Okay in my last post I described the difficulties I was having gaming at clubs sober. After reading the comments I decided that I would try again with just two drinks.

An 8.5/10 Instagram closed me. *Both 18

** i had being clingy. I’d rather message her to come over later on then spend the night following her around. Plus, I wanted to have fun with my friends.

This is the interaction:

I was sitting around a table at a club with two of my friends and their tinder dates (fifth wheeling woo) and then about four girls arrive who are friends of the dates.

One of them was very attractive and just so happened to sit down across from me. I smiled at her as soon as I saw her, put my hand out to shake hers, held her hand for a tad longer then normal while confidently introducing myself/getting her name.

Her: Hi, I’m Georgia. Me: Georgia, cool - do you like getting called George? (I had overheard someone call her George as she arrived) Her: Yeah I do actually. Me: Wow, that’s really cool. I know a lot of Georgia’s and they all don’t like getting called George but it’s really impressive that you do because it shows that your confident with who you her. Her: Omg, smiles your so lovely. Me: Have you always liked the name George? Her: No actually, I’ve only liked getting called it recently. Me: Ah, I see. So you’ve matured then? Her: Yes, I feel like I’ve grown as a person a lot these last couple of years. Me: Aw wow, that’s so good. Hi-five (I was smirking and making flirtatious eye contact as she hi fived me) Her: Are you single? Me: I am. Her: (nods approvingly) Me: Are youuu single? Her: yes. Me: Well, do you date beachy boys? Her: Hmmm, I could see myself doing that. I love the beach, it’s my second home.

*here the conversation transitioned into talking about the beach, and me talking about how I’m from a small beach town and joking about her coming to to my parents house with me for a holiday. We also transitioned to schools and how close friendship groups after school ends are so rare yet so incredible.

At some point here she asked for my Facebook, we couldn’t find the account so she settled for my Instagram.

Throughout the whole interaction I maintained really strong eye contact, I felt this made a difference. Also, before this I had been talking to every one I could to develop my social flow for the night - so I was in a great headspace. I also keeps things flirtatious by lightly touching her, having my face close to hers and smirking/using a playful tonality.

I’ll probably take this girl out next week and pull her after that.