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I dont think being playful with a repeated emotional response is the right way to go
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:17 AM
1

This right here.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 04:17 AM
1

I've seen a lot of youths from Israel travelling around the world after they're done with their military service. Get in shape while you're there then go see the world.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:03 PM
3

I say start your own private cab company, you already have 3 potential clients.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:05 AM
0

You sound very bothered by betas for someone who shouldnt give two shits about them. Girls are gonna have orbiters no matter what. At best, theyre smart, and theyre not gonna entertain them. At worst, which shouldnt be surprising at all, they do, and you're still the one fucking them at the end of the night. And @sixseven89 is absolutely right, if he fucked her he wasn't an orbiter. Your story reeks of insecurity and macho pride.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:01 AM
1

Yes. Do it.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:26 PM
7

Too much work Sure hope you're not dishing this advice out for any other self-improvement subjects
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:04 PM
1

What? That's totally depending on how she says it, and I have a hard time believing there was no way that could be said in a playful way. It could absolutely be a shit test.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 07:54 PM
0

Smile + light squinch. Also, rule 1 & 2 of course.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:39 PM
1

IMO a wink is definetely, 100% creepier than a good stare. What I usually like to do is lightly squinch, kinda like the Jaden Smith look, and smile. Gives a light-hearted, seductive experience without coming off too strong or creepy. Very good for the ego when girls respond, even better when, for example you're in the tube for a while and she keeps looking back at you.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:39 PM
3

If you absolutely want to go to a fucking baby shower you should just go.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 12:43 AM
5

Sounds like a reaaaally bad idea
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 01:48 PM
5

First time im seeing Dirt Nasty being quoted ever
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:56 AM
9

it means don't touch her you incredible retard
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:23 PM
3

I prefer this method as well. Happens to me all the time and it's kinda crazy how protective they will be sometimes. If you don't get them on your side or at least manage to make the girl push her away, they can easily become a real pain in the ass while youre trying to talk to the girl. I was even surprised on a few occasions to see betas completely flipping their script after a little bonding and actually helping me out. Also, don't underestimate a girl's relationship with their orbiters. If y…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 01:58 PM
1

Great frame, but he's still a massive idiot.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 09:44 PM
85

It's fashion for fuck sake, are you guys retarded.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 10:18 PM
2

I had an ex that told me that since I left her, she had been raped in a bathroom during a party, that her dad had attempted suicide and that she had been diagnosed with a heart condition. All in the span of a month.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:54 PM
1

Are you autistic
/r/askTRP30/01/17 05:00 PM
1

pre-emptive eject was unnecessary Precisely. She flaked on you and now you just gave her a reason not to worry about her behaviour.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:13 PM
4

Finally a post that's not ''delete Facebook you dumbass''. Great post. We're in modern times and social media is a huge part of our lives. Only dumb people discard a tool because they won't bother to learn how to use it efficiently.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:05 PM
1

Don't take them out if they're starting to get feels, they'll get the wrong message and it would totally be your fault. Nothing wrong with asking for an update on their situation in this type of relationship. I do this with my fuck-only plates once about every month. Last thing, and it might seems like it's only semantics but it's not. Calling them ''friends with benefits'' implies you guys are ''friends'' and that opens the door for activities that are not fucking. I also don't need to tell you…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:26 PM
1

Stop being so insecure. There's always a better looking, smarter, more succesful guy out there than you. How do you act like an alpha? Stop giving a fuck about that. She's not gonna stop fucking you cuz that celebrity is out there.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:15 PM
2

Not bad to broaden the horizons every once in a while
/r/askTRP15/12/16 03:34 PM
1

Shoot pool, take a walk at a nice place then grab drink or food to go, even bowling is lots of fun if you just own it (I've been wanting to play for the past week, it's been a while balblabla). Overall, be attentive to what she says about her interest. If something fits with yours (like music) then shop around for activities that you enjoy that she could also like (in that order).
/r/askTRP06/12/16 09:19 PM
2

On one side, having IDGAF attitude is the way to go, but unless youre a rich 9-10 with chiseled jaw and a A&F model body, girls will not fall on your lap. Most of us will have to work to get a girl, and that implies trying 2 even three times before having a yes. IMO, Saying ''fuck off'' and abandon after the first time is either lazy or self-complying. Timing also plays a huge part of success with women - maybe the first time you asked she had her mind on other things and didn't bother to even c…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:02 PM
2

The closer you get to "the one" the more she challenges you as a man. Isnt that a good thing?
/r/askTRP02/12/16 04:27 PM
2

As much as I understand the need for specialized subreddits dedicated to specific purposes, having this kind of post in asktrp everyonce in a while is refreshing. Even though OP's enthusiasm is sure to take a fucking nosedive soon enough.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 04:26 PM
6

Very important. After a while you just sound overly-sarcastic all the time. It gets boring fast.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 03:39 PM
1

Not too much tho, might be difficult to get hard/finish when abusing this shit
/r/askTRP30/11/16 05:13 PM
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Tumblr I believe
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/16 03:50 PM
1

If I were you, I wouldnt tell them I'm an MD. Keeps the mystery alive.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:41 PM
2

Rare are the women with self-awareness, but even rarer the women with self-actualization.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 03:42 AM
1

successful hamstering Pick one.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 03:40 AM
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Exactly. They will try to match you with their ugly friends just so they feel better about helping them, not you. It will never be in your interest, only theirs. Always.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 02:33 AM
0

If you dodge the subject, my guess is she'll try to bring it up again to make sure you heard her right. If you didnt acknowledge the subject on the first shittest she wont have an answer to it (gaging your reaction) so it will happen again. If you want to cut her shit right away you can always agree & amplify (''oh yea, how big is he?''), or amused mastery (''Was it a pull out couch?'') with a shit eating grin. That last one would work if she's not a complete dummy tho.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 09:55 PM
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With everything that happened so fast, don't be surprised it ended the same way.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:57 PM
1

to try to find a decent wife You're seeing this the wrong way.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 04:39 PM
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monk mode for about 3 years lol
/r/askTRP03/11/16 08:05 PM
1

Incredible post, succint and pertinent. This bottles TRP so well.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:24 AM
1

yes.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:04 PM
1

This. You want control. If you have her number you can do whatever the fuck you want. If you give her yours, you're gonna be left waiting most of the time, unless you crushed it on your first impression.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:14 PM
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Then impregnate away. What the fuck do you do with the woman afterwhile, kill her?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 04:54 PM
1

yes.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:41 PM
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Great choice. Also is a pretty straightforward way of showing how manipulative women can be. Easy interpretation but that movie is also really awesome.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:02 PM
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Sounds like a weird choice, but I strongly recommend Swiss Army Man. The whole movie is based around a loner guy idealizing a girl he saw on the bus to the point where he's completely desillusional. The end of the movie snaps back to reality in a way no other movie does, showing how unhealthy and retarded obsessing over someone actually is.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:01 PM
10

He still got out in time. Props to him, this is def a win.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:38 PM
1

Fucking don't get married. Jesus.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 01:32 AM
1

''Ok. Thanks for telling me'' . Then ignore whatever else she has to say about the subject. Sounds like a mix of shit test and comfort test to me.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 11:44 PM
1

Yea, I hear you man. Though women don't really owe you anything when youre simply dating, they lack common human respect and decency. If they do not respect your time, you owe it to yourself to at least have self-respect
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:26 PM
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Make sure to include the phrase 'last chance' That's an ultimatum and that makes you look desperate. Would'nt recommend.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:20 AM
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If they dont show care about something, they don't give a shit about it. The ''it'' here is your time. React accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 07:18 AM
2

Vipassana is the perfect place for anyone wanting to meditate but don't know where to start. It is a down-to-earth, positive set of practices and learnings. Highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:01 PM
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She is the stupidest IG personality then. Anyone over 50-100k followers can make tons of money with products endorsement.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 06:26 PM
2

Currently on the uphill part of this battle, at 25 year old mind you. It's a vicious circle because what you prevent yourself from doing at first are the things you have to do to get better. Here's what helped; First, you need to asses your porn consumption, and cut it off. I know it's hard, but you need to grdually reduce it until it's no more than 1-2 times a week. Second, you need to spin at least one plate so that you get comfortable sexually. This will help with the apprehensive phase befor…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:05 PM
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This is gold
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/16 04:10 PM
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Very refreshing answer. I'm getting kind of tired of the unnuanced, retarded answers often posted here, liked you said the usual ''next her'' or ''hit the gym'' arent helping in most of the cases. Life is complicated and theres no answer for everything. That's what TRP shows; you need to be a rock and live your own life. Sometimes, that involves making the decision of supporting and helping that person in need. It is not a sign of weakness and certainly not a beta trait.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 03:29 PM
1

no.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:25 PM
1

You've honestly written every word I've been wanting to write for the past few months. Thank you for posting this, it's very reassuring to know I'm not the only one in that exact same boat.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:12 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing my man!
/r/PussyPassDenied03/06/16 03:17 PM
1

The only negative for me personally is not being super close to more than a handful of people. Honestly, it's pretty much what happens for everybody growing up, especially in the mid twenties (I'm in the same age group), but I see what you're saying. I guess my biggest fear now is that since I havent developed super deep relationship with people, I might end up with no really close friends in my thirties. I try not to worry though, I've became the ''rassembleur'' in pretty much all my different …
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:46 AM
1

Oh man, that hits home. I'm guessing you never really had one utlimate best buddy either? If so then I'm the same too, and as much as I like to consider myself a free floater, I've always wondered what it was like to be very tight-knitted with the same crew of people for a long time. I think it stems from my wide range of interests, and it might be the same for you. We like many things in life, try different sort of experiences, and I've found impossible for me to only hang around one group of p…
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:35 PM
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This is nice in theory but in practice, this answer sounds like you're mad. Plain and simple. Unless you have the biggest fuckin frame there is and girls are litteraly lining up for a chance to suck your dick, this is an easy advice, not a good one. With the very light context provided here, I'd go with the second 'most upvoted' answer down there; ''should I be?''.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 07:22 AM
1

you will
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:09 PM
4

She's is gonna be sooo pissed off. Do it.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:57 PM
2

This. eventually you'll just start snooping in her phone constantly so that you finally find something confirming that you were right. That's litteraly digging for a reason to start shit. If you are looking for an excuse to dump her I feel bad for ya.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:38 PM
1

I don't want anything to do with this person. Then why are you wasting time trying to decipher the why's of her behaviour.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:05 PM
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Men don't shit test because we don't have to play fucking games to know what we wanna know. Keeping frame is our way of evaluating women's worth.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:00 PM
1

I'm with you. You have to take TRP with a grain of salt, take some of it but leave out what doesn't suits your needs. Being an asshole is an inherent consequence of making choices for yourself, it shouldnt be a goal. If I may add though, I see a lot of uselessly derogative terms being thrown all around. Refering to all women as bitches make you look like an asshole.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 03:40 PM
1

I have done the 10-day Vipassana course and it is truly life changing. Several RP truths also take roots in some of the teachings in this course. It's not an easy experience, but absolutely worth it and I highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:20 PM
5

That's a very interesting insight. I automatically naively imagined a badass scar, but the reality of it is way more grim.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 01:35 PM
8

This is fucked up. I'm just hoping his scar is as badass as it sounds.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:28 PM
3

When in doubt, I always refer to the 2/3 rule. Everytime she initiates contact or text 2 times, you do one. For sexy pictures, I consider this as a very good sign that she still wants to prove herself to you. I'd reward this kind of behaviour everytime.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:12 PM
1

Like everything in life you just have to take everything with a grain of salt. Apply what you think is best but just don't forget that all the stuff you're hearing about or reading on here happens for real.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:16 AM
24

Retroactive cis-mysogyny is a thing you shitlords.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/16 03:44 PM
1

Sorry to be so direct, but are you out of your fucking mind? What you are doing is trying to have an LDR through the backdoor. I don't think that she is the one wondering if her gym pics make you feel dreaded or not. Cut contact and tell her she can get back to you when she is back. Until then forget about her. Litterally all I needed.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:28 PM
1

No matter how much you hamster, LDR is not worth it. Never ever even considered it. she will get dicked. Foreign cock, new stuff, new adventures, new feelings, new emotions. Like I said, I'm aware and I don't care. And dont move to wherever she is going. Your value will lower in her eyes, and she will be less attracted to you. That's a reflexion of mine too. I want to make it clear I wouldnt be doing this for her. However, I trust myself with the baggage I learned from TRP and I would be making …
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:12 PM
1

It's Australia, not Zimbabwe. Jobs are good in my field of work and the experience has always been a project of mine. She also knew this, which makes her even more pushy towards me to pull the trigger on the trip.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:08 PM
1

I don't feel like I have oneitis, I've fucked a record number of girls since she's gone. I don't really care if she fucks other guys too, I'm aware she's doing it but I wouldnt let this get to me if I really felt that she was a total whore. I still don't trust her as I've learn not to trust women , but I've had clues she's still less of a slut than most girls I know. let her come back to you That's what I'm trying to work on. Though the more I read and write about it, the more I'm realizing I'm …
/r/askTRP24/02/16 09:06 PM
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Simple answer to my question, thanks a lot! set something up for weeks in advance. Yeah, thats not happening for sure. Always ends up with the girl bailing.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:59 PM
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I like to throw in random trivia or interesting stories I know. They just want to be entertained and that happens when conversation isnt flowing like she would like too. Reddit is the best place for that. My favourite go-to is to talk about the cobra effect. For a reason this one sticked. For me thats also a good opportunity to show some culture and general knowledge that often leads them to ask ''how the hell do you know all these things??!''.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:07 PM
1

What the fuck are you talking about
/r/askTRP06/02/16 04:29 PM
1

I think you're underestimating how quotes can inspire and serve as symbols for inspiration and determination. A good way to keep track of your objectives and goals is to use visuals cues placed at strategic places you see during the day. Could be a picture, an object or a quote. It doesnt necessarily have to come from a famous person, you just wrote one yourself. It only serves as a reminder, not something you should wrap your whole life around. If it helps with your goals, why the fuck would it…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 04:50 PM
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People in this thread seems to completely disregard the second part of her post which is exactly TRP rationale. Let's not become a circlejerk of witchhunting.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:09 PM
1

I just go to my girl, and while acting like I didnt see the guy, slap her ass then grab her neck under my arm, pull her over me and kiss her temple. Then I turn to the guy and act surprised of his presence. I amusingly drop something simple ''Oh, who's that?'' or something like that. If you've made a good impression, the guy will start to mumble some kind of excuses. I've had a few shy ''oo--hh hey s-sorry man, you're a lucky g-guy'' or they'll show hand as a sign of respect then bro-hug you and…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:57 PM
2

Do shit. Be busy and keep your phone in your goddamn pocket. This will be a better situation for you, the people around you, and especially the person you're texting. This is 100% of people involved when you constantly text, do the math.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:46 PM
1

How is that relevant to the red pill exactly? Go see a dermatologist.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:10 PM
-8

'' I thought you women were independant and didn't need a man to buy your own shit? ''
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:09 PM
1

He's not a white knight. He's in it for sensationalism. He has been anti-drug, anti-gay, pro-drug, pro-gay, anti-slut, pro-feminist, etc. lol, Joe Rogan talked about exactly that on the same podcast Milo was guest in
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:25 AM
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I think masculinity is beginning to reshapes itself after the feminist blow of the last 30 years or so. Man are realizing that they've been fed bullshit for the past years (which may have been all their life for that matter). We still have a long way to go but having swallowed the redpill, we have a pretty huge headstart.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 09:58 PM
4

shit in the central plaza I messed up my 2016 resolutions
/r/askTRP17/01/16 06:10 PM
1

Boy has a point here.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:40 AM
1

Get her tested first.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:36 PM
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This. No other options really.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:44 PM
1

/r/StackAdvice
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:32 PM
1

Seconded. This changed my life
/r/askTRP09/12/15 11:02 PM
1

Think this through, and make sure you understand the difference between male and female positions in gender relationships before you do anything or you'll end up with nasty memories of your girlfriend moaning from the dick of another man. FFM and MMF DO NOT share the same dynamics. Make sure you get plenty of reading done from TRP before you engage in that.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 03:09 PM
1

You know when you begin to date a girl and she asks you half-jokingly while looking in the mirror ''would you still date me if I were fat?", I always answer with a stern ''no''. Like it or not, it sticks in the back of their head.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 02:00 PM
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Ya, really interesting video. Guy's attitude is impressing considering his situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:45 PM
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We're talking about social media. Should have specified self-representation. Even better, self-presentation. Don't get too hot too quickly.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:42 AM
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Men do not need representation. That's just not true, it's about the type of representation. Women will show themselves, men will show their achievements/activities/hobbies. Bilzerian is the type of guy with feminine-type representation. He shows off his body, his daddy's cash, his big toys. That's why I have no respect for this kind of guy. As masculine as he looks, all it screams is the same type of insecurity women display.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:01 PM
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Those will appear a lot the more you improve your SMV. I dated a few girl with this profile after integrating TRP in my life. Theyre usually very chill girls to hang out with, won't pressure you into anything, will show up to the snap of fingers, are usually pretty good in bed, and won't make a whole fuss if you decide to break things out. Bonus: my first experiences with anal were with those kinds of girl. I personally got bored because of how easy/comfortable it got. They werent providing any …
/r/askTRP17/09/15 07:10 PM
2

I've had one of those recently. We met during an event I was organizing, I'm 25, graduated/job/projects while she was 21, studying. I found out I was intimidating to her because of my SMV. She was shy, couldnt hold my stare for more than 2 seconds. It was pretty fun at first but it got old very fast because she wasnt initiating shit. She flat out told me she wasnt good at dating, that she was more LTR-type. That's a giveaway - a girl who's just shy will simply accept pretty much anything you thr…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:21 PM
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I was skeptical of her guilt until I read the guy's comment. This is brillant explanation, this woman is trying to solidify her made-up story.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:31 PM
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It's the only one really
/r/askTRP09/09/15 12:07 AM
3

Like a kid - if he falls on the ground, a good part of how he reacts - either be upset and cry or simply gets up and brush it off- has to do with how the parent reacts. The mother will often jump in to pick up the child, worried and reassuring, which will show the kid something is wrong, and will make him cry more. The dad will calmly walk to the child, laughing like it was nothing, a reaction that will soothe the child and disarm the fake crisis. Be the dad.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 05:11 PM
1

Thats great advice man. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:53 AM
1

I think your username just lit up in the list
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:25 AM
2

It wasnt ignored she brushed it off as "good for her", which is even worse
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:04 PM
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Can't even start to say how right you are. I'm a performing DJ. While I usually play in small gigs just for overall ambiance music, I've recently started a cultural collective with some friends, mainly we do events of our own and book local artists and boost our own to perform. The amount of attention I get from women is absolutely insane, plus you have to concentrate on your shit during your gig so you seem even less approachable. Whenever I get a few minutes of break, or after my gigs, I find …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 08:42 PM
1

The intention Alpha provider - takes care of his people for his own sake and pride, naturally putting him in a position of dominance. Beta provider - do it to seek approval and expect something in return from others. Gets stepped on and abused.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 01:41 PM
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LGBTQXYZLMNOP people Don't care I much heat I get from my gay friends, this shit is hilarious and I'm using it
/r/askTRP10/07/15 01:35 PM
5

You're right, It's a dumb thing but it does make a difference. I don't want other people eyeballs, strangers or friends, to fall onto my book cover displaying a huge golden title they'll automatically judge and question. Some of them have a paper sleeve you can remove so the book looks more generic, but I won't carry around a brick that has this as a cover, no way
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:16 PM
2

I sense a lot of frustration. You know exactly she's the one who drove you away from friends, hobbies and fun. She slowly got you into her box and now she's bored because you're becoming It didnt ''backfire'' - You were supposed to be the leader for activities and influence, and now she is. You don't have control anymore, and unconsciously, she loathes that. You're becoming boring, bland and predictable. Why the fuck would she want to spend time with that? Your observation of the situation is sp…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 09:26 PM
1

I'm a go fishing, Go camping/hiking to the river type guy. Its my hobbies. Its just what I do. I could care less about drinking or bar hopping/networking with strangers in a bar. Then do this. Don't you have some friends at work that would be interested in following you? Are you even taking the time to do those activites anymore, even alone? If you don't take some time for yourself, alone or accompanied, youre putting the whole stress of your social needs on her, and clearly she seems to be on a…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 09:03 PM
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Dude, I'm under the impression you're being the good little wife here. I rarely encounter this situation backwards, where the wife is the outgoing, drunk type and the guy stays home and try to be reasonable. Are you acting like a bitch? Yes. Why arent you going out everyonce in a while? You don't have to hold the responsability of looking out for the kids every weekend. Why can't it be half the time? What's happening here is that she clearly doesnt respect you since you are the wise squarehead. …
/r/askTRP20/06/15 08:23 PM
1

If you wanna add in to the conversation you can always share the reason behind such a sarcastic comment.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 10:58 PM
1

Which doesn't mean she's grateful that you scooped the m'lady from the depths and will be on her best for you always. Youre right on this, thanks for the reminder
/r/askTRP18/06/15 10:44 PM
1

When a girl makes an effort to NOT dress nice for you it means she think she is more attractive at her worse than you are, which is usually a precursor for other red flags. That's my main concern, and its humbly weird because I can pull off way better than her and she knows it. Thing is, she lives about 2h30 away, and is coming for two days. I'm only gonna be seeing her during the evenings as I'm working days, so I'd like her to feel the need to prep up and wait for me to get home. I wanna find …
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:20 PM
1

Positive feedback is bad in this situation because she will respond with "oh you only think I look good when I have makeup on" Precisely. Won't more kino and physical proximity make her believe she doesnt have to put efforts in her appearance to receive the same amount of attention?
/r/askTRP18/06/15 05:15 PM
15

Honestly, and this is one of the first time I'm answering to one of these post, but not caring isnt something you can find, and it will not come on its own. As funny as it sound, being independant takes practice, and the best way to do that is just to observe. Look at the reality for what it is and stop trying to be so proactive. Stop giving yourself excuses for anything that you don't do, and start directing this effort towards yourself. Work on your own shit, its the only way you can get rid o…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 06:26 AM
1

If your laws allow, get a bottle of wine and go sit in a park. On a first date once I suggested we go to the grocery store and buy something to eat, but we had to get stuff neither of us ever eaten before. Walk her around and stop at some bookstores or cool places you like - TRP advice applies: stop her where you're interested in going. Try to read her vibe but keep control over the itinerary. Whatever you do, just make it interesting and original for both of you, that way, you'll enjoy your tim…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 03:23 PM
2

You can apply most if not all TRP wisdom to relationships. And I think you have to if you want to A. Have a healthy relationship and B. Stay true to yourself while involved with another person for that amount of time
/r/askTRP30/04/15 04:02 PM
1

People seem to be forgetting that as useful as TRP knowledge might be, there are thousand other factors that are constantly in play when talking about game and relationships. Of course your frame will be shaken - you're sick. The first thing you learn on here though is that the only thing that's really important is yourself. Your frame relates to other people- your health situation doesnt. That's why you shouldnt worry too much about your plates when youre sick - not only are you not in the best…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 03:23 PM
61

"No"
/r/askTRP25/04/15 09:45 PM
2

I think its a very good idea and I used it before. If she does it a second time though thats a next
/r/askTRP05/04/15 07:23 PM
3

Tease her. Slide a light compliment about her features (her ass for exemple) in the middle of a random conversation. Do it when you feel like she has all her attention focused on you, at the moment when youre the most confident. Giggling is really a reflex behaviour of surprise and shyness, so you have to come up in an unexpected manner.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:35 PM
2

Very well put, I thoroughly enjoyed the read. I believe all the basics about TRP is included in this experience and your depiction of it really helps with puting theories in context. Kudos
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:51 PM
1

many women view sex as adding to their self esteem/self worth. They want the high value man and sometimes think the easiest way to get him is to offer sex early and often That's no exclusive to women, on the contrary
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:32 AM
22

MY MOM GON GET A TASTE OF THE CONSQUEQUENCES OF FEMINISM
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 11:28 PM
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Just wanted to apologize, I didnt want to be an asshole. I know nothing about your relationship with your mom, and I can absolutely understand how you'd need to set boundaries with that kind of behaviour. I was just being a smart-ass. Respect.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 08:35 PM
2

I was talking in general dude, not even covering the subject of lying about that. You okay mate?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:40 PM
51

Everything makes sense, but if my mother is in town for a tea, I'll make some time for a fucking tea
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 07:10 PM
7

I just got up and made myself some coffee and went on with my shit. Sorry but I fuckin lol'd
/r/askTRP23/03/15 05:50 PM
9

Women emotionally bond through sex. The more partners they have, the more this pair-bond ability diminishes This just make me click. It's not so much about the sex itself but the reason why they have sex, which is, as everybody knows, for comfort and proximity, I.E. emotional reasons. As much as I like to think people needs change over time, this type of behaviour just illustrates a very clear sign of emotional instability. Since they're seeking this stability in a relationship, we'll, we know w…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:40 PM
10

Noob question that's been bothering me since I've swallowed the Red Pill about a year ago. Following TRP mentality, a girl that got involved in such sex acts in the past (threesomes, gang bang and other 'deviant' forms of sex), will be permanently stained? Meaning she will never be looked up as a marriage, or even LTR-worthy?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:44 PM
2

He's just not answering to her threat and being cocky instead. The risk was high since it's the second time he's done that but it seemed to have worked wonderfully.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:04 PM
2

Don't. Either you've fucked too much and you'll be seen as a player, either you didnt fuck enough and you'll be seen as a unexperienced wimp. There is no good number, and every woman will have a different opinion on what ressembles an acceptable number. That number is the comfortable place for the hamster not wanting to be one amongst the other and wanting to fuck a guys who knows his shit and won't be boring in bed. I usually lie and say between 8-15 depending on the girl's SMV. Just try to eva…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:00 PM
1

The new tv show Man Seeking Woman is filled with RP truths, and puts them in super funny metaphors
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:04 PM
2

http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m02hes47rY1r3saxeo3_250.gif
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:35 PM
2

We need more of these post. Its cool we're trying to be better people and understand women's psychology but we also need to see from their point of view. Antagonizing them and repeating that ''bitches be crazy'' will not help your case. It's like when we say that men use overt communication while women use covert communication. It's easy to assume our way of sharing our intentions is better because it's direct, but both ways are equal, and we must understand that.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:52 PM
2

Found a way to plug this. She just texted me she was going shopping to look good for our date tonight. My response; ''Good girl''. I love this shit
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:48 PM
1

That's exactly what happened, and I was very patient at first but then she started pushing my buttons so I lost my cool, which is my mistake. Should have never get involved in her fit, it wasnt even about me.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:39 PM
1

Haha I doubt it's the case (I live in Montréal) but I would have no hard feelings for a fellow red-piller if something like that happened to me
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:32 PM
2

Amen. That's all I needed, thanks man
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:33 PM
7

I'd hire you to drill this into my skull everyday. This has been the hardest behaviour to change for me yet. Thanks for the reminder
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:31 PM
2

Shit, I think I needed that, thanks. With only the short context I've provided, you understood exactly how the situation is unfolding for me. It's like I know all of that but hearing it from another source gives it a new credibility. The red flags have been piling up so I know what I have to do now. Thanks a lot
/r/askTRP18/02/15 08:29 PM
141

You forgot the most interesting part right after that ''...It does vex ME''
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/15 05:09 PM
3

Am I dumb to believe men shit test too? Don't get me wrong, it's not even close to how much/ how women shit test but I think it's flawed to think ONLY women shit test.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:53 PM
1

I remember this being posted over in r/imgoingtohellforthis and it didnt do so well. I couldnt understand why but seeing as it is just common sense now, I get why I'm not going to hell for laughing at a prime example of natural gender inequality
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:06 PM
1

I came in Montréal about 6 months ago, and even though I'm french speaking, I can absolutely relate to your post. My discovery of TRP came in about the same time I moved here, and it has been an interesting experience to say the least, dating-wise and personality-wise. Would love to meet or chat about our discoveries and realizations if you're down! Hit me up
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:33 AM
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This is freaking inspiring. Thanks for taking the time to write this
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:42 PM
1

They went so far they reached the conclusions of traditional cultures
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:51 AM
-2

This is the best blend of practical and romantic agreement I've witnessed. This means so much more than the price you paid for the first ring... Congrats
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:41 AM
2

This is amazing advice. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:07 AM
2

This is very true, and I know the subject of persistence is often seen on the TRP as a sign of weakness or obsession since you're the chaser and are being proactive instead of playing it uninterested/passive. Thing is, another quality encouraged here is resilience, and being man enough to take what you want; this is good advice applcable to work and social privileges, but also women. They like to be chased, just avoid putting her on a pedestal while you do that. I think the key is to act like yo…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:47 PM
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