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johnmic07/r/RPChristians11/01/21 07:23 PM
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Interrupt back or keep speaking if you have something to say. And stop letting something as trivial as that bother you so much.
/r/askMRP12/09/20 06:50 PM
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There's lots of virgin women out there but ya you'll want to go pretty young (college age) if you're trying to find a good looking virgin. Churches are a good place to look.
/r/RPChristians08/09/20 11:53 PM
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The sex isn't bad but I still have progress to make. I appreciate the feedback
/r/RPChristians08/09/20 11:50 PM
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Ending a marriage because there's a few weeks without sex is kinda pathetic. This sub is about self improvement to get more sex, not giving up like a bitch without even really trying.
/r/askMRP03/09/20 02:46 PM
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That's awesome that you were able to handle your wife's s*** test without escalating. That's a sign of progress. Also, the less you get upset and angry, the more impactful it will be on your wife when you actually get angry and she'll be more likely to immediately stop whatever it is that she's doing.
/r/RPChristians02/09/20 03:46 PM
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OYS #19 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man Currently reading: RPC 200 level posts. 48 Laws of Power is on hold at my library. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 220lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: It seems like random women have been flirting with me a lot. I was riding my motorcycle and stopped to get some water and a HB5 wearing a very…
/r/RPChristians02/09/20 03:43 PM
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God is an important part, but he's given us a lot of tools to help too. Ignoring those to rely solely on Christian faith is pride. If porn is a problem in someone's life it's important to use every tool available. Installing a web filter doesn't make someone weaker or a worse Christian, or hinder them in any way. It will only help.
/r/RPChristians01/09/20 03:11 PM
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Also, just install a web filter on any device you use. I also find that diet/exercise helps. Minimizing boredom/stress/depression is key too.
/r/RPChristians01/09/20 02:18 AM
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You need to lift and save more money. You also need to read more. If marriage is your goal, you need to be moving towards that. If your relationship is not moving forward, then something isn't right. In my opinion, a successful marriage is about 40% finding the right person and 60% how you perform as a husband. If you're bad with money and weak, that's going to make it tough to have a good marriage even if you're married to a unicorn.
/r/RPChristians28/08/20 02:10 AM
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Why aren't you paying for your hotel room?
/r/askMRP27/08/20 02:37 PM
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I'm not worried about them recording through the app, but with their phone. And if they share the password with friends then someone else could zoom bomb. But ya your right I need to talk to the youth director about some alternatives instead of being butthurt.
/r/RPChristians26/08/20 10:02 PM
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OYS #18 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man Currently reading: RPC 200 level posts Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 220lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I took two extra rest days this week which was kinda weak but I got some pretty good workouts in. Nofap started out pretty bad, and then I installed blocksi web filter on my chromebook a…
/r/RPChristians26/08/20 03:42 PM
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Red pill is a spectrum and every man needs to find where the best place for him on that spectrum is. Ya some people on rpchristians are too purple (same on mrp) but not every person wants to cheat on their wife or spin plates with college students with daddy issues. As a Christian who wants a strong marriage with a great woman and to be a good father I really appreciate having a sub where the advice isn't always to go sleep around if I'm not getting what I want. But ya if you want something diff…
/r/askMRP26/08/20 01:15 PM
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How would you feel if she started letting herself go immediately after getting back from the honeymoon? At some point you'd start realizing that you could do better. I think the combination of every part of your life getting worse at the same time (job, housing, physique, drama) immediately after the honeymoon combined with some impulsiveness on her part and the high number of other sexual options available to her caused the sudden drop off.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 06:39 PM
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Been out of the gym for a month [excuses] Didn't she stop having sex with you at about that time? Your stats are pretty good but they also don't mean anything if they aren't current. If you're starting to let yourself go immediately after you get back from the honeymoon you shouldn't be surprised when that causes some problems.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:59 PM
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Might want to consider looking at r/rpchristians fyi. I think it's a little soon to be divorcing but I agree that there is something majorly wrong here that you need to figure out immediately. This marriage is at a very high risk of failing and so you should educate yourself on divorce options and annulment restrictions. Having said that, I think there's some hope. The problem is mostly with you, not her. So if you take responsibility, improve yourself, and stop screwing up there's a chance you …
/r/askMRP25/08/20 02:57 PM
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OYS #17 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man Currently reading: RPC 200 level posts Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 220lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I took an extra rest day from my workout this week which was kinda lame but other than that I got some good workouts in. Nofap wasn't very good this week. I think I'm going to stop takin…
/r/RPChristians19/08/20 04:07 PM
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You're putting a lot of extra pressure on the gender of this baby by insisting on only having one kid. It would probably help if you were open to having a second kid.
/r/RPChristians18/08/20 02:00 PM
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That's illegal where i live. I'm not worried about her doing something like that right now and so far things have improved drastically in that area. I think she just didn't realize the impact for a long time. I don't really have a plan fully figured out yet, I just know that my parents never hit each other and that I don't want to have a marriage with violent arguments. Talking about it for the past 3 years hasn't been working and so it's time to try something different. Honestly I'd rather get …
/r/RPChristians13/08/20 03:06 PM
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I wouldn't mind her hitting me out of frustration, but she hits me because she's actually trying to hurt me. She's come up behind me when I'm at the top of the stairs and tried to push me down them. Yes I can handle it, but I'm concerned that she might catch me off guard one time and actually put me in the hospital. I won't put up with that anymore no matter what the consequences are. Yes I realize I'm playing with fire but I don't know what my other options are. So far it seems to be working.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 11:51 PM
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I understand that it's very serious, but I just can't live like that anymore. Whatever the consequences are, I'll deal with it but I can't have my wife attacking me every time she gets upset. Especially with kids in the house.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 11:29 PM
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As for my mission, I'm keeping it pretty simple for now. I'm still doing some reflection on what it means to have a mission and what parts of my life that should cover. Any thoughts you have about that would be appreciated. As for the hitting, honestly I felt terrible while I was spanking her and I hope I never have to do it again. But things have been so much better since that happened. So yes I would be willing to do it again but if there was any way out of it I would definitely prefer that. A…
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 07:26 PM
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Well said. I'll have to check that post out.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 07:21 PM
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I do not know how to balance multiple demanding roles, so I tend to focus on one thing at the exclusion of everything else. One track mind. Has anybody overcome that here? If you're going back to school in a rigorous field, that needs to be a focus in the short term. If that's part of the plan God has for you, it's okay to make it a priority over other things. If God has other things he wants you to be accomplishing in addition to that, He will reveal that to you. There is no need to feel guilty…
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 06:26 PM
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as for your church, ya it's really annoying when they ask for a bunch of money all the time. Obviously every church needs money to pay their bills but they tend to be a little unrealistic sometimes too. Good luck with your search for a new church.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 05:52 PM
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my personal opinion is that egalitarianism needs to be killed immediately instead of slowly. If a behavior is toxic for a marriage, why be patient with it? Sounds like you're making great progress though.
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 05:45 PM
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OYS #16 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man Currently reading: RPC 200 level posts Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 220lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Mission: To be a red pill Christian husband and father To be an effective evangelist serving in my church's Youth Ministry Physical: I've switched to a bulking diet and have continued working out …
/r/RPChristians12/08/20 05:39 PM
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Don't worry about what her family thinks. Just say you don't want to plan the wedding until covid19 has died down more. If you think you can do better than her, break up with her. If you think she's the best you can do, stay with her.
/r/askMRP09/08/20 04:36 PM
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Any sort of IT program or a code academy is pretty lucrative if you're into that. If you like business, accounting is a really solid field. Honestly there are lots of different options and I'm not saying what you're studying now is bad, it's just that you should have an idea of what you want to do after you've finished the program. 28 is too old to be going back to school just for the sake of going.
/r/RPChristians08/08/20 07:57 PM
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congratulations on the weight loss. That's a significant step no matter what you end up doing with your career. Keep up the good work. Honestly it sounds like you make decent money selling cars. Why exactly do you hate it so much? At the end of the day, the only real purpose of a job is to make money, not to have fun. Instead of going back to school without knowing what you want to do, spend some time figuring out what you want to do. Once you have a clear career goal, it will be a lot clearer w…
/r/RPChristians08/08/20 05:06 PM
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It doesn't seem like he really brings anything to the table. He's very self centered. You don't want to marry someone like that. Biblical leadership isn't acting like a tyrant. It's looking out for what's best for the family and pursuing that. He cares about what you wear and do based only on the benefits to him and get upset when you push back. He's still a child in the inside. Find someone new.
/r/RPChristians04/08/20 06:05 PM
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my wife suggests counseling once in awhile. I just tell her that she can go talk to a counselor herself if she wants but I'm not going to because it's a waste of time and money. Stop overthinking this. All women get emotional and suggest stupid ideas. It's your job to determine which ideas are stupid, and shut them down. What are you afraid of here? That she'll leave you if you don't go to counseling? That's an indication that you're afraid to lead and do what's right for your family which is an…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:12 PM
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You need to drop the insecurity. You're insecure about staying in a relationship because then you'll miss out on hooking up with random women. You're insecure about hooking up with random women because you might ruin things with your current woman. You're overthinking this. If you want to be in a relationship, be in a relationship. If you think you can do better, then do better. Stop thinking about all the things that can go wrong and live your life.
/r/askMRP29/07/20 05:03 PM
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Not a good idea to discuss details about other women you hang out with. Leave that to her imagination. If she brings it up, give non-answers and then change the subject. When in a LTR you still need to have an abundance mentality: if she isn't good enough, you'll find someone new. If you don't like something she posted on social media, talk to her about it and tell her to take it down because you said so. If you don't care about it, then stop thinking about it.
/r/askMRP25/07/20 09:51 PM
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My younger brother was not a Christian when we were growing up but I was. But eventually he converted. It's important for you to set an example, pray for him, be the best big bro you can be, love him, earn his respect, admit when you fall short at something, and discuss religion with him once in awhile. Over time, God will touch his heart.
/r/RPChristians25/07/20 03:15 PM
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That's different for every person. I think a lot of people that are addicted to porn view it as something that's not good but not really that bad either. Once someone accepts that porn is destroying their life they are able to get motivated to stop. It's a long journey though.
/r/RPChristians25/07/20 03:08 PM
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Without mental discipline you'll never quit porn. No matter how good your blocker is, if you have no will power you'll find a way to look.
/r/RPChristians24/07/20 10:09 PM
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ya that's about right
/r/RPChristians20/07/20 08:04 PM
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I was taking this: https://www.walmart.com/ip/Spring-Valley-Maca-Capsules-500mg-90-Count/843316669 I've just been taking one a day but I might adjust that at some point. I'm kinda new to this supplement so I'm still kinda experimenting. At the time my wife said she was upset because it was a little cooler or something like that which didn't really make any sense so I mostly ignored it and took our daughter on a walk anyway. Later she admitted to me that she was just upset because she was tired t…
/r/RPChristians20/07/20 08:01 PM
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Until you can drive dating isn't going to be much fun. Talk to her at church, flirt a little, do stuff with her at church but I wouldn't worry about dating at this point.
/r/RPChristians17/07/20 05:04 PM
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OYS #15 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook, The Way of the Superior Man Currently reading: RPC sidebar posts Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 215lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Mission: To be a red pill Christian husband and father To be an effective evangelist serving in my church's Youth Ministry Physical: I've taken a few extra rest days from working out mainly on weeke…
/r/RPChristians15/07/20 04:02 PM
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18 is kinda young. If I were you I'd go for 21-22 or something.
/r/RPChristians14/07/20 08:12 PM
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When baby #3 arrived, my wife stopped working and just recently went back to work 1 day per week as an outlet away from the kids. Regarding my business, I do not anticipate making much money for the next 12 months due to the pandemic. Financially, I have about 2 years of expenses saved up. So you are running a business that doesn't make money, you don't expect to make any money for at least 12 months, and you have 24 months before you are completely out of money. And in the meantime you're havin…
/r/askMRP11/07/20 09:37 PM
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How about instead of hooking up just get a wife? Do you want to use women as objects for sex or do you want to be a Christian? I'm a little sympathetic towards Christians who are in long term serious relationships and are seriously discerning marriage and have sex but if you just want to hook up you're just trying to rationalize something you know is 100% wrong. Secular red pill is great for having lots of sex with women that have low self esteem and major psychological issues. The reality is th…
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 09:13 PM
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OYS #14 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook. Currently reading: The Way of the Superior Man Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 215lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Mission: To be a red pill Christian husband and father To be an effective evangelist serving in my church's Youth Ministry Physical: Still working out regularly but I took a few days off over the long weekend. My wif…
/r/RPChristians08/07/20 04:08 PM
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There's never going to be a point when you'll stop getting shit tests. But if you pass the tests you'll continue to make progress.
/r/askMRP06/07/20 08:51 PM
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I found Dave Ramsey's financial advice to be extremely helpful for putting together long term financial plans for our family. These are great tips for the short term though.
/r/RPChristians05/07/20 11:29 PM
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Thank you for the tip about maca root powder. I'll have to try that out.
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 04:58 PM
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Was 48 Laws of Power a good book? I'm thinking about reading it next. I needed to move one of my non operating trucks off it's trailer into the garage. To do so I had my wife sit in the driver seat while I used a hand wench and pushed it off. Kind of a sticky situation as our driveway is on a pretty steep hill and to get it in the garage we would need to use the momentum of the truck coming off the ramp. The whole day prior to this my wife was doubting that we could get it done. I never ask my w…
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 04:25 PM
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OYS #13 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Finished reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint, Book of Pook. Currently reading: The Way of the Superior Man Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 214lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: Still working out regularly but the gyms haven't opened back up yet. I've eased up on my diet a little recently because I've noticed I've started experiencing low energy, lower sex drive so i'm going to see…
/r/RPChristians01/07/20 04:00 PM
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I really appreciate you taking the time to write all this out. I'll take your advice on the diet and see what happens. I also appreciate the suggestions on things we can do together as a family. As for prayer, I decided to make a calendar event to set aside time for prayer each weekday.
/r/RPChristians29/06/20 09:50 PM
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It's a shame but I'm not surprised. Reddit is so terrible.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:23 AM
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keep working out and reading. For me, I found that my wife was easier to deal with while she was pregnant. We had way fewer fights/arguments. Taking care of a newborn isn't that complicated. They need to be clean, fed, and they need to sleep. There's lots of books that go into detail about those things. It's important to know a little about what's going on so that mom won't constantly want to go to the doctor every week when the baby is obviously fine. After the kid, things are going to be tough…
/r/askMRP27/06/20 12:06 AM
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That's a great sign that your wife is noticing your physical progress. Your response to her bringing it up was good. Financially, it's not good to be "out of cash". I'm not sure what you mean by this, but if you mean that your bank account is literally near zero and that you're living paycheck to paycheck that's a huge problem. Either you're spending too much money or you aren't making enough. I'd recommend using a budgeting app like mint to get a better idea of where your money is going.
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 05:26 PM
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OYS #12 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint. Reading Pook. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 214lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I've started doing a little cardio and I've noticed that I have more energy as a result. Weight was flat last week mainly because I haven't been as strict with my diet. I'm pretty happy with my physique right now. My sex drive has been noticeably lower recently. I t…
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 05:18 PM
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any man that doesn't notice $50k gone from his bank account is an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 04:44 PM
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Always gotta have options
/r/askMRP20/06/20 08:56 PM
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Yes I think my wife would have left me by now if I was still blue pill. Honestly it amazes me that the divorce rate isn't much higher than it is with how many blue pill guys there are out there.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 11:14 PM
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31 years old, married 3 years, 1 kid, wife is 30. I got married before red pill. Blue pill marriage was terrible and I would have preferred being single. Red pill marriage is great and I enjoy it much more than being single. Obviously I wish I would have discovered red pill much sooner. If I had before getting married, I would still have married my wife. I was pretty selective with who I got into a relationship with before getting married which served me well. If a girl was slightly older than m…
/r/askMRP19/06/20 03:54 PM
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Part of my problem is I'm usually willing to change my eating habits to suit my wife.If she complains about having rice for 2 days in a row I'll usually make potatoes, small things. I'm disappointment in myself here, I need to be stronger willed, if my wife does not want to eat something I have prepared she can make something for herself. This was something I struggled with at first too. Eventually I just stopped eating the junk that she eats and just make enough for her (for junk food like cook…
/r/RPChristians18/06/20 04:14 PM
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I'm in youth ministry myself and I've been spending a lot of time thinking about how i'm planning on adjusting what I teach to better incorporate red pill ideas. Some things that I feel will be good: killing validation. So many kids look to other people for validation as to whether or not they are successful at something. Just because your teacher thinks you're a bad student doesn't mean you're a bad student. Just because your girlfriend thinks you're a bad boyfriend doesn't mean you're a bad bo…
/r/RPChristians18/06/20 04:09 PM
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thanks!
/r/RPChristians17/06/20 08:48 PM
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I've had a loss of sex drive recently too for some reason. Some things that I think could be the cause for me that I've been working on changing are: lack of cardio, lack of weight training, stress, and porn. If I don't start to notice some significant improvements in my sex drive after a few more weeks of changing all those things then I plan on getting my testosterone levels tested. How old are you?
/r/RPChristians17/06/20 04:54 PM
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OYS #11 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint. Reading Pook. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 214lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I've been completely focused on weight training for building muscle since I started red pill about a year ago. But I've realized that I need to have some cardio in my workouts too. This week I started jogging a little since it's such nice weather these days and I've…
/r/RPChristians17/06/20 04:40 PM
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I'd say yes but barely. Duty sex is still pretty toxic.
/r/RPChristians16/06/20 05:45 PM
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I view goals as something I want to change about myself. Mission is something I want to change about the world around me.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 04:44 PM
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You made the right call. Something wasn't right. Next.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 09:54 PM
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Nothing to feel guilty about here. If you have some sort of moral objection to sleeping with multiple women then that's a different story but if you're okay with spinning plates then why are so upset?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 08:05 PM
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Right now you're a student and your top goal should be to graduate, network, and get a good job. If you have a great body but drop out of school your going to be less attractive than if you have a good job with your current physique. Working out is important too but at this point in your life it's secondary. Honestly though, you should be able to handle both.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 04:07 PM
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A woman can get forgiveness from God and turn her life around and be accepted fully in a Christian community. But that doesn't mean there she would make a good spouse. Why take such a huge risk? Because you feel guilted into it? Would any woman marry a guy making minimum wage when they could marry a millionaire? No way. She wouldn't feel guilty about refusing to compromise so OP shouldn't either.
/r/RPChristians13/06/20 02:26 AM
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Yes being a father and husband is a part of my mission but I also feel like it's important to have a mission that is more than that. I've been volunteering with the high school youth group at my church which has been great. Previously I had viewed it as more of a hobby/volunteering activity but thinking about that service as a mission makes it seem a lot more meaningful. I'm really enjoying your book btw.
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 11:33 PM
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You would feel like a complete loser because you would be a complete loser. Next.
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 11:28 PM
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All of the books in the sidebar are helpful even if you aren't married. Reading the sidebar books will not only make you a better husband, but a better boyfriend, and a better man. MMSLP is fantastic because it goes into a lot of the evolutionary biology behind sexual attraction for men and women which will be helpful for you to determine the amount of sex that is biologically healthy. No there isn't some magic amount of sex that is desirable for all couples, but sex is also extremely important …
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 04:25 PM
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You shouldn't be hiding that stuff from her. It's a major sign of weakness. If you need to smoke, just tell her that you're going to smoke. She'll be upset but at least you're not hiding things. Right now her hamster is in overdrive wondering what else you're hiding from her. Drinking? Other drugs? Another woman? Prostitutes? Be a man and take ownership of what you do, and don't promise something that you know you aren't ready to commit to because you're afraid of what your wife will say or do.
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 03:22 PM
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I don't think she sounds that bad. But it is concerning that you're body fat is as high as it is, that you seem to think sex twice a month is acceptable, and that you haven't really dated other women. Your higher body fat isn't going to help spark her sexually, your sex standards are biologically too low for a healthy marriage, and the fact that you haven't dated other women seriously is going to make it really hard for you to look at this objectively. It sounds like you're trying really hard to…
/r/RPChristians12/06/20 03:16 PM
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You can always start out in design and then transition to sales later. But it's very hard to go the other way.
/r/askMRP10/06/20 05:38 PM
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OYS #10 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan. Reading Pook, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 215lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I had a cheat day last week and ended up gaining 1lb but the workouts have been going good and I'm pretty sure that the pound was mostly just water weight that I'll lose shortly. I've finished my 4 week workout program and so I'm going to start a new 4 week workout p…
/r/RPChristians10/06/20 05:05 PM
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Don't compromise your career/mission for a girl. If she isn't down with you being a cop, then she can leave and you can find a better girl.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 04:17 PM
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I agree that there are a lot of other benefits to lifting. But if being fat attracted supermodels I'd be devouring a box of doughnuts. That's just my personal opinion.
/r/RPChristians09/06/20 04:15 PM
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The idea behind lifting is that you should look objectively good with your shirt off. That should be your main goal. The main way to achieve that is with barbell exercises.
/r/RPChristians07/06/20 04:03 PM
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Thanks!
/r/RPChristians05/06/20 03:55 AM
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Thanks for that explanation
/r/RPChristians05/06/20 03:54 AM
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OYS #9 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male, Mindful Attraction Plan. Reading Pook, Biblical Masculinity Blueprint Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 214lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: 3 weeks into the 4 week workout program and I've lost 6 lbs, I'm pretty satisfied with the way I look although I do want to get slightly leaner still. nofap was good this week. Mental/Emotional: I've been working hard at keeping calm during fights with my wife and I w…
/r/RPChristians03/06/20 04:04 PM
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First there has to be chemistry. If you don't want to bang each other then keep looking. Second, you need to have your mission figured out and then see if she's supportive of your mission. If you don't have a mission, then don't get serious with anyone. Third, you need to have someone that you enjoy doing things with. If you have zero common interests it's not going to work out. Fourth, anything else you're looking for. Good luck!
/r/RPChristians01/06/20 03:01 PM
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Dumb people are only dangerous if they don't realize they're dumb. What's an example of something stupid she did?
/r/askMRP01/06/20 12:51 AM
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Ya you can set it up both ways as far as I know. But in my opinion it's healthier to combine assets in a marriage. It builds trust, encourages communication about money, and causes a couple to spend less. If you don't trust your fiance with money then why are you getting married? It would probably be a lot easier for you to just date without getting married. Or maybe just date women who aren't super poor? But ya if you're a millionaire or if you're close to retirement then definitely get a prenu…
/r/RPChristians31/05/20 10:53 PM
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If you're a millionaire and your fiance has no assets, then definitely get a prenup. If you don't have much assets or if you and your fiance have roughly the same assets there's no reason for a prenup. In my experience, very few young couples getting married for the first time actually need a prenup.
/r/RPChristians31/05/20 10:39 PM
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It's fairly normal for women to test their fiance's before a wedding. She wants to be assured that she's marrying the best man she can get and so all the issues she's bringing up are just a test to see how much of a man you are. You're failing the test by just allowing her to make the plans for everything and essentially putting all the pressure on her. You need to have the vision, she needs to plan the details. Do you want to marry her? Tell her when and where. If she seems unsure, tell her tha…
/r/RPChristians30/05/20 02:30 PM
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You need to read more of the sidebar books. Not working out for a few weeks and losing dread are not going to kill your marriage. There's something else going on here. Wisnifg, and map would be good for you.
/r/askMRP28/05/20 06:53 PM
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That's fair. I'll make it the next book on my list.
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 02:31 PM
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Your book is on my list. I haven't prioritized it yet because I haven't specifically heard any recommendations from people who've read it yet like I have with a lot of the other sidebar books, although that's probably mostly because it's pretty new. It also seemed like the content is pretty broad instead of being focused on one particular area that you know well. But I really appreciate that you're writing about this and I will definitely read it at some point over the next few months.
/r/RPChristians28/05/20 12:29 AM
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OMAD is a fantastic diet, but you need to do some exercise too. You'll feel so much better. I've been doing this home workout and it is fantastic (and free): http://igorvoitenko.com/ It's really awesome that your dreams are coming true and everything, but you should also probably pray on those major decisions too, and seek out the wisdom of someone you respect. Sometimes dreams are just dreams.
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 09:17 PM
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I haven't been taking time to pray/meditate. I've realized that most of my weaknesses right now are due to a lack of understanding of red pill so I've been putting my energy into that and neglecting my spiritual side somewhat. I'm torn because on the one hand I feel so blessed to have Jesus in my life and I know for a fact that my life would have gone a very different direction if I hadn't become a christian. On the other hand, I do really resent a lot of the very blue pill guidance I've receive…
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 09:11 PM
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It's amazing how much lifting improves marriage. About a month after I got married, I tore my acl and stopped doing anything physical for about a year. In that time I gained about 20 lbs and all of a sudden my wife was fighting with me a lot more for no reason. About a year ago, I started getting serious about not just losing weight but also building a physique and within a month our marriage had improved dramatically. It's probably the most underrated marriage advice there is. It kind of surpri…
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 04:18 PM
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OYS #8 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG, The Rational Male. Reading Mindful Attraction Plan Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 216lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I'm 2 weeks into my new workout and body recomposition diet. I've lost a total of 4 lbs and have noticed slightly more definition on my abs. Had 2 bbqs this weekend and wasn't as strict with the diet but I'm still making progress. Fapped once but no porn. My wife has been a lot more interested in sex rece…
/r/RPChristians27/05/20 04:08 PM
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Christianity isn't blue pill or red pill, it's above all that. Both blue and red pill guys are called to be holy and can be saved. I think in modern times christianity has been impacted by blue pill ideas and been tainted by them but core teachings from Jesus are not blue pill or red pill. Alphas still have a responsibility to help the poor, be humble, and avoid sin.
/r/RPChristians26/05/20 02:21 AM
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Ya you need a lawyer.
/r/askMRP24/05/20 02:14 PM
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This isn't real.
/r/RPChristians24/05/20 02:10 PM
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hey at the end of the day this is all about pragmatism so if you have something that's working for you don't let me stop you. I've been doing red pill for about a year. somewhat seriously the past 10 months and more seriously the past 2 months.
/r/RPChristians21/05/20 01:51 AM
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that's a good point. Dread without improvement is a waste. But assuming that he's already built him self up a little, it might be time to get a little more active.
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 08:06 PM
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Asserting what you want isn't a covert contact. Using dread isn't a covert contact. I'm not saying you should imply some sort of deal with her in exchange for getting her pregnant. I'm just saying that temporarily withholding sex may be a legitimate dread strategy.
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 07:12 PM
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You need to communicate what you want in the bed with your wife. It's good that you're making progress but it sounds like you still have a long ways to go. Your wife does not view you as a high value male yet. Are you applying dread tactics? Try spending time away from her with friends or at the gym, or travel for business. The rational male had some interesting things to say about this. Denying her sex temporarily if she isn't doing what you want may be a good tactic too since she seems really …
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 06:58 PM
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Yes I tend to get caught up in the moment and lose frame.
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 05:08 PM
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My plan is to cut until I hit 10% then begin to bulk. I still have a lot of research to do when it comes to bulking. When you bulk does your bodyfat percentage go up? Do you lose your abs and definition? After you bulk is it necessary to recut? FYI going from 15% to 10% is exponentially more difficult than going from 20% to 15%. To get to that level, in addition to counting calories you'll also need to be counting macros pretty carefully. Another thing to be aware of is that if your body fat % d…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 04:25 PM
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OYS #7 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG. Reading the rational male. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 218lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: I'm really enjoying the new bodyweight exercise program I'm doing. I think it's going to get me some fantastic results. I've lost two pounds over the past week and have been eating good. nofap has been good. Last week, my wife and i didn't have sex a single time. But we had some good communication where we both were being really…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 04:11 PM
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You need to lose weight. I suggest the OMAD diet/intermittent fasting. Exercise is important too but at 300lbs you have an eating problem first and foremost. FYI you're much higher than 30% body fat. Unless you're on offensive lineman who can bench 350lbs you're most likely 40-45%. Once you start taking off the weight you will be more attractive to women, you'll have more discipline, and you'll have way more energy/testosterone, not to mention you'll be significantly healthier and less likely to…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 03:43 PM
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Christianity is a system to get a man to heaven while the red pill is a system to get a man sex. It's important to see each for what it is. For example, not having sex until marriage is a moral strategy to grow closer to God. Spinning plates is a sexual strategy to make women more interested in a man. It is a fatal error to completely ignore either of those ideas. Ignoring God's commandment against adultery will lead to spiritual desolation, cause pain, and potentially lead to STD's and child su…
/r/RPChristians20/05/20 03:33 PM
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honestly this sub is mostly for men learn how to become better, not really to help women make their men better. But the book "no more my nice guy" might be really helpful for him. Basically its about how "nice guys" can use passive aggressive tactics like making jokes as an outlet for things they don't explicitly communicate for some reason. I really feel bad for you because you're clearly unhappy. I hope things get better for you and i will say a prayer for the two of you.
/r/RPChristians19/05/20 04:52 AM
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You need to tell your husband how you feel. A lot of husband's don't realize how hurtful the jokes they tell or the things they say can be. You can also talk about him doing some of the chores or just letting a few things slide if he isn't willing to help out. The book "when I say no I feel guilty" might be helpful for you to be more assertive with him.
/r/RPChristians18/05/20 02:11 PM
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Yes that's true. Red pill is not a guarantee
/r/RPChristians16/05/20 06:32 AM
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Being a leader in the home isn't about being "worthy" of respect and sex. It's just about not taking crap from another fallen human, and asserting yourself. Placing women on some kind of pedestal that you can scarcely attain worthiness for will only cause the very kind of issues that OP complains about. I agree that being assertive and not taking crap is important. Not sure what I said has to do with putting women on a pedestal though. I'm just trying to say that a husband should be looking to i…
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 11:17 PM
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Your wife is a reflection of you. If you're weak and pathetic, your wife will treat you that way and eventually divorce you. If you become a man worthy of respect and sex, then your wife will respond accordingly. So yes marriage is worth it if you improve yourself and become a man. If you don't, then you'll probably be better off not marrying.
/r/RPChristians15/05/20 05:59 PM
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read no more mr nice guy. brief answers: it's the woman's job to be gentle, kind and loving. You need to lead. Obviously you'll be gentle, kind and loving some of the time, but that's secondary to your role as the head of your family. yes you can be red pill and still get your wife gifts sometimes and part of being a red pill husband is doing things around the house. Loafing around and letting your responsibilities go isn't red pill. Asking about her day is fine, and so is providing some emotion…
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 03:14 AM
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No more Mr Nice guy would be a great choice.
/r/RPChristians14/05/20 12:15 AM
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Home workouts are tough. Athlean seems really good but I've never spoken with anyone who's tried it. Just curious about how it's been going.
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 06:25 PM
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is the athleanx home workout worth it? How long have you been doing it?
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 05:48 PM
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which sidebar books are you reading/have read?
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 05:44 PM
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thanks for sharing that link to the old cat and the kitten. I think it's a good example of some of the benefits of the christian red pill approach over the secular red pill approach. 5000 calories while cutting? doesn't sound like you're very committed...
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 04:00 PM
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OYS #6 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG. Reading the rational male. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). 220lbs, 6'6" 15% BF Physical: Since lockdown I've just been doing bodyweight exercises. I've definitely lost some muscle and it's gotten me down a little. Super frustrating to be moving backwards after all the work I was putting in before. I found a new 4 week bodyweight exercise program on youtube that actually looks really promising. Today I'm going to sta…
/r/RPChristians13/05/20 03:51 PM
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I don't have respect for adults who complain about their parents. It's a pretty normal thing for teens to do, but adults should be capable of recognizing that his parents aren't perfect without too much difficulty. You don't have to be like your parents, and you don't need to support everything they do/say, but you should still have some respect for the fact that they took care of you when they could have been doing something more fun.
/r/RPChristians12/05/20 12:02 AM
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Op should only be giving his client resources that he believes are actually going to help his client. Political correctness has made it impossible for most resources on those kinds of issues to be helpful.
/r/RPChristians11/05/20 06:34 PM
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I'm not a psychotherapist, but I do work with teens through my church's youth group (not really the same thing). Obviously if the teen isn't a believer and has no interest in christian sexual ethics then there's not a whole lot you can do and in a secular company you're right to tread carefully. I can also understand that you don't want to encourage a behavior that is immoral and unhealthy. I would suggest bringing up to your client that he/she is ultimately in control of their actions and makes…
/r/RPChristians11/05/20 04:52 PM
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So unless he catches them in bed together he has to stay married? The fact that she's putting a male coworker above her husband, lying about it, communicating with him at weird times, and spending hours with him alone is enough for any man with half a brain to know that either there's an affair going on or about to begin. Either way he is in the clear to move on. No self respecting man should ever put up with that behavior from his wife. And if you think otherwise, you belong in the blue pill Ch…
/r/RPChristians09/05/20 01:16 AM
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You're wrong. Adultery cannot be tolerated in a modern marriage. In ancient Israel, the opportunities for adultery were a lot different, and the ways husband's could shame and punish were different. Now, putting up with adultery is nothing but an endorsement of unacceptable behavior. If she immediately and unequivocally repents that's one thing but otherwise the marriage must end. Don't judge op when you haven't been in his shoes.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 08:18 PM
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There's definitely something going on there and you were right to set boundaries. I don't talk to a single one of my coworkers more than once a day, and it would be very rare to discuss anything with them outside of normal business hours. I think you were also right to give her an ultimatum: Either him or you. I'd say there's a pretty good chance that she'll beg you to take her back once the divorce moves forward.
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 04:59 PM
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6' 6" 220 lbs, body fat 15%. When I did 19 pullups it wasn't with perfect form. More of a CrossFit pull-up lol. Thanks for the encouragement on the reading
/r/RPChristians08/05/20 03:41 PM
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His ideas don't fix the core problems, they just treat the symptoms. his wife isn’t thirsty for his dick I can't stop laughing after reading this!
/r/askMRP08/05/20 03:18 AM
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Before I discovered red pill, my wife and I briefly saw a marriage counselor who was gottman trained and it was a giant waste of time. Ever since I started red pill about a year ago, my marriage has been much better. While I admit I don't know much about Gottman and maybe there's something to add to red pill from that, that should only be explored after going through the MRP sidebar.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 10:35 PM
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if you're not losing weight, then there's something wrong with your diet. OMAD is a fantastic way to lose weight. Personally I'd recommend just sticking with that and dropping keto but there's more than one way to achieve weight loss. "I'm eating this week to try and get my body back into ketosis" sounds like a rationalization of cheating on your diet. Prove me wrong by losing two pounds on next weeks OYS.
/r/RPChristians07/05/20 04:13 PM
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So are you married still? How is that going?
/r/RPChristians07/05/20 03:00 PM
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You should be losing weight. Personally I think the keto diet is kind of unhealthy for a long term diet. I love intermittent fasting but it sounds like you're getting less strict on it. The temptation to slack on the diet during lockdown is huge. Don't rationalize that behavior. At your size you should be losing two pounds a week. You said the garage is too hot to work out in? Honestly that sounds kind of pathetic. Do the workouts, keep to the diet, and stop making excuses.
/r/RPChristians07/05/20 02:56 PM
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maybe you should go take a trip somewhere to clear your mind? Airline tickets are pretty cheap right now.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 01:48 AM
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You could get a 5 in her late thirties to have kids with you without expecting much in return but a 10 will expect you to marry her unless you're like a celebrity or something. My opinion is it's better to have kids with a 10.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 12:48 AM
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having kids with someone is a way bigger commitment than getting married so your plan doesn't make sense. It's like asking "could I marry someone but have us live in separate houses?" Yes you could, but why would you want to? You can always have a prenup and divorce if the marriage doesn't work out. But if you have kids with someone, they will be involved in your life forever. On a personal note, having kids is awesome and if you swallow the red pill marriage is awesome too.
/r/askMRP07/05/20 12:38 AM
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OYS #5 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG. Reading the rational male. Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). Since lockdown I've just been doing bodyweight exercises. I've been maintaining a decent physique but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to the gym. PR of 19 pullups this week. Physical: I've been keeping in shape and having good discipline with my diet/drinking. I just finished NMMNG which was a fantastic book and completely blew my mind. One th…
/r/RPChristians06/05/20 10:36 PM
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I have to respect how honest you are with where you're at, which is at least an important first step. Maybe try exercise as a stress release? Shooting guns is also a good stress release.
/r/askMRP06/05/20 08:11 PM
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You need to get less fat and take the red pill regardless of what you choose. If you divorce, you'll enjoy it a lot now with red pill. If you go back to her, you'll do better with red pill instead of blue. It seems like you've been reading, but the physical part of red pill is the problem. Is it really that hard to go to the gym three times a week and throw out your ice cream? It seems like you have a really hard time making decisions. I guess if you're really on the fence, you could tell your w…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:20 AM
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you're thinking too much and trying too hard to say the right thing. Less is more. Thats why stfu is so effective. it doesn't matter what you say, only how you say it. You can tell her she's being irrational, but it has to be calm and with frame being maintained. Any you shouldn't be telling her to be calm because you're essentially saying that you can't handle her shit tests. Saying she's disrespectful is appropriate if she crosses the line, like she starts swearing at you or something, but eve…
/r/askMRP05/05/20 03:42 AM
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I appreciate the feedback.
/r/RPChristians30/04/20 08:42 PM
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It may be possible for you to be fat and still attract a good looking Christan woman with beta game. But what will happen is she won't want to have sex with you. If you work out you will have a much easier time attracting a wife, a better marriage, and more sex. So ya it's important. If you aren't willing to work out 3 times per week you really shouldn't bother with any of the other content on this sub.
/r/RPChristians30/04/20 04:44 PM
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So you lost 20 lbs... How fat are you now? This is very very important because it seems like the main problem in your marriage is that your wife isn't attracted to you. You need to focus very hard on making yourself attractive. You're right to put an end to the runner friend. That's a huge red flag and you need to establish boundaries. Maybe she'll ignore them, but she will at least gain some respect for you by hearing you tell her no. It's good that you recognize how serious this is and that yo…
/r/askMRP30/04/20 03:11 PM
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You're overthinking this. She doesn't care that you told people, she's just yelling at you to see if you can handle it without losing your cool. It's a passive aggressive manipulation tactic. Wisnifg has a lot of info about dealing with this. You need to get reading. But the short answer is don't lose your temper, don't pay attention to the actual words but try to get her to say what's actually bothering her with negative inquiry and negative assertion, and don't deer.
/r/askMRP29/04/20 11:53 PM
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I think you're being a little hard on yourself saying you're garbage. It's important to be honest about your faults but not too extreme. You're focused on your faith, physically doing ok, and you have solid job prospects. You also seem to be pretty accurately assessing yourself. I recommend no more Mr Nice guy for reading. Keep up the good work.
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 08:46 PM
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Do you really need two drinks of vodka every day? I definitely leave some room in my diet for drinks but that's a lot considering you want to cut so hard. Maybe go without for a week or two, or just drink on weekends or something. But ya I worked out a couple times with a personal trainer last summer and it was completely worth it. I told him my goals and realistically how much time I could put in the gym and he put together a solid workout, walked me through it, and answered a lot of questions …
/r/askMRP29/04/20 08:41 PM
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do you have any goals you're working towards? Also, this sub is focused on attracting women but you don't seem to mention anything about pursuing anyone. Have you put that on hold for some reason? And what books have you read/are reading from the sidebar? It's good that you're working out and keeping your spiritual growth in focus. As far as your job, I can guarantee that being an engineering student is very different than being an engineer. Don't get discouraged. Once you've worked as an engine…
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 06:45 PM
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OYS #4 31, wife 30 married 3 years, 1 kid Read MMSLP, WISNIFG, reading NMMNG Fitness: BP: 205, OHP, 110 (pre lockdown). Since lockdown I've just been doing bodyweight exercises. I've been maintaining a decent physique but I'm definitely looking forward to getting back to the gym. Relationships: Marriage has been up and down this week. I finished WISNIFG and have been implementing the strategies which I think has been very helpful but I need some more practice. The problem is that I tend to joke …
/r/RPChristians29/04/20 06:38 PM
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just read your OYS post. 1400 calories/day is a pretty serious cut. At 50, building muscle is not as easy so I would be very careful when cutting or your won't make progress. Personally, I think 10% body fat at age 50 is a little ambitious of a goal unless you have a bodybuilder telling you exactly what to eat and how to work out. I would recommend just focusing on increasing your lifts (I think you could definitely do more than you are now) and switch to a slight bulking diet. If you get to 20%…
/r/askMRP29/04/20 06:24 PM
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Don't make an impulse decision just because you had a few fights recently. It sounds like you've been making some progress and are seeing results. You gotta be a little patient and keep making improvements. If you do decide to get a divorce, you should be prepared and go in with everything planned out to minimize the impacts.
/r/askMRP29/04/20 03:56 AM
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Why are you here if you're too lazy to read the sidebar and you're too sensitive to listen to honest advice? Read the books and do the work instead of expecting that reading a few reddit comments is going to magically fix your sex life in an hour or two. Is it "redpill" to put your wife on a pedestal, pretending that she can do no wrong, and that everything in your marriage is your fault? Sounds pretty Beta, internalized-white-knight to me. No. Red pill is recognizing that you need to be the alp…
/r/RPChristians28/04/20 09:20 PM
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You've read "most of it, but haven't kept a detailed log." You "haven't measured BF in a while so I'm not sure". There really isn't much to say here: You're lazy. You haven't done the work, you aren't holding yourself accountable, probably aren't doing OYS. You're just blaming your wife for the fact that she isn't attracted to you and looking for us to validate you. That is not a red pill approach to marriage. Read MMSLP, NMMNG, and WISNIFG. Implement what they teach, and then post.
/r/RPChristians28/04/20 08:55 PM
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Sometimes Catholics will ask a saint to pray for something on their behalf but they don't pray to saints. So I don't think you need to worry about a Catholic praying in a different way. As for the extra books, most Catholics haven't read them, and they don't really teach anything controversial. The only reason they aren't included in the protestant/Jewish old testament is because they have not yet found complete original versions written in Hebrew. Only translations in Greek and fragments in Heb…
/r/RPChristians25/04/20 04:03 PM
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Catholics have the same Bible as Protestants, except there are a few extra books in the old testament. So I don't think there's any reason to be concerned about Catholics participation in that sense.
/r/RPChristians25/04/20 03:43 PM
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Doing bodyweight exercises during lockdown is ok, but when the gyms open you need to get to a gym. It's not optional. You're not going to get good results just doing bodyweight exercises. No one in this sub is a professional bodybuilder, and we aren't saying you need to try to be. But you should look objectively muscular with your shirt off. Lifting will also give you more energy, better hormone levels, and more confidence in bed. She will enjoy sex more and initiate more. We don't recommend lif…
/r/RPChristians24/04/20 03:45 PM
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Red pill is whatever works to improve your sexual appeal. It's not a system of morals to follow in other parts of your life. Don't overthink it.
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 05:54 PM
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OYS #3 Background: 31M, married 3 years, 1 kid (infant). 6'6", 215 lbs, BF 15% Estimated 1 rep maxes: OHP: 113, BP: 202 Read: MMSLP. Reading: WISNIFG Physical: wife is still recovering from C-section so no sex. And the gym has been closed so I've been doing body weight exercises: pistol squats, pushups, pullups, tricep dips. I did 14 pullups earlier this week which is a new PR for me. Job is going well, I've been working from home. Mental/Emotional: I took kind of a break from a lot of red pill …
/r/RPChristians22/04/20 04:35 PM
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Oh ok. I'm not offended or anything I was just curious.
/r/RPChristians21/04/20 06:19 AM
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Yes this is pretty much just on reddit. No we don't meet up in person. Red pill is described in the sidebar, but basically it's about being a better man/being more attractive to women. This sub is for proponents of red pill strategies who also are Christian. There is a secular red pill sub too.
/r/RPChristians20/04/20 10:03 PM
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why am I considered a "roaming infidel"?
/r/RPChristians20/04/20 09:02 PM
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I don't think you have any business telling OP what words he's allowed to use.
/r/RPChristians19/04/20 04:29 PM
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"Pussy" can also refer to a cat
/r/RPChristians19/04/20 03:59 PM
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it might not be a great idea to talk to your leaders since you want to keep her privacy in mind too.
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 04:39 PM
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I think you're making a huge mistake by agreeing to not hold hands, hug, kiss, etc. Doing that may be spiritually healthy for some couples that already have very strong sex drives because it may prevent them from being tempted and just make their wedding night extra special. But the problem with your relationship is that there is a legitimate concern about sexual attraction. You need to explore this a little. First thing, is you need to have some physical intimacy in the relationship. Talk to he…
/r/RPChristians17/04/20 03:08 PM
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Well ya. OYS is about making yourself a better man. Becoming a man isn't possible for a blue pill beta. So ya there's no reason to participate in OYS until after you've decided to choose red pill.
/r/askMRP15/04/20 05:08 AM
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You shouldn't be operating in your wife's frame. If she takes the lead on something, it needs to be because you're choosing to allow her to. OYS is for after you've decided to swallow the red pill and make a major commitment to improve yourself daily.
/r/askMRP15/04/20 02:58 AM
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You need to stop drinking. At least temporarily. You don't want to be making big decisions like whether or not to stay married if your judgement isn't clear.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 07:05 PM
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OYS #2 stats: age 31, married 3 years, 1 kid age 0. Height 6'6" weight 213. Lifts before gym closed (calculated 1 rep max): bench press 208, overhead press 118 Read MMSLP. Reading WISNIFG Physical: I was in such a great spot before the gym closed. I've been doing bodyweight exercises from home and did 13 pullups earlier this week. But I just really want to get back into the gym. Mental: lockdown is getting to me. We have an infant child. Wife is recovering from C-section so no sex for medical re…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 03:39 PM
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Christianity does not exist to make you 'not a jerk'. Its not just 'what will get you to heaven'. Its also not a set of rules to follow. I didn't say it was just those things
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 09:19 PM
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great post.
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 03:07 PM
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Christianity is what will get you to heaven, but there is very little in the bible that will help a man become a better husband. And while TRP has a great plan for making a man a better husband, none of that philosophy is going to make anyone a saint. I think it's important to recognize each system for what it is and keep each system in it's proper lane. Otherwise there will just be a lot of divorced beta christian men or a bunch of alpha males who are gigantic jerks but successful with women. T…
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 03:04 PM
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If you want to have kids, then ya getting married makes sense. I love being married and I would definitely do it over again. However, you can't be afraid of divorce. If you commit to red pill marriage principles you will enjoy marriage much more than if you don't. But it doesn't guarantee you won't get divorced because that is an unpredictable thing. It could happen and you should be prepared to deal with that if it does.
/r/askMRP12/04/20 09:27 PM
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Ya exactly. Not everyone has the opportunity to know Christ right away.
/r/RPChristians11/04/20 02:37 PM
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1) join r/nofap 2) be honest with yourself about the damage porn is doing to your sex life. Do you really believe that it's harmful to you or do you think it's just something that you probably shouldn't do but isn't that bad? One thing that really made me realize how harmful porn is was reading that after enough time, men that watch porn regularly can't get erections at all without it. But there is other negative impacts too. Recognition of the damage porn can do will help you a lot. 3) don't sp…
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 03:43 PM
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If a woman is a committed Christan and she's only slept with guys she's been in committed, serious relationships, I'd be fine with that. Or if a woman slept with a bunch of guys before she found Jesus then I don't think that counts. If a woman professes to be a Christan and had even a single one night stand I'd have a hard time respecting her.
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 03:18 PM
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Huge mistake to marry someone you aren't attracted to. If she isn't attractive, then she'll make a good friend.
/r/RPChristians09/04/20 07:08 AM
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You're only going to get honest advice on this sub. Not validation for a bunch of excuses. Putting on muscle is hard. Quitting porn is hard. Being a man is hard. So get comfortable with doing hard things, make yourself better, and stop complaining.
/r/askMRP07/04/20 02:58 PM
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Everyone has a bad workout once in awhile. It can be the result of a lack of sleep, different diet, stress, mental distractions, a million things. If it starts to become a long term trend then you may need to start looking at making some changes.
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 03:45 PM
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The sidebar is there for a reason. It's great that you enjoy reading and have other stuff but the sidebar is really crucial to the red pill philosophy. It's good that you're working out, but you need to have some specific fitness goals for body fat %, lifts, and weight and be working to obtain those. You're off to a great start tho. Good luck
/r/RPChristians05/04/20 12:10 AM
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Kinda hard to tell where your week points are because you didn't mention your lifts and you haven't listed the books you've read from the sidebar. Reading is absolutely critical for you to be ready for your next relationship. Spiritually you seen fairly strong.
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 07:02 PM
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That's my point though, his goal may be impossible for him, and even if it isn't, it could take years. I think he's better off setting a more short term, attainable goal instead.
/r/RPChristians04/04/20 04:01 PM
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Maybe instead of working less hours, work full time and hire a nanny to help out your wife part time.
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 05:33 PM
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For your physical goal, gaining 40lbs of muscle is not realistic. I empathize with you because when I was new to lifting I also had some unrealistic goals. I recommend concentrating on increasing your lifts, make sure you're getting plenty of protein, and eat enough calories to build a surplus. Realistically, gaining 10lbs of muscle is really good. Especially for someone who's a little smaller. The porn needs to stop. Nofap is a great resource. Also, you don't mention what books you've read from…
/r/RPChristians01/04/20 04:47 PM
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any guy that has to be nagged just to brush his teeth, and is addicted to porn is a loser. It sounds like there's a bunch of other issues going on in your marriage too but you either don't want to list them and sound super critical or you're still processing what exactly they all are. Yes everyone has faults, but being lazy and disgusting isn't a fault, that's just being a loser. A fault is being a terrible cook, or making stupid jokes, or having a small penis lol. good luck i'll pray for you tw…
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 03:57 AM
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I feel really bad for you, but the truth is that you can't change your husband. He has to motivate himself to change, and until he does he won't be attractive to you. He's probably too much of a pussy to swallow the red pill. I guess you could try giving him a red pill book like "married man sex life primer" and tell him to read it but that's really a hail mary. Have you discussed divorcing? Sometimes that can be a wake up call for a loser husband.
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 03:43 AM
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agreed. You can't let your wife say that kind of stuff to you. Obviously you don't want to lose your temper and start screaming or something but you need to verbally push back when she crosses the line like that. Then leave if the behavior continues.
/r/askMRP10/03/20 02:47 AM
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in the catholic church, moral teachings are determined through philosophy (natural law) instead of the bible.
/r/RPChristians18/01/20 02:32 AM
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Because of the chapter had some stuff that's not just a law, it could still be relevant
/r/RPChristians17/01/20 11:40 PM
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That verse yes. Maybe not the whole chapter.
/r/RPChristians17/01/20 08:16 PM
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The Jewish teachings about God apply to Christians, but not Jewish law.
/r/RPChristians17/01/20 05:07 PM
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Vasectomy no. Bj/hj yes. But the Catholic Church isn't as strict on what it teaches as a lot of other Christian churches. At the end of the day, people do what they think it's best for them.
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 04:27 PM
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We aren't Jews.
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 04:25 PM
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Catholic, also nfp. Period sex is still an option. Also, it sounds like you use the Creighton method of nfp. My wife and I find the Marquette method better. Personally, I feel like condoms are ok during the fertile period because there's more of a chance of conception than abstinence.
/r/RPChristians13/01/20 04:53 PM
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This whole post is you thinking about doing things because your employees or wife want you to. Now you're asking a bunch of people on the internet how you should handle it. Grow a pair, and make your own decisions. Then accept the consequences. Do you want to work with your wife? If so, then hire her. If not, then tell your employees to fuck off.
/r/askMRP29/11/19 10:39 PM
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Own the mistake and apologize. She won't leave you over sexting. You shouldn't apologize for stupid things that you aren't sorry for, but if you make a legitimate mistake you should be able to admit it.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:03 AM
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If you want to divorce just do it and deal with the details of the paternity test later
/r/askMRP21/09/19 08:30 PM
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Usually if a man doesn't want kids, he uses a condom. Definitely definitely get a paternity test.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:53 PM
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20% body fat is pretty high. Get that down. You need to start initiating sex. Get over the fear of rejection. MMSLP is very helpful for increasing sex.
/r/RPChristians20/09/19 02:47 AM
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I suggest you keep that between you and God. I wouldn't get anyone else involved because if you do, it just increases the chance it will get back to your wife. Just don't do it again. If you feel guilty, suck it up.
/r/askRPC01/09/19 02:34 PM
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A friend of mine who is a personal trainer put together a full body workout for me that I've been doing 3x per week. I have a previous back injury and knee injury so I don't want to do strong lifts or another program that had deadlifts or squats. Basically I do Bulgarian split squats, bench press, overhead press, lat pulldowns, face pulls, hamstring raises, and triceps extension. Although there is a little variation that's the main workout. For sex, I'm mainly just trying to improve my body, and…
/r/RPChristians26/07/19 03:04 AM
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When you as an adult man say that your parents are "abusive" it sounds really pathetic. You should be secure enough by now to handle a little criticism or blunt talk from your parents. Do you really need Mommy and Daddy to be unconditionally supportive of every decision you make? If they're doing something to you that's against the law then I apologise, but usually when millennials describe people as abusive they're just being pussies.
/r/RPChristians26/07/19 02:56 AM
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Seems like things are going pretty well. Do you have any specific goals you're pursuing or are you just kinda enjoying the ride?
/r/RPChristians25/07/19 01:30 AM
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OYS #1 Background/Stats: 30 years old, 6'6" 211lbs, 15% BF, married 2 years, discovered RP about 2 months ago. BP 170. Reading MMSLP Lifting: I started a new workout and got a gym membership about 2 weeks ago. I've been lifting 3 times per week and feeling good. I'm trying to get down to 12% body fat. When I first started dieting I was 227 so I've been making good progress but have plateaued recently. I switched to an OMAD diet this week to try and lose another ten pounds or so. Only had sex twi…
/r/RPChristians25/07/19 01:28 AM
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I've had a previous back injury and knee surgery so I'm in a similar position (basically squats, deadlifts, barbell rows are off the table). A friend of mine who's a personal trainer helped me put together a workout that puts a lot less stress on the lower back, because what's the point of getting ripped this year if you throw out your back and become obese in two years because everything is painful? I definitely recommend doing a personal training session if you're planning on making a major ch…
/r/askMRP24/07/19 04:25 AM
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That was surprisingly relevant to this post lol.
/r/RPChristians24/07/19 04:00 AM
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It seems like you have some issues being close to people. Telling your parents you don't want to be in the family anymore is a pretty weird thing for a grown ass man to do. Unless they molested you or something, you should be mature enough by now to recognize that they're your family and to move on from stuff they did to you when you were a teenager. With your wife, what exactly is the problem? She storms off in a huff sometimes? She says mean things to you? You're sounding very blue pill. Since…
/r/RPChristians23/07/19 02:07 PM
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Being a virgin is definitely not a red flag. But typically when people are waiting, they tend to get married younger. 28 for a woman is a little older than a typical virgin woman would be married. It's a good thing that you're true to your beliefs and it's definitely a good thing if you're dating other Christian men, but the thing you might want to be reflecting on is why you aren't married yet. Are you not putting much effort into dating? Are you still not sure what kind of man you're attached …
/r/RPChristians16/07/19 02:10 PM
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Yes you are in her frame. Get a life outside of trying to make her happy. In a sense, you're still letting her lead because this whole thing is about her. Plan a date you want to do and if she doesn't want to come, go without her.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 04:33 PM
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Dude you have nothing to be sad about. No kids, not married when you found out. You are one of the luckiest people out there. Option 1 all the way. You should be embarrassed for even considering maintaining a relationship of any kind with her. Are you really that desperate for pussy?
/r/askMRP02/07/19 01:58 PM
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You can't really stereotype anything about someone's values or personality based on their religion. Having said that, I think you're probably more likely to meet a woman with more conservative, antifeminist values at a church than a bar. As far as the social aspect, that completely depends on the church. Some have a really tight network, and at some churches people barely know each other. One big benefit of christianity, and religion in general IMO, is that it really emphasizes that marriage is …
/r/askMRP23/06/19 04:57 PM
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Pilot licenses are a waste of money unless you actually have a path towards becoming a full time pilot. PMP and lean six are good things to have on a resume. Go for both.
/r/askMRP14/06/19 03:37 PM
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Hard to keep track of all the acronyms this group uses. A&A? IOI? Help out a new guy...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/19 11:11 PM
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