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Coach Kyle is the best
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:22 PM
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Ultimate man project Facebook group. Best I’ve come across
/r/seduction14/07/20 02:52 AM
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I like Russell brands podcast too
/r/seduction14/07/20 02:40 AM
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Joe Rogan is the classic - covers a range of diverse topics which he often dives pretty deep into
/r/seduction14/07/20 02:39 AM
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/socialskills is a good sub And /confidence But I’d also recommend coach kyle from YouTube he’s got good content about this And another yt channel: charisma on command.
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:10 AM
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Short answer: yes.
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:32 AM
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“Good girl”
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:25 AM
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Also, I think listening to stand up comedy can help with finding humour in conversation/situations
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:24 AM
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Start listening to interesting podcasts/speakers. By doing this you’ll see the unconventional and engaging approach they take to conversation. It can kind of be summed up like this: I’m conversation, search for the unknown, the exciting and intriguing. Look for their why and the motivations behind their choices and opinions. Don’t be afraid to challenge them with your opinion - can you see any holes in what you think? Maybe they can reveal something you were previously unaware of. Treat every co…
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:24 AM
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I feel like for a relationship to be healthy you have to be BETTER than your girl in all ways, including financials. That being said, I’ll only buy a girl dinner or a drink etc if she really deserves it. Too many bitches looking for hand outs.
/r/seduction12/07/20 08:20 AM
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What was it that made you confidence on this particular occasion? Curious because you said you’re usually social anxious
/r/seduction12/07/20 07:55 AM
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This is a scarcity mindset bro... an unhealthy way to look at pickup.
/r/seduction17/04/20 10:18 AM
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I thought this was gonna be along the lines of fifty shades of grey... not a gay flick!
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:54 PM
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I don't buy into that "introvert extrovert" bs, because so many guys just use it as an excuse. Five years ago i had crippling social anxiety and would literally hide from girls. Communication and social awareness is a skill that can be learned!
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:50 PM
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Thanks for responding, I really appreciate the advice.
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:15 PM
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I said this because I thought it would provide me with a opportunity to gain her friends approval. What should’ve I done instead?
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:11 PM
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Your right, manners go a long way
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:09 AM
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/socialskills
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:08 AM
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Underrated comment
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:08 AM
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Trust me, I’ve been rejected/ignored many times haha
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:07 AM
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Do it
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:07 AM
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/jdbuzzinton said it perfectly
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:07 AM
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I was just be a bit careful then... maybe don’t start conversations with sketchy looking people or just start conversations in safe public spaces?
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:04 AM
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It’s a lot of trial and error honestly. At first, for me, it was definitely awkward when I started conversations but as you get more confidence from experience it gradually becomes easier and easier.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:03 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:02 AM
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I also just ask them how they are going, what they are doing, if they’re from the area, have they been to where I’m going/from. Sometimes I’ll just comment on the weather, or tell them my opinion on a certain topic I’m thinking about. If they are foreign I ask where they ‘re from, what bought them here etc.
/r/seduction18/02/20 05:02 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:30 AM
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Yes, but I think people would be surprised with how easy it can be to get along with complete strangers
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:30 AM
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Have your heartbroken and this won’t happen again. Constantly remind yourself that she can hurt you at any moment. Read stories of guys getting cheating on; read lots of them. Once you realize that all girls share the same basic human nature you will become resilient to gaining deep vulnerable affection towards them.
/r/seduction17/02/20 06:43 AM
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I definitely see your point here. The reason I’m sort of being drawn to gaming sober is because: a) I’m a broke af university student and b) I don’t want to feel like I have to rely on alcohol to pull.
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:03 AM
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Totally agree. Just realized that this is something I need to work through.
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:01 AM
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Lmao your not wrong. I got her Snapchat anyways, hopefully I planted some seeds but we’ll see how things go.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:24 AM
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I think she was giving me an opportunity to develop things further, because we didn’t establish enough of a connection at the club. I’m just too lazy HAHA.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:19 AM
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This is one of my personal stocking points, something I have been struggling to solve myself. In reflection, I think I should have changed locations with her a bit more (instead of just staying in the one spot at the club). If I was to do this again, I would’ve taken her out for some fresh air and then tried to find a similarity between us or have her open up to me. I could have done this by tactically exposing a vulnerability of mine thus causing her to sympathize with my circumstances and enco…
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:17 AM
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Dude Write down exactly what you want. Create a plan to achieve/work towards these things. And remember, baby steps. Nothings gonna change over night. No matter how small - progress is still progress. Being consistent in working towards your goals is what will give you results. Goodluck bro
/r/seduction26/01/20 01:23 PM
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Your persistence, attempt after attempt, is impressive because must guys give up after 1 -2 tries. Good job 👍
/r/seduction22/01/20 11:28 AM
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Look, The basic thing you’re gonna to need to understand is HOW WOMEN THINK AND FUNCTION. Once you understand that you can begin to utilize this understand to your advantage. For example, while generally men think logical, women think emotional - so if you can show you GET IT via a skill set of emotional intelligence then you have a higher chance of building rapport and creating a connection with said girl. Moreover, if you can understand things from an evolutionary perspective, you can understa…
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:57 AM
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Check out this post on beginner material https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/erjd6f/beginner_material/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction21/01/20 03:20 AM
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If you are thinking about sex you will project sexual intent. This will help a girl understand what you want.
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:03 AM
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Dude Just look up “style”. Or read his book The Game. It’s not over for you at all.
/r/seduction21/01/20 02:01 AM
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It was hard not to laugh haha
/r/seduction20/01/20 11:13 AM
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I didn’t go for it too heard because her mum was there and I obliviously didn’t want to ruin the night. But do you think I could’ve gotten her earlier as in right after her mum left? And how would’ve I done that?
/r/seduction20/01/20 11:13 AM
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I must admit my pushing was definitely not obvious. I would do things like make flirty eye contact and then not look at her, go from close proximity to further back and leading the conversation to then slowing down and allowing there to be more silence (for her to fill in). It feels like it wasn’t that hard a pull not gonna lie but she definitely had some anti-slut defenses I had to bypass. Also I feel like I just had to “be the man” and not fuck things up.
/r/seduction19/01/20 01:11 PM
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Legend! Thanks again
/r/seduction19/01/20 12:25 PM
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This is really helpful. Basically, what I’m getting from this is to ultimately incorporate a bit of everything into my game (this will also depend largely on the situation).
/r/seduction19/01/20 11:58 AM
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Appreciate the reply
/r/seduction19/01/20 08:44 AM
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Find what works best for you - got it.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:02 AM
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In my personal experience, I’ve found that when my life is going great and I am developing successfully girls for me become more abundant. Compared to if I continue following my same old depressing and boring routine of not developing myself.
/r/seduction17/01/20 09:32 AM
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This guy isn’t doing nothing - he’s focusing on himself (hobbies etc).
/r/seduction10/01/20 07:03 AM
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Legit saying ‘do you want to go back to mine?’ And ‘do you wanna go smoke a cigarette on my roof?’ Have worked for me
/r/seduction09/01/20 07:25 AM
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I fully agree and understand what you’re saying. Ive kept my Instagram but have unfollowed everyone I’m not friends with and have muted everyone that I do follow.
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:01 AM
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Trying practicing being witty/funny gradually. You could start by saying something funny to a cashier or waitress and then progress to random girls when you feel comfortable.
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:39 AM
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