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Yeah, that's what i thought! Sounds like a decent plan to me, the world would be a much better place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:56 AM
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I really don't get how women watch this and think, yes i should try that? If he wanted to he would, I can't force him. I'm not his mother. Either he puts in the effort, and then he is deserving of me and my effort as well, or he doens't and then i'm out. I cringed so hard at this. Who looks at this and thinks she has a point? Entitled manbabys who see women as commodities, not people. That's who. It disgusts me, i am so angry! And i am sad for the women who have so little respect for themselves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:22 AM
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I agree, sadly that would be the case more often than not. Although I believe a good therapist doesn't take on a role where they pass judgement on the clients issues, instead they help the client to reflect on why they feel what they are feeling and realize which lingering trauma or unmet needs are the cause for their unhealthy thoughts. Ideally, then that issue can be remedied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:03 PM
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After my break-ip from my abusive nv ex, I did not think i would ever reach the point where I would say i'd rather be single forever than compromise constantly. But I learned and grew. If a partner isn't making my life better and easier, there's no reason to be in a relationship. Similar to how this one famous tumblr post once said: if you see a woman with a cat but without a man at her side she did the math, and a furry animal who shits in a box and a vibrator scored higher than the man. I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:15 AM
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Concerning the other 'reasons': Social anxiety? Go to therapy. Physical disability? If you're a good person, you still can find a partner. Don't be an asshole. Have realistic standards. Kinks so bad you're ashamed of them? Consider this: maybe your shame is justified. Also go to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:08 AM
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I'd be ashamed to admit i was that worthless of a husband to hire a sex worker if my wife died or had brain damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:02 AM
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I wonder how this translates to wlw, what do you think? I'd never approach a man, but i find myself interested in women as well, but I am not sure how to translate our principles to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:21 PM
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Yes, it's lovely to be reminded what we all strive for and deserve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:16 PM
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It really makes me sad how little he appreciates her. I don't think growing up poor is an excuse for being cheap tho, both a good friend of mine and my ex grew up poor and my ex especially always took great pride in being able to gift me things i personally couldn't afford. Being cheap and not appreciating people is a NVX trait, not a poor childhood one. I too wouldn't care for a ring that's so expensive, firstly bc i don't like the style of classic diamond rings (i'd rather have one custom made…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:00 AM
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This is exactly what I experienced too. My ex would make sure I felt i needed him and when I showed unhappiness and that he didn't meed my emotional needs he told me how much he needed me. My goal for future relationships is not to need them/be needed by them, but wanted. I think that's way more meaningful because it says, I have a good life already but I enjoy being with you, i want to be with you. Need only goes as far as the need itself, it both means that if you don't fulfill his needs he mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:41 AM
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Nvm don't want women, they want characterless sexdolls. At least they wave their red flags for everyone to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:03 PM
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The only option is to get a good lawyer and plan for divorce and to get sole custody for that poor child. Get as much proof for his depravity as possible, look into his porn use, anything that might help to keep him away from the child. And then leave and never look back. There's no room for compassion or understanding or compromise with men such as him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:45 AM
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Lots of men do that on purpose because they like making women afraid. It's a sick power trip for them. Please be careful and listen to your intuition!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:53 PM
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Oh god please dump him. He clearly doesn't appreciate you or wants to spend money or energy on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:55 AM
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This is so important! My LV ex had a new gf within hours of us breaking up and in the beginning I felt like it was my fault it didn't work out and that after all the work I put in to fix him (never again, I want someone who doens't need fixing) he moved on to someone else, who he was happier with. Only through a lot of soul searching and therapy I started to realize that someone as LV as him can never be truly happy and the reason he made me so miserable was bc he is miserable himself. I deserve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:07 AM
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Probably because they wouldn't be able to deal with someone as scrote-y as them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:07 PM
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If the only way to keep a man is to wait on him and clean up after him, no thanks. Who in their right mind would say yes to that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:34 AM
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The fact alone that he wants to have a wife who isn't her own person makes him abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:25 PM
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You are absolutely right. It doesn't matter how happy or nice they seem now, its not my business anymore. Also, he will probably change over time, just as he did with me. They always start out with all their best acting and manipulation and skirt the line to manipulation until they have you under their thumb. I would feel sorry for his new gf, but she is a narc picme so maybe they'll fuck each other up. Who cares! I'm just glad he's so focused on her that he leaves me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:11 AM
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And that's why I'm never having children with a man. I might adopt later on, when I am ready for children, or go to a sperm bank/clinic, but it will be my child and no man will have a legal right to it. Ngl, the longer I have my eyes open to the violence and manipulation of scrotes, the more appealing just staying single sounds... Even the 'good' ones can't be trusted because they have been raised in our patriarchal society. They are considered good because they won't physically abuse us, but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:06 AM
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That's something my parents did when I was a kid to teach me to save my money and live frugally. For example for my driver's licence (which is ~2000 bucks in my country) they matched what I saved up. But for a partner??? Hell no, what is he, a child? How is it considered cute to parent your partner??? Especially if you aren't married and have no security in that regard???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:07 PM
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Sure, men have it so hard with being rejected, i'm so glad I only have to worry about being lied to, gaslit, objectified, abused, raped or killed! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:34 PM
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I get that people are insecure about their fucked up fetishes, i would be too, but that's exactly the reason to tell people early on so that they can decide if that ok with them? Thats so typically LVM, they know that the woman would never do what they want when they're honest, so they lie to get what they want. He's clearly trying to shame her into accepting something she would never have accepted if she knew beforehand. I hope she doesn't marry him. What a disgusting scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:24 PM
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I don't drink around men! The only man i drink around is a friend I've had for ages, and even then only when we meet up with several female friends as well. It's been a really telling sign when men try to make me drink something after I declined. If they can't respect my choices and boundaries in this instance, they won't respect me, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:02 PM
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I just talked about Elon Musk with my dad yesterday, and I'm glad to report he really dislikes Musk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:49 PM
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Interesting that he equates murder and abuse with BDSM...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:31 PM
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I can confirm that too. I also don't get agressive when I drink, like so many men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:59 AM
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I didn't even need to read more than 5 sentences, i immediately knew it was written by a scrote. No self-respecting woman would write this, and it's so bad i don't even think a pick-me could come up with it. I've never met a person that wasn't a man that hated women so much as the OP of this misogynistic rant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:14 PM
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This is making me so sad, that poor woman and that poor child :/ i don't get how anyone can accept a NVM like this. If i was a man i would be ashamed to be the same gender than this worthless piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:06 PM
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This is so fucking funny to me, it's like out of a terrible movie or something. So cringe! Why do scrotes think describing a woman as a cat or as weak is somehow a compliment? I'm a grown woman, not an animal, but he seems to be stuck as a pathetic man child so desperate for attention and tries to manipulate you asking about his poems and telling him that they're actually good even tho they're not? Typical scrote. I'm sorry that he oversteps your boundaries, he's not worth your time and energy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:30 AM
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How do people thing that a pick up line telling a women he wants to abuse her would work??? I would block faster than ever before 😂 The only remotely positive thing about that is that when scrotes get comfortable with showing how sick they are at least you can weed them out more easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:20 PM
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Damn that's a good burn, i need to save that for the next scrote that sends me creepy af messages!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:32 PM
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Men are disgusting. They don't care if they hurt women, as long as they get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:33 AM
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The thing is, she probably couldn't just stand up for herself. That's what being abused and manipulated can do to people. It's not her fault. It's the people who did that to her and didn't notice or care that are the problem. Being used to being treated bad probably started long before this guy, so how could she recognize the signs? I only started to realize how fucked up it was what I thought was normal because of therapy and FDS. That's why it's so important to spread the word!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:07 PM
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I only found a screenshot of the original tumblr post, but here ya go! https://images.app.goo.gl/cQkbA5dgYwehfefz5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:31 AM
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Reminds me of that one tweet saying that women did the math and a cat for companionship and a vibrator for sex scored higher than a man. Imagine the reaction! The men in the comments were so offended and immediately tried to put her down as someone who isn't able to get a man or some shit. I don't get why being a cat lady is such a bad thing. I mean I get that it's because of systemic misogyny and that every lifestyle where the women's life doesn't resolve about men is talked badly about to make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:51 AM
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I've done the math and a vibrator and a cat score higher than a LVM. The rest is pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:53 PM
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And them saying it's racist and Anti LGBTQ would be the thing that's actually racist and homophobic, because it implies that they think poc and LGBTQ people are either all sick and like abuse or that abuse is the same as mixed race or gay relationships. Scrotes are showing their assholery so openly because they think it has no consequences. At least it makes vetting easier when people start with this kind of talk early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:54 AM
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I wish a warning subreddit like this didn't need to exist. I wish there weren't so many evil, inhumane men. I can't even describe how furious it makes me that abuse is being relabeled as kinky and adventurous. I don't know how any women can trust a man when men who like the stuff on those sick subreddits exist. I don't even know what to say. I feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:24 PM
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This is truly disturbing. I hope more parents gain awareness of that and look carefully what they give their children! And more importantly, I hope the disgusting people who made those awful design choices get put on every watchlist there is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:00 PM
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This is terrifying 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:03 PM
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My first boyfriend couldn't orgasm because he was porn sick what he was 18, and he tried to blame it on me, told me that I wasn't tight enough, that my vulva didn't look right, and so on. I was insecure about that a long time, even after I ditched his ass! Now, thanks to FDS i know that he wasn't worth my time, and so is every man that watches porn and/or isn't thankful I even consider taking him to bed. Ladies, if a man tells you a dead bedroom is your fault, dump his ass! If he tells you, you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:43 AM
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They should ban porn, only LVM like porn. The sex work industry is basically a tolerated or even celebrated cesspool of systemic abuse of women and children, of human trafficking and apart from that (which should be more than enough to ban it) it's literally affecting people's brains and making them psychologically sick and unable to have a healthy sex life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:09 PM
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This ☝️ I'll never lower my standards, I'll never accept a man who is not only not a burden but is not actively lifting me up and adding something to my life. I hate how so many people joke about the line "I'm a strong, independent woman and I don't need no man". People who try to make people who feel like this feel like they are in the wrong are NV, trying to push women back into servicing men. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:32 PM
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My abusive ex wrote my parents Merry Christmas even after wanting me to stay out of his life lol. A true LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:35 PM
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