| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 934 | I’ve seen multiple of those | FDS MEMES | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 436 | When I was with my NV Ex husband I used to have to come home and clean after work while pregnant! My now boyfriend does my yard work and cleans while I’m working… we don’t even live together 🥳 | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 110 | These NVM keep getting scarier! | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:30 AM |
| 66 | I realized my mom is a pickmeisha | LEVEL UP | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Can he be a HVM if he has really bad habits? | SEEKING ADVICE | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I broke up with my ex cause he won’t stop being “friends” with his ex | #KickHimOut2020 | lanaisg0d | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | Have you ever dated a guy who was waaaaaay too close to his ex girlfriend? 🤨Yes. He cheated on me. Run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else have a low value male father?Yes. And a pickmeisha mother. Maybe that’s correlated… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:02 AM |
| 37 | Husband openly telling OP he doesn’t like the way she looks and he preferred her when she was 17…Girl, he’s cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....Size does matter but it’s not all. I’ve been with huge dicks that didn’t make me orgasm and I’ve been with average size that would make me orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Gamer husband, I can't believe what I read.Why is he still “her husband”?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:23 PM |
| 10 | 🤡🤡🤡Safe from other women I’m sure she means. Like no one wants your man. Chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 27 | How does he talk to the one who loves him unconditionally? You know, his dog?100% agree my NV ex used to “greet” his cat with a “what’s up? h0” Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 6 | When I was with my NV Ex husband I used to have to come home and clean after work while pregnant! My now boyfriend does my yard work and cleans while I’m working… we don’t even live together 🥳Amen sister. I can’t believe we ever settled for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 10 | When I was with my NV Ex husband I used to have to come home and clean after work while pregnant! My now boyfriend does my yard work and cleans while I’m working… we don’t even live together 🥳Adorable! It’s not the action of “cleaning” but the thought behind it and the fact they just want to make our life easier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 105 | When I was with my NV Ex husband I used to have to come home and clean after work while pregnant! My now boyfriend does my yard work and cleans while I’m working… we don’t even live together 🥳We’ve been only dating for 6 months we’re still all lovey dovey. Plus I try to be extra showy so he knows I appreciate it and he keeps doing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.Omg 9 times?! NINE?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.One of my mothers’s boyfriends molested me when I was 12 when she found out she blamed me and kept dating him … pick me moms are truly the worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | I don't know where else to ask this without getting harassed by scrotes, but how can you actually tell if a guy has a big dick?My current bf has a 8.5 inch dick (I measured it lol) -He’s very soft spoken -Very chill -Shy -Deep voice -he’s tall -big feet and hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:46 PM |
| 15 | The real reason you shouldn’t date “frugal” (cheap) menMy ex I recently broke up with cause he was cheating told me I always “required more than other girls financially” ( he always paid for every date) because his new gf offers to pay for meals every now and then... funny thing he’s still trying to get back in my pants so there’s no point in being the cool girlfriend he’s still gonna cheat 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Patron Saint of the PickmeishasHe killed his wife and his kids. You’re not special. He may kill one day too... smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Friendship with straight males is a lieI don’t believe in female and male friendship either. Whenever I thought I had a guy friend they always ended up trying to bang me. Sad but true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 6 | My now fiancé took me to the nail salon just a few days before proposing to make sure my nails were done for the photos. It only took him nine months to propose! He always knew I was the one for him. Your HVM is out there ladies!It’s a cute ring too ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 27 | Be very careful when meeting a man for the first time. Tell a friend who you’re meeting and where you’re going. Have your phone fully charged. This kind of thing happens way too often.I wasn’t aware I could do that but it is scary to think what he could do to a girl if he’s done it to his male friends. Apparently when he drinks something flips at least that’s what my then boyfriend told me (another reason for not going to a bar on the first date) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:03 AM |
| 93 | Be very careful when meeting a man for the first time. Tell a friend who you’re meeting and where you’re going. Have your phone fully charged. This kind of thing happens way too often.On line dating is so scary one of the friends of a guy I used to date choked a couple of his MALE FRIENDS while drunk on different occasions. Fast forward I saw him on tinder and I just thought how scary to swipe right on a guy like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:27 AM |
| 70 | Recognize the red flags. This will also serve as a reminder for myself 🙌Wait... Why are they describing me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | When a LVM is too cheap to buy a dessert, so he’s gotta start making up new etiquette rules. 😂😂😂What a snob | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:49 PM |
| 9 | When a LVM is too cheap to buy a dessert, so he’s gotta start making up new etiquette rules. 😂😂😂He wants to take the leftovers home probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:33 PM |
| 14 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!My pickmeisha friend just told me yesterday this dude she’s sleeping with told her “you’re so pretty but you should go to the gym” I was shook cause she wasn’t even offended cause he didn’t sound “mean” when he told her that and it’s not even the first time he does it. Jeez 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 25 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?He took me to someone’s yard to feed animals (sheeps, ducks) and then we went over his parents house and had lunch with them (on the first date!!!) I thought that was nice until I realized it cost him 0 dollars he didn’t even pay for the food cause he used his parents groceries ( he didn’t even live there anymore) NEVER AGAIN 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Damon Salvatore is Bad For Women and He SucksThank you so much for sharing this video she’s so right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Woman gets a ticket she could barely afford to be with a dude she never met. He blocks her number while she's on the flight.I’ve traveled to see guys in both occasions but both times THEY PAID. If they invest in you I doubt they’re gonna block you. Poor jasmine I hope she learns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)hE jUsT nEeDs LoVe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 5 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.He’s actually doing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?But I’m usually on top and I know how to get them. I take all the credit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 7 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.This means that when this guy I’m seeing told me “I wanna get really good in eating you out. Please tell me what to do” is he really trying to please me? I’m shook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 9 | On point. Let's stop romanticizing toxicity, thinking that it's passion. (PS: They can be toxic AND suck in the sac. Ask my ex!)This hit me really hard... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | This is a girl I went to high school with..That’s so trashy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Found this gem floating around Facebook.Where does he explain what he brings to the table? crickets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 2 | “I don’t want no scrub, a scrub is a guy that can’t get no love from me.”My husbands grandma used to do that and she was so proud to tell me how her husband never changed a diaper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:41 AM |
| 15 | 🧐This happened to me he (the slut) had a girlfriend and they were expecting a baby he would hit on me at work I of course wasn’t interested years later I found out he told all of his friends I was a slut and I was like wth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this ladies? Idk where to even start. This seems pretty toxic.I wonder if her boyfriend is replying to chicks like that too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Florence Pugh (pic 1), 24, is dating Zach Braff (pic 2), 45. Pic 3 is of her dad and I have questions.I heard on a podcast that when you have a very good relationship with your dad you tend to find a partner that looks alike. My dad was never around so idk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Even when men have nothing they continue to have one thing. The Audacity.Is he talking about himself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 12 | Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege?Cause there’s chicks that say yes to “Netflix and chill” so now dating is a hassle for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:37 PM |
| 33 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.If that “4” doesn’t want him I really doubt he can pick up a “10”. He needs to learn his place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”This older dude who always tries to hit on me when he sees me at work (customer service) asked me what do I do for fun and if I’d like to go on a walk with him someday. I just said I obviously don’t walk while I grabbed my muffin top lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 16 | excuse me.... what? He never got a response.Thank you next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I’m Latina too and I have a pick me single mother. It was disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:39 PM |
| 5 | In case you needed a reminder....It did happen. It’s over. Learn from it. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:28 PM |
| 4 | It’s not worth it in the long runThere’s this chick from my hometown who recently opened an OnlyFans page and she advertises it on her personal Facebook (she has her mom, dad and 12 yo brother as friends) She always liked the masculine attention would often post pics of her bare ass and cleavage which I’m not a prude but I think that kind of pictures are inappropriate and I wouldn’t like to see the kind of comments she gets from men on my pictures (I’d block those sick pigs in a heartbeat) However I seems “smart” to charge for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | KHLOE THE CLOWNOmg she doesn’t need the man she’s a goddamn millionaire. Clear example that surgeries won’t fix your self-esteem. What a clown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Just had to get that little dig in before I unmatched. He was a teacher 🤦♀️Ugh disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌Please don’t go out with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | This.What happened after that? My mom kept dating him and allowed him around me after finding out. Then he started messing around with our neighbor who was also my moms BFF for years that’s when she FINALLY broke up with him. I found out years later she was still in contact with him and used to send him nudes even tho she was in another relationship SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:20 PM |
| 48 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂He’s so lucky to have her as his girlfriend. I wouldn’t touch him with a ten foot pole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 43 | FDS stance on posting revealing pictures on social media?I think deep down girls that post those kind of pictures want the male attention. I mean if you have your social media very private only people you know and family and you post “sexy” pics I’d understand but chicks who posts that kind of content have like 3,000 likes from random dudes (Indian, Arabic dudes you know they don’t even know) so yeah, attention whores IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | 💯 truthThis dude at the post office was like “have a good day beautiful” I got in the car where my husband was waiting for me and told him what happened and asked “I am wearing a mask how can he even tell that I am beautiful” wth lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Tell me about a time...I’ve known her since we were 12. All her romantic partners have been NVM. Lately she has been dating this married old man who’s old, ugly and bald who also treats her like shit and doesn’t even pay for her cabs but demands her to go see him to bang whenever he’s “free” AND SHE DOES! She has been him for 4 years. I was always there for her hearing her drama trying to give her advise trying to boost her self-esteem. Lately when I try to share my problems with her she reads it but won’t answer. Thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Coming to terms with my pick-me pastI think we were all pickmeishas at one point because sadly we were raised that way. Always trying to please men and putting ourselves in second place. One of my friends dated a NVM who was ugly, treated her like shit, cheated on her, etc... He would often try to make fun of me cause I’ve always been in the chubby size and the only think I could think whenever he did that was “THANK GOD IM TOO FAT FOR A PIECE OF SHIT LIKE YOU TO FIND ME ATTRACTIVE, THANK GOD” He got my friend pregnant a couple ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 18 | I’m sorry, he what?She needs to pee on all his stuff ASAP... oh and throw the whole man away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 62 | This.I only realized it wasn’t my fault when I was around 20 and now that I’m a mother I know I’d never ever do that to my daughter. She kept dating him after she found out and told me I ruined her life cause she thought she was gonna marry him (dated for 7 years forever girlfriend) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 32 | These NVM keep getting scarier!Right?! If he’s gonna offer I hope he swipes his own card at least lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | I’ve seen multiple of thosePickmeishas of course anything to keep them pleased | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:35 AM |
| 369 | This.I have a pickmeisha mother who blamed me at 13 of “seducing” her boyfriend who was around 27 when she found out he was touching me inappropriately smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Just found out ex is already in new relationship with a girl he always claimed was just a friend .They were definitely banging before you two broke up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | History book displays photograph of a 22yo man and his 9yo child bride and calls it “cultural relativity” instead of child rape and enslavement.Omg that’s so disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 13 | Boyfriend Checking Out Other WomenHe doesn’t respect you. PERIOD!!! Red flag 🚩🚩🚩 Throw the whole man away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseTrust me I know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:36 PM |
| 15 | 🐍I knew I couldn’t be real. I’d be freaking out lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 26 | 🐍Why is nobody screaming and freaking out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseYou have a good husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 13 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseWhat a piece of sh*t. But I blame the pickmeishas for that. You’re a single mom and spending your hard earned money on a dude? Hell no! Bye sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseYou go girl! I only splurge on myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 110 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseA game probably costs 10x more of what they pay on an average date they complain about lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | PSA to women meeting guys onlineMy advise for women that meet guys online: don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are more likely to be pickmes than men, and that women care more about male validation than men care about female validation?Yes definitely! I remember my young self around 8 years old asking my mom why men won’t date a chubby/fat chick but I often saw pretty girls dating fat/unattractive guys. And she told me “because we focus more on feelings than them” I don’t think that’s true I think women settle cause they’re so thirsty for male validation and most guys no matter how broke they are or how bad they look think they’re fucking gods and act like they’re “the prize” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:29 PM |
| 49 | Imagine having this level of audacityPoor thing his GIRLFRIEND (not wife) won’t cook anything he likes if he only had two hands and knew how to boil an egg. I feel for him. His life is so rough... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Am I being insecure? Guy I’m talking to still hangs out with girl who he use to casually have sex with.If she didn’t mean anything to him He wouldn’t be driving her around is she giving him money for gas or how is she “paying” for the favor? You have every right to be insecure they banged at one point that’s a no no for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 12:45 AM |
| 15 | You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want!They always try to push it and see how far they can get or how much they can take. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:24 PM |
| 11 | I hate how common it is for men to do degrading/ abusive shit during sexShe’s my friend and I love her but she’s the kind of girl who shares sexual posts/memes/gifs on fb makes me cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:50 PM |
| 14 | I hate how common it is for men to do degrading/ abusive shit during sexMy pickmeisha friend told me she likes rough sex getting slapped and choked and I was like wth I don’t like that. I like being treated nicely now I wonder if there’s a co relation with her being a pickmeisha and liking “rough” sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | one important yet often understated piece of advice for women who want to start dating HVMYeah idk wth is wrong with her. She’s been “dating” him for 3 years of course I’ve been trying to convince her to dump him for the last 3 years but “she loves him” ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:54 PM |
| 5 | one important yet often understated piece of advice for women who want to start dating HVMI am that friend for my pick me friend who is with a married man 20 years older than us who treats her like sh*t and demands her to go see him to have sex but won’t even pay for the Uber lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I realized my mom is a pickmeishaMy mom minimizes what happened too. We had an argument around 1 month ago and she said she doesn’t feel guilty about what happened with her boyfriend that I never asked her for help so she doesn’t think she did anything wrong by staying with him even tho he abused me. It pisses me off. But at least I know I will never do something like that with my daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 06:40 PM |
| 7 | I realized my mom is a pickmeishaMy mom was like that with her husband even tho she was the bread winner... pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | I realized my mom is a pickmeishaMy mom would shame me too whenever I said I wanted a man with money kinda making it seem like I was lazy or a gold digger. I don’t see anything wrong with wanting a man who’s not a burden 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 02:06 AM |
| 12 | OLD is a nightmareMy OLD experience is also bad they won’t do the minimum effort they don’t wanna spend any money they want you to chase them f that. I deleted all my OLD apps and I told myself my next relationship it’s gonna start in real life and I’m not looking for it he will have to come to me PERIOD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Super PickMeisha Cleans Boyfriend’s Mom’s Bathroom. No Ring after 13 years.They broke up for a while and now she’s back with him that’s why she was single for a while. She definitely deserves better smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:12 PM |
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