I posted a few weeks ago asking for advice along my health journey, things are going very well. I have been able to maintain the changes I’ve made and am continuously losing weight as I mentioned in my previous post being a healthy example for my kids is extremely important to me.

On to the current situation… my in laws are extremely unhealthy. We have spoke to my mother in law numerous times over the years about her “treats” she feeds our kids. We’re talking she babysits for two hours and let’s one child eat an entire box of twelve popsicles. Another child will have an entire canister of whipped cream. One of my children doesn’t like soda and she will make him try it every time he goes there just incase he changes his mind. The most recent issue she watched them for just under 3 hours Saturday evening. She fed them mcdonalds, soda,ice cream and a ton of candy. I thought if she watched the kids in our house it would be better but she just waited until we were gone to bring it all in and tells my kids not to tell me. She also tells my daughter it’s okay that she eats things like that because she’s so skinny.

I think a lot of redpill is learning to be your best self, and I want to be my best self and teach my kids to be their best self.

My husband is amazing and has spoke to his mother about this so many times over the years and she just says “I’m the grandma I get to spoil them”.

Am I wrong to not want her to be alone with my children anymore? I will not be making a huge declaration or talking to her about it just not ask her to babysit and politely refuse invitations to their home, she will still be welcome to stop in here or be invited to dinners in our home.