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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Agree with this!!! Makes total sense! I got hate awhile back from those groups and was shocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?I saw a meme that said watching a Hallmark Christmas movie backwards is the best….. A women in her ugly Christmas sweater dumps her small town boyfriend to pursue a law career in nyc where she lived happily ever after in pencil skirts and amazing shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 11:09 PM |
| 10 | My Friend's Husband is About to Ruin Her Entire Career. This is why you should always be financially independentLawyer! She can ask for financial support for school, especially if she supported him through his! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 12 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyI bet he’s a giver in the sack. /s Immediate nope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do males think it's okay to rank women?Women are objects that are used as currency for validation and self esteem among LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".Yup, hello Ted Bundy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 5 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".It is scary and appalling how the neurological consequences are completely and totally ignored. When users deny they are addicted, drives me crazy! Prefrontal cortex is being harmed and empathy (especially towards women when view harsh and violent Porn) being drained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:05 AM |
| 20 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮What in the Dr. Pepper lmfao… he buy his degree off Amazon?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 52 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.This looks like the patriarchy’s poster boy. He gets to do whatever and is entitled to a woman. They have made it a woman’s job to be a insecure, people pleasing, codependent slave. The bar is literally in hell for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:07 PM |
| 8 | "Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts.This meme got me ☠️🤣 so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 07:42 PM |
| 28 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?So, you know where women have a uterus, men have the audacity right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Made me laugh 🤣Fu ha ha ck…..This is how I just laughed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:59 AM |
| 7 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Oh really?!? I wonder how they fixed it? Right when this happened they were at 1.5 stars!!! It wasn’t that long ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:44 PM |
| 34 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸I saw this one. The commenters banded together and murdered any reviews that company had. It was very satisfying to witness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.A savory take on dates 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:55 PM |
| 49 | HVM right there. Take note scrotesI picture scrotes as dull colored and dusty if they were in the animal kingdom. Pickme’s are contributing to the inability of natural selection to take place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 107 | HVM right there. Take note scrotesSo.... it is all men then right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:28 AM |
| 9 | Found my next book.perfect tiktok for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 4 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.Tell me you don’t have a job w/o telling me you don’t have a job ☠️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 8 | If men are so driven by their "biology" and "instinct" then paying for everything for a woman should be no problem at all.Right, like male vs female birds. Male birds are the ones that have to put forth the the work and are judged on their colors and actions. The LVM lineage gets cut constantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 24 | I absolutely can not stand this trend of woman thanking their male partners for "putting up with them" on social media.I’ve done this. For me, I’ve unpacked it. I’ve learned my childhood trauma and neglect killed my self worth and confidence. I wasn’t taught boundaries and how to process emotions in a positive, healthy way. This caused me to seek external validation with pick me attitude, as a survival mechanism. Once I hit a pretty low point I had to face it. I worked on myself and “reparented” myself. Generations of internalized misogyny had to be undone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?Darvo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 93 | If men are so driven by their "biology" and "instinct" then paying for everything for a woman should be no problem at all.Ahh to be a cavewoman. What a dystopian world we live in now where we want to go back to Neanderthal days. I’ve been with a LVM for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:38 PM |
| 20 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSI heard this recently.... most men don’t like cats because they require consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:29 PM |
| 17 | Misogyny and feminismEquality feels like oppression to the oppressor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 17 | So now women must help men who struggle with lust?! 🤮 This is why i unfollowed theses guys, they want to seem HV when they're not. The comment section is just full of nonsense some even used the "Testosterone excuse", "biology" (just to name a few)and all sorts of crap to back it up!I like my men with functional prefrontal cortex’s! Why do so many men prefer to stay in the caveman mentality? This is what is supposed to make us more evolved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 12 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenMen don’t want to be compared to the dashing and chivalrous you speak of bc they are far from it. That’s even on a mental or emotional level. Something that is in their control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 39 | FDS users taking it in turns to roast Scrotes in the comments like:I tried to post something on a different subreddit and there was an issue with the flair, no biggie, I emailed the mods. One replied “You should stick to posting on FDS” and muted me for 3 days. Like didn’t even answer my question about the flair or post. (What I was posting had nothing to do with men, women or dating. It was a helpful mental health tool.) I was hot for about an hour then was like well that’s so sad he’s that low and can’t pass on helpful information. Gotta expect a bank robber … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 3 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...This is so true and scary! Habitual use leading to addiction destroys the prefrontal cortex. (decision making, and moderating social behavior) The language of placing the responsibility on women and not holding men accountable is exhausting. Like how are pedophiles, rapists and human traffickers a thing? What makes them become that? Men- “We’ll never know.” Women- “Well, actually.... if you validate your emotions and not drown them in chemically alternating addictions that flood proper brain fun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 38 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...He has great control over his brain 😆🙄😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 15 | The fucking audacity to think porn can fix anything when you already can't get it up for your wife...☠️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Negative accountability for himself! Projection speak for i’M tHe CrAzY oNe! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Reminder to myself and others: Just focus on yourself honey.Facts! Wish this sunk in back then! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 35 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!Current state... 0/10 would not recommend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 108 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!Better to be a slave to capitalism, at least there are standards and I’d get paid. It’s not a woman’s job to be part of the Handmaid’s Tale. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 12 | We owe them 🙄Thanks for the award!!! 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:03 AM |
| 15 | We owe them 🙄And if we don’t, is that why they tell us to smile!?! I just thought it was to suppress our thoughts and feelings, being a$$holes controlling us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Not all men anology... spot onOh I see. I didn’t see that one you’re talking about. Sounds like people are taking a metaphor too literal. I did see one that said innocent until proven guilty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 12 | Not all men anology... spot onI’m thinking she was meaning the metaphor could be interchangeable for that. Men should stop saying “not all men” and hold their gender accountable. Likewise with racism, when people say “I’m not racist but...” or being a better ally and calling out racism and discrimination in the workplace, etc. Holding our race accountable. Hope I made sense. That’s what I took away from it. Edit to say: Inaction is an action. You’re making a choice not to do anything bc it doesn’t affect you. So it’s hard to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 9 | FDS has been saying it all along and women are catching up. Men do not love women like women love men and that's why we need to start demanding more and holding back the energies we give out for freePorn had perpetrated this over the years. But don’t dare take away their “pacifier” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 5 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 yasssss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻Yes! To me... eyes and hands are just the beginning. Women are more intuitive and that definitely translates to our actions and behaviors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 22 | Male gaze vs female gaze in cinema... chef’s kiss 😚 👌🏻I agree. When posting this I had the thought process of this being a “demisexual” style of foreplay leading to deeper levels of intimacy. Not just about physical esthetics ie the “hit it and quit it” dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | On being more attractive to men... 😂Not sure. Her tiktok is @kathbum if you wanna check it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:07 AM |
| 8 | On being more attractive to men... 😂We should, we would be nothing without them. /s bahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 10 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.Man I wish I could award this x 1,000,000,000! 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 28 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfParents are too busy raising “nice” girls. The way they do this is to invalidate and control this “strong will” out of us. This leaves us with low self esteem bc our ego is now jaded and resentful. Which on the low teaches us to seek external validation bc we are made to feel like shit and can’t validate ourselves. Many women/girls have childhood trauma they don’t even realize. Creating healthy boundaries would’ve saved us but we don’t know how to do that bc parents stepped over them like they w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfDarvo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 5 | sighSad but true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Narcissist to English translation? Didn’t know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Almost burnt out❤️👑 I hope she carries this into other areas of her life beyond beauty. You are a beautiful soul! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Male anatomy....Hi fellow twin mama!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 10 | Male anatomy....Yes! I’m a twin mom and at the end I measured 52 weeks pregnant. Even before all that, menstrual cycles every month for decades. Our bodies are amazing! I laugh at men when they diminish our voices and existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | Male anatomy....They need the extra lung capacity to voice their audacity 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Capitalism can sit down.... I’m good!To each their own. I don’t want to split hairs. I think as long as it’s to serve a purpose for you go for it. The main thing is not to be used bc you think you aren’t enough. Reminds me of the prescription commercials. Like they just come up with a cure for everything. They can fix a problem you didn’t even know you had. Appease yourself not society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:10 PM |
| 14 | Male anatomy....Ikr. I was all like Im gonna learn something today! Then bam. She’s good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Capitalism can sit down.... I’m good!Nice!! I just chopped all my hair off!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Almost everything a man says is projection and/or self-serving. It's time we stop accepting their word at face value.On point!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What women want...I think he has a dog collar. No worries, it’s gold. He’s so disgusting 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | What women want...I don’t think so. It’s nice. Middle of the day text outta nowhere hits good though!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 10 | What women want...Yep pickmeshia jrs yuck 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 30 | What women want...Ikr! Even If they find the clit they don’t know how to work it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 53 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Yep me too 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:30 PM |
| 45 | I don’t know if it’s been posted before, but this is so true.Yes! This! Both seeking validation. Women are held at a higher standard because we don’t suppress our emotions and men are toxic and discredit us. Both are hurt, both need to break generational curses and reparent themselves. Thanks boomer parents 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 4 | Authenticity brings intimidation but...Ikr!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Addictions, educate a pickme...Yeah, got me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 16 | STupiD whAmEn wAnT chADs 🤡No lies detected 🙇🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 114 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.metoo movement didn’t get the airtime is so needs. This struggle is so fucking disgusting. Inconsiderate selfish men that say NOT ALL MEN are part of the problem. Stop saying that shit and join the crusade ass wipe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Cheers to us all. 🥂I need more of this encouragement in my life!! Trying to separate from my husband and my mom is so negative and focused on how hard it will be. I’m so excited to be free of his bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 11 | The tradcon guide for the modern womanHe’s just not that into you.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 04:39 AM |
| 126 | How to raise a hvm....Agreed, I picked a poor title. This is the bare minimum... and it’s sad that I got too excited about this story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:46 PM |
| 10 | MaturityYep. Reactive abuse from dealing with a narcissist. Women are so crazy, yeah because we are pushed that far! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:25 AM |
| 15 | MaturityYep. I’m 36 and kinda pissed that I’ve wasted the years that I have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 23 | Trauma cycle on our gender....Ikr!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 10 | MaturityAww thanks for the award | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 40 | MaturityWomen’s lives matter just long enough to get us on the trauma cycle long enough to be their mom. This is why I think....Fuck a divorce rate. Fuck super conservative views. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:55 PM |
| 13 | MaturityYup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 90 | MaturityFirst of congrats!!! Second, his loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:12 PM |
| 9 | X post from r/whitepeopletwitter👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 rip Rbg ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Or both?👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Consent...Ikr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 05:07 AM |
| 5 | No such thing as too pickyOr both. 😫😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Whoa... 🤯That’s good. Mine talks bad about her mother (my grandmother) and her sisters (my aunts). It’s awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Whoa... 🤯I try to remember the same thing happened to my mom. She definitely toxic. I try to pass an what I’ve learned but it’s not sticking. 😫 I definitely have boundaries with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Focused and unimpressed 👋🏻🤡If it is a woke message yes ma’am!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:01 PM |
| 10 | Whoa... 🤯Proud of you for recognizing it! Doesn’t matter how old you are! I’m breaking my generational curse! 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Whoa... 🤯Ikr! Put a new spin on the “mama said” label | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Focused and unimpressed 👋🏻🤡I just did yesterday lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:49 PM |
| 19 | "5 men who upgraded their women." An article that celebrates men leaving their bob the builder chicks for other younger, hotter women after they reach certain level of success. More reasons to not build with men.The sad fact is they can. They just target the young/naive/weak. This is why we need to lift up women. This is why we need to tell our stories and pass on our knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:40 PM |
| 61 | They're so close to getting it. And yet...But I want my cake 🎂 and to eat it too! 👶🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 203 | "5 men who upgraded their women." An article that celebrates men leaving their bob the builder chicks for other younger, hotter women after they reach certain level of success. More reasons to not build with men.“The solution to marital misery for a man is only one late teenage or 20-something woman away.” 🤮🤮 I hope the young girls take them for all they got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 17 | Sis knows the 🚩sAll these woke tiktoks, I’m gonna have to break down and download it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:56 PM |
| 6 | I’ve had this conversation way too many times 🚩My stbx showed me one 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 11 | Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rant👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🛎🛎🛎🛎🛎🛎🛎💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👀👀👀👀👀👀👀🔎🔎🔎🔎🔎🔎 no lies here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.Yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.Yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 6 | What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.Well, in all fairness it is women that carry the weight of the patriarchy. Not that it wouldn’t be nice to share the load. But I highly doubt that would ever happen, men being caring and vulnerable. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:15 PM |
| 15 | What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.Codependency is an old theory but still alive. The label stings, much as being called a pickmeshia. You can try to be nice and help an addict but without boundaries and consequences why would they change? And I mean boundaries and consequences in a tool kinda way for your safety, not a weapon to punish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Determining a woman’s value by how “loyal” she is to your non-commitment to her.Because the world revolves around you 🤡🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 53 | What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.As a recovering codependent pickmeshia, no thanks! This is some straight bull. “Celebrate our caregivers” I be damned if I’m gonna be a grown ass man’s caregiver. I don’t need another child. Narcissistic drug addict mother, absent alcoholic father, childhood sexual abuse, porn addict’s spouse. Please tell me when tf can I start living my life? I’m so thankful for FDS. All that bs stops now. Why was I sacrificing myself? That train has left the station and isn’t stopping anymore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 04:29 PM |
| 2 | When your values and self worth are the same price as a Chanel bag...How old is this chick jeez. Get over your mother and out from under dudes. Do your own thing hun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:31 AM |
| 21 | This would have saved me so much time.On the flip side- I have saved some dope advice, jams, articles, etc... to help me stay focused iN mY dIvOrCe 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 61 | NEVER beg for a man!Yup, seeking validation. Seeing how much the can torment us after gaslighting and darvo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 6 | You learn a lot about them but you learn more about yourself. Breaking cycles :)💯🤓 yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:05 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else get one of these messages?Ekkk!! I immediately jogged my inventory of memories on such parties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 16 | Anyone else get one of these messages?I know I didn’t censor info, not trying to get banned. Just don’t want to be trolled or have others trolled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Types of shitty sae that need to die with the patriarchySame. I rewatched a few shows a few yrs ago. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 96 | Patterns don’t lie!Ding 🛎 ding 🛎 ding 🛎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 14 | WHERE’S THE LIE?Yup, Color me coo coo bird because this is true. I giggled to hard at this. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Patriarchy 🤮I got this off of fb. That post is a shit show. So sad all the people either in denial or insensitive and discounting to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Patriarchy 🤮I saw this Instagram post from a female pastor that said something along the lines of “ the church is a bride but also a whore...” Love it! Yup!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:04 AM |
| 14 | Patriarchy 🤮“God’s work” 🙄 and they wonder why some women are batshit crazy!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 27 | Patriarchy 🤮Bless her 😐🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:19 AM |
| 10 | Patriarchy 🤮Thanks for the award kind stranger! I love posting here! Even things that push the envelope. It’s so nice being among my kind of people. Leveling up can be lonely because others haven’t had their moment of “woke”. Keep pushing on Queens! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 31 | Patriarchy 🤮So sorry you went through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:46 AM |
| 88 | Patriarchy 🤮Wow just wow. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 11:34 PM |
| 98 | Patriarchy 🤮Agreed. Oppression!!! Patriarchy, divorce rate, etc... But dishes, laundry, cooking, and muh dick. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 20 | These men who share that logic have zero knowledge of the female anatomyBecause they know everyone else has a bigger dick than they do. Bammmm 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 15 | For all the Pickmes and Cool Girls out there.Love it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:52 AM |
| 14 | Male 'feminists'👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 also 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.Thanks for the awards!!! ❤️❤️ I love this sub so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:40 PM |
| 7 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.I wish this was common knowledge. I wish I knew this sooner than I did. Most of the world is so sexualized and porn sick this keeps women marginalized. Unfortunately to stay relevant (which keeps this going) pickmeshia’s feed into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:12 PM |
| 23 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.I wish it was only about content an skill. Women are more than their looks, bodies and sexual organs. In the US it’s disgusting how sexualized everything is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:16 PM |
| 17 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.Yes!! It’s not face masks and pedicures. It’s building a life you don’t have to escape from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Pretty is not the rent you pay to exist in the world as a woman.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 01:04 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone thought they were an obsessive overthinker and extremely anxious (not to undermine those with anxiety) but it was just because you were in a relationship with a LVMYup... darvo, intimacy anorexia, betrayal trauma. Etc etc etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Jennifer Lopez - Aint Your MamaSo weird, I saw a news story on Hillary about her 2018 speech today! Then hearing it at the beginning of this song. I’m ready for a revolution! Let’s eradicate patriarchal, misogynistic, narcissistic assholes everywhere! (Tall order, I know 😑) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 27 | He deleted his video afterwards.Right, that’s how fast he is on himself 🤦🏻♀️oof | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 14 | Honestly nicer than most places I’ve been for dates (Waffle House and then Walmart)Incase you want to see it on a map | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 16 | Guy touches on points where a man get offended if a woman dates other men - humourMe as well!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:15 AM |
| 17 | I don’t even know what to say.Wow! I’m so glad she left!!! That is crazy. He’s probably what smelled! Asshat! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:14 AM |
| 47 | We are not responsible for who is attracted to us. But we do need to be discerning when it comes to the kind of people we entertain and keep aroundYes!! Boundaries!! People need to understand it’s not you, it’s them...if you have boundaries! Desperate people believing in fate!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 30 | And I will not be stopped!!❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 17 | Commentator got it wrong. This is who needs to see Kamala speak tonight.I cried reading this. Sweet boy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVM🤮🤯🤬😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 11 | Boys will be boys 🤮 so disgusted with double standardsWtaf!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 16 | Boys will be boys 🤮 so disgusted with double standardsYes!! I feel the same about the sexualized marketing in capitalism and pornography that leads to desensitization that cause violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 4 | What is up with men who pull the "soulmate" card???His love bombing efforts slipped on a banana peel. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:18 PM |
| 5 | I wish there was a movement to publicly shame mediocre directors and companies trying to get traction by objectifying and sexualizing women to hide their mediocrity/worthlessnessYes, unfortunately, this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingI didn’t coin the phrase. Therapist Doug Weiss did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingBut they get lung cancer and die. These deranged fuckers keep living and keep their disgusting habit perpetuating the trafficking industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 10 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingSad thing is kids see it between 8-12. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 5 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingDing 🛎ding 🛎ding 🛎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 11 | The fact that an entire gender has gotten away with normalising this disgusting, misogynistic habit is quite chillingYep... intimacy anorexia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 29 | THIS!! I see women on here sometimes arguing with men and posting their “sassy” or “savage” clapbacks, he doesn’t care he just enjoys getting a rise out of you. Bad attention for men is still attention. Block them and pay them no mind.I grew up in the country. We had a 60 acre cow farm. I can appreciate your comment to the fullest. 👏🏻👏🏻😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:58 PM |
| 52 | 🙄Ikr!!! Made props to the creator (unknown)! I got it off of “ask a woman” fb group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 6 | On a post regarding "marriageable" women🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇🥇🥇🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 265 | On a post regarding "marriageable" womenOr they want young naive women. Probably why they fantasize about teens. There should be a mandatory women’s study class in high school. The patriarchy has silenced us women enough. It is up to us to overcome this injustice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Stop Sexualizing yourselfgrowing up in a pornified culture Gail Dines (triggering) I grew up with an absent alcoholic father and an emotionally and mentally absent mother. I was molested and harassed as a child. I was so desperate to be on my own and to be loved I’ll admit I was a pickmeshia. It is unfortunate that I am also married and have children with a porn addict. Now that I have children, girls at that, I am having to reparent myself while parenting them. I wish I would’ve repaired the damage from my childhood so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Unfortunately it's true for so many of usQuickest/hardest way to do this is to have kids yourself. Slingshot eye opener for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:28 AM |
| 11 | Know your worth, you are a miracle ❤️🙌🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 9 | Avoid LVM like the plague that they are.Trump is that you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Savage comeback, bc you hurt my feelings... 🤦🏻♀️A girl said: Boys don’t mature. They just graduate from Xbox to golf. A guys said: Girls don’t mature. They just graduate from playing with dolls to playing with feelings. Some of the comments, ugh 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Savage comeback, bc you hurt my feelings... 🤦🏻♀️They deleted it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Scrote’s reason to quit porn: it supports womenOh hun, where do I begin with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 8 | Basically 🙄Word!!! 🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 8 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you this❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 94 | 2️⃣🙅🏻♀️1️⃣🤦🏻♀️3️⃣🙎🏻♀️😂😂😂I agree. I’m thinking 1-4 lol Negative numbers if necessary 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 2 | To all of you, amazing queens 🌹Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Downvotes feel like awards to me 🤷🏻♀️😂 how does everyone else feel?Agreed but, the are to busy watching porn 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 24 | Don't let your ego play youShit on point! Thank you for taking the time to post this! I needed to read this today!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsession“Special bond bc we had similar experiences in the past” 🚩 red flag hello!!! He’s apparently not working on his issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:15 PM |
| 6 | I'm so proud, I got my first creepy stalker from posting on here. I've made it in life. LOLYes!!! 👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 55 | FDS when seeing pickme nonsenseI don’t know what they are trying to create with their relationship but there is still pain there. It’s forced and looks painful. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 48 | Being A Teenage Girl Sucks. Glad she’s calling them out!Ikr!! Porn sick! Don’t dare mention that though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I’m glad she posted calling them out!Sorry, how do I do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 12 | Scrote blames women for male violence because women give birth to men...even though the sex of a baby is determined by the man’s sperm 🤡Oof... lmao... Henry the VIII much? Jeez Edit to add: why am I getting downvoted? Do you downvoters know history? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:03 PM |
| 42 | It’s not worth it in the long runGroomed and continuing the cycle 🤦🏻♀️ https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_YpHNImNsx8 Gail Dines | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:16 AM |
| 8 | Gaslighting much? 🤦🏻♀️Omg omg omg 😆 That was the funniest thing. Thank you for this comment!!! I don’t waste my money on Reddit so here y go... 🏆🎖🏅🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Wow! Mentioned FDS on r/loveafterpornI try to mention FDS every chancing I can. 🤷🏻♀️ some women are so far gone they think that’s normal. It’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Wow! Mentioned FDS on r/loveafterporn🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 yasssss!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | For the men that love to ask “What was she wearing” when a woman says she has been raped. Explain this!😴😴If this is an viable option, know that a vasectomy is not the answer... my stbx could be the case study proof that it doesn’t. Off with his balls! I say!! (This is not a joke) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | I hope he picked herYeah, a man wrote this. Because they think buying the wrong chocolate is the problem. Actually, it’s not showing her love and attention and you think you can fix it with chocolate. Bahahahaha Edit to add: Or a 14 year old girl whose mom has tolerated this type of neglect. Raising a pickmesha. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I hate I grew up on old Disney movies 🤦🏻♀️It’s all about perspective I guess. I grew up obsessed with The Little Mermaid. Thank you for explaining your POV. I’m a childhood abuse survivor myself. May need to rewatch some through a new lens. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | I hate I grew up on old Disney movies 🤦🏻♀️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 99 | 'Ouch my ego'Omg!!! Yes!!! Lmfao Going through this irl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 23 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Thank you! I feel like I’m having to re-raise myself while raising my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:39 PM |
| 57 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Growing Up in a Pornified Culture | Gail Dines | TEDxNavesink https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_YpHNImNsx8 I have been sexually abused as a child and I now have two daughters of my own. I’m a so f*cking disgusted with the world. Women have been treated less than for so long some have desperately conformed. (Pickmeshas) I believe it is time for a woman’s revolution. My blood boils when ignorant men talk. You can’t get a word in without them spewing ignorance. They have been zombiefied beyond help. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:08 PM |
| 6 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsUnattractive behavior from men force women to resort to “FDS” 😒 I fixed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Jeffrey Epstein Confidante Ghislaine Maxwell Arrested on Sex Abuse ChargesNews story- she may face 35yrs. They invite Prince Andrew to tell his side. https://www.reddit.com/r/worldnews/comments/hk368x/us_prosecutors_invite_prince_andrew_to_talk_to_us/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 28 | Jeffrey Epstein Confidante Ghislaine Maxwell Arrested on Sex Abuse ChargesArrested early this morning, expected to appear in federal court later today. The entire month of June I was waiting since that was supposed to be his day in court. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 92 | Reddit is "men" at all female-dominated subs:Feel the same. I’m so disgusted and disappointed. I had more than one person molest me growing up and ended up marrying a porn addict who didn’t have the desire to stop. I was not super surprised at the number of people that spoke out at the #metoo movement, and I know plenty probably stayed silent. I wish it would have spiraled out and made a big change. A woman’s mental health is important. ✊🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Thank You For The Mindset Change, QueensI feel the same. You put it perfectly into words. As a recovering pickmeisha, it hurt at first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 23 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!I don’t run over squirrels bc I don’t want to mess up my car. I also don’t run over squirrels bc I’m not a murderer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:59 PM |
| 52 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!They have murdered their morals. “But, bruh my dick. “ (insert eye roll) Porn use has been correlated with erosion of the prefrontal cortex — the region of the brain that houses executive functions like morality, willpower and impulse control. Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/neurosciencenews.com/neuroscience-pornography-brain-15354/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | For those of us who were in abusive relationships:Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I'm ROFLing rnI felt that shit 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂Oh my god, I can’t even watch all of this shit. I want to hit him with a wall. They want a youthful naive child. He said late teen. You can see him making sure he specifically says 18. He didn’t want to get in trouble. Fucking disgusting. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Imagine: it’s YOUR lifeBig Oof for me! Trying to get it straight now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Men telling other men porn isn’t cheating while patting each other on the back and censoring any women who say otherwise.They didn’t put a “d” in a “v” per se. But damn if it doesn’t do the same to a woman’s psyche. Limp d, dead bedroom, disrespected, disgusted, self esteem killer, body confidence, lonely, I could go on.... F*cking lemmings going to end up alone with it left in their hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Abuse tactics. be careful ladies, if you or a friend are unsure if you’re in a toxic/ abusive relationship then read this. hopefully this helps some of you.The unnamed one is narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Feel the same way. Judgment on how things are handled when you have kids keeps me from posting much at all. The “well if that was me blah blah mess” especially when people don’t know the entire story, or don’t have kids and can’t even begin to relate. I wish people would put their two cents back in their pockets if it’s not anything but helpful. Most moms do a good enough job of ragging on themselves anyway. Smh. /: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......Wish I could upvote this more than once! Like 1000 times!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:41 PM |
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