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“Didn’t really find her attractive” “Onto the next one I suppose” One second you’re like “meh” and the next you seem disappointed that she didn’t respond. Which is it?
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:15 PM
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It’s not personal. Those men in the middle aren’t approaching women often. How I know? The “no shame” guys don’t mind approaching and getting rejected. The “flashy alpha types” are confident & either don’t care about your rejection or don’t expect it. The guys in the middle, the average guys, they’re not approaching often.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 10:57 PM
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Feel like context is needed here, that’s not normal
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:47 PM
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Shouldn’t have accepted her saying she’s busy but not offering an alternative. If I must, often I’ll say “suggestions?” Or “alternatives?” To prompt her if she responds dull. You calling her out on poor texting probably wasn’t the best approach either. “I enjoyed our vibe in person, let’s grab a drink sometime”. That’s a soft offer, when he confirms, go for logistics on the date. This approach is with a frame of in-person vibe being good as opposed to “text vibe sucks”.
/r/seduction21/05/25 08:59 PM
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Depends. If I vibe with them and have a real connection, yes, I’ll try to keep up the relationship. I have a few girls scattered around Europe waiting for me to visit them, all by keeping up the contact. If we don’t have that connection, like it seems you didn’t, I would let it die out naturally. It seems like you may have set a false impression that you wanted something serious with her. That, or she doesn’t sleep around much and thus got slightly attached to you. I don’t know why you’d ghost h…
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:50 AM
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Do you want to open? If you do, do it regardless of the eye contact. Yes it helps. But if you’re attracted you should be doing it anyway.
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:22 PM
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Great post. I picked up on this naturally recently by having girls NOT pulled away. I.e. I’m in set with a girl, her friend goes to pull her away, and they’ve said “I’m comfortable” and stayed with me. The girl that gave this specific response was making out with me this a couple minutes later. On the flip side, I was in a 2 set with a wing. Thought we were going well. My wing blew it with his girl, and said to my target “let’s go find our friends”. The girl I was with was happy to go despite se…
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:15 PM
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There are guys like that everywhere. If you go there knowing what you want and can stick to your boundaries, you’ll be able to shift between the guys who want something serious and those who do not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:32 PM
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Try singles events. There are over 30 events that could work for you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/25 04:25 PM
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First girl displayed body language that she was shy around you, not disinterested. Real disinterest especially during ng is her looking around as if to find someone else. During the day, something like what the second girl did as she was genuinely disinterested. In regard to “never doing that shit again,” I’d really recommend removing that kind of belief you have. Yes, you were uncalibrated in that situation, but this is what escalation is all about. Escalating, learning, improving. At the gym y…
/r/seduction27/04/25 03:06 PM
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If you were happy, yes. There are no rules to this. I had a girl give me head, she didn't want to go further, I let her stay. The same happened another night. The third night, she messaged me that she was out and wanted to see me. That was the day we hooked up. I'm fully happy with everything that happened. There's nothing wrong with sleeping in the same bed with a woman you're not fucking, as long as you're happy with how things are going.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:51 PM
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Seems interesting. I saw your post history and you said that you've had months of heavy pulling, but have this oscillation between abundance and scarcity. Are you able to spot any practical trends from when you're pulling vs when you aren't? From this post, it seemed to me that you didn't set up the frame of her being a spontaneous/adventurous/fun girl which honestly, she was. It's weird she didn't want you to go inside "today," I honestly would have asked her why. Probably some form of LMR, but…
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:06 PM
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You need to actually have a reason you’re exchanging contacts and some form of plan set. “I’m enjoying this chat and I’m tempted to continue getting to know you at some point… are you into margaritas or are you more of a wine girl?” Act accordingly from her response but be specific: why, where, when, how, etc. Why - continue getting to know each other Where - x bar on x road When - Tuesday 8pm How - we’ll travel separately and meet each other there This grounds the interaction and has her excite…
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:04 AM
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Good job. Age was a shit-test. If a girl is older and asks how old you are, ask her “what do you think?” She’ll tell you the age she wants you to be. If she says significantly older, ask her why - she’ll sell herself on you. By the time she finds out your real age, it’ll be much less important to her since she’s justified why she thinks you’re older. I’m 25 and been with a bunch of women in their 30s recently following the above. Usually they’ll say “it’s your beard, you’re mature and seem aroun…
/r/seduction31/03/25 06:59 PM
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If you want to slump that low… “Confidence in a fight is knowing that whatever happens, you’ll be ok”. “Confidence in jail is knowing that whatever happens, you’ll be ok”. And because I know where your mind is going: “Confidence is knowing that even if you die, you’ll be ok”
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:31 PM
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When you see the update this whole post is hilarious
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:50 PM
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A quote I once heard and now live by: Confidence is knowing that no matter what happens, you’ll be ok.
/r/seduction28/03/25 12:47 PM
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Pulled 3 times this month without kissing them first at the bar. 2 of them the first kiss was literally in my bed. So while you’re probably right typically, there are still exceptions.
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:01 AM
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I wouldn’t entirely let it go. It helps me. I feel turned on, I flirt better, I’m able to escalate more effectively, etc. so it works in my benefit. The fact that you’re inexperienced probably makes you a little awkward but you just have to keep pushing through that and stacking your XP dude.
/r/seduction26/03/25 01:53 PM
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Good attitude. That’s how you learn dude. Keep it up.
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:50 PM
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Yup - bro ghosted the girl and blamed her lol. Sure, her energy changed, but he was the one who actually did the ghosting. Just as men don't like double-texting, neither do girls. He set her up to chase him, she didn't, and he reacted by removing the contacts - not the move. To the guy who commented, I read your detailed description below... I would have called her out on it. Playfully at first, then maybe more directly, "You seem a little different today, is something going on?" If you were goi…
/r/seduction25/03/25 08:59 PM
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Don't listen to the 3 time world champion who spends his entire Reddit usage shitting on cold approach. Good on you for taking action brother.
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:22 PM
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Progressive desensitisation
/r/seduction04/03/25 08:47 PM
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What would you put it down to? Consistent opens & volume or something else?
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:40 PM
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Can you run me through train game? I’ve found it easy to open but tough to escalate end of night on the train.
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:35 PM
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What’s your play while traveling home? I’ve gotten into a few convos on public transport but I’ve found it tough to transition into something sexual.
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:23 PM
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What are you looking for to identify these girls?
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:20 PM
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Have you asked many of the solo girls why they were out alone?
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:17 PM
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You’re overthinking it and desperately trying to avoid “making a mistake”. There’s no perfect answer for pretty much anything in life. I don’t see “are you into Asian girls” as a shit-test, just be honest - or tease a little. “Yep” “No, not usually” “Only when they’re x” None of these are going to blow her mind. It’s just you being a normal human who doesn’t care about their reaction to the largest extent.
/r/seduction27/01/25 02:42 PM
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Give her a call. Show some genuine interest but don’t be weird. Tell her you wanna see her again and see where that goes.
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:28 PM
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LMR - Last minute resistance. I understand there are a lot of terms & phrases to learn in this space, though it’s not my responsibility to teach you them.
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:27 AM
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As simple as it is, I didn't look at this from the perspective of dissonance between what she says & does. Emotionally, these girls want to stay with me - but they say they need to leave / it's bedtime. I agree with your points, I wonder if there's a way to figure out which of those it is in the moment to react accordingly. I've come to believe she was trying to convince herself to leave as you say, but also could be shit tests - I was getting a tonne of those especially in the recent example I …
/r/seduction17/01/25 01:32 PM
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I'm trying to avoid talking about a specific situation as per the rules here. For the girl in the example, she stayed to make plans for the next day, is teasing and flirting via text, invited me for a drink at the sunset today, etc. She's definitely interested - I don't see the other day was a failed hookup, instead I believe she needs more comfort first before moving things further. She also implied that verbally (difficult to trust, bad experience with her ex, etc.) I appreciate your advice es…
/r/seduction17/01/25 01:29 PM
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I really think the girls I'm attracting need more emotional connection before opening up. You may see it as strange and complicated, I'd just say the market is full of people using each other for their own satisfaction - so there's more comfort tests necessary to feel comfortable.
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:31 PM
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That's exactly what I have and how I'm behaving when I say "sure, no problem". I don't care if she leaves, but this repeating of "I'm leaving soon" makes me think it's more than just "time for bed".
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:30 PM
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Sometimes the dry spell is what’s needed to stop being needy, take a step back, and become more attractive instantly. Honestly I think the girl broke up with her boyfriend, found a decent guy she could sleep with who wouldn’t mess with her. Now the guy is stuck on the girl, but she’s so far only getting validation that he’s there available for her. Speaking from experience here. Think we’ve all been through it.
/r/seduction28/11/24 02:24 PM
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You’ve got no frame bro. She’s been in control of this entire interaction from the very beginning. If a girl vaguely wanted plans for the weekend, I’d get them locked down on a date & time there and then. I certainly wouldn’t cancel plans for something that isn’t scheduled. Don’t take this personally because I don’t know you, but this post describes what seems like a lost puppy waiting and hoping for the pretty lady to text him back. Take initiative and start taking some control here.
/r/seduction28/11/24 02:06 PM
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Ask GPT. Not a joke, it’s good for this.
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:35 AM
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Wanted to pay my respect to your improvement attitude. I see some people here talking bad on your game but it’s clear you’re on the up. There’s more you could have added to this for sure, but good job opening and reflecting.
/r/seduction19/11/24 04:17 PM
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Nice work. That’s how I’ve got approached a few times this week also. Eye contact does a lot of the work/talking.
/r/seduction07/11/24 02:34 AM
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Agreed. OP cannot decrease the count but can avoid acting on the impulse that drove her to sleep with so many people.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 10:39 AM
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In all fairness, OP asked if she’s cooked. Commenter answered that by saying yes.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/24 10:37 AM
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Would be interested to hear more about your average night/ "gameplan" especially leading to IVL.
/r/seduction31/10/24 01:32 AM
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Natural with no crazy tactics or ridiculous moments. Good share.
/r/seduction29/10/24 05:46 PM
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Slightly unusual way to put it lol but definitely have a massive point. I’m enjoying solo game right now. Wings only help for some accountability & push as a complete beginner, after that you just have to jump in.
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:10 PM
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In all fairness, Mark Manson’s book does say to polarise. You’re backing up the fact that some will love it, others will hate it - so it adds more power to Mark’s perspective.
/r/seduction28/07/24 10:56 PM
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there was a pause in the conversation and she just got up and left Last night at a bar I opened a girl, we spoke for 20-30 seconds, and she randomly turned around completely and refocused on her friends. I went off and later in the night, she approached me. It's not usual, for one to randomly walk away mid convo but when it happens, just move on and see what happens. In this case, I too would have messaged regardless, but acting like a customer (wanting a tattoo) was an error.
/r/seduction28/07/24 02:15 PM
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An overall good belief to have is that they were attracted to you and just found a way to speak with you. Almost like old-school peacocking but for your height. Just assume attraction if you are interested and see where it gets you.
/r/seduction24/07/24 04:28 PM
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Fair enough. I’d tell her that the weed last time was a lot. Don’t use it as an excuse or anything, just kinda mention it in passing. You will be able to escalate again but you can’t keep missing these easy shots. She’s probably feeling confused and/or embarrassed right now
/r/seduction18/07/24 08:32 PM
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So you didn’t want it or like why didn’t you make a move?
/r/seduction18/07/24 08:25 PM
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Sounds like you’re reaching a point where you suddenly think everything will be perfect. Then you get there and it’s not yet perfect. Just keep going and work on the internal judgements you have going on.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:58 PM
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Honestly bro: - Ask for directions - Give a “drive-by” compliment - Compliment then curious question Follow the above, move on to the next stage when you’re good at the previous. I approached more on Friday than I did the whole of last year. Still need to do more directs as I’ve only done 3 over the past month, but I’m way more sociable and it’s a lot easier randomly talking to people now.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:57 PM
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I’m saying if she brings it up first otherwise yes, ignore it.
/r/seduction15/07/24 11:14 AM
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… and know how to stay in the set. Early ejection is the biggest reason people fail in a set
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:56 PM
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Watched a vid on “picking up mifs” on YouTube lol. A big takeaway was “give them permission”. Let them know it’s the age gap that you’re into. Her: “I reckon I’m too old for you” You: “Not at all, I’m actually into older women” Etc.
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:21 PM
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Bruh bullet point 1. Didn’t read any other part of the post though respectively. — I just read it and honestly you and I are pretty similar dude. What I’ve realised more recently is that the more people you talk to, the more experience you get & the more results you get. What’s helped me is just being the social guy to everyone, then you can be the seducer to the ones you’re actually interested in. I try to be the person having the most fun & speak to as many people as possible. It makes approac…
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:11 PM
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Bruh bullet point 1. Didn’t read any other part of the post though respectively. — I just read it and honestly you and I are pretty similar dude. What I’ve realised more recently is that the more people you talk to, the more experience you get & the more results you get. What’s helped me is just being the social guy to everyone, then you can be the seducer to the ones you’re actually interested in. I try to be the person having the most fun & speak to as many people as possible. It makes approac…
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:09 PM
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Bruh bullet point 1. Didn’t read any other part of the post though respectively. — I just read it and honestly you and I are pretty similar dude. What I’ve realised more recently is that the more people you talk to, the more experience you get & the more results you get. What’s helped me is just being the social guy to everyone, then you can be the seducer to the ones you’re actually interested in. I try to be the person having the most fun & speak to as many people as possible. It makes approac…
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:09 PM
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Bruh bullet point 1. Didn’t read any other part of the post though respectively. — I just read it and honestly you and I are pretty similar dude. What I’ve realised more recently is that the more people you talk to, the more experience you get & the more results you get. What’s helped me is just being the social guy to everyone, then you can be the seducer to the ones you’re actually interested in. I try to be the person having the most fun & speak to as many people as possible. It makes approac…
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:09 PM
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I was the same as you when I first went. I was there last night, it was around 50/50 ratio but most of the men are gay & A LOT of straight women. I don’t like saying “they have their guard down” but the truth is they don’t expect to be hit on. Many go there to escape the “creepy” men in the normal clubs. In the one I go, the girls jump up on the stripper pole. Sure, you have to deal with the odd look/touch from a gay dude, but once they see you with a girl they generally back off anyway. Definit…
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:48 PM
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Gay nightclub game is incredible. Recently was introduced to this
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:42 AM
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I spend 3-6 months of a year here, but I leave next week unfortunately. Commenting so I can find this thread in the future
/r/seduction23/03/24 10:28 AM
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Appreciate you letting me know. Will check it out.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/24 07:13 AM
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I love the structure. Can you quantify the results you've had with this? Sounds like phase 3 & 4 are optional depending on how the night is going What's your general structure for phase 3? I like your reasoning behind the directness and agree it makes sense for night game
/r/TheRedPill07/01/24 06:54 PM
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Couple screws loose + media-fuelled fear. Nothing more to it.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 05:27 PM
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Glad you explained this. Still, “extremely difficult to prove she had an intent to kill” - she shot him in the head.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 07:07 PM
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Start by making your bed in the morning, progress to other areas of your room, then follow the other advice on this thread.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 03:38 PM
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This is comparable to saying women shouldn’t walk the street at night. Stupid reason to not use dating apps
/r/MensRights19/01/23 07:58 PM
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The supportive comments here are bullshit. Work on fixing the areas of your life that are causing this lack of confidence & self-esteem. Get that right and make age 31 your most transformative yet.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 09:22 PM
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This isn’t MGTOW, where’s your respect? Pathetic.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 03:37 PM
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Sure, but did you see Amber’s lawyers? Johnny paid more but definitely received the calue
/r/MensRights01/06/22 05:24 AM
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Your only mistake so far is not sexualising
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:05 PM
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I saw that on the UKPolice subreddit that young males are actually more at risk statistically speaking (could have guessed). sexual violence towards women usually happen by people they know, does not make it ok, but shows that this email is out of touch with reality.
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:55 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:07 PM
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Skim read it. After “perfect” & “shocked when she actually replied” I realised that your issue is putting her on a pedestal. It goes further than what you’re saying here, the issue is deeper than just this situation. The situation is a symptom.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:38 PM
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Yeah gotcha. I do the same in gym when I need the extra push, will give it a try on nights out. Appreciate your insights.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 08:39 PM
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So you mean he gives himself little prep talks during the night?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 07:28 PM
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Hey dude, great post. Would love to hear more about this “winner effect”. I actually have the book on my Kindle but have not read yet, can you give some insight into “getting into state” as instructed at the boot camp?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 06:30 PM
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Great post man, good to see your progress. Would you be able to explain more about the situation with your mother. I am 22, live with my mother, I feel that sometimes her negative traits rub off on me. I went away for 2 months this to a different country, my first time living alone and it was my most successful 2 months ever. Wondering if maybe this is what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 12:20 AM
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This gets my vote.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:15 PM
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Honestly dude sounds like you’re still putting the girls on a pedestal or you’re too focused on the outcome. You gotta enjoy the journey, for everything in life.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:22 PM
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They don't want to believe it's this easy. That's all. Also, self-image. They didn't get the memo to read Psycho-cybernetics, probably.
/r/seduction09/11/21 09:02 AM
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Yo whaaat 😂😂😂
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:48 PM
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For those that inherently disagree with this, I’d just say that yes, there’s a time & place for dating apps. But if you’re spending more than an hour or two a week (most of you are spending way more,) then you need to cut that shit down
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:40 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, one of the girls did not have a guy and so the night wasn’t a success. She would have pulled her friends away and prevented any action. Quit the complaining. Analyse your game and see where you can improve.
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:30 AM
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Do we have a bad reputation over here?
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:22 PM
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Easy: historical accuracy.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 10:51 PM
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Sure, I can definitely agree.
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 04:47 PM
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Sounds like something a transwoman would say to boost her confidence
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 11:36 AM
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There you go.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 10:57 AM
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I blame porn & feminists.
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 08:25 AM
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Couple things I want to say here, I actually feel for this dude. He “felt” like it was the right thing to do. This guy has learnt to lead with his emotions but when did illogical things such as allowing this to happen in the first place - the woman followed suit by following her emotions and continuing the event. He seems pretty mad that she continued when he told her to - she’s just doing what FEELS right. She’s a woman. She leads with her emotions and logic is nowhere to be found. I FEEL for h…
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 08:12 AM
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Nice work man, was real nice to see this update. Lol to “to get some fruit”.
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:00 PM
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Stop feeding in and giving attention by responding. Swallow your ego, go to your own room and watch the football there. Even if on your phone. Do this or have a serious conversation with your sister and let her know you’re not going to put up with her immature shit.
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 09:28 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:09 AM
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What’s the strategy? I’m travelling to a country in a couple weeks and I’ve bought some boosts in anticipation & to prepare. What do you recommend?
/r/seduction06/07/21 10:04 PM
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Actually, on a biological level one could argue the reverse.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 08:17 PM
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Good on you, but you should have got the number there and then.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:18 PM
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Further down in the post, it says that the sister actually said “it wouldn’t be my fault” if something happened. There’s no responsibility here at all.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 01:32 PM
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Did you track with a spreadsheet?
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:29 AM
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Jesus, that’s horrible. Appreciate the explanation.
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 01:54 PM
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Curious, what’s with the sugar?
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 01:42 PM
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Your friends need to call you out on your shit.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:28 PM
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Aw bless. Just doing what they feel is right. Lol.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:27 AM
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Preach
/r/askTRP16/05/21 11:16 AM
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Sounds like it could be a covid-programming issue. Had a run in with a dude the other day for a stupid reason also. You stood your ground, that’s all that matters.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 08:20 AM
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It’s like these girls that use lockdown as a reason for getting fat?? I don’t know about that, I started building muscle during lockdown
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 07:18 PM
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Hey man, such a nice offer for the community - a tonne of comments here already. I’m 5’8, weigh around 53.8 kgs. New to gym. How would you recommend about me gaining weight? I’m working out around 3-4 days a week currently. Building up my calories but I find it difficult because I’m not yet sure what to eat. Started having weight gain shakes this week, I plan to have around 2 a day then 3 meals hopefully this will help. Would appreciate any insight you may have and if you have some suggestions e…
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 04:17 PM
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Surprised you read past the first line haha
/r/MGTOW11/05/21 02:31 PM
2

In exactly the same situation right now. The decision I’ve come to is if the desire gets so big that I’d rather risk the relationship, I’ll just come out and tell her I want to see other girls on the side. If she’s down, I get the best of both worlds. If she’s not, well I will still get one of the things I’m after
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:30 PM
52

If you don’t like it, don’t be it
/r/MGTOW11/05/21 02:25 PM
4

Kinda wanna makes me announce my story. I’m nearly 22, grateful I learned this young.
/r/MGTOW08/05/21 07:54 AM
2

The best sex & head I ever got was from someone much less than attractive.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:24 PM
11

Tiktok is horrible and incredibly damaging to all
/r/MGTOW04/05/21 10:45 AM
2

This is a good explanation for those that need it. I own an advertising agency, I use FB to advertise for my clients. For those like me on the other side, it’s great.
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 02:55 PM
4

It’s vital. I use FB & IG for business, the feed blocker keeps me on track & helps me control what information I intake.
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 01:34 PM
44

The number of dislikes is incredible, the comment wasn’t offensive and actually is constructive. No gender should have “control” over the other. Definitely doesn’t align with the “equality” these women claim to desire.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:47 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:15 PM
3

Depends on your goals & who you want to be around. For me I’d rather associate with those just a little further than I as there’s still mutual value. People at the yacht clubs are likely WAAY above you or I.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:50 AM
1

I own an online business so I work from home. Due to being 21, it’s often difficult to meet people with similar interests as I as most people my age are in uni or working some type of job. I joined a bunch of FB groups and purchased some online courses with have communities with them. With this, I’m able to meet a bunch of likeminded people but only a handful actually have some type of relationship with. I was planning a trip to Mexico next month with around 8 other entrepreneurs but my country …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 08:49 AM
2

I have nothing to add, it’s all been sent her. You definitely need to read the sidebar though (I’m still going through!) There’s a lot of “I don’t want” / “I can’t” and that’s not very TRP. If she’s not want you want, in any way, you gotta let em go. I’m in an LTR and I enjoy my time with the girl, we have great walks, sex & she does everything I would expect her to. If you want an LTR you gotta want it.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:32 PM
1

Yeah fact
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:29 PM
23

Back in my school days, on one floor of the building was the mens room but directly below was the women’s. so obviously one day I made the mistake of walking into the womens, being so used to the room in a certain place of the building. No one spotted me, but it was the feeling of “if I get ‘caught’ making the mistake of being in here I’d probably get kicked out”. Men have to be more careful to protect their rights, and that’s not ok
/r/MGTOW28/03/21 12:30 PM
7

Was very disappointed. The original film showed two men who could take care of themselves and others. Especially the scene when they fought the would-be thief. The new film? Hardly any action. The only bit was the women showing a man how to go in a tiger’s field to take a whisker. Shocking.
/r/MGTOW15/03/21 11:01 AM
1

What I found funniest about this is the women-only opportunity for a job - but it’s the women who was disappointed by this. clowns.
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 03:15 PM
1

I love that he sees her as such a joke that each response begins “lmao”
/r/MGTOW23/02/21 11:04 AM
1

They don’t “get to be,” most guys find most obese women unattractive also.
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 10:50 AM
5

2 strikes and you’re out. Don’t know why OP is asking. Don’t associate yourself with people you don’t align with.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:32 AM
65

I mean if you’re broke the same thing applies
/r/MGTOW23/01/21 09:23 AM
2

This is not the right sub for this.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:53 AM
4

Easiest tell that they expect to be judged.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:24 AM
2

But... “it’s not porn and it’s fun”
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 08:23 AM
3

Hey, if it’s her money then it’s fine. She wouldn’t have access to mine.
/r/MGTOW05/01/21 09:29 AM
2

What was the “point” she made? anyone catch it?
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 11:05 AM
1

“Still”. She knows this isn’t right.
/r/MGTOW03/01/21 10:53 AM
16

The fact you didn’t mention your age makes this entire thread useless imo.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 10:46 PM
10

I’ve thread through a decent amount of the thread. I can tell you and this guy have probably been friends for a while. Every time someone says to drop him, you get defensive. There are really three things you can do: 1. Nothing 2. Tell him to cut his shit 3. Leave him Most of us are saying number 3 because he has done this 3 times already! Not once, multiple times. A total lack of respect. Both his for you, and yours for you.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:45 PM
1

You’re acting like the dude doesn’t have a choice.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:39 PM
1

This isn’t the right sub. First clue was missing “your” chance.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:21 PM
2

When I was furloughed in April, after 3 days of lounging around i decided to get up and finally put real effort into my business. It’s something I’ve been doing in my spare time over the past few years but with no discipline & consistent action. In August this year I quit my job. Now, I’m 21 years old making £2k/month, working for myself. Aiming to get to £4K by end of December. I still have some discipline issues that I’m working on, but I’m getting there. This year has been a massive boost to …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/20 09:13 AM
26

I went through this the hard way. At 16 I was also doing the silly “cuddly” shit. 21 now, my change started at 18 and I’m still in it. Had to experience getting cheated on, “heartbreak” and a bunch of other rubbish. OP, just make sure your son is not being walked on by LIFE. Teach him to own his life & eventually he’ll realise not to be walked over by his girl
/r/MGTOW21/11/20 11:33 AM
1

This sub has turned soft as shit (the comments). I don’t have anything to advise, just ignore most of the bs here.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:40 PM
5

...but it’s you doing the fucking? Who really wins?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 07:58 AM
8

Stop putting them on the pedestal
/r/askTRP25/08/20 04:11 PM
1

Haha. It’s a way of life! Thanks for the award.
/r/seduction21/08/20 01:25 PM
1

Appreciated, thanks. Since being more aware of my frame & me in general, I find myself almost explaining why I’m good at what they’ve complimented.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:36 AM
8

I can see you don’t do a lot to get compliments often
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:04 AM
1

Are you saying even in LTR you’d recommend using condoms?
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:13 PM
88

I struggle to understand why you do LTR. I’m in an LTR, because my partner brings VALUE to my life. She takes care of our room, cooks, does the laundry, teaches me meditation/yoga, and we genuinely have some good times together. If she wasn’t saving me all the hours & hassle that she does, the “good times” can come from a plate. Or two. If you’re not interested in actually being in an LTR, don’t be in an LTR. Fuck plates, get money.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:04 PM
2

A lot of this comments are what you would expect from how the TRP subs are turning out. Environment upbringing factors are being forgotten, and ignorance shown. I have been doing meditation for a of couple years. It has increased my attention, narrows my focus, and limits any procrastination. My current LTR is similar as you describe. She grew up in a household of spirituality. Was doing yoga & meditation at an early age. She fully embodies the idea of spirituality; completely calm, peaceful, an…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 07:16 AM
1

Will do. Appreciated.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 09:38 PM
2

I am not familiar with his content, but I like the analogy. Thanks for sharing. David Deida’s The Way of a Superior Man, while not the most pro-red pill, explained the polarity of masculine/femininity. How we both really benefit each other. Women enjoy our mission dedication & dominance/direction. Men like the calming & caring energy.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:03 PM
29

My current LTR, I met her in December. We went out on dates, I kept my distance in the beginning - but I started realising that I was actually getting a lot from the relationship. The polarity between my masculinity & her femininity is immaculate, with little faults. She does everything that I need from her, and more. She taught me yoga, educates me on spirituality, and reminds me to keep playful. For as long as the relationship is beneficial to you, and her to an extent, there is no reason to c…
/r/askTRP09/08/20 08:02 AM
-11

Sounds like she knows who to avoid
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:28 AM
7

Also interested.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:30 PM
9

He’s a real alpha who does what he wants lol
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:33 AM
4

Interested to hear how this played out. It’s almost like she set it up.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:26 AM
4

It’s pretty simple. The first rule of Red Pill is don’t talk about Red Pill. Act it, live it, breathe it... just don’t talk about it. Also, my LTR is similar to how you described. An incredibly sweet girl, personality is feminine, submissive, does yoga/meditation & a bunch of other positives... But she wears conservative clothing & doesn’t initiate sex much. Trying to work a plan at the moment to increase this. As you said, no one is perfect
/r/TheRedPill04/08/20 11:40 AM
2

Gotta respect his confidence, his approach is just way off. I’m not sure why this is affecting you. If anything, you can now see what other’s are doing - it’s actually increased my confidence knowing I’m not like this.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:39 PM
6

I love the “thanks” response - she knew from first glance.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:38 PM
2

I hear you. Appreciate it. Just getting started in gym, I think like most of you have said, I’ll have to lead by example.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:34 AM
1

It’s not she’s becoming less attractive, it’s that she can become more attractive if she worked out a littile
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:30 AM
2

She’s pretty slim & otherwise physically attractive (and healthy,) I just want to see her ass getting bigger
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:02 AM
15

How would you go about helping a woman realise she needs to workout a little?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:22 PM
7

Anything special you were doing to convey the value? I like the excuses they make to get you over.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:22 PM
50

Teacups? You must have been like “omg I love teacups, I’d love to come and see!” Laughing picturing this
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:03 PM
7

This is a no brainer. Enjoy the service & time with the girl, & see your brother
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:06 AM
4

Think you should read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:49 AM
20

Health first, mission second, women third.
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:33 AM
7

Yeah man that one guy is an issue, the rest I think cannot hold too much blame. He will attempt to prevent every available opportunity for you to excel, whatever the field.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:29 PM
2

Also interested, good learning point for all.
/r/seduction19/07/20 11:57 AM
1

Would also be interested in this
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:18 PM
11

Why’s it a bad thing? You’re selective with who you sleep with, that is a compliment to yourself that you won’t just sleep with anyone. You are a man with standards. Ask yourself why that is such a shock to others.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:28 PM
2

My LTR partner of 6 months is going to see her family in her home country for 7 weeks. Would love to get your take on how to handle her while she’s away
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:30 AM
1

Emoji are only if you’re early 20s or lower, wouldn’t recommend excessive use past 23 or so
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:23 AM
3

Isn’t a lack of response also conveying the same message?
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:22 AM
8

This is not the comment thread for education, but I learned this yesterday: Gaming is probably worse than any hobby out there. Your brain is tricked into thinking you are progressing & improving your life, really you’re just unlocking the new outfit or item in a game. This is in addition to the dopamine you get from games. It’s actually incredibly bad for you, yet I still find an hour or 2 on the weekends to play
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 08:30 AM
3

This was a great comment
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:35 PM
3

There must be a way to save all content on here? Same thing with all of Mystery’s forum posts from waaay back
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:31 PM
1

^ this dude knows what he’s talking about
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:11 PM
2

People are saying to tell your dad, but not many saying HOW to tell your dad. It’s difficult & although I do not have a solution for you, remember you are doing him a favour. Just try & give him a reason to know. I wouldn’t recommend being in the middle, more a silent partner in this
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:00 AM
12

The feminine energy is supposed to be caring & helping you get back to perfect health, so you can continue to “hunt” & provide. How’s she going to look after the children if she cannot even care for you.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:55 AM
3

Good mentality for a lot of things in life.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:16 AM
3

Sue that bitch for defamation & seek compensation for mental repercussions. Also, random 21-year-old to random 20-year-old, brother, get some counselling. TRP shit aside, you need to get this shit sorted early. Make sure there are no news articles about it (there shouldn't, considering your age,) if there is speak to a lawyer and get that shit removed. False claims impact thousands of men, don't allow yourself to be another.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:24 PM
1

Mail box always works.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:16 PM
1

Worth it.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:12 PM
-2

If yes, then?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:09 PM
7

So start ;)
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:43 AM
2

Been trying since before I even started (16/17). Tried marketing, copywriting, eCommerce, Amazon FBA, & consulting. I could never find myself to push through boundaries until recently when I closed my first monthly consulting client. I realised that I was no longer lacking the knowledge... it was the necessary mindset and paradigm/world view that I was missing. My advice to you is this: Put your mindset first. Like TRP teaches, work on abundance. Work on realising the world really is yours... if…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:54 AM
6

Read about the state of flow. You essentially forget to do "basic" things like go to the eat, drink, and even go to the toilet. Total immersion in your current task. It's beautiful, but like all things can also be a curse.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:45 AM
1

I mean you could become a personal trainer, health consultant, cooking teacher, piano teacher, events chef, nutrition consultant, digital marketer for gyms/restaurants, food photographer, etc. The opportunities are there, and they are endless. Entrepreneurship is just not for everyone, and that is ok! You can make money doing anything. Chase the skill, and then work out how to make income from it.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:44 AM
1

I’m 20 so most of my friends are of similar age; only 1 of them had a proper breakup. He’s still honestly quite a bit beta but he’s curious since my confidence & social skills sky-rocketed. He’s amazing at approaches since he doesn’t fear rejection, but he’s not so good at spiking the emotion/sexualising/closing.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:13 PM
2

This usually happens naturally like we’ll expand on the topic. Honestly just tired of having bare-level sex, only to find out we both wanted a hell of a lot more. Maybe confidence also comes into play here. Someone suggested to test for reaction - I kinda like that as long as you can both communicate well.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:33 PM
2

I think I’ll do this and then speak after as suggested by other comments here. Heard some funny stories about guys leaving surprise face paint. Really not how you make a first impression.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:29 PM
2

Yeah for women I don’t really know I usually just start pretty basic and have the conversation at a later date - but even still, what’s suuper vanilla & basic to me will not be for certain women
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:25 PM
3

Health first, then your mission, and then the women. No negotiation.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:32 PM
3

It’s so hard though! Sometimes I just get tired of seeing my friends failing with girls and I just gotta tell them straight “girls don’t want the guys you see in the movies... they want the actors”.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:38 AM
2

This man fucks.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:56 AM
3

Good work my man! Progression is progression. My best advice is, if you’re not already, to just start being sociable with EVERYONE. Shopkeepers, people you like, people you dislike, people you’re intimated by, etc. Eventually people will “see” they can talk to you - and they will. I never used to, but now have random people starting conversations with me regularly. Young, old, physically attractive/unattractive. Just talk.
/r/seduction11/01/20 10:43 AM
4

Going Amsterdam in 2 months and pushing myself to go ALL OUT. There’s something that changes inside you when you go on vacation.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:38 PM
1

Not OP but for me it’s feeling like a bit of a nuisance. I guess I just need to realise my true value, do you agree?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:30 PM
20

She was just surprised someone replied to her bullshit. Good job my man. Learned a thing or two from your messages. I usually be flirty but still a little discreet. You’re just straight up “let’s snuggle”. Love it.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:14 PM
2

I want to have fun. Do you? Yes? Well why don’t we just have fun. Society forever requires some bullshit back to front. Just get down with your emotions.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:12 PM
7

Can already hear the “feminists” rioting.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 09:37 PM
3

“Give yourself time to mourn, but don’t abuse yourself in the process” - love it
/r/askTRP05/01/20 09:36 AM
40

Younger girls will love a guy that can cook (and has his shit together). a 20 year old
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:17 PM
2

Of course! Nothing happens immediately and our old self is still there somewhere. It’s not a brotherly type of love here, but we ALL have something to learn (and teach). Hope OP isn’t discouraged.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:44 PM
6

You’re going to set off this sub because one thing is clear, you have not read the sidebar. You have not internalised certain alpha beliefs. But I’m patient, and I’ll answer the question. You have to realise that your partner is nothing more than a women who you share experiences with. Someone that helps you grow. Someone you (hopefully) enjoy being around, but someone you do not need. Neediness comes from needing someone. You are concerned, most likely, because either you have some insecurities…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:37 PM
2

They’re all coming from the relationships or seduction sub and not knowing the difference
/r/askTRP20/12/19 03:32 PM
3

Hey man, what yuh mean you throw them out the door? How’s best to shut it down immediately?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:20 PM
2

First and foremost I’d pay for the paternity test and see how the results come back. If it’s yours, you get to decide how much you want to be in the child’s life. Is it feasible for you to visit every so often? Can you avoid to send some monthly every month to support? If you decide to be an active father, which I would since it’s being responsible, I’d advise you get receipts for everything that is asked for. Also speak to a lawyer and make sure you get proper visitation and can see your child …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:08 AM
1

Ok, not quite no. “Woah at least buy me a drink first” Or “Is this usually how you start a conversation?” Just don’t give in. She expects you will be easy since you’re a guy. Don’t give it to her just like that.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:13 AM
1

The trick is when they say “let’s make out”... you say no. Don’t be too easy.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:43 AM
2

Fuck. I needed to read this. Thank you.
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:20 AM
2

I can relate to this. When I’m discussing something with someone more successful than me, and I can tell they agree with what I’m saying, I’ll just keep throwing out the risky things because I know deep down it’s the most valuable. I really just get in the zone.
/r/seduction15/12/19 07:19 AM
18

this is why I reread it like 5 times lol. Couldn’t understand where the use of plausible deniability was.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:50 AM
7

My man, I used to be the same. I believed in that bro code and was so up for it that when my ex (3 years ago) cheated on me while on a party vacation, my main blame was placed on him. I blamed the guy that slept with my ex for my ex sleeping with that guy. The more I grew into pickup & TRP, the more I realised that no one has any obligations to ANYONE - and you should never have any expectations. This doesn’t make it ok. It just reminds you to live in the moment. With a woman & you both feel a c…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:48 AM
2

Lol what changed?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 03:06 PM
1

I’m most likely younger than you. Just realise that whatever happens you will be ok. You get rejected? You will be ok. You can’t have sex for another 6 months? You’ll be ok.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:53 PM
1

Would you care to expand? Also a Londoner
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:26 PM
1

Is there a list of IOI’s? I’m still usually terrible at reading them myself
/r/askTRP14/12/19 02:05 PM
3

Read about sense of self. The mistake you’re making is one that a lot (if not most) people make when getting into self-development. You are working off willpower, whereas you need to change how you view yourself. Instead of just pushing and pushing, you have to start slower. First you become someone that works out. Then you become someone that is successful in your career/business. Then you become someone that has good social skills... But you build up. It becomes you. It’s not the old you doing…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:52 PM
1

If she expects you to pay she’s trash anyway
/r/askTRP14/12/19 01:30 PM
1

I like it man, thanks! I’ve been doing similar things; part of me says “give her an excuse for me to come inside” like a lot of girls want it to “just happen”... so if we have an excuse it’ll just happen... I think I’m usually too logical and sometimes struggle to put myself in the emotional mindset that a woman would have.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:04 PM
1

Honestly man this is one of the red pill mindset I dislike (just having sex and moving on). I’m the type that actually likes a connection with another human being. I like to have proper conversations & keep my brain stimulated, not just my dick. So thanks for sharing your thoughts. You definitely brought up some good points, and helped reinforce things I do already :) One of my issues is sexualising the interaction - I’m usually too interested in learning something from her and forget to do kino…
/r/askTRP12/12/19 08:02 PM
4

How do I grow up and stop cringing at the thought of saying this? I feel to say certain stuff during but it’s still weird to me
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:50 PM
1

Would you give an example to how you might word this? In the past I’ve used the “can I use your charger” etc. but I’m sure there’s a better approach out there somewhere..
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:15 PM
1

Perfect. Hopefully it’s available on kindle so I can begin tonight. Thanks!
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:54 PM
1

What NMMNG? Heard about it a few things here but have not yet read.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 01:20 PM
1

Lol at “when it ends”. Here’s my advice based on your individual situation... change your goal. When I mention the “baby steps” that I took, I’m talking just casual conversations I’m my day to day life. I started making eye contact with everyone I walk past, smiling at random people I see, commenting on little things that I see, paying little compliments, etc. You get used to the fact that you really can just talk to anyone. They are not going to kill you (honestly what your subconscious is afra…
/r/seduction10/12/19 11:36 AM
3

Oh 100% - I don’t disagree with that! We learn from mistakes, but they don’t have to be our own. You’re right, it’s why I’m here constantly reading and learning from other people’s experiences. That being said, after a while, in certain situations I can FEEL what the correct play will be. It’s like how you suddenly become “alpha”. It’s because you learn so much that gradually you will predict what others would do. There’s where, in my opinion, you will get the most from this journey. Where you h…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:56 PM
3

You have just enlightened me to the fact that, statistically, at least one girl you approach will be horny. If you approach enough girls, it’s inevitable.
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:24 PM
3

Haha me lol. In the past I’ve struggled so hard with approaches even though I’ve studied the science for like 3 years. My mindset has changed over the last few months, and I’m very excited to jump straight in when I’m back home (currently on vacation). What’s weird is that it was only the approaches I struggled with. Once I knew the girl I was/am amazing at building comfort/trust. It’s just the approaches I have been worried about. I have had childhood trauma-induced fear of rejection. Been spen…
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:23 PM
1

Very true. Maybe the account is just old? Either way just tell him to bring it up to her in a nice & non-accusational way (if at all)
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:48 PM
39

I used to be like this. Everything new I had happen in life, I needed to get the opinion from “wiser” people... It changed once my mindset overall changed. Once I realised how I am now. Op, there are a major few principles to be learnt. There is nothing wrong with asking questions to learn, but don’t focus on specific situations - focus on learning the core principles. Once you learn these, you will have the answers deep down. It’s an amazing feeling to just come out with the best answer thanks …
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:31 PM
2

To add to this; Hold eye contact - not to be alpha, but to show some respect. Have open body language, etc. Ultimately respectful to them & don’t appear hurt. Just say hi to them both & wish them well
/r/askTRP08/12/19 08:50 PM
3

Agreed. She likes spending time with you, if you cannot do the things she would like - cone up with an alternative. I bet she will not complain.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 11:30 AM
1

Why don’t you just rearrange to see each other separately, as proposed?
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:22 AM
1

Perfect time for “ok... I just wanted a workout partner”😂
/r/seduction18/11/19 06:36 PM
1

Nice! Thanks for sharing. Where did you find this?
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:06 PM
2

Let’s reframe the situation a little. Maybe she’s running late because it took her extra longer to get ready to look nice... Maybe she’s running late because you’ve chosen a cool woman who actually has things going on in life... So it’s excusable to be a little late. First couple times just play it off. Next few times mention it jokingly “I’m going to start arriving 20 mins later so we both actually make it on time” etc. Then in the future, if you’re still bothered, just ask “seriously though wh…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:20 AM
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Ok, I agree.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:52 PM
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A. Light hearted. People make mistakes. People are late. Just don’t let her make a habit of it.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:23 PM
8

Might be why he’s trying to learn.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:23 PM
4

Pick a martial arts that the armed forces use, such as Krav Maga. These arts are trained for real life or death situations, and so better than a sporty art.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:57 AM
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You handled it very well, good job man. I was literally looking into this yesterday, and all the advice said the same thing - ignore it, laugh it off, and move to another area. Most importantly, do not engage in conflict. The woman could assume you’re both fighting for her, depending on the situation, and then you lose your stance as the alpha male. If you cannot laugh it off with the guy, just leave.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:56 AM
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I’ve read the thread and I know you’re going to go with “bummer”. I kinda like it also, however, I’d personally go with “okay, message me #” It basically says “I don’t care, if you want to talk to me it will be via this method”.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:19 PM
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Look with all honesty you sound like a quitter with very low drive ​ Your comment contains everything that I wanted to say. Sounds like he's just quitting and not quite understanding what this is about. It's not about getting women, it's about being happy with yourself more than anyone can understand. It's not about learning how to talk to women, it's about being able to without falling apart - or just enjoying living life on your own terms.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:03 PM
2

Ugh. The majority of advice here sucks. Don't drink for liquid courage - it doesn't last. Start slow. Talk to whoever invited you. If you're friends with the host, ask them to introduce you to some people. ​ Walk up to others "So how do you know *host*?" Last night after the bar, in a queue at McDonald's, I looked at a girl, looked at my shoes, and said "can you believe these were white at the beginning of the night?" HOW FUCKING SIMPLE. I'm not trying to impress her. I'm simply commenting that …
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:52 PM
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Same position, except I weigh like 20kgs (44lbs) less than you. I just started eating EVERYTHING. When eating meals I start with the protein and finish with the carbs on my plate. Protein builds muscle, carbs are just the extra calories - which is used for energy to even workout - both important for us smaller guys. Get a weight gainer shake, drink at least one a day with FULL FAT milk. Maximise calorie intake. No cardio. Do muscular workouts though. ​ Not a professional, just in a similar posit…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:44 PM
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I would personally just play it off as a big deal. She might just be testing to see if you're just tryna fuck and not get to actually know her at all. ​ "Who mentioned anything about having sex?" "Well, as long as you can resist" or the caring option "not a problem, don't wanna do anything we don't both want to" ​ How did you deal with the situation in the end?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 01:38 PM
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Obviously everyone is different, but why don't figure out what you're passionate about and do that? Technically you don't even need to work. You are in a position where you can choose exactly how to spend your time - understand how valuable that could be! ​ I'm only 20, recently started a business and plan to be making that a full-time thing so I can finally have some more time freedom. I want to spend more time improving myself than just working for a paycheck. ​ You could, if interested, be sp…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 05:11 PM
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Agreed. Not yet at the point where I am fully independent, but reaching the point that I can leave my job and be financially independent. Looking forward to the freedom where I can just do what I want, when I want, however I want. It's hard to really live when you have to be somewhere at 9am every day.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 09:22 AM
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Nice thread man, I like it. I have experience in high-value social media & the bar social circle, so I'll expand a little - also open to any questions. ​ Local Bar Circle: So there is this bar about a 15-minute walk from my house, and I go there at least 2/4 Fridays a month. Usually more. The effect of knowing at least 40% of the people there on a by-name basis is INSANE. I will arrive, and instantly hear a couple of people (women - even better) screaming my name and running over for a hug. For …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 09:13 AM
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Alright cool. I get your point of view. Thanks for sharing👍🏼
/r/seduction06/09/19 09:55 AM
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This whole post has lightly changed the way I feel about calling. A few days ago I called a girl that I hadn’t spoken to for a couple weeks. Good conversation, lots of laughter. She asked how I was spending the rest of the week, and I said “well actually I was going to see if you’re free on Thursday...” She said yes, we made a plan but no set in stone time... We were talking the day before we were supposed to meet, she apologised and said she cannot make it. Now she’s gone back to uni, I’ve stop…
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:59 AM
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Reading throw this post I’ve learned a lot, I think something along the lines of:... “Hey! Let’s meet at the bar instead. Address is ###, I’ll see you there at 9”
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:41 AM
2

Buuut calls are quick, easy, and dominant.. doing what I want. No?
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:39 AM
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I hear what you’re saying, but do you not think it’s a sign of confidence/leading? Sometimes I call the girl because I want to. I’m not afraid of her not picking up, or complaining, or being busy. I’m following through with my desire. If I want to call, I’ll call. But you’re recommending that this is clingy instead of alpha? Curious to hear what you have to say
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:38 AM
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I get it, but I completely disagree that it’s “not impressive”. I lot of people cannot even look at a hot woman, let alone actually open their mouth with words coming out. Also, your game might not get complimented... but this guy does, and I have been complimented in the past.
/r/seduction28/08/19 04:18 PM
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Thanks man! Really appreciate the advice. ​ I have actually recently started talking to as many people as possible and it's really helping! The store employees, the bus driver, random people that are lost, all sorts. If I keep to it, and implement your advice, I'll realise it's normal and be there in no time. ​ Thanks again man!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 06:46 PM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate the advice. Will try to start feeling more value. ​ I had child/teenage issues I still need to get over. I’m confident now, approach is my only issue. Once I’m talking to a girl I’m cool. Great in fact. No trouble getting the number, no trouble going for the kiss, no trouble going for sex when we’re at mine. Just the approach. It’s fucked and I’m slowly improving. ​ [I said the above somewhere else in this thread but would appreciate if you have anything to add]
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 06:44 PM
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I had child/teenage issues I still need to get over. I’m confident now, approach is my only issue. Once I’m talking to a girl I’m cool. Great in fact. No trouble getting the number, no trouble going for the kiss, no trouble going for sex when we’re at mine. Just the approach. It’s fucked and I’m slowly improving.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:06 PM
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Me. Always waiting for some type of IOI, usually eye contact. I find it hard to approach if I haven't seen the girl look at me once, I guess I just assume if she was interested she would look at me every so often.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 04:52 PM
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I appreciate the encouragement man, thanks. Especially like what you said about the ego.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 04:50 PM
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This was a couple of weeks ago, I had drunk a little and was just having fun. Being my crazy self, not focused on gaming. I noticed this girl getting with some guy on the dance floor and realised she was pretty cute, but also looked uncomfortable as if she was going to leave him any second. I kept dancing, and eventually, this girl moved away from him and slowly started backing up into me. Somehow instinctively, I lightly touched her shoulder as if to turn her around. She saw it was me and came …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 04:49 PM
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I get discouraged when I don’t see girls looking at me, especially in a club environment. Do you think it could be that they’re shy, or that they’re not interested, or that it doesn’t matter either way? When I make eye contact with a girl, or when it’s clear she’s trying to get my attention by backing up into me - I’m incredibly confident and go straight for it. But when I’m not seeing any signs, I get discouraged and my anxiety basically says “there’s nothing to say she’s interested so don’t ap…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 02:38 PM
1

The last time I checked was like a year ago and I was 5'9. I don't believe I have grown very much since then though. ​ Why do you ask?
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:11 PM
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It's exactly that. It's an ethical reason. I have been cheated on before. I have also unknowingly kissed 2 girls that I later found out had a boyfriend; and although I didn't exactly feel too bad about it - I still felt for the guy. Ultimately I feel like it's the girl's decision if she wants to escalate with me -- but I guess my ethics are coming out and telling me to step down from perusing if she has a boyfriend, which in this case, she does. Sure, please link me to some people. Honestly when…
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:09 PM
1

Okay perfect. Got you. Thanks for your advice!
/r/seduction10/11/18 04:04 PM
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😂😂yeah don't worry man, definitely not at the level to be coaching people yet haha
/r/seduction10/11/18 03:25 PM
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Her loss. Sounds like you escaped a bullet there. Don't feel hurt, feel lucky. She missed out on you, and you realised she isn't as nice and sweet as you thought. Onto the next one brother.
/r/seduction10/11/18 03:22 PM
1

So are you saying that instead of me taking it as a rejection, I should just be like "Oh well that's her loss (and not mine)"?
/r/seduction10/11/18 02:57 PM
1

Maybe "rejection" is the wrong word to use. I'm using it in the sense of "anything that isn't a yes is a no (rejection)". ​ But she has a boyfriend. Had I known that, I wouldn't have tried to pursue further. ​ I love myself and have no issues with myself. I am continuously growing and becoming a better person. But you're right in your other comment about being "the prize". That's why I shouldn't feel nervous about this situation. ​ Ultimately it's a learning curve for me, it's a shame she has a …
/r/seduction10/11/18 02:44 PM
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I'm curious to where you felt I was being desperate? Definitely something to work on there. ​ Well the fact she had a boyfriend instantly removed my desire for her number, so we just kind of left it there -- but are you saying when asking for the number, it's best to say something like: "I have to get going now, but I enjoyed the conversation. You should give me your number and we can continue it later.." ? ​
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:13 AM
1

Link me
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:10 AM
1

Thanks brother! Since yesterday I'm just really looking forward to my next approach!
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:10 AM
1

See my friend, here's the problem. ​ If you're speaking generally, that's fair - yes, women tend to mature a little faster. ​ But unless you know me, or her, there's no guaranteed way to speak on the situation. ​ Most of my friends are in their late 20's. I get on a lot better with them than people my age. ​ So just like how I platonically socialise with people like 10 years older than me, I want a girl who is a little older than me. ​ Someone who has goals and ambitions that they are working to…
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:09 AM
1

Is it not better to be accepting of rejection than scared of it? I have to treat it as a good thing overwise I'll never take the action which could potentially lead to a rejection.
/r/seduction10/11/18 09:06 AM
1

No lmao why would I do that😂
/r/seduction07/11/18 01:50 PM
1

Weirdly I’ve actually only approached a handful. The others have approached me😂 Interesting theory though!
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:15 PM
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I’m a white guy with ginger hair. I get A LOT more attention from black girls than white girls. It’s definitely strange how it works. Thankfully I usually prefer black girls:)
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:57 PM
1

100% agree. So what would you respond?
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:01 PM
2

Damn man. I'm nearly 19, been "studying" for 3 years, but I was in 2 relationships during that time so I only had like 6-8 months to action everything I learned. Just happy I'm getting a headstart being the same age you were. I really recommend you read through some of the comments on this thread. Some really amazing advice being shared.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:01 PM
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Man, this was an amazing example! Thanks for sharing, definitely going to make a note of this.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:56 PM
1

Hey man, really nice video there. If this is your video, pm me. I am a digital marketer and want to give you some [free] advice for YouTube marketing. You brought value to me, I want to do the same to you now.
/r/seduction13/05/18 08:48 PM
1

Oh yeah, my bad. But that's my point! How are girls like this expecting guys to "try harder" once they already reject. Makes no sense to me.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:14 PM
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I never "gamed" for the purpose of quantity. I started around 3 years ago. I got into a relationship which lasted a year. Broke up with her. 6 Months later, new relationship. That is my current one and it's been 14 months now. Why do you ask?
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:09 AM
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I giggled. I think this, coupled with the either “bye” or “why you playing hard to get, you’re already hard to like” responses would work amazingly. Note: Both responses are in this thread.
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:07 AM
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I like it! One of my favourite things to do in sales is ask my clients why they want me. This changes something called the buyer-seller dynamic - where instead of you trying to sell your services, when they tell you why they need you - they are selling themselves to you, so you will sell it. Ex: They will say “your product will help me grow my business and yada yada I feel like you’re the best because of this and that” I’m wondering how I might be able to use this in pickup. Thoughts?
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:05 AM
1

Yes, I completely agree! I was watching something yesterday, where the presenter was talking about the inferiority gap - and it really woke me up to a lot of things. Most importantly, he highlighted that most people learning game/pickup have to feel like they’re putting on an “act” in order to attract and/or seduce the girl. This is why pickup artists regularly talk about an “avatar”. In the long term, this kills you. You’ll feel like you can’t just be “John”. You have to be John + witty canned …
/r/seduction13/05/18 10:01 AM
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It’s harsh, but I really like this😂 It is a good response because it’ll make her know, more than anything, that you don’t feel you need to work for her. That’s attractive.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:58 AM
2

What about with this Quora question: “A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?”
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:56 AM
1

I’m more so talking about stuff like this Quora question: “A guy asked me out today and I told him "no", but I wanted him to try harder. Why didn't he try again?"
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:55 AM
1

I really appreciate the time you took to give this response, and agree with pretty much all of it. One thing I’ll comment on is the evolution psychology. So we know, through 50 years, ~55 countries, and 100,000+ women included in a number of theories - that the number 1 attractive feature of a main is social status/power. Now if this is correct, should it not be like it was in the past? Where women had to prove themselves to obtain the “leader” of the pack? She wanted the guy with the most power…
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:54 AM
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Nice responses, I like it. Thanks.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:46 AM
2

Well, most guys believe women are more superior to them, and so they need to “work” for this attention/attraction. The only thing it does is help you feel superior and worth their attention Edit: said inferior instead of superior
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:45 AM
1

How might you respond if she says that? I’m especially interested cause she said “let me” as if, again, she is the more inferior person here
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:36 PM
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Or you could say the harder you try, the less attractive you seem - both are correct
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:35 PM
4

It’s all to do with guys feeling like the women are inferior to them - like the men are below the women. This isn’t true. No one is a “prize”, we should all view each other equally
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:34 PM
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You raised some very good points, for me, however, I think this is all to do with the “inferiority gap” Essentially how men may feel that women are more inferior(the prize) - whereas the better way to look at this, is that there are two people in an equal position. If when talking to a women you ever feel like you’re not getting back the same effort/energy - you should stop what you’re trying with her.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:33 PM
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Agreed. I think neither should. It should all be equal for things to work best.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:27 PM
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This is actually perfect. There’s no reason to stick around if they’re like that.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:26 PM
1

Interested. Please invite when set up.
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:27 PM
1

I agree with the other guys here, this is a win. Message her what herculesuprising said, and when you meet up this time - you will have more confidence because you know it is possible now. I can't really advise anything specific about what to do - you just have to feel what is right in the moment. Don't be afraid to try something, you already have won by kissing her - anything extra is a bonus.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:08 PM
2

Yeah, I somewhat agree - but I think in clothing stores it is genuine to a certain extent - because they don't make a commission. I also work in a clothing store (temporarily) and as much as I know to be nice to the people, if I just wanted to get back to my work I think I'd just ask them if they needed more help, and if not just excuse myself. Definitely wouldn't start asking them questions etc.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:02 PM
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You ever been to a party/club, wanted to approach a girl, but didn't - and later you see her with another guy and wished you had approached? Well, that's what happens if you "wait" for her. Someone else attempts to fish and succeeds.
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:59 PM
2

Thanks for the advice. I approached a sales assistant the other day about a jacket then I realised she was quite attactive and nice personality so I kept talking to her about her work and how it was. I got her name, she asked mine and she seemed really interested in talking. She gave a few IOIs: Asking questions, eye contact, crossed legs, presence etc. Didn't attempt the close cause I was there to meet my ex who was also working there (they were agency temp staff). Came back an hour later and a…
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:55 PM
2

We're in a similar position right now. I will explain my situation, what I am doing to help it, and my advice to you. I started a christmas job and one day I walked into work, saw a girl and immediately approached her. No hesitation started speaking to her and we were joking and laughing in 60 seconds. We continued working together for a few days, and after I was getting strong IOIs (touching me regularly, finding reasons to be near me, laughing at practically everything I say, etc.) I plucked u…
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:49 PM
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It took me around 8 MONTHS of no contact with my ex until she was ready to even talk after my breakup. and that, by the way, is very little time. For the future, when you go through a breakup - cut contact immediately and hold it. She's either playing with your emotions, or she just changes her mind - which makes sense cause she's probably as worried about seeing you as you are about seeing her. Bro honestly, you have to move on - even if just temporarily. Go to the party feeling like the man of…
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:36 PM
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