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QUEEN SH*Tleadmemories/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:49 AM
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NAH, SISleadmemories/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:06 PM
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NAH, SISleadmemories/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:28 PM
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this is terrifying. i hope she leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:18 AM
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yup! 👏🏼 one of my coworkers isn’t a jerk, but does the bare minimum and expects everyone else to make up for his lack of work. I’m sure he’d give the same attitude/energy in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:32 PM
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this is nothing compared to the guy who spoke in baby talk to his wife for nearly a year- to the point where she thought he had brain damage but it ended up being a bet for a signed baseball or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:32 AM
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& that commenter literally means the cost of 1 cup of coffee because they’ll be showing up late to make sure the women buys her own. ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:53 AM
82

Definitely - all relationships, not just romantic. I’ve had guys I’m not dating (or some I don’t even know) tell me not to wear heels because I’m already tall. Lol sorry bout it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:16 PM
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the last time i was out with a group of ladies i somewhat knew, we would occasionally talk about dating and expectations. everything we were saying echos fds so i was pleasantly surprised. i don’t think i’ll ever refer to fds by its name as i don’t know who around me uses reddit, but i’ll continue to share the overall message of self worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:42 AM
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We’ve all had our eyes opened. And once opened, you realize how shut they were. watched it last night & this quote stuck out- had to write it down. reminded me of fds and things i put up with in the past. my eyes are open now and forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:10 AM
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this reminds me of a post where a woman said she was stood up and the dude’s excuse was he “accidentally mopped himself into a corner and had to wait for it to dry” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:29 AM
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so true. i went through an “am i asexual?” phase when i was just no longer attracted to my bf for basically being his new mom after moving in together. and then an “am i demisexual?” phase after a guy i was seeing treated me like a blow up doll. kind of sad that i thought i was the issue all along; the conditioning/brainwashing we go through as women is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:10 PM
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yup. this week in boston area there was a man reported for going around telling women their car was leaking oil in an attempt to distract and abduct them. I’ll be a bitch if it means safety any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:08 AM
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Women have to unfortunately keep in mind that there’s predators out there looking for single mothers with young children to abuse. & Men want someone else to take care of their children so they don’t have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:35 PM
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Sorry babe, the coin flipped to my name and since that means I get to call the shots, it looks like you get to move out tonight 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:00 PM
193

This is so fucked up. I’ll remember to tell the next guy who attempts to assault me that he should just enjoy it when my self defense weapon becomes inevitable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:08 PM
43

sleeps with him after he says this DAYS after stabbing his friend 🤔 cmon girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:47 AM
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I’m at just over a year without the apps and it’s been great. Whenever I think I miss being on them, I happen to see screenshots on here or from friends and it reinforces the reason why I deleted them in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:38 PM
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I haven’t dated during the pandemic so I can’t answer as to where quality dates are held during this. However if he asked you out to dinner, backed out, and then suggested a walk… it definitely sounds like he’s just trying to be cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:54 PM
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god I would love to see an update saying that she dumped him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:15 AM
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“and then I bought them all new toothbrushes and their girlfriends some feminine products” 🙃 what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:05 AM
27

men refuse to buy feminine products when we’re in need, but won’t hesitate to buy adult diapers to humiliate us. scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:23 AM
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ya know i didn’t think of this.. probably because i’ve only had to block people that have done something wrong for me to do so- but you’re completely right and I’ll have to try to remember this more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:00 PM
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i didn’t turn off my phone because i was texting my friend the whole time for support, and when the response came an hour later i only opened it because i hate seeing red notifications on my apps 🙃 even if you turn off your phone you’ll have to read it eventually.. the response i got ended up making me feel better- he said he was “gunna cancel anyway” LOL okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:14 PM
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hey, I’m exactly like you in this. it hurts my stomach making people upset/disappointed (thanks parents). i had a date set up that i was dreading and decided to message him i wasn’t up for it anymore so it wouldn’t work out. i had to prepare for 30 min before sending it and then when his reply came in i basically read it through squinted eyes. but i did it and didn’t have to sit through the date. going to try to just say no right away now and avoid the stress that follows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:55 PM
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Thank you for sharing, this guy is trash. Though I can’t help but feel nervous now about the first red flag. It’s clear this man chose to live the endless bachelor life.. but if I end up staying single/never married/no kids because I never settle, will I eventually be a red flag for that fact alone? This thought makes me feel slightly rushed again :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:21 PM
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thinking about how i was nearly 25 before realizing this is not a me problem. was taught to take care of everyone before myself, and my main sexual duty was just to get the guy off. can’t count how many times i felt obligated to do things or even apologize for leaving some dude with bLuE BaLLs. fuck that i don’t care anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:28 AM
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“roll in society” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:30 AM
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rejection is part of life. we women get rejected and in turn reject a lot as well. of course it hurts and always will. time passes and it hurts less. it helps to take up your time doing things you enjoy so you don’t sit around and dwell. try not to build people up/get crushes. easier said than done.. i know. focus on leveling up. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 01:14 AM
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I tried this as I was in a similar situation. It backfired on me hard and I wasted a damn year on this lvm cause I caught feelings. Obviously my fault but this could happen to you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:40 AM
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honestly this sounds more like a fantasy he had rather than real life.. but either way yeah a definite block 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:47 AM
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then consider me happily lost in the sauce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:28 AM
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solitude is bliss 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:41 AM
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yes! 👏🏼 I’m 2 months away from a full year of no contact and though it’s gotten so much easier, sometimes I still get the urge to see what he’s up to - I haven’t checked cause I know it’ll just make me feel worse. Low key embarrassed I’m not over it 100% yet..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:09 PM
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where’s the scam 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:38 PM
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That comparison to a parasite is gold. Saving it, thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:04 PM
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for him, the point is shooting his shot to get laid.. i know someone who would text to meet up with all the girls he knew in a city when visiting so he’d have a better chance of someone saying yes 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:02 PM
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yup!! thinking back on it, i think i started truly enjoying life around age 26.. and it’s gotten better every year 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:56 PM
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A car stopped by me on my walk home and he offered to give a ride because I, too “made eye contact and smiled at him.” Am I to look down where I walk with a straight face? Sorry I was in a great mood, bro - and I was smiling at the world.. thanks for ruining that though. We really can’t win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:42 PM
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oh girl.. as an OLD user since 2014, i went through many rounds of attempting to quit. you will get there 💪🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:57 AM
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to reward inconsistency with unavailability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:58 PM
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one year free of OLD and absolutely loving the peace of mind 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:04 PM
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She told any man whose last girlfriend broke up with them to ‘please leave because I completely trust her judgment.’ Amazing 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:59 PM
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could you write a tldr? i want to read it but there’s a paywall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:15 AM
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I’ve been convenient for far too long, but been making some real progress since last December. Thank you for this reminder 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:16 AM
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oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:17 PM
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So far, I’m finding it easier to handle panic attacks or even prevent them sometimes- and my triggers now make me feel more indifferent than upset/emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 12:39 AM
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Yes! I’ve been going to therapy for 6 years and just started EMDR a couple months ago- already seeing improvements ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:21 AM
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this has been my problem forever. i started really working on it last december and have come a long way, but still have some trouble enforcing boundaries. reading “the art of showing up” is helping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:46 AM
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my god is there actually something called “choreplay” 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:56 AM
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one of my favorite posts I remember ever reading on reddit. also was glad to see the comments rightfully ripping him to shreds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:04 AM
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last time i was polite, he wouldn’t leave my side for 30 minutes and then followed me home on two separate occasions until i yelled at him. so hmm 🤔 this girl can fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:24 PM
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wow @ the way he calls her pregnancy just being “fat as shit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:08 AM
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more savings results in more dates! and more rejections lol. under $3? get outta here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:01 AM
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glad to see in her edit she isn’t backing down to the people giving her shit for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:26 PM
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Found my friend’s bf of 3 years on a dating app. Showed her the profile on the app itself. She stopped talking to me because he accused me of trying to break them up. They ended up breaking up a year later. No loss for me ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:06 PM
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They don’t see your lady parts as something beautiful Growing up surrounded by this attitude is no doubt why it took me almost 30 years to be comfortable with mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:59 AM
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the therapy one tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:25 PM
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yeah, I used it off and on between 2014 and 2020. I’m burnt out, probably forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:49 AM
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Too short for me as well.. But how long was his last relationship? More importantly- has he ever been single long term or is he codependent? Would tread lightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:40 AM
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same. it took me too long to realize this 😞 but at least we know now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:19 AM
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exactly. if a woman posted that story, everyone would be attacking her and calling her a gold digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:35 AM
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apps are also full of narcissists in my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:42 AM
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I’m turning 29 in a couple months and feel like a I could’ve written this exact post. I love your energy and we are going to crush our goals this year 👏🏼💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:03 PM
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agreed! immediately saved it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:48 PM
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i tend to build people up and think of all the things that could happen as well 😓 please let me know if you know how to stop that cause it seems to be my biggest weakness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:04 AM
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i was waiting for this one. so accurate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:00 AM
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I’m sure he’d love receiving a jigsaw puzzle in a ps5 box
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:36 PM
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this brings up a good question- i know we should not approach men/ask them out and never propose etc. so is saying i love you first also a no? I’m feeling like that’s another good rule. she found out real quick that this dude is apparently waiting to see if he can get more/other girls when “normal life” returns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:39 PM
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this shit happened to me a year ago. he said after a month to me, “oh i have a girlfriend of 4 years btw.” then was mad when i said i didn’t want to be friends. lol fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:15 PM
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available for booty calls 24/7 lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:09 AM
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i still see posts about men enjoying getting compliments so much and it down right confuses me because it makes me feel guilty if they truly don’t get compliments but then I’m like .. then they feel like I’m possibly hitting on them or they’re entitled to me? idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:11 AM
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wonder if a pre-nup would be non negotiable for him if he started dating someone with a shit ton of money lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:53 AM
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been reading a lot of shitty things all over reddit lately so i appreciate this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:50 AM
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what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:09 AM
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from absolutely everything i’ve read within this reddit- there IS no way to spot some.. that’s why it’s so scary. we just need to be ready to support ourselves financially and mentally if the moment arises where we do sadly find out that our HVM after 5, 10, whatever years.. turns out not to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:45 PM
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recently stumbled upon this instagram account and everything they post is gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:17 AM
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right? and we know he’d never watch her do something for hours and hype it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:37 PM
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gross. a joke gift? more like he wants his coworker to think of him when/if she uses it. i hope the coworker is creeped out cause she should be and i want this guy to feel shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:41 PM
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“If I have to ask you for anything, then I might as well just ask you to leave” 🔥 YESSSS I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:42 PM
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that’s what your place together would look like unless you cleaned up after him like a maid so why even bother continue dating at that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:27 AM
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the one person who attempted to check in with me went on about how his life was miserable.. probably in hopes of sympathy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:47 AM
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he let the bill sit on the table for 30 minutes.. that must have been a fun half hour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:32 AM
1

loving this analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:01 AM
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maybe the waitress was hot and he was trying to impress her and leave his number but got embarrassed instead lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:10 AM
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right? this guy is probably referring to himself being rejected after a cold approach 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:04 AM
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I feel like he’d have no friends if they knew he did this to pictures of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:58 AM
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Thank you. Sometimes my self-esteem is sky high.. and other times it’s not. It’s never low like it used to be, I just wish I could keep it from bouncing back and forth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:23 AM
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he’ll need a week at the cabin to process the actual birth 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:17 AM
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I never realized until seeing this post that this happens so often and isn’t necessary.. shows how much I have been conditioned to just be used to things and not question it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:23 PM
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kick him out of the hospital room, then kick him out of the house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:52 PM
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i agree. somehow it’s the one the hurt me the most because i built up this huge connection via apps. but whatever, another lesson. now i know i deserve much better. you do too ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:51 PM
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this sounds like someone i unfortunately crossed paths with. he would purposely match with girls far away and use that as the reason he can’t meet up even after seeming so interested in doing so. truthfully he doesn’t even want to try to make it work. just likes the game and the attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:30 PM
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For a while I thought I wanted closure with a guy I meant nothing to. I know now that if I had ended up seeing him again, I would’ve been strung along for even longer. Closure came in time and always will. Never gonna hesitate to block & delete ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:55 PM
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They can even do this online. Matching with absolutely everyone, mass snapping all the girls in their list, or coming back after ghosting are ways for them to validate their worth by using our attention. Excellent post - thank you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:47 PM
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Yes omg so accurate lol. Sad to say I have been one of those women 🤦🏼‍♀️ Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:56 PM
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there seems to be a scene of these guys that call themselves “dads” despite not having kids. when they grill, wear socks w sandals, or tell dad jokes, they literally refer to themself as a dad. yet they would be the worst father if they actually had kids.. wtf is up with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:20 PM
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Yup. This from either side is not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:10 PM
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One day I came across a Key and Peele sketch that introduced me to masturbation. I can’t 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:57 AM
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I had a time/date/place scheduled with a guy and he still stood me up lol.. they’ll go to any lengths to tear random women down and it’s pathetic. Their loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:02 PM
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“Chances are he isn’t imagining himself having sex with the girl in the video, he’s probably wanking and thinking of your sexual encounters” LOL OK 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:38 PM
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I think they almost prefer us faceless. This breaks my heart because I think you’re right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:34 PM
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Finding yourself is going to take time. But it’ll be great. I wish traveling was possible right now, because that helped me immensely. But other than that- just doing things alone helps me continue to “find myself.” Self-reflecting in peace on any thought I have when watching TV, listening to music, grocery shopping, etc. If it’s hobbies you’re trying to find, look around until something sounds interesting and try it. Don’t be afraid to do it alone. This is the best thing I learned and sometimes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:34 AM
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In college, a guy wanted to take my roommate out. She said sure, but only if her friend (me) could join as it would make her more comfortable. He agreed and made reservations for hibachi- paid for both of our dinners no question. Once I witnessed that, I knew men would do it if they could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:10 PM
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I’m slightly over 6ft when I wear my boots/heels and I always feel on top of the world. A guy I briefly talked to told me he didn’t feel comfortable with me wearing shoes like that cause he was 5’11”. Dropped that real quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:57 AM
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yes thank you queen! when ever i feel the slightest urge to stupidly reminisce on my recent lvm- i come to this sub. it’s never failed me. may our inner peace be forever growing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:52 AM
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instead of regulars he should see a therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:42 AM
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😳 wtf. i read this too quick and thought it was 5 hours a day. even that though i was like wow he can’t even handle being with his own child. but ONCE A WEEK!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:43 PM
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agreed. if you’re asking “is my SO an LVM” then he probably is :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:39 AM
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red food dye (like for icing) works just as well 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:41 AM
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“You think I’m not a goddess? Try me. This is a torch song. Touch me and you’ll burn.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:11 AM
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love this! reminds me of the love languages as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:46 PM
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wow fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:05 PM
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Starting to feel like MGTOW is a big fake out where they’re just going their own way because they want women to realize we’re helpless without them. Plot twist- it ain’t gonna happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:00 PM
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I told some friends on a road trip when I started to first realize something wasn’t right.. they said it’s normal and what we’re supposed to do (16 at the time). Told my mom a year after telling my friends and she said same happened to her and she got over it. They made me think I was overreacting and made me doubt if it was actually that big of an issue if an issue at all.. doubted myself for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:26 AM
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Kick him out PLEASEEE!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:53 AM
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yet if she complained about him not helping her, everyone would call her a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:19 PM
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I used to like being hit or choked because it masked the pain I felt from penetration. Didn’t realize til recently that it hurt because there was no foreplay and it went in dry.. Never letting any of that happen again x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:27 PM
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Also can be costly. I had to pay $150/month for the pill until I got a job with better insurance 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 02:16 AM
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these OLD screen shots successfully keep me off the apps so keep em comin 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:11 PM
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men can’t bother to pay $50 for dinner but will toss you this as a grocery store test? LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:35 PM
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wow. sounds like he wants to be educated on how he can do the most damage without having to pay for it or be held responsible. i can only hope all women steer clear of this man so he can ~ go his own way ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:53 PM
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If people think women are over emotional now.. imagine if we couldn’t orgasm? Jfc I’d be on a warpath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:39 AM
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👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:09 AM
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🤝 amazing, i love it ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:45 AM
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it’s happening !!! 🤗♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:14 AM
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you should watch Ex-Machina 😊 it’d be the prequel of what you’re describing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:51 AM
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a millionaire who is 100% dick 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:57 PM
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wondering why pregnancy/new birth on here? is it because it’s a big life change and can trigger the man to freak out? or maybe because he feels like he owns you/baby?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:56 PM
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I need to get to this point of peace somehow. I’ve been single for 7 years and enjoy much of my time alone, but I always seem to envy people in love 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:52 PM
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almost like they want to evoke jealousy to make themselves feel better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:23 PM
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the coolest woman alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:15 PM
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Past me would agree and be jealous, new FDS me would kick him out. How would men react to their girlfriend calling another guy hot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:09 PM
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not pictured: shark that is 10 of these things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:57 AM
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agree 100% about the emotional and mental weakness being a turn off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:55 AM
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I felt crazy and lost because none of my friends experienced what I was going through with an LVM- so I hung on for fucking 10 months 😑 SO thankful to have found this sub and have seen the light
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:59 AM
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you can delete a message you sent in snapchat even if the other person saved it 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:51 PM
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wouldn’t be shocked if it turned her finger green 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:58 PM
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imagine being proposed to and he pulls out a sharpie 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:50 PM
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Sometimes I feel dumb for past choices and people, but it ultimately brought me to where I am today. I love who I am and the strength I’ve built, so I’m working on not beating myself up for it and will continue to grow and level up 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:16 PM
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extra confused on why it’s all capitalized lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:11 PM
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fucking hell 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:10 PM
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“Otherwise, he is supportive/loving and says he wants to continue to be with me” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:04 PM
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clicked into link and got distracted. went back to phone and was so confused until i realized i wasn’t on FDS anymore. phew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:55 PM
3

finally ended things w a traveling photographer after finding this sub -_- used OLD to hook up in every state he visited. good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:45 PM
11

i’ve passed out in a shower from blood loss during my period, but next time I’ll remember to just pop some ibuprofen and be productive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:24 AM
5

I (unfortunately) dated a man so boring, his every action was solely about mUh PeNis. I’m still convinced he’s just a fuckboi robot experiment. Literally no depth at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:00 PM
11

or cause they feel like they don’t have a shot!😉 their loss. just keep leveling up in the mean time ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:54 PM
4

in this situation it would be showing off the relationship/his girlfriend on social media
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:10 AM
15

that last part when she heels 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:04 AM
39

Salutations 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:58 AM
11

ironic! wonder what he thinks being interrupted feels like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:10 AM
8

I have a lot of visible tattoos. They’re well done, I’m educated, and I’m in a great career. I don’t think people should assume I have an alternative view on sex because of that one thing about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:29 PM
106

or even pedophilia.. school boys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:35 PM
8

“girls get the notion that if you want to be worthy of love, first and foremost you have to be worthy of sexual desire.” him saying this gave me a lot to think about regarding myself and past actions. thank you so much for sharing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:47 PM
23

would love for him to be completely enamored on a first date - and then the woman pulls this after the 10 min mark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:15 PM
5

“Only qualified applicants will receive a message back (because I swipe right on everyone to feel better about myself so a match means nothing)”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 12:43 PM
68

3-4 hr a day in a sauna lmao would love to see what someone looks like after actually doing that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:45 PM
73

NOT all men are like this, but ALL women are definitely using men to get free meals /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:40 PM
38

wow I wish I read this a year ago.. will never fall for this again. thank you for the steps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:26 AM
3

omfg didn’t even notice that 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:56 AM
42

“open when you question us” lol it better say bye on the inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:40 PM
11

I strongly relate to you here. Mine stems from past abuse. I am 28 now and couldn’t even touch myself with my own hand until about a year ago; that was a huge stride for me. I started slow and got comfortable over time- working on not feeling disgust or shame while trying to find what felt good. As for oral, I’ve only received this a handful of times due to the nervousness. It should be with someone you trust and who listens, and you should feel confident in yourself because I know this can feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:31 PM
50

sometimes there are signs (responding less and less for example) but sometimes there are none at all. all we can do is not get attached too quickly so that if and when it happens, we aren’t too bothered and can easily move along- their loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:35 PM
40

“I’m taking out trash, would you like to join?” well he obv needs assistance climbing into the dumpster ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:47 AM
1

just go get a blow up doll already dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:19 AM
1

the association trick you mentioned definitely helps. had to get rid of the dopamine hit i’d get when thinking about a LVM so i would do the same as you and remind myself of all the shitty things he had done. takes time of course, but it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:58 AM
35

look out for her future post where all shorter guys she talks to are insanely jealous and annoyingly self conscious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:02 PM
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