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First Blue Pill evidence I've seen. I'd like to see more contributions like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 08:19 PM
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If you need the truth bubble wrapped in safe language, are you worthy enough to receive it? TRP community doesn't care if you like them. They don't care if you share their ideas. This isn't a marketing strategy. It's a group of men who need a philosophical guide post after they have been misled into utter dissatisfaction by prevailing femanist/white knight ideologies. Women and their lapdogs don't need to like it. It is our haven away from manipulation, and it can't be stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/14 09:04 PM
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That video though lol. I stopped at the eels. The purpose of that video is the affirmation of the core of Japanese sexual culture. Sex to them is shameful, so shame actually becomes connected to the sexual experience for them. Also, women traditionally play a submissive role in their sexual culture, which is also displayed here. Together these two elements have been intensified to their ultimate realization here. Anyway I think TRP has emotional gravity to it as all gender role debates do. Sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/14 03:54 PM
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Didn't even notice that. Fuckin Neil Strauss
/r/seduction02/02/14 03:03 PM
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I laugh when people say they don't approach. It is like being an exercise scientist that doesn't lift. It's cool that you have all that book knowledge, but if you don't have the physique what the fuck is the point?
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:32 PM
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This really is the most important lesson. Woman destroys AFC, AFC cries and searches for the reason, finds out he is not a man and has zero respect for himself, growth processes begins.
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:25 PM
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Sounds like you're still thinking like an AFC. Google the book of pook and read the whole thing.
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:19 PM
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Confidence is like being muscular but the social brain version. "Getting women is easy bro. Just be muscular and shit!" They ain't wrong, but they ain't helping shit either. How do you get muscles? Not on YouTube or reddit. Successful people can be cool to listen to, but don't fool yourself into thinking you're now a hero just because you found one. There is only one way to get it in the warm hole boys, and that's walking up to the femme beasts and being a man. You can also rape them, but that i…
/r/seduction28/01/14 11:11 PM
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If you want to walk, make sure you are not crippled as fuck first!
/r/seduction28/01/14 10:55 PM
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When a girl rejects you for not being up to par you should respect her good taste. ;)
/r/seduction28/01/14 10:49 PM
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If that's what makes them happy, so be it. RP is for men who find themselves wanting more dominance in their sexual lives in contrast to the common sentiment of "supplication will lead to fornication"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/14 09:28 PM
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In a sexual context, everyone exists on a spectrum of masculinity and femininity. Men can be feminine, and women masculine. There is much variance in behavior depending on where you fall in this scale. Culture and upbringing heavily influence our sexuality, but not completely. The same goes with Biology and hormonal health. I believe that an effeminate man can be satisfied being dominated by a masculine female or homosexual. This does not change the basic dynamics of sexual relationships though:…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/14 09:14 PM
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It'd be more healthy to just laugh at the stereotype and move on with your day. Gender roles do exist, as do racial differences. ~90% of asians are lactose intolerant. Men have more testosterone than females. Testosterone effects behavior. Etc etc. There are both gender and racial realities, but there have been troubles in the past where people attribute too much gravity to their relevance and social segregation occurs. Modern culture has responded by trying to say that there are no differences,…
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:48 PM
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Here's man thinking when it comes to sex. Man see curve. Curve look nice. Curve have valley. Valley have hole. What man do to feel nice curve valley? The Game
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:34 PM
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I completely disagree that any of this is offensive. How can a stable human being be genuinely offended by the words of a random stranger posted on the internet? I'd say she is pretty spot on in her analysis of gender relations.
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:27 PM
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I've been cold approached by women at the gym multiple times
/r/seduction19/01/14 04:22 PM
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You'd be surprised at what a rotten and desperate place a lot of people find themselves in. It's good that you don't need the pep talk, there are many that do though.
/r/seduction09/01/14 04:06 PM
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Your user name is reward enough
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:59 PM
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I'm 29 and have an 18 year old texting me daily. Zero fucks given.
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:00 AM
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One of his best videos.
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:57 AM
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The way you were "trying" was probably wrong. If you chase too much you become boring, and appear as low value. In seduction you need to take strategic steps back in order to create intrigue. Take ownership of the strategy, and do not feel contempt for women when they fall for it; it is human nature. Basic push-pull technique. Here's a sample: "BrotherhoodOfTheWolf (great movie btw), I want to go to the mall with you on Saturday." "Nah, your style is too whack, I can't be seen with you." "Oh c'm…
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:51 AM
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Sexual market value (SMV) You are proven to be a worthwhile man because you are taken. This raises your sexual value.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:54 AM
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I've been messing with Ross Jeffries' energy transmutation stuff. It's awesome. Teaches you how to take whatever form of energy that you experience and change it into the type you want.
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:18 PM
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If he's 35 and doesn't understand "dick goes in hole" yet, fuck him. You seem to have an overinvestment , oneitis crush on him. Standard rules apply: go meet 5 new men and forget about it. You are the abundance gender, it will be easy. Just have self respect (no one wants to be the shitty lock), and screen your prospective men better before you invest in them.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 06:54 PM
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I was going to say a humbling trip.into the wall will set her straight, but it looks like that has already happened.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 06:31 PM
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I actually feel bad for these chicks. Society tells them this is the thing to do: YOLO without giving a single fuck. Then FWHAP! The wall. They are fucked, with nothing but a future of misery ahead of themselves. This is what happens when you get weak beta fathers supplicating to their little princess' every desire. Delusional entitlement to the extreme without an ounce of discipline or self respect. The general sentiment seems to be let them burn and warm yourself by the fire of their agony, bu…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:50 PM
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Doesn't matter. Had sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 10:33 PM
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Good thoughts man
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:26 PM
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MGTOW is short for quitter
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:16 PM
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I've always been confused when a chick talks like this. Is she sending an invitation or telling a story? Only one way to find out!
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:11 PM
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In my smaller city it has almost no attractive women on it. Better to just blunt force approach to kill approach anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:06 PM
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The upside to failure is confirming what doesn't work, and selecting an enlightened path of action for the future.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 01:51 AM
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You are misunderstanding the concept. Your frame is yours, and it is comprised of what you want it to be. Do not include behaviors and attitudes in it that you are not congruent with.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 01:15 AM
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This shit is complicated. Only you know the real details. I would agree with her and push her away with class. I am just as happy as an individual as I am with her pussy, and if our attraction is dead, I don't need its corpse stinking up my life space. If the attraction is dead, the death is a real one. There is no resurrecting that shit. That being said it could all be one elaborate shit test push from her trying to get you to grovel and commit to her. I think you've been here long enough to kn…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 07:15 PM
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Sounds like you talked feelings to much and destroyed her attraction for you. You say you swallowed the pill, but there's more work you gotta do. This shit has to be maintained. It isn't a one time dose miracle cure.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 05:17 PM
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Nobody can change what I think about myself. I refuse to internalize femanist behavioral guilt trips. I refuse to think of myself as disposable. I will opt out of marriage, as to not make myself vulnerable to legal sabotage. We can take a position of cynicism, and lull ourselves into an apathetic haze by believing that nature cannot be conquered. But look around our society, it already has been in many ways. As technology has scientists, culture also has its engineers. That's what TRP is. A type…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 10:09 PM
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That's good. I'd like to see the other pillar of sexual strategy in there too: frame control.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:58 PM
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Awesome. I'm somewhat new and whenever I'm dealing with women I've been exclusively focusing on holding frame and passing shit tests. Good to hear I'm on the right track.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:52 PM
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I've always been seduced by push-pull tactics. She gets you interested, flirts a bit, pushes you away some how, comes back twice as hard, pushes again. Builds huge tension and makes it way more challenging. The release of frustration when you finally pin her down and fuck her despite all her bullshit is transcendent.
/r/seduction21/12/13 05:44 AM
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Any form of knowledge is a journey. Some days it will exhaust you, but you will wake up the next day thirsty for more. You are weak now, but that is not your fate. I just pulled my first 4 plate deadlift today. If I tried that my first day in the gym I would die. I have faith that good people would stop me from trying it. That's what we are here for. Don't try and pick up concepts that are too heavy for your current mental strength. Just put them down for a bit bro, before you injure your life. …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 08:53 PM
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Yea I actually think it just doesn't exist for me lol
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 08:28 PM
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Thanks for putting this into words. Since I've started reading RP material the cartoonization of females has been bothering me. If they are really as horrible as some people make them out to be, then they would not be worth considering any more than the dirt beneath my boots. This is not the case though. The truth is that women have the ultimate package to offer to men. They challenge him to better himself. They challenge him to not be weak and needy. The sex, the constant entertainment, the imp…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:23 PM
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That's a good point. Come to think of it, does real love actually exist? Or is it all just temporary infatuation. I have no ill feelings towards my family, but if they died I would move on pretty easily (not married, talking about ma pa etc.)
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:05 PM
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I just start playing the rule breaking game. I progressively break my own small rules until I'm having a good time. Then I start breaking other people's rules, so they start having a good time. Then I start breaking the bar's rules and wake up with boot prints on my neck.
/r/seduction19/12/13 01:09 AM
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That was great. Non-needy. Just holding his frame and upping the sexual tension.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:28 PM
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It is a matter of preference. Once you understand the true nature of women you get to decide whether you like them or not. I personally find them amusing. I've been playing a game with them lately called feeding the hamster, where I make a woman in a relationship desire me, then lead her along the path of rationalizations that she begins to create to break up with her boyfriend. I don't judge women for being how they are, because I am exponentially more of a twisted degenerate than they are. Unl…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:35 AM
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Reading it right now; 48 Laws and Mastery are mind benders.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 04:24 AM
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I've been having the opposite problem: I'm too much of a prick. Women get all interested in me to the point of desperate behavior, I continue to not give a shit, and they eventually just give up. Trying to work on it, but it's a problem that is not covered in any of the info I've read.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:51 PM
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*male
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:46 PM
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The rational gentleman
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:32 PM
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A further thought to consider about women is that they are effected just as much as we are by this flawed sexual culture. It will be interesting to see how female culture responds if red pill thinking becomes main stream amongst males. Whether it will be better or worse is to be seen, but as it stands right now men are not going to tolerate the current paradigm for much longer (I hope).
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:19 PM
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Yea man don't try to explain this shit to them. It's like how men are just naturally double the physical strength of women; they have it twice as easy getting sex. No need to complain about it to them, just deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:09 PM
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Spot on good chap
/r/seduction15/12/13 05:43 PM
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I'm in a leadership position as well. With entry level employees, just next the fuck out of them, they are a dime a dozen. I don't really get tested anymore though. After eliminating all cancer without hesitation, the survivors felt validated that their good behavior was rewarded by my decisive action against the trash bags that were making their jobs harder. Just respect and smooth operation is all that we deal in now.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 02:56 AM
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Holy fuck that comments section. She is getting obliterated.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 04:46 AM
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Cold approach is tough for me, as I don't have any genuine interest in random strangers. I'll talk to the odd alpha male, because they're interesting and have a lot to say. RP has helped big time with women that I already know, but a man needs more than 2 plates to eat off in a week. Have to find a way to interest myself in the cold approach game.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:29 AM
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I would rather be the father of my own personal growth rather than have it retarded by the time apocalypse that is family life. I have years of learning and growth to do before I feel I can contribute to the modern societal cannon; to put my journey aside would be the ultimate disservice to myself. I will be the father of ideas and actions that will be effective on a scale equal to my devotion to my craft. To devote my time to the menial needs of an infant and mother would be a waste. Am I delus…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:26 PM
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Female anger is hilarious. Just another opportunity to piss on their shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:33 PM
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What do we care if soft people have trouble putting aside their own need to be coddled to the point of not being able to listen to the truth? This is not a marketing campaign. We are not running for office. Here is what we think. If you don't like it, that doesn't stop me from thinking it. Hell even if you do like it, what difference does that make to my life? I am here for ideas. Any talk of feelings, togetherness, community, and wanting to please with a positive social front goes against the s…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:23 AM
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A downvote from a fool is more satisfying than an upvote from a genius
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:07 AM
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Holding frame when confronting people is of the utmost importance. Read that shit!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:57 AM
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tldr Talks about his various old ideologies, how they destroyed his sexual life, and his eventual salvation through various RP information sources.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:52 AM
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eighty twenty rule
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:32 AM
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When you understand that nobody knows anything about you in new situations, it really gives you a lot of freedom to fuck around. I would sometimes invent characters with accents and different interests than myself when I went to the bar as a young man. I was so confused at the positive reactions that I would get from men and women. I was completely lying through my teeth, and inventing stories about my "life" out of thin air. I realize now that pretending actually gave me a strong frame, because…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:29 AM
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It's crazy when I go to the gym with women. You can tell who isn't getting any, because I draw all these "wtf" looks from guys who are in way better shape than me. The gym only gets you a quarter of the way there, and too many people think that it'll take you all the way.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:23 AM
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http://www.datfeel.com/drupal/sites/default/files/styles/large/public/field/image/zyzz_feel.jpg?itok=2e1HHbAw
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:14 AM
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dear god...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:11 AM
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Slap the coin out of the air and go in.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:10 AM
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I was bitter before I found this sub. I didn't understand wtf was wrong with my approach, and it was making me think way less of myself. Our culture dangles beautiful women in front of our faces, and trains us to utterly repel them with pathetic beta courtship techniques. Big business whispers in our ears that their snake oil products are the answer to our frusrations. Get the BMW, the college education, the money, the house, only to find yourself with a legacy of debt slavery. Don't worry thoug…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 06:24 PM
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Being a recovering beta, their pathetic behavior disgusts me uncontrollably now. Sure women are heartless and whatever, but at least they're getting what they want out of life. As a beta, you connive, plot, and slave your way into getting absolutely nothing, and you waste your time and money to boot. The worst part is they believe that their bullshit is actually going to pay off one day, and keep trying the same ineffective shit over and over again, until bitter dissatisfaction drives them into …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:44 AM
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Your non monogamous approach actually makes your SMV skyrocket in her mind, but I'm sure you know this. Let her justify her way right into your bed. Don't step on the hamster.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 03:07 AM
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I feel that my legacy is to pick up at the point where my parents gave up on themselves, and keep going forward. I will not allow myself to suffer their fate. My life's goal is to redeem my gene pool.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 03:27 AM
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It's easy to tell when a girl is into you, and hard to admit when she's not. Be honest with yourself. You are probably in the friend zone, and the only way out is the door. You can try and escalate, crash and burn or succeed (both are a success), and quit wasting your time on her if she isn't into it.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:03 AM
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I lost every ounce of my anger when I nexted every parasitic girl from my beta life, met new ones and proceeded to curb stomp their shit tests to their utter dismay and joy. My anger was rooted in my frustration of not being able to figure out what I was doing wrong. It's allll good now.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 07:26 PM
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I make a game of breaking my own rules until I run into hers, then I break those as well.
/r/askTRP07/12/13 05:07 AM
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I thought I would have to comment, but TheKount laid down my truths for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 04:53 AM
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Simple, easy to read advice. This would be a great post to point new people at.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 09:41 PM
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The basic mistake is asking these retards for relationship advice in the first place. All these subreddits are a joke, populated by mediocre minds, regurgitating knee jerk reactions to shit they have no business giving advice about. It sickens me to think that if I didn't find this sub I might have been nodding along right next to these mindless bobble heads.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:21 PM
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Golden
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 08:15 PM
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Women are so see through once you understand the shit-test model. It's crazy.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:11 PM
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Well said. The opinions of amateurs should not even be considered when deciding if you are successful or not. Rely on your own vision, and model yourself after great people. The rest are just chaff.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:08 PM
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I've heard this too, but it doesn't really matter. If I come across an idea and it seems to describe an issue I'm thinking about in real life, I'll give it a chance. As far as my experience with the super-ego, it is not the conscience per say, as that mechanism seems to provide more true benefits to my life than what I am experiencing here. Rather I should call it the faulty super-ego, where I have internalized rules that should not actually be followed. An example of this is that I should not a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:58 PM
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Interesting is an understatement. The conclusion of that article pretty much damns the entirety of western thinking when it comes to relationships and marriage. And I completely agree with them.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 02:07 AM
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The difficulties of the game match the inherent capacities of the corresponding sexes. You have to earn your place amongst the ranks of great men. This is why the game is great. It filters out the weak of will, the uncommitted, the impatient. It isn't just sex we are competing for, but to fulfil our role as productive members of the species.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 01:52 AM
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It is generally socially unacceptable and rude to not acknowledge someone when they speak to you. Women are extremely socially based in their functioning, and understand this rule. It's safe to conclude that if you approach them in a way where it would be rude for them not to respond to you, that they will give you a chance. Once you have opened, the rest is game.
/r/askTRP04/12/13 07:28 PM
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He's totally correct. You have to refeed at least once per week or you will have no energy.
/r/askTRP04/12/13 07:08 PM
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I just had a funny thought for the boyfriend shit test. What if you just started moving in on her slowly while asking generic questions about him. Like move to an inch from her face and say, "Oh yea... What's his favorite food?" As she answers, touch cheeks and talk into her ear, "Uh huh. Where's he from?" The agree and escalate.
/r/askTRP04/12/13 07:00 PM
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You said it all man
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:28 PM
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Spot on. Both these people are so sad and insecure.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:09 PM
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It is when a female is trying to determine how easily she can dominate the will of a man, if at all. A tell-tale sign of this is when she asks you to do her a simple favor that she could easily do herself, but is too lazy to. If you comply, you have bent to her will, lowering your status in her subconscious, making you less attractive. Win this game by saying No.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 12:50 AM
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Have women become so devoid of responsibility in our society that it becomes our social duty to not fuck them when they want us to? That is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:38 PM
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Social stigma and pressures. In our culture, dominant male behavior is often stigmatized, even though it is attractive on a base level, women are sometimes sold on the idea of moving on to a more supplicant male. Femanism is a double edged sword. For every male victim that gets cut down by it, there is a hapless female who disembowels her own, or the sex life of another by not wielding it properly. The ensuing self sabotage leaves the female in a societally approved relationship that is hollow a…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 11:57 AM
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Manager here. The better you are at this job, the less you have to do. High demand, low education, and won't destroy your body. If you're good at confrontation, multi-tasking, and can easily cope with pressure, I'd highly recommend.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 04:57 AM
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Nice. Spot on about failing with a woman is a personal failure. Little boys will cry and blame them, it takes a man to realize his failures and correct his behavior.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:31 PM
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In hindsight their constant arguing and violence has endowed me with a cynical outlook towards relationships and human beings. Whenever anyone tries to escalate with me, whether it is towards friendship or romance, I become disgusted. It was not the divorce itself, that was when things became good again, but living in the caustic environment that led up to it that changed me for life. My mother's constant drinking and self pity, meanwhile, she would often create the drama just to amuse herself. …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 04:11 PM
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Video games contribute nothing to my life, so I cut them out. This is coming from someone who wasted the better part of 10 years playing them online. If I could send a bitchslap back in time I would. Also quit watching shows, and rarely watch movies. Passive entertainment just has zero appeal. If I'm not learning something it's not worth my time.
/r/seduction01/12/13 03:46 PM
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Delete Facebook. Profit
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 02:18 PM
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You're wasting too much time getting to know them, and too little fucking them. Escalate quicker, send them home, and enjoy the rest of your day.
/r/seduction30/11/13 05:29 AM
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It is all just words, doesn't matter what you call it. The basic idea is that our current culture has a way of subtly demonizing masculine behavior, while providing very few credible sources for us to educate ourselves on how to get what we want. We are left with a generation of culturally castrated males being cluelessly pecked apart by corporate vultures that have them convinced that money and cars are the magic ticket to model's vaginas. Whatever hollow husk that is left is pushed off to the …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 07:56 PM
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News flash: every 9 on the planet is going to have at least 5 cocks vying for her hole, and at least one that she's consistently getting it from when you meet her.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 07:40 PM
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I'm in the process of seducing some beta's girlfriend. She was rubbing my leg, while on the phone with him, making plans with me out loud to meet up the next day. I don't even feel bad. I'm providing him with a service. I hack into his game, exposing his weaknesses. It's up to him to learn the lessons I am teaching.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 07:33 PM
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Women are whores, why is anyone surprised? So are men. How many monogamy failure stories is it going to take before we as a culture get over this shit?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:50 PM
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Cheers boys. Rings are for dogs and slave's necks. I'll be damned if I'm gonna shell out 20k+ to hold a ceremony that celebrates the death of my freedom.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:41 PM
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I like these reports of bitchy wives being disarmed and pounded
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:36 PM
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I'm not a smiler either, fuck that shit. I smirk when I am amused or flirting. So I would expand this point into master a self amusement frame, and hold it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 11:31 PM
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The thing about Freud is that he was not afraid to engage in the creative process. This is a great quality to have as a pioneer in the field, but a lot of his ideas were not developed as well as they should have been to be considered science. To offer a counter point, quantum physics is far more bizzare than Freud's theories, but physics does not engage with our sexuality, so there is far less discomfort involved in thinking about it. Don't dismiss an idea just because it strikes you as bizzare,…
/r/seduction24/11/13 05:26 PM
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Everything happens like magic once you get your shit in order. Aesthetics, inner game, outer game, ignore shit tests, close with violence.
/r/seduction22/11/13 06:19 PM
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Try dating young women during the 90ies and you'd be wailing in agony for a return to modern pop
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 01:56 AM
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I actually laughed at the last shit test I got. Was teasing some Muslim girl at work about how she needs to dress in booth shorts to spice up the place. She broke out into this rant about how I should respect her and shit. I told her if you truly deserve respect, you shouldn't have to ask for it, as I laughed and walked away. It's so refreshing to be free of people's controlling bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:58 PM
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Intentional frame breaks to fuck with people? Some next level shit there.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:53 PM
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Keep going forward every day, you will get there. Getting field experience and seeing how accurately the theory represented reality put things together for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:52 PM
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That is a great way of describing niceguyitis
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:43 PM
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I need some fucking mind bleach after reading that shit
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 10:48 PM
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Create your own social reality. Be strong enough to withstand the criticism of others, or your freedom will be manipulated away by them. Family members, friends, and strangers all are trying to project their realities on others. There is no reason to accept any of their ideas unless you agree with them. As for what to say to them, that is up to you. You understand your lifestyle, and there are far more positive aspects to living it than other people can understand from inside their committed rel…
/r/seduction18/11/13 07:40 PM
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Point 24 is seduction in a nutshell. Push-pull is so effective.
/r/seduction17/11/13 08:51 PM
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Pretty much this sub is just another tool for procrastination. It is also a good primer for beginners though. I'm assuming that most of the content here is just being forwarded by beginners, because the guys who are more advanced are out in the field getting results. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be spending my time reading this shit.
/r/seduction05/11/13 03:38 PM
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Living abundance baby!
/r/seduction01/11/13 04:58 AM
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I will never be 100% anxiety free, but I am able to effectively deal with it when it comes now. I was introduced to the concept of mindfulness 2 years ago, but the habits did not stick with me at first. It took a few different approaches at it, and I had to read varying perspectives before I could effectively apply the technique to my life. There were and are still many other little neurotic problems that I have to fix up before I consider myself to be an emotionally functional and happy person,…
/r/seduction01/11/13 04:08 AM
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For practice and social momentum. Even if a girl is not a complete bombshell, they have a lot of networking value beyond sex. I usually take a girl back to her place, then just chill out for a bit and leave, just to get practice from open-close. I'm at the point where I need to start gaming women I actually find attractive though. Exciting and scary :o As for that girl, I ran over a guy that had already been hit by a drunk driver, and she texted as I was sitting in my car waiting for the police …
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:55 PM
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I've actually been struggling with this as well. Girls who actually turn me on are so far between, but when they do, it's like I've been lit on fire. I think I just need to give more women a chance. I'm relying too heavily on visual stimulation to get me aroused, when there are many other ways to get there. Emotional connection is huge for me, almost more of a factor than physical, but its tough to get this without missing escalation windows, and getting friend zoned. Happened with my last inter…
/r/seduction30/10/13 06:50 PM
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/r/malefashionadvice Learn about this shit. It's an absolute game changer.
/r/seduction30/10/13 06:31 PM
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Too true. I know a guy who sleeps on a dirty, unsheeted mattress, has the worst person hygiene I've seen, and nothing going for him in life besides his verbal game and music. He routinely is banging 7s and 8s. Game is everything.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:58 PM
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Simple, but good. I like it.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:53 PM
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You need to work on your inner game or this will always be a problem. I used to have anxiety/depression issues, and heavy weight lifting helped get rid of them. Mindfulness practice was the finishing touch that got me out of it. Pretty much the past and future are all in your imagination, and thinking about them creates anxiety. I practice focusing on what is real, which is the present moment. This has helped me realize that my fears and anxieties are a creation of my mind, and life is simple. I…
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:49 PM
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Haha. I sometimes get surprised when I'm not rejected and go oh shit i didn't plan for this.
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:41 PM
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Day game opening, and general conversation skills. Practicing on ugly people and acquaintances at work until I figure it out lol.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:45 AM
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Don't judge yourself so harshly. Do you hate yourself for momentarily veering into the other lane while you are driving? Fuck no. You go, "Oops", and slightly correct your steering to straighten yourself out.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:43 AM
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Nah freeze her out. If she contacts you, then proceed. In the mean time, go meet more girls. There are thousands out there.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:38 AM
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I think both sexes like the push-pull dynamic. It is challenging, and keeps us guessing. If either side is too eager it ruins the delicious tension of the seduction game. I want to go home and think of how I can get her alone, what I'm going to say, where I can pull her to. It's really a form of entertainment, and I'm not interested in playing the game on easy mode.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:11 AM
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Men also underestimate how much work women put into looking attractive as well. Think that shit is easy? The average woman has better fashion sense than 99% of chodes out there, and spends hours on skin care and makeup every day. Not to mention the studying of videos about fashion and makeup styles. To say that women don't have to put any effort in is ignorance to the point of hilarity.
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:05 AM
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You can always play catch and release more often, and only bang girls you consider excellent quality.
/r/seduction29/10/13 11:35 PM
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Nice. It's so true how this works. Today a very beautiful asian girl was flirting with me, but internally I was like, "Ehh I don't know you, nor am I in the mood for this." It's very strange, because in the right context I would be tripping over my erection to talk to this girl, but right then it just wasn't correct. This is why it is so easy to pick up in a club compared to other situations: context. You are there to meet strangers, and let them in your comfort zone. I've invited women to grab …
/r/seduction29/10/13 11:26 PM
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Nah man I love when people are real with me. I really wish I'd handled my shit the right way, you know. I met her at a bad time, before I had started getting my inner game together. Things are much better now, but I've made a lot of mistakes on the way.
/r/seduction29/10/13 07:01 AM
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You just consider practicing a success until you become good, and realize that nobody owes you her vagina until you earn it.
/r/seduction29/10/13 05:41 AM
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There you go man. Sounds like you have a little anxiety over escalation. Just make some strong eye contact, smile naturally, and escalate. It is supposed to be exciting, don't let that stop you from doing it.
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:27 PM
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There are many women like her. If a girl is asking about your sex life or dating situation, she wants the D. Pretty standard stuff.
/r/seduction28/10/13 05:36 PM
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People tend to forget these basics and get too caught up in their feelings. Good post.
/r/seduction28/10/13 07:28 AM
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I wouldn't be so outcome dependent, sometimes you meet people in life that are lame. Just accept it for what it is and create your own enjoyment. Usually in those situations I just start pounding whiskey and upping my jackassery until everyone is having fun or they are vastly offended. Either way I'm laughin.
/r/seduction27/10/13 06:51 PM
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When you are kissing you are executing a movement. When you are jerking off do you worry about your feelings and thoughts? Fuck no. You are performing a mechanical action designed to induce pleasure, nothing more. Do what pleases you, and she will be pleased. I bite their lip, grab their ass, press myself against them, then push them away a bit, because that's what I find fun. If your feelings are getting the best of you, work on your inner game more.
/r/seduction27/10/13 06:48 PM
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The value of the night is not with the people you've met, it's with the experience you've gained. Just throw out this contact and go out and do it again.
/r/seduction27/10/13 06:43 PM
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Opening is opening, but this can be done better.
/r/seduction27/10/13 06:39 PM
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You're onto the right idea: Mind-state. You are trying to run before you have learned the steps. Your base should be a solid mental state on which you can stand, before you try and seriously pick up. This base should include: freedom from outcome, the ability to self amuse, solid confidence work, and a comfort with interacting on a sexual level/escalation. You will be a natural at some of these skills, and will have to work on others. My list is by no means comprehensive, but just a small sampli…
/r/seduction26/10/13 06:39 AM
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Live in the moment, fuck the past. Being stuck in this mentality will destroy your game. Focus on the basics, not what can go wrong.
/r/seduction26/10/13 06:25 AM
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J needs that fucking pain, he will learn.
/r/seduction26/10/13 06:23 AM
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Thanks JayG, I'm going to make this one of my self-improvement focuses for sure.
/r/seduction26/10/13 01:30 AM
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Keep her around. She obviously likes you and can probably network you into some good girls.
/r/seduction24/10/13 07:20 PM
2

Shouldn't you tell them to work on confidence instead of eye contact? Cause instead of symptom.
/r/seduction23/10/13 09:58 PM
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One step at a time man, keep at it, you'll get there. You should look up RSD's stuff about self amusement, might be helpful in escaping your need for approval. Julien has the best videos on the subject, because he is the king of it.
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:27 AM
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Apathy is like an indirect way of faking outcome independence without actually understanding what you're doing. The problem is, like all cheap fixes, is that it has numerous drawbacks: -Can make you too aloof, thus not showing any romantic interest, and getting auto-rejected. -As a life philosophy, it can make you unmotivated and boring. -It puts you out of touch with your emotions, which are a requirement to executing self-amusement, and higher level game. I should know, I am a recovering apath…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:22 AM
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I try to hover in a buzzed state. Start of with rye and coke for the energy, switch to light beer or plain coke to pace yourself when you're getting too drunk.
/r/seduction22/10/13 03:49 AM
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Yeah if a girl is mentioning sex to you, she is thinking about sex with you. Just keep pushing. They think you're going to judge them or get bored if they give it up too easy. Don't fall for it, and don't quit until she gives you a serious no.
/r/seduction22/10/13 03:47 AM
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Speak to stimulate. You know that thing in your head that you're scared to say? Say that shit.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:53 PM
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It's a matter of looking at yourself and asking, "What do I think is awesome?" What is gonna give you a thrill when you are in a social situation? What is interesting to do? That's all that this guy is doing; he has a good mind, and knows what he finds interesting. He is amusing himself. The only person's taste you can know 100% is your own. Trust that taste. Do things you think are funny. Say things that you think are sexy. Put yourself out there, and laugh in the face of any awkwardness or rej…
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:41 PM
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Usually guys who do this are super insecure, and are lashing out to try and steal your girl or your vibe to make themselves feel cool. Just see them as the sad, underdeveloped children that they are, and don't let them piss on your vibe.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:34 PM
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Nice haha. I noticed this at the bar last night. I was opening on a fat girl just to have some fun and warm up, she was very friendly and open to conversation. Somehow a random hot babe got thrown into us in line and she just seemed so fucking angry at everything. I just looked at her and said, "Man, some women are just fucking cold in this place. You must be so sick of men trying to pick you up." It was just a funny idea that I had to share with her. I wasn't even trying to make a move, cause I…
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:34 PM
1

That was one of the longest posts I've read on seddit, and it was like reading a short paragraph. So many good insights, and honest examples. I am exactly like you. The girl who took my virginity, we had sex twice, than I Took a girl's virginity and we had sex a few times, then after school it has been a barren abyss. I feel like I'm on your path and am ready to take the next step. I've improved my appearance vastly, but am still kind of figuring out who I am. I'd say I'm a zen bodybuilder at th…
/r/seduction19/10/13 03:02 AM
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I'm 29. It does not get any easier. It's like sitting alone, trying to ride a bike with your imagination, and wondering why you can't do it. Girls are fucking begging me with their eyes to man up and make it happen, I just haven't been able to find it in myself to do it. Whenever I've tried, they say I'm a fucking creep, when I don't they get disappointed and lose interest. I'm in a catch 22 that I haven't been able to get out of yet. Sorry for the rant just getting frustrated.
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:25 AM
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My biggest regret so far in life is waiting until I am 29 to finally straighten this out. BY FARRRR.
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:18 AM
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Yea dude I'm 5'11, 185lbs, shredded, and haven't been laid in 12 yrs lol. Looks help me open for sure, but I haven't been able to close at all. To be fair thought I just got in shape this year.
/r/seduction17/10/13 03:41 AM
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Seems like it went fine. You held frame, passed her tests, and she feels comfortable with you. Some girls are just more cautious than others, either way just enjoy your time with them, and don't sweat the outcome.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:49 PM
2

Quit over thinking it. Just assume whatever you choose to do is awesome, and self amuse.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:40 PM
1

Any good link I click on has either Tyler's or Julien's face on the other end of it. Fucking love these guys.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:35 PM
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RSD Tyler is a scrawny, balding, ginger with an admittedly small penis, and he is one of the greatest minds in pickup today. No one is un-salvageable, but you have to realize transformation isn't easy like rolling a new avatar, this is the real world.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:34 PM
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Good for you man. Life is awesome once you break out of the rut. Enjoy!
/r/seduction16/10/13 03:18 PM
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I've found this too. My mind baited me out of my rut by using women as the cheese, but now that I'm on my journey, I've realized how many other things I was missing out on. I have this girl in my life, she is my 10 pretty much, who rejected me about 6 months ago. When she did this it really propelled me into improving myself. She still texts for favors, and we spend time together. I don't even mind that we aren't having sex, because she really motivates me every time that I see her. I realized t…
/r/seduction15/10/13 01:14 AM
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At 27 you're just entering your prime
/r/seduction14/10/13 07:02 AM
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I find nofap gets me too sexually frustrated to relax around women I want to bang.
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:59 PM
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High standards are good. Just make sure you meet these standards yourself, or fuck off.
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:58 PM
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I dunno about this. Sometimes it's slower to go from friendship to sexual, but the relationship can be a lot more intense. If you want sex now, or just have no patience, by all means start the dial at 10. To say it's not possible is nuts. To say it is more difficult, is true.
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:56 PM
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Right now is an opportunity for you to be persistent in going after what you want. No one here can tell you what the problem is, but you're not going to fix anything by quitting. The only time I stop with a girl is when she tells me no straight up. The only time I'm going to stop improving is when life tells me no through death.
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:24 PM
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I'm actually not a huge mouth smile-er, so I tend to do verrrry small smirks. My eyes are the main vehicle for my expression (don't wear glasses if you're the same as me). Whenever I catch myself really laughing at something by myself, I try to capture the feeling from the perspective of the controller. When I need to use an expression, I just recount from memory what to do. That being said, if a conversation with someone is not giving me genuine enjoyment, I will discontinue it. I'm not out to …
/r/seduction07/10/13 11:41 PM
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Mental state control. Learn it. It will change your life.
/r/seduction07/10/13 11:33 PM
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Entertain yourself and she'll come along for the ride
/r/seduction07/10/13 10:58 PM
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Upvote for Kevin O'Leary reference lol
/r/seduction06/10/13 06:54 PM
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Hah I've watched this video twice before. Really helps a lot especially for new guys. Whenever you're burning over that one girl, use that energy to propel you to meet new ones. Choose the qualities that you like about her and look for them in another person. She isn't that rare. I did this with my oneitis crush, and was amazed at how many girls like that were out there. Look at her patterns. Where does she like to go? Go to those places and girls exactly like her will be there too. Find her rep…
/r/seduction06/10/13 06:49 PM
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Pretty simple. If you're not hungry, don't eat, but that doesn't mean you should forget how to cook. Maintain yourself until the time is right.
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:57 PM
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If you can't talk to them, how on earth you gonna fuck them? Talking is the simple part, just realize you have a long way to go and start by saying hello, without putting too much pressure on yourself for results. If she says hi back, you should consider that a success, and move forward in your journey from there.
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:49 PM
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Even if you don't hit it off in a sexual way, she sounds like a confident and interesting person to be friends with.
/r/seduction29/09/13 06:33 PM
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This whole exchange makes kind of nauseates me. How backwards and damaged are our courtship rituals in this society? I don't blame you for it, you're just playing the game, but it's just kind of sad that honest, straight forward behavior yields bad results, while two-faced manipulation is effective.
/r/seduction17/09/13 06:28 PM
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I've completely stopped pursuing all romantic interests, as I find myself to be a despicable creature that must abstain from all forms of fornication, so not to risk the accidental perpetuation of my disgusting genome, but I still find this article comforting, in that I am not alone in my suffering. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/09/13 07:08 AM
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Thanks Nick. I dress well, am in great shape, talk to plenty of women, and haven't had sex in ten years. It doesn't bother me anymore, since I'm pretty satisfied with myself now, but your article reminded me that I could have it at any moment if I just man up and take the prize.
/r/seduction27/06/13 04:14 PM
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Who cares about monogamy anyway? Just let it go. If we are all so open minded about females fucking whoever they want regardless of their situation, why are we so close minded to the possibility that monogamy is bullshit? Oh yeah because when she cheats on you, it's your ego that gets shit on. When you say that women are whores for cheating, it is bashing them and making yourself feel better. This whole article and discussion is a hypocritical sham where men are glorifying themselves while they …
/r/seduction16/05/13 02:04 AM
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Step one: Learn about self compassion. When you lack it, you sit around making abusive condemnations about yourself. It is something that is grown, like a muscle. Once you realize you are lacking this, you clear the slate of self-loathing, and are able to grow your capacity for compassion until you are full and satisfied. You'll then be able to share this gift with others. You have flaws, I see them, and I don't care. Your greatest flaw is not that you are home alone at night, it is not being ab…
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:00 AM
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I get this look when someone is highly stimulated by what I'm saying, but they're confused at the same time. Kind of like I can't read you, but I'm very interested.
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:49 PM
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