Hey guys.

So I got this plate coming over from outside town for two days next week. I've seen her a few times in the last months, and she's a dime - really smart, bomb in bed, amazing charm etc.

The only problem is that she clearly seems to not give a sheit about her everyday look, including when we meet. Even though she's clearly a 9 given just a small effort, she drops to an ok 7 in casual situations. I don't condone being natural, and she's still pretty cute, but her overall appearance was immensely bland and generic during our encounters.

I met her in an event where she was dressed up and looked amazing, while still being very natural. We banged that night and when we met the week after for drinks, she was wearing a tank top, had her glasses on, hair all messy etc. She used to be a model and some of her professional shoots and event photos illustrate how objectively well she can present herself. I guess that tells a lot about her self-confidence and clearly she has no issues with attention-seeking, but I feel like my own attention is not worth putting in some energy into looking her best.

So in short, I'm looking for a good way to make her understand I'd like her to put a little effort into her appearance for our dates. I'm not being picky or an asshole - I dress well and take care of myself when going on date, I just feel like the effort should be equal on both sides.

Thanks guys