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MINDSET SHIFTkikivegan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:32 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEkikivegan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:42 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEkikivegan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:58 AM
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I noticed the carpet instantly... blargh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:55 PM
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Bingo. You don't get any special awards for being that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:04 PM
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Yeah it's either one or the other. I was with a guy for a short time that I nick-named "two-pump" 😂 yeeeaaah that relationship didn't last long lol (just like him, ohhhhhhhbb)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:38 PM
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This is awesome; The changes he is experiencing are yummy. I wish more guys would understand how they are training their bodies/brains to only get off to a screen. All my partners have had issues with porn and it always made ME feel like garbage in bed. Like I wasn't hot enough, loud enough, kinky enough, etc. I wish I had just straight up been like "bro why isn't your dick working? Why can you only do one position? Why don't you want to look at me? Why do you need me to blow you after like 45+ …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:08 PM
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Why aren't we as women teaming up to find these guys and beat their asses? The right kind of beating? I know there are some badass tough, strong women on this sub. Let's kick ass. ??? (Edit: typo)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:38 PM
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This foolio reproduced and has children in the world ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:08 PM
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Right???? How dare she look into my brain like that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:05 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:04 PM
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Waaaaaay worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:51 PM
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It's like asking them to go without food & water 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:51 PM
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She ain't doing no real cleaning in a mini dress. She's just fishing for compliments on her body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:38 PM
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Totally. And how fucking sick is it for a guy to want to "role play" being a fucking RAPIST!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:01 PM
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Poop diiiiiiick 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:20 PM
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Right! These are not "little things". They are potentially scarring, health-compromising, very intimately vulnerable things. Fueled by porn I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:20 PM
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Lots of guys actually think this. They think "I have a high sex drive" when in reality they just have a high porn drive, and are terrible in bed, if they can even get a girl to be intimate with them. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:43 AM
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I dont even know what a backshot is, but I reckon I figured it out from this post 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:40 PM
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Nailed it, sista
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:23 PM
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Yeah my idea is, the right guy will come into your life organically. If there is such thing as a right guy. I sure as hell am tired if looking and going through hell with men who fake and then backstab
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:22 PM
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Having standards = strict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:19 PM
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I don't open my eyes during sex cuz then I'll see his eyes closed and know he's fantasizing about some porn act and doesn't even know I'm there lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:14 PM
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Oh I see how my post could read like that! I don't depend on my son for that validation, either. I get it from myself :) I do have to watch my attachment to my son, I don't want it to become toxic in any way, as many of my attachments have been in the past. One of my aunt's told me when I was pregnant, "having a baby is amazing! It's the only creature on earth that will love you unconditionally!" And I thought.... YIKES, that is not a good reason to have kids lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:23 PM
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This shit happens all the time. Guys can't wait for their girl to heal mentally and physically, and either cheat or turn to porn (also cheating in my eyes). Of course, finding out about this behaviour after such a major change (your body is different, your life is different, you don't sleep, you don't even have time or energy to bathe sometimes), causes irreparable damage to the relationship. I honestly have a very negative feelings regarding my own pregnancy, birth, and newborn stage due to how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:05 PM
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Typical pornsick loser, trying to eek every ounce of sexual arousal out of every possible fucking situation (no pun intended)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:08 AM
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Yep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 12:56 AM
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That's a really interesting article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:35 PM
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I can confirm this. For my birthday last year (December) he got me nothing and I actually had to pick the restaurant and make the reservation. For Christmas, nothing, even though I spent $100s on gifts for him/our family. Valentine's Day, literally nothing. Mother's Day? My first one? His baby? Nothing. Didn't even say "Happy Mother's Day". So sad. It's only their feelings that matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:06 AM
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Just because something is "normal" does not make it right. It was once normal to own slaves. Doesn't mean it was the right thing to do... Ask him if you can follow sexy male fitness models and see how he feels about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:46 AM
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Fuck yeah, scream that shit for the folks in the back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:34 AM
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that blank sleezy look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:44 PM
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Consistent 👏 high 👏 value 👏 actions 👏 over 👏 time 👏 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:41 PM
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Ouch 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:05 PM
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A lot about this article is messed up and stupid, but I'll just point out a few things: SEX DOES NOT CREATE INTIMACY. THIS IS FALSE. Also, I like how in the situation they paint, the woman would rather watch TV than have sex, while the man is too "stressed" to have sex. Like ok, whatever, lol. And finally, they completely ignore the fact that it's totally healthy and normal for your sex drive to dip when in a long term relationship/marriage. This doesn't mean something is wrong with you and you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:27 PM
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This is what I was as going to say. It's not going to feel like a chore if you have a safe, loving, healthy relationship. It will feel like a chore if the relationship is broken in some way and needs attention in areas other than sex. Sex doesn't fix SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:22 PM
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Deal breaker for me too. If I found out my fiance went to a strip club the night before marrying me, I wouldn't show up to the wedding lol bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:20 AM
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So fucking cuuuuuute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:10 AM
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It's pretty outdated and cringey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:57 AM
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I lost respect for that book after the author suggested a wife have sex at least once a day with her husband, whether she wanted to or not, for like a couple weeks in order to repair their relationship. He said that she should have sex with him and then watch and wait and notice her husband's improvement bc of the dutiful sex. It was like a joke lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:00 PM
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My ex was an oxy addict, my first exposure to serious drug abuse and addiction. Me heart goes out to you, that shit is hard to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:23 PM
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This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:17 PM
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True that. My mom is the only person who made me feel special on my first mother's day. She's also been sending everyone in our immediate and extended family birthday cards for as long as I can remember. She's awesome like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:44 AM
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My hope was that this was a joke lol.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:51 PM
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I laughed at that part. So sad that men think they know women by watching porn LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:50 PM
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I never enjoyed sex until my partner started abusing and degrading me! I've never felt happier! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:49 PM
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Happy cake day! And I'm so happy you found that gem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:48 PM
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So fucking gross. When I started getting into yoga, and then found out my SO was looking up and watching naked chicks doing yoga. He would watch America's Next Top Model with me and then Google what they looked like naked. When I was a pickmeisha I would let him take vulnerable pictures of me, only to find out that he would use "Google lens" to search for similar photos. He ruined a lot of things for me by sexualizing them and made me feel very unsafe emotionally. And yeah the most manipulating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:46 PM
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I could have written this. I don't understand why porn addiction isn't reason enough to break up with someone (I've also been told that). If it hurts you THAT BADLY, then it doesn't contribute to a healthy relationship, and therefore you should not tolerate it!! I don't give a fuck how "normal" it is. Just because something is socially acceptable doesn't mean its right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:40 PM
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This is why I'm 100% cool with being alone the rest of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:32 PM
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Im really glad that I found this sub. After being told by basically everyone that I was these things for not wanting porn in my relationships, you start to question yourself and your sanity. But this is 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:26 PM
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In other words.... He's gauging what kind of porn you like and what he can get away with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:18 PM
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The ultimate combo lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:16 PM
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BAHAHAH I have spent my whole adulthood so far trying to love men with deep insecurities and show them that they are worthy of existing. It ALWAYS bites me in the ass. They need to take the initiative and take control of their own well-being. NOT 👏 MY 👏 JOB👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:40 PM
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I like how they are promoting porn and phone sex through social platforms 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:03 AM
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Dead 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:28 AM
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YUP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:28 AM
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I actually laughed aloud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:05 AM
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Totally. And idk if this is backed by science, but think about it... If your partner doesn't take the time to get your body excited, then he probably isn't a good partner to have at your side for life to protect/take care of you and your offspring. An attentive partner is going to create a stronger family unit, as far as furthering the human species goes. Your body most definitely is cluing you in that you shouldn't be trying to reproduce with an inattentive partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:55 AM
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This website is a shit hole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:35 PM
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"Cucks are so lame. They get off to watching other women fuck their girl? Pathetic!" -goes and jerks it to a man fucking a girl they wish they could land-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:28 PM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:26 PM
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Let's be real. The women are leaving, not the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:24 PM
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Yeah I've found them to be the least passionate and engaging, just looking for a fleshlight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:33 PM
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I've wondered this too, lol. Unless you're watching solo female porn, you are literally seeing and whacking off to dick just as much as girl parts. If not more. Cuz we all know they like their girls gang banged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 03:18 PM
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Sooooo pukey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:18 PM
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This is what I do, too. For every good memory, remind yourself of a shitty thing he did to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:44 AM
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Shit, this hit home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:23 AM
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Your reasons are so valid!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:11 PM
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I feel like this too, and it's super depressing. I lost my virginity to a guy who I was in love with, and we waited SIX MONTHS to have sex. He was a virgin too, and I genuinely believed we were exploring the world of sex together. We did it all the time. And I loved it. He used to tell me things like "at night I just lay in bed and think of new ways to fuck you and make you feel good". In reality, he was a porn addict, and I eventually found out. He had a really hard time cumming, and pushed me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:32 AM
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I am always single for at LEAST a year between relationships. I have always been a loner and enjoy me-time, so it is easy to do with my personality. Being single is a great time to find a new/better exercise routine/class, invest time in a new interest/hobby, read books, strengthen relationships with family and friends, and become more in tune with your thoughts and habits. I never use dating apps, I find them to be toxic and not the men I would want to date IRL. I believe the "right" man will c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:25 AM
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Men get offended when a chick uses a vibrator/dildo but turn around and watch porn 26 times a day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:26 PM
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True. But at the same time, I feel like some men don't get the message until their peepee takes a hit, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:44 AM
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Im gonna become a superhero that travels around the globe and slices&dices these fuckers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:38 AM
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Also go on a date with him and kick him in the ballz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:36 AM
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I have a strong desire to match with and then murder dudes like this. 🤗 Oops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:14 AM
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Hey now, sometimes we do the laundry too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:44 PM
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Laundry day is Wednesday so his mom didn't wash his other ones yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:38 PM
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Trash will act like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:15 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:15 PM
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I'm crying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:23 AM
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Also, you aren't swallowing CHILDREN?? like... sperm is only half of the equation? And when they become children is widely debated? I'm just confused lol. Also, gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:14 PM
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You are not a half, waiting to be made whole by a soul mate. You are a whole being, with so many wonderful facets. Don't give yourself to anyone who doesn't see and love all your facets. Do not allow for manipulation; do not allow other people to mold your facets into a different shape. You are you and no one else can be that. You deserve love and respect. You don't have to suffer and "earn" love and respect, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:12 PM
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The more you listen to your intuition, the stronger you will sense it. It's a muscle that needs to be worked, so listen to it even if it's quiet. Your inner voice with grow with use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:07 PM
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I don't think it's wrong to "test" him. Now you got to see that he has NO PROBLEM lying to your face. That's very important to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:06 PM
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Swallow kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:53 PM
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I'd smack a lot more than the phone lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:15 AM
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100%. I always preach the STD problem. I had a very short period in college of "sowing my oats" where I slept with two different guys friends whom I had known for several years. The sex was bad and I felt gross and used afterwards, and never did it again. But lo and behold, a few months later, I go in to have a weird bump looked at, and it's HPV. I can count on one hand the number of people I've slept with. STDs don't suddenly start to happen after you sleep with, say, 10 people. You can get the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:26 PM
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Red flags all daaaaaaaaay. I've gotten "you could make money being a camgirl. Guys would pay to see you naked" and various other pornsick compliments. They def don't make you feel good. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:53 AM
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And yet their favorite porn is chicks getting gang banged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:48 AM
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100%. You dont know who someone really is until you live with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:22 PM
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Even better: "his favorite camgirls kinda resemble me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:20 PM
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That's my guess, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:19 PM
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Lolllllll he can't compete with porn stars, and that makes him uncomfortable and feel inadequate? Welcome to our motherfucking world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:34 AM
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Am I the only one who doesn't understand what the fuck he means?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:56 AM
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This has legit happened to me, except with spicy peanuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:15 AM
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Oh God it hurt me just reading this lol 🙈 and with uncut nails oh godddds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:08 PM
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Dang you get two seconds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:06 PM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:06 PM
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I actually laughed at this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:05 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:54 PM
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This was extremely cringey. I am curious as to who ACTUALLY has these kinks naturally, and who was been trained by porn to have them. My bet is 100% of people fall into the latter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:01 AM
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How on Earth did you manage that?? Good for you! Life is too damn short!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:54 PM
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Thanks 🌸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:26 PM
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Omfg THIS!!!!! If it doesn't matter more to you than I do, then why are you choosing it over me? Especially when you know that you are actively hurting me. We see where his loyalty lies. Unfortunately, it's hard to leave your partner when you're pregnant or have a young child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:20 PM
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What does CMV mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:18 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:12 PM
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I wanna round all these guys up and slice off all their dirty parts. Which includes their heads. Both if them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:29 AM
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for the porn lover in all of us barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:26 AM
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He probably sent it to 5 other girls, too. Tell him he's a perv and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:25 AM
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Reducing people down to a single trait (sexually attractive/good looking) doesn't represent security in a relationship. I feel like it speaks more about the personality of the person talking about the trait. Like, I've never been one to ogle at guys and talk about how hot some guy is. I didn't do that when I was single and hanging out with my girls, and I certainly have no reason to do it around my SO. but some people just feel the need to speak their mind at all times I guess. Doesn't make them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:19 AM
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This is how I feel. I cannot control my partner's past any more than he can. However, i have faith there are men out there who will give up porn out of respect for their SO. Faith. Lol I have yet to see it in person, but I have faith.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:51 AM
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I saw a TED talk that mentioned that attempted study. It was impossoble to find a control group of men who had never/didn't watch porn. However, men figure out the hard way how horrible it is to their brains, bodies, and relationships, and quit. So now there is a group of men who quit porn and the benefits of quitting have been studied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:47 AM
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My mom quoted me saying "cute don't cover stupid" at age 6 and I've always felt that way. Personality, intellect, and compatibility matter much more to me than looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:24 AM
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This is so twisted in so many ways. They both need to stop with the porn. So sad. She wants to be ignored. Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:37 AM
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Seriously. I often wonder what sex would be like between two people if neither of them had ever watched porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 03:35 AM
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She is clearly insecure and needs validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:21 PM
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That's fine if this shit works for her and her relationship. But it doesn't make other women insecure for NOT wanting in it theirs. We deserve to have our standards and boundaries respected regardless of what other women allow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:26 PM
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-watch porn together. -accept that your man wants to reenact porn because he says his real sex life doesn't resemble porn enough and therefore needs to be spiced up. -reenact the porn with him even though it doesn't feel right. -make rules to help yourself feel more comfortable with the uncomfortable act. -watch more porn so you can reenact properly. All of the points above are what NOT to do to have a healthy sex life. K?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:48 PM
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Good sex can be taught/explored together. Respect cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:13 PM
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If this ain't the truth 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:58 PM
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I completely agree with you. Nothing positive is coming from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:03 PM
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Ugh, I'm so sorry. I don't really understand fetishes that you don't share with your partner. Like, if you are into anal, but it causes your girl extreme pain/discomfort and she isn't into it, then wouldn't that nip the desire in the bud? Oh wait, probably not, especially if dude is consistently watching anal porn. Sex isn't about mutual pleasure anymore and it's fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:56 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Somehow I suspect she was allowing it, which caused the injury. Then he was up in arms bc he couldn't get shit on his dick right away. So weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:52 PM
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100% porn sex. In no healthy loving relationship would you want to SLAP your partner and then continue to yell at them. A) this was written by a man and B) if it wasn't, then you better believe this will only escalate to further abuse to satisfy his taste for porn. He won't be happy with just this, now that she let the abuse happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:44 PM
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Same - wait I recognize you from loveafterporn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:06 PM
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All shades of brown. No nutrition in sight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:17 PM
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Right!? I wanna start doing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:17 PM
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A relationship should always start with friendship. First step: a friendship with yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:00 AM
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What cuties!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:57 PM
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I 🖤 your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:10 PM
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"it's literally love making. It's not sex." WTF????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:42 AM
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They would be spending their whole work day watching new uploads. Of course it's not happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:16 PM
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Hey hey :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 08:08 PM
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For real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:15 PM
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This is major. When men step up to hold other men accountable... YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:05 PM
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I agree with you completely. I get totally depressed if I let myself think about it for too long. I have a baby boy, and it scares the shit outta me that he has to grow up in this shitty-ass society. His dad is a porn addict so I'll be basically fighting for his innocence on my own (as a single parent, prolly). I want to protect my baby's brain. I want him to have the joy of being in a truly loving and intimate relationship -- one of the greatest feelings in life. I would hate for porn to rob hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:27 AM
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I wish they were easier to find ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:21 AM
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Idk if this is really her or not, but regardless, I hate this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:07 PM
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The number of liiiiikes uuuuuggghhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:11 AM
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This is an unfortunate result of hook-up culture. The relations that happen most are based on looks bc no one is looking for a long-term partner. And while this type of dating might be fun for some people, neither party benefits. The human soul needs genuine connections and a sense of belonging and acceptance. Hook-up culture offers only brief satisfaction, an uncomfortable sense of competition, and a nice string of STDs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 11:16 PM
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If you are a man and this does not shake you to your core and make you abandon this site and hopefully all porn sites, then you are complete and utter scum and I hope you get COVID-19 and die. Sorry, not sorry. Waste of space 'human' beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:27 PM
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It's not even entirely about looks. When you love a person for who they are, for their soul and their thoughts and their whole being, the outside means less. So instead of comparing your partner to someone who is a 'true' 10 to you, your brain doesn't even go there. Because you love their whole being, and that trumps the physical looks. Their spirit glows and blinds you from obsessing over the skin casing that they reside in. And if some LOVES YOU that's how they should SEE YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:57 AM
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Exactly. And it's just a bunch of women complaining about the same thing, giving each other the same advice, and none of them making any changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:19 PM
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I came to Reddit like two years ago bc I was having relationship problems related to porn use. I started with r/relationship_advice, then was pointed to r/deadbedrooms, then gravitated to r/loveafterporn... Everywhere I went I was unimpressed. This is the first sub I found where not only to I feel validated, but empowered, and have been shown a clear path for moving forward and living my best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:02 PM
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And also have circus-seal-slick vaginas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:56 PM
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I semi-agree. I don't necessarily think that following Instagram models is a dehumanizing act, but I do think that as far as dating strategies go, it's best to not choose a guy whose social media feeds are crowded with scantily-clad, insanely gorgeous/photoshopped/enhanced women. It's just not reality. And dude is used to consuming many many women on the daily. Best not to even try to fight for his attention/loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:00 AM
5

I puked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:39 PM
45

Watch how he compliments you. I've found that guys who are pretty pornsick are demeaning when they think they are being flirtatious or flattering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:01 AM
74

Lmao I pulled a muscle just imagining that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:54 AM
23

It's literally a plate of various dead animals and carbs. Not a fruit or veggie in sight, God bless those arteries LORT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:33 AM
55

And clogs the toilet every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:32 AM
11

Yeah wtf is that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:31 AM
23

Lmao I was about to say...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:31 AM
6

I have struggled with anxiety for years, and this pandemic talk has triggered it big time. There is definitely that dread and fear of all being lost .. for me, it's mostly fear for my baby boy. I'll tell you what I tell myself: 'living' isn't in the big milestones (like getting that job, or graduating college, or getting married, or traveling to Italy, etc.). It's in the little things. Enjoy & appreciate your morning cup of coffee, your hot shower, your pets, a snuggly blanket, your favorite mus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:17 PM
3

Thanks for the recommendation! Yeah I don't really have the time to overuse lol. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:30 AM
7

Yeah I've only had one partner who ever took the time and cared enough to get me off, which I appreciated. I don't want to ruin that experience by getting myself used to a machine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:14 AM
87

Why would this be considered "uplifting news"? It's so weird to me... Like we live in SUCH a weird world. We are on "lockdown", quarantined at home, and getting free access to premium porn subscriptions is uplifting news!? It's like sending free liquor to everyone. "just relax and medicaaaaaate..." They are using this vulnerable time when people are feeling unsafe and confused, to get more people addicted to their product, or further addicted. And the sad thing is, pornhub's ploy will work. Inst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:12 PM
5

Where did you get yours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:40 PM
13

I read this in Yoda's voice tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:17 PM
42

I've reported so many ads it's insane. For me, it's been active wear ads. But instead if like, women working out, it's only asses squatting in front of the camera, or boobs bouncing in sports bras. Like no faces, no other body parts, no actual performance-related qualities of the clothing. It's totally insane. Like hellloooo I'm a female, I'm not gonna buy your shit if you're exploiting females like duuuuhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:25 PM
47

Women live in the world pornography creates. We live its lie as reality...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:58 AM
34

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 06:01 AM
42

"with scores of people facing agonising sexless spells" lol..... These guys aren't having real sex lets be real lmao. Good thing they're protected from their own germs 😂 I'm literally dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:00 PM
74

This is so sick ugh I hope that girl was freaked out instead of like amused or something. And that dad should feel some serious shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:57 AM
11

Honestly I think a lot of it stemmed from my strict religious upbringing. Some religions teach you that you deserve to suffer, that you deserve nothing good. And if something good does happen to you, it's not because of your own worth or doing. Constantly putting your future on the hands of a non-existent God by "surrendering" to your situation and just keeping your head down... It's not going to get you anywhere. Religion combined with not seeing what a healthy relationship was like growing up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:15 PM
1

Oh shittttt lol get em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:27 PM
12

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:26 PM
19

Why the fuck do men think trashy, degrading terms are a form of endearment. Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:30 PM
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