| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I hate being expected to be a providerMissing ITT: spiritual consequences of taking on responsibilities. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/25 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Women's logical inconsistency regarding Male's lonenliness epidemicIt used to be that if you worked hard, opened the door, and paid the bill, you would be considered a "good man" and would likely have success, but Modern women are increasingly rejecting traditional roles of marriage and motherhood, often influenced by media portrayals and social media trends that emphasize independence and freedom from commitment. We are heading in a direction in society that moreso reflects the type of social structure of a group of lions, where there are many lionesses who go… | /r/MensRights | 20/05/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | You are only valued by how much money you have.This has nothing to do with capitalism. Why is reddit such a commie cesspool? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/25 02:53 AM |
| -4 | Kinda IrritatingThe way you brought it up is indicative of your general personality that is failing to follow the rules of relationships with women in 2025. Attraction is the only equity you have. Start learning how to have "swag" all the time, or lose her to someone who does. You are basically an umpa-loompa in her eyes. Nevermind the implications of men and women's struggles with health issues. This is a social dynamic issue. She wouldn't have said anything if you said it with swagger. Hell, I bet if you were… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | She Was So In Love With Me Until She Had The Baby, Now She Wants DivorceCan confirm. My girlfriend had to replace her copper iud and switched to the hormonal one and shortly after decided she wanted more from the relationship than she was getting. Not unreasonable for her to ask for those things, and there were other compounding factors, but it was a complete 180⁰ shift. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 04:32 AM |
| – | Does redpill strategy work for disrespectful wife ?Reversing a situation like this is very difficult. High chance of failure if you abruptly regain your balls and apply red pill philosophy to the relationship after years of simping. Start very slowly with 12 steps of dread before trying to reestablish frame dominance | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/08/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | TIFU by going out with tinder girl and falling in love.your future is the prize, so you are still the prize, today. You go into it thinking that you can buy a chance with her instead of her treating you right to get a chance with you. Flip the script home-boy | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 11:14 AM |
| 5 | TIFU by going out with tinder girl and falling in love.You went way off the red pill. You should be GIVING HER A CHANCE to win you, not the other way around. You are the prize | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm a left leaning moderate, but if Trump promises to reform or abolish child support I predict he will win in a landslide.Why would he even do that? What is this post? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/23 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Violated by "Are we dating the same guy" Facebook group.You just gotta adapt. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/23 05:35 AM |
| 2 | I legally changed my sex to womanSomeone did this already and beat the women's world record for bench presswomen's world record bench press beat by man who legally changed gender to prove how ridiculous it is | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Boone County MO Courts say I'M the danger to her because she's a woman.No, son. What she's doing is exactly legal and she knows it. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 10:31 PM |
| 8 | Boone County MO Courts say I'M the danger to her because she's a woman.She said she wants to not she is going to. Seems like she's wants to provoke a reaction, which you avoid, but doing so in a very calculated manner. Dangerous woman you have there | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | How many of you are left wingers?Would you rather live in a world with traditional gender roles and such or trannies strip-teasing for dollars in front of kids at the library? This is why I'm more supportive of the right than the left. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.I was a joke to give the dipshit a little perspective | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/23 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.It might make you feel better to share the wealth. Wanna send me a few grand so I can pay my child support bills? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | FwB downgrades plans at the last minuteLol if you don't wanna be seen outside with a 5 that's totally understandable. Sure should know her place with you and my guess is she'll be back and when she comes back she's gonna be suckin a whooooole Lotta dick | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | How can you distinguish if it's a real no or it's a no just to not look as too easy?you don't accept that frame. she actually said "ulterior motives" the operative word here is ulterior, in that if you are agreeing with her just be friends frame, but secretly want to fuck her, that is your ulterior motive. in no way shape or form should you hide or be ashamed of the fact that you wanna fuck her. If she's not open to the idea of you merely wanting to fuck her/ be romantic with her, then keep it moving, NEXT. If you frame it right, by saying that you are gonna want to fuck her if… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | I'm very weak, and need to change. But I've been stuck in the same rut for almost 4 years. Could I please have some advice?realizing this at such a young age is going to put you far far ahead of many men. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the actual chances of a woman being murdered/raped by a man?1 in 52,000 And even that isn't filtered for the above situation of date rape | /r/MensRights | 04/12/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailThis is the answer right here. OSOLTR One sided open long term relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailThen either be honest with her about it and let her decide that she will share you or just don't get caught don't get sti or get anyone pregnant and you're Gucci | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | What are your boundaries on your wife’s male friends and what is your dread response?Lol male friends | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | GF is pregnant after lying about contraceptives — a warning to all my college males out there like meIf you had only read Rollo Tomassi. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/06/shacking-up/ | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | My wife of 12 years is leaving me and taking almost all of our life savings.LAWYER UP | /r/MensRights | 28/09/22 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Stupid question but I am a teenage girl and wondering if its acceptable for me to be a MRA?Feminism is no longer needed. The pendulum swung too far we need to go back to center. Ofc you can advocate for men's rights but prepare to be shamed and gaslit for your views by your fellow females. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | A woman from TwoX works briefly at an animal shelter and concludes animal abuse is caused by men... how is that allowed on Reddit?Because according to the rules of reddit, you can say anything bad about any group of people as long as they are not a marginalized class of people. Men are not considered marginalized. Lol | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 3 | What happened to feminism? Why is now favoritism, instead of equality?Feminism is the idea that women are inferior to men and need special treatment to compete with men. Prove me wrong. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here?Skillz 2 pay da billz | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 19 | Building Rapport is BullshitThis probably works for about 1% of the guys - the ones who are highly physically attractive. Anyone else will do better with some creativity and banter. Most men who try your method of OLD game will not even get a " too soon" they'll simply be ignored. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 3 | The Dark Truth : Teenager Peak Female Biological SMVCertainly there are other aspects to female smv. To deny that is kinda absurd. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The Dark Truth : Teenager Peak Female Biological SMVBiological facts Sexual market value Pick one. Value is subjective. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The Dark Truth : Teenager Peak Female Biological SMVPeak smv doesn't exclusively revolve around biological imperatives. Your assertion is begging the question. A fallacious argument indeed. There is just SMV. There's no such thing as a "biological smv", at least not one that is relevant in this space. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 3 | First DATES: Why Rollo is wrong - response to his latest (May 5th) RM ClipsNah all that shit is highly platonic. If you're looking to get friends zoned that's a good start. And no, it's not because you're paying. You can split the bill at a cute little bistro in a romantic part of town in the evening which is far more conducive to the goal of increasing romantic interest than brunch or a walk in the park in the afternoon. It has nothing to do with spending money on a woman everything to do with creating a fun romantic occasion that creates the opportunity for sex to ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 4 | How to succeed with women. The complete guide.This is terrible advice for the denizens of the internet. You need to add a precursor to step 1 which is: Be awesome. If you are boring and a loser who plays videogames all day in his mom's basement and are unrelentingly authentic, you won't get anywhere with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | She dropped the bombshellThis is some massive rationalization right here not to mention the monumental gaslighting you're doing to the men who are merely trying to help you dodge the train wreck you're about to get hit by. Don't be stupid. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | She dropped the bombshellBruh. Oneitis much? You need to hard next this one | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm married but have mania (please no disrespect) I just want to test "frame"No one said anything about iq. Iq could be mensa level but social awareness is zero on the op and I don't even think it's about manic whatever. It's about thinking the world owes you something. It doesn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm married but have mania (please no disrespect) I just want to test "frame"Praex is right. You're egotistical mentally defective and weak. I was trying to think of the words and he said it all in the right so I didn't have to and I have no idea who you are or any other posts you've made. Just stfu | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/21 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Question: Would You Rather Fuck 1 Woman Multiple Times Or Fuck Multiple Women 1 Time Each?That was one of the dumbest most pointless posts I've seen in the sub. Get a life. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/21 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Y'all were right. The red pill was righty0u got off easy... coulda married ... had kids... then what? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Day 1 cold approach | got a number!Try to cold read people and make assumptions. If you're wrong you'll get a good laugh if you're right you'll look like a psychic | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Men Have The Sex Drive Of A Spear Hunter, Women Have The Sex Drive Of A FisherI would say women are more like net fishers. They cast a net and pick through what they caught for the best fish. Most fish are too small and slip through the net just as most men are not even visible to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | LTR brings up Orbiters in DM's - Shit testTried and true: "My girlfriend wouldn't be [doing xyz]." Let her know she ain't your girlfriend anymore if she does any of that bullshit. As a matter of fact she should be deleting her social media apps that open the gates to this kind of attention. Would you leave your Ferrari in the city unlocked? No? Then why would your girlfriend be letting herself be "unlocked" on social media? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Need some sexual escalation tips. Bonus FR on hegemony/hypergamyCould you explain further what your understanding of hegemony is and how it is relevant to this discussion? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?You did fine... she belong to the streets. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Men with money and no game aren't exactly desirable, quality men. These 34 year old soon to be spinsters are even screening those dudes out because of inflated egos and unwillingness to settle. A true high value man has game and wouldn't take a woman like that seriously. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I break up with new GF?Kys | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Volunteering = low SMW?It's actually good for your career to have extracurricular activity that you can include on your linked- in or resume so it is actually beneficial financially. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 12:24 AM |
| 4 | Feel Like You Missed Out on Your 20s?I'm 36 and I missed out on my 20s due to a 10 year case of oneitis due to scarcity mindset. 30s is pretty good though. Be present to the moment. I like to share my story as a cautionary tale to younger men | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 0 | invited a girl out for drinks. she replied "how bout dinner and drinks!" smhPossible she doesn't drink... you might know better than me though. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Can you get divorce raped if you are unmarried?It's called palimony, and yes, even non- married men get divorce raped. If you live with her and take care of the bills for a certain amount of time, depending on your location you can end up with an order to pay up. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Am I supposed to kiss during the first date? How the fuck do I do it?DO NOT KISS UNTIL YOU AT THE "SEX LOCATION" That is all. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Why Dating Apps Inaccurately Represent True HypergamyI zeroed out my likes inbox and went swiping at 745am est. I got a match with no likes and asked her what time she was swiping. She told me at midnight pst (3am est). Tinder gold did not do its job. This is the third time it's happened. Contacted support and got a bunch of bullshit. They eventually escalated it to engineering. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Why Dating Apps Inaccurately Represent True HypergamyThis is utter bullshit on the ELO portion of the OP. I get very few likes anymore, and I used to get dozens. Now I swiped right on everyone and the matches roll in. At some point you actually do get bumped to the top of the deck for liking and I don't know how this works but it's absolutely true. If you stop getting likes, start sending likes and the matches will happen sooner. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 22 | LTR Calling me out on dread?It's advanced game for married or ltr Look up 12 levels of dread | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Update 2: all you want from me is sexI'm not the only one to notice this - that term detox is fucking retarded and i cringe everytime you use it. You don't detox from sex. You don't detox from a person (maybe only if they are absolute trash narcissist and you are co-dependent). | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Definition of an LTR in today's standardsGayyyyy | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 0 | A Boy's Gotta TeaseIf you tell them to text or call you, you are initiating | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?I get the sarcasm, but the name is indicative regardless. Also 21 is that your age? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?Your name is dooky. Let's start with that | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:09 AM |
| 8 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?Exactly. Been in an LTR with an HB8 for 3 years and she doesn't advertise herself to dudes on Instagram or any of what some other commentors are saying is "just what hot girls do." Sure, that's what some hot girls do but not my hot girl. OP needs to face the fact that she's sending signals of availability and deal with that. If I had to stress about my LTR for any reason, I'd either be sure she changed her behavior or I'd be gone - and she knows it. At the end of the day you can only control you… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Should I demote my LTR back to plate or am I overthinking this?"My girlfriend wouldn't be advertising herself on Instagram." She needs to just delete the gram for you otherwise I question how serious she is about you. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Left my ex on seen only to reply 24 hours later like an idiotGood now do what we say and go fuck ten other women. By the time you're done with that you won't care whether or not your ex texts you. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Left my ex on seen only to reply 24 hours later like an idiotBlocking is weak. Just move the fuck on ya pussy. GFTOW | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is the date game much easier for men in theirs 30s than 20s ?Social status | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | 30/30/30 rule? I forget the third 30 help me rememberThanks! Couldn't find the thread. That makes sense. I'm not really going crazy counting down the days. Just was sharing the concept with a friend and wanted to be accurate. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Creating a fake female profile is game changingThe haters in this thread. Astounding. Doing an experiment like this demonstrates curiosity, which is a virtue. Keep doing your own due diligence, these other guys are just herd followers. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Death grip and sex?Dude I jerk off almost daily and don't get soft when I'm in bed with a hottie. Yeah sometimes if I blew a load the day before it will take me a while or no bust, but the problem you're having sounds beyond just jacking it too much | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Am i exagerrating if i say that in todays culture, 98% of women are not "wifeable"?More like 99.9999% are not wifeable | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 20 | Confessed I like a coworker. (Update)You don't confess your love(or like)... confessions are for crimes you commit and being attracted to someone is not a crime. Jesus man go lift and get back to your life's purpose | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | You Must De-Value Beauty In Order To Increase Your Value To WomenI stopped reading when op said that red pill men would ever put the pussy on a pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How to react to girlfriend's monetary purchases?I want to add also that in a woman's mind, while it's OK for a woman to have that collectivist thinking, it's not OK for a man. If you don't know why, read the side bar | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How to react to girlfriend's monetary purchases?I mean I get where you're coming from but it's a choice you can make. Either deal with your girl's spending habits or don't, but don't come into the situation thinking you can change anything but yourself. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How to react to girlfriend's monetary purchases?It is if they are both on a lease and sharing bills. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 10:43 PM |
| -2 | How to react to girlfriend's monetary purchases?I kinda think this type of thinking is not only what got me in trouble with my ex, but in fact showed a level of dependence and neediness in me that I'm only realizing just now. Thank you for sharing this. I think if you had your shit together you could easily afford whatever stupid Beauty product your girlfriend wants. But if you also had your shit together you could also just replace your girl with one that doesn't buy stupid shit. By you needing her to be financially responsible, you no longe… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | She still has tinder after saying she deletedPeople in this thread are acting like she doesn't know damn well that deleting the app doesn't delete her profile. She's still on there for a reason and it's too maximize options. I would not consider her for anything other than plate, but you're in a tough position because you already had the exclusivity talk. You could try to lead the conversation to tinder and then ask her if she really definitely deleted her profile and not just the app from her phone. Give her an out. Allow her to have the … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meWhat I mean is... he has her number which can be explained. Maybe there is a class roster and he's creepin. Or maybe she gave it to him under a false pretense from him to "share homework" or something if one of them missed class that day. ... we all know girls love them some plausible deniability and that gives her plenty. Or... worst case she gave it to him because she finds him attractive and wants to keep him as a back up orbiter and her whole "he never calls me" is just an act to dispel your… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 7 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meYeah but I'd say keep an eye out for sus behavior. Trust but verify. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meDo not mate guard. If it comes up just act like the dude is so below you it's pathetic... call him out for being a simp/beta aww what a nice guy - stuff like that If you bring attention to it and start accusing her off sending iois you are just gonna get push back from her | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 112 | Why asian parents dropped the biggest redpills>Do not date during your 20s and accumulate wealth. When you hit your 30's women will chase after you because of your money She was setting you up to fail right here - playing right into the female hypergamy game. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Girl didn't bring money to dateMy bad I read that you were doing that while walking to the station. Lol dumb I still think There's still something missing in this explanation. Possible you took it too far too fast with no pull back. Escalation is not a straight line. But I'm sure you know this. But if you got to the point where she is using force to stop your advances, you were not calibrated to her and/ or the situation. Can't really say what because I'd need to know more about what happened prior | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:25 AM |
| 6 | Do some girls actually enjoy giving BJs?That's not true. A lot of men enjoy giving oral and get turned on by it. Although it might be an acquired taste | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 24 | Do some girls actually enjoy giving BJs?I've seen women straight dripping wet just from sucking my cock alone. Yes they enjoy it. I found most do to one degree or the other | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 66 | In general, do women like bigger(buffer) guys?The short answer yes. The long answer: yeeeeeeeeesssss | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Girl didn't bring money to dateWhy are you finger banging while not in a place where you can fuck? Don't even kiss until you get to the sex location | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Is it beta to get a girl to introduce you to her friend instead of approaching directly?If home girl is down to wing for you that's dope. Just don't try to get her to do heavy lifting. The only way I can see it working out in your favor is if you, home girl, and the cutie you desire are all at a party together or something. In that case, prep homegirl on her wing man duties. She can be like hey [cutie] this is my friend [your name] he's xyz (hype) It's always better when someone else introduces you than for you to introduce yourself. This is from how to win friends and influence pe… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to compete with older guys who date high school/college girls.If you have to, you're with the wrong girl. NEXT | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:10 PM |
| 4 | What to do when a girl has too much burning desire for you?Plate until it breaks | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Does acting beta really kill attraction?Yup this is about the most cringiest thing I've read on the sub in a long time. She likes you being bitch made. Who wouldn't. Going back to her was a mistake. NEXT | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Confirmation text for date?Don't: be a f@ggot and ask her how her day went. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How often should you text her after date is set week priorIf you do, do it without asking anything of her. Just value giving texts. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I take the opportunity to lose my virginity to a ~5/10?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 04:06 AM |
| -1 | How do I pass the “do you think she’s pretty?” Shit test.More of a comfort test if you ask me | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:57 AM |
| 4 | How Can I get a strong frame when i'm easily attached to girls?Replace learning curve with pain and you've got the idea. Only when you fall down and get back up and dust yourself off do you learn that it's better not to fucking fall down. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”."*MY* girlfriend wouldn't be going on dates with other guys." | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 4 | How Can I get a strong frame when i'm easily attached to girls?Get more girls. Get more rejections from girls you're attached to The experience is the way | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you message girls on dating apps with hook up intentions ?Plausible deniability. Have you even read any of the side bar? Foh | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you answer when a girls ask how many girls you slept with?All of them Or I'm still a virgin | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I ghost this tinder girl?Nothing. Just step back for a while. You can re-open at a later date. Wait a couple weeks then you can text her with a value ADDING message, and if she responds with interest then you can go for another try for a date | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 10 | Should I ghost this tinder girl?Exactly. Which is why the third time you don't ask her when she's available you just politely tell her to fuck off until she is. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 22 | Should I ghost this tinder girl?I wouldn't have asked about any other availability. I would have gone the coach Corey Wayne route and said: it looks like you're busy, so when your schedule clears up just get in touch with me and we'll plan something then." Take away | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Recently divorced my wife. How can I combat these feelings of jealousy?Didn't read. FTOW | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?I don't get why you think we're competing. I just agreed with you. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?At the end of the day no matter how many foot rubs she gives, if she monkey branches because you lose your job... did she ever really love you? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?What makes you think you can just put an expiration date on it? Something tells me it won't be that simple once the ball starts rolling down the hill. A temporary situation may be both of y'alls' intention but my money is on that being easier said than done. Just my 2 cents. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?I'm going to be the better person here and just assume that you're having a bad day. Fwiw I think everything you said about women and how/ why they feel a certain way is 100% correct. I just don't think it's the core issue of this thread. What does a woman have to do to make a man feel loved? - that is the crux of this issue - not what the woman feels but what the recipient of a woman's love feels. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?Maybe you agree with me but your ego is too big to admit it | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think cohabitation would be permissible in this specific circumstance?Go back and read the rational male again. No cohabitation unless you plan on marriage in the next 6 months. Familiarity breeds contempt. You'll definitely regret the trap that cohabitation is. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?Why do you keep talking about the feeling a woman has for a man? I actually have already acknowledged and agreed with you that a woman can feel the emotion of love for a man. So now you're just repeating yourself. Are you willing to acknowledge that isn't the only use of the word? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?Do you have reading comprehension issues? You realize there is a difference between the feeling of love and the act of loving? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Does love from a women exist for a man?This is not answering the question in the op. He's asking can a woman love a man in the way a man wants to be loved. He is using the word love as a verb. Not talking about an emotion, but the act. A woman can absolutely feel love for a man but she will never love him. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Does love from a women exist for a man?The short answer: no. The long answer: noooooooo. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Friends sister liked me on tinderMaybe i don't know, talk to him? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | how do you prepare for a currency crash?What can you do to provide value to others? Can you, hunt, service vehicles, bake bread, make butter or cheese, grow vegetables, fix a roof... Just general shit that people need done. But honestly man your fears are unwarranted. At the rate technology is advancing, you'll be looking at deflation more likely. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | how do you prepare for a currency crash?Develop your skills. That is the only true currency- what value can you provide others. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 09:48 PM |
| -4 | Hey can you rate my tinder profile?You look like a loser nerd. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 11 | Failed - Shit test: Girl asked me last time I had sex.Why don't you just get tested? Idiot. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | My LTR is clearly losing attraction but we live together. How can I put some distance and kick her out?Just give her a 30 days notice to vacate in writing, that should smooth things out for you | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Honestly? I just snapped at this girl and it worked outThat would not have worked had you actually given her more attention than you had been. You set a baseline with her and then you spiked her with emotion. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Oh yeah another quick thing You say they don't know if you like them... that's a good thing. Don't tell them you've had bad experiences with texting. Too much explaining. Don't DEER, STFU. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Closers assume the sale. We're closers. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Yeah I'm a crazy one. That's cool that you recognize that it doesn't suit you. Congruence is the key. But that's just one example. I'm not asking are we still on? I'm not just checking in to see how her day went (secretly trying to suck value and covertly checking her temperature) I'm saying I'm ready in a fun and lighthearted way (exaggerated statement) and also communicating it's ok to be a little nervous and breaking some of the tension PRIOR to the date at the point when the chances of a fla… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:15 PM |
| 10 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Exactly. Calibrate. High interest you don't wanna be so cold or boring in texts. They will lose interest | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Nice. I used to use this one on the day of. It helped my retention rate imho Just finished at the gym getting fucking jacked for our romantic date tonight. It was a lot of work but I think I finally look good enough for you. nervously twiddles thumbs Might not be your cup of tea but i got some good mileage out of it. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 11:08 PM |
| 14 | Texting for logistics only: outdated?Yes, texting for logistics only is very much not appropriate for most guys. IMHO The rule strictly applies to only: a. Men who are extremely physically attractive at whom women just throw themselves b. Average looking men with terrible or zero game who will most likely talk themselves out of the pussy by over- texting. If you're the former, you can probably just text with logistics because you don't need to stand out- your chiseled jawline and perfect body are all you need to differentiate and a… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 13 | How to proceed after you’ve made out with herDefinitely do not say I found a X that reminded me of you. That's some feminine bullshit and you're a man with important shit going on in your head and some bullshit tattoo/ sign/ song/ whatever doesn't remind you of shit. Don't say "I had fun with you" that's some validating right there and you want her to be validated only by being with you. You reward her with your time. It's perfectly fine to dm her and although you're missing the mark with the reminded of you comment, you can say that you s… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 24 | Women Aren't Worse - Things Are Simply More TransparentBro all I gotta say is anal tattoos. Women are definitely worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/21 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?Third world women are just more open and honest about hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?What is the opposite of naive? That's what you are. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 4 | During the date, the girl mentions meeting another dude later that day?This is gold. Bet. [Pause] I'll spit-roast yo ass with a stranger. Smirk | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 13 | Should I gift my beta dad "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Dieda for his bday?Your dad will never take relationship advice from you, his teenage son. Lol. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 34 | Be the Beta - when appropriate.It's beyond simply not being disrespectful. It's being actively respectful. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 19 | Chick showed me a slide show of every dude she’s dated/fucked. I’m on it, don’t know how to reactIf you were planning on seeing her again in any serious way, don't. She will forever hide the shady stuff she does because you demonstrated that she cannot confide in you without you being judgemental. Not that what you did was wrong. It's probably the right thing to do and your much better off without that crazy in your life. Just that if you ever do get back with her you would need to understand that she won't be honest because of fear of how you will react. Edit- | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Should I pursue girl who works for a huge employer that could be a potential employer for me down the road?If she works there already kill 2 birds and get her to give you an in if that's where you wanna be | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on Corey WayneHe shouldn't say "not red pill approved" because redpill is a big tent. Based on his MGTOW username he's obviously coming from an extremist position. Not that I agree with everything coach Corey Wayne says, but he does share some overlap with redpill knowledge and best practices - if you want to go into an LTR at some point. If you are MGTOW and eschew all relationships with women, then I can see how you would view his material as problematic. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Girl ghosted after first dateYou are being neurotic. Stop it. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me if i have been to many tinder dates beforeI generally don't go on dates, they are more like roller coaster rides of intense excitement and incomparable joy | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Girl asked me if i have been to many tinder dates before"What's tinder? " | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How much SMV do you need to have five girls lying on your bed simultaneously?Could you ask your question in a multiple choice format? It's too open ended and subjective | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this an IODAnd wtf is an IOD?? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Is this an IODLol you're wrong about people not hooking up in high school. Also you need to read the side bar. Everything applies. You need to not send cute emojis that's what females do. You need to spin plates no matter what. Your mindset is all wrong and it's not your fault, you're young, you don't know any better. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Austin vs NYCFuck NYC. Dirty, smelly, full of dbags and assholes. I don't know much about Austin but all I'm saying is NYC is a shit hole. Ive lived in New jersey most of my life about 30 mins out and have been in and out of the city many times. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Expressed love for a girl. She says “she’s not there yet”. Where to go from here?Lol | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 12 | Expressed love for a girl. She says “she’s not there yet”. Where to go from here?You didn't just rush the I love you. You rushed exclusivity. You need to vet for months before committing to one hoe. She got you on the cheap and now your professing your love? Man | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 19 | Fucking the neighbor took a wrong turn...Bullet dodged because that neighbor could become a problem if the roles were reversed. If she was the one getting attached and you were the one banging against a shared wall screaming in ecstacy, she might become crazy and fuck your shit up | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [Long post] Long distance LTR is still best friends with her previous boyfriend. I need advice.Lol. LD NO R | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I Netflix and chill?Yeah I actually can see the "let's make love" line working if you're on the couch chillin or whatever and you look into her eyes and get all serious then say it as a joke but then after the laughter dies down go in for the kiss It can also work if you're not joking but that's up to your own personal style of game. I like to keep em guessing | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Does telling my girlfriend my feelings and insecurities make her less attracted to me?LOLLLLL GOOD TROLL | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I Netflix and chill?I'm kinda autistic in the sense that when someone asks a specific question is important to answer that question, specifically. This is a perfect example of why if you're answering someone's question with an answer to a different question that you need to be clear about how it's different. Like imagine if the OP takes your advice and asks for kisses in public from a girl he just met because that was the question asked and you didn't qualify you're statement with "once you get her back to yours" | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How do I Netflix and chill?I guess if this is when you have her back to the "sex location" then I fully support this ballsy type of move. But sitting in a bar or wherever they are meeting in public as per the OPs question... nope nope | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 9 | How do I Netflix and chill?I think I just scared my dog how hard I just cringed | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 9 | How do I Netflix and chill?Just be warm and welcoming greet her with a hug and then be hands off until you get ioi's or even better until she initiates some kind of physical touch. ABC always be calibrating | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Does pulling away amplify attraction if she’s already interested?If you pull back too much on a high interest plate she could break. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksBut is she hiding HIM from YOU?? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksYou're replying to the wrong comment. But I'm getting vibes that you can't handle the truth. The Fact is she is enthusiastically opening herself up to the opportunity to get fucked by her "friend" of 10 years, enthusiastically. If you're ok with that then that's fine but if you're not able to accept what we are telling you then you are still living in the matrix. We can show you the door but you have to walk through it. Take the red pill and you will see what we all see - your girlfriend, althou… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksShe's not your LTR. You're her plate. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?Just stop, stand at the edge of the bed furow your brow a little bit with a smirk, motion with you finger for her to come over to you and suck your dick. You can communicate this without saying it to most but you also might have to make a command like "get over here" or come here. Heck you could go nuclear and ask "what, you think you can just lie there?" Then tell her exactly what you want her to do. It's so much easier when you act like a grown up and communicate to your partner instead of act… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Gf asking if she could hang with a dudeYou said the right thing to her by saying go. You have the right mindset and that is quite comforting to see in this sub which lately has degraded quite a bit. I guess your main concern is will she try to ruin my life if I break up with her but reality is a lot less dramatic than we hype it up to be. Chances are she will move on. You might consider just saying that long distance isn't working out for me and leave it at that. If she says she'll move or something crazy then idk what to do but then… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | My OWN Sister did this.Who is laughing in front of whom? His sister actually did nothing wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 06:30 AM |
| 0 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?Oh this is really easy because you need her faaaar less than she needs you. This is what you do- Quietly start working to improve your options. (Dread). You give her the stipend. And act normal. You talk to her and with a smirk on your face of self satisfaction and with amusement, drop hints like "my wife would be taking care of things in the house while mr cave man went out and hunted a wooly mammoth... then change the topic before she gets a chance to be a bitch. If she doesn't improve then it… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 0 | My OWN Sister did this.It would actually have been MORE rude of her to say oh you're too short no thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | My OWN Sister did this.This isn't even an issue. There's nothing to be above. The OP is being a brat | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/21 06:05 PM |
| -11 | My OWN Sister did this.She has no obligation to say anything. You are projecting some retarded entitlement here. So stop crying and read the side bar. When you have enough options you will be ghosting left and right when you find out things that put a hard stop on progressing the conversation further. Get off your high horse and apologize to your sister for being such a chode. What she did was not wrong and you should feel ashamed for thinking that it was. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | If women have such a solipsistic nature in life, how are they able to care for their children, their loved ones, care for other people, empathise and so on?Found the simp | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 8 | There’s A Hidden Supply of Hot Girls All Around You that No One Else is Gaming EffectivelyTake my up vote! COSTCO PARKING LOT lmao good for you | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | If women have such a solipsistic nature in life, how are they able to care for their children, their loved ones, care for other people, empathise and so on?Actually I would say those are all things that women are admired for and that social validation is why they do those things. If it were socially acceptable for women to be bad with kids and emotionally non intelligent, then they would be that but in order to remain in good standing socially they do these things well. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Potential plate hasn't texted me once during my two week absence. Should I ping her to see if she's still interested, or wait until I'm back in town?How did she cum multiple times from making out? Text her to set up a date when you get back but don't really make it about you and your just having returned. but I'm getting a really inexperienced vibe from this post so that's what you need to work on. Getting your reference experiences up. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Should I tell my friend about his girlfriendTie his ass to a chair and electrocute his testicles until he acquiesces. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Ex dumped me but is still wanting to fuck weekly?This comment should get you insta banned from asktrp. Are you a female? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | My GF is going on a trip with THREE MALE FRIENDSI've seen stuff like this shared and here is the best response: "My girlfriend doesn't go off with 3 dudes without me. " Let her know that you're going to demote her ass. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Replied to her text late and now she ignored mine, what do you do/mindset advice?Lol these posts... I don't even have to read them when they are this long you know the answer is Be on your purpose Lift Game other women | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How can a man fall out of love ?Just think about the things that you DON'T like about the person you want to not be in love with. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 07:07 PM |
| 12 | Have become close with an escort, how should I proceed?Thanks for the laugh. I really needed that. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Kissing a Girl OFFRIPSorry man if you're in your mid thirties (which i an as well), and you don't know how to spike emotions, create a validation vacuum and all that with a girl, no "activity" that i can suggest will make this happen for you. It literally does not matter what you're doing if you know how to not be unattractive to a woman. The way your post is written i actually thought you were a 19 year old kid like the girl you are supposedly having over to Netflix n chill. I'm keen to hear if she actually shows u… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Kissing a Girl OFFRIPMario Kart | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Kissing a Girl OFFRIPA quick and to the point bang is fun and all but personally I like to get the energy built up for as long as possible. The sex is much better than if it's just to get it done. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm a nice guy/beta, should i marry some girl just for sex?Lol is this a joke? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Being good at texting won't get you laidThere's a difference between a goodnight text and a random hilarious throw back text a la pua | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How to not follow girls on social media w/o looking like a weirdoYou could make it a game like she has to earn it. You only share your Instagram with a select few | /r/askTRP | 03/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Working on myself paid off!Things that never happened for 500 | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Ever regret leaving an LTR to pursue other women?Ended up knocking her up and then she monkey branched. Within a week I realized how much better off I was without her. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 6 | I can't stop imagining about how every women I'm with are gonna look when they're oldCould be worse.. She could end up looking like her dad.. 😄 | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 01:00 PM |
| 11 | What do you do when a girl calls you cute ?Cute means she thinks you're fuckable. This sub is getting really retarded... | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Caught her in her dm'sHow did she lie? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Ever regret leaving an LTR to pursue other women?I regret not leaving my LTR @ 25 | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to plate a girl without coming off as needy?Let's just say... don't be in a hurry to hit her up again. Don't NEVER contact her, but like, just play it cool. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How to plate a girl without coming off as needy?be on your purpose Game other girls Lift. Read the side bar | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?Sounds like you have freakishly short arms or the women you're fucking have freakishly long torsos | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?You can interpret all that from a bob cut? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 11:56 PM |
| -1 | Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?I'm more of a tits and ass man I could give a fuck about hair | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 6 | 35 years old and I feel so lost...There is no "the one" There are plenty of ones... some better than others. You need to read the side bar. At least pick up the rational male | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 10:33 PM |
| -2 | Gf cut her hair after I Told her to grow her hair out. Why?How does hair bump a chick up 1.5 points | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I Sold Fake sneakers and cops invited me to interviewWhy are you talking to police without a lawyer? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 11 | I don't want 100's ot girls. I just want to feel loved by one.Due to the law of averages, you literally cannot just have 1 girl without first trying out a large number of girls. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What a year of Owning Your Shit looks likeSo what's your purpose..I read the whole thing to find out where you went with your life after nuking your career. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl off bumble - questionWow I'm impressed at the sheer lack of READING THE SIDE BAR in this post. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Best way to talk to a client about ghosting you?Add value. Bring some information (link it) to his attention with an interest call to action - "thought you might be interested in this. Does it make sense to open a deeper dialogue about how you could be doing x to get [results]?" Track for open and clicks. If he clicks, but doesn't reply, follow up with a message that you noticed he had clicked on the information you sent him and want to hear his thoughts on it. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I want a LTR - depressed because I missed outSIDE. BAR. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 01:25 PM |
| 0 | my text game has always been low effort and, ive never really been able to get into it. how do i fix this, where can i find the best advice on this.Learn sales and marketing | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Just a booty call testYou're also a titty call don't forget those | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 13 | Do I hide my books?You never show your true power level. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR literally scared to orgasm?Add in a blindfold she'll go crazy | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 16 | LTR literally scared to orgasm?Lol. She's literally asking you to tie her up. This isn't just some of the cuff suggestion. It's her fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Wake me upYour mistake was pushing for a relationship. That's the female's imperative. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 3 | Just found trp question on ltrWelcome to the real world, neo. Rule number 1: you are the prize. Rule number 2: she's not yours, it's just your turn. Tough position to be- in an LTR before finding trp. LTR/ is like the boss level of TRP. Be careful not to apply trp too suddenly to your relationship. If you drastically change your behavior it will be a shock to her so take your time. Look into the 12 steps of dread. As for your step brother potentiality dicking down your lady, trust, but verify. I'm struggling to think of a wa… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How many of you have a rotation of women that you’re fucking?177.8 cm Slightly above average | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have a rotation of women that you’re fucking?5'10", Eastern European, A thick 5.5" I live in the NYC METRO AREA | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have a rotation of women that you’re fucking?In an LTR now but before this I had anywhere from 3-5 on rotation and when one or 2 fell off I would find and replace. I'm not a super Chad because I'm very lean but I have a handsome face. Ama | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Help with picking up college freshman girls, when I'm their sophomore mentorJust be a cool guy don't try to hook up with them but they might have friends... | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | I am marked as useless by my peers and teachers at my university. What should I do?Why are you such a piece of shit? | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | TRP response to girl not satisfyingDepends on the girl. If she is about that rebel life, challenging authority, and being naughty then you can tease her about her parents controlling her. If she's more straight and narrow, doesn't want to cause problems, then I don't think i would tease her too much about it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you have no one to talk to?Realize that you are always alone. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 06:51 AM |
| 3 | My 48 year old mom died yesterday and I don’t know what to do.Holy fuck. Sorry for your loss. Be with your family as much as you can right now. Meaning stop reading reddit. Go back and finish up school if you have a path for a job that needs the degree (not if you're getting bullshit degree like art or basket weaving). But do stay connected to your family. Phone call email face time. Whatever you gotta do. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | would love advice from older, male professionalsWell people have given great advice that can be applied to us men also so I think it's quite in line with the subs purpose | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Lost cause?You are incorrectly applying the "wait long time in between texts" rule. You already know you should have been specific when suggesting to make plans. Place & time. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend who's pursuing a career in acting is playing a role where she's being kissed/fucked by some another actor.I agree with the above that the ultimatum shouldn't have been given so overtly. You told her already you're not going to be ok with that stuff. At the most you can say my girlfriend doesn't do x. And just leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | would love advice from older, male professionalsI don't have tits I'm not the op. Are you high? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 0 | would love advice from older, male professionalsAnd.... there it is. Lol I was waiting for some good old fashioned toxic masculinity. Too much helpfulness needed to be balanced with some humor. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 7 | would love advice from older, male professionalsAnd it is.... working?!? Some solid advice coming out of the gang here. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl replies saying that "she doesn't know what she wants" after you ask her what she is on online dating for?just assume they want what you want until proven incorrect. duh. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl replies saying that "she doesn't know what she wants" after you ask her what she is on online dating for?Why would you ask that? Clearly have not read sidebar | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Texting after scheduling first date?Think of texting as a bespoke social media. If you find something relevant to share then do it. It can be a corgi in a box gif or something you found funny that happened to you during the day. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 7 | How often is too often to see a plateShe has him as a plate, not the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 24 | How often is too often to see a plateIf you only have 1 plate, you are her plate. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Starting strength or Calisthenics Or BothStarting strength. 100% | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is very single on social mediaTried and true "My girlfriend doesn't do this." | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 5 | My LTR (7 years) Just Moved OutAdd one more to the pile of folks advising you to skip the meal. Give her her stuff, say goodbye and be happy you are now free to go find someone or 2 or 4 someone's better. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 3 | How much should I try before giving up is the best course?Damn man honestly it sounds like you're doing everything right. Since you're making good money you might want to consider a paid arrangement. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | how long to wait to reply to messages after she has pulled backIf she initiated the text - reply whenever you fucking feel like it If you initiate the text and she replies, reply whenever you fucking feel like it If you initiated the text and she took a day to respond and just said hi. ... reply whenever you fucking feel like it. It's really that simple. You're just over thinking it | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | She said I was being misogynistic and offensive, was I? (screenshot link)Sounds like she just went Super Feminist Saiyan level 4 ubuu monkey. Get out of the blast radius before you get me too'ed! | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Ok HOW do you stop caring for girls you’re seeing?This is some psychological fuckery. You are not responsible for other people's feelings. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Plate flaking, when to reinitiate?You already sound needy by offering alternatives for her cancelation. If a plate flakes its not "ok how about tomorrow? Or pretty please may I simp for you next week?" Its "ok some other time." Then you leave it up to her to choose an alternate. She's onto the next cock it sounds like. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Is there some truth in the idea that a girl won’t even DM you back at all if she’s not interested?If she's not interested she might not message back but she also just might for the attention. Only way to know if she's interested is if she makes herself available to you in person. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 01:24 PM |
| -1 | Opinion on my beardI prefer heavy stubble to this. Mainly because it's easier to keep clean. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Workout Routine to Destroy MyselfCheck out Starting strength. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Always make out with girls, never get to sex. What am I doing wrong?Repeat after me: No kissing until you are at the sex location. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck can bitches not say no to meeting up if they don’t want to?Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 4 | logistics changed how should I proceed?Her place? Hey I was gonna have you suck my dick in my car but I think your bedroom would be better. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I end a happy and fulfilling LTR because of the fear of missing out at age 22?Are you living with her? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Should i just give 0 fucks and shoot my shotNope never heard of him. .. YouTube? I'll look it up. It's textbook advice. Nothing new. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 13 | Should i just give 0 fucks and shoot my shotThink of something you'd like to do or go check out that'd be near to your [sex place] (good for logistics). Tell her your gonna do x and she should come along. After you do that and establish some more attraction and comfort ask her if she wants to come back to your [sex place] to [do something non sexual]. If you give her plausible deniability she will more likely say yes. Escalate. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | If I'm always initiating a text and then set up a meeting. Isnt that chasing a girl?Learn the difference between chasing and pursuing. I wouldn't worry about how long it takes for her to start doing her fair share of initiating. Just keep doing your thing have other plates spinning. Honestly i don't really see why you're focused so much on who text first- you're not in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | If I'm always initiating a text and then set up a meeting. Isnt that chasing a girl?It's ok to initiate a long as you're not blowing up her phone every day. You say you wait at least a week so you're golden Especially in the beginning. But over time she should start initiating. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | If a girl asks who are you to me? What's the best reply?I'm yo daddy! I'm your boss! I am batman! Anything man be playful have fun | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | If a girl asks who are you to me? What's the best reply?Lol I think I and most of the community are seeing this post and thinking that you meant who am I to you. Please edit the original post to avoid confusion. Now then, this seems more like playful teasing but low level shit test. "I am your king you shall do as I please now make me 2 sandwiches for your insubordination." | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I’m fucking devastated guysDon't just ask to meet up have something to do that's cool and tell her she should come along. Wtf does telling her what time you get off from work if you don't have any specific plans? Drinks at smokey Joe's bar at 8 tonight | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | After making great strides in my development, with a naked woman in front of me for the first time, I couldn’t keep it up and do the deed. How do I get past this?Good post. I think you're good. Just next time make it all about you. Don't worry so much about her pleasure. You just got nervous and in your head too much. Get out of your head. You mentioned your weight being on the heavy side. If you maintain good cardiovascular health... you know the deal. Lift heavy to boost your base metabolic rate. Also eat watermelon. I know it's unusual but something about the hydration helps. Try it- it can't hurt! | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | LTR comfort tests? How to proceedLol when did she tell you how she feels? So annoying | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honest about bite mark on my arm to potential new plate ?Yeah this actually works now that I think about it. Non chalant just say some random girl bit me. Then move on. Ha! | /r/askTRP | 27/08/20 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Should I be honest about bite mark on my arm to potential new plate ?This is along the same vein as you never reveal your notch count. You need to let her hamster spin on this. Tell her you got it fighting a midget Or better yet, a pirate midget. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Had my first real break up. 4 years LTR. Can you please help decipher my ex LTR's message? I don't know what to think...Her: I'm looking for closure You: ok | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How to text girl after the first date?Callback humor is any inside joke. It establishes an emotional connection because it is something you and the girl shared. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 2 | How to text girl after the first date?Good job on getting this far. Do use call- back humor to a joke you two laughed about or teased each other about on your date when you reach back out. Don't be a chode and invite her to something with your and another guy. That sounds... rapey. Or gay. I also agree with the comment that you could call her. Just call her up randomly or text her something fun then if she responds right away call her up because you just learned that she's holding her phone in her hand You should text her a couple o… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl hits you?I'd give her one more chance if I thought she was putting in the work to make you happy. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 8 | After I came I said “I love you”, she said “what?!” Then I said “I meant I love fucking you”Agree - high level of manipulation. But it seems like a weak position to be in that you have to manipulate like this to get what you want. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:44 PM |
| 11 | Is there a point in hanging out with plates if you are not going to smash them?Why aren't you fucking your plate? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Failed a shit test with a chick at gym.you are so fucking autistic this is so cringe. At the very least are you still thinking it was a shit test and not banter? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Failed a shit test with a chick at gym.No you retard. A response to flirty banter is more flirty banter | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Failed a shit test with a chick at gym.This wasn't a shit test. It was just banter. Lol | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl always stops sex when it gets hot and heavyDid you say you took her clothes off and then put your hand down her pants? Sounds awkward. Next time you take her clothes off, remove more clothes. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How would trp handle this relationship?I think in this instance our homie should have let her go and not promoted her regardless of how long she was a plate/ fwb. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How would trp handle this relationship?This is what happens when you fuck a Virgin thinking that means something. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How would trp handle this relationship?And she was showing consistency, giving you respect, minimal shit tests, enthusiastic monkey sex whenever you want? Based on what you've said so far, I think you promoted the imago, or idealized mental image of this bitch, and not who she really is. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 4 | How would trp handle this relationship?You're such a drama queen. No wonder she has no respect for you. No respect for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How would trp handle this relationship?Chances are you're too far down that road that if you attempt to suddenly correct course it will be too jarring for her to accept. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 3 | How would trp handle this relationship?First you gotta explain THAT shit. Why do you want to stay with her? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How would trp handle this relationship?Bro this is exactly why you split the bill ESPECIALLY on the first date. Unless your goal was to be a beta provider. You established that frame from the first date no wonder she's happy to walk all over you and isn't at all attracted to you | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | How would trp handle this relationship?Does this bitch work? Why are you beta bucks for her? Lift. Be on your purpose. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 5 | “Sorry I’ve got a wait list of people to see...”Lol what a bitch thing to say to someone. No reply or "k" And move on And how is it asd when she just said she has a long list of dicks to ride before she can get to yours? Sounds more like a humble brag about how much of a slut she is and also showing disrespect to you. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How many lean guys do you see walking around?Ok just saying the word choice was a little confusing. You can be lean and skinny with no muscles or you can be lean and muscular. I suppose you're referring to the latter, so I'll agree to an extent. The tapered V shape is always going to be the most attractive ie wide shoulders narrow waist. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What to textNot just a follow up ... that might appear contrived. Call back humor is the best way to initiate. Re call a joke the you two laughed about | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How many lean guys do you see walking around?I'm not skinny, I'm thin! xD. Maybe there's a difference between what the op considered lean and what i think of a lean. but he specifically compared to muscular guys at the gym so I read lean as skinny. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | How many lean guys do you see walking around?This is not what I was thinking when you said lean. You sound pretty built to me | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 01:26 PM |
| 6 | How many lean guys do you see walking around?This is bullshit. As someone who has been very lean his whole life now at 35 I'm certain I'd do better if I wasn't so thin. Don't listen to this nonsense. Lift. Get strong. Get big. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 3 | 3rd Flake in a row, does she even deserve a response or radio silence.Just leave on read. No response unless she reaches out again | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | I grabbed her left tit while making out at the end of our first date. She immediately removed my hand and acted very surprised. Anything to worry about?She was close to home and your titty grab set off her asd. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I just saw my girlfriend having lunch with another guy. I need advice on how to deal with the upcoming short-term depressive and overthinking phase I know I'm bound to go through?Don't forget there are a million other options for you | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I just saw my girlfriend having lunch with another guy. I need advice on how to deal with the upcoming short-term depressive and overthinking phase I know I'm bound to go through?Think of all the ways you're now free to do whatever you want without the bitch. You know the truth and now... You are free. Realize this is actually the best thing that could have happened for you. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?I've replied to a few other comments here. If you're not progressing I would recommend getting into Starting Strength and if you can afford it hire an online coach (less expensive than an IRL personal trainer) to build a program for you. Search Marc Rippetoe on YouTube. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?This is because you are cumulating fatigue doing "exercises", and not resting enough between sets and between sessions. If you want to get some strength drop the bullshit and hit the major compounds. Squat every session. Deadlift every session. Overhead press and bench alternating sessions. Don't fuck with accessory or secondary bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?Mouthwash? Haven't heard this let me look into it... | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?1) I've got friends who are bigger than me and eat significantly worse than me (junk food regularly) so it's not a nutrition problem He didn't say what to eat he just said eat more. 2) how do I up the intensity? Is 2-3 minutes on compounds and 90 seconds on secondary/isolation exercises too long? The time you spend on compound lifts does not matter. Lift heavy and rest enough between sets so that fatigue doesn't accumulate too much. Your secondary "exercises" are just fatiguing you. Then when yo… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?Also don't compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to your yesterday self. If you're better today than yesterday you should be happy. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Not making any progress in the gym. What am I doing wrong?Reduce the reps add more sets. As long as you're doing the same number of reps at a higher weight than the last session then your making progress. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl from dorm, how to proceed?Her "roommate" is either a "boyfriend" or she wasn't feeling it. She could have told her roommate to chill and wait bc she was fucking Chad so I'm calling bs. You could have told her to stay and to tell the roommate to fuck off (in a nice way) ie your roommate is no where near as fun as I am. Bet you'll be bored in no time and wish you'd have stayed. Basically treat like a shit test and let her know that you aren't backing down and that you have confidence in yourself. I think you could have got… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | Lost my V today........ Is this it?You mean former. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 9 | Attempt to build attraction BLEW UP in my faceI like your interpretation of the therapists words. More accurate | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Attempt to build attraction BLEW UP in my faceHer blowing up over a joke is a sign that you dodged a bullet. Her use of the term toxic is toxic. She then accuses you of gaslighting her. I see no gas. Maybe she doesn't know what gaslighting means. Next! Ps - was this exchange through text? If so... don't try to be funny like that through text. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Girl friend texted me saying I was in her dreamJust invite her to do something that gives you good logistics, have fun, escalate and hook up. It's yours to fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 11 | I just can’t fucking get it apparently.Too strict with the rules. You become like a robot. That is my haiku. Seriously though, no one wants an automotan. Just loosen up and let yourself be more playful and don't stick to the zero text game policy. That shit is outdated. You're watching too much ams or applying his principles in a way that doesn't actually resonate with who you are (or who you are speaking to) Take advice with a grain of salt. That salt is your own personality. To thine own self be true. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?Don't make it about him. This is about your ltr not acting the way you like. Tell her if she keeps it up you're gonna down grade the relationship | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Quick questionIt's obv that you were just a place holder until her Chad thundercock showed back up | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | [21M V] How fast do you force escalation at clubs during dancing?Op watch this https://youtu.be/oZyuJHgeKBs | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | [21M V] How fast do you force escalation at clubs during dancing?Thanks for the laugh. Good on you for trying but you need to stop this dancing monkey nonsense. Read the side bar. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 06:22 PM |
| -1 | I have fucked up my life and do not see how it is fixableLol he's 24 and thinks life is over. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my girlfriend is slowly getting less attracted to me should I end it?You didn't even mention squats. Your program is shit and even you know it | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | I feel like my girlfriend is slowly getting less attracted to me should I end it?Your instructor sucks. Look up starting strength Marc rippetoe | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 0 | I feel like my girlfriend is slowly getting less attracted to me should I end it?Actually this doesn't sound all that bad. She might be under a lot of stress from changes in her lifestyle or routines. Let her know that you understand she's probably having a tough time right now. Show that you get how she's feeling, but also let her know that you have noticed some changes in the way she's acting. Be clear that if she wants to continue acting this way that's fine but you'll be making some changes of your own if that's the case. Put it into your own words, but the point is you … | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls so bad at replying? Is it me?What the fuck are you doing having text message conversations for hours with these hoes? Less is more. It's definitely you. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | no pussy in your 20s but a lot of pussy in 30s?In one for almost 2 years now. Was single for a couple years and picked the one I liked the most who showed consistency and least amount of shit tests | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | no pussy in your 20s but a lot of pussy in 30s?Yes. I was completely incompetent with women in my 20s. In high school I lucked out by being in the social circle of a girl who's cheerleader type nympho little sister wanted to be a part and she latched onto me. When I graduated we split and I went to college where I had zero social status and went on a dry spell for 2.5 years. I then proceeded to attain oneitis for the first decently attractive girl who showed me any attention. Thinking I was unattractive, I ended up with her for 10 years. Whe… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 02:09 PM |
| 16 | Regretting leaving GF - tempted to call herYou are missing the most important fact. You won't get what you want from your ex. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Got the “funny” knocked out of meWhen did the red pill become the pity pill? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 17 | This girl sent me a fucking survey after we had sexWooow out of 32. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 2 | girls taking photos of youYou will get a very dark photo if you increase your shutter speed too much. Anything above 1/60th of a second for subjects that don't move and 1/120th if they are moving should be sufficient. Ha | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I make sure my ex-gf doesn't friendzone me if I see her again?I tried to put my arm around her when we were watching tv and she completely wanted none of it. I didn't know this... You made a tiny escalation and she totally rejected you. Next | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't asking to meet during quarantine make you look thirsty as fuck?I'm being really picky about who I go out with. So picky that I had yet to find one that is qualified enough for the interview (first date) until a few days ago. We have plans Saturday This is your frame. You have an abundance of options and she should feel lucky to have been chosen to be one of the few who make it to the second round interview. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | "Why you tried to touch up on me"?I love this. To see if they're real. Perfect! | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 18 | "Why you tried to touch up on me"?You went from gently caressing to Pervy motor boating titty sucking way too fast. You need to learn how to take 2 steps forward one step back. Push-pull. Escalate then pull away, then escalate again. You just went too hard | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I make sure my ex-gf doesn't friendzone me if I see her again?Assume attraction. Invite over. Escalate. If she rejects you then you just play it cool tell her you have work or gym early in the morning and have to go to bed. Then Ghost her. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Looking for long hair style advice.Just cut it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | LTR always arguing about household choresQuietly plan your exit. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.Doesn't car sales have high turnover? Why didn't you stay in car sales if the money was so good? How does it look on a resume? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 4 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveMore like what weight shouldn't you be. Just don't be skinny. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveBeing too skinny | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 10 | 2 girls came over (friends) “taught” each other all night?Ask them if they've ever kissed. Tell them to do it | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How to get women to view you as hookup material?I meant with another girl | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 12 | How to get women to view you as hookup material?"There was this one girl" Every thread/ comment that starts with this is a red flag for simping/oneitis. You should not be noticing her leaving the club with someone to bang. Be the one being noticed leaving the club. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 13 | How to get women to view you as hookup material?"My proposal to go further" That's all you need to know right there. You don't "propose" sex. You propose marriage. You don't negotiate attraction. You reak of desperation, sir. Lift. Be on your purpose. Game other women and get out of the mentality that you are trying to lose your virginity and into the mentality that none of that shit matters because you are the prize. Oh, and read the fucking side bar | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Yeah you got me. I'd be an incel if I didn't lower my standards to the point of dating 300lb land whales | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Exactly. Problem is even if they heard this message, do you think they would listen? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Writing this was quite cathartic, actually. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Are you a woman? Do you think men and women are the same when it comes to this shit? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Why observe the world around you? Why be trying to understand other people and their motivations? Maybe I have more intellectual curiosity than a pleb like you. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?This has to be the most poorly thought out response in the entire thread. I'm making an observation. Where does it say that I'm going after wallbescent women? Please | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | My therapist tells me to bang chicks no matter what.The thought had crossed my mind that the op could be leaving out some critical details of the story. But it depends on the ops goals. If he's just looking for ons and casual sex then fucking all the hbx's in the office isn't going to end well. If he's more LTR minded then maybe it could be ok to be open to dating his Co workers. Also it depends on if he values his job, maybe he sweeps floors at McDonald's and can throw it away easily. Or maybe he's working on climbing the corporate ladder and on… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Books on how to improve your charisma and deal with people?The prince | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 60 | My therapist tells me to bang chicks no matter what.Find a new therapist. This one is retarded. Imagine a therapist telling you it's unhealthy to have standards and boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Were you in my shoes, would you take over you parents highly profitable business, or do your own thing and try to be a success on your own?Family business but don't just keep it status quo. Take it to the next level like Gary V did with his family liquor store. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 9 | 16 yr old red pill, any advice you guys would give teens?All the above suggestions are good. Likewise, learn to play an instrument. Guitar, keyboard, drums, hell even a ukulele. Point is have a hobby that adds to your intrigue. Anything that requires practice and patience reflects your serious but fun loving side is good. I do calligraphy and play the ukulele because i actually enjoy it. I know a lot of guys will say it's pussy shit but girls eat that artsy shit up. Keep lifting, set some goals and accomplish them. You are so damn lucky to be learning… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Weaker erections during sex compared to past experiences?Eat watermelon. Not even kidding | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Confusing interaction with high SMV girlYour tone is really over bearing in this draft of a text. Just set up something close to your place hang out have fun, invite her back to your place and hook up. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisRe: "there was no sexual tension." Because of your mindset. It seems like you are so focused on getting close and think that getting close and touching and all that kino equals sexual tension but it does not. Sexual tension is when 2 people want to jump each other but don't. Sexual tension is what you get when you AREN'T touching each other. Once you finally connect, that is when the tension is released. You didn't build enough attraction. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Employer probing for my take on current eventsI'm not in, not have i ever been in your position but I have a question. Is this your hill to die on? If it is, then be outspoken and publicize your position and own it with zero shame. If not then you might want to just play along to get along and let them think whatever they are gonna think. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Girl stole my friends phone and read our texts...Damage control. Just keep quiet don't try to explain or reason. Don't try to argue that they were wrong for stealing the phone. That will just make people wonder what was on the phone that was so juicy. Don't talk about it, if it comes up brush it off with a joke or just shrug and smile and then move onto another subject. In time this episode will fade away and they will be onto the next juicy bit of gossip. Maybe get yourself more goal oriented and focus on building a dope life. it could push t… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Next datePretty sure it's in the side bar. Don't even hint at another date while with her. It's not that it makes you look desperate, it just gives away your availability and interest level. If you start planning your next date during the current date, she knows she has you by the balls. If you don't mention another date, she'll be left wondering where she stands with you and this will raise her interest level. Read 3% man | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Date with hood girl? Went terribly wrong, how to move on?5'10" is only short for her because she's used to getting pumped and dumped by 6'9" Tyrones. That's also the same reason she thinks you're gonna ghost her. She's used to it. You're not giving yourself enough credit. You are the prize. She fucked up. Ps. Don't go out with ratchet chicks lol | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 6 | High interest women and pursuing them differentlyYou may lose them if they sense you're playing games. You should not ignore them too much or they will resent it. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Breaking frame while textingHaving compassion is not breaking frame in and of itself. The fact that you got into an argument then back down and give in to her shaming tactics is what breaks your frame. First of all. You do not have serious conversations on text. I don't agree with only logistics, but arguing, or even getting near a serious discussion is a hard no. share shit that you think is cool or funny fine. Keep it light keep it like a social media feed where you only add value. Also logistics. Read the side bar you o… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Here on RP we’re taught to hide and repress our emotions, not be vulnerable, but isn’t that what causes many of our fellow men to kill themselves?Read some stoic literature | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR Question - Is this just the song and dance I can be expecting for years to come?I COMPLETELY understood and made that extremely clear but I wanted her to acknowledge the fact that if the roles were reversed she'd be really upset and would make a point to say how that bothers her. This is where you fucked up. You attempted to apply logic to resolve an emotional issue. You have respect for yourself don't you? that flakey bullshit needs to be checked - not in a bitch feminine way, no explaining no trying to get her to see it from your perspective or any of that crap they teach… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 04:54 AM |
| 3 | LTR Question - Is this just the song and dance I can be expecting for years to come?If you did, in fact do a hard unexpected turn after 4 years of being a devoted empathetic "conflict resolution" guru, then why are you at all surprised. In her eyes, you're changing and that shows incongruity. You should have gradually applied dread and instead you dropped a dread a- bomb on her house. Look up the 12 levels of dread and read carefully about how to pace the application of dread. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR Question - Is this just the song and dance I can be expecting for years to come?Did you not read anything that he said. No serious talk. Tell her my way or the highway and leave it at that. If you do anything else she will see that you ain't a man and she will never respect you. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR Question - Is this just the song and dance I can be expecting for years to come?Next. Sidebar. Lift. Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Getting a Vasectomy in my Early 20'sWait for vasalgel | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.This is bullshit. It's not the insecurities itself that caused her to leave, it's the change in the man who went from holding it back from her to suddenly a man who opens up and cries in women's arms. Had he been open and honest with her to begin with she may have called it off way sooner and he could have not wasted so much time with an incompatible woman, and found a woman who was ok with who he genuinely is as a man. Instead he hid his truth from her and she fell in love with a fake version o… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 2 | feel suicidal over a girl . serious what do i do?A fucking year ago? Major oneitis! Lift Be on your purpose Fuck ten other women (ftow) Rule number 1 you are the prize Rule number 2 she's not yours it was just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Back and forth liking pictures on instagram?https://i.imgflip.com/1cmpac.jpg | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 1 | LTR gaining weight, seems depressed, maybe signs of losing interest?z | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | LTR gaining weight, seems depressed, maybe signs of losing interest?z | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR gaining weight, seems depressed, maybe signs of losing interest?z | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | LTR gaining weight, seems depressed, maybe signs of losing interest?z | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | LTR gaining weight, seems depressed, maybe signs of losing interest?z | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | What is considered to be non sexual attentionAre you paying attention to her? Is your dick inside of her? Answer these questions and you will know. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 7 | What is considered to be non sexual attentionAnything that isn't your dick inside her. Duh | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?You shouldn't have acknowledged that you remember her. You shouldn't have validated her. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Can I actually sort out my eyes?That's either sarcasm or you're making excuses for being fat yourself. Lift. Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Can I actually sort out my eyes?I can tell you're fat. Lift. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Ending a Long Term, Long Distance Relationship after 6 years - Need StrengthI stopped reading at long distance relationship. https://therationalmale.com/tag/long-distance-relationships/ | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe there's a correlation between the time of day and building sexual tension through texting ?I think it's more about whether or not they are looking at their phone. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 07:27 PM |
| 5 | How are Women attracted to lack of attention from a guyIgnoring is a demonstration of non- neediness. Shows you have abundance. Demonstrates status. Men don't care about status as much as women ergo, ignoring isn't as intriguing to men as it is to women. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Beginner here. Should I be planning actual dates If I plan on making a girl my gf?Lmfao I can't read past plan to make her my gf. You need to read the sidebar, read the rational male. Lift Be on your purpose Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelyI know what you mean and it sounds like you owned up to being a beta bitch and made the needed changes, but it bothers me that you preface it with "this happened to me " I imagine from your exes perspective, she's asking herself how could this happen to her! She thought you were something and then you got serious and you turned out to be something else. She just wasted some precious years of her decaying ovaries with you. You let this happen. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelyI would bet my life savings that this one fucked around a lot more than you know. She wasn't just not having sex, she was just not having sex with YOU. You just gotta realize that you fucked up by falling into her frame and being all feminine and in your feelings for her. Your behavior drove her away but she doesn't want to tell you that. Blocking you is easier. But don't beat yourself up- the good news is you're probably super young and if you are able to learn the lesson here and make some ser… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:18 AM |
| 17 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelyHoly shit this was like reading my thoughts before I even thought them. I'm so glad someone took the time to unpack all of that. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask a girl where she’s going?Why tf are you worrying about what some slut is doing in between your fuck sessions with you? Stop wasting time thinking about it. Read the side bar. Lift Be on your purpose Game other women | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Sent a snap by girl after a long timeComment on something in the background or compliment her on the lighting in the photo. Be doing cool shit and tell her I'm about to insert cool shit here you should come with. If she agrees, and you're smart about logistics, have fun, hang out, and hook up. If not just soft next her. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | New job anxietyYou just have a little imposter syndrome. It's perfectly normal. That will subside once you get further along in your development | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Older girl 36 asks me the oldest girl I’ve been with? How should I respond to that type of of question? (I’m 20)agree and amplify by saying you once slept with a 2000 year old smoking hot elf from rivendell... or .... tell her you're still a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I still do not completely understand how to “not take rejection” personally. Looking for any help/tips to grasp it.Get a job going door to door or doing sales - that will desensitize you to rejection. Also rejection can be a good thing if you're polarizing and screening for compatibility. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | How to tell LTR I'm busy without seeming coldJust tell her you want to hang out but can't right now because you're busy doing xyz and maybe tell her what day you'll be less busy | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Voluntarily reducing sexual frequency with FWB - a good idea or am I an idiot?Read the side bar and let me know when you realize you're getting dumped | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I need advice from wiser men.Living alone is the best. you can live somewhere more suburban and commute if you want to avoid living in the city. Do it | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stay motivated in the gym?Just focus on that set. Then when you're done with that set, only focus on the next set. Don't think about "the whole workout" think about completing one exercise at a time. All I gotta do is these 5 reps. Is your mantra | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Rookie trp question, don’t rip on me please"I closed last night with..." You didn't close shit last night. If you had closed you would have set a time and place to meet. If you want something and you don't ask for it you'll never get it. You want to get laid? You gotta shoot your shot. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 07:50 AM |
| 45 | 7 month of LTR dumped me because I was acting too alphaWho the fuck says I extend my hand let's get back together for the sake if our past...? That's some next level autism right there. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | IOI glance vs. passing-by glance?Pupil dilation is a sign of arousal, but you need to be close enough and basically get eye contact to see, so its only applicable in some situations. ie: after you approach. but if you see a glance that you think could be an ioi check for other ioi's to confirm... by approaching | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Gf messages ex. I break up with her. Did I do the right thing?You did the right thing. Only thing you possibly did incorrectly was telling her your reason for breaking up with her. If I read it right you told her why and that gives her closure and the ability to hamster herself out of agency. If you told her you just weren't feelin it anymore or that you're super busy and don't have time for a relationship or some bullshit that would cause her to always wonder about what happened. Good job having self-worth and not standing for bullshit though dude | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Heading overseas, dating potential LTR. How not to fuck this up?leaving for less than a month and a half and you're worried about losing "this one girl" If she is actually LTR material, and you are her best choice, then nothing will happen in 5 weeks. Don't be a chode and say something lame like "lets pick this up where we left off when i get back" **fingerguns** | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 9 | Had a girl yesterday then 10 whiteknights fucked meThis, my friends is a perfect demonstration of the rule of stupid in action. Don't wanna get into trouble like OP? Avoid: Doing stupid things With Stupid people in stupid places At stupid times | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever stop looking for sex with LTR?Ive been denied 2 MAYBE 3 times in a year of LTR. She does all the aforementioned duties and more. If she started denying me at all in a significant way none of that other stuff would matter. I would look for her replacement(s) I do test her desire by NOT initiating when we hang out and she invariably gives me the signal that it is time for me to dick her down. You should not be looking for negotiated or transactional sex. It should be coming from a genuine desire to get you inside of her. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Mixed signals but why?she may have a bf and is into you but denying herself? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl says we took it "too far" after 1st date? Doesn't seem interested in a 2ndYou should not have slept over. She's looking for a man with more value. You demonstrated low value by having so little going on in your life that you spent like 48 hours or some dumb shit with a girl you weren't banging. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Mateguarding/BoundariesLTR?This needs to be checked. Could be a comfort test. I say its better to let her know that you don't like the idea but if she really wants to go then it would mean downgrading. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Moved in with reboundDon't contact her. It's over. Next. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I react to this situationYou're stifling yourself. Go out with brother and friends. Game all the girls. Get over the fact that you may become eskimo brothers with your brother. Stop being such a chode | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Where did I go wrong?Coffee date, talking for 2 weeks, going straight for the clit massage, trying to bang in a car, maybe more that you're leaving out | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What do to do when a guy is competing for a girl your with? I was making out with this chick and I noticed another guy was trying to make moves on her but I knew if I got upset or fought it it wouldn’t do me any good so I kinda didn’t give a fuck and just played with her ass and kissed her.AMOG him. Be extra nice and friendly to him. Pat him on the shoulder. Compliment him in a way that gets him to talk about himself so he comes off as an egotistical douche trying to qualify himself to her. Tell her he probably has a bigger dick than you do also (jokingly). | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 12:49 PM |
| 1 | ONS to plateOk then there's nothing to reply to. Also your text seeks value. Kinda weak and needy imo, and she gave you a bullshit reply because of that. I would just go about my life and if I was wanting to see her again after at least 2 days (maybe even a week). I would text her some value giving text then schedule a date. If she reaches out first even better | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Those in LTRs, how do you stick to one girl?Get a girl who will help you find other girls to have 3somes with. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | ONS to plateFirst off there's zero context. What did her last text say? what did you say 3 hours later? what did she say pm today? Second, you got this thing all wrong. Planning on not replying is not something an authentically high value male would do. If you don't reply its because you are busy on your purpose, or getting some other puss. Just text her when you feel like. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I delete the Oneitis files?honestly bro it sounds like you are weak. deleting blocking numbers, etc just shows that you lack the willpower to resist reaching out. The files on the disk drive are useless to you now but why are you so worked up about them. If it were me i'd just forget about it until i needed the disk for something then decide in the moment when i realize that my latest download of Jessica jones won't fit on the drive unless I delete some files...oh hey these things dont need them deleted bye. thats the lev… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Tinder not workinghahha ass hat yeah you stink at this | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Meeting up with a plate tonight , she told me she’s on her period and I want to flake nowshower sex | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I've been doing all the shit that I was told would make me the prize and I'm still insecure. Is there a way to deal with this?now that you have money you can pay me to pretend to like you | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madi think he's saying don't sacrifice the set to maintain frame | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madi see your point. I just meant that at the time when I felt it I suppressed the urge to say it because I knew it would either throw off the balance of power and put me in the weak position or decrease her attraction for me (which i knew might happen due to her reservations about it). | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Ltr said I love you during sex and was madwe are in an exclusive LTR, and she's really good to me. she wouldn't be my LTR if she wasn't. I understand it means i love you right now and could change if attraction changes. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys tan?Get a job going door to door | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?It was early on in the relationship. We hadn't quite defined expectations and boundaries or labels. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?Do I regret making my boundaries clear early on? No way. If she tried that again it would be over. By establishing boundaries you're making yourself a more attractive Male. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?This is exactly how I handled my current ltr wanting to meet a guy for lunch. I told her if she wanted to downgrade this shit then let's do that. Gave her some distance and she canceled on the other guy. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Fuck I’ve finally decided to stop being a pussy and day game / cold approach bitches. What are some pointers for this green horn?Here's a pointer. Don't call yourself green horn | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Tinder shit testSelf deprecating humor only works if it comes from a place of high status. Your reply was pathetic | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Going on a date and moneyAsk for ther check. When it comes: "split the bill?" 😏 | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems uninterested then asks why I told her it won’t work outIf she was on her phone constantly when with you you should have checked her ass. That would have avoided this need for a pull back. But now that you're pulling back she wants you. Tell her that it was disrespectful for her to be on the phone and that she's gonna have to make it up to you. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Girls on tinder in their bios who say: Not looking for hookupsSaying im looking for a relationship on tinder is le saying I watch porno for the storytelling | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls name" I'm not throwing it away because (I don't have any self-) respect. " Dude this guy didn't disrespect you, your girlfriend did. She probably already fucked him. Hard next. Game other women. Lift. Read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Hard next after revelation from LTRHow long were you exclusive or gf/bf or whatever? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Still curious about all the monogamous menRight now it makes sense for me. I work 6 days a week 12 hours a day building my business. She's good to me and i'm happy. I don't have time to spin a bunch of plates like i have in the past, but i know i could if i wanted. Neither of us wants more kids (1 each) and neither of us wants marriage. But monogamy makes sense right now for us. However if either one wanted to see someone else we have agreed to be open about it and take it from there | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 09:54 PM |
| 3 | How do I get less nose bleeds? RP told me to only breathe through nose, not mouthI used to have frequent nosebleeds. Mostly in the winter when im going in and out of where the air is cold and dry and where the air is hot and dry from heating. I got a reverse osmosis water filter, a slow speed masticating juicer, started drinking fresh green juice and eating tons of fresh fruit and vegetables. Being hydrated was the key for me. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 09:43 PM |
| 4 | How to prepare yourself to maneuver bad situations when you are in a LTR.she had been initiating contact about 50%, then she stopped for like 10 days... I noticed this and stopped messaging her and she reached out after 2 days and then initiated with double-texts in the following 3 days. Seemed like she was overcompensating and was blaming her shitty mood on her period and being all hormonal. She did monkey branch from her boyfriend at the time (hooked up with me before ending things with him) so i know she's capable. My suspicion is that she had another guy she was … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to prepare yourself to maneuver bad situations when you are in a LTR.how to verify? My LTR has been starting to open up about her feels but only about work mostly. My gut is telling me there's more going on than she's telling me. I don't want to go snooping or anything so I'm trying to think of how i can gather evidence to prove/disprove my theories. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How terrible is this text gameYou're good dude. Keep up the fun and chill vibe, while maintaining the frame that she should be qualifying herself to you and as long as you're walking the wall as well as you talk the talk, you're gonna be smashing it with that chica | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Ex messaged me after 5 years NCThis is the fuckin funniest shit in the thread | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Texting rules for my LtrAh. Yeah shit was easier to not give a fuck when she was a plate among several | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Texting rules for my Ltr1.I work 6 days a week 11 hours a day it took me 2 minutes to do the math. ? Thanks i agree | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Texting rules for my LtrI'm working 6 days a week 11hrs a day and i just got some home exercise equipment. So you think i should just wait her out | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | «I don’t sleep well when i’m sleeping with someone sober» - wtf does this mean? Shit-test?Game other chicks. Lift, read the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | «I don’t sleep well when i’m sleeping with someone sober» - wtf does this mean? Shit-test?You're too outcome dependent on getting to bang her and she's sensing this. If you were a 10 to her and her interest was higher, she'd probably be telling you how much better she sleeps when there's someone next to her | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Leadership and HeightNapoleon | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:31 PM |
| 25 | Should I continue not fapping for like 6 days if I will have sex tomorrow?Save it and blast it all over her face | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Needed a date, asked a girl, but no reaponaeOp did you just hit this girl up out of the blue and go for the kill like- hey wanna go to x? Or did you actually cultivate some interest first? If it was the former- this is possibly the reason for being ignored. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to create true abundance without fucking multiple women?Yes | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 03:04 AM |
| 4 | LTR noticed clearly how much happier I was right after sex -> did I do this right/how to not be needy when horny?Seems like she gave you obligatory/ transactional sex and not validation sex. You don't want her ever to think "well he really seems to need sex so i'll give it to him." You want her to think "omg i need his alpha cock in me!" | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Why spin plates?Helps with Abundance mindset | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Just curious I’m I doing it wrong ?I do not prescribe to the text only for logistics philosophy. When you responded that Night, if she replied to your text within a few minutes you should have replied to her text within 5 to 15 minutes at that point she knows you're playing games. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Got a job and lost it the first dayCan't collect i didn't really have the job | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:42 AM |
| 8 | Got a job and lost it the first dayNo this job would not be exempt from the federal overtime laws. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Got a job and lost it the first dayFederal law | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Women and squirtingWhen a female squirts its made of substances that are also found in urine but it's different in some ways also. Some women squirt without orgasm. Some squirt with orgasm. I think it's reasonable to assume all women can but not all easily can so it's unlikely that all will | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How can I get girls out of my headGet something else in it to replace them | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Plate found another's necklace now it is goneNah they know i'm not exclusive because I've made a point to dangle that carrot for them to chase. No trouble, just expecting her to shit test me about it when she comes over | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 4 | What is the best way to get 6-7/10 women when I am only 5.5/10 myself? Is it bad to only want women above my level?Start by not considering yourself a 5 | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Plate found another's necklace now it is goneLove the creativity but elaborate isn't my style. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | LTR Ended Today Mutually... but wait, there's more.What exactly changes if you find out she cheated? She was never yours, it was just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Insecure about the number of girls I've hooked up with - how to just not worry about it? [21M]I only had sex with 1 girl in college. Got massive oneitis and ended up with her for far far too long. Be excited that you are soooo young and have found the fucking red pill! You're a decade ahead of me! Lift. Approach. Learn. And just have fun! Be amused at everything you do because you are the prize regardless of your body count. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | New Plate does not like to get her ass slappedThis is not advice but an idea. What if you Find ways to degrade her that are far more humiliating and degrading but she lets you do to her even better if she likes it. Then slap her ass and see how she reacts For science | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's better to embrace looking more "intimidating", or trying to go more "pretty boy"?Short hair ftw. The savings on shampoo and conditioner alone... | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Out of the blue, no reply after 24 hours from girl I've been seeing. How to proceed?Her uni stuff was really chad who she is fucking more than 2 times in a month. Get some abundance. Get some other women in your rotation and be on your purpose so you're not so easily available. She knows you're easy so she feels she can flake on you when chad hits her up and you'll still be around to take her ro the beach next week or whenever she wants | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Tinder GirlFirst mistake was texting her back after she gave you excuses 2 times to not make plans. that's where this whole thing should have ended. Girl from tinder agreed to hook up a while back, gave me excuses 2 times we agreed to hang out already. I stopped [contacting her]. Is how this post should go. that said you fucked up bro. Don't talk about bangin it throws the whole plausible deniability out the window. Get your head out of your ass. the medium is the message. https://therationalmale.com/2011/… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Need some helptell her she can see it when she comes over on Xday | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Lied to a girl on tinder bout my dick sizeshe got the joke u in fam | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 01:51 PM |
| 1 | TextingWhy do you want people to have that info | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | TextingTurn off read receipts. Tell her your favorite band is the muppets on Broadway | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | TextingIve had an hb8 incessantly text me 3 times a day some days. When i told her in person it was a little too much and she stopped it was the beginning of the end of that plate. She was an emotional mess anyway. Total spaz. Feel bad for her boyfriend now lol | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:25 PM |
| 6 | i dont know how to escalateStop giving a fuck. Have fun. Instead of seeing a girl and saying oh let me go over and talk to her, say oh let's see how i can fuck with her. Treat her like one of your close guy friends. Touch her if you want to. Don't over think it | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to establish plate after spending night with a girlHow to get over your hesitation Step 1 take her pants off. Step 2 do things to her with your hands and mouth until she's begging for your cock. 3. Take off your pants and Give it to her. It's not that difficult | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How should I respond?My own interpretation- "i'm probably flaking because who the fuck meets at a park? Is there an actual reason for us being in a park together or are you just being creepy?" Don't think there's much you can say but ok i'll hyu later. You're right that unless her interest is high she's going to not initiate. Why didn't you just take her home or ask her to come over to play video games or some shit? I mean you're only 18 she'd understand if you live with parents | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Should you keep a oneitis who dumped you on FB?Unfriending her is a sign of being butthurt. Also weak that you can't control yourself. Don't delete her number either just keep walking | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)Anxiety. Not a sa victim but has some sort of past trauma. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)She has high anxiety. If she's a virgin she might get too attached | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:46 AM |
| 1 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)How tf is wetness an indicator of virginity? Lol | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)How is she a milf if she's a virgin? Lmao But yeah she's cute hb7 | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)Nah she's telling the truth. Sucks because i actually kinda liked her | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Second TextMy text game in a nutshell Build rapport/ comfort - try to use callback humor to remind her of your interaction or at least mention something you learned about her. Break rapport - this can be either a tease, or a statement of disqualification. Build comfort a little - reel it back in just a bit. Don't be overly apologetic but let her know that you're sincere Ask out for x I'm free x and x night this week Logistics only text is bullshit especially if you just met. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Spinning up an old plate that i haven't seen in a yearMan that would be some dark triad shit but I'm not so confident it would work as well as just getting her to come by. I think one of the reasons she ended it was that i didn't give much of a shit and i overplayed that too much | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How wpuld you feel if your girlfriend hung out with her guy friends alone?Oneitis. Read the side bar. Read the rational Male. Start spinning plates. Downgrade this one into a plate or let things end. If you are only seeing one girl, you are her plate | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 01:35 PM |
| 14 | How wpuld you feel if your girlfriend hung out with her guy friends alone?If she's honest about where she is and who she's with and what they are doing there is no deception therefore no cheating. If anything, OP is cheating himself out of his own self respect | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Tinder match wants to "get to know me" before meetingTexting for logistics only is bullshit. Have fun, tease, be playful and fuck the tinder slut. Keep your frame but don't lose the set just for the sake of maintaining frame. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateYeah i agree. I'm thinking about just saying no in a lighthearted way. No way! You think i just send self shots to anyone who asks? Needs refining but that's the idea But im also learning more towards just ignoring it | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateThat sounds cringey af | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateEdit- i said i might be. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateExactly. I'm not against sending pics but when i do it's on my terms for my own reasons | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateHmm maybe she wants me to suggest meeting up again. I could say you'll have something to look at when we meet up next week. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to send a pic but i'll be with another plateWon't be where i said i would be | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 04:55 PM |
| 4 | What changed in her mind? [FR]Gotta build comfort, spike, break rapport, back to comfort and then ask | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What changed in her mind? [FR]Unless you're leaving out texts here's what i see as your problem. You went straight for ther jugular. Build some rapport first via text before asking out. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Just got a girls number and she texts thisCool, me too | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:32 PM |
| 30 | A Short Story on the Importance of Holding FrameWhat you can say with a look, don't say with words. Well done | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 06:20 PM |
| 7 | How to hide love bite on neck?Don't hide it if she asks about it smirk and make a joke about it. Don't admit what it is, don't lie about it either unless with blatant sarcasm. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | "TEXT ME"You validate her texting. I would say that's positive reinforcement and likely help. I used to be this way wher i never compliment but i'm starting to think it's a not terrible way to show intent | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 03:46 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?"In a conversation" More evidence of you're intellectual dishonesty | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 02:20 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Yes. Exactly. You've just proved my point. You clearly are doing some form of calibration before touching and just for the sake of argument you're playing dumb | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 02:12 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Go around randomly touching girls you think are pretty without actually paying attention to her social cues before hand or the social setting and see how many assault accusations you get. Lol | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?I never said don't initiate kino. I said only do so when appropriate ie in a socially Calibrated way Calibration > kino | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it only ever worth involving yourself with women who show enthusiastic interest?It depends. If you've had the plate spinning and you've banged a bunch and she starts to show signs of losing interest, put your energy elsewhere. If she's brand new she might be shit testing you and that could turn out great if you stand your ground. Example- i was talking to this hb8 who, when asked out literally took 24 hours to reply yes. That night we had sex for an hour and a half and a bunch more the following weeks. Undoubtedly the best sex ive ever had. Counter example- I've had one hb8… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:21 AM |
| 0 | 3 nights 3 lays FRmhmm low smv would not bang ever https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/459352653084884992/498984284355428352/unknown.png | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Uncertain whether or not it was just a ONS...No need to hard next. Ie fuck you bitch Just happily fade out if it's not mutual. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl posts kissing photoI don't see why you getting affection from a girl and other people seeing it on social media is a bad thing | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Uncertain whether or not it was just a ONS...First don't sell yourself short- "cute" is code for hot/fuckable. Yes you should game her with no expectation and game other hbs | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?You probably do this and don't even realize or want to admit | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Lol ok you can't argue with logic so you resort to attacking my character. It starts with calibration, then kino, then calibration. You're putting the cart before the horse | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:13 PM |
| 0 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?That's just heavy handed pua over gaming bullshit. You build attraction enough you don't have to initiate physical touch. Learned this from rsd luke and it works. Not saying never initiate. Just that if you're mr sweaty hands and you go up to girls and touch them unexpectedly you're going to get rejected | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 06:08 PM |
| -1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Lol no. My second example clearly shows a scenario where letting her initiate kino is the best option. Had you gone in like a dick on legs touching her just for the sake of herp derp must establish kino, you would have been blown out. You- pressing the gas pedal is the only way to get the car going Me- you have to turn the ignition first | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Dude you calibrate BEFORE you escalate. Sure there are different levels of kino that you can calibrate but going for a touch is highly dependent of the social situation, the girl, etc. Example 1 - super obvious scenario where kino was a greenlight- i picked up a girl who sent me nudes, told me she wanted me to spank her, tie her up, etc. I pick her up and she is touching me already. I put my hand between her legs before we even get half way to our destination, then i immediately break rapport by… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Again if you use kobo without calibration you're fucked. Ergo kino is lower in the hierarchy for cultivating attraction | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Kino is not calibration | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 04:48 PM |
| -4 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Whatever she says you go "Yeah and..." It's an improv technique. Practice this with anything. Get creative. Be fun | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Bullshit. It's calibration. Uncalibrated kino is going to get you in trouble. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | 3 nights 3 lays FRUnderstood. Appreciate ya. Perhaps I do have a bit of an undeserved ego. Many of my peers aren't doing half as good as me despite their higher income and i feel like they kinda look up to me. I'm honestly humbled | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | 3 nights 3 lays FRFair enough. I'm not trying to settle and i acknowledge that i should have higher standards. Ultimately she still derives her value from it. Doesn't mean i can't derive pleasure from banging a milf here and there. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | 3 nights 3 lays FRLol you say that like it's any different than stacie and her used up pussy. AWALT | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | 3 nights 3 lays FRAlso single moms aren't as desperate as 90% of the chodes out there. They probably have more options than you do and many of them aren't, in contrast to popular mgtow extremist beliefs, looking for a replacement dad for their kids. Sure many are looking for that beta bucks subconsciously, but even the ones that are still looking for a good dick to ride. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | 3 nights 3 lays FRI honestly think this whole text like a caveman thing is bullshit. I'm a different person from you. I have different skills and personal values. each girl is different and will end up in someone's bed. Why would i sacrifice the set while acting like someone i'm not, just to maintain a frame of alpha-machismo chadditude? I do yoga and play music and do art and other gay shit. Idgaf eat a dick lol | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:32 PM |
| 0 | 3 nights 3 lays FRHaha i love it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | 3 nights 3 lays FRLooollll | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Does my parents wealth increase my SMV?Stop making bullshit excuses for why you can't get laid. No your parents wealth doesn't really change the fact that you're a sperg. Make your own money and you'll likely get laid but the money and the pussy are just side effects of being a man with purpose and drive. Be proud of your own accomplishments not something you had no part in creating ie daddys money | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Can't get out of interview mode when first meetingMake an observation about the girl instead of asking her. Doesn't matter if you're wrong. You seem like an x type of girl | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | first real highschool party need some helpok here's the deal in my experience - Best to wait for not only multiple indicators of interest (ioi's), but also for HER to initiate physical touching. If she does then feel how that makes you feel, and then return that feeling back to her by touching her, either on the arm, shoulder, leg, neck, head, back, as if to say "that touch you gave me made me feel good, i want you to feel good to." Then, and this is critical, after you escalate, BACK OFF. 2 steps forward one step back. back off, and ch… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How am I not attracting any female attention when I believe I’m doing the best I ever have?Maybe you're ugly. Try smiling | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Can't get out of interview mode when first meetingStop giving a fuck about that getting to know you crap. Learn to talk shit and enjoy saying things for your own personal enjoyment. Make assumptions | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightty. btw i dunno if you recall but girl 1 is the girl from my last post where i got her name wrong and held frame by joking and saying that's your name now | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightthanks for the reply, but as expected, Girl 1 can't do this sunday but offered next sunday as an alternate. I'm not sure if i should say anything about having gone ahead and made plans. Prob just gonna say "that's ok I made some contingency plans for tomorrow. Next Sunday is good" | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightwe in boys | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I next hervirgins aren't special. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightLol girl 3 is coming over in 15 mins and girl 4 is coming over tomorrow night 😂 | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:22 AM |
| 0 | 2 girls 1 nightUhh i just realized your reply makes no sense in the context. My preference is gurl 1. She's more attractive to me and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. I don't even know this second bish at all. She could be boring af. So I don't know what you're really trying to say. If i could i'd schedule with girl 1 but i can't control her. So are you retracting your first comment? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 11:02 PM |
| 3 | 2 girls 1 nightYeah i know that. But how do i communicate to her that I'm not waiting around prior to her letting me know | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightIve already somewhat over texted this one. How would you make her sweaty without being a dick about it? What if she ends up not even being available? I could pre-emptively say i have made plans but i don't think that would be very smooth given the context. If she does end up being available then i get to smoothly tell her ive made plans | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightGood idea. Although i work Monday am and 2 lives pretty far. I could try and swing it | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | 2 girls 1 nightThis doesn't work. I don't have theability to control girl 1s decisions. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 1 | fucking it up but she digs me?I can't wait for this thread to suddenly go quiet when the AFC OP gets rejected and maybe actually learns a lesson. anything you want to get better at you must go through a journey of failures to finally get good. Because when you first start out you are literally the worst you'll ever be. Only when you have enough reference experience will you finally be able to succeed. Reference experiences are always a mixture of failures and successes (mostly failures). What will hold you back is not the fa… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Ignoring girls I'm attracted to qt workLol. Are you projecting? | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring girls I'm attracted to qt workI'm not trying to hook up with coworkers but i do feel like this could be a weak spot for me socially and could spill out into other social situations. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring girls I'm attracted to qt workNo I'm not obsessing over one. And I'm really not gonna try and fuck my co worker. Just don't know where this inhibition comes from | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Called her the wrong name first tinder date FRI decided it was better to not pressure her that night. Update in the OP | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | smoking in front of meI leave | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | What are the top 3 tips, advice or things you learned from TRP?You are the prize. She's not yours, it's just your turn Take action | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I risk updating tinder?self-respect = 0 C'mon man you know the answer to this. If you have pics that will boost your optics on tinder and get you more pussy then why do you care if this one chick is upset. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever acceptable to call out a girl for flakey/unresponsive behaviour?Stop grasping at straws. More sperg thinking from you. Go fuck ten other women | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever acceptable to call out a girl for flakey/unresponsive behaviour?lmao the fact that you've replied to everyone in this thread with the same shit shows your strong desperation for this stupid bitch | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever acceptable to call out a girl for flakey/unresponsive behaviour?workmate bullshit tuesday party is bullshit. she just doesn't want to directly reject you but you've been rejected. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever acceptable to call out a girl for flakey/unresponsive behaviour?next. GFTOW you seem to have oneitis and are acting like a sperg. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever acceptable to call out a girl for flakey/unresponsive behaviour?I usually will say something along the lines of- It seems you're interest has waned. Fair enough. If your interest picks back up feel free to text or call. If not thanks for the fun times. Maybe not the most chad thing to say but whatever. I'm not calling anyone out. Not butthurt. Just saying I'm not putting myself out there anymore for someone who doesn't seem interested in me. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How exactly does one implement the Red Pill lifestyle?https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1et1ob/all_your_life_you_are_told_by_others_what_it/?utm_source=reddit-android | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 05:48 AM |
| 6 | When a girl knows you care?"I'm reconsidering actually" Any girl who asks why do you like me or why do you care is low self esteem and looking for validation to boost her ego. Do not fall for this trap. My response to this is always a decrease in interest for her as in my eyes it shows how pathetic she is. I simply tell her that in as few words as possible. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Can i send someone my pics that i put on tinder and that person can tell me if i am uglyLook up Photofeeler | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to being stood up.More context needed but you being a dick would just come off as butthurt. Don't be butthurt | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:31 AM |
| 5 | i like being "boring" but have trouble holding a conversation and terrified of talking to girlsDude gardening vegetables and salsa music. Sounds interesting to me. Be positive. Talk about the soil you use and why or whatever you want to talk about. You are the prize. You're just afraid to say the wrong thing. Fear of rejection is a guaranteed rejection. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Shit test - Why do u like hanging out with me?imagine if a guy responded the way she just did. she would immediately lose respect and probably quit talking to him | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - Why do u like hanging out with me?Yeah i feel ya. What's more low key than pizza and a movie though lol. I'm hoping that this other chick messages me so i don't have to even consider this crazy | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - Why do u like hanging out with me?I went with this. Her: great ... next morning I'm an extremely anxious person. It's not always easy for me to make decisions or spend time with people. I know u expect me to say yes right away when you ask to hang out...but....anxiety. No excuses I'm just letting u know my struggle | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Shit test - Why do u like hanging out with me?that's what i am thinking, just verbalized. so good. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?You don't have to enjoy the conversation. you have to enjoy THE SEX. she has to enjoy the conversation because she doesn't know she wants to have sex with you. You know you want to have sex with her based on her ass or whatever, she did not know that. She's not thinking in her mind i wanna go fuck this pasty white 330lb man in a target hoody... but we can fuck with darwin and build attraction. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Can NoFap make you less needy with women?I get more needy when i don't fap. Go figure | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Deciphering these texts from past hookup?Possibly she was sending out multiple feelers to different guys and the one with the highest value/ best logistics got her that night. Next | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to be stoic and still give girls stimulating conversations and feels?For the most part, girls have terrible senses of humor. You might have to dumb down a little and learn to laugh about stupid shit. Mostly, you'll be laughing about the fact that she is eating up the garbage that comes out of your mouth, but don't tell her that. Let her think that you're having a great time because that's who you are, when you're really just laughing at her dumb ass. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to rip on yourself whilst using A&A?The rule- don't ever use self deprecating humor is wrong. Only self deprecate from a POSITION OF HIGH STATUS. It shows that you can handle the spotlight gracefully and with humility. This is exactly why stand up comedians use self deprecating humor- they are literally in the spotlight high status on a stage. If you're already low status under no circumstances should you self deprecate. If you're the host of the party and everyone knows who you are and you're at the top of the social pyramid, you… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | She wants moredefinitely not worth a LTR. Worth trying to bang a bunch, but she's not LTR material to me | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Is TRP really that bitter?- " I don't want to game all my life " Dude even when you're married, you're still going to need to be gaming your girl if you want to keep her around. Read The Rational Male or any articles about LTR or marriage game. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | She wants moreMe- You know what i want. same as before. i just want to take it slow have fun and see where it leads us. feel free to call or text me if you want to hang when you get back Her - yeah i understand. I 'm not trying to pressure you or anything. I just wanna protect myself a little more. I want to spend time with someone who wants to spend time with me. I know that sounds vague but it means so much to me. I'll be in touch with you. I'm in X until sunday but then have a few days of freedom. I'm thin… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been Blue Pilled so hard that all this Red Pill stuff seems “fake” and “exaggerated”.Red pill is about how we men treat ourselves, not how we treat women. The number 1 tenant of redpill is that as a man, you are the prize. Never forget this. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 05:01 PM |
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