Dance floor pickup: kiss and snapchat.

Initially, there was a bar fight which I used as a conversation starter to open this hot english chick, pushed her and ignored her for a bit (let the AFC chumps shoot their shot), then came back and sit down in-between her and her friend. She was happy about this, began talking (shoutout to the random dude who wingman-ed me and began talking to her fat friend) then I wanted to go to a different club; asked for her phone number but she didn't have an Australian sim so I left it.

Was on the D-floor at the next club this hot, petite chick was giving me proximity and eye contact so I began dancing with, gesticulating and singing towards her. She thought this was hiliarious. Girls like it when you act like you don't care what they think. We exchanged names/ other basic small talk; I kept things flirty and was pretty direct. Moved in for the kiss and kept it brief. Then we moved to the next club and she came with us.

Acted super confident around her at the new club. I was being 'cocky funny' and doing things like picking her up. I was also joking around with her friends to 'get in' with them. Then we sat down. I tried to move the conversation deeper so she would gain more comfort with me. I guess this must a sticking point for me because I was struggling to get her to open up about her emotions. She was still all over me at this point but when I asked if she wanted to come back mine she was given flakey answers. She wanted me to walk 3 kilometers to go to a beach with her and her friend. No thank you love. So I got her snapchat and that was that.

Lesson: confidence is key. Cocky funny builds attraction. But you NEED to have a emotional connection. She must feel that you and this hook up is special and not just another trashy one night stand.