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I am not religious and my husband is away 28 days/ home 28 days so I have a bit of a unique situation. I do all the cooking, cleaning, and yard maintenance. I basically try to think of anything a hired assistant would do and do that for him. This could be cleaning his vehicle and making sure it’s full of fuel before he gets home, making any appointments he will need on his time home, arranging social engagements etc. I think most important I always say yes to physical intimacy and send spicy pho…
/r/RedPillWives16/07/25 03:00 AM
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I am a SAHM and have been for 13 years, I had similar concerns so we have life insurance policies that would pay off any mortgage/debt and give a decent cushion if something were to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/25 02:54 AM
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These probably won’t give coverage to what you’re insecure about but they are so comfy I have a whole bunch in different colours/styles! My husband loves them but they are still modest enough I can run to the bathroom and not worry if a kiddo wakes up and sees me. https://ca.montelleintimates.com/collections/montelle-chemises/products/botanical-flirty-chemise-set-empire
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 02:58 AM
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Would 100% of men find 80% of women attractive? Of course not but someone in that 100% will find someone attractive in that 80% this is when beauty being subjective comes into play.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/25 04:03 PM
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Haha! Your right it is super sweet and when we first got together and he did nothing on Valentine’s Day and my best friend was getting the biggest bouquets and rose petals on the bed type deal I was like what the heck! But my husband is great every other day of the year and lots of those partners who do a big thing on valentines do nothing the rest of the year. Just different personalities remind yourself what your partner does regularly to make you feel good don’t let one day bother you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/25 09:56 PM
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My husband is not great at gift giving when he feels like he “has” to do it as in Christmas valentines birthday etc. But he is amazing and brings me a coffee because he was driving by Starbucks and thought I deserved a treat or brings home flowers just because or buy me little things related to my hobbies just because he thinks Ill like it. He doesn’t do huge romantic gestures but he is an amazing husband everyday so I don’t let valentines or birthday gifts get to me 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/25 08:49 PM
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I might be totally off base of what OP is getting at because I have actually never heard this, buuut I have kids the kids are in competitive sports. This puts you in proxy to many people and a sort of spectator to many lives and there’s this one dad he’s well known around our small town his family has money he’s good looking and I swear he is the most unbothered human on the planet. His wife on the other hand is the most tightly wound ‘type A’ person I have ever met I saw her walking down the st…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/25 12:24 AM
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It feels so silly like how can it possibly be difficult to not waste time on a phone? But it is so hard I find myself reaching for it so often or using it for something legitimate then when I’ve completed the task I am on social media and haven’t even realized 15 minutes has gone by!
/r/RedPillWives12/07/23 05:08 PM
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I think the way this was put to you was insensitive but I also think this opens the door for a conversation about important aspects of your future. I would put it back on him. I would say things like “Health and wellness are very important to me too what kind of things do you see us doing as a family in our future to live healthily in our daily lives? How will this look when we have kids? How will you lead and model a healthy lifestyle for our family?” Because ultimately if you have a husband wh…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 06:41 PM
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I think you have gotten great responses but I would like to add, If you are interested in TRP follow feminine women and dive into your feminine, as a woman you will learn far more from Fascinating womanhood, Mrs Midwest etc than you will from following redpill content ( whether the creators are men or women).
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 06:57 PM
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I don’t know if this is appropriate to post here but I need to get it off my chest…for weeks I have been planning a gathering for my family and expected a whole slew of company today… my cousins kids another cousin and her kids my mom and sisters and my grandmother. A week ago my husband told me not to be sad when they cancel because I plan these things and always end up disappointed I confirmed with everyone yesterday they were coming and now today they have one by one messaged me they can’t co…
/r/RedPillWives03/12/22 08:50 PM
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I think this plays a huge part! Boredom! I am in my mid 30s with 3 kids and it’s very busy but very boring. There is little time for intellectual stimulation but very little intellectual stimulation or excitement in the day to day.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/22 04:10 PM
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I have seen people in this sub say for them Red pill is more of a tool kit than an identity. Do I think more people would benefit from using this tool kit? Yes, but I can also recognize nothing is universal and there are many situations it would not work in. It works for me but I would never push it on others.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/22 05:05 PM
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I never really thought of it this way thank you for the perspective. That is exactly my problem is it is really negatively impacting my kids relationships with food.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 05:26 AM
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I think that it may come across like I am just extremely health focused but I’m really not we focus on a balanced diet and lifestyle. I am totally fine with her spoiling them and giving some treats but it’s just so excessive. Another example for Valentine’s Day two other grandmas brought each of my kids a small package of chocolate, my mother in law brought each child an 8X10 gift bag stuffed with caramel apples, chocolate bars, marshmallows, lollipops and more. They are her only grandchildren s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 05:24 AM
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Yes our oldest child is 9 and it has been a constant issue, myself my husband and my father in law have all spoke to her about it and my father in law has told her numerous times to stop disrespecting me by giving the kids things when i have already said no but she just laughs.I am also really concerned because it has progressed to the point where she’s telling my kids to lie to me about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 05:11 AM
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As I stated in my post it is effecting their expectations on what is normal and I have no problem with her spoiling them it’s the extreme amount.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 08:41 PM
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I was able to listen to a couple episodes of “ We only look thin” and loved it! Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/22 03:12 AM
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Yes, if I cook something he doesn’t think he will like or doesn’t look “filling enough” he will go buy himself fast food or eat it then make himself nachos or some other snack and make it clear he needs this because I didn’t make a meal he likes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 01:53 AM
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Thank you for sharing this is a really good eye opene and motivating for me to continue working on my health and encouraging my kids. I honestly don’t understand how he can watch his father struggle so much and still not feel like he has to make any changes. We have talked about his dads health so many times and it’s like he doesn’t believe the diabetes is connected to his diet and lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 12:32 AM
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I think your question kind of hits the nail on the head, I find it very uncomfortable making choices he’s not onboard with even if it is just for me and the kids. I also have no idea why he is so against it my main motivation is seeing how negatively diabetes has negatively impacted his dads life. Neither of us come from families that prioritize health and I think that has a lot to do with it just not really knowing what to do and it never being valued so he doesn’t view it as important.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 04:45 PM
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Thank you for your input it’s really what I needed to hear and you really opened my eyes to a few things that I just hadn’t thought of even as basic as making exercise fun for my kids. Your absolutely right thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 04:39 PM
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I don’t nag him, I say the kids and are going for a walk would you like to join us? And if he asks for something for a meal I cook it and try and make myself it the healthiest way possible. Like having more salad or grilling meats instead of frying etc.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 04:13 PM
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Ironically the thing that made me start and stick to making changes is my father in laws health. He has diabetes and has tons of complications from it. All his health problems would improve if he would just improve his diet. My husband knows I am scared to get diabetes after seeing the havoc it’s taken on his dads body but my husbands attitude is “oh well everyone gets diabetes it’s just a part of life we will have to deal with one day.”
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 04:11 PM
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Meh he’s only human, I’m a jerk sometimes too 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 03:44 AM
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I have been married for 12 years. I feel like I should start with If he asked me I would be honest, that said there are many things he doesn’t know about my childhood because I don’t want him to think negatively about people I have forgiven and are still in my life. I also don’t tell him all my fantasies/dreams/goals because he has weaponized them against me in the past. I also am careful as to when he sees me. Almost every woman I know let’s their husband see them use the washroom or just getti…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 08:14 PM
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It’s a complete mess and I really am at a loss on how to deal with it. Even going into the future I would like my sisters to show my husband more respect but nothing I try is helping.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/21 07:59 PM
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This is the largest problem by far and I hoped after a month it would of gotten better but it hasn’t. My husband is a kind loving hard working man. He is absolutely wonderful. My sisters are both “scared of men” even though one of them can’t remember life before he was in it and the other was born after we were married, they lump him into this category. The eldest will not even sit in the same room as him even as far as avoiding meals. If she is in the same area as him she is on the attack const…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/21 05:10 AM
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This is what I ended up doing, splitting dogs between family and friends and it helped!
/r/RedPillWives06/07/21 04:52 AM
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My mom is only in her early 50s and once recovered from surgery will be able to be fully independent and live her life normally again I can understand some circumstances it would be appropriate but at this point it is not.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/21 03:14 PM
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The whole ordeal will be about 5 weeks long we’ve been at it for 3 weeks and have about 2 more weeks to go, which I get it’s been stressful but about 10 years ago his mother was in a car accident and I looked after her for a few months (she had neck and back injuries) I also do anything I can to help his parents like mow their lawn drop off their dog at the groomers just things that are difficult now that they are getting older or are at inconvenient times for them and he has never complained ab…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/21 06:21 AM
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I will definitely be creating some quiet time bins for them that’s a great idea, thank you! I have tried to get his perspective on what would be best going forward or how I could make this easier on him and he says things that in my opinion are absolutely unreasonable such as “give her dogs away” another large problem is the state of her house she is an extreme hoarder and his solution is “just throw away all her stuff” to which I have tried to say yes I am getting rid of a lot of stuff but it s…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/21 05:53 AM
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I think there’s different lingerie for different things...I wear these every night they are extremely comfortable https://ca.montelleintimates.com/collections/montelle-lingerie/products/modal-bust-support-chemise-crystal-grey For daily bra and underwear my favourite brand is Empreinte. For lingerie for intimacy I think body stockings are drastically underrated, they look great on a lot of body types there is a ton of variety and they are inexpensive! Something like this is a good example https:/…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 09:19 PM
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Thanks for the heads up, it’s definitely a delicate balance. We have a great marriage, I never want to get lazy about it so I continue to learn but there are sure some very negative views that surface in the process.
/r/RedPillWives28/04/21 12:48 AM
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Oh lovely! I will check that out thank you 🙂
/r/RedPillWives27/04/21 01:41 AM
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I am so sorry your going through this, it sounds like he is lucky to have a woman who is trying so hard to have a great marriage! At the risk of sounding like a total jerk, has either his or your physical appearance changed? Has the way you care for yourself changed? I say this because I had a realization one day that i have gained weight and my appearance has definitely changed over the last 12 years of marriage....Over the last 6 months I have put in the effort to take better care of my hair a…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/21 06:40 PM
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I’m sorry if I am repeating things you have already heard I’m fairly new to this page so I am not familiar with your situation... Do you know what your husbands love language is? Are you loving him in that way? I don’t remember all the correct terms( there’s a whole book website etc devoted to love languages I kind of plucked what I needed and applied it in a Fascinating womanhood/feminine way) but for me to feel loved I need quality time and my husband needs physical intimacy, it sounds like th…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/21 05:50 PM
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Oh I love this thank you for sharing, I will definitely be having my kids send a photo of purchases and thanking him from now on!
/r/RedPillWives25/04/21 04:03 PM
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I have heard of that one before but thanks for reminding me haha!
/r/RedPillWives25/04/21 03:48 PM
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