| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Helpless in Ohio | knukle57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/21 07:40 PM | |
| 6 | STBX is into BDSM | knukle57 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/21 10:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | STBX is into BDSMIt fucking sucks. The worst part is I know the guy has a history of violence against women. Was actually accused of choking a young woman during sex years ago, but was never charged. He was once a high profile person. I understand her being enthralled by the idea of being with him, but I know deep down he is using her as a sex toy, and will dispose of her when he's over it. I know that's not my problem or my business, but even though I do not love her, I do care for her, and I worry about her me… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | STBX is into BDSMThanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 4 | STBX is into BDSMThanks for the replies. After I posted I started to think about how ridiculous I am being about this. It's just we're still living under the same roof and it's slowly killing me. We are waiting until after the new year to start the process so we can have one more holiday season as a family. I'm trying to keep it together, but it is tough sometimes. I just have to tell myself there is light at the end of this very long and immensely dark tunnel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 02:06 AM |
| 8 | STBX is into BDSMTo each their own. I've never really got it. It is tough having the image of the mother of my children being dominated by some dude though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 2 | What to do?This is a dangerous place to ask for advice about the possibility of reconciling. Many of the folks on here have been burnt really bad and are jaded, which I understand completely. The fact is, not every woman who "needs space" is fucking someone. Not every woman that has second thoughts is plotting against you. Like the previous reply said, you seem to have good instincts, and even though you've both changed, you still know her better than anyone. Go with your gut and do what will make you happ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Feeling sadMy position is similar but much harder. Found out my wife has been talking to another man for a few months. We should've split long ago but stayed for the kids. This outcome was inevitable. Unfortunately we still have to live together for a few more months. She said she was going to stay at one of her friends on Monday a few hours away. When she came home Tuesday she did laundry. I switched the load to the dryer and found a pair of panties that she never would've worn for me. She swears her and … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Was I really that bad of a husband?There's a difference between being a good husband and loving and caring for your family. I'm in the same exact position currently. Both myself and my STBX have been emotionally neglectful for many years. I knew how she dealt with her emotions, and instead of being there for her, I let my resentment towards her create a division that has no solution other than separation. I too am now extremely remorseful of how I wasn't there for her when she needed me, but it doesn't seem like there is anything… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Helpless in OhioGentlemen, I appreciate all of the posts. This sub has been a God send lately. I'm definitely not moving out. She already hates the house we live in, which is actually pretty nice but a bit old. I'm going to try and fight for family. I couldn't forgive myself if I didn't. Thank you for the podcast suggestion. I will definitely check that out. I will keep the sub posted on the outcome. Thanks again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | A well mastered techniqueShonuff: Am I the meanest? Henchmen: Shonuff! Shonuff: Am I the prettiest? Henchman: Shonuff! Shonuff: Am I the baddest mofo lowdown around this town? Henchman: Shonuff!!!! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/20 12:19 PM |
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