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I think you're totally missing what he's saying. What I interpet him to be saying is this: There are a lot of women in these dating app pools, many of which may not go out with *you* (in particular) if you asked right away. However, if *their* version of Brad Pitt (an allegory in this case, used to mean someone who they find extremely attractive) asked them out, they would probably do it. Then, it might make sense to ask right away in all cases, under the hypothesis that attracting a lower volum…
/r/seduction16/04/24 08:03 AM
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Honestly, yeah, I find that creepy. You're just a dude who goes out to the club, not to dance, or to socialize, or to meet new people, but for the sole focus of kissing strangers? Yes, that is weird.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:58 AM
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Depends on how good looking you are, how well you can talk to women, and your standards.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:57 AM
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I went out on three dates, had one blowjob offered, and slept with one, when I was there for two nights.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:52 AM
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lol
/r/seduction28/01/20 07:51 AM
3

Lmfao what
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:39 PM
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lol you’re also addicted to approval from others apparently
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:21 AM
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Good
/r/seduction07/01/20 12:25 AM
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I’m in college and this is way too formal and doing this will make you come off as weird. People on here have a very twisted perception of what it means to be smooth and cool, and this is definitely not it. You wouldn’t listen to an out of shape guy if he was the one programming your workouts and telling you how to eat and exercise. It’s like they say “never trust a skinny chef”. “i don’t mean to sound like a creep?” Of course you dont. But you just disqualified yourself right out of the gate, c…
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:33 PM
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She probably texted you for the ego boost in the beginning
/r/seduction01/01/20 10:32 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction01/01/20 11:03 AM
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lol look at this guys post history man. Don’t listen to him
/r/seduction01/01/20 01:52 AM
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Nothing will get fixed if you don’t care about yourself
/r/seduction31/12/19 12:50 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s a confidence booster directly but it’s definitely good practice to reflect. I keep a journal, and have been doing so for about a year. Great to see how far I’ve come and reflect on it by ... surprise! Writing in the journal more
/r/seduction31/12/19 12:49 PM
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I knew it was coming lmao
/r/seduction31/12/19 12:42 PM
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Fair enough. I’ve been here for a little while and I just got a little frustrated with some posts I’ve been seeing.
/r/seduction31/12/19 12:35 PM
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Lol thats literally female seddit bro
/r/seduction31/12/19 11:29 AM
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This sub is full of weird kids man
/r/seduction31/12/19 11:28 AM
2

Tell her exactly that, you’re leaving and you’d like to see her before you go
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:14 AM
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No problem man! Dating should be fun, and mystery is exciting for both parties. Feel free to let me know how it comes along.
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:15 AM
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Don’t stress about it. Sounds like it went good to me. That follow up text from her is a good thing. She already told not she’s not looking for anything serious, so for now, take her at her word. Something casual can easily turn into something serious, but it’s hard for something serious to revert back to casual. No need to label anything, and no need to try figure out what she’s thinking, just go with it!
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:11 AM
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Regarding the last set, think about it from their perspective; random dude at the bar, friendly enough, nice conversation. What would it take for YOU to invite someone along?
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:08 AM
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A while back I got hurt by a girl and her friend, all in the same year. I went off to college and decided to change up my mindset. Also helped thst I’ve matured a lot. I suggest meditating and reading. I’m not talking about PUA stuff, I almost never read that.
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:03 PM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:03 PM
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Don’t message her. I’ve been down that road and it’s not pretty. Do yourself a favour and distance yourself as much as possible, while also trying to learn from the situation. These oneitis situations are where I’ve grown the most and learned the most.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:17 AM
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Man, I started the chapter on mirroring this behaviour sounds exactly like someone I know. Super good with big groups of people, very convincing, and a great negotiator. I only just realized he mirrors a lot. Crazy how some people have that naturally.
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:56 AM
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Tinder is fine for me in Canada
/r/seduction23/12/19 08:17 AM
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Lol are you looking for someone to nuture you and perpetuate your sad mindset? Take the advice or fuck off
/r/seduction16/12/19 10:33 AM
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Do it
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:03 AM
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If you want
/r/seduction15/12/19 04:46 AM
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holy fuck whats the trend here with bad grammar and being bad with girls
/r/seduction14/12/19 08:37 PM
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I think he’s talking hookups
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:50 PM
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lol are you searching for attention here
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:40 PM
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You’re fine
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:39 PM
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I try not to gauge interest over text, leads to overthinking
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:25 PM
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Ok lol
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:58 AM
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Sounds like you’re looking for justification to keep texting a girl that ghosted you and you’re afraid of looking weak
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:49 AM
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Not denying her that, just saying I’m not gonna go for it on the first date because I would take it slower.
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:17 PM
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The reason I ask this is because I went on a date with a girl who seems pretty innocent/inexperienced and I’m seeing her again soon. I felt like I should approach this differently than how I would a hookup. Thanks for the response man
/r/seduction11/12/19 11:27 AM
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You don’t seem busy, you’ve posted about her for over a month. Let it go man.
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:51 AM
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Normally I’d say just send the message, but I think you should actually listen to the advice everyone is giving you on your other posts.
/r/seduction11/12/19 10:46 AM
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Its just a thing
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:20 AM
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Fuck instagram
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:15 AM
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Yeah trying to punish a girl for something as small as this shows insecurity
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:14 AM
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Shoot her a DM
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:03 AM
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The overcompensation thing is so true, I see that on here ALL the time.
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:09 AM
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Honestly replying to stories isn’t really my style, Snapchat or Instagram (im 18 btw). Seems orbiter-esque. I’d hit her up directly, maybe open with asking her where you know her from. Don’t stress about “blowing it” or messing it up. Also, if it’s dull, there means there wasn’t much initial attraction and it was a bust regardless. If she’s happy to talk, could be worth going for. Don’t worry about coming off as creepy, not really an issue here since you guys sorta know each other.
/r/seduction10/12/19 07:39 AM
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Tell her a certain day works for you and she’ll pose alternatives
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:19 AM
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No lol its fine, dare I say it’s good to show emotion
/r/seduction09/12/19 02:34 AM
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Jesus. You need to use unnecessary hatred to try get over a girl? Fuck man have some respect for yourself
/r/seduction08/12/19 12:13 PM
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Use some punctuation
/r/seduction07/12/19 10:40 AM
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So many people guarding RSD bullshit with their life. Hilarious.
/r/seduction01/12/19 08:27 PM
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Nah you’re clearly salty about it
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:29 AM
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No need to be so negative man. Focus on yourself, don’t worry about who loses what.
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:26 PM
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you’re already caring too much man, and its probably showing through to her
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:56 AM
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This feels Brazilian
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:55 AM
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I’d say don’t count on it, but if she’s interested, it’ll happen. I’m honestly kinda reluctant to go out there and meet up with her because I’m lazy; it’s a whole lot easier to stay complacent. I’d imagine some of these girls feel the same way. Don’t wait on her, just get on with whatever you were doing and if it happens, it happens.
/r/seduction29/11/19 12:35 AM
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She doesn’t have a way of knowing. I myself would be more concerned with how I was conducting myself if I was acting like that. 50 approaches a day? That’s just sad.
/r/seduction25/11/19 09:36 AM
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Its the internet bruh make a new account or something lmao
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:02 AM
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Haha wtf
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:34 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:54 PM
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No use trying to find out what she’s thinking, that’s amateur hour
/r/seduction27/10/19 06:47 PM
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first figure out what you want out of this. Be more sure of yourself
/r/seduction27/10/19 02:02 PM
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then do something about it or stop wasting your time
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:48 PM
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Careful here. If you can’t go meet up with her irl, then you knew that coming into this post, and you wanted someone to tell you to keep texting her to “win” her over. Make the trek out there or its unlikely something will happen. Or meet in the middle. I’ve been down the rabbit hole of overtexting a girl and it didn’t go well whatsoever. I see a lot of the same starting conditions in your post. You’re consistently disqualifying yourself throughout the post (don’t think this is going to go anywh…
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:47 PM
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I don’t think she’s playing hard to get, just enjoys your attention and doesnt think it’s a good idea to enter something with you
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:30 PM
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Good read and nice tips
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:46 PM
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No
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:55 PM
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Huh Edit: oh yea i had hella convo with OP
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:00 AM
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Honestly works good to have someone in mind if you’re having trouble staying confident. Our brains work off metaphors and metaphors are essential for framing
/r/seduction22/10/19 05:17 PM
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Realize that there’s more to life than picking up girls
/r/seduction21/10/19 07:30 AM
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Lol telling yourself that you didnt notice is just the wrong way to go about it. You dont fake this shit, it just happens. Do whatever and dont care what you did.
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:13 AM
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Screams big ego, just text again and don’t give a fuck
/r/seduction15/10/19 12:49 AM
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This is exactly what brought me to seddit. I was obsessed over this one girl that eventually didn’t work out. 5 months later I’m so much better than I ever was.
/r/seduction14/10/19 04:35 PM
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Shouldnt have stood there awkwardly, just taken it on the chin, immediate response “ahh too bad for you then” while grinning. “Have a good night!”
/r/seduction14/10/19 04:14 PM
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keeping you on the line for validation prob, new girl
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:34 PM
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No point a lot of incels come on this sub
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:27 PM
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Ideal confidence comes from within.
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:26 PM
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Kino is powerful man... I’m telling you....
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:47 AM
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What the fuck are you guys talking about
/r/seduction05/10/19 03:39 AM
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Jimmy too friendly
/r/seduction05/10/19 03:31 AM
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Sorry i meant if she doesnt try to reschedule and its for an LTR shes not putting in enough effort
/r/seduction03/10/19 05:33 PM
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I think it really depends what you’re going for. If she does this but its for Casual/hookup? Backburner. For an LTR? Drop her
/r/seduction03/10/19 07:09 AM
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Id say try to come to terms with it first and let go of the anger before getting back out there. It’ll be better for you in the long run.
/r/seduction29/09/19 06:20 PM
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Incel
/r/seduction29/09/19 06:12 PM
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Casual sex, for now
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:23 PM
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i dont get
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:54 AM
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They find you attractive
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:48 AM
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First one sounds kinda salty if not said right
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:42 AM
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Yeah sure message me
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:12 PM
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Im intp as well. I totally get what you’re saying. Ive just gotten good at adapting to certain types of people (at parties and stuff). Also helps when im drunk
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:14 AM
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Wtf
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:58 AM
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Just be a familiar face and know all the guys in the crowe. Be fun
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:57 AM
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Do it
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:55 AM
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For me at uni, i know a few kids in different social groups. I get let into the parties, and socialize with everyone. Went to this party yesterday where I only knew one or two kids, and it was pretty rough. But i walked around, tried my best to talk to everyone, and introduced myself to everyone. The girls will be cold to you at first, but if you’re chill, the guys will be open to meeting you. Introduce yourself to everyone you can. Become a familiar face. At this party I didn’t get any girls sn…
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:51 AM
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They just wanna see if you’re normal
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:34 PM
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Hate when people try to boil this shit down to a science... “just cold approach all day and you’ll be fine”. Seriously nothing else going on in your life that you just go out all day trying to pick up girls? Worshipping RSD guys too, terrible
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:19 AM
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Wtf? Stop overthinking and go lmao
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:24 AM
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“i couldnt help myself” That is somethjng you should never say
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:22 AM
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Girls arent life guy
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:11 AM
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Or just not give a fuck, all those responses are such high effort
/r/seduction14/09/19 09:09 AM
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Grab a group of friends and start going out. Go have fun. Work on your self confidence and mental health before even thinking about approaching girls. Something helpful for conversation skills is to get comfortable in everyday situations with strangers i.e. cashier, bus driver, cab driver, waitress, etc Girls are not your focus (at least they shouldn’t be). Just be a well rounded, sociable guy and the rest will follow. People try too hard to break this down into a science (RSD videos, tip and tr…
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:34 PM
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Also was common in my hs. People just dont really talk about it
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:33 PM
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Text saying the same thing wouldve been just as good
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:27 PM
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Not immediately but instead of sending her a “hey how are you doing” just call and invite her out like you would a friend
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:57 PM
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Shouldve just called after you ended the convo
/r/seduction13/09/19 10:53 PM
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Honestly, not that clumsy. Not a let down, but nothing mind blowing. It was fun. I had fun doing it, I'd do it again. It was a little different than I expected but still good.
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:48 PM
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18
/r/seduction08/09/19 03:16 AM
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Ah i wasnt stressing over it, just cool to have done it. Thanks man
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:17 PM
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Rsd sucks
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:11 PM
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lol seriously dont overdo it, my posture got so good i looked like a robot. Chest out, shoulders back, but be relaxed
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:10 PM
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Seal the deal asap or stop thinking about
/r/seduction06/09/19 05:26 AM
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Keep working on yourself, for yourself
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:16 PM
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You say you want it to pan out to something meaningful, but then you say nothing long term. Huh? Expand your social circle
/r/seduction03/09/19 08:06 PM
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Yeah whatever you think will be chill. Good luck
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:03 PM
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Sure. Say something like, “Hey im going to X today, why dont you tag along”. Try to avoid stuff like “hey did you maybe wanna hang out today if you’re free?” Also for future reference dont make a habit of checking up on the girl too often, gives off a friend vibe
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:57 PM
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Ask her to hang out. Maybe not right this second; all I’m saying is skip a lot of the random convos and make your intention clear. Saves you a lot of time and helps keep you less invested
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:53 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:52 PM
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Asap
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:51 PM
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You probably didnt do anything wrong, dont be so quick to lay blame on yourself. Simple; low effort girl? Next
/r/seduction31/08/19 08:51 PM
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Yikes
/r/seduction31/08/19 10:38 AM
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this man is 35, reading the post i thought he was 14
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:07 AM
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You posted this a few weeks back too. Act on it already
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:03 AM
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stop caring so much about social media, and if you’re going to, use your own brain for this kind of shit
/r/seduction28/08/19 10:51 AM
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Sounds like a fake lol
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:29 PM
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that bridge one working just means you’re already good at talking to strangers. Good stuff man
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:01 AM
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Ask her out already. Friendship at the cost of your unhappiness... really?
/r/seduction18/08/19 04:30 AM
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Nice mentality, good luck man
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:12 AM
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Dont listen to that guy lol
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:38 PM
4

I just wish I was born better looking Doesn’t everyone? Stop crying
/r/seduction17/08/19 12:35 AM
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Read the sidebar, this question’s been asked a thousand times
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:25 PM
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Alright man whatever im just telling you how i’d deal with it lmao
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:52 PM
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You guys already know each other, no point beating around the bush and texting her right out of liking you. Call her or text her like u would one of your guy friends, simple “hey lets meet up today”. Not too much pressure. Dont label it a date ever. Let her do that kind of stuff. She’ll get the message when eventually you start trying to plan stuff later at night, more in advance, etc. Keep it simple and casual, can always take it further but very hard to dial it back.
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:21 PM
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high value to this girl Still fixated on what this girl thinks.. who gives a fuck? High value to himself, thats all that matters. The girl “shouldn’t” do anything, she doesnt owe him anything. Who gives a shit how he responds. Could send a bunch of random letters for all i care. Too much fixation on what this one girl thinks. Look at the bigger picture
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:11 PM
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keep your options open. If you’re high value it really doesnt phase you if some random girl decides to flake. Dont burn any bridges and now you have another number to hit up if you’re bored. To be thinking about whether you come off as “beta” is so counter intuitive. If you really have a good grasp on inner game, you can do whatever you feel like doing.
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:57 AM
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the numbers game i think is more about the fact that rejection from one girl really shouldn’t phase you that much because there are plenty of other girls who you could have genuine connections with, aka she’s not the only girl in the world
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:27 AM
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just say “alright no problem”. Keep it simple. Move onto other girls for a while, maybe shoot her a text in a week or two if she doesn’t contact you first. Dont overthink
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:25 AM
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Few lines back and forth of playful banter, “i recognize you from X” make a funny remark or joke Tell them “im going X on Y day, you should tag along” or “i’m at downtown on Y day, lets grab drinks/coffee etc”. Im 18 so i get that you probably cant get drinks. Just invite them out. Pm me if you need help
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:54 AM
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get to the point quicker is all. Dont let it die out since you guys barely know each other
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:42 AM
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hmm feel like money is involved somehow.. i dont have a coach or community and im doing just fine. This is a personal journey and hanging out with strangers while you’re trying to change yourself will just be uncomfortable. just find your own way, you keep your character and personality and it’s much more rewarding than paying for coaching unless you’re socially autistic
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:40 AM
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Just go lol
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:37 AM
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i agree with the other guy. Whats your goal? Why do you want her snapchat? If your goal is to go out with this person, instagram dms will work fine. I assume you want the snapchat to “work your way in” or to “woo” her. Almost never works and you just end up an orbiter. Be different
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:33 AM
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you made yourself into her emotional tampon and confided in her. Thats what friends do. Her ex came back into the picture and unfortunately she picked him. i wouldnt make a habit of opening up/receiving real personal problems and your deep personal life to sexual interests (at least not that early) Good on you for improving yourself, please don’t let this halt your progress or bring you down. It’s a fixable mistake (not for this girl, but for the future).
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:30 AM
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after her first two responses, just say, “I’ll be in downtown X day, how about we grab some drinks then”. “We should” sounds too passive for me imo. You also complimented her for no reason. Second text from you had no purpose (pointless rapport)
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:27 AM
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what do you have to gain from this other than free attention?
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:22 AM
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man i used to be like that (socially anxious, not diagnosed social anxiety). Its all about small steps. You keep doing small things and those small things become bigger over time. You break down your premonitions and fears about stuff that could happen to embarrass you or make you feel dumb. Those things really dont happen that often. Dont get me wrong, they still do. And it’s okay to be a little thrown off balance when it does. You get used to it when you put yourself in the middle of your fear…
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:21 AM
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i can tell you’re excited but heightened emotions like this apply for bad ones too; you’ll be pretty bummed if she left you on read or rejected you. don’t put so much energy into this girl, and more specifically stop texting her so much. Ask her out. Becoming her friend first does no one any favors. There’s no “winning her over” or trying to get her to like you. Of course there is getting her more comfortable with you, but i assume you guys already know each other. Read another comment of yours.…
/r/seduction15/08/19 11:10 AM
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Find whatever passion you want. Dont do it to appease women
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:33 AM
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quoting what she says lowkey weird. Assume shes talkin about you and just say “i’m free ___” no need to respond to everything she said
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:01 AM
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r/advanced_seddit
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:40 AM
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Adding some rules, flairs, and more structure.
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:19 AM
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Made one, r/advanced_seddit, feel free to pm me if you’re wanting to become a mod
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:06 AM
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Oops
/r/seduction06/08/19 08:31 PM
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Yeah for the second girl, she handed me her phone with her number on it, and I just blanked and only typed mine in. Third girl, I just choked and didn’t ask for hers.
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:58 PM
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Thanks for regurgitating every pickup book ever
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:38 PM
1

3% man and models by mark manson
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:34 PM
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Do you think I should leave the first one be?
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:33 PM
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Couldn’t do that for any of them. second girl, it was at night. Third girl she was working and i was with my friend. I get the gist of what you’re saying
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:33 PM
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I dont really have any interest on posting on instagram rn, i feel like its a waste of time. Pretty happy with everything on there now so ill just leave it. Thanks for the advice man
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:31 PM
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No i have, it only helped bring it out more
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:28 PM
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Yeah pretty much
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:24 PM
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Yeah i have instagram and i use snapchat frequently. I just deleted the app. I have followers and photos, etc. Ill redownload it
/r/seduction06/08/19 11:56 AM
1

You want to get laid. That’s your justification for trying.
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:26 AM
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You just overthought a long convoluted excuse. I asked you, if you’re so set in your ways, why did you make this post?
/r/seduction03/08/19 05:32 PM
2

Should’ve been like, “You like wine?” If she says yes, “Great, lets go have some wine back at mine”. If that’s too forward, phrase it differently, “I’m gonna go have a glass of wine at my place, why don’t you come with”.
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:16 AM
3

5th blue text was nice
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:06 AM
1

Why are you worried about trying then?
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:05 AM
1

I agree with this. Also i would consider getting a different cut of shirt, that one seems to cut in at the waist. Looser cut shirt will make him look a little less slim when unbuttoned. A white tee reaching the 3-4 inches below his belt loops, and switch out to black pants for good measure that just barely touch the tops of his shoes. I’d avoid black shoes in this situation.
/r/seduction02/08/19 03:31 PM
1

For me these texts read kind of needy. I would’ve left it at the first text, and followed up after she got back.
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:54 AM
1

His post history says he’s 27. Weird.
/r/seduction31/07/19 11:18 AM
1

Girls dont like you to be perfect, hiding your imperfections makes you come off as canned and fake.
/r/seduction31/07/19 09:42 AM
6

Weird lying about your age to game high schoolers
/r/seduction31/07/19 09:40 AM
1

Corey Wayne
/r/seduction30/07/19 08:46 AM
1

Good on you man. Take action!
/r/seduction30/07/19 08:35 AM
1

Definitely. On the same journey mysef
/r/seduction30/07/19 05:03 AM
14

Theres more to come, keep it up
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:48 AM
2

Man was misunderstood :(
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:46 AM
2

No, if she purposely doesnt mention it to one specific person its kinda obvious
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:31 AM
2

Uhh what
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:18 AM
4

always comes up with an excuse not to go out Drop it
/r/seduction29/07/19 12:09 AM
3

how do you expect advice if you gave literally no information? you want us to text for you?
/r/seduction28/07/19 10:29 PM
1

Do it if you want, don’t do it if you don’t
/r/seduction24/07/19 04:49 AM
5

Dont know if something serious is the move, she was lining something up before she even broke it off. If you can keep your emotions under wraps fwb will serve you good but be aware that you’re effectively her rebound You’re fine If shes getting up close to you, then just go for it. There isn’t really a right time
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:49 AM
1

you’re overthinking, chill out
/r/seduction23/07/19 06:43 AM
1

Tall insecure guy is bad. Short insecure guy is even worse.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:01 AM
4

Lol
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:06 AM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:37 PM
1

Women dont want someone pitying themselves constantly
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:32 PM
1

I mean you’re an involuntary celibate by definition but so is pretty much every virgin. i dont think you fall within the “incel” category if you know what i mean
/r/seduction19/07/19 08:10 PM
3

Good book. Brought me out of depression. Still watch that guy’s videos or read the book when i feel down and it always helps. While he doesn’t talk about self improvement outright, after watching his videos and reading his book enough, you start to get a real good sense of the outlook and attitude he’s communicating. Highly recommended.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:17 AM
7

you still sound like an incel man. I can feel the self pity and self deprecation coming off your comment Posting in r/short and r/foreveralone will not help you. i know what it feels like, you just want to feel like you’re not the only one in your situation. It’s comforting, yeah, but almost too comforting. By complaining and whining on those subs, you surround yourself with other complaining and whining and it makes you feel more hopeless. I believe in you man. Make some real changes to your at…
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:12 AM
2

i think they honestly all have potential to be greater, but they have this toxic mindset that’s holding them back. The mindset being one of hatred of women, and also a fear of women. They feel they’ve been pitted against the world, that it’s unfair to them, nothing ever goes their way, etc. Very hopeless attitude. Little desire to improve and/or motivation.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:11 AM
1

This would all be fine if you didnt text your last 2-3 texts and set up a date to meet instead
/r/seduction18/07/19 09:22 PM
3

Stop caring.
/r/seduction18/07/19 07:39 PM
2

What are you trying to say Edit: yikes you’re talking about child porn
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:28 AM
1

Confidence
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:45 AM
1

Ask her when you get back
/r/seduction17/07/19 08:44 AM
1

Wouldn’t look into it that hard, she made the effort to contact you again. Just put it on the backburner for now and game other girls. If you’re having a slow week a week or two from now maybe hit her up
/r/seduction16/07/19 07:24 AM
7

wheres the infield sextape
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:59 AM
1

The problem is that you’re thinking that you need to be the one carrying the conversation. A conversation goes both ways, they have to contribute just as much as you do.
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:56 AM
1

What happened to the cuban girl
/r/seduction15/07/19 08:47 AM
9

Ask her out
/r/seduction15/07/19 08:44 AM
3

The “Hi i thought you were cute” singles her out and puts her on the spot. Also excludes her friend. You could’ve gone like “Hey, I just saw you and had to come up and say hi, what’s your name?” Shake hands with both. You said you didn’t have anything to say, but you had plenty. The key is to use your surroundings. You’re at a fair! “Have you tried x food?”, “have you played x game?” Is it good? Was it fun? Joke around, go on a ride with them or something, try out some food, play some games. If …
/r/seduction15/07/19 08:38 AM
5

Ignore it, probably was just looking for attention in the moment
/r/seduction14/07/19 11:39 AM
5

Need to go further man. 5-6 dates with only a kiss could definitely cause a girl who’s attracted to you to lose interest. Sounds like shes getting a little pissed you haven’t done anything more
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:08 AM
1

How’d it go?
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:06 AM
2

Have you escalated at all?
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:02 AM
4

she left him with her drink while she went to go talk with her friends, big disrespect
/r/seduction14/07/19 06:47 AM
1

There's a few things to address here: 1 I’m scared of rejection because I just am afraid of being called creepy (even more-so in the Me Too America) or being called gross or girls making fun of me for liking them Are you creepy? If a girl calls you creepy, why do you care? You know you're not creepy, so it doesn't matter. That's like if somebody called you racist and you thought to yourself "wow, maybe I am racist". Anyone respectable will not call you gross or make fun of you for liking them. T…
/r/seduction14/07/19 06:39 AM
1

You're 21, I don't think confessing your feelings toward her will go too well, that would work in high school maybe (not even). You need to be confident. I suggest reading books like Corey Wayne's "How to Be a 3% Man" and Mark Manson's "Models". ​ Why are you scared? Are you scared of rejection? I used to be the same way. I would get a crush on a girl and wait forever to try anything because I was scared. Then, it got me thinking... scared of what? And why was I scared? ​ The way I looked at it,…
/r/seduction14/07/19 06:25 AM
5

Sounds like nothing really happened, good or bad. Just make your move next time and dont stress
/r/seduction14/07/19 05:33 AM
7

You could be overreacting/overanalyzing. Just step away for a few days
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:27 AM
1

She flirting pretty hard
/r/seduction13/07/19 09:17 AM
7

Its just your attitude and lack of confidence
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:25 PM
2

Sounds like its out of 3% man
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:36 PM
13

Dont ask what’s up. She already put herself out there by asking for your number, she probably is purposely delaying her responses in order to not seem desperate/needy. If the date goes well, just act unfazed and dont change anything about how you text her.
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:50 AM
2

Creepy lmao, sounds okay on paper but idk how this would play out irl
/r/seduction12/07/19 04:39 AM
2

Sounds like self loathing
/r/seduction11/07/19 08:57 AM
2

Take a step back and think about if one of your buddies asked you this
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:27 AM
1

focus on trying to get numbers, not getting numbers. Its the process you need to focus on
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:25 AM
3

Shes cheating
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:23 AM
2

I wouldn’t smoke, i find it inhibits my ability to be socially normal
/r/seduction11/07/19 02:32 AM
2

Watch the teeth
/r/seduction10/07/19 10:41 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cb6jgj/i_tried_approaching_a_hot_girl_at_the_mall/?st=JXXLGVB2&sh=eda466a0 Uhhhhh
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:46 PM
11

Maybe shes just oblivious to what you’re asking. Say you meant just you two, if she resists then its a no
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:36 AM
5

Maybe dont confirm it outright, a little reminder the day before or the day of, like “don’t forget to bring ____ for tomorrow” or “I’ll be there at 4”/“ill be there in 30 mins” If she shows up to a date with no confirmation then it means she was pretty interested to begin with, thats my guess on where the no contact thing originated from
/r/seduction10/07/19 04:33 AM
8

If you’re attracting girls off the street like that you’ll have no issue when you fix your confidence issues, dont worry about it man
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:58 AM
2

Thats not the way to do it man, it comes off as creepy when you follow people around like that
/r/seduction10/07/19 12:57 AM
1

Nothing to see here officer
/r/seduction09/07/19 11:04 PM
2

Fbi open up
/r/seduction09/07/19 10:17 PM
2

Kind of neither, just playful. Shouldve just went forward with confirming the date after her last text
/r/seduction09/07/19 06:47 PM
1

Talk with the guy as well
/r/seduction09/07/19 05:54 PM
1

This. Once you see results and feel progress in your lifts its crazy addicting.
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:33 AM
3

Like one week shes all over you next week shes back w him. Dont overinvest into these types of girls, sounds like a headache
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:31 AM
1

Def shouldve
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:30 AM
4

Tread carefully with girls fresh out of relationships, can go hot/cold any second
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:27 AM
3

Why does the title not match the post
/r/seduction08/07/19 07:19 AM
2

Well the diet and workout are pretty much independent. Weightlifting programs can be used on a cut (caloric deficit) to lose weight and build muscle at once. Definitely check out Reddit PPL and the r/Fitness wiki to get a good grasp on beginner stuff. I found just after a few days in the gym, I started to love it, it was a challenge.
/r/seduction08/07/19 03:34 AM
2

Well the gym wasn’t why you were losing weight. I suggest you try out a weightlifting program such at Reddit PPL (you can search it). I’ve used it for a while and seen good results. You also need to get your diet and sleep in order. Make sure you’re eating enough.
/r/seduction08/07/19 03:27 AM
1

Could be perceived as platonic
/r/seduction08/07/19 03:23 AM
6

I know this gets said a lot but once I started going to the gym, I felt a lot more confident (I had put on some weight), and more girls started taking notice of me, probably because of the confidence and not the gym
/r/seduction08/07/19 03:21 AM
8

Women often have options and men usually don’t
/r/seduction07/07/19 11:35 PM
7

Do it, you’re all set
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:53 AM
1

Its not different, you just think it’s different with strangers/girls. If you don’t have a problem with humor with your friends, try to let go and treat her like a close friend. Your energy will be much more relaxed and she’ll be receptive to it. Just be yourself, kind of the easiest thing to do
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:38 AM
5

Nothing to do, just see if she responds.
/r/seduction05/07/19 09:09 AM
48

Yeah honestly that shit gets to your head sometimes, i know it does for me. Just act as you normally would, you could’ve held onto the drink and just went and talked to other people, and she would’ve came and found you
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:41 AM
1

legend
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:31 AM
5

Get her out on a date dont try to win her over on snap or text
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:39 AM
5

its the jacket broski I wouldnt bring you around my girl
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:07 PM
6

Leather jacket = bad boy
/r/seduction04/07/19 06:48 PM
3

Kinda not the place imo
/r/seduction04/07/19 06:42 PM
12

What i wouldve done is make eye contact, then give her a playful nod/cock your head up (idk what to call that but its common) and a smile. Maybe raise your phone up and pretend to dial playfully. If she nods/acknowledges it go over there and get her number and make small talk: ask her name, etc 10m in a train full of people would make for an uncomfortable situation if she responded poorly to your approach (you’d have to waddle your way back to your spot). This way it’s playful and more interesti…
/r/seduction04/07/19 11:39 AM
3

Your immediate intentions (to kiss her) should be obvious through your use of kino.
/r/seduction04/07/19 03:08 AM
7

That double text was disastrous Edit: triple
/r/seduction04/07/19 02:42 AM
3

Good shit
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:52 PM
1

You’re overthinking it man! She seems pretty interested. I’d suggest just chill a bit and let it play out. Feel free to pm me
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:28 PM
1

Well does she keep trying to start conversations a lot? You shouldn’t be texting this girl every day, shows you have nothing better to do. If what she said does not warrant a response, then dont respond
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:25 PM
1

Yea confirm today. Dont text until day of date, build some suspense considering you’ve already been texting
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:24 PM
3

You’re overthinking this very hard
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:16 PM
8

Yeah you pursued it too hard. Don’t ask for closure or hit her up again, just leave it.
/r/seduction03/07/19 10:06 AM
1

That’s sad. Props on number closing though, im sure it felt great
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:58 AM
1

She seems pretty interested to me. Was in this situation. Show her around your hometown if she’s not familiar. Planning in advance isn’t too bad, considering she seems attracted already and it’ll get her looking forward to it.
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:54 AM
3

You should start being more assertive. Stuff like “i can pick you up” or giving her the days and the options to pick, isn’t helping you too much.
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:51 AM
2

r/orthotropics
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:24 AM
1

Bad move saying that over text.
/r/seduction02/07/19 08:43 PM
5

Don’t take advice from girls. It all depends on how you say it. If you say it with absolute confidence it’ll probably go smoothly
/r/seduction02/07/19 01:53 AM
2

You’re fine. Just go. A lot of people aren’t very good at showing emotion over text (it’s hard, i have trouble with it myself). You’ll be good
/r/seduction01/07/19 10:21 PM
2

Ease off your drinking little by little
/r/seduction01/07/19 07:14 AM
2

Just do it.
/r/seduction01/07/19 07:14 AM
1

I prefer the waist option, its easier to gauge whether she wants it or not. But like the other guy it should be obvious you’re going to kiss her. Set the tone by establishing physical contact from when you first see her. That way it’s not really out of place when you kino throughout the night.
/r/seduction01/07/19 12:38 AM
2

Just deflect it. If she asks any types of those questions, any variation of “Haven’t decided yet”, “Hmm I don’t know”, “I’m not sure” will work as long as you say it playfully
/r/seduction01/07/19 12:16 AM
18

Thats ok
/r/seduction30/06/19 11:28 PM
1

thats because you still care so much about approval from dating apps. Be a whole person before you try to let someone in on your life
/r/seduction29/06/19 06:13 PM
1

There are less confident guys, less confident people will be more likely to flirt with less attractive people
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:17 AM
7

Thats just false
/r/seduction28/06/19 10:18 PM
1

You’re good. Don’t put a label on anything.
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:02 AM
6

He’s just insecure and is searching for some kind of magic bullet
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:24 AM
1

Look man, when the head’s on the shoulder, she’s pretty much asking for it. Stop mid conversation, if the topic is not too high energy, and just look at her until she looks you in the eyes. Glance at her lips for a second, then look back up at her eyes. I like to say “come here” or “wait”, then just lean in slowly and go for it. You need to go in for it confidently.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:01 AM
1

I see a pattern, id say its the cigs
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:58 AM
4

You’re fine. Don’t ask her how she feels. Just set up another time to hang out
/r/seduction27/06/19 11:46 AM
13

You’ve done all you can. Ball’s in her court
/r/seduction27/06/19 03:58 AM
1

Don’t apologize, just hit her up again asking to hang out, say you’ve been busy if she asks or if you can weave it in there
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:03 PM
1

Man you did everything you can! Congrats btw, big first step. You keep saying “this is the first 10/10 I’ve had a chance with”, as if this is your only chance. It’s not. You got one, you can get more
/r/seduction24/06/19 03:03 PM
1

your point was his age, not whether he’s smashing on his birthday
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:08 AM
2

Sounds like you already know what you need to do
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:03 AM
3

If they’re not into you trying to show interest then you need to find other girls who are interested in something a little more serious
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:01 AM
13

Depends on his time of birth bruh
/r/seduction24/06/19 04:00 AM
29

The goal of walking away is to do just that, walk away. You’re not walking away with the goal of winning her back with your distance. You’re walking away to keep yourself from dealing with that headache and moving on with your life
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:46 AM
1

Thanks man!
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:26 AM
2

Don’t beat yourself up over it. You didn’t do anything too bad, just kinda missed an obvious chance.
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:20 AM
1

Appreciate it man. It’s legal in my country so likely indoor grown and qc’d pretty good. I’ll look into a vaporizer but if I’m being honest with you I’ll probably keep smoking intermittently.
/r/seduction24/06/19 01:16 AM
1

Thankfully you’re not her. Don’t stress. Why do you want to chase this girl so badly? You don’t need to.
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:28 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction24/06/19 12:16 AM
25

Read Corey Wayne’s “How to be a 3% Man”, starting going to the gym regularly, fixing my diet and bulking up a bit, investing more time into my hobbies and passions. Began being assertive, knowing what I wanted and executing it. I made myself the priority. In terms of specifics like conversation and teasing girls, you need to have a very good sense of humor. What I mean by that is knowing what’s too far, what’s pushing it, and what’s just boring. Naturally, I’ve always been pretty good at convers…
/r/seduction23/06/19 11:43 PM
1

Not really. Another text; you look needy. Let it sit; probably no reply, since what you said doesn’t really warrant a reply. But still, best to let it sit and move on. If she’s interested she’ll find you
/r/seduction23/06/19 10:11 PM
6

I always just smoked out of habit, because I did it at every party. I’m gonna stop now though, its a social inhibitor for sure. I had one of the best nights of my life last night social-wise I find the same effects, I’d end up off somewhere talking to my close friends about some crazy shit.
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:39 PM
2

The first option makes it seem like you’re planning your week around her. The second option makes it clear you’re DECIDING the let her in on your life and communicates a higher status feel.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:31 PM
5

After she recommended the shows, you should’ve been like “Im about to go pick up a bottle of wine right now, you in?”. Other responses were dry but everything else was decent. If she said nah (to that specific night! because remember, you’re picking up the bottle of wine), just say “alright, give me a text if you change your mind) and carry on with your day. If she said sure, you know what to do
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:19 PM
7

It’s going to be hard. You can certainly meet new people without technology, but especially where we are right now, and given your age, it’s extremely difficult.
/r/seduction23/06/19 06:18 PM
1

Pm me
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:53 PM
1

Its situational, you gotta learn how to feed off of things on the spot and make funny references about it. an improv class could be good to help with this skill
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:39 PM
1

This has to be in florida
/r/seduction23/06/19 12:37 PM
3

fuck off
/r/seduction23/06/19 02:03 AM
3

Let it sit and dont overthink it. Maybe you were too quick, maybe you were too slow, maybe you should’ve asked her at work. Too late to worry about any of that. If she’s interested she’ll get back to you
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:20 AM
3

all depends on how you say it, your body language, the tonality, etc. But also i feel like getting hit on by an employee in a restaurant would be weird af
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:53 AM
1

Wtf are you gonna do if you’re not attractive? Not much can be done to change that. Displaying confidence and having high self confidence is the best thing that can be done, stop whining
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:46 AM
2

Its possible, but of course it’s easier to have better self confidence when you’re looking your best, right? Just search Reddit PPL for the workout plan. If you’re not too comfortable in the gym yet, perhaps try Greyskull LP (also on Reddit).
/r/seduction22/06/19 07:08 AM
5

If you’re already skinny its not too hard to get to a decent level of muscle mass and definition within 2-3 months (make that like 6-12 months if you really want to bulk up). I do a slightly modified reddit PPL and have seen good results since April. If you have low body fat to begin with, its not too hard.
/r/seduction22/06/19 06:53 AM
1

Just don’t put so much weight on the little things.
/r/seduction21/06/19 08:02 PM
2

What? Did you not read anything the guy just said? You’re overreacting.
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:27 PM
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