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Fuck it. Peace out /r/MensRights Over the last 5 years (lurked here for about a year before creating my first account) I've watched this subreddit grow from ~20,000 subscribers to over 75,000 today. With that growth, came other changes. Discussion switched from helping men and fathers cope with divorce and separations, offering advice and support through those difficult times to what we have today, which is basically : THIS ANTI-RAPE POSTER DOESN'T SPECIFICALLY POINT OUT THAT MEN CAN BE VICTIMS.…
/r/MensRights29/08/13 08:14 PM
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Their website makes Drudge look legit
/r/MensRights05/02/13 05:02 AM
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Who run the world? Girls! Who run this motha? Girls! Who run the world? Girls! ... Some of them men think they freak this like we do But no they don't Make your check come at they neck, ... Boy I'm just playing Come here baby Hope you still like me F- you pay me -Beyonce Knowles
/r/MensRights15/01/13 11:33 PM
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It's called "benevolent sexism". Feminism 101 - Women are "victims" of benevolent sexism. Men have privilege. Class dismissed
/r/MensRights02/11/12 04:13 AM
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Biden made a good point though. Scalia is 76, Kennedy is 76, Ginsburg is 79, Breyer is 74. I think its guaranteed that if Romney were elected Scalia would step down immediately, ensured that he would be replaced with a conservative justice and keeping a 5-4 conservative court. Ginsburg will probably retire before 2016, meaning that the if Romney were elected ,we are now looking at a 6-3 split, advantage conservatives. In all reality the next POTUS will be making at least 2 SCOTUS nominations, an…
/r/MensRights12/10/12 03:59 PM
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I had the exact same thought. If that rule is there to protect the patrons, the dancers and the saloon from liability (some drunk bafoon falls off a table and injures himself, and now the saloon is liable because they hadn't posted this sign). However, if it is to protect patrons from injuring themselves it should say "employees" not "women".
/r/MensRights11/10/12 10:23 PM
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Worrying about whether the shooting was justified or not is usually the least of my problems when I have a fucking hole in me. Who's to say that anyone carrying a gun will only use it in "justified situations"?
/r/MensRights03/10/12 07:43 PM
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This is the feminism I know
/r/MensRights01/10/12 03:00 AM
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RAPE CULTURE<sup>TM</sup>
/r/MensRights05/07/12 12:50 AM
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LOL. You call that a zoo? My house is me, the wife, 14 year old girl, 11 year old girl, 6 year old girl, 3 year old boy. 3 dogs 4 cats 6 chickens 3 rabbits 1 gerbil Throw in anywhere from 2-8 nephews/nieces coming over to swim now during the summer months, and yeah, m wife doesn't blame me when I decide to "work late" some nights. And like you, I often joke about going back to my bachelor days when all I had to worry about was my studio apartment and my kick-ass Toyota MR-2.
/r/MensRights29/06/12 09:21 PM
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Brilliant? Hah. Hardly... Me: "Men don't get breaks like that, though, women do. Just accept it and move on." Her: "And I'm not discussing anything that has to do with gender or social policy with you anymore." "You refuse to reject your own empirical evidence and replace it with my narrative. I'm never discussing such issues with you again!!!" See also : Screw you guys, I'm taking my ball and going home.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 08:24 PM
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Meh, with the Electoral College and my state going red anyways, my vote doesn't really matter, does it? More of a symbolic "Hey, Obama won 48% of the vote in Arizona, and Romney will get all 10 electoral votes anyways. YAY!" Nah, fuck it. I'd rather take the hour or tow I was going to take off work to go vote and sit on my toilet and beat off.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 05:45 AM
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This was the straw that broke the camel's back
/r/MensRights05/06/12 05:33 AM
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Die hard liberal, and Obama just lost my vote.
/r/MensRights04/06/12 11:00 PM
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What could possibly go wrong with placing your financial, legal and parental future in the hands of someone with a clipboard and a van. Seems legit to me...
/r/MensRights30/05/12 07:39 PM
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So while there may be less than 5% of all nurses who are male, you see a much larger percentage than 5% in senior-level positions like hospital administrators.” How many nurses have risen to Hospital Administrator? My guess would be very few. I would say most Hospital Administrators are former doctors, a primarily male dominated profession. I couldn't continue reading after such a bullshit line. What other gems did I miss?
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:42 AM
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States are abolishing the idea of alimony. Just in time for women to start outearning men.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 07:20 PM
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And I would say that stating what is fair and what is not without knowing all of the facts is also ridiculous. I wouldn't deny your argument that the child got the crib dvds etc. Yet, those items still needed to be replaced at my residence. If the parenting time is 50-50....where does the child's 'stuff' stay? My ex-wife does not provide any additional time raising our daughter than I do. It has been 5 years since the separation, and for the last 5 years (discounting the 10 week period that ther…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 01:00 AM
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I'm a male who had a wife that cheated. We subsequently divorced. Here's how it went for me...Granted, we were relatively young and not well off when we were married, so there wasn't a whole lot to divide up, but let's tally it up anyhow... Estimated values in parenthesis SHE GOT Washer and Dryer ($800) $1000 cash rainy day fund we kept in a safe ($1000) Carpet shampooer ($300) Leather Sofa ($800) Queen sized bed ($500) Crib ($300) 50+ DVDs of children's movies ($500) Toys/Stuffed animals ($300)…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 05:34 PM
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TIL I learned that I am fucked up in the head for having a religion!
/r/MensRights09/05/12 12:23 AM
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Yup. I was all geared up for the "You dumb piece of shit. We can't afford that and Suzie's ballet lessons!!" slap. This was hardly not offensive in the least.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 10:30 PM
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Because the portion I quoted isn't Title IX. Title IX would actually help. It'll be interesting to see if Title IX will actually trump this other abomination of a law (in my opinion, it should).
/r/MensRights07/05/12 10:14 PM
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Not if they have a vag
/r/MensRights07/05/12 10:06 PM
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Did you read the article? Southampton school administrators agree, but they don't have the final say. Edward Cinelli, the director of the organisation that oversees high school athletics in Suffolk County, cited a provision in state education law that says administrators are permitted to bar boys from girls' teams if a boy's participation "would have a significant adverse effect" on a girl's opportunity to participate in interschool competition in that sport. Wouldn't it be great if we were deal…
/r/MensRights07/05/12 10:06 PM
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Liberals in your country hate minorities? Jesus fuck, what do conservatives do?
/r/MensRights02/05/12 02:12 AM
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I've tagged you as "Resident expert of retarded"
/r/MensRights26/04/12 10:07 PM
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But they could have wrestling teams. There is nothing to prevent a female from joining a wrestling team, but equal opportunity does not mean equal outcome.
/r/MensRights26/04/12 10:06 PM
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awful lot running around yesterday too. Supposed to be a ton running around tomorrow. Bah-dang-ding-dong-dang I really don't know how one is supposed to convey banjo sounds with text. I tried.
/r/MensRights17/04/12 09:33 PM
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Meh. I unsubscribed from his newsletter and decided I won't be sending a donation this year when he sent me an email advocating VAWA.
/r/MensRights17/04/12 05:22 PM
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No. People should ignore her, and she will go away. Ever notice that the most 'hated' feminists are the ones making the most money?
/r/MensRights08/04/12 03:31 AM
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Exactly this. Reddit has a huge boner for Al Franken, and I jumped on the band wagon even though I don't live in or anywhere near Minnesota. Yesterday, I received an email from Mr. Franken asking me to help him support the new VAWA legislation. I quickly drafted a prompt email explaining why I cannot support VAWA, yet understood his position, anyone that votes against something the Violence Against Women Act would surely lose votes. It's The Patriot Act all over again.
/r/MensRights23/03/12 05:49 PM
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Feminism killed chivalry.
/r/MensRights22/03/12 08:04 PM
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Because one state in the fucking United States has decided to set up something resembling bans on abortion does not mean that this is going to be the beginning of World wide bans on abortion. It doesn't even mean that this will be the beginning of bans on abortion in the United States. You're just being sensationalist about this without even thinking it through. FTFY
/r/MensRights22/03/12 08:03 PM
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That's a paddlin'!!!
/r/MensRights13/03/12 11:30 PM
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What do you guys think? I think Nancy Grace is a useless cunt.
/r/MensRights13/03/12 11:09 PM
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But, but, but....increased pay!!!
/r/MensRights09/03/12 08:13 PM
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Rebecca Watson?
/r/MensRights08/03/12 07:37 PM
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Well, here is how I see it... Your BC failed and you became pregnant. In situations like this, feminists tell us that men have no rights to a financial abortion. Their logic is that no BC is 100% effective, and pregnancy can still happen, no matter how careful you are. With that in mind, if men do not want to be fathers, they should not have sex with women. Otherwise, they need to 'man up' and provide financial support to the mother. I'm simply applying that same shoe to the other foot. If you d…
/r/MensRights05/03/12 09:28 PM
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I do not feel he should have even partial custody, as he has proven himself incapable of handling even the smallest tasks and has managed to become almost 100% reliant on me for everything concerning our boy. You probably shouldn't have slept with him then
/r/MensRights05/03/12 04:41 PM
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If you really want to see how family law works, I highly suggest watching Dear Zachary. It's streaming on Netflix right now.
/r/MensRights02/03/12 04:49 PM
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Exactly. Feminist argument - "Well, by your own admission, false rape claims only account for 10% of all reported rapes. That is far below the false reporting rate for other crimes. We can't doubt a woman's word when it comes to such an atrocious crime, as it may make women more reluctant to report legitimate rapes!!" What they fail to realize is that the way that the law is written now, a man's life can be ruined by a false rape accusation. Fired from a job Expelled from school Shunned by famil…
/r/MensRights28/02/12 11:03 PM
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I guess you could say he overpowered her with it
/r/MensRights24/02/12 05:48 PM
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fucking mansplaining...
/r/MensRights24/02/12 05:07 PM
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Who?
/r/MensRights13/02/12 06:53 PM
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Hey, how about a spoiler alert!?
/r/MensRights03/02/12 07:48 PM
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You just don't get it, do you? I was in an elevator and a guy asked me up for coffee. After explicitly stating "Don't hit on women that you meet at seminars". Jesus fuck. If that isn't 2 inches away from a brutal rape, I don't know what is. /s
/r/MensRights31/01/12 06:20 PM
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I would say a campaign that asks men "Why are you paying as much as 7x the amount for the same drink as a woman?" Then again, you can't teach stupid....
/r/MensRights30/01/12 08:43 PM
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make every ladies night their least busy night of the week. make every ladies night their least profitable night of the week. FTFY Everytime I hear about 'ladies night' I hope that the place is packed with women paying $1 for everything, bartenders are making shit tips and there isn't a man in sight. This happens enough and the bar will soon realize that they are losing money on the proposition and the bartenders will be in revolt. Of course we know this isn't happening. It's usually 1 woman for…
/r/MensRights30/01/12 08:08 PM
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Here's one. Very average Joe here. Upon our divorce, my wife made more than I did. Not a whole lot more, but more. $40,000 + Bonuses versus $33,000. Right after our divorce, my ex-wife decided she did not want to be the general manager of a national retailer anymore. It was time for her to go back to school. At the time, our daughter was in daycare. Guess who got stuck with 70% of the cost of raising the child, plus 70% of the cost of daycare, plus 70% of the cost of insurance premiums for our d…
/r/MensRights24/01/12 10:26 PM
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I came here to post the same thing. I read the first 2 sentences and was like "Wow, I'm surprised that I've never heard of her." Wikipedia has nothing on her. A Google search sends you to her Linkdin profile, and then to something called "The International Museum of Women" where there is another blurb about her, obviously written by her. Bloggers, don't pull this shit. Don't write little biographies of yourself claiming to be God's gift to the World. It makes it really hard to take you seriously…
/r/MensRights20/01/12 08:06 PM
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Shoot this email off to them... "I do provide monetary contributions to many different charities. As with any individual, the resources are limited. The demand is always greater than what I am capable of contributing. I understand that many people undergo the same life crisis issues; however, I cannot help everyone. Daily, I have inquiries to contribute to organizations that assist individuals with disabilities, heart problems, MS, asthma and various other chronic medical conditions, which all h…
/r/MensRights19/01/12 10:25 PM
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I hope by now wife = ex-wife
/r/MensRights10/01/12 07:56 PM
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Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you. The Family Guy quote was a low blow, and for that I apologize. Your post hit a nerve with me though, so I felt I had to get a little nasty, ad took it too far. Congrats on being featured in publications and selling some of your work. What hit a nerve? I'm taking a total guess based on your username, but if you are in fact a female born in 1988, I don't think you have much of a leg to stand on when arguing "Women did it in the 70's, why can't you?…
/r/MensRights20/12/11 06:49 AM
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Great, rally together and fight for it non-stop (that's how women in the 70's got it). Says the 23 year old with a Nikon. "Oh, look everybody, I took a black and white of a lawn chair. I'm so deep and introspective."
/r/MensRights15/12/11 09:46 PM
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Yup, welcome to your life as a married man. When I was married, I had these same arguments with my then wife. Let me give you the cliff notes as far as what happens after she vents to her friends and they give her advice such as this. She's going to take this bullshit advice. You think it won't be a big deal. Whatever, there is still porn right? So, a couple of weeks go by. You get off work early one day, and god damn if you don't need to bust a nut. You crawl under the bed and fish out your 'sp…
/r/MensRights15/12/11 03:17 AM
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I was alluding to the fact that The PatriarchyTM is a load of bullshit. But, thanks for the downvote and calling me a troll.
/r/MensRights10/12/11 05:07 AM
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You understand more than you think
/r/MensRights09/12/11 09:49 PM
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That was no mistake. Even when they are evil conniving bitches, they are still just 'girls' that need protecting.
/r/MensRights08/12/11 04:15 PM
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Isn't this male privilege grand?
/r/MensRights02/12/11 07:48 PM
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I think the point is that the type of woman that would stop taking bc with the intent of becoming pregnant without informing her partner is the same type of person that would have no qualms about poisoning a man's relationship with his child. She is likely to see the father as an ATM rather than a parent. Just speaking from my personal experiences.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 04:01 PM
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This is HUGE!! Way to go Mass.!! As the victim of a false Order of Protection (I couldn't so much as talk to my daughter over the phone for 3 months) I am applauding this. As the article points out, if someone is truly dangerous, a piece of paper isn't going to stop them from inflicting harm. I really like how they pointed out that it may even push someone over the edge. Everything about this article is amazingly accurate. "Follow the money". Until I was served with an OOP, my divorce was somewh…
/r/MensRights22/11/11 11:00 PM
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What in the holy fuck?! This raises so many issues.... A man that has children from a previous marriage is now less desirable. Why would someone marry a person who is going to cause them to give up hundreds or possibly thousands of dollars in CS from their paycheck. The courts are getting on shaky ground. I remember a friend of mine saying "So, now that your ex is remarried, your child support should go down right??" Me - Um, no. Why would it? Friend - Well, don't they take her husband's income …
/r/MensRights18/11/11 08:22 PM
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Wait. Really? Some states use household income to calculate child support rather than the individual income? How is that even legal? You are essentially saying that someone who had no relation the child when they were born, had nothing to do with the birth of the child (the new spouse) and making them financially responsible for that child.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 08:04 PM
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I'll do you one better. I married a self described feminist.... No issues here. While dating, we pretty much split the check. This is just laughable. Because someone adheres to a belief they suddenly become more adept with technology, plumbing, carpentry etc.? My experiences : I did the taxes while she watched Maury, yelling at me every half hour or so to see if I was done with the taxes yet. Good with technology? Um, no, she wasn't. Because she didn't understand 'auto-response' emails was how I…
/r/MensRights18/11/11 02:35 AM
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Chivalry dies when it is no longer voluntary.
/r/MensRights17/11/11 05:10 PM
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My god. I didn't see the movie, but just reading the synopsis... shudders 100% completely true. When I was younger and dumber, I was Caleb, trying to prove my undying love for my (then) wife. After years of walking on eggshells anytime I was home, giving up my needs for her wants, and enduring a sexless marriage, and the scorn of viewing pornography that follows a sexless marriage, I finally said fuck it. 100% happier and more productive now. Gentlemen, don't ever be Caleb. That is all.
/r/MensRights02/11/11 12:14 AM
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"Cat's In The Cradle" by Harry Chapin
/r/MensRights01/11/11 05:36 PM
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Every time I see a conversation like this, I am less and less surprised. That isn't to say that they still warm my heart to the same degree, it's just less surprising? Why? Well, let's take a look at this specific example. Who is the majority of active Facebook users today? Mainly people between the ages of 13 and 30. What that is, people born between 1981 and 1998. From the vocabulary, spelling and punctuation usage, I'm going to go out on a limb and say our subjects in this case are over the a…
/r/MensRights31/10/11 11:48 PM
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I wouldn't accept a full ride either
/r/MensRights31/10/11 09:40 PM
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If you need a job, might be a good time to move to Denmark.
/r/MensRights31/10/11 06:22 PM
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Exactly. I mean, how would you feel if you ran a large multi-national corporation and the government came in and said, "40% of your board of directors and upper-management must be comprised of women." Wait...
/r/MensRights22/10/11 11:22 PM
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Did your ex have to document how that child support was spent? Did they have to prove that money was in fact spent on the child? Why is child support based on the income of the paying party? Why can't courts come up with a number that says "It costs $X per month to raise a child."? Why do they insist instead on a system that states "Well, you're rich, so it costs you more to raise your child than it does for a person who makes $15,000 per year." ? I stand by my statement. Child support is alimon…
/r/MensRights21/10/11 06:20 PM
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Child support is alimony
/r/MensRights20/10/11 06:29 PM
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10% ? Where the fuck to I sign up? That's a god-damned bargain! Upon getting divorced I was forking over 23% of my GROSS pay for child support (1 child).
/r/MensRights14/10/11 08:03 PM
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Define feminism. This is what I like to call "The Feminist Quandary". I frequent the popular gender issue sub-reddits daily (r/mr, r/2xc, r/feminism, r/feminisms, r/askfeminists). From what I have garnered, even feminists can't agree on what feminism supports and opposes. If I question the tactics of NOW (the largest, wealthiest and best known feminist organization in the World) I am met with "no true Scotsman" arguments. You can view my biggest grievances with NOW here Here is another good exam…
/r/MensRights07/10/11 11:14 PM
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Was she cute? Haven't you seen "Horrible Bosses"? This is obviously and AWESOME situation. Don't even know why you are complaining. /s
/r/MensRights06/10/11 05:06 PM
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Meh. I'm a guy and I've faked orgasms with several women, including my (then) wife. Sorry, sometimes people just can't get off. Do I delude myself and say "No one has ever had to fake it with me" Nope. That simply isn't realistic. Here's how I see it. If they fake it, they care enough about your feelings to do so. Hell, I've even flat out told women "Sorry, I'm just not going to get there..." No big deal. I've had women tell me the same. And the world goes round...
/r/MensRights03/10/11 09:18 PM
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Dude, where the hell have you been? Cutting off a man's penis and throwing in the garbage disposal is HILARIOUS!!
/r/MensRights30/09/11 05:25 AM
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That doesn't make it a good idea. Kinda like trying to debate with feminists
/r/MensRights17/09/11 06:21 AM
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Yeah, I was pretty much floored when I would make a statement, back it up with citations, and then be downvoted and called a liar. Then I realized that it's just another feminist sub-reddit and downvotes shall be viewed as a badge of pride. Strangely enough, one of my only posts over there that is in the 'positive karma range' is me making a complete mockery of feminism and the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights15/09/11 08:49 PM
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I just started reading through SRS. Can you please enlighten me on how one actually has a rational conversation with them? In my opinion, they are the very definition of irrationality.
/r/MensRights15/09/11 08:24 PM
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But if you point this out to feminists, their response would be... "Everything you've just described can be blamed on the Patriarchy. Don't you see? It's da menz' fault!!"
/r/MensRights15/09/11 08:22 PM
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Am I supposed to care what an actress has to say in regards to anything outside of movies/Hollywood/show biz?
/r/MensRights08/09/11 06:30 PM
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Seriously OP. Just get a lawyer. I don't care how you do it, but you are simply too broke to not have a lawyer. I did the same thing you are doing now. Guess what your daughter's mother's next move will be....Order Of Protection that will bar you from communicating with your child at all. I don't care if you need to max out a credit card, hit up family/friends or simply come up with some type of payment system, you need a fucking lawyer. Don't know where you are, but my lawyer cost me $6000 out …
/r/MensRights01/09/11 10:45 PM
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Because "I'm too pretty for work so my ex-husband has to pay my exorbitant alimony and child support to sustain my chosen lifestyle" is too long to fit on a t-shirt?
/r/MensRights01/09/11 08:02 PM
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AMR tallying this as a victory in 3...2...
/r/MensRights31/08/11 08:43 PM
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The Power Puff girls are, of course, girls. Therefore, incapable of committing acts of violence. lemme help you out
/r/MensRights31/08/11 06:24 PM
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Other than losing custody of the children, were there any repercussions to your ex for bringing these false allegations?
/r/MensRights27/08/11 10:07 PM
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does not mention Morelli’s name, the name of his ex-wife, Allison Morelli, or either of their two children. This judge should be disbarred.
/r/MensRights10/08/11 04:59 AM
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I disagree. The blog doesn't mention any of the involved parties names, nor does it mention the names of their children. If the kids come across the blog and say "Gee, this sounds a lot like Mom" well, I would argue that the mother has alienated herself.
/r/MensRights10/08/11 04:58 AM
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While I would agree that such statements would have had an effect on the jury, I think that the reason Anthony got off is because the prosecution failed to prove that she murdered her child.
/r/MensRights01/08/11 11:56 PM
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Mon dieu, I am so confused!
/r/MensRights01/08/11 07:12 PM
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I'm sexist because I noticed sexism in the workplace?
/r/MensRights01/08/11 07:01 PM
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I would say that being a physically attractive admin assistant is a pretty recession proof job. Before you sit up and say "that's misogyny and has no place here" let me tell you my story. I realize that it is anecdotal, but something I noticed none the less.... I was laid off a little under a month ago. I've kept in touch with my boss over the last several weeks because we had a good personal relationship and I am using him as a reference. He was not privy to the who would be laid off and who wi…
/r/MensRights01/08/11 05:53 PM
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I have a theory that may or may not sit right with r/mr, but I'm going to put it out there anyways. Before I do, let me state that I do not adhere to traditional gender roles. For 2 years I was lucky enough to be a stay at home dad while my then wife was the bread winner. I think that in nearly any job (barring some very manual labor intensive ones) a woman is just as capable as any man. I think that the reason that feminists are so opposed to pornography, prostitution, strip clubs and other leg…
/r/MensRights01/08/11 06:24 AM
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It's amazing how they can take an MR issue and spin it around to make it look like misogyny, isn't it...
/r/MensRights30/07/11 06:17 AM
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We should start calling it a monogamy failure tax
/r/MensRights30/07/11 01:15 AM
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Shhhh. They'll hear you. Child support is alimony in disguise
/r/MensRights30/07/11 01:14 AM
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Didn't know about this. Thanks!
/r/MensRights29/07/11 10:45 PM
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Possibly....but it really is a can of worms. What if the woman were to just simply state "I didn't know I was pregnant!"
/r/MensRights29/07/11 09:19 PM
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Pretty sure that I used the word "alleged" correctly here. From Websters... "1. declared or stated to be as described; asserted doubtful; suspect; supposed" She is an alleged victim until the other party has been found guilty of the crime. If no crime was committed, she is not a victim. Would you please clarify your point?
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:50 PM
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I agree, if you limit the time frame of performing a financial abortion to the first tri-mester, then the woman would simply need to keep it a secret for 3 months. If you extend the time period to the second or even third semester, you run into a situation of the woman not being able to (or at least making it much more difficult) have an abortion, if she decides that an abortion would be necessary if the man isn't going to financially assist. I think we need a system that automatically assumes t…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:47 PM
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I did read your whole post, and it appears that you, as an individual, supports the idea of a man being able to financially abort a fetus. So why is it such a taboo subject to the point that it is never seriously discussed let alone introduced as legislation?
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:31 PM
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Yes, yes they did
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:27 PM
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Quickly learning that
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:16 PM
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The subreddit war has been going on for some time now. Haha. Very true. Maybe I should have said "I don't want to engage in another battle, as MR is not my personal army."
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:16 PM
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This is a comment I made over at r/feminisms yesterday. The comment was deleted and I think I have been ghost banned from r/feminisms. I sent a message to the mods over there, asking why this comment was deleted. When I view my sent messages, that message does not appear anywhere (leading me to suspect that I have been banned). My point was that in no way was my comment misogynistic, enabling, racist or homophobic. I was simply pointing out the irony of feimin saying how it is disgusting that th…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 08:07 PM
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I agree with this, as a divorced father who pays quite a fair amount in child support (at one time, more than 1/3rd of my gross income). I think CSS is fair in my state. They use a formula taking into account the combined income of each parent, special needs of the child (daycare, insurance, etc.) and come to a figure of what the cost would be to raise the child if the parents had not split up. Then that amount is split as a percentage depending on each individual's percentage of the combined in…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 07:55 PM
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Your argument is that a fetus doesn't have rights in the traditional sense of the 14th Amendment. Agreed. This is why abortion is legal in the first tri-mester in virtually all states in the U.S. So, my question to you is this.... If a woman can abort a fetus during the first 3 months of a pregnancy, why can't a man have a 'paper abortion' during the pregnancy? That is to relinquish all rights and responsibilities to the child. Why is being a parent post conception a choice for women, but not fo…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 07:37 PM
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Can a woman opt for an abortion in the case of an unwanted pregnancy? Why can't a man have a 'paper abortion', relinquishing all rights and responsibilities to the child, much in the same way a woman would if she were to have an abortion? This is my main argument with feminism.... Feminists - Keep my rights to my reproductive organs. But if a man doesn't want to have a child, tough cookies, he's responsible. And I'm sorry, 3rd wave feminists need to stop saying "We have moved beyond feminism and…
/r/MensRights29/07/11 07:33 PM
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Agreed, but don't you think it at least crossed the mens' minds as 'You know, I better not get involved' while the women are thinking "Meh, that's a man's job"
/r/MensRights29/07/11 03:21 AM
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Sorry, just realized I didn't answer your second question.... No, we should not be happy that this woman collapsed on the street. The point is that rather than trying to assist her and move her to a safer location, the solution was to surround her with traffic cones and leave her lying in a gutter. Here are my thoughts on the situation and why I think this situation was handled the way it was
/r/MensRights29/07/11 02:01 AM
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It's outside of a dance club. They couldn't go put her on a couch somewhere inside, or at least bring out a chair?
/r/MensRights29/07/11 01:55 AM
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Well, in my experiences (see my other posts in this thread) they did exactly the right thing. But don't you think it would be better if, oh, I dunno, someone pulled her out of the fucking gutter?
/r/MensRights29/07/11 01:50 AM
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Can you please explain why you feel this is 'shit'? Here is some more context. To me, it appears that the valet looking gentleman in the background of the picture would be perfectly capable of helping the woman to her feet and getting her out of the gutter where she would be less likely to be injured. At least propped up on a bench, or even bring a chair out from the club to set her on. Given that this is outside of a club, wouldn't there be plenty of bouncers around to assist with this? Why am …
/r/MensRights29/07/11 01:46 AM
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Backstory Thanks for pointing out the typo in the title. I thought something looked off, but hit the submit button anyway.
/r/MensRights29/07/11 01:27 AM
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Furthermore, the adult hands portrayed on the billboard are clearly male, further insinuating that all child abusers are male.
/r/MensRights29/07/11 12:52 AM
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Dude, she won the fucking genetic lottery. How is she not entitled to it?
/r/MensRights28/07/11 05:17 PM
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Why is 'Dr.' Phil being called to provide testimony in Washington? What exactly are his credentials? Yes, he was a psychologist, but his license was retired 5 years ago. He also had to settle out of court to the tune of $10.5 million for selling snake oil. Several other lawsuits pending... Read all about this piece of shit here And this is probably relevent as to why 'Dr.' Phil is testifying in Washington
/r/MensRights26/07/11 06:15 AM
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Haha, we all know this doesn't happen, because anytime we try to engage in discussion on r/2XC, r/feminism, r/feminisms or the brand spanking new holy grail of the Feminist movement r/againstmensrights, our comments are merely deleted, never to be seen again...
/r/MensRights25/07/11 03:23 AM
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Well, isn't this interesting... Notice how the little girl keeps returning to torment the little boy, and how the authority figure in the room encourages this behavior. At the age of 3 this girl has already realized her unfair advantage in 'female privelage'. Furthermore, note how the little boy must resort to screaming, as his pleas fall on deaf ears. At the age of 3 he is realizing that he has no voice. It will only be a matter of time before r/againstmensrights X-posts this video saying some …
/r/MensRights24/07/11 09:31 PM
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Thanks. Flagged as Child Abuse.
/r/MensRights24/07/11 09:19 PM
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I'm sorry, this story is fucked up, but.... You impregnated a woman who was not only merely separated from her husband at the time....she hadn't even filed for divorce... Meh, scummy people being scummy to other scummy people, and the World goes on....
/r/MensRights16/07/11 03:30 AM
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Thank you for trying to view it from both sides. Shortly after subscribing to r/mr I subscribed to r/2xc, r/feminism and r/feminisms It's important to keep in mind that both sides of the discussion will have trolls, just ignore them. Be sure to check out the sidebar for relevant info. We have a long way to go, but we will never get there until people decide to start looking at all the issues from all perspectives.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 05:51 AM
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Nah, it'll just be deleted
/r/MensRights20/06/11 08:24 PM
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I can't believe this is even being debated. The ex-husband, Chadwick Craig, sued his ex-wife for fraud in 2008, claiming that he married the woman, took a job he didn’t want so he could support the family, and paid thousands of dollars in child support because she told him he was the father. Craig also said he never would have undergone a vasectomy had he known the he did not have a biological child of his own. Hell yeah, this guy should be able to sue for all types of damages. He gave up his LI…
/r/MensRights13/06/11 08:02 PM
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something tells me r/feminisms and r/circlejerk would get along swimmingly
/r/MensRights10/06/11 08:21 PM
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Which is funny, because that is about the same percentage of people that agree with her, even over at 2X
/r/MensRights07/06/11 10:57 PM
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Sorry, I suck at the reddits so I couldn't figure out how to permalink the beginning of the thread and have the pertinent response show up directly underneath. Hope everyone can read the png OK.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 10:26 PM
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What? Is this from a movie or something.... One part of me hopes this is a true story, for the sheer whatthefuckery. The other part of me says "Wait, if that's true, that means someone's dog was run over." :-(
/r/MensRights27/05/11 12:21 AM
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Like a 1MB thumb drive worthless... Going to start using this to describe the majority of my co-workers.
/r/MensRights26/05/11 11:55 PM
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it would be career suicide Exactly this. I've worked in IT for 7 years at 3 different companies. At each instance HR is headed by an power grabbing female, and 3-4 of her female minions. I feel like if I were to ever express my views about MR (even though my field of work is 95% male) HR would just look at me and think "this one is gonna be a problem, gals" and they would start looking for reasons to let me go.
/r/MensRights20/05/11 06:23 PM
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One of the problems is that judges have gotten a little wiser and started giving out 50/50 custody but there are no real penalties against mothers for violating it.....so. In my experience, this really varies from judge to judge... To the OP....Keep you head up, because as thetrollking said, judges are wising up to this PA bullshit that mothers love to pull. If there is a standing order that says 50-50, MOST judges (again, in my experience) aren't going to be very happy that she hasn't been hold…
/r/MensRights12/05/11 10:28 PM
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Without more information, I'm not sure I want this guy to be waving the banner of MR.
/r/MensRights12/05/11 09:27 PM
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Holy shit, I can't believe that you wrote this in another thread. It sounds like your sisters have it figured out (the world isn't going to hand them jack shit on a platter). Why haven't YOU figured that out.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 12:43 AM
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I have. I hope that I've convinced you to do the same.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 12:39 AM
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And its comments like this that I am just about done with r/mensrights We are all starting to sound like a bunch of feminists when we don't get our way. "Wah, I can't join a 'mom's club'. Wah, if I'm a nurse or teacher, society looks down on me." And so forth. Let's be clear here. A bunch of women got together and formed a PRIVATE club. Do you understand the word PRIVATE? It means that it doesn't get any funding from any government entity and they get to decide who gets to be a member and who do…
/r/MensRights08/05/11 10:46 PM
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Yet you are hung up on spending time with them, and your children spending time with their children. Why expose yourself to someone so closed minded?
/r/MensRights08/05/11 10:15 PM
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I don't think there is such a thing as a 'regular dad', regardless of financial situation. Start your own club for dads!! Again, this 'exclusivity' mindset...is that really the play group you want your child(ren) to be a member of? Are we seriously going to get worked into a tizzy because a bunch of stay-at-home moms won't play nice with us? When I read something like this I immediately think "Meh, private club. Their rules. I guess they will never know how awesome my daughter is, and will miss …
/r/MensRights08/05/11 09:51 PM
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I'm with you on this one. This paragraph in particular bothered me about the article. G.G.M.G. offers three core benefits to members. It acts as an information exchange, where pediatrician recommendations, hiring of nannies and admission tips to private preschools are particularly popular topics. It negotiates discounts for members at local retailers and service providers. And perhaps most important, G.G.M.G. assigns members’ children to play groups, where the pre-preschoolers forge their first …
/r/MensRights08/05/11 09:14 PM
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Some would say that a terroristic threat would be an estranged wife threatening her husband with a PFA to ensure that he will never see his children again, that she was going to take 80% of their belongings and that she had made it her life's goal to financially ruin him.
/r/MensRights29/04/11 06:01 PM
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Also because it made it nearly impossible to be granted a divorce if both parties didn't agree to it. Imagine trying to PROVE an affair was happening 40 years ago. Now, imagine having that proof stick in a court of law.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 11:17 PM
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They don't need fault divorce for this. They already do that. Wifey - I want a divorce Husband - OK Wifey - I'm taking the kids and we are moving into my boyfriend apartment. Husband - The fuck you are... 6 hours later knock knock Police officer - Yes sir. We are here to investigate a domestic violence report. I'll need your signature here showing you have been served with an Order of Protection.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 11:15 PM
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In my personal experience, whether or not a parent had an affair has absolutely NO bearing on the courts opinion. The whole premise behind "No Fault Divorce" is that the courts don't care why you are getting divorced. Originally, it was a sound idea. It made it so that a 'wronged' party could simple ask for a divorce if they were unhappy without needing to show any evidence of being wronged (infidelity, abuse, etc). Remember, this was 1970 (when it was first instituted), so it would be nearly im…
/r/MensRights19/04/11 11:13 PM
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You should check out Esquire. Its like Maxim for grownups.
/r/MensRights06/04/11 09:51 PM
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This may be the stupidest, least thought out piece of garbage that I have ever read. The large majority of men don’t make the kind of money that would fully support a family these days, and even college-educated men in their 20s and 30s will have a tough time pulling in the cash to pay for the house, two cars and nursery school. I don't even know where to start with this. So I don't make enough money to support a family, have 2 cars, etc. Why the fuck would I settle down and start a family then?…
/r/MensRights04/03/11 09:24 PM
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And yet the media still insists on calling him a 'convicted rapist'
/r/MensRights24/02/11 06:32 PM
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Oh man. I realize how serious and somber this is...but I must say I cracked up at the following. You named your kid Cheetarah? Wow. Just wow. And the fact that she is 20 fits nicely with being named after this gloriousness They later found a large, bloodied kitchen knife under a chair. Later, as in, missed it the first time around. That's some fine police work there, Lou.
/r/MensRights06/02/11 07:22 PM
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Nope. My wife has indicated she wants our daughter to be baptized Catholic. I'm fine with that. I just want to be shown the same courtesy of taking my daughter to the church of my choosing while she is with me.
/r/MensRights05/02/11 03:53 AM
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How about the law decides that fathers should have rights?
/r/MensRights05/02/11 02:04 AM
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Exactly. What I forgot to mention and the fact that my ex ignores is that my daughter wants to go and enjoys it. My daughter becomes upset when she sees me getting ready for church and she knows she isn't going.
/r/MensRights05/02/11 01:05 AM
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All the time. Shit that I would probably be sent upstate for if the genders were reversed. Had a 50-something year old woman (whose daughter I went to high school with) follow me into a restroom at a bar and insist I give her a 'preview'. I told her to GTFO. Had a girl force me fly open and start kissing my member while I was driving. Pulled over and told her to get out of the car. Woke up to a girl in nothing but panties grinding against me (at a party were we both had passed out). My ex-wife w…
/r/MensRights30/12/10 10:46 PM
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Fuck this shit. But CBS News Legal Analyst Jack Ford said it's unlikely she would go to jail because she's "a good and decent person" by most accounts It's unlikely she would go to jail because she's a ["woman"]. FTFY Jack Ford Filing a false police report is a crime. Full Stop. Falsely crying 'rape' is not a victimless crime. Full stop. Regardless of the fact that an individual wasn't singled out by this low life scum (and consequently had his life ruined) doesn't mean there was not a victim he…
/r/MensRights28/12/10 08:58 PM
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Not really sure if this falls in as a MR issue, but I'll bite.... This was not the first time the grandparents had noticed abuse. Another incident over Labor day caused the grandparents to seek custody. Unfortunately, the courts take time in abuse cases and before their case could be heard, their grandson was abused again in this incident. This is complete and utter bullshit, right here. Let me rephrase it for you... "Unfortunately, the courts take time in abuse cases [so long as the mother is t…
/r/MensRights28/12/10 06:25 PM
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And the best part is that they focus on her getting 'dolled up' to turn herself in each weekend. not on the crime committed.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 11:51 PM
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In all complete honesty, I just threw up
/r/MensRights09/11/10 04:03 PM
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I'll probably be downvoted for this, but can we keep these anecdotal incidents out of men's rights? This isn't a men's rights issue, this is an issue of a sick individual who happens to be female. Posting these things in men's rights does nothing other than show that we are using the same tactics as feminists, in which their argument is "One man beat his wife and children, ergo, all men are abusive." Look, I know that we face an uphill battle, with most courts automatically assuming the mother t…
/r/MensRights08/11/10 11:16 PM
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Her name doesn't appear in that email either, and they seem to be two completely unrelated incidents.
/r/MensRights28/10/10 05:15 AM
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The last time I tried to talk to my ex wife about a court matter outside of court, I was served with a restraining order the following day, and didn't see my daughter for 10 weeks. I'm trying to avoid having that happen.
/r/MensRights11/08/10 05:00 PM
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Good on you. I went through this about 3 years ago and didn't see my daughter for 10 weeks. Have fun with your child and cherish the time you have together.
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:50 PM
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Ah your girlfriend did it wrong. Ya see, she could have been the one having the affairs and fake life, and STILL gotten money out of him...that's what mine did!
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:13 PM
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That really sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. Family law is so confusing and emotions runs so high, that hiring a lawyer is nearly a necessity. That being said, this is a support issue, not custody. Even though the mother is the custodial parent, I am happy with how often I get to see my child (170 days out of the year, or nearly 50% of the time). Seeing your kids is priceless, and I would lawyer up for that in a heartbeat. I'm not going to spend nearly $5k on a lawyer at this point though, unless …
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:47 AM
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I agree with this. I will admit that I am paying the consequences of marrying a 'crazy' while I was still too young.
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:44 AM
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I'm not asking the courts to cut it because I 'feel' I am overpaying. I filled out the worksheet that outlines how much the STATE feels child support should be (based on income of both parties, custody and special needs). The child is no longer in daycare, which was $480 per month. I was responsible for 67% of that, or roughly $300, so that accounts for $300 of the $450 I am asking in reduction. The other $150 is because the courts originally set it up to show that I have my daughter 120 days ou…
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:39 AM
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I hear you. I take home $1300...
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:35 AM
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And how much do you earn? How many children? How often do you have the children in your care, that is, you need to feed and clothe them I am paying a third of my net pay in child support. It leaves me with $1300 per month to eek out basic living expenses (roof over our heads, food in our bellies, transportation to and from work and school, etc.)
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:35 AM
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You are assuming that mom isn't responsible for any financial needs. She works just like I do. She made the decision to change her career shortly after our separation. She went from making more than I do, to making just over half of what I do. Her decision, not mine. And its not like I pulled that number out of the air. I filled out the work sheet that lays forth the guide lines for child support in my state. I plugged in the numbers, and that is what came out. As mentioned in the original comme…
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:31 AM
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If I am reading this correctly the courts may effectively 'order' me to work a second job in order to keep food in my stomach and clothes on my back? I was working a second job which brought my total income to about $42,000 per year. I make just under $35,000 per year now, after taxes and child support, I have exactly enough to cover the mortgage, car, and insurance. Notice I didn't mention gas, food or clothing...
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:27 AM
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Did read all of this. If she calls - DO NOT ANSWER. She can leave a voicemail If she shows up at the office - Record the conversation and make sure there is a witness present If she doesn't drop off the child - Call the police If she files a restraining order - Time to lawyer up
/r/MensRights10/08/10 05:24 AM
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Oh, I agree. I'll hire one if things start to get ugly, but $4000 for someone to fill out and file some papers seemed a bit over priced. If a restraining order comes down or if my daughter is withheld from me....well, you can't put a price on that, now can you?
/r/MensRights09/08/10 10:27 PM
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Thanks for the 'like a boss'. Needed a chuckle through all of this.
/r/MensRights09/08/10 08:42 PM
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My state is similar.... Here's how they break it down.... Dad makes $2000 per month, mom makes $1000 per month for a combined income of $3000. Then there is a chart that says "For a household that makes $3000 per month, this is what should be spent on the child per month", for this exercise, lets call it $500. So since dad makes 66% of the gross income, he is required to pay 66% of the expenses, or in our scenario $330 per month. This is called the 'basic obligation'. But then, there is an adjus…
/r/MensRights09/08/10 08:03 PM
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Oh yeah, this is exactly how it will go, seeing how I wasn't smart enough to hire a lawyer to represent me. Oh wait, that was because I couldn't afford it since 40% of my income goes to child support.
/r/MensRights09/08/10 07:06 PM
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Will update as soon as I hear anything
/r/MensRights09/08/10 06:54 PM
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Thank you for unspamifying. Duplicate sub has been deleted.
/r/MensRights09/08/10 06:22 PM
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I would have loved to have had her served while my daughter was in my custody, but it really wasn't an option. I can give the Sheriff's Office a time frame of when it would be best to have her served, and the only time she is home is when my daughter is with her. Already planning on having SEVERAL witnesses around me at all times for the next week. Went through this 3 years ago during the divorce process. I stupidly sent her a text message regarding some questions I had about the division of pro…
/r/MensRights09/08/10 06:13 PM
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I'll definitely look into what evidence I can come up with. You are correct, HR is too wily to have these conversations over email correspondence or even in meetings. Its usually an individual (in this case me) called into HR Directors office for a little 'chat'. I'll see what I can come up with though! Thank you for the advice!
/r/MensRights21/07/10 07:53 PM
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I wish I couldn't be fired for that! My company is a different story. I've seen "Positions Eliminated" to avoid paying unemployment and then they will go and hire someone to do the exact same thing under a new title. I have seen people moved into entirely different departments while keeping their old title (to make one department's numbers look good by upping productivity while keeping the employee's payroll on the books of another depatment) among other things. I have seen enough fraud and ille…
/r/MensRights20/07/10 10:00 PM
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Yes, I'm sure it is fraud and illegal. Meh, what do I do? Report them and get fired? Or sit back and let them know that I know I have an ace up my sleeve if push comes to shove.
/r/MensRights20/07/10 09:41 PM
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Yup. Surprise!! Single mothers do it too!!! I work in IT. My HR department came to me after we hired a single mom back (who had left my company about a year ago) because she was going through a divorce. They gave me very specific instructions that her name is not to appear in any email correspondence and her display name is to show up as a generic title. After a bit of prodding I learned that this is so she can keep the child support ($900 per month) and alimony ($600 per month) at their current…
/r/MensRights20/07/10 08:51 PM
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Are you kidding me? We are single fathers, we are obviously cheats and liars who are sexually abusing the children as well /s
/r/MensRights20/07/10 08:45 PM
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Isn't the real issue here that fathers are expected to pony up cash even when they are unemployed? Even if you were ordered to pay 90% of you income, what is 90% of 0? Edit - Had an unneeded apostrophe in there
/r/MensRights20/07/10 06:20 PM
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And once again we are shown that feminism isn't about the empowerment of women, but is more about the degradation of men. men can't gestate babies. Until they can, it's hard to imagine women handing that responsibility over to a man, who might forget to take his Pill or change his patch. Shudder. True, we can't gestate babies. But we CAN be milked for child support for 18 years. Here's something that might come as a shock to you miss Wildman. We don't want you to get pregnant just as much as you…
/r/MensRights17/05/10 02:12 AM
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