| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1240 | The kids are going to be fine. | QUEEN SH*T | legoflowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:59 AM |
| 101 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing. | legoflowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:38 PM | |
| 35 | I have cripplingly low self esteem. | legoflowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:12 AM | |
| 23 | The “Tinder Swindler” is just one long exercise in watching pickme’s not recognizing red flags. I can’t even feel bad for these women. | PICKME CULTURE | legoflowers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:41 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 64 | How to deal with men who want to be “orbiters”Just based on the grammar alone, not worth being friends with. Be mean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 7 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!And I still don’t think she knows how to say cucumber. How DO you say cucumber?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 11 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.DRAG HIM. Girl you better get him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 9 | Stop dumpster diving through other women’s garbageThe man I am currently dating said he got divorced because his wife went through health issues, which I later found out was depression. He said that she stopped wanting to go out, and went through a major change in her personality. He said that when she went through depression, she needed help and was there for her. However, later on he dealt with the same issues, and he didn’t feel supported. He said that her depression changed their dynamic, and I think that’s a valid reason for having gotten … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 538 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.It’s not even the “boy was mom ever right” for me, (also what is it 1958?). It’s the “shut up.” If a man ever tells me to shut up now, we’re done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 14 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Sorry, “packed bowl”? Is this a reference to the fact that he packs her a weed bowl? Like. They have kids. You can’t do drugs and have kids. 20 years in the making? I’m just so confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 77 | What are some good dating green flags?I’m vegan. I have it on my OLD that I am vegan. I don’t suffer fools who cannot plan around this. I’m currently dating a man. We started taking and on Saturday, he asked me what my availability was, and I told him the upcoming Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. He said “OK, I’m going to use your profile and base my choice on a place where you can get something vegan.” Comes back 20 minutes later with a restaurant and time for the upcoming Thursday. So he gave me 5 days notice, he used my profile ch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:18 PM |
| 117 | Why are men so fucking weird ?“Imagine a NFL D-lineman” STOP THE MADNESS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 06:00 PM |
| 8 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.I also think it’s really interesting that the “antiwork” people are admonishing her for buying rental properties but not for selling sex. “Hey, you can’t do something that guarantees to build wealth and which men have been doing for centuries! You have to do the other thing, that thing where you sell sex and put your face on camera and all but guarantee no opportunities with a real employer for the rest of your life. Passive income? That hurts the working class!” And I say this as a vegan—just b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:31 PM |
| 21 | Stay away from self-proclaimed “brutally honest” menSame thing with men who say “a light roasting” is an indicator of a healthy relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else had their "low quality posts" removed by the male overlords recently? High five. Free speech is scaring some of the boys. Discuss below and make bets on how quickly this thread will disappear and prove us right. If we're not right, the thread will stay.I’ve had them removed by the bot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 12 | The Tinder SwindlerThis is why I’m thankful that AIM existed for me as a teen. I would meet someone, build up an entire relationship with them in a matter of hours or days, then they would disappear, and my imaginary boyfriend would POOF be gone. I learned very early on that the stories we tell about people in our heads aren’t actually the true people we are “connecting” with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:34 AM |
| 14 | Please watch, let’s talk about it. Media has always taught us we were less. Pick me is taught from infancy. This is why we need us.Geena Davis, who is a member of MENSA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 05:19 AM |
| 16 | This is what we face. You are a real woman.Wait we’re just supposed to read “Elon Musk”?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Dirty Talk in the Sheets: Yay or Nay?Dirty talk if not derogatory is fantastic. I recently had a man ask me when the last time I came was. It was hot. He kept asking until I answered, like it was an actual question, he wanted to know when the last time I came was, and whether it was me, or someone else. He also said, he didn’t want to take his pants off until he was completely naked and then wanted me to ask for it. He made me beg for it, he wouldn’t let me touch him until I did beg for it. Quite possibly the best sex of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:23 AM |
| 39 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄I am really amused by how old she looks to still be acting like a pickme. She been a pickme for all those years and still ain’t find nobody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 6 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Woah. I’m a whole person by myself. I haven’t ever been told this. I’m a whole person by myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:52 AM |
| 15 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Interesting!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 14 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Ok so real talk: what do you do for when you just feel bad about yourself? I really need some tactics. My go to was making a profile and letting them swipe on me. The dopamine was immeasurable. I would never actually go out with anyone🤣 but you know? Teach me your ways! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 37 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .I’m really hoping that I can soon get on your level. I broke it off with my LVX in November, and I crave attention and validation from men. I know a part of it is my borderline personality disorder. But I know that the part that isn’t is just the crushing psychological pressure of existing as a woman. And that little part is fixable! Cheers to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:20 AM |
| 36 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Just a thought, where in the world is there not hookup culture? Like I can move. I can pack my shit up and leave this place. I love foreign places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 37 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .I actually hate bumble because it’s so much to put myself out there, text first, (“Women make the first move!”) like. I don’t want to make the first move. Men do this thing where they believe that it’s “just a game of numbers” and that if they swipe on everybody eventually, they’ll get a match they think is hot and she’ll text them and then they’ll date. But what’s SO unfair about this is that there is some girl out there that thought you actually liked her! And now, because you have to make the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:16 AM |
| 50 | A Curated Selection from OLDNice! Glad to know it’s a good plan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 110 | A Curated Selection from OLD“just ask!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 168 | A Curated Selection from OLDYeah girl. That’s why my new plan is 1) dedicating all my funds to paying off my house by 2026 2) becoming a landlord for a nice family and letting them live in my house/take care of my house 3) make passive income from my house and travel the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 162 | You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing.I literally thank Alexa every single time I talk to her. I say “Thanks Alexa, I appreciate you.” Because I want her to know what based queendom looks like, and I don’t want her turning on me when cybernet comes online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:37 AM |
| 8 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteDivorce him and take his money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 784 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?When women are referred to as ✨selamef✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 56 | How to navigate questions about my family (when No Contact) while dating?“I don’t see my family much, but I [love the idea of a tight knit family]” if that’s true for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:36 AM |
| 7 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!“No I know, thank you though.” I woke my dogs up scream laughing at this . QUEEN shit. Wow, I’m genuinely amazed by your ability to dissect this date seemingly on the fly. I hope to be able to have those boundaries and not just giggle along in the future, too. Good job queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 23 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.There should be a best self report flair in FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?I just wanna know what island because I love Greece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 11:19 AM |
| 15 | OLD profiles and effortWhy can’t men SMILE? Like all their profiles are them with a serious or a weird “quirky” face. Not the open mouth yelly smile, please. Save us. Save us from this scourge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 28 | Can we hear your LVM break up stories?I broke up with my LVX on Nov. 4th 2021. We lived together, in a house that I bought (alone) and which he hated. He complained about it constantly and made up problems with my house that were non-existent. I broke it off with him and made him sleep in my guest bedroom. It took him until Nov. 6th to stop bringing me coffee in my room, and finally accept that it was over. Then he stayed here until December 1st. He stayed in my house because “he paid rent” and had NO sense of dignity. I cannot beli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:45 AM |
| 74 | The kids are going to be fine.That’s awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 07:16 AM |
| 23 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?$300 at LEAST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.LMFAOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:29 AM |
| 19 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.THE SAVAGERY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 21 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.Interesting. The podcast said it was from “trauma” to the groin, such as wanking. Or getting hit in the dick too many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 61 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.Yeah she looks stoked. Also, their heads look weird. It looks like both of their heads have been clipped out of another picture and physically pasted onto bodies and then scanned back in to make a picture. Weirdest PS job ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | The more I read, the more I am getting sure that I really don't want to have to do anything with men.Yeah. Sometimes I get a little sad that I won’t be able to have that feeling again. Like in the beginning, when you’ve got a crush. And everything seems possible. You don’t know him that well yet, and you think about what could be, imagine not so much a life with him, but more just doing stuff with him? I guess I can still have that feeling but, it’s a very disappointing truth to acknowledge that I’ll never actually get to have that. The truth is, I’m not going to extend myself to them anymore. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 26 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Guys, Ron Perlman is HOMELESS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:01 AM |
| 55 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Omg the current trend of straight men unabashedly painting their fingernails gives me such a crush. I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:02 PM |
| 96 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?It gives me big child energy. It’s giving “crack pinky” for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 234 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Long fingernails. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:40 PM |
| 4 | “Cuddling”Lmfao the mouth open smile makes me so irate girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 10 | “Cuddling”I now hate being cuddled by men. They’re fucking BAD at it. They hold their arms at strange pokey angles, they lay on my hair, then they ask for sex. Shudder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 26 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.I just wanna know how many kids she has, like 5? Girls, boys, baby, Mary whom I assume is an aunt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:55 AM |
| 3 | I have cripplingly low self esteem.I don’t feel good about myself so my body looks for anything to make itself feel better. I think that’s really important to remember. Wow, that is so perceptive. Like, my jaw dropped and I started crying. Thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:16 AM |
| 11 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionI have a bumble and I’ve installed and deleted it like, 7 times since my breakup. It really hurts when you just start chatting with them and then inexplicably, the fucker stops responding. It’s like a little heartbreak. Death by a thousand cuts. It hurts so badly. I’ve only found 1 vegan on the app and he inexplicably stopped responding. I found a super left omnivore on the app so I opened it up to him, and he stopped responding. It really hurts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 169 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?I’m very much interested in the “here and now” rather than the “future forever”. For example, at the exact moment I’m out eating vegan sushi enjoying my own company. I’m not going to be spending time with anyone special but myself. I have decided that all relationships end, whether by breakup, cheating, divorce, or death. To that end, I’ve decided that a marriage might not be the ultimate pursuit it’s made out to be. In March, I have a trip to Vieques, PR planned for a week. In 2023, I’ve set my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:57 PM |
| 62 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobThis was absolutely the right decision. Are you kidding me? A man should enhance your life in all things and at the very least, match you in financial capability, this guy wasn’t it. You got to have a few good months of feeling supported, cracking jokes etc. but frankly, his “use” to you beyond that is none. He can’t provide, he cannot protect. The thing that bothers me the most about this is that he’s had 40 years to get his shit together. He’s had at least 15 years to make a successful attempt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 7 | My online dating experience was so similar, for a second I thought it's my old tweet! Feel free to add more typesLet’s all comment our previous relationship! I had a number 2. I supersized it and kept him for almost 4 years. What a fantastic and stupid fuckable mommy I was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 3 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with himREALLY hoping English isn’t his first language. Otherwise this guy is a fuckin idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 55 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?The more I think about my single life, the more excited I get. I have an amazing career, one that I can take anywhere. If my job pisses me off, I have a skill and can now be in the same desk at my house and just switch, with no problem. The more I think about people my age (31) getting married and how it seems like it’s our goal, the less I get excited about it. Five years ago, I was really jealous of the girls that “had it all figured out” and were well on their way to building a family. I desp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 18 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!The truth and simplicity of this comment has me rolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:21 AM |
| 40 | Reason 20000000000000007 To Align With FDS, Vet RUTHLESSLY, Enforce Boundaries And Say NO To Casual Sex!Yes, it’s very interesting how many tiktokers are celibate until they reach a certain goal in their lives. It’s beautiful to see the young generation taking back their goals, exigency, authority, and ultimately their bodies through celibacy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:20 AM |
| 5 | NEED ADVICE - Can't Tell If New Partner Is HV After Having Been With Too Many LVM/NVMI am going to say that if numbers 1 and 2 were not enough, number 3 is the dealbreaker. If you are in grad school, and he’s got a good head on his shoulders, I don’t understand where he finds the room to enjoy misogynistic media. Your gut has made you post this excellent set of questions. You wouldn’t have learned Reddit formatting if your gut wasn’t sending some signals. You know that you are not just traumatized. You are now informed. You are hyper aware of what to watch out for. You have very… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 06:57 AM |
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