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| 2 | Looking for the title of this Book I once read.. Please!thats it!! thank you so much | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Quick tip for people who have trouble being funny:Sometimes a little tweak is all it takes. | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 06:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel like jumping off of a bridge! Let this be a lesson.yes! you need to get out in the field too to realize these things! once you're in the moment, you forget the things you learn. Approach, approach, approach.. only way to improve. | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 12:24 AM |
| 1 | I feel like jumping off of a bridge! Let this be a lesson.omg no paragraphs I can't read omg :( | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 12:20 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Randomly approached girl on the streetsit depends on the approach he wants to take. If you want to seem more confident and put some pressure on her, you call her. This works well for girls of higher status who deal with a lot of guys gawking after her on a regular basis because most of those guys just shoot her mundane boring texts. If shes more of a shy girl, you should text her to keep her comfort level where you want it. Shy girls might be scared by a guy who is too confident and aggressive at first. She will feel like she wouldn'… | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:21 AM |
| 1 | What was your big breakthrough moment?Oh, and I went in for the kiss only moments after we met up. That's totally contradicting who she thought I was. But I was only able to successfully do so because of the foundations in my demeanor that I explained above^ | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 07:23 AM |
| 1 | What was your big breakthrough moment?I would imagine it was an array of things. I approached her walking tall, calmly, and confidently. I was likely leading my group around as well. I didn't hesitate to hug her and put my arm on the small of her back as we began to walk. I was laid back. Not nervous or fidgeting. Looked her dead in eyes as we spoke. Talked relatively slowly with a confident grin. All apposed to how I used to be. A year ago I might have been lingering in the back of the crowd. Waiting to see if she engaged me first.… | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 07:21 AM |
| 8 | What was your big breakthrough moment?This girl who I was absolutely crazy about back when I was an awful AFC, who never really liked me back because I was too needy and spineless (and I don't blame her), came to visit for a weekend not too long ago. She had previously moved a few hours away and I hadn't seen her in months. It just so happens that IN those months is when I discovered Seddit and started my immense change and gradual improvement. My friends and her friends decided to meet up downtown and almost immediately I could see… | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 12:26 AM |
| 18 | Looking for tips/advice/tricks on how to remember names.Associate their name with a famous person RIGHT away. "Hey, I'm Alice." Alice in Wonderland "Whats up? I'm Mark." Mark Walburg "Hi, I'm Megan." Megan Fox "Yo, I'm Akbar." Well, shit.. I should remember that one. | /r/seduction | 11/12/12 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Fear of talking to strangers ? Approach Anxiety ? Try OmegleHaha I used to do the same thing! Just power through it. They're complete strangers you will never see again. You can use it as a way of building up your confidence. I didn't disconnect a single person and afterward I felt like I could approach any stranger | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 05:40 AM |
| 5 | [FR] "Stop staring into my eyes, you're making me want to cheat on my boyfriend"You, my friend, are a G. I don't know if I would've had the confidence to tell the other dude to move so I can't sit next to her. Props. | /r/seduction | 10/12/12 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with rejected when asking for a number gracefully?"Ooo hard to get. I like it." and walk away | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Protip: Practice being comfortable with yourself in every situation. Its not them, its you. You dont have to do shit, just be comfortable in every situation and the rest will follow.I seem to have trouble with this at work. I strive and strive to be more outgoing, but having to talk to people all day every day just gets exhausting after long. To the point where I'm beat and any human interaction is forced. Any advice on how to help ? | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls that show off alot of skin or show off their "assets"Maybe find something to compliment her on that she wouldn't expect. No girl is expecting a "you look like you're having the most fun here" or "wow, you've got this great vibe about you. I couldn't help but notice" when her tits are almost hanging out of her shirt. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What are the easiest tricks of PUA that give the best returns?The best "tricks" are all instinctive things. Things women are naturally more attracted to whether they know it or not. Body Language -Women are more comfortable talking to a guy who looks confident and relaxed. You're also significantly more approachable when you come off this way. Kino -It's nature. Women are more attracted to guys who can be physical. It shows that you are open and won't be afraid to escalate. That's instinctively more attractive. Don't Seek Their Approval -Have an aura that … | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 05:44 PM |
| 8 | How do I break the Nice Guy I am?Like leodostheopposite said, READ NO MORE MR. NICE GUY! There is likely a deep rooted reason why you are a nice guy. This book helps you identify, understand, accept, and change the root of the evil. I'm sure you have the basic mentality in life that if you are nice, caring, and giving that others will like you and love you in return. Well, that IS the very syndrome right there. That's nice guy syndrome. You have to realize that it's not like that in real life. Give the book a read and also prac… | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Kino essentially just means touch. If you never touch women, it's going to be virtually impossible to indicate to them that you are sexual and more than just a friend. As soon as you meet a girl, you touch her. You go for a handshake.. a high five.. a hug.. something. Lightly touch her arm when emphasizing a point or starting a sentence. Playfully push and tease her. I highly recommend you read the book 60 Years of Challenge. Also youtube videos on kino. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 05:17 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?google "no more mr nice guy pdf" or something like that. It's on the web somewhere. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:20 AM |
| 14 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and learning to not give a fuck what people think of me anymore. Discovering Kino. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Pre-Seddit vs. Post-SedditYou da man yo | /r/seduction | 25/09/12 04:32 PM |
| 13 | A trick I used to walk up to the hottest girls/women. (kind of offensive)When I'm scared to approach a girl, I just say to myself "I could totally kick her ass, why am I scared?" and the anxiety is gone! | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Beginners Tip: If it's boring, leave. Don't wait for her.What I typically do is say that I'm not going to that specific place that they're going to that night. For example if shes going to a friend's party I would say: "I'm not headed to that party tonight, Ill see ya another night!" It doesn't give the impression that you're doing NOTHING that night and leaves a bit of mystery because you're not saying what you are doing that night. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Beginners Tip: If it's boring, leave. Don't wait for her.absolutely. That would be ideal.. and if the people are receptive toward you and you end up looking like a social beast its even better | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 05:07 AM |
| 1 | I believe finding this sub-reddit a couple days ago will change my lifeAwesome, man. BUT... Make sure you have no personal issues to deal with first! For example, I found this subreddit before I realized I had "Nice Guy Syndrome." I realized I could learn every way in the book to approach a girl and make the moves on her, but I would never reach my full potential had I not taken care of myself first. I thought finding a girl would make me confident; fix my self-esteem. Stuff like that. That's not the case. I only became confident once I fixed my issues and stopped … | /r/seduction | 25/08/12 12:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] House party on river with boat and unexpected F-Close on said boatmah nigga. nice job | /r/seduction | 20/08/12 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on a situation, unsure how to proceed.She seems like she's attracted to you (making out at the club) and wants to have fun with you (taking off with you), but at the same time does not want to come off as a slut (says you're not having sex). Maybe she just wants to hook up and shit like that, but is not looking for anything serious with you. That's why she seemed kind of uneasy at the coffee date and said you didn't have to walk her back; because those are things that girls do with boyfriends and LJBF guys. She didn't text you back … | /r/seduction | 17/08/12 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!HB= Hot Babe 7= Her rating from 1-10 | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!hahaha | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!exactly | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!Hmm. I gotta think of something. I did say it was a shoppe I had never been to before and wanted to check out and then invited her to join. Is that good ? The only activity I really do is longboarding and I doubt she can do that lol | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!I work retail lol | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 11:55 PM |
| 27 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!also, this post was less about me bragging about a number close, and more about how it helps to just say fuck it sometimes and make the best out of a situation | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!exactly. and this party had lame written all over it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 06:13 PM |
| 18 | Reluctantly went to lame party, ended up getting a #close. GO OUT!without a doubt. you should leave some pointers, though | /r/seduction | 05/08/12 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Can't get over my raceIf it's any consolation, I once had a chick ditch me at a club to leave with some Asian dude... | /r/seduction | 04/08/12 12:10 AM |
| 2 | What's the best advice you've heard in overcoming fear? Doesn't have to be necessarily just for pickup, but for life...You will be significantly happier with yourself if you say fuck it and TRY IT and fail, than if you choke up and DON'T and are left wondering WTF could have been. | /r/seduction | 27/07/12 03:17 AM |
| 54 | So within the last month I'm not exactly sure how, but I went from having intense social anxiety to giving almost zero fucks around girls. I don't fully understand why completely but I will explain what happened--maybe it would help.Awesome, dude! I've gone through a similar transformation in recent months. My change is due in large part to reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover. It helped me realize that I was constantly seeking approval from absolutely everybody. Even strangers. It too made me feel like I was always being observed by everyone and made me feel like I had to be perfect to be liked. Now I just don't give a shit and realized the only person I have to please is myself. If people don't like me, fuck… | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Being too available [mini-FR inside]Dude. Thanks for sharing this. Made me realize I do the same exact thing and it's why some girls have lost attraction. PROPS | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 07:26 AM |
| 0 | What To Do if Girl Prevents Escalation?that goes against everything they teach you in dealing with LMR and going for an f-close.... | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Pseudo FR: Don't give up guys, this stuff works!Good shit, brotha! | /r/seduction | 18/07/12 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Questions from a 28yo dude that has never as much as kissed a girl...Are you feeling the need to tell her before hand just in case the experience goes badly, she knows why ? Like, say, you finish very quickly or don't exactly know what you're doing ? If so, don't worry about that shit. I promise it won't go as bad as you think and when you do succeed you will probably be thinking "man, why was I so scared?" | /r/seduction | 16/07/12 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!dont be a dick. I don't care if you dont think its the right thing to do or not. Im simply posting in an attempt to see if my way can help others out. thats what this forum is for. douche comments like yours discourage others from posting... congrats! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!Right after the initial "hey, hey, what's up?" I jump right into "sooo Mary, let's play the question game :)" if they don't know what it is they're usually pretty excited to learn anyway! Not like it's hard to explain!! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!22 :) but sorta noob ish at this. Girls this age still seem text crazy! I'm still pushing for the irl meet on the first day though! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!well, when I first text a person, I really try to make it fun right off the bat to hook em in. I just find the usual "hey, how old are you? where are you from ?" deal to be super boring. I don't know. If you prefer to do it in person, that's fine! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Quick, fun tip for texting girls you just met!glad you like it, dude! | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Why, exactly, is hooking up with co-workers considered such a no no ?retail. Haha.. I def see the reasons now, but only if you have a super serious job. I will continue trying to bone her from now on lol | /r/seduction | 23/06/12 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Milking the intro.How would you respond to "Can I have my hand back now?" | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Invited to spend the weekend at a lake house by a group of girls.I know some girls who are going to a lake house this weekend, too. o_O | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Got a BJ for the first time, LMR on actual sex, but here's the real issue.. :/hahah.. shes a keeper. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 02:29 AM |
| 12 | if a girl texts me about a party and I don't want to go, how to respond?Just say "not tonight.. maybe another time!" don't have to give her any real reason. It's probably better she be left wondering why you don't want to go, anyway.. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Lets start a compilation of all known material on 'flipping the script'/role reversals. GO!same. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 02:43 AM |
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