Not in any particular order. Mainly for tinder or other apps, but can also be used for approach numbers. I'll also throw in a opener at the end. I'm not a coach. I don't charge money for this stuff.

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  • Stay away from serious topics like religion, gender, or politics
  • The dirtier the profile, the more you can sexualize
  • Don't swipe right on every girl. You should have standards. From what i've tested, Tinder rewards you for being picky.
  • Girls can take a while to respond to your first message. Give her at least 4-5 days. She's got hundreds of likes and matches. Just because you match doesn't mean shit.
  • Girls like guys that are confident. They'll test you and if you can keep the frame and power, they'll like you even more
  • If you start with a powerful frame, it'll be easier to glide along on that frame rather than try to set a frame mid conversation.
  • Match her energy level. Don't send her a essay until she sends you one first. If she's sending you one or two word messages, she'll get the same back.
  • Keep it light and fun.
  • Don't be gamey. Don't try to be super witty the entire time. You're not some buffoon from r/tinder.
  • Ask her about herself. Treat her like a human, not some car at a dealership that you're trying to find a good deal on
  • Some guys will tell you to wait as long as the girl did to send a message back. Ex. they'll say that if she took 2 days to respond, then you take 2 days to respond. I disagree. Every hour that you wait to message her back, is an hour for another guy to show her value and fuck her.
  • But also don't get hung up on messaging back asap. You have a life. She has a life.
  • Don't expect to come back after ghosting her for a week without any drops in value. Of course she's not gonna take you seriously after that hiatus.
  • Make sure you mention a date within the first 4-5 messages. You want to make sure that she knows that you have plans for her. It could be a coffee date, or it could be a fuck date, but you want to plant the seed that you'll be seeing her at some point
  • Speaking of dates, NO FOOD DATES. No dinner dates. Also, no movies unless it's netflix and chill. Coffee, drinks, and hookah are my go to. Hookah is fun cause you're usually sitting on a sofa so cuddling tends to happen 9 times out of 10.
  • It's tinder. She wants to fuck. Give her an opening to say something sexual.
  • Don't forget to put yourself in a good light. It's ok to brag at times, just don't overdo it. I tell girls that i once saved a kid from drowning. It's true. I don't however say i jumped from the 3rd story of a building to save the kid.
  • Pictures are more important that your bio. Good pics that show you having fun or doing something you enjoy are good. Make sure the lighting is good and you're not dressed like a hobo. If the lighting is bad, try to get it edited.
  • Don't talk about eating her pussy in the bio, but it's ok to say you'll slap her ass (not verbatim lol). Less is more.
  • When you're on the date, make eye contact. Put your arm around her. She knows what happening and she'll tell if she's not comfortable. Be cheeky. Be funny. Make dirty jokes. Stare at her lips and then back at her eyes. Then you kiss her. Slow at first then build up. How far you want to go is up to you, just watch her eyes for discomfort.

Alright free opener:

'Thought about letting you message me first, but i get the feeling you prefer a man that leads'

Why this works well: Sets a dominant frame right away. You lead, she follows. Throughout the conversation, you have to stay confident. Stay cocky. I've found i can be way more cocky than usual with this opener. My reply is usually something like 'Yea, it seems like you'd prefer to be pulled in for a kiss rather than go for it yourself'

So now you've established that you are Dominant AND that you want to kiss her and that when you do, you'll be the one to pull her in, which will turn her on, cause most girl like to be dominated. I've yet to go out with a girl that doesn't respond positively to my dominant personality.

Keep it going from here and you'll do fine :)

Happy Thanksgiving!

This is doing pretty well so i thought i'd mention that i have a fb group chat for (completely free) help: m.me/join/AbZJdY6SJJPCVJpq