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| 2 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadYeah, I would love to work with you on this. We can take small, manageable steps to getting you to whatever point that you want to get to. PM me your information, we will go over goals, and reverse engineer to get you there. I'll 100% help you every step of the way. I understand where you are coming from and i think some personal help will go a long way. Also, sorry for the slow response on this, man. I was out of town without internet access for a heavy majority of the weekend. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadOk so from what you're telling me, your AA more comes from a stand point of showing interest in a strong/confident way. This is something that you have to build up over time. What you can't do is continue to do nothing. While it's tough, and frankly intimidating, you have to get yourself out there. I prefer a direct method. Tell a girl that you thought she was cute so you wanted to meet her. I like this for 2 reasons: 1. she will let you know immediately if shes interested or not (high risk, hig… | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadThanks! I was really nervous to see what people would think. Mainly because my website is my full name, so my identity would be out in redditland! I'll post my next article in a few days and post the link as soon as I work out some kinks! | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadThat's what it's all about brotha. If your heart gets to pounding, you know you gotta go for it. You bring up a good point. A no right now doesn't mean no forever | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadBring them in! In fact, I encourage you and your friends to find something you disagree on, then go get women to respond. Makes them respond, it's genuine, and fun! Just no politics or religion.. That shit gets too serious | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadThere's absolutely value in that. As is value in waving, firing the pistols, etc. it's fun and immediately tells you if she'd like to chat or is just checking out the scenery. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Beating Approach Anxiety: It's All About Getting Out of Your HeadYou know, there's other places it can come from. It can be a self worth issue, or, more importantly, a fear of the unknown. You have no idea how these girls are going to react. You (read people in general) fear bad and dream of the good. Shit I still get nervous, but at the end of the day, you will have no less sex with her if she turns you down than you're already having. What I highly suggest: make 3 warm up approaches immediately when you go out. It will get you in a good place for the night … | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What are the most helpful seduction videos you've ever seen?Richar LaRuina's Stealth Attraction. He gives a lot of great tips and tricks for physicality that I've used for years. Clutch in the paint. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes, There's Just Nothing You Can DoYeah, shits annoying. I'm still very happy with progress, the quality upgrades I've made over the past few months, etc. but at the same time, the end goal is to find someone I could see myself hanging out with for a while. It's frustrating when you get interested in someone just to have something come up that's far beyond your control. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Just Moved to Dallas and Need Friends/Wings!Cool. PM me your number and we'll hit the town this weekend. I'll be going out tonight, Friday and Saturday. Also I'm down with coming out to Ft. Worth as well. Let's make it a good weekend! | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Just Moved to Dallas and Need Friends/Wings!thanks for the input. That's what a couple friends of mine that used to live here said as well. There's a lot to be discovered in the next few weeks haha | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 04:59 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community.I've made the same mistake and it definitely sucks. But some people will continue to make a relationship out of nothing. I always make it abundantly clear that I'm seeing other people, but some girls, even while understanding this, can't handle it. I'd say don't worry about this one and get back out there. Just be sure to always imply and make them understand that you aren't about settling down with just one person. | /r/seduction | 18/03/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Recent Problems Due to Traumatic EventsYea I've done bjj for years actually haha so i def know that that shit will boost confidence in seconds. haha thanks for the advice. Things will only get better from here! | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 09:26 PM |
| 4 | This just made my night, and I wanted to thank you guys...what the hell is Zyzz? someone please help. WANT | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 08:24 AM |
| 12 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeOf course I do.. I want the sex. | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 11:44 PM |
| 2 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifejesus christ, this video needs to be reposted every month, just as a refresher. Great find here. I'll be checking this video every so often.. great gut check video. | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not my problem, keeping up a conversation is the hardest part for me, any tips?Stack. Make it personalized so it's not a bunch of rehersed shit.. or use Style/Mystery's stuff. that works very well also. just have some interesting shit to say that makes you sound good. and be able to ping off her. find things you can relate to with what she says. | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 05:56 PM |
| 13 | what are the significant differences between trying to find a girlfriend and picking up girls?you never should "try" to do either. If you go out with the specific intention to get laid, not to have fun, you will come off as creepy and people will see that you are after one thing only. This is especially true wit trying to get a girlfriend. Actively looking for "the one" will only result in you coming from a place of neediness and getting you nowhere. Instead, I go out knowing that I am probably going to get laid, but am sure as hell gonna have a great time with my friends in the process.… | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Is it fair to assume that a 'movie night' is something more if there's been sexual tension for a long while?you always gotta feel shit out at the time.. I've had "movie nights" that go straight to the bedroom, and others that take the whole night before anything happens.. but usually a netflix movie on the couch or bed kinda means she's coming over for some d. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Seduction Soup For the Soul - RejectionI second this. My rejections are usually hilarious. It's always fun to blow yourself out if you are losing it. and hey, sometimes you say something so ridiculous that it gets the convo going again. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 06:52 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?stop giving a fuck. love every minute of it | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:39 AM |
| 1 | The Cockblock Marathonrelevant: So this past spring I had an experience very similar to this. I'd met this girl through helping a mutual friend, and ended up running into her at the bar. well everything was in the bag, headed back to her place with her, and my wing/best bro and his girl. we're all having a great time, then out of no where ULTRADOUCHE shows up, makes a huge scene, is clearly crazy and wants my girl. He lays on the opposite side of muh lady, and tries to get her away from me (at one point she was strok… | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Awkwardly extroverted with no shame how do I use this to my advantage?like others on here have said, just use a bit of a filter. you gotta know when you're crossing the line. shits fun and awesome to a point, but one inch past a girl's particular boundary will blow your chances. Every person has a different stopping point, different sense of humor, etc. so you really gotta feel a girl out before diving head first into the ridiculous shit. a very good source in general, loads of free, outstanding content: http://www.the21convention.com/ | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Problems After Hooking Uppoints well taken. i know we talked about going to certain food joints around town, and other random events. so ill def play off that, given that i dont just go for movie night or something before the weekend hits. We ran into each other at the bar again last night and had a few drinks, she had some solid ASD going, she was with her roommates for a bday celebration. it was hard to figure out what was up with her, she was really fun again at some points of the night, then others she'd respond wit… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Problems After Hooking Upthe "ol dont be a bitch" technique. i never thought of it that way! for real, sometimes the simple man up and go for it idea is forgotten. thanks bro. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Material for older men and/or day gamedaygame.com it'll change your life. I got the Daygame Blueprint, it's a fantastic program. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?I go out with friends at night, though we split up when it comes to game time. When i do daygame, i do it 100% solo. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Great Video Put on by Daygame.com It's been the summer of daygame for me, and I absolutely loved this!Love it! trying to get more into it, pretty intimidating going out solo, but def working on it! | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Rid of the Smell?you, sir, are a slut. funny tho | /r/seduction | 20/04/12 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How Do I Rid of the Smell?yea i have one, and went over with febreze and left a couple dryer sheets under the pad as well. smell is gone, problem solved. thank you sir! | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 04:35 AM |
| -1 | How Do I Rid of the Smell?doused it in febreze.. definitely better, just a hint remains. also rubbed it down with drier sheets and left a few under the sheets... slowly improving | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Feeling Inspired, Starting the 5 Approaches per day challenge tomorrow!Awesome! send me a pm, let's keep each other accountable through the month | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Feeling Inspired, Starting the 5 Approaches per day challenge tomorrow!Thanks man! and you know it could be tough, but I'm going to give it my best effort. As to a little background of myself: I have had a lot of success with night game, am a fearless approacher then and have (imo) decent success with it. Daygame is something I have always wanted to try and i'm not sure if there is a better time to start. I've recently gotten my hands on the Daygame Blueprint which I am hoping will help guide me in the beginning. | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 12:59 AM |
| 2 | What to say nextthis is primarily at Bars or Parties. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What to say nextalright, so keep confidence up and im good. thanks a lot! I've always tried to try and get her talking about her favorite subject, her. and that can lead to really lack-luster conversation. thanks for the input. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What to say nextyeah that's true. and i completely agree with that. Occasionally, though, this happens before I really get the ball rolling with the girl (say a couple minutes into the interaction). I sometimes find myself not knowing what to say and not familiar enough with her to escalate in some way or to just enjoy the silence (imo). | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 08:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you reply to, "Haha boy I ain't that easy! :)"?Richard La Ruina does a kinda funny approach to it, something that I do as well, always makes for a good laugh, my response would be something along the lines of "oh how unfortunate ;)" | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 06:58 AM |
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