you’re healing emotionally from this. Sending you lots of ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Success StoryHell yeah you got this sis! So happy to hear you’ve freed yourself from that parasite, you’re strong and you deserve everything!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:31 PM |
| 10 | This is the queen energy we all need!I loved this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 16 | Never let yourself forget the true nature of menFuck that’s so much to go through:( So glad you’re divorcing this evil man. Your future is for you now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 14 | She didn’t lie.It’s a logical answer to the question. Men can’t give birth, it’s just a fact. Whereas women can do all the stereotypically “masculine” things — lift things, build things, kill things. We can do everything any human can do, men can’t do everything that humans can do. Only women can. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 4 | FDS theme tune? @ninanesbitt , she makes amazing music!Whoa she’s so much hotter than he is my brain doesn’t compute. The bar is so goddamn low... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | If you want a prostitute then just go out & say it..Disgusting and disrespectful. His voice even has that douchebag piece of shit tone and cadence to it too! Ugh. And that scrote looking shocked — fuck you too! Who would want to be vulnerable with a man who literally puts a dollar in an envelope after having sex with him. NO. ONE. WOULD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 37 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?A literally obese mid-40s coworker asked me out on FB yesterday. I am an attractive early 30s woman. THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 7 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?Yeah but homegirl would have fleeced him proper without giving anything up. To teach his disrespectful ass a lesson! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 31 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?What a piece of shit. He’s doing this because it’s worked with other women before, but we all have your back and see through his little game. AND you even reiterated “we can make plans later this week though” THREE GODDAMN TIMES. He should be jumping on that now that YOU made it clear that was your standard, but instead he just sends you a thumbs up+broken heart emoji. He’s trying to assert his own boundary — a shitty one where he treats you disrespectfully. Expecting you to BEND to his disrespe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 6 | THIS article is the best thing I have ever read- EVER!- on the ENTIRE internets, post break-up. I cannot even explain. TOTAL MINDSHIFT.This happened to me at WORK of all places. A jealous, narcissistic female coworker turned our manager against me and it almost destroyed my self esteem. I went above their heads and she was removed to another department, and the problem was solved. Managers got rotated out and the new manager and I get along great. The toxic female coworker went on to sow discord with other employees, but has no upper management to triangulate with anymore so now she’s just universally disliked. It was a crazy t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Most men's reaction when you leave them alone with the kids for a weekend :')What a disgusting, abhorrent display. Few things are as stomach churning as a grown ass man whining like a toddler. I am so grossed out🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Podcast on misogynyThis sounds amazing!!! Thank you so much for suggesting it❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 58 | someone pls pick herYeah...I have a male best friend and this applies for him. And all my other friendships. But relationships with men? Nah. They have to provide more resources to me than I do to him or he feels insecure in his manhood and grows to resent me. the last guy I dated treated me horribly while I was doing all this shit for him, and the minute I stopped taking his shit and became stubborn, steadfast, and demanded respect, he completely changed. He began trying to impress me and live up to my now much hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Lust can lead to bad decisionsThat shit always fades. You could waste months or years fucking him until it gets stale, which it always eventually does with LVM. Or you could take comfort in the fact that you ended it now saving yourself time and emotional energy. Just project yourself months in the future when you’re tired of sex with him, and be happy you’re free! I totally relate to this btw, and I’ve been the one who stayed in a relationship with a LVM where the sex was fire. But then it got stale and boring, and when I f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Lust can lead to bad decisionsThat shit always fades. You could waste months or years fucking him until it gets stale, which it always eventually does with LVM. Or you could take comfort in the fact that you ended it now saving yourself time and emotional energy. Just project yourself months in the future when you’re tired of sex with him, and be happy you’re free! I totally relate to this btw, and I’ve been the one who stayed in a relationship with a LVM where the sex was fire. But then it got stale and boring, and when I f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 7 | These men really have that much audacity...He’s just so...unattractive, and off putting. A boring, sloppy, slovenly man. Nothing interesting or exciting about him. Guys like that are a dime a dozen on OLD. A zero effort zero value man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:36 PM |
| 50 | You never truly know a man until you tell him “no”That’s why my best friend of seven years is someone I broke up with after eight years of dating. We were best friends just not suited as romantic partners — but we became family. He handled the breakup fine, it was mostly mutual and we have been platonic best friends ever since. I think it’s the only way I could have ended up being friends with a man tbh. He’s even become friends with the guy I’m dating and we go to festivals and other activities together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | She’s amazing 😂😂😂This gave me so much joy I watched it three times🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 6 | It's OKAY to like yourself!I try to love other people as much as I love myself, equally. I try to exude confidence while simultaneously trying to build up those around me. I try to think of myself as a ball of light trying to spread that light to things outside myself. It sounds cheesy but it’s helped me overcome my insecurities and to stop being judgmental. We are all flawed humans! But we all have potential for greatness and we need to build each other up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Wife is expected to replace husband’s pants because he quit working outThe fuck? She needs to straight up tell him “you’ve gotten fat and that’s why they don’t fit. Don’t get mad at me for telling you the truth, get mad at yourself for being in denial” I am straight up with guys I date and I take no prisoners. Fuck their insecurities, I’m not here to make you feel better about your shitty choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Tik Tok trend goes wrong when wife exposes LVM husbandThis guy looks like an 8yo. His face creeps me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:53 AM |
| 8 | Is this behavior common in the vetting process? I am at a loss here.You have no business giving this man a second more of your time. He’s not good enough for you on any measure — he doesn’t value his health or appearance, he’s being vulgar with you, objectifying you, he sounds disgusting! Block and delete!! Tell yourself he was an experiment you ran and you learned from it, then don’t give trash like that a chance with you again! Work on your sense of self worth and confidence so you quickly avoid losers like this in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 09:49 AM |
| 8 | I feel like this needs to be said...Yep and ugly to mildly unattractive men are prolly more likely to have insecurities and/or body issues while attractive men might be more likely to be narcissistic. All men, regardless of appearance, are susceptible to low value traits and behaviors, but perhaps they manifest differently depending on where one ranks. I don’t see any correlation between value and appearance, LVM come in all shapes and sizes — inverse is also true for HVM. Now maybe unattractive men are more likely to masquerade a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 33 | Reminder: When a woman wants a man to initiate, she's looking for him to demonstrate interest, confidence, attraction, effort, investment, and capability. When a man wants a woman to initiate, he wants to put in less effort.PREACH. I don’t believe women should be chasing men because as a woman myself, I need to be chased over a period of time so that I can find out if he’s truly interested in me and wants something serious and meaningful, or if he’s just looking to bang. In a society and world less hostile to women, without porn and the male gaze and objectification of women, it would be awesome if I could “chase” a man too, but sadly it doesn’t work in our current world. It’s just a really bad strategy for women w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | In love with my roommate... but questioning his intentions due to mixed feelings about grey area history. Bottling it up sucks, but talking about it could suck too. What do you reckon is the best route?A man who loves you will go out of his way to make you feel safe and secure, and he wouldn’t stand for ANY grey area. He would want to lock you down immediately. This guy is not the one. I would look into moving out and severing ties. This only ends in heartbreak for you. But if you’re like me and have to learn for yourself, it’s totally understandable. But know that you deserve everything. This is not the man to give that to you. He’s disrespected you already in the past and continues to do so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:57 PM |
| 6 | “Why dont you try online dating?” The guys on dating appsI love shoegaze but I wouldn’t describe it as discordant at all! Its noisy, lots of layers to the sound, but as someone who loves melody and hates jarring and unpleasant (and discordant!) sounds, I love shoegaze! It’s dreamy and comforting music, to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 6 | BLACK PILL FOR WOMEN VIA PPD-THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING "ALL MEN LOOK DOWN ON WOMEN WHO..."Nothing here about a woman’s character, ethics, values, personality. Just how many dicks she’s had in her — that’s the important criteria🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | How old is everyone and does that impact strategy?“Single should be our default” YES. I have been thinking about this a lot lately — partnering up is honestly giving up your freedom and autonomy and if you’re gonna do it the man better be worth it. You only want to partner with someone who is worth sacrificing for, least of all because if you’re taken by someone unworthy you are highly unlikely to meet a man who’s worth giving up being single for long term. But most of all, because your relationship with yourself has got to be your #1 priority.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do male friends always want more than friendships from you?My best friend is a man and the only reason our friendship formed is because we dated during formative years in our lives, basically became each other’s families, went through addiction and recovery together, etc. We dated for 7 years and have been broken up for 8 years now and we aren’t just best friends, we are family. My other close male friend is gay, the rest of my close friends are women. I’ve had other male friends throughout the years but the friendships all faded once they got into seri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:21 AM |
| 41 | Do not give your lvm extra credit for not caring or respecting the other woman either. And do not let that man assign you extra negs because you’re a woman. Nah sis, let him own that trash...So by his logic, when men cheat it’s worse because they had to really work for sex from their affair partner. Great he disproved his own point🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | Should I tell him that he hurt my feelings or should I just tell him now that this isn't going to work out?You need to end this now because it will only end in heartbreak. Read the handbook, read this sub every day and soak in the information and ideas. And consider not dating for a while. Invest in yourself! Put thoughts of men and dating in the back of your mind right now and instead work on investing in your relationship with yourself. You want to have your wits about you when you’re dating, to have self control to hold back on getting intimate too early, you want the confidence to be able to spea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 13 | Help, is he flirting/cheating/crossing the lineYeah a man that cherishes you would go out of his way to avoid making you feel jealous or insecure about your place in his life and his heart. Men aren’t as dumb as they pretend to be sometimes — no. He knows what he’s doing, he just doesn’t care. He doesn’t care about you enough to consider how YOU’RE feeling every time he mentions this woman. All the other ladies commenting are right, this guy is not worth your time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:39 AM |
| 17 | Level up! “If you have time to think about him you have too much free time”I love this! Also elaborates why crushes are useless — any mental or emotional energy you’re spending on a crush is much better served by a fulfilling hobby, self-care activities, your family, female friendships, intellectual pursuits etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Incel tantrum lmaoPrickcels!!!! Love it🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 18 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?Same. I’m always using every opportunity to reply to any comments about my size or what I eat with “I eat for fuel and for pleasure, not to keep my body looking a certain way for a man.” When I’m too thin I get comments about needing to eat a cheeseburger, when I put weight on I get “compliments” for being able to eat without getting overweight. I don’t take any of it positively. I call all of it out for what it is — objectifying me for my body and making comments on things that’s none of their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 15 | This is one of the CREEPIEST things I’ve seen. The audacity to mock the women who reject his predator behaviour. Ugh.Love the last woman. She gave him an incredulous look like “the audacity of this creep” and turned around and walked away. I dare some piece of shit to harass me with a camera in my face, I’d love to call his creep ass out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 82 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionThey are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | This is proof that when a guy "cannot control his anger" or "got too upset" that he is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it.I would gold you but I don’t want to support this website LOL. But this is a gold worthy comment my lady!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Date with potential HVM but in need of some advice so I dont get bamboozledMy amazing coworker is dating a man who drives 7hrs one way every weekend to see her. That’s the kind of effort you need to see. I’ve talked some FDS principles with her and she’s a HVW so she just gets it anyway. She’s been single for a long time and met this great man and I’m happy for her. At Christmas he bought her a heated coat because he “knows how easily she gets cold.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:12 AM |
| 25 | After realizing my life's purpose isn't to find a male partner, I'm somewhere in-between FDS and WGTOW.This is basically what I have. The guy I’m seeing is my boyfriend, but I don’t want marriage or kids with him. He’s fine with that. We are monogamous, most of our relationship is us supporting each other emotionally and being physically affectionate. All the perks but none of the downsides. If he were to cheat or stop meeting my needs I would be fine with going our separate ways. I’m not attached to him like that, but I love him and care about him deeply as a human being. He’s very supportive an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Wokies will go after every kind of racism,unless it's helping them have a wank...The silver living of porn is that it is one of the earliest and easiest ways to determine if a man is shit or not. That it’s so socially acceptable means if you ask neutrally his stance on porn early he is likely to tell you — and then you can bow out as soon as you can (without telling him of course — wouldn’t want to ruin this “tell” for other ladies in the future!). So at least we have that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 6 | YouTube: Scrotes are salty over a woman with standards in the comments and claim that what she’s looking for is a “fairytale”, it’s not that she doesn’t like guys, it’s just like she’s not attracted to LVM like youYeah and no offense but he looks like a dead eye sociopath. Am I wrong?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 11 | How do you know if a guy actually likes you or is fetishes you?I’ve made it a rule that I will NEVER date a man who watches porn. I know how difficult this might make dating in the future, but I don’t care. I would rather be happily and securely alone than dating a man who supports such an exploitive industry. Not to mention what porn does to men when it comes to sex with a human being (erectile dysfunction, only wants cold and disconnected porno style sex, etc). I’m so glad you described him as your soon-to-be ex! You deserve way better than some porn addi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:04 AM |
| 8 | The importance of condoms in long-term relationshipsMe and my current partner use condoms each time, every time. He’s never complained about wearing condoms, not once. The few times he’s ejaculated into me my vagina and vulva got very irritated and inflamed, it was like his semen was burning me. So we never forget now, if we don’t have condoms we don’t have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 61 | Another famous pornstar turns out to be disgusting, sick rapist. And men everywhere were masturbating to scenes of the rapes (TW: rape, sexual violence/coercion)God that’s horrifying. I guess the silver lining of Covid is that it’s put a pause on the porn industry, as far as filming new stuff anyway. Every time I think of the porn industry I get so enraged that it even exists. It’s so CLEARLY misogynistic and exploitive of women yet has so many supporters still. The porn industry is why Reddit got rid of women’s subs. I can’t WAIT for the tides to change and the masses wake up to how evil it is, that day will come eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | This is gospel. A "feminism" or "equality" that encourages the degradation or gaslighting of women is misogyny in disguise.Thank you so much for the book suggestions! I have 1984 but just ordered the others. I have a lot more free time now that my subs are gone. They want women banned from the internet, but this one’s going to sublimate it into becoming even stronger, smarter, wiser. Jokes on them!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 5 | This is gospel. A "feminism" or "equality" that encourages the degradation or gaslighting of women is misogyny in disguise.If they’re celebrating radfem communities (women only communities) being banned, they’re not women positive. Literally incompatible things :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 32 | UPDATE ON THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM SIGN UP PROCEDURES (8 DIGIT CODE)I am so glad that you’re doing this. Old school web forums are the way to go tbh, have everything in our own hands. No conglomerate can take our space away from us. And we could do donation drives to keep the website up, a complete community. I’m actually excited about this! Could end up being even better than it’s been here. It will be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 7 | PSA: This is not a sub for binary political or ideological thinking or adherence to established belief systems, this is a sub for STRATEGY.That’s the thing, I would love to move toward a place where men can wear makeup and bright colors and shiny things too, and have it not be considered “woman stuff.” I participate in EDM and festival culture where men dress up just as much as women and it’s a much freer, more fun environment. It’s about beauty and creativity and it’s not tied to sexuality. So I have that perspective to draw upon when thinking about these things. I love bright colors, dressing up, creativity with appearance and se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | They just banned a ton of subs as you’ve probably seen, someone posted an enormous list of anti-women and r*pe subs saying they should be removed too. And of course, men are whiningYep. I’m going to continue being vigilant in my daily life, keeping my circle small, not allowing men to get close to me until they’re well vetted. Being safe as much as possible. Societal collapse will break down law and order making things orders more dangerous for women. We have to prepare ourselves for that eventuality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Exactly! Gotta see those silver linings when we can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.Yes, I would love one with a similar style (post and then comment threads), the twitter style is less Inviting to actual discussion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 12 | No thanksI used to be this way. Now I tell my SO, you do shit properly or I’ll go back to being happily single. I don’t deal with half-assery anymore. I don’t want to date an incompetent moron, so you either get yourself up to standard or find someone who doesn’t have any themselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Female intuitionTheir fur lays front to back. If you pet the other way you’re going against their fur. Think of how velvet works. One direction — super soft. Other direction — not so soft, feels weird and wrong. Same with cat fur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Why 'playing hard to get' may actually work - aka why our tactics work!I’ve changed my entire thinking on this. It’s about whether you value yourself or not — a person who values themselves (knows their own worth) isn’t going to let someone “in” without earning it. You let someone get to know you incrementally as they prove themselves. We should all see ourselves as someone another person would be lucky to have as a friend, a partner, family member, coworker - in our lives in any capacity. Because we invest in improving ourselves, in learning growing and overcoming… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | An exerpt from "Female Assertiveness: Stop Resolving the Tension" by Bethany Webster (link in comments)I didn’t get this lesson until recently. I had a couple female coworkers I worked closely with, back to back (I work in a two-person department) and the first one was super reactive and took everything personally. I felt I had to walk on eggshells and do everything in my power to avoid upsetting her and hurting her feelings. In interactions with her I felt responsible for all of her defensive and negative reactions. If there was a problem I assumed it was me. No matter how hard I tried to “manag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Cher drops an FDS truth bomb about the absolute non-necessity of men. Pickmeisha Journalist: WhY aRe u So MeAn AnD biTTer? Cher: I adore men, but sis I’m rich 💅Isn’t the lead character in Clueless named Cher? That’s gotta be what wires were crossing:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone ever feel like they won’t ever find the right person & will be alone forever?I’m really lucky in that I don’t want children. But I do often feel like I might end up not finding a “love of my life” lifetime soulmate that I’ve high key always wanted. I’ve made making peace with that a high priority in my life, and as the months and years pass since I’ve decided that is important to my health and happiness, it’s getting easier. I view it as an interesting challenge. I do get lonely, but luckily I have some amazing, loyal friends and loving family. In some ways, I wonder if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 3 | You can never convince a man to love youFirst of all, he’s an asshole. Even if you had more mutual chemistry and he was head over heels for you, eventually that wouldn’t be enough — he’s still an asshole and a LVM. That will be true for him until he grows and evolves and builds his character. Meeting a woman he’s crazy for won’t change that. He’s gotta be compelled to do it from within, and it’s honestly a lot more likely a person does that kind of self-work when they’re on their own versus in a relationship. I’ve too realized that yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I have a question for former pick me or cool girls. How do you come to terms with the things you used to do?Shit I am grateful for the fact that I’m a reformed “pick me/cool girl” because it helped me developed a deep compassion both for myself and others. I’ve been through hell and back with my self esteem and my confidence, I couldn’t imagine having become the person I am today any other way. I forgave myself, and now I treat myself well, I’m kind, and this all applies to other people too because I know what it’s like to feel shitty about yourself, to lack self worth. I go above and beyond trying to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Former PUA Guru Neil Strauss, author of "The Game", meets the woman of his dreams and completely transforms his player ways for "The One". Just kidding, he cheats on her all the time and loses her because he's a low value, low impulse control, baby voiced insecure scrote.Some people can change...but it requires something really shocking their system and forcing a major perceptual shift in their life. A major life event or some source of personal suffering that loosens whatever ideas or beliefs they’ve developed about themselves, other people, the world. Some people aren’t capable of that if they’re too selfish, if they’re too ignorant. At a base level they must go INTO the processing of integrating the lessons of whatever shook up their life with some basic foun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:10 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else notice that men are slowly making the word “porn” a synonym for “obsession”? I’m seeing in everywhere .. “food porn”, “word porn” and now “cabin porn”? How can we call this depravity out, and STOP IT?!Agreed 100%, yet 74k subscribers. Mind boggling... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:13 AM |
| 8 | you’re single until there’s a ringI think these kinds of responses could definitely work in the short term, with some men — but are they necessary in the first place, if your ultimate goal is a committed relationship with a HVM? It seems like in a lot of these examples you’re responding to examples of LVM behavior, so that’s why a lot of my responses involve not responding at all and just moving on. So much of dating with FDS involves weeding out low quality men who aren’t worth ANY of your time, regardless of what HVM-like thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:41 AM |
| 9 | you’re single until there’s a ringThis...wow. None of this is FDS behavior. These could be straight out a Pickme’s text messages. I wasn’t going to go through these and point out why I feel this way, but fuck it haha. This approach you’re taking is the very kind that attracts LVM and repels HVM. You have to be willing to set up boundaries, you have to assume the man is capable and intelligent enough for your actions to speak for themselves. You don’t explain to a man why he should be treating you right, why he should be doing A,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:25 AM |
| 31 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.Yeah it’s low value for your non-tattooed wife to know how attractive you find tattoos (or women who have tattoos), or any other characteristic that other women have that your wife doesn’t. Actually, a high value man wouldn’t be talking about other women this way, or women in general. HVM would compliment their partner for specific qualities of hers that he is attracted to, and that would be as far as it goes, I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 60 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.Yeah I think if she was genuinely excited to get a tattoo for HERSELF, told him about it and went and did it, he would probably find it hot. But to be surprised by your wife changing her whole look including PERMANENT TATTOOS OF RANDOM THINGS (a dream catcher? Really?) just to please him, I can see why that would be borderline repulsive. A huge turnoff at minimum. Especially if you consider that here at FDS we know that even if they think they do, men don’t really like Pickme pleaser women, (hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | The TRUTH is coming out. Study finds male ageing affects outcomes of IVF and ICSI treatments in couples where there is unexplained infertility, regardless of the woman’s age.And uglier kids too. Just saw that posted here the other day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Olympic swimming champ Sharron Davies on her 50th birthday. No wall in sight. 👍Exactly. A woman’s worth isn’t in her appearance, and these posts reinforce that illusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | How to not stay a pickmeshia if no guy wants youGet into radical feminism, seriously. It’s helped me stop putting any man on a pedestal and realize how BS over-valuing shallow shit like appearance really is. I work on my inner self constantly, treat my body and my mind right. They’re what’s really important and you don’t need anyone outside of you to reflect your value. It’s there, you just have to learn how to see it for yourself. No one else can do that for you, especially not men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itSame, I’m 5’0” and prefer shorter guys. Only ever dated 5’10” and up though, attractive shorter guys always seem to go for taller women for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 10 | When you think there are red flags...believe it!Eh I have a male best friend and we are platonic, we just happen to have the same interests and grew up together. He’s good friends with the guy I’ve been seeing for 6+ years. Male and female best friends are very rare though, I give you that. Sharing a credit card is incredibly bizarre and a flashing red flag that something isn’t right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Relationship Green FlagsThese are all really great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Men are not your friends.My best friend is a man, and we are also exes. We dated from my late teens to early twenties, for about seven years. I’m now in my early thirties. We’ve been broken up longer than we’ve dated. I’ve been seeing someone else from the past handful years, and they’ve also become friends. The initial transition from dating to friends was a little rocky, but that’s mostly because there was other difficult stuff going on unrelated to our relationship (addiction, etc). After a few months of being broken… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 10 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.I resonate with this so hard! I have insecurities I struggle with, but I’ve learned to stop denigrating myself around others, not just people I’m dating but everyone. I don’t want to reinforce the idea that anyone should be harsh with themselves, and it starts with how I treat myself. It’s only when I’m kind to myself that I can be truly kind to others, it’s a feedback loop that goes both ways. And when I’m kind to myself when in the company of other people, then they might be motivated to be ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 02:08 PM |
| 5 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.Yes!!! I’ve come to this realization myself lately. The things I’ve disliked about myself, that I used as excuses for not believing I deserved good things or good people in my life — my crooked teeth, my knobby knees, being skinny, etc, it hit me how shallow and wrong that thinking was. For one thing, it’s the inside that counts. Beauty is skin deep, and believing that appearance was in any way associated with value or worth is reinforcing the worst aspects of our often empty, narcissistic cultu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathersI believe this fully and completely, which leads me to the obvious conclusion that if I want to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, it will have to be with a childfree man. I am (working on being) completely fine with remaining single the rest of my life if that’s how things shake out, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want to find a partner. But the point I’m working toward is being not just content but completely happy remaining single, then if I do meet someone amazing it’ll be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Ladies: Christianity is not for youLmao. You don’t belong here, you lost? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 198 | There is ZERO benefit to having a crush. Eliminate your feelings/attraction towards them. You can subtly give them signals, but don't pursue or idealize them.From my own life experiences — if you find yourself developing intense feelings/crushes you can’t seem to eliminate, it’s a sign that you lack self love. If you truly love and value yourself highly, your mind will automatically modulate the intensity of crushes. Crushes are sparked and maintained by fantasizing — fantasies about how great the man you like is, how wonderful it would be to be in love with him, etc. Instead, your internal dialogue should be about YOU. Developing yourself, becoming … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | 100 Attraction Principles from “Why Men Love Bitches” (#1-50)“If you mentally fuck him first, he won’t discard you afterwards.” A quote for the ages, how true it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Don't watch porn.Some people don’t understand how dopamine works, with them you can’t reason. Fact is that humans are primed for dopamine, everything that gives a hit of dopamine (both endogenous and exogenous sources) can become addictive. Pornography is an especially potent source because of how strong the male sex drive is during puberty. Develop a porn habit then, over subsequent years of use what was a habit easily grows into an addiction that becomes very hard to break. Not ALL men, but many of them. You t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 08:16 AM |
| 9 | Don't watch porn.It IS possible to be sex positive and porn negative lol. Pornography-induced masturbation is not sex. For many, many men, it’s increasingly becoming an impediment to sex. A habit that grows throughout their adolescence to young adulthood, that they either temper or eliminate by getting into a healthy sexual relationship (or less healthy routine of casual sex with little emotional intimacy) OR they give up on dating and just take care of their sexual drive through more porn and masturbation. OR t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?I agree with that. Women’s bodies are literally the vehicle by which new life comes into existence, and that power transcends sexuality. To limit women’s bodies to sexual desire, to fetishize them, is really disturbing to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Have you noticed that online dating (OLD) studies mischaracterize female attraction triggers? That the skews are often misinterpreted by men?I am a woman and am most certainly not turned on by thinking about myself as a woman. That’s weird and creepy. I don’t think many — or any — woman objectify themselves like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 11:49 PM |
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