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Yup. Just be careful. My ex gf strung me along for a year. She was secretly obsessed with her ex bf and her ex husband. When the ex bf came back she started acting really strange until it got to the point where I broke up with her. She mentioned both briefly at times and I just shrugged it off. Every time she got weird before we got into a relationship she told me she had seen ex bf. Another time she got weird when she met up with the ex hb. She had a picture of me on her desk until randomly one…
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:12 PM
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I’ve had this happen despite pulling back and never hear from them again. They just wanted a one night stand/there’s probably an ex or bf in the picture.
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:54 PM
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In Toronto here too. The apps are dead. No one wants to meet up and even if you meet up it's always "i dont feel the spark". I'm white and 6 feet. Went on over 75 dates off the apps during Covid and lockdowns.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:06 PM
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I would say not interested. You shouldnt be asking her out twice anyways. Did she offer another time to your initial request? If not then she's not interested.
/r/seduction04/05/24 08:32 PM
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As you gain more experience youll see that women absolutely hate these dates. You also look like a try-hard showoff, as the main objective of this date idea was to try to get your crush or date to see you lifting heavy plates of aluminum and you think thats going to get her wet or aroused. Regardless of how much you say "oh thats not what i was thinking. I just like the gym" she's going to see right through it, just like I did.
/r/seduction01/04/24 02:42 PM
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Gym date is a rookie mistake.
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:10 PM
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The apps have been pretty brutal since early 2023. I’ve had the same experience as you. A long string of rejections since then with the apps. All dates have been where I get the cheek at the end, whereas in 2020-22 during peak Covid I would get the kiss close.
/r/seduction24/03/24 09:45 AM
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Very true. Its tough to find one that actually has interests and doesn't expect men to do all the conversational heavy lifting.
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:01 AM
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I only usually do one or two things like this in a night and the rest is convo and casual escalation if the timing is right. Do you have a better way to respond to those questions? Also my background is more than 1 part, which I preface that question with beforehand, hence the 3 guesses. I dated a lot during 2020-22. I’m noticing post Covid a lot of girls on the apps just are fucking boring and don’t know how to socialize in person. I think during lockdown those two years there was a wider varie…
/r/seduction07/03/24 10:28 PM
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You may be their "type" on online dating or attractive to them. Yet even with pictures, video and voice before we have our initial date, OLD dates are usually awkward as hell. Jokes that they laughed about on the app, or on texting in real life, they just stare at you like a deer in headlights in real life. I experienced this myself the other night ago. She asked me "what do you do for work?" and instead of the same boring "I do blah blah blah", I said "I'm agent 008". And she was like "pardon m…
/r/seduction07/03/24 07:20 PM
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Yup. This usually happens because the girl is actually trying to chat to you and make an effort because she's interested in you.
/r/seduction19/02/24 02:04 PM
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I work in a unisex clothing store and talk to many women. No one is interested. They just want to get what they came in the store for and leave. I also work a 2nd job as a cashier in a bulk food store and am in contact with all sorts of people there. I’m treated like a human robot there. No one barely even acknowledges me in either job.
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:07 PM
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I'm a man and i don't feel safe talking to men or women in the street as I live in a major city with all sorts of weirdos around. I've caught a couple instances of people trying to divert me (usually a pretty girl) and another person coming up behind and trying to pickpocket. Never again.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:49 AM
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Im a guy and I hate being hassled in the street. I live in a big city, so there's always people stopping you and harassing you about a cause and its always when you're late to work. I've also caught a few people trying to distract and another person trying to pickpocket me so I have no time for these kind of things and will keep walking and ignore. I'd imagine with a woman, she feels these things tenfold. This is my opinion, dont take it as fact.
/r/seduction14/02/24 12:44 AM
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You’re in Toronto I take it?
/r/seduction13/01/24 09:19 PM
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I had a girl do this last year. I setup a date with her as a backup as the girl I was interested in was super busy and was being a bit wishy washy. I never showed up, ghosted her. She kept messaging me. The girl I liked went to another country on business and I didn’t see her for a week or two. The girl I ghosted kept reaching out. I responded to her and she said ‘I’m going to be here at this time’ and I said ‘great I’ll be there’. Met her in the store she said she’d be in and she gave me a hug …
/r/seduction02/09/23 11:03 AM
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Sometimes even if she’s asking questions back and seems engaged, she isn’t always interested. I’ve had many dates like this only to get the ‘im not feeling a connection’ text afterwards from her.
/r/seduction02/09/23 10:44 AM
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Exactly. When you see and sleep with lots of women you realize just how many women don’t know how to pleasure a man and are pretty bad at sex. I’d say 90-95% I’ve had just lay there like a dead fish. It’s fun for about 5 seconds. Many women don’t give head or complain when they do because their jaw hurts etc.
/r/seduction11/06/23 09:31 AM
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It’s less of a big noticeable change but a lot of small changes. My experience-girls rejecting you don’t always have to do with looks. Last year I got ‘I don’t think we have a connection’ from 5-6 dates in a row at one point. I thought I turned hideous overnight. The next day I had a meeting to be on a national network reality dating tv show and got chosen. Some people will be nice, others will be grouchy, but the good will outweigh the bad. And when you’re with others you will notice this more …
/r/seduction23/05/23 08:19 PM
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Nope to all of them. I can’t think of one celebrity woman I’d go on a date with. Too high maintenance for me. High status is typically an attractive trait for women, hence why most women have actor crushes yet most men could care less about that type of thing.
/r/seduction19/04/23 09:22 PM
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If she actually likes you she won’t flake on you and be risking fucking up her chances.
/r/seduction19/04/23 09:09 PM
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If Angelina asked me out I would not go. Not a fan of her looks or acting.
/r/seduction19/04/23 09:08 PM
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Same here.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:00 AM
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Well you have to be attractive to the girl from the get go. Asking if you can kiss her isn’t going to help your attraction level go up.
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:09 PM
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Asking her puts her in her masculine. Women want to be ravaged tbh. Do they ask for consent in romance novels that women love so much?
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:43 PM
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We’ll see what happens. I just got home after staying the night. I always let her reach out after the dates.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:10 PM
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I usually do drinks for the 1st date. I typically only go on a 2nd date if the girl is seriously feeling it and msging me like crazy. Then I’ll take her to dinner + some sort of event/action. The latest girl who’s ten years older than me, I took her to a nice restaurant on the 2nd and surprised her with a string quartet concert by candlelight. We had marathon sex that night into the next day. We’re on our 6th date tonight after having sex after every date since the 2nd. Taking her to one of my f…
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:44 PM
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If she’s thinking the same thing and actually likes the dude she’ll reach out before she loses him forever.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:26 PM
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I am also from Toronto and get tons and tons of matches on the apps. When women like you, they make it easier for you. I’ve found the best ones I’ve met are ones that had intense interest on the app from the get go. She’ll ask you to come sit beside her instead of across from her. She will make it easy. You’re not going to sleep with every girl you go out with. The 3rd date you mention sitting across from you, just brush her shoulder lightly when you make a joke or lightly touch her arm when bei…
/r/seduction24/09/22 08:42 PM
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I’m 38/m and dating a 48/f at the moment. She is training for a marathon so is definitely in shape and looks younger than 48. This is the oldest woman I’ve ever dated and I’m also the youngest man she’s ever dated. A couple things I noticed- she generally is chasing me harder than a 20 something would, doesn’t give a shit about double texting or appearing ‘needy’, seems genuinely concerned about me, asks interesting questions, is more engaged in the conversation, has interesting hobbies, has mor…
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:55 AM
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Ya the woman that approached me in the bus I mentioned earlier was African American, who had just moved to my city from a different city. Also she was not attractive but because she was ballsy I gave her a shot.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:59 AM
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They obviously haven’t been to bars or clubs.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:32 AM
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Former male model here. I was asked for my number once in a bus by a random girl. Once.
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:32 PM
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Even though she had no problem texting me before and keeping the conversation going? Even though she rejected the kiss and the first date was me doing all the conversational work? I also have two other girls I’m talking to putting a lot more effort in. I’m meeting one of them for drinks the next day. Also ‘are we still on’ has never worked for me. Looks weak and needy.
/r/seduction30/08/22 12:51 PM
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I agree. Not many have any actual interests or hobbies apart from social media/watching tv. I’d be happy to meet a girl that looks good that reads books even.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:50 PM
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Unfortunately many girls overlook this step.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:40 PM
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I’m known by my friends as a ‘pretty boy’ so they’re not surprised by the number of matches. I tell them all the stories and they’re always like ‘yup that sounds right’. A couple are also on the apps and have the same horror stories. The girls on these apps tend to hop from guy to guy very quickly.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:53 PM
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They’re not turned off though. Almost all have made out with me. It’s just super hard to get a second date because girls are talking to so many guys.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:52 AM
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Girl I’m supposed to meet tonight just canceled 4 hours ahead of the date.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:18 PM
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I have experienced these comments even when escalating. Even when a girls tongue is down my throat.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:20 PM
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I didn’t understand what she was trying to do at first because it came out of nowhere, so maybe I wasn’t as receptive for the first one or two.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:03 PM
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I do. I’m just talking in terms of connecting. For instance she says some thought or opinion she has. And if I agree or our values line up I’d say something like ‘I totally understand what you mean by….’ It’s about relating to people.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:02 PM
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I understand what you mean. When I think of connecting I’ve done to make friends, I’m just myself and talk exactly the same way I talk to these women. I’ve never felt I needed to do anything but be my natural self. Obviously that isn’t working. I can make guy friends all day long though.
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:48 PM
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I don’t base ‘everything’ on it. I base her wanting to be kissed on it. Get your negative energy out of my thread, troll.
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:41 PM
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How do I connect other than getting them to open up about themselves, touching, and going in for the kiss when the vibe is right?
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:22 PM
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She mentioned she wanted to check it out after I told her that a bunch of my buddies and I went the week before. She assured me that she ‘is the party’.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:31 PM
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Maybe she was doing coke in the bathroom. Who knows?! I was looking at the bus route of the bus she was waiting for and it went nowhere near her neighbourhood she told me she lived in. She could’ve also been waiting for a ride from someone. I’d suspect that there is another guy who she’s known longer, who gave her an invite. She told me she’s been going to a lot of meetup events as of late.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:50 PM
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I’ve gone through different phases. Last year was dinner and a walk. Then stuff got shut down because of Covid over the winter here and I met a few girls out for just a walk. Then it became coffee and a walk and then now it’s usually drinks and a walk. Typical date would be we meet, great convo, many things in common. Go for a walk to talk more. Drop her off at the subway and make out or walk her home and make out. Flirting style usually starts with a compliment or a joke and touching her back o…
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:11 PM
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You might be right. Something to think about. Be bold over being safe?
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:03 PM
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That is correct. I should be more aggressive?
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:02 PM
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This was the first time in my life a woman has left in the middle of the date or in the middle of a kiss even.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:00 PM
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Oh I thought you meant 5 women in one night? I’m seeing another girl tonight, another on Sunday, another on Monday, another on Wednesday, another on Thursday, another next Saturday, another next Sunday and another next Monday.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:53 PM
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I must be a pretty damn good catch then that many women keep our convo alive between the asking out and the date. I asked this particular girl out about a week ago. She sent me voice msgs everyday in between then and now saying ‘hope you had a great day at work. Can’t wait to meet. I’m doing blah blah blah. What are you up to?’
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:50 PM
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Do you have any suggestions for doing this with kino?
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:47 PM
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How would you suggest I stagger the dates? I’ve booked multiple women on one night before but I’ve always had everyone but one cancel beforehand so far.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:44 PM
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Yes. I typically have 2-5 dates a week every week. I’ve asked out at least 3-400 girls to get those 80+. It’s a lot of work and effort. I get a shit ton of matches because of my looks.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:25 PM
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Not sure why someone downvoted your comment.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:13 AM
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I just remembered that at one point she sort of jumped and said to me ‘I thought I just saw someone I knew over there’.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:10 AM
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I’ve started consciously booking first dates either close to hers or mine. In this case, the club was close to my place.
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:07 AM
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I was trying to do this but failed.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:18 AM
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Sunday I’m meeting a girl I met last year already for the 1st date. I restarted my bumble account and I saw her on the app, and remembered I met her and we made out but she never reached out afterwards. I swiped left. It said ‘you’ve missed a match’. I found her number in my old phone and texted her. At first she played dumb until I told her that I saw that she swiped on me. She then said she thought I ghosted her because I didn’t reach out first. You never know what’s going to happen. I got a r…
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:14 AM
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Ya. I honestly think there was another guy in the picture.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:07 AM
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Not my 1st. My almost 80+ experience of this happening. This next one on Saturday night also built up the date with lots of messaging and voice notes. She sent me a 4:00 voice note yesterday in response to a :30 one. Hope it’s a better experience.
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:05 AM
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Exactly, which is why I’m confused. She looked up at me with seductive pupil dilated eyes when I touched her shoulders. It’s the ‘kiss me’ look I mentioned in the OP. I wouldn’t have been as ballsy to go for the kiss within 20-30 minutes of meeting someone if it wasn’t for that look. There were no drugs involved. Her eyes looked normal when we were talking. She’d have to be a really great actor to pull this off if she wasn’t interested. I had one other date do the same look a few weeks back and …
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:53 AM
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Nope, I’m upfront about my height on the bio. I liked what I heard thus far. I definitely knew more about her than she did me. I had planned to leave with her in my head when we finished kissing. We would’ve went for a walk downtown and would’ve been able to talk a bit more without the noise. She did the majority of the talking when we were outside in the middle and also in the club, so she knew only a handful of my interests or much about my personality based on my responses to her talking, as …
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:45 AM
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Maybe. But I can tell when pupils are dilated.
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:36 AM
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She’d have to be an amazing actor. She was laughing from the very beginning. The very first thing she commented on as soon as we met was my height(I’m 5’10 and she was 5’ so she barely stood at my shoulders). Maybe it turned her off? But why kiss me back? Why the compliments? Why grab my hand twice? Why the tongue down my throat? If she was turned off or felt things were incompatible, she would not be doing those things, no matter how much trying to power through the date.
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:32 AM
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She was the one that built it up. She kept messaging me everyday in between when we made the date and today, asking me about my day, flirting etc. I was just responding.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:47 AM
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She has a 14 year old son as well. Amazing body for someone who had a kid. We are both almost 40, but we both look A LOT younger. People always think I’m in my mid-late 20s, so I blend in.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:45 AM
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Sucks that she built it up so much.. I feel let down. I let some of my friends hear our voice messages and they were like ‘you got this no problem’.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:38 AM
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Possibly. I was chewing gum earlier so maybe it wore off. When we were outside, she was smoking. She asked me if I wanted one and I said I don’t smoke anymore.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:37 AM
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Maybe… maybe it’s something in my body language but I’ve also done video chats before dates a few times and still get this response.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:34 AM
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For someone who wasn’t into me she left me an awfully seductive sounding voice message this morning telling me ‘she couldn’t wait to meet me’.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:29 AM
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She was 34. I am 38.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:27 AM
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It was all based off body language and the ‘connection/chemistry’ hence why I’m confused by the ‘connection isn’t there’ comment then leaving.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:26 AM
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You’re probably right. I deleted her because if she’s that quick to give up on it, it’ll always be a bullshit relationship. Every relationship that’s ever worked out long term for myself or anyone I know doesn’t start with someone leaving in the middle of the first date. This is actually the first time someone has walked out on a date on me.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:56 AM
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They would know how attractive I am before going out with me in person based on my pictures. The convos are almost always great with lots of stuff in common. I love to travel, I love pets, I paint, draw, play music (guitar, drums, bass, keyboards), lift weights, play on a rec basketball team, read a ton (mostly non fiction), rock climb, scuba dive, have a healthy social life, amongst many other things, so I definitely have a lot going on.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:52 AM
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Ya I don’t do that shit anymore. I was doing the $70 dinner dates last year. I surprisingly never got the ‘no chemistry’ speech then though. It’s funny cause some girls on the app mention to me that the guys on hinge are all fat and bald and boring and I stick out as I’m actually physically attractive/interesting. You’d think they wouldn’t be so hasty to throw me away after saying that. I get so many matches that for instance last night after having a date where I didn’t escalate (I wasn’t inter…
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:34 AM
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20 bucks for her ticket plus 20 bucks in drinks.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:20 AM
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I agree with this. If our relationship is starting like this, that’s a bad sign. It won’t be a strong bond. I have a feeling another guy is in the picture. Like I mentioned we saw each other outside the club after she left and she could’ve said something, but she didn’t. She just looked at me awkwardly. It was no shit test.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:19 AM
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Just had this same shit happen to me. Girl continuing convo for a week, the big build up, a great time and then bam in the middle of the 2nd kiss ‘I’m just not feeling the connection. I’m gonna go’.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:00 AM
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I agree. It’s rather annoying. We were talking on voice chat prior to meeting and there was no resistance. So she knew my voice, the way I talk and my face. Maybe there’s another guy. A little bit before the tongue kiss and the final time she went to the bathroom she took out her phone and started recording video of the club and text it to someone and also posted it on instagram.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:43 AM
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Maybe. She also had 3 rum and cokes, so I’m not sure how clearly she’d be able to discern that within seconds like that.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:36 AM
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It sucks because we had a lot in common and I really liked her. It seems if I don’t like the girl, act awkward and let her lead, that my dates go well from OLD.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:32 AM
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When she stuck her tongue down my throat that was only the second round of kissing, which was about an hour later after the first kiss.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:27 AM
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I just want to know if I did something wrong in my interaction so I can fix it in the future. I’ve been getting this ‘no chemistry’ thing a lot lately, kiss or no kiss. Last year I almost never got this. I could be a bad kisser, but if I was she would’ve left after the first one and definitely wouldn’t have stuck her tongue down my throat.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:19 AM
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I already deleted her off hinge. I am booked up every night until next week Sunday with OLD first dates.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:14 AM
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My almost 500 matches in hinge disagrees with this.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:53 AM
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Typically these people have anxiety and flake on everyone. Girls tend to overthink things. I’ve seen this happen at work. Many girls will call in sick multiple times a week, show up late with massive stories etc. I have my 4th rec basketball game of the summer season tonight. We have 2 girls on our team. They have never met one another. Both have flaked out at one time and we’ve had to get subs. Every single guy on the team has been there for every game. In general girls are unreliable.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:38 PM
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I’ve only ghosted like this if a woman is super clingy or one time a woman told me she ‘only brings guys here to friendzone them’ on a 1st date. Kindve a douche comment. We made out at the end of the night. She started off super texty and chatty then got distant as the 2nd date got closer. I bailed on it.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:31 PM
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Fear? Women like to overthink things and there are many that will get anxious thinking about the previous interaction and how the next interaction will go.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:28 PM
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Yes. She made a comment about me looking like I really work out when she was giving me the bj.
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:39 PM
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Her skin and pussy smelled like blackberry bubbly. She had at least 30 empty cans on her kitchen counter. Had one beside her bed when we were in bed.
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:33 PM
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I do do that. I already mentioned in this thread that I had planned her initial date on the same day as another more desirable girl. I was relieved she cancelled before I had to.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:40 AM
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She told me she was here for another 6 weeks and wanted to have some fun before she goes hence her asking me to bring a box of condoms to leave over at her place. When we planned our initial date earlier this month she was very chatty and was/is more into me than I was/is into her.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:39 AM
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True. She was trying to get me to stay that night and not meet up with my friend at the club. I’m glad I only stayed an hour and stayed on course.
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:36 AM
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She was planning on meeting up with me a few times before she leaves the country.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:27 AM
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Maybe. Although I’m one of those ‘top 5% guys’ on OLD that gets hundreds of messages and dates. I’m not sure why she’d use me to do that.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:20 AM
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I think it was her first time trying it out, as she seemed inexperienced sexually. She also had no condoms on her and I had to bring a box which she asked me leave there.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:11 AM
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I would think she has issues related to keeping definite plans. Probably got nervous as the time got closer. She canceled our original first ‘date’. She also had no condoms on her and asked me to bring a box over to leave (which she still has).
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:07 AM
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There was/is no dinner. It was an excuse.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:54 AM
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Not really. Just screwed up my Sunday night plans since I made plans with her in advance. I could’ve planned with someone else who wanted to go on a date.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:52 AM
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Maybe. She told me she’s moving to South America in 6 weeks. Who knows if that’s true.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:50 AM
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Not really. She was barely average looks wise. Even when I set up the initial date with her, I set up a date with another more desirable girl later on the same night. I was relieved when she initially cancelled, as I was planning on cancelling anyways. Her apartment was also a fucking mess with empty cans of bubbly water all over her kitchen counter, plates in the sink, toilet was nasty, walls were dirty etc. Also she was selfish in bed, as mentioned above I fucked her for like 3 minutes and got…
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:06 AM
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She has my number. She can get in contact with me if she wants me to come again at any time. I just don’t see why she’d name a specific day and time ahead of time, then bail on it. That’s just asking for an awkward interaction in the future. Maybe as a guy I think too logically to figure this out.
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:59 AM
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That’s what I was expecting. Just the one time. But she kept making it seem like it was going to be an ongoing thing. I said nothing about meeting up again. Why lie?
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:09 PM
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Reddit is getting increasingly soft. ‘Wokeness’ is ruining our lives.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:42 PM
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If they turn the head, you delete the number. A woman who likes you will do everything in her power to not fuck things up.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:41 PM
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Women who actually like you won’t turn the cheek either. She’ll do everything in her power to not fuck it up.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:36 PM
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You’re only a creep if you’re unattractive to her.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:34 PM
1

Big difference Girl I like kissing me out of nowhere on a date we consented to together-I’m breathless and feel a jolt of electricity Girl I am not attracted to kissing me out of nowhere-I’d push her off too
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:08 PM
1

Good for you. Can’t say the same for myself or anyone else I know. If a girl is afraid to lose you, she won’t fuck with you like this.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:36 PM
2

Who the fuck cares? If she’s not into it, then you’re out of her life anyways.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:31 PM
13

Never follow what girls say. Follow what girls do.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:27 PM
1

Nah. Good looking guys get turned down all the time. I just got shot down on a date on Saturday. The day before I was chosen from hinge to interview with the casting director for a bachelor type dating show that’s going to be coming to CTV in Canada because they like my looks.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:07 AM
9

She agreed to come over though. This was after she was all over me at the restaurant. She was practically in my lap. I asked her if she wanted to come over for some hot chocolate (it was a cold winter evening) and she winked at me and said of course. We got to my house and talked a bit, forgetting all about the hot chocolate and ended up making out. Then this happened. I met this girl off hinge. It was our third date. She was 15 minutes late for every date. I believe she was either dating someon…
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:00 AM
31

Last time I did this the girl got up and left and demanded I walk her back to the subway station. She then held my hand while not saying a word. Kissed me goodnight and told me she’d message me when she got home. Never heard from her ever again.
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:29 PM
1

I think it’s just because of my area. White guys, especially with blue eyes are rarer so more in demand I guess?
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:11 PM
1

Or it could be the myth that ‘chad’ bangs girls nonstop from OLD is all a lie? The majority of the girls who’ve met me off the apps are ESL. They’ve come to Canada from other countries within the last few years and want to be with a white guy. That last girl could barely speak English but she liked me. Don’t think I’ve even gotten to the point of ever getting a fellow white Canadian actually out on a date off the app. The majority of them are either fat, ugly or if they’re hot I get a message or…
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:41 PM
4

Just telling me I ‘fucked up’ without giving me solutions doesn’t help. Anybody can sit back and laugh and point fingers and say ‘you fucked up’. That’s lazy man.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:23 AM
2

Wish I knew. The majority of those 75+, probably about 65-70 I connected with on the first date and we ended up making out with hand holding/kino. Some of these girls the same night to a few days later said they didn’t feel sparks when we kissed, so didn’t want to continue to date. Many ghosted or I asked them out for date 2, they agree then ghost along the way of making plans. The other 5-10 either gave me the cheek when I went in for the kiss or I didn’t feel anything with them/they didn’t for…
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:55 AM
2

That girl is from Vietnam and has been here for 4 years. She has no family that lives here.
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:06 PM
1

I wasn’t available until Thursday. I work 3 jobs and belong to a Rec basketball league. She was made aware of this on the 1st date.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:04 PM
1

The date was in the middle of the week. We didn’t text for 3 days. I have three jobs and I belong to a rec basketball team. She knew this. I told her this on the 1st date. My hinge profile also says ‘not looking for pen pals’ so I was very upfront about my texting habits.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:02 PM
2

That’s complete opposite of any advice I’ve ever heard.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:03 PM
2

Most seem okay with initiating texts in between dates. Only a handful of girls have vocalized why I don’t text in between dates. The point I was making in the original post is it is not just this one date and scenario. I have had many dates where it’ll go amazing, she sticks her tongue down my throat and passionately makes out with me and then I’ll sometimes get ‘I didn’t feel any chemistry’ or ‘I’d like to go on a 2nd date’ and then radio silence when you ask them when they’re free. It’s not ju…
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:50 PM
-1

It was 3 days. I didn’t think it was a big deal. Nobody reaches out.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:31 PM
3

I’ll try out your advice. I’m seeing a girl for the first time Saturday. So I should text her a simple ‘hey catch you’ either tonight or tomorrow?
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:23 PM
0

We were silent in between the first date plans and date as well. Why didn’t she reach out? It takes two to tango. Would she wait for brad Pitt to reach out? I had gone to the bathroom literally 5 mins before we left the bar. Would’ve looked weird but yes you are right, I didn’t think that through. I was thinking that might be too much too soon. I may have made a flub but she showed disrespect by not showing up to the date. She doesn’t deserve my attention.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:01 PM
1

I’ll try this. You do have a point. I just don’t want people to think I’m not interested then stop talking because of that. A number of people here pointed out that they thought I didn’t text enough.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:50 PM
-1

I’ve always been taught to not text between dates and to let the girl reach out/always assume interest.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:49 PM
2

38 from Toronto.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:48 PM
1

I’ll try it with the next one. How long would you wait before setting up the date?
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:45 PM
3

So I just should’ve said ‘yes I got home safe. I had a great time too’ then leave it at that? She had also asked me what I was up to. So I just say ‘blah blah blah you?’ And let the convo die off? I should also mention I mainly talk in voice notes over hinge.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:37 PM
2

It’s not about being a priority or the priority. Ever meet a girl in your life that can’t stop talking about a guy she just met. You’re hard to forget if you’re that guy. You think she’d forget about a concert she made plans to go see with her favourite band? If she forgot it shows very low enthusiasm/interest. Especially when she doesn’t counter offer or say anything in response. It’s hard to understand why she’d initiate setting a 2nd date with me and then pull away after only 3 days. I gave h…
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:26 PM
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Do you forget a date with someone you’re into? I responded ‘ah ok’ after she sent me the ‘I forgot text’ and she didn’t reply.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:00 PM
2

She didn’t seem to forget the 1st date in which we went through the same amount of time in between confirming and meeting up without texts.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:59 AM
2

I’m in Toronto, Canada. It’s really hard to meet people here as they are closed off. Even more so now because of our almost 2 year lockdown. Many just moved here and can barely speak English. I should also mention I’m 38/m. Thanks for the ideas. I’ll give it a shot and see what happens.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:21 AM
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I started playing rec basketball this summer as a way to meet people in general and also to get cardio. I play in a co-ed league but the girls aren’t very attractive. Any personal suggestions? As far as 100s of matches I get a lot too. I have 300 in my hinge alone but every situation ends up like this unless I date girls im not attracted to.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:56 AM
1

My experience-I’m in Toronto right now (the biggest city in Canada) and it’s one of the toughest places to date in the world. Nowhere near as many girls as nyc, but with pretty much every girl thinking they’re supermodels. There is also a huge LGBTQ+ presence especially amongst youth downtown. There are still a lot of overweight/obese people here because this area is particularly Americanized. These two things really cut down the dating pool for men. There are however a TON of men here. I am whi…
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:00 AM
1

She brought up tv and I had gone to the gym a few hours before the date. She asked what I did that day. These girls are from OLD. I hate to post a whiny post like that but it’s extremely tiring. Just came off another horrible one last night. I’ve gone on 65+ dates from OLD since sept 2021 and only 4 resulted in the 2nd date or more.
/r/seduction05/07/22 10:11 AM
3

Im taking better care of myself and my well-being and I find it’s pushing people away. I always get ‘what, you don’t watch much TV?!?! You read actual books?!?’ or ‘you’d rather go to the gym?!? Im too lazy for that shit’. As soon as I mention going to the gym 4-5 days a week, not owning a TV, cooking the majority of my own meals, and not liking to sit at home too much/always moving forward/ travelling/having lots of friends/being ambitious the last 5-6 girls have instantly gone from ‘thanks to …
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:03 AM
3

Nope.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:19 PM
1

Anyone who’s ever asked say ‘good for you I wish I could do the same’. Having no social media hasn’t hindered me at all.
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:33 AM
1

Tinder is a piece of shit. Bumble is pretty bad too. A lot of fake/not active profiles on both. Hinge is a little better. I was on a hinge date last night and made out with the girl on the subway home. Who knows if there’ll be a second date. So it does work to an extent.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:26 AM
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Tbh most girls don’t even look at my profile. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been on a date and she doesn’t know my height, my hometown or any other info I’ve put on my profile. They pretty much are only talking to me because I’m a ‘hot guy’. It’s the way the apps work imo.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:11 AM
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Because they can. There are a lot of thirsty guys out there.
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:57 AM
2

I did it by pretty much voice chatting on hinge. They allow you to hear your message before you send it. Also I get tripped up sometimes when talking on voice chat but I don’t care-I’m human and I can accept that. Women don’t care if you don’t care.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:14 PM
2

Try slowing down your delivery. Record yourself. Be conscious and adapt. I found this made a huge difference in people being attracted to me. You’re in no rush.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:10 PM
1

Your voice sounded pretty weak. Although you took it ok, you’re definitely giving off a nice guy vibe with the way you’re answering. Let her speak and don’t say a word. Let it be awkward. After she said her initial spiel about being professional just say ‘ah ok no problem’. If she hamsters more about why she can’t go out for drinks just say ‘that’s cool. Let me know if you change your mind’. I cringed at ‘thanks for letting me down easy’ and ‘I’ll be outside your door’. I would not say that. Ini…
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:03 PM
3

Watch what they do, not what they say. Please don’t take advice on what builds attraction from another girl. It’s just like your mom telling you ‘all women like nice guys who bring them flowers on the first date’.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:00 AM
0

I’m sorry this is an all time low. Chasing a fucking homeless woman? You are losing your mind dude and you don’t even see it..
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:10 PM
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Gross.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:08 PM
1

Think about what hot girls do to maintain their attractiveness. They go to the gym, eat correctly, buy flattering clothes, get a flattering haircut, invest in skincare etc. That’s just step 1. On top of this, as a man we are expected to have a passion and hustle. Figure out yours and work towards it. Pick up different hobbies and learn things along the way. Always be busy and on the look out on how to grow in the world. Don’t be afraid to fail. Take action. It is a never ending journey. Enjoy it…
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:38 PM
2

It’s not going to make a woman interested in you. A woman has to be interested in you from the getgo.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:09 PM
3

I’m in Toronto Canada. When we came out of lockdown last summer it was very easy to land multiple dates in a week. Then we went back into lockdown. Then when we came out of lockdown at the end of January this year it was also easy to get multiple dates. As things have been open longer it’s been harder and harder and the flake rate has gone up higher. I get about 1-2 dates a month from talking to probably 50 women. Many will stop responding as soon as you mention meeting up or will try to change …
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:57 PM
0

She was probably dating/seeing another guy when you initially contacted her.
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:50 AM
6

This actually works for girls you’re unsure about. I’ve used this technique a few times. I usually wait till about 15-20 mins before the date. This also helps you avoid wasting your time waiting for the girl as if she responds she will be there already. I don’t leave my house until I get an ‘ok no problem’ response. Some girls will message if it’s still on hours before if they’re super super interested. I like these ones.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:27 PM
1

I see so many white knight guys do this. Makes me cringe every time.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:41 PM
1

Good enough game for pretty much all of them to make out with me though. I’ve seen about another 5 girls since then. The last two were super into me but I stopped talking to both because they were heavy texters, clingy, and wanted to start up a relationship immediately. I just picked up another job and have a few extra curricular things going on so I didn’t really have all the time for the texting and they got mad.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:33 PM
0

I swipe on a wide variety of women as I find all cultures beautiful and interesting. I am a white male. So far on the apps mostly non white girls swipe on me. I have never landed a date with someone the same background or culture as me off the apps. This could also have to do with the demographics of where I live-Toronto, where POC outnumber white people.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:22 AM
1

Nah. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. You’re holding limiting beliefs. Yes you are in engineering but maybe it’s time to try something else you’ve never done before. You don’t have to stop being into engineering. I was super into music before (playing multi instruments 25+ years as my main passion). As I’ve gotten older I’ve branched out and tried different things (I’m 38 now). For example, I started going to the gym recently. This has created a new passion for fitness. I am going to be p…
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:31 AM
2

Go to the gym, work on your style, learn a new hobbie. Try to become interesting instead of bitching about life. Take an interest in other people and ask them about their day, interests, life. Stop buying into political bs being used to divide people for votes. No one cares about the color of your skin. They are looking for someone fun who’s living their best life and get so excited seeing that that they want to join you on the ride.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:35 AM
1

Yup. Dating doesn’t really change unless you’re flashing your wealth. That attracts a certain type of woman. Women will look at you at face value. If you don’t have a flashy car, clothes, expensive watch, they have no idea. Some women will try to figure out how much money you make by asking ‘what do you do for a living’? If you work a menial job but have millions in inheritance or invested, they honestly have no idea.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:31 AM
2

Poor enough hygiene that they stick their tongues down my throat.. Let me give you the latest example. Girl texted me like crazy for a week up to first date. We met a Sunday night and within minutes she was touching me. We made out at the end of the night. She messaged me after the date saying it was ‘one of the best dates of her life’ and ‘wanted to go out again’. I setup a 2nd definite date the next Friday. She messaged me super intense for a couple days after, then told me she was going to a …
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:44 PM
2

I’m a tall, white ‘pretty boy’. Been on the dating apps since September 2021. Have been on 54 first dates since then. Only 3 have progressed beyond the first date. 2 of those were gone by date 3 not by my choice. The other one 3 months not by my choice. 51 of those first dates have made out with me on the first date. I asked those 51 for a 2nd date and was typically ghosted or told there ‘was no spark’. I am still single. Summary:being a tall white ‘pretty boy’ lands you a lot of dates and makin…
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:03 AM
1

Oh I know. 41 first dates off the apps since September 2021 here. Made out with all but 4 who gave me the cheek. Only 3 actually followed through with the 2nd date. I’m tall, white and all 3 were Filipina.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:51 PM
2

I was turned off completely as well. She did say she deleted the dating app we met on during dinner. She said she was ‘sick of it’.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:39 PM
2

I have money. I don’t want a big apartment. I’m never home and would rather spend that money on knocking off things on my bucket list. This girl was much lower on the rating scale than me. Really weird. Super super hot at dinner and ready to go back to my place no problem. We were making out. Then when I lightly touched her boobs amongst her shoulders etc. when we were kissing she pushed me away, got up and left.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:17 PM
2

I live in a super small studio in Toronto and this happened to me as well. She got up and actually left and never talked to me again. That particular girl still lived at home with her parents at age 34. Was chewing gum and she was not. She had the stinky breath.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:42 PM
2

Every date that was successful was very interested from the get go. If I ask out for coffee and the roadblocks start coming up I just end it there. If she complains about the meet location, time etc after giving me her availability and agreeing to the date, I know she’s going to be a dead end.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:19 PM
2

She literally had nothing going on. The 4th date I took her to a raptors game and she basically was silent the whole game. I was singing and dancing along with the music, trying to have a good time and she was just blah.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:00 AM
2

I went on four dates with the same girl off bumble. Each date she got progressively more boring. After the fourth date I told myself ‘I’m done’ and she reached out to me to try to set up a 5th :(
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:34 PM
1

There are no limits. There are many angles you can start and then just ask her additional questions based on her answers. Just be curious. This is another human you’re interested in. How would you describe your personality? How would friends describe you/your personality? What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done? If you could be anywhere in the world right now where would you be?
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:25 PM
1

Yup. I do the same. If she tries to fight about location the date is off. I’m inviting her into my world. If she wants to control the location she can ask me out.
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:09 PM
1

Im not good looking enough to pull that off but do an intro text and then maybe 2-3 voice messages before asking her out for drinks via voice message. Everyone accepts but about 80-90% drop off some way before the date or don’t show up. I’ve been trying a thing lately if I don’t hear from her before the date, I’ll send ‘just a heads up. I’m running about 5-10 minutes late.’ If she doesn’t respond I don’t bother going to the meetup place.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:37 PM
3

You’ve left the ball in her court. She will let you know if she wants to hang out again. Go hang out with other girls who have time for you. You’ll find someone you have this kind of chemistry with again. There are so many girls on the planet.
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:07 AM
1

Oh I definitely know flakes happen. I’ve gone on 37 first dates from OLD since September 2021. Just want to make sure I’m handling it correctly. I’ve also done ‘no worries’ as well. As of now, I have yet to successfully reschedule with a girl who’s flaked on me now matter how I respond.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:37 AM
1

I’m not super worried. I met another girl last night and the date went really well. First date in my last 3 where I went in for the kiss and got it. Have a date tomorrow and Wednesday as well. I’ve just run into this scenario a few times where they seem interested to the point of reaching out before the date super super excited and to make sure it’s still on and then bail on the day of the date because they’re scared.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:34 AM
3

Get rid of social media.
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:28 AM
1

Ya probably not the best day or venue to be picking up girls. I’m not sure where you are but in Toronto some people are still socially awkward from being locked down for so long. I’ve had better success targeting on the apps than irl at the moment. Even on the apps-when a girl tells me she’s been working from home for two years there’s a good chance she’s going to be socially awkward. Last girl I went on 4 dates with she was visibly sweating on the 1st but did pretty well with convo. By the 4th …
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:42 AM
1

A club? Bar?
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:35 AM
1

1 in the last 7 months here. The sex also sucked. A lot of sexual interactions in real life suck because the vast majority of humans are boring and aren’t as experienced as they lead you to believe. Been on at least 60 first dates in that timespan that met me where I wanted to meet for the first date. Made out with every girl except for two of them (got rejected) on the first date. I get 100s of matches on bumble and hinge. I don’t do tinder anymore as there are a lot of inactive accounts/bots/o…
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:30 AM
1

Use texting to set up dates ONLY. Stop the endless text convos.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:35 PM
1

Toronto. When I was in New York in 2019 it was insane. I literally got 500 matches in a day. I send a ‘hey what’s up’ type message as the opener then use voice notes from there.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:50 PM
1

Toronto, Canada. I have not got any dates from direct approaches. Used to do not bad years ago but because of Covid and restrictions people are leary which is why I’ve focused on the apps. Stuff is open but at 50% capacity right now after we just came out of another Christmas lockdown two weeks ago.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:49 PM
1

Maybe 50 thus far. I live in Canada and we’ve been in various states of lockdown. Things open up then close then open then close. It’s pretty bad up here.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:40 PM
1

That’s why you need to approach more. I’ve literally talked to 300-400 girls over the dating apps since last summer and I’ve only got one two month relationship and a 3 week relationship in that time. A shit ton of first dates though (maybe 30-40). All but two made out with me. I am an above average looking guy according to the truerateme Reddit sub and the fact that every girl comments on my looks.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:24 PM
1

Yup. Be prepared for many dates, many make out sessions, many times having sex etc. before you find someone who’s going to be willing to build something with you.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:17 PM
0

You’re going to have to talk to hundreds or thousands to get a relationship. Even for good looking guys.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:13 PM
0

Guys that look like Brad Pitt still get rejected. You can have an amazing personality and still get rejected. You can be exciting and confident as fuck and still get rejected. Dating is a numbers game. Most women will not like you. Think about how many close great friendships you’ve had over your life. It’s about the same odds. I’ve had thousands of girls swipe right on my pictures on dating apps, tell me I’m super handsome and even manage to get a few out on dates. Majority of women either ghos…
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:16 PM
1

We scheduled the call the day before over voice chat. I agree about the name thing being a red flag. She mentioned it after we scheduled the call. I could’ve cancelled it though, so that’s totally my fault for moving forward with it.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:29 AM
1

No clue but one of the most awkward convos I’ve had in my dating history. Guess I’ve been pretty lucky.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:51 AM
3

Maybe. She shouldn’t have asked me about work if she wasn’t prepared to tell me about hers. And it’s still no reason for the weird responses. Literally everything I asked her I got ‘I can’t tell you that until we get to know each other’. Dating and getting to know one another involves sharing info freely between two people about our likes and dislikes.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:54 PM
7

Part of putting yourself out there. This woman was 41 and I’m 38. She told me she hasn’t been in a relationship for like 4 years. In retrospect I should’ve left the phone convo much earlier. I should also note she was using a fake name ‘hope’ on her profile and told me her real name is ‘Avril’ but doesn’t put it up since ‘guys get weird and stalkery about it’.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:59 PM
3

Keep in mind-most girls will not have romantic feelings for you. Even if you’re Brad Pitt you will get rejected constantly and that’s OK. You can also be treated like a king then suddenly dropped for the newer shinier toy. This is why is important to talk with many girls all the time. When you talk with tons of girls you will quickly see which ones are interested in you. They will do anything possible to stay in your orbit and they will make it very clear they’re interested.
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:03 PM
2

Quickest and best way to find out-‘I’d love to get together this next week. When are you free?’ If she gives you days and times, there is some interest. If she dodges the question right away or you get ‘I’ll get back to you’ she’s not too interested.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:39 PM
3

I agree. If you’re going to say this much, do it on the phone or over voice chat at the least.
/r/seduction08/02/22 12:36 PM
0

Nah. It was a voice message and it sounded serious, angry and butthurt. Wasn’t worth it IMO when I had 5 other girls in my inbox happy to hear from me.
/r/seduction29/01/22 05:28 PM
2

I do tease and joke sometimes and consider it ‘flirting’. Last week was teasing a girl on bumble (a 7-8) via voice message-she could clearly hear I was joking by my tone of voice. She teased me/roasted me back on voice message and the bantering went back and forth sparingly as we talked about a couple other subjects all the while both of us clearly laughing and having a fun time. This girl was responding almost instantly every time I messaged with 1-2 minute voice clips. I suggested a meet up an…
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:48 AM
1

This. If a girl is into me after the actual date I’ll get a message ‘I want to see you again. We didn’t exchange numbers. What’s your number?’ Sometimes a girl will ask to move the conversation to text before meeting and I’ll grab her number then but I generally am focused on setting a real physical date first and foremost.
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:20 PM
7

This is true. I am a little bit taller than him at 6 feet and was 270lbs at one point in my life when I was 19 years old. Women would only fall for me at work where I was most comfortable, didn’t give a shit and was dominate. Women you just meet only go by what you look like/how you dress to begin with. One day when I was about 21, I caught a glance of myself in a mirror in public and was disgusted with what I saw. I dieted and walked for 4-5 hrs a day starting in June and ending right before Ch…
/r/seduction19/01/22 12:58 AM
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Very funny. You should be a comedian! Bet your writing that from moms basement. Im not interested in her after that anyways as I mentioned and i left it. But hey if any pussy makes you that excited to try and shame/make fun of me for being picky whom i choose to be attracted to, so be it. Ive worked a lot on myself and know my worth as a man. You dont know anything about me. Theres more to life than getting laid.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:45 PM
1

I do tend to overthink. Just not sure what she was trying to accomplish by not leaving it alone.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:06 PM
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What is the thought process of women who do this? It seemed like a pointless thing to try and change. Its so tough to find anyone who says yes to a date, shuts her mouth and doesnt self sabotage via text and shows up to the date. I havent found one whos done all three yet.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:04 PM
4

You should’ve just left it at too bad. But otherwise good job. I find the less you say in these situations the better.
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:51 AM
0

You’d be surprised at how common this in in today’s world with the internet, online dating and people putting up walls more than ever before.
/r/seduction05/01/20 06:04 PM
1

They do not go together at all!
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:41 AM
15

Attractive men can be lonely yes. Attractive women no. 9s or 10s or even 8s, 7s often have so many men vying for their attention at all times that they simply do nothing. All women get hit on. It’s the old paradox of choice. Especially with bumble, tinder, Instagram dms. It’s like a war zone. An experiment-Try and create a bumble or Instagram account with a 9 or 10 and see how lonely you are.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:38 AM
1

At least he’s direct with his intentions and doesn’t hold back!
/r/seduction02/01/20 11:02 PM
17

Also some men will even send money buy gifts for these internet strangers. All without having to put any effort in and basically without lifting a finger. It is pretty fucked up. Imagine if we had that. Girls would become pretty worthless after awhile. Women are now more worried about how other women see them then what the men are actually saying which is also why you see the competition with thirst traps on IG.
/r/seduction02/01/20 09:19 PM
1

I don’t get a chance to really talk to anyone on the apps as they often stop responding after ‘hi’ or simply unmatch after I respond asking them about something on their profile or the highlight of their week. I have always dated under my attractiveness as I often fall for a persons personality so I basically give anyone I find somewhat attractive or interesting a shot. Also like I said in my history any time I’ve approached someone who I think is ‘in my league’ or higher looks wise, I always ge…
/r/seduction02/01/20 08:13 PM
60

I think online has fucked up a lot of human dynamics. Girls who are average/below average think they are gods gift because 100 men are messaging her on bumble. This sometimes carries over into real life. Working around women all day in my past job in the beauty industry I saw how most of these girls use bumble/tinder first hand. It’s more entertainment and a way for them to get validation without having to put any effort into a relationship. The girls I worked with very seldom went on dates and …
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:59 PM
2

I get ghosted all the time and have yet to meet anyone from bumble or tinder in real life. Most girls I’ve talked to on these apps are well below my attractiveness rating and still ghost/lose interest. Real life isn’t much better for me though. I get ghosted 99% of the time these days anytime a meeting/date is discussed. I’ve done modelling in the past and have worked in the beauty and hair industries, with many people (admittedly older women I had no interest in) telling me I look handsome etc.…
/r/seduction02/01/20 07:25 PM
1

I’ll check you out for sure.
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:23 AM
1

I haven’t gotten much into day game extensively. It’s just weird to see some of my male friends get a little bit of success with it while I’ve had none and I’m rolling on a much larger scale. Not to mention the weird blocking after agreeing and seeming interested. Even had 3 girls I found on bumble or tinder threaten to sick their bfs on me after a simple ‘hey I want to meet up’ message.
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:48 AM
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