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Say "I want to go further than kissing."
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:23 AM
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Been in a lull, away from here and out of the field for a while, and this is just what I needed to get my head back in the game!
/r/seduction26/04/12 03:43 AM
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Keep your head up. Look around you, not down. Have a pleasant attitude and let your face show it. Let your guard down a little- there are judgmental people everywhere, but there are also fun and interesting people who are happy to meet you. No need to be extra bubbly if that's not you. Smile a little at everyone - not just one type of person. Try saying hello, or "hey how's it going?" Don't rely on alcohol - you may end up feeling worse. If your self-esteem is low, you want to watch out for over…
/r/seduction11/10/11 12:58 AM
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Yes! I do this a lot of the time during the day, as I am mostly out during the day. A sly grin isn't so much something that I fake, but I find reasons to entertain myself that make me smile. Sometimes it is to poke fun of someone, something, a situation, or even myself. It sets me apart, since a lot of times people are quite serious in demeanor. It also conveys that I am comfortable in the world and find it all slightly amusing.
/r/seduction09/10/11 11:25 AM
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In one case, there was a friend who i was attracted to, we were drunk, she gave me a kiss on the cheek, and I stopped in my tracks and said, "that's the first time you kissed me. I actually have a huge crush on you." She returned the feeling but unfortunately, another dude won her over that night. With another friend in the same circle, I let it be known that I was attracted to her by strategically telling another girl at the party, knowing full well that news travels fast; we weren't as close o…
/r/seduction26/09/11 06:15 AM
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"you never write, you never call. The kids want to know when mum is coming home. What am I supposed to tell them?" This is brilliant, instantly brings in a role play which can last much longer than you would ever expect. I did a variation of this today: "You don't call, you don't write, I'm starting to think you are a figment of my imagination" Her response: LOL that's brilliantly funny. How've you been?
/r/seduction24/09/11 08:15 AM
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I get where you are coming from and it's a sticking point that I'm working on myself. But you don't need to be a dick or manipulative to be successful with women! And you don't need to disrespect her wishes. If she doesn't want to take it in a certain direction, then certainly respect that. One way to think about it though, is to take the lead in setting the pace and the tone of the relationship by being open about your attraction. But I feel you. I have gained the trust of many women because I …
/r/seduction23/09/11 11:22 PM
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Been listening to these this morninghttp://www.daygame.com/podcast/page/2/
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:04 PM
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make it a conversation piece during the screening phase? like give them an opportunity to ask you about it. I don't know much about it the reason for turban, but there are women who are interested in culture and worldly stuff. Try turning the attention it brings into useful way to grab attention. Be humorously self-aware, come up with a few jokes or funny experiences you can use about your predicament to break the ice. Point to it and say "its part of my bad boy image I'm using to attract women.…
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:39 AM
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Downtown agricultural community, population 30,000. I use public transportation and ride a bike, which means I am outside a lot when taking care of business. Lots of fellow pedestrians to meet. Nothing too special about how I'm learning, just starting with direct approaches at first, eg "I just wanted to say I think you're pretty." Just to get the nerves out. I watched some Daygame blueprint, read up on some seddit. At this point, just saying hello, smiling, waving to lots of people, asking ques…
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:18 AM
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Thanks man. Day game is quite fun for me.
/r/seduction18/09/11 08:40 PM
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thanks. and fellas, sorry this post came out scatter-brained. i was trying to get some thought out quickly but didn't want to spend too much time on context and details. Next one will be better.
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:40 PM
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thanks, i was writing sort of stream of consciousness so i guess it isn't really clear. perhaps this isn't negs per say, but mainly, i'm trying to move away from what feels a bit clumsy and overcompensating acts of confidence toward kindness. For example, if I am on a full bus, and a woman and child are left standing, I've actually found myself thinking, "do not offer her a seat because you are putting her on a pedestal." That is what I want to avoid, that sort of blanket application of thinking…
/r/seduction22/07/11 02:24 AM
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that was the confusion. it does, but i recalled that it also means sentence. then i went home and looked for alternative words. i suppose "frase" could have worked.
/r/seduction14/07/11 02:28 AM
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I didn't use the fact that I was friend zoned to my advantage. In the situation, where there is great chemistry but wrong circumstances, others in the circle might point out the attraction while she denies and I play along and be a friend. But when circumstances changed - eventually the right right time, and place came along and we made magic.
/r/seduction13/07/11 05:57 AM
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Not too bad, even though you were nervous and awkward, you pushed through. There will be plenty of opportunities to get your confidence up. I love taking the public transit, sometimes at a bus stop, you can ask about a bus route, "did the 6 come by already?" or something like that. I find a lot of folks have headphones on, one thing I've tried and worked, if I sit next to a girl with headphones on the bus, I will reach over to show her my playlist, say "check this out" and have her listen for a …
/r/seduction13/07/11 02:53 AM
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Right. Don't ignore it if it bothers you. They sound like immature lames that are insecure, and for some reason, perhaps because of how you carry yourself as non-confrontational, they use you to compensate for their own sense of inadequacy. You can't change that. But you can control your response. Understand that you are being verbally attacked. If you defend yourself directly, you will validate their authority. If you accuse them of attacking you, they will deny and call you crazy. If you ignor…
/r/seduction10/07/11 07:25 AM
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ha, yes, well i didn't mind the biological clock convo since i wasn't necessarily interested in the hookup. I was just happy to keep the convo going. I do need to step it up with the cold approaches, I started with some basic stuff, but i like to throw in random, odd questions. These can either work to set me apart if they get the humor, or they can back fire if they come off as snide or confusing. When I asked her what she was listening to in her headphones, she said Ashanti. i asked with a pok…
/r/seduction09/07/11 05:40 AM
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I learned my lesson years ago about getting high with girls. It was actually with someone who I was already seeing and really liked. I smoked before a date to get "relaxed" and it backfired. I couldn't make a decision about anything and she even had to sit me down and ask what if I was sure about seeing her. Thankfully I recovered somehow. Now, I normally don't use weed at all if i am going to be in a social situation - it tends to get me into my own mind, make me hyper-aware of any insecurity, …
/r/seduction06/06/11 09:17 PM
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update: some of the girls are married, its ok though because like people have said, that sort of takes the pressure off and i keep up the playful conversation. Got a circle of three friends to invite me to go out next weekend. I've been needing to work on transitioning to number close, so i asked a beautiful muslim woman for her number today. she of course said know, its ok though, felt good to make her smile when i told her that i thought she was beautiful, and it made me appear bold in front o…
/r/seduction04/06/11 02:58 AM
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