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Your pics are awful. I'm a tough love type so don't get offended. But you look like any other guy I'd see at a park. Nothing that makes you stand out. Go on TikTok and look up dudes profiles and you'll see what I mean about standing out
/r/seduction13/06/25 08:07 PM
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I needed this post. I knew some of this stuff already, but i forgot it all after talking everyday to this one girl. Thanks for the reminder. She did keep finding reasons to avoid the date, she never initiated anything, never gave me actual times to hang out. Why did i let myself fall into the hole? She's pretty and we had good chemistry. But as friends. Unfortunately she recently did something that crossed a boundary so we won't ever be friends, but i can see it better now. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/06/25 06:06 PM
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Let's forget about everyone else and their successes and failures. How's your dating life going?
/r/seduction27/05/25 09:07 PM
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You start with the idea of a date first and then when she bites on the bait, you set a time and a place
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:59 PM
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Completely agree. Texting is such a big part of our day to day life. Most guys sleep on it but if you can master it you can keep girls around for much longer. And the part about "dates feeling more natural" is what I resonated with the most. If you get sexual over text and she's feeling it, the date will be SO much easier. Or she'll come over right away. Had many girls come over right away cause I mastered sexting.
/r/seduction23/05/25 08:02 PM
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Hey I have a camera! Did you use a timer or a Bluetooth remote or something?
/r/seduction25/03/25 07:56 PM
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Cause you have time to reply and no pressure. No audience around if you say something wrong and she gets offended or mad and embarrasses you for it. In person, there's pressure. You have to reply quickly. You have to think on your feet and not say the wrong thing. You can't ask your friends for a good reply. You need to figure out what is making you blank. Is it because you don't have the experience? Or because you have anxiety? Or a bunch of other things. Think back to your last in person mess …
/r/seduction22/03/25 07:04 PM
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It's slang for "leave you hanging"
/r/seduction21/03/25 06:29 PM
0

Start with a coffee shop near the university, or even on campus
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:05 PM
2

Have you met anyone on HUD? I do great on tinder, but HUD is abysmal for me
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:05 PM
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There's no stigma against approaching, you've just built it up in your head as an excuse not to approach Stop being average. You can't change you genes, but you can change literally everything else. Work out, dress better, groom your hair, choose a better cologne. Stop making excuses.
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:23 PM
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Shave that scraggly beard, but otherwise you look ok
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:46 AM
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What kinda sales job includes travel? I'm in car sales right now.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:03 PM
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Post your best pic of your on your reddit profile (or a img link). I wanna see if you're as above average as you claim. Pretty people get laid.
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:03 PM
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You didn't seduce this girl. You tried to buy her and she saw through it. If you read Models by Mark Manson, he explains who can or cannot be seduced.
/r/seduction02/08/23 05:17 PM
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"offended" Why are you getting offended? They are strangers on an app. They don't owe you anything. For a lot of girls, swiping is just a fun pastime.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:19 PM
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Doesn't matter how the app advertises itself. It matters how you advertise yourself. Tinder was supposed to be a serious dating app and look what it is now.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:57 PM
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While you were kissing, did you try for more? Did you try to kiss her neck and let your hands explore her? Did you try to take her top off?
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:53 PM
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No way dude, i've hooked up with girls from Hinge. It's all about how you seduce them. If she's over at his place, she wants to fuck.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:53 PM
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I know a lot of people preach getting the number, but i prefer going for IG or snap. My entire profile is built on a vibe that i'm a fun guy, so when they see my stories having fun, or with hot girls, all of a sudden girls that ghosted me are messaging me. Try that next time.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:02 PM
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Maybe they get women because they aren't putting others down to make themselves look better. You need to fix your mindset.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:31 PM
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Bud, all my first dates nowadays are straight to my apartment. Girls don't mind if you seduce them right.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:01 PM
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No it doesn't. That's just something you've made up in your head.
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:25 PM
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That's incredibly stereotypical of you. Just find people you mesh with and judge them on their personality.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:40 PM
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Dudes a sugar daddy so I highly doubt his expertise on game. Get better advice from someone else.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:39 PM
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To a very specific type of relationship. Why does saying no to being his gf mean that she doesn't want to be a FWB?
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:38 PM
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Suggest grabbing coffee or drinks or boba. Or just take a walk. Something cheap where you can focus on each other.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:26 PM
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NO FOOD DATES.
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:25 PM
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"branding her" Wym
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:46 PM
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You can apply that to literally any kiss in a club/bar between any two strangers.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:19 PM
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Devil's Advocate: Take her out to a club, isolate from bf (if he comes) and then get close after a couple drinks and see how she reacts. Once the inhibitions go down, she may let loose. Note: Don't fuck if she's too drunk to consent. This scenario is only a random thought on seeing if she'll kiss you or something like that Note 2: Don't try to get in a relationship with her. If she drops her man for someone else, she should be limited to fwb status and nothing more Note 3: If you value the frien…
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:38 PM
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That hurt to read
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:44 PM
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Look at the comment by rico1V1, that's literally who it's aimed for even though, along with anyone that currently has the wrong mindset. You and I see this as common knowledge, but when i started this journey 3-4 years ago, this post would have been godsent. Newbies need specific advice on what to say and how to say it, sure, but they also need to work on their mindset. Most dont, but the few that do, are leagues ahead of other newbies. Lock down a proper mindset at the start, and you'll improve…
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:04 PM
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I was literally looking at beige rugs a bit ago haha. I just don't know what color to get. or design
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:09 PM
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You're the third person to recommend that video to me lol
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:37 PM
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Why did you ask to kiss her instead of just kissing her? All i needed was the first paragraph. It's super obvious that you're pissed that she wouldn't kiss you after two hours on a date, but you saw her at a club kissing someone freely. I can guarantee you, that your date was nowhere near as sexually stimulating as her club experience. And no, that's not because of the drinks or the music or the environment. It's because you didn't create a sexual environment for her. As u/bcool_returns said, yo…
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:04 PM
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You sound like a 10 year old bro. Explain the interaction better. ETA: LOL, i just found the post you stole that line from. That's a pretty cringy line imo, but at least we know now.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:31 PM
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Elaborate on the date more. That will give us more insight on what could have gone wrong. Did you escalate? Did you talk about romantic/sexual topics or was it just friendly? Did you make eye contact? (#1 easiest way to flirt with a girl without saying anything) Was there any physical contact? The more NOs you have, the more things you need to work on.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:28 PM
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I have heard about it...on the internet. In reality, i've seen short guys pull hotter girls than me in bars. Go out and try it instead of being stuck on the internet.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:41 PM
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As for the clothes, get them tailored. Dont ever expect clothes to fit perfectly right from the store. Adjustments are needed. When you have some free time, go get a pic taken at a coffeeshop like Sbuck or if there's any body of water near you, get a pic taken there. I like the rockclimbing one, but it should be better posed (and without a mask preferable) I would never advise you to shave the beard off. Just trim it. Get the edges lined up and the rest of it trimmed nicely. Be sure to ask your …
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:20 PM
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Bad fitting clothes Pics don't really show off your attractiveness We only see your outdoorsy side and not much else This is the best guide i've found so far: Profile guide Don't bother with their articles on how to text for now. Focus on your image first. Edit: You're a good looking guy, but the pics don't do you justice. Find a friend with a newer iphone and have some pics taken of you. And clean up the beard. It's too messy.
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:55 PM
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Just because you have bad results doesn't mean everyone does. There's tons of dudes on here that do just fine
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:08 PM
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Show me pics you've taken of yourself for either Tinder or IG
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:07 PM
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"rarely get matches" "I have solid pics" One of these is a lie and i think we all know which one it is.
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:04 PM
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Show me your results
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:00 PM
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You got rejected by 938 girls and kept approaching. How is that not a confidence booster? You're determined. Most guys starting out get 1 or 2 rejections and give up on approaching forever.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:13 PM
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Your mindset seems to be based off what you've witnessed with 'seducers'. The reality is that its very very rare to lay a girl that wasn't initially into you. Ask any guy here. Out of 100 lays, maybe one or two weren't into them at the beginning.
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:10 PM
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You think maybe that bad mental frame more attributed to your lack of success?
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:36 PM
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You hope* will be fulfilled. If the sex sucks, it won't be. Or even if it is amazing, you might realize that it wasn't the sex you craved, but the intimacy. Basically what i'm trying to say is, you're too focused on sex. It's altering your logic. Take a step back and think it out.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:27 PM
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You've got a lot of hate in you bud for shitting on someone that's just trying to help.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:25 PM
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How do you know it's fulfilling if you've never experienced it?
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:36 PM
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Man, i had my first kiss at 23 and lost vcard at 26. I'm 30 now and pulling girls every weekend. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:35 PM
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Be creative. Movie theater, backseat of a car, public places like parks, etc
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:48 PM
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Go fuck other girls.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:44 PM
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I would have said "I prefer going out rather than texting" and then set up a date. You gotta move fast bro. There's tons of people that say 'you gotta move slow and work up to it', but that's BS. Cause if you take it slow, a guy like me will talk to your girl, take her out, and fuck her in the span of 1-2 days. Move FAST. This article explains it much better than i ever could. She asked you because she was showing you all this interest and you were way too oblivious to see that she was intereste…
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:33 PM
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"What girl is going to give it up to someone who she barely knows/talks to?" A lot of girls do that, especially within your age group. I'm 29 and i fuck girls on first dates. The key is to not be in 'boyfriend mode'. That means, no constant texting, don't always be there for her. Hell, don't even get to know her that much. A bf is always there for his gf. Listens to all her problems, gives her a ton of affection. Gives her assurance that she's a important part of his life. You don't want to do t…
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:54 PM
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Doubtful. I've been invited to a party by a girl and ended up fucking her friend at the party and she was still DTF weeks later.
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:23 PM
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Eh, it's human nature to ask someone more experienced for help. If your don't know better, natural inclination would be to assume a girl is the best source of knowledge for help with a girl
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:50 PM
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Where he says "blah blah blah only if she's attracted to you". It's almost verbatim lol
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:40 PM
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Definitely not only for men. Just ranting about women that only comment to cause problems. These "real women" also have nothing to lose from commenting. I would argue that they aren't sharing valid viewpoints because what a girl says works for her and what actually works on her are rarely the same thing. Same could be said to those women. Keep scrolling.
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:32 PM
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I don't fully disagree with you, but the way you worded it makes it seem like you think that as long as the girl is attracted to you, that you don't need game. Also, what about people who ARE new to being social. I'm a former recluse trying to convert myself into a extrovert.
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:00 AM
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Finally. You've been so busy tearing into our concepts, you never before had stopped to ask us why we do what we do. So first up before we get to the club situation is that every girls responses to our advances depends on her own personal self esteem and confidence. Also, her personal philosophy. You're right when you say that people are so different. You don't seem like the type that would enjoy meeting a new guy every night and having sex, but there are tons of girls at clubs that live that li…
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:53 AM
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Yup. Plus they don't even recognize these techniques in the moment
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:40 AM
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Not in the way the person i replied to was referring to it. Be direct by leading her. But being direct doesn't mean you give her your full attention. In fact, i would say that directness and attention are two completely separate concepts when it comes to talking to a girl
/r/seduction23/03/20 08:32 AM
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I made a post about it
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:45 PM
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Idk if you've noticed, but this post is FULL of cringy girls crying about manipulation
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:43 PM
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ITT: A bunch of triggered women
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:36 PM
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Because it doesn't work. You're speaking of an ideal. Being direct with girls doesn't work. Push pull does work.
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:35 PM
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Well, my only counter would be to say that this isn't a sub for keeping a relationship. It's for sleeping with as many girls as possible.
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:33 PM
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lol read his username
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:31 PM
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this weekend you've already got plans to go white water rafting with friends, you've got a judo tournament you're competing in, and your band has a gig they're going to perform in How do you get to this level of 'always have something to do'?
/r/seduction09/02/20 06:54 AM
1

Look up Ultimate Man Project on Facebook. They have a bootcamp that'll teach you what you need and they'll coach your through it
/r/seduction03/02/20 10:51 AM
1

Hey man, im not a paid dating coach. I help guys out for free and you can check out my post history for proof. If you send me your tinder profile I'll give you some feedback you can use. I'm also good with life advice, sex advice, and what to do on the date itself.
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:49 AM
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Find a new wing. If your wing is gonna throw a tantrum because of any reason, he's not a wing I'd want.
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:16 PM
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Disagree. People have lives. You're just gonna move on if their schedule is full? That's stupid.
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:56 PM
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Sure, it can. I never said it would be a bad date. But if you're going out with lots of girls, it doesn't make sense to keep paying that much
/r/seduction29/11/19 11:58 AM
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Sushi is super expensive in my city. Personally, I'm just not a fan. And every sushi restaurant smells.
/r/seduction29/11/19 11:47 AM
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Mmm, I feel like this is way too unattached. 10-20min? That's nothing. In one other comment I said I don't want to invest time, but I was talking about 2-3 hours, not this
/r/seduction29/11/19 11:45 AM
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Around 10-15 a week? Still working on it haha
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:44 AM
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lol you're gonna make me blush Yup! Just those two and another one that doesn't show my face. Just me silhouetted while walking on a trail from far away. I don't really think that pic does much for me though.
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:28 AM
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Like u/ndia1 said, it's a pretty big topic, but i'll try to give a concise explanation. Basically the frame is a perspective of a conversation. Think of it like someone else reading your texting. Is it going to be obvious who is leading the conversation or who is trying to chase who? If a girl keeps challenging some claim you make, then that's a confrontational frame. There's some common ones like prize frame, buyer frame, provider frame, and the one i mentioned before this. Buyer and prize are …
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:25 AM
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Sure. Here are some photofeeler images. It's basically a site where you upload pics and girls rate your qualities. https://photofeeler.s3.amazonaws.com/test_results_images/ri50fdyu1be7occ8.jpg https://photofeeler.s3.amazonaws.com/test_results_images/ri2kuezxz29wao4s.jpg
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:11 AM
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Wait, are you saying that when you were on campus, she was willing to see you, but now you're on some kind of break from school and she doesn't care as much?
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:09 AM
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So you're the exception to the rule. Do you think you were in the majority on the second? Should guys treat every woman on tinder as if she wants a relationship even though he wants to hookup? It's tinder, not bumble or okcupid.
/r/seduction29/11/19 02:08 AM
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Nope. It's Tinder. They're there to fuck or date casually. Even the company that made the app has to embraced that platform. If you're not there for that, you're just wasting time. Yes, some people find relationships, but I doubt they went on a date expecting a potential life partner
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:49 AM
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Of course not. They don't want people to think they're easy or 'a slut'. It's a common topic in game. Called ASD. Anti-Slut Defense. I just matched with a girl whose profile says she is 'abstinent'. When I brought it up, she said 'shhhhhh' and now we are talking about spanking and oral. Girls put up a front. You just have to break through that obstacle.
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:46 AM
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I don't want to invest time into you. I want to go out with as many cute girls as possible. If I took each one out to dinner, my wallet would be empty. I get where you're coming from, but Tinder is a hookup app. I'm not there to find my soulmate. LOL @ 'home by date three'. Have you ever made a tinder? 50% of openers women get are 'OMG YOURE GORGEOUS'. Guys have to learn to stand out from the rest. Definitely have to have tact and mention sex at the right time, I agree on that. It works for me. …
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:42 AM
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Dude, I'm a 5-6/10. I can provide proof lol
/r/seduction29/11/19 12:35 AM
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Being direct is hard because in pop culture they show bad examples and then berate those examples so you basically have just dive in and find your balance. The spicy line doesn't work cause you basically gave her a compliment while trying to be funny. She gets compliments all the time. Stop trying to be funny. The booty line is specifically an opener so it sets a frame. It'll also get her talking about how nice her booty is. DM me Screenshots of your combo and I'll help you out
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:38 PM
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I mean, of course it might work for someone. The matches has nothing to do with your bio though. It's all about your pics.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:44 PM
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Say something sexual. "Swiped right for that great booty" Then ask her if it's as nice as it looks. Then tell her you have a nice bottle of wine and your place and to come over. Obviously not that simple, but it's not a bad gameplan
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:24 PM
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Idk where in the world you are, but it's thanksgiving weekend. I'm doubling all my wait periods because of that. No food cause I don't wanna waste that much time. Also I don't want to watch her eat. Much harder to get physical if you're eating. Lastly, I've never had a dinner date where you sit side by side.
/r/seduction28/11/19 08:58 PM
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Happy Cake Day
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:25 PM
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You breakup with your girl. Then you tell other girl that you were in a unhappy relationship and that you'd like to try going out with her. If not, that's ok.
/r/seduction28/11/19 05:19 PM
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I'd give it a while. Two or three days
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:53 PM
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Has it even been 24 hours yet?
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:50 PM
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Cringe af
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:49 PM
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Only dirty emojis should be used. Don't leave kisses. Try to avoid lol and lmao unless she's the type that uses them a lot. Using these things makes you look less mature to the girls that are looking for someone more sophisticated. Basically, it depends on your target.
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:48 PM
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You think it's healthy to be with a girl just because it's 'comfortable'?
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:46 PM
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Agree with most except for the con of daygame about physical affection. You can definitely sexualize and get physical in daygame. Just have to be more subtle about it
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:28 PM
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You should only double text in this situation and if you text properly, you'll rarely be in this position.
/r/seduction13/11/19 10:33 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction13/11/19 10:30 AM
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Next time she looks at you, hold eye contact and smile at her.
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:53 AM
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Good bot!
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:52 AM
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"I made eye contact with a girl for 3 seconds and then looked away. Should i ask her out?"
/r/seduction12/11/19 03:30 AM
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You're joking, right?
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:18 AM
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Are you sure? A few people have already joined with that link.
/r/seduction12/11/19 02:07 AM
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I'm gonna disagree with u/wvsfezter. I've been using tinder and it's great for me! You have to learn how to market yourself to get good results. I show pictures that make me look good. That i have a life and a girl would have fun hanging out with me. You can't just take a standing picture in a park and think that'll be good enough. But if you have a picture of you throwing a football in a park while smiling, you'll do great! For reference, i'm overweight. Huge belly and no muscle definition on m…
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:58 PM
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No its not.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:46 AM
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How overweight are you? I'm 6' and 220 and my avg resting HR is around 65
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:45 AM
2

What if she's coming over to help build the couch?
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:55 PM
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What are the other 5? You explain stuff really well! Also, if you have time, can you provide an example routine?
/r/seduction12/08/19 05:50 AM
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"If it aint a YES, it's a NO." Best advice i was ever given.
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:29 AM
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Wait...which nail?
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:17 AM
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Love that guy
/r/seduction30/06/19 01:16 AM
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Great advice! Still working on it, but making improvements everyday!
/r/seduction27/06/19 07:37 PM
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Hahah, i bragged about it too, and I got the same responses too lol
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:47 AM
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I always split a bottle of red beforehand, and I always go down on her. But if she's not wet when you go down on her, nothing's gonna happen.
/r/seduction15/06/19 07:02 PM
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"Hey trouble" "You look like the right mix of trouble and fun" If you live in one of those tiny countries where you can be in a different city if you drive for 30miles: "Are you in <your city name>?" One that i've been using a lot lately: "Your eyes tell me something about you" (Makes her curious and gets her to reply) Checking playingfire.com to change your texting life.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:15 PM
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playingfire.com This texting product has literally changed my life.
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:19 PM
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That opener sucks
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:18 PM
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Honestly, it should only take a couple of RSD Tyler videos for you to believe this is true. hahahahahahahaha
/r/seduction20/05/19 08:37 PM
2

What were the benefits he showed you
/r/seduction24/04/19 05:29 PM
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You're still an incel, FYI.
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:46 PM
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reputable program?
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:58 PM
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#2 is where i consistently fuck up. It'll just be like "I pull you in for a kiss then move down to your neck. From there I go down to your chest all the while leaving tiny kisses. I start rubbing your tits and you start moaning like crazy..." and so forth. It's mainly just me saying what i'm doing, but there's no emotion to what i'm saying. I'm not telling her how i feel or how she feels in the moment.
/r/seduction07/04/19 11:56 PM
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I actually prefer to do all my flirting and sexting on text and then just go straight to their place or a hotel with a bottle of wine.
/r/seduction31/03/19 07:44 AM
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Very nice critique. It's like he's using a longer Blackdragon 2 date approach ​
/r/seduction21/03/19 07:36 PM
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r/thatHappened
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:27 AM
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playingfire.com
/r/seduction18/02/19 11:51 PM
1

This sounds a lot like the PWF product.
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:19 PM
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lmao the avacado
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:34 PM
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...what?
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:50 PM
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Because Engineering college isn't like most colleges. There are exceptions to everything. ​ My college was 1:1 boys and girls so it wasn't a problem.
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:16 PM
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Will do haha
/r/seduction18/12/18 03:16 PM
2

Yeah, you understand. Personally, after thinking this over a bit, it would make more sense to say 'Don't try to be something you're not' As opposed 'just be yourself'. I think the first one is closer to what the latter is trying to convey
/r/seduction18/12/18 02:48 PM
1

Only problem I have with 'just be yourself' is that guys wouldn't be learning about game if being themselves worked in the first place.
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:39 AM
-1

Yes! Good luck.
/r/seduction17/11/18 06:48 PM
-1

You're giving up before you even try. Wait a few days and find out what she's thinking. If you go in with a loser attitude and you're gonna lose. That's why they're calling you a pussy. The girl knows you were not raping her. That's all that matters.
/r/seduction17/11/18 05:48 PM
3

You asked for a 25yo that recently lost his virginity? Sup fam.
/r/seduction02/11/18 03:34 AM
2

Stop treating her like a friend.
/r/seduction17/10/18 08:01 AM
2

I think it's partly that and partly we've been invaded by SJWs
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:53 AM
3

A girl hasn't responded to your last text. You get paranoid that the last thing you said was too far. Why'd you even bring up sex?! Idiot! She's not responding because she's probably creeped out. You could send her ten apology texts, ask her why she's not responding, but you don't have to....You can just wait. Then she responds and says to bring that dick over so she can try to suck it off. Me AF. ​
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:45 PM
3

This is quality. This sub has seriously gone to shit. This is what cold approach is. You see a girl you like, say #fuckit, and then you go say hi.
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:28 PM
1

The comment is fucked up, yes. Complaining about it won't do anything however. Certainly wont help you in your dating life. Focus on the more important things in life. I read your post about wanting someone to pretend to be you on Tinder. Trust me dude, get those professional pics and a regular bio and you'll get matches. And the only way to get better at talking to girls is to talk to lots of them.
/r/seduction08/10/18 10:11 AM
8

Ugh #6. I'm a whore for receiving and responding to texts and stuff.
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:37 PM
3

Bro, i lost my virginity at 26. You're doing fine lol.
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:33 PM
8

Be nice Welp, I'm fucked. Lol, seriously though, as someone that's a bit of a loner, where do you meet these people? Although I just got a motorcycle and there's a big community in Houston of those people.
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:57 PM
11

How do you create a social circle? You make it sound so simple lol.
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:26 PM
23

More than 33% of Tinder's userbase is in Brazil? Wow.
/r/seduction09/09/18 04:48 AM
9

Depends on the topic. You should aim for 5 messages to asking out. If you're at message #100, you're not that getting a reliable date unless it's been flirty back and forth, which usually doesn't last for that long. And if it does, you don't need to be looking for advice in this thread lol
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:41 AM
1

I feel like if you're trying to be indirect, it defeats the purpose of cold approach. Or at least you'll slow your progress.
/r/seduction25/08/18 06:28 PM
1

One-itis bro. Move on.
/r/seduction22/08/18 10:25 AM
2

Don't care enough lol.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:57 AM
2

I've opened new accounts and noticed that the level of attractiveness of girls is significantly different on new accounts vs used accounts. It also changes the longer you use it which suggests an ELO based system. That was probably a bad explanation lol.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:46 AM
2

Haha, that's hard. I don't think tinder has ever admitted to using an ELO based algorithm. Not that I would either if I were them.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:39 AM
5

I mean, it's calculated based on how many swipe left/right on you. If you argue that left = loss and right = win, it would make sense.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:36 AM
2

Honestly, get an escort. A lot of guys will give me shit over it, but if its all you can ever think about, go spend an hour with someone that knows what they are doing and just get laid. If that's not your thing, it's ok. Path is gonna be harder, but that's also fun heh.
/r/seduction05/08/18 12:47 AM
2

Ok, so you misunderstood something important. I'm not saying you need to have accomplished your goals. I'm saying you need to be working towards them. As long as you have ambition, you're good. Don't get hung up on who has more options. You're talking to a girl at the mall and it's not going well? It's ok, cause you know there's 5 more girls in the same building that you could talk to. That's called abundance mentality. I can tell by the way you talk about options and stuff that you probably get…
/r/seduction04/08/18 11:18 PM
2

Very inspirational. Completely agree even if im not at that level yet.
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:56 PM
4

Thinking too much. Start at step 1.
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:55 PM
2

Speaking from a biological standpoint, you can't be happy without a woman and sex. It's ingrained in us. Don't fight it. Also, cold approach rarely ever works. The idea of cold approaching isn't to meet a girl and have sex with her. It's to get you used to speaking to women and be at ease with yourself. Use cold approach as a way to get to know more people, not get laid. There's a lot of stuff that you haven't learned because of lack of practice that you need to learn now. There are no steps to …
/r/seduction04/08/18 10:50 PM
2

For #2, what are alpha male traits?
/r/seduction22/06/18 11:14 AM
1

At some point in my life, I convinced myself that walking around like this makes me look 'cool'. Hard habit to break.
/r/seduction22/06/18 11:12 AM
1

On mobile, there is a follow button on users profiles.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:16 AM
2

You have gained a follower.
/r/seduction04/06/18 09:53 AM
11

Any line only works if you deliver it right lol
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:39 AM
2

Saving this. Always wondered about this.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:38 AM
3

It's never going to feel like the right time to go for the kiss. Make eye contact, hold it, then go in for the kiss. If she's interested, she'll kiss you back, if not you'll create some distance in the friendship. Not saying this to concern you, but there is risk involved with this.
/r/seduction08/05/18 11:34 AM
4

Can't force it, but you can work on it. Get up and go do something. I've started taking hip hop dance classes and it's really helped me socialize.
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:15 PM
6

What if you have not so great teeth? (I'm working on it)
/r/seduction07/05/18 02:53 AM
2

Religious family. "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" and all that lol
/r/seduction12/04/18 08:40 PM
7

My pixel lets me set up multiple user accounts so it would just be a matter of switching profiles for me. It's how I keep my tinder separate from my daily usage.
/r/seduction12/04/18 04:49 AM
1

Why?
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:41 AM
1

Oh bro no no no. Flirt all you like, but never where girl #1 can see girl #2. Let her be pissed if you don't show up. Personally, I wouldn't show up. Girls want guys that can provide them with something they can't get with other people. She can get attention and validation from any random guy on the street. But if you make it seem like you're gonna spend every day waking moment with her, then you don't have a life. Show her that you have parts of your time that aren't sent looking at her (even i…
/r/seduction20/01/18 10:36 AM
1

Ah well, at least you tried. No regrets and all that, right? Don't dwell on 'what if i'd done XXX'. You have no idea what the outcome could've been. Also, I realized I read it incorrectly the first time. I thought you were her customer, not her coworker. I think this ending is a good one as it could've cause problems later on. On the other hand, if you don't really care about that stuff, just be aloof with her. Give her the "if you're just gonna fuck around, then i'm not gonna waste my time beca…
/r/seduction20/01/18 10:12 AM
2

I like this advice.
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:35 PM
3

Don't really need to be physical when asking her out, but it doesn't hurt
/r/seduction13/01/18 09:11 PM
41

ASK. HER. OUT. Make sure it's low pressure so y'all can chill. Don't "compliment the fuck out of her'. She doesn't want a yes man. Get 1 on 1 with her. Have a few drinks, loosen up, and then get the lay. No such thing as a step by step. Also, if you're worried about the sex part, look up tutorials on pornhub, rexxx, or xnxx. They exist.
/r/seduction13/01/18 08:28 PM
1

I think you're over thinking this. If you wanna be subtle just send him a pic of you in a tight dress and something like "I can't wait...😉". If you wanna be bold, just send him a nude lol. He'll get the message real quick.
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:52 PM
-5

Don't be creepy. Your bio isn't gonna be a deciding factor.
/r/seduction30/12/17 03:18 PM
6

This makes a lot of sense. My only problem would be to come up with those compliments.
/r/seduction05/08/17 05:56 PM
6

I really like this viewpoint. Never thought about it like that.
/r/seduction29/05/17 03:43 PM
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