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I don’t think he was saying ‘control’ your emotions, I think the gist of the post is to be aware of what emotions you’re conveying to the outside world. You feel what you feel on the inside, and you can’t help it. And of course, having a solid foundation definitely helps. But you can choose how to respond to what you feel. If you get mad and feel like punching someone/something, do you actually do it? Most likely no. Only time is going to cool you off, but if you can avoid yelling or damaging st…
/r/seduction31/12/18 11:15 AM
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Link is a nuke to your mobile device! Consider yourself warned. Here is the link to the actual paper.
/r/MensRights12/12/18 08:05 AM
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There’s a lot of advice on here already, but I’ll give my two cents since ai can relate. I’ve always been more of a lone wolf. If you’re going to daygame, have no expectations of outcome. Once you get confident enough approaching, get rid of any other goals. Don’t pressure yourself to ask for dates or numbers. Just focus on your own self amusement and having fun. When I “daygame” I try to put myself in a really positive and energetic mood, and then just talk to anybody I feel like. After doing i…
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:47 AM
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Don’t get so caught up about your age and what you have/haven’t done. It’s not a race. You’ve probably been busy with other things in your life. It doesn’t matter. I agree with most other people, if you want to kiss a girl, you have to be able to talk to them and express romantic interest. Practice makes perfect. Put time into talking to women and it will happen. It really is that simple. It won’t happen overnight. It takes time and commitment, but that’s it. Believe in yourself and don’t worry …
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:37 PM
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This is what is referred to as “ghosting” and it means she’s not interested. It’s really shitty. Best you can do is move on. Sometimes if women see you’re happy with other women, they try to get with you again.
/r/seduction25/03/18 01:18 AM
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a) The fact that you are 72 and adept enough to post a message on Reddit is lightyears ahead of any person I’ve met in their 70’s. Way to adapt with the times! Maybe the men who talk to you can tell that there is some brains and ambition behind your eyes, and they want to know more. 1) This seems like a perfectly reasonable question, especially since your experience shows that a lot of the men are in fact married. I think a good practice would be to ask the man anything that you’re skeptical abo…
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:36 AM
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Link because that website is garbage: https://youtu.be/iXwFBlgCK-k
/r/MensRights07/03/18 09:47 AM
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After scouring the internet, I’ve found the show was called “Hack Live”, and the episode was called “Is Male Privilege Bullshit?” You can find snippets pretty easily, but the full version seems like it can only be acquired...skillfully.
/r/MensRights20/02/18 04:29 AM
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Talk to her, separate her from the herd, spend alone time with her and escalate.
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:20 AM
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She’s not a student. She works in an administrative office there. I’m not really planning on BSing, but I feel like just going straight to her office and asking her out for lunch/coffee straight up is too forward. It’s not going to be an excuse either. I just feel like I should ease into it just a bit to show that I’m not a social retard. Otherwise it will be weird for sure. If the roles were reversed, I would be put off by a girl coming to my office (where I have nowhere to leave from) and prop…
/r/seduction11/12/17 08:23 AM
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Is it weird that I really enjoyed watching this? I could watch shit like this all day, because it makes me feel like I’m not taking crazy pills. Crowder remained calm and genuine the whole time, despite being surrounded by an angry mob. He also did his homework. From legal to psychology to historical references, he had his bases covered. In my opinion, he demonstrated more ability and persuasiveness than say, Jordan Peterson (who seems so intelligent that he can’t “dumb it down” for everyone els…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 07:25 AM
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I think u/BravoPUA ‘s advice is the best. I’ve had the same experience. Don’t plan on meeting too far ahead. Two days max! The sooner to “now” you can make your date, the better. Have you ever tried going on an “insta-date”? In my experience, they are often the most fun because they are so spontaneous. It also will help you stand out, because virtually no other men are willing to drop everything and go on a date. It’s fun, but more importantly it makes you look like a fun and spontaneous guy in …
/r/seduction20/11/17 03:58 AM
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If I told you a number, it would be a guess. I don't track how many times I've been rejected, nor the rate of rejection. Every time I'm rejected, my efforts almost immediately shift to the next opportunity and that's as far as it goes. The only thing I could tell you for certain is that I fail far more often than I am successful, and is the norm for all guys, not just short ones. Once you realize that you will get rejected regularly and you accept that, you sort of lose track of the amount of ti…
/r/seduction11/07/17 06:23 PM
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As a short guy (5'4"), I see this question enough. Here's my two cents: I often try to disclose my height BEFORE she has the chance to ask. This gives me the advantage to choose how/when I say it. If the conversation is flowing, I usually ask her how tall she is. If she's taller, I usually make some sort of joke about being perfect boob height or that our kisses will always be dramatic because I will have to dip her every time we kiss. If I'm straight up asked, I usually just straight up answer …
/r/seduction11/07/17 03:57 PM
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And what does work for you? This community is about progress and constructive criticism. We are concerned about the WHY and the HOW. Not just naysaying. If something doesn't work for you, say why it didn't work and how you overcame that hurdle. That's what this community is all about.
/r/seduction12/06/17 05:16 AM
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If you're serious about getting a waitress's number, it can be done, but realize that it will take substantially more work. I've done it successfully only a few times, because it requires a lot more effort compared to getting a girl's number in other environments. Interestingly, this same method is also the only way I've been able to get a girl's number at the gym. Here are the key things I believe that gave me success: Become a regular. This is easily the most important factor and will drastica…
/r/seduction26/03/17 11:05 AM
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I just would rather not fuck up again by being overly available and crowding her like before. You just answered your own question. You know what you need to do. Actually don't be overly available. Find things to do. Make yourself busy. Work out, get some hobbies, etc. Then, when you have some spare time in your newly busy schedule, feel free to message her. You won't come off as needy or whatever, and it will be genuine.
/r/seduction12/03/17 05:33 AM
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In my experience, I find that most of my sexual relationships started spontaneously. The times when I was trying to get laid left me with nobody, and the times that I actually didn't give a shit seemed to be the times that got me laid. After this realization, I thought about it from a girl's perspective. If you are a fun, spontaneous guy, you are more of an adventure or conquest versus a guy who is serious about dating. Keeping the interaction framed this way leaves her more open to "having fun"…
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:39 AM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate to the other comments on here...have you tried talking to her about this? Maybe she was trying to signal that she wanted to date you, but then you never responded, so she said "I think I'm going to be single for a couple of years". It is really hard to assess the situation properly, based on the small amount of information you've given.
/r/seduction01/06/16 05:32 AM
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I'm pretty sure it was John Wilkes Booth who coined that.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:44 AM
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I love the advice! I'd just like to add that eventually you don't have to "pretend" if you work on yourself enough. I've gotten to a point in my life where I've accomplished a few things (got a degree, bought a house, etc), and with each of these things I have become more proud and more confident in myself. No matter what a girl says to me, or what the outcome is, I have a foundation that makes me feel good about myself, even if I am single. Funny enough, it seems like I don't even try to meet g…
/r/seduction23/10/15 03:44 AM
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Don't "maintain". Be silent and mysterious. You've agreed to meet her, now don't say anything until about a day or two before, just to meet up. In the meantime, let her think about whether you like her or not, and why you aren't texting her. Also, if you guys can't meet for two weeks, you're both probably busy. Focus on your life, and be comfortable not NEEDING to contact her.
/r/seduction30/09/15 03:38 AM
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Fuck this bullshit. If you see an attractive girl at the gym, talk to them. It's just conversation. Now, I will say there is a difference between talking to a girl at the gym versus talking at a bar. My experience with meeting girls at the gym is that it's a slow game. You say hi one day, ask if you can work in when you need to, and eventually you talk more. There have been a few situations where I started talking to a girl, and she started asking me more about exercise and whatnot, and I have e…
/r/seduction11/08/15 05:45 AM
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I too have experienced these sorts of girls, and have had success by making the joke even more obvious/exaggerated/outrageous. Don't back down. Also, a side note: if you are trying to flirt with this girl, don't assume she's not attracted. In fact, you should get in the habit of assuming the opposite. If you are truly annoying her and she isn't interested, she will give you a clear signal that this is the case. In the community, I think they call this "holding your frame" or something like that.…
/r/seduction20/07/15 06:58 AM
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Food. Some girls don't like hookah, and some don't like cats, but everybody eats. Especially after a night at the bar, everybody could get their snack on. I think the key is not to invite her over for "a bite", invite her over for something specific like your version of Mac n' Cheese, grilled portabello mushrooms, or your homemade tomato soup (the specificity could also be why hookah and cats work well also). It's good to actually be able to cook this stuff, but in my experience I've actually co…
/r/seduction30/04/15 02:17 AM
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I've personally found that it is the healthier approach to improving your seduction skills. There's no bullshit. No "one liners" to memorize. It causes you to focus on yourself entirely. I personally find Manson's book is the deepest, and the most focused on inner game. Afterwards, reading other PUA material will help you "fine tune" your skills. Having Manson's book under your belt first will also help you understand scenarios and environments in which other PUA material will/won't work (and wh…
/r/seduction07/01/14 01:15 AM
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what is the mehow short opener? I tried googling but couldn't find anything.
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:53 AM
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One thing that I really think helped me gain confidence is learning how to socialize at the gym without being a tool. Have short conversations, and get back to your workout. People will admire you for talking to them, but also appreciate you for keeping it brief so no time is wasted. People generally want to get in and out of the gym as quickly as possible, so don't plan on having an hour long conversation. Try this with girls you aren't attracted to and guys first if you become nervous, but thi…
/r/seduction04/01/14 06:58 PM
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I think this is an important step, but I also think this is a different situation than say, at a bar (where I will likely never see her again). I think in order to get her number, it is even more critical that I have a reason to do so. I need to find some common ground, relate that to some sort of activity, and then once we have a reason to meet, grab her number. I already have a few ideas, since we're both into fitness. Going for a run, exchanging ab workouts, or playing squash; these all seem …
/r/seduction04/01/14 06:47 PM
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Did you mean the Book of Pook?
/r/seduction03/01/14 05:27 PM
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Sounds like a great read regardless. When you say "coach", do you mean a dating coach?
/r/seduction03/01/14 01:49 AM
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Sounds like a good length of time to try. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/12/13 04:28 AM
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In my opinion, your response might have made you sound easy/desperate, since you said "just ask and you touch me anywhere you want". For her, there is literally no challenge after this. She knows she can get you if she wants. "All she has to do is ask". One thing I've really been focusing on when stuff like this happens to me is reciprocation. Grab her ass! She grabbed yours first, it's an open door. I probably would have added some stupid comment like "meh. Mine's better" after doing so, just t…
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:08 PM
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You literally have nothing to lose. It's no use sitting around and contemplating "what if". Push until she says no. If you're as good of friends as it sounds like you are, your friendship should be easily mended if you simply apologize for "misunderstanding" or "pushing too far" or whatever. She'll probably be flattered that you saw her that way if anything. Go for it!
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:51 PM
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Realistically, I think your opinion is probably a good one for most people. As for myself however: I can afford to go easily. I think it would be an experience having someone else push me beyond my limits. I have a lot of vacation time that I don't know what to do with. This would be an interesting experience, even if it turns out to be shitty. I've known about PUA concepts for about 5 years, and would consider myself an intermediate. Going to something like this would be to FORCE myself to do l…
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:03 PM
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While I agree that texting should be kept to a minimum, it sounds like she's just unsure about you, and maybe just wants to reaffirm that you're normal. You could simply just ask "what do you need to know? What about me has you unsure?" Or something to that effect. The other way you could play it off is with some comedy. "All you need to know about me is that I'm a __". Go to a ridiculous extreme. "I'm a serial killer", "I'm a whiny bitch who will text you all the time and get emotionally attach…
/r/seduction26/11/13 01:15 AM
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Here's for anyone else mirin'. No homo.
/r/seduction23/11/13 06:19 PM
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Canadian actually.
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:41 PM
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I'm Caucasian.
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:41 PM
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Nah man. I've been lifting for a long ass time, and I eat a lot. It's that simple. I don't want to turn this into a fitness post. Check out /r/gainit!
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:36 AM
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Arrr! I might have acquired ye gospel by other means, me matey. Arrr! But seriously, thanks! I'm excited to read it.
/r/seduction23/11/13 02:03 AM
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Awesome! Thanks!
/r/seduction23/11/13 01:51 AM
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Is this the book? "The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love, and Life", by Michael Ellsberg?
/r/seduction23/11/13 01:33 AM
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Is there a link to his actual speech that he kept referring to?
/r/seduction21/11/13 06:13 PM
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I think you might be overthinking this. If you like her as a friend, just be her friend. If she wants to hang out with you, go ahead, but don't make any moves (like a friend would). If she's really trying to flirt hard, and won't give up, drop the word FRIEND a lot (Eg. "You're a good friend", introduce her as "my friend from school", etc.). Most girls are pretty good at taking a hint, but if the absolute worst comes down to it, you might have to take her aside and say something like "I'm not ro…
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:23 AM
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Nothing for now. May enter a bodybuilding competition in a year or two.
/r/seduction20/11/13 04:41 PM
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Hey man! I'm like you. 5'4", 200 lbs, ~15% BF. People touch my muscles all the time! I had a funny situation with this last week. A girl came up to me and poked my bicep. I poked hers back. She poked my shoulder. I poked hers back. She fondled my pecs, and I fondled hers back. She ran away screaming, with a smile on her face. I never did see her again, but it would have been really easy to talk to her, had I seen her again. Not the best example maybe, but be bold, have fun, and take them touchin…
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:23 PM
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Nah fuck those boots! Get comfortable being short. If you're having confidence issues related to your height, all boots will do is act as a crutch for you. If you get a number, you'll say "oh because I was wearing boots, this happened". If you don't get a number, you may just relate it to your boots not being high enough. And then what happens when you don't have the boots on? You're right back where you started. Instead, just man up. Talk to everyone. Risk getting called short, or too short or …
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:22 AM
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I notice everyone is taller than me too. So what? In the grand scheme of things, what difference does it make?
/r/seduction07/11/13 01:44 AM
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Short guy here (5'4"). The best way I've found to deal with this, is to simply accept it (easier said than done, obviously). I'll describe some things that help me get over this. Would you date a girl who is absolutely the best girl in every way, except she is taller than you? I'd bet you'd be willing to at least give her a chance. The same goes for us short guys. No girl is going to write you off solely because you're short. No girl worth having anyway. But because you're short, your height wil…
/r/seduction07/11/13 12:56 AM
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I like how you wrote "lol'd", and then continued to lecture me about being a full grown man and using complete words (especially when typing). Interesting word choice there. As for your critique on the FR, I agree completely. Day 3 is a go, so it looks like I've got another chance.
/r/seduction01/11/13 06:29 PM
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I think you need to stop giving a fuck. Here's how you do that: Focus on yourself. Find cool shit to do on your own. Occasionally invite her if you want, but for god's sake give her time, and do not invite her to everything you do. I'd suggest that if you have something to do that you're really passionate about (like seeing a concert or seeing a professional sports team, or seeing a musical or whatever), invite her to something like that; something that you're crazy about. If she says no, you'll…
/r/seduction30/10/13 03:33 AM
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We're all in this together man! Haha. I had a situation like this once. We got into a fake-flirt-argument, and we were going to Google something to see who was right. I told her if she lost, she had to kiss me. She agreed, but "on the cheek". I won the argument, and stuck my cheek out. When she came in to kiss my cheek, I turned my lips into her at the last second! Haha. Worked pretty good. Might wanna give that a go if you want!
/r/seduction26/10/13 12:25 AM
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I think you just need to start getting out there, and TALKING. Just start with a simple goal. Say "hi" to a girl. Anything. Make small goals and then accomplish them. If it gets awkward, just enjoy the experience. Enjoy that you're learning something! Learn to be comfortable with uncomfortable situations. For me, this is what boosts my confidence more than anything. The same thing happened to me once. I read way too much and thought about everything and it gave me anxiety, and I didn't want to t…
/r/seduction25/10/13 10:20 PM
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Physical contact!! Kissing is something physical. I'd guess that she probably thinks it's weird to kiss if you haven't been physically intimate with her at all. And don't think too much! Just focus on the moment. Give her hugs, put your arm around her, and be playful. Once she's comfortable touching you more, choose moment and just go for it. She's not going to breakup with you for trying to kiss her ;).
/r/seduction25/10/13 10:08 PM
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Hey Man! How did your night go? For future clubbing, my advice would be to just talk to everyone. Have fun. Don't think too much. Most of all, ask for what you want. Ask for the phone number, ask for a day 2, whatever. The outcome doesn't matter, the important part is that you're putting yourself out there, and that takes balls!
/r/seduction25/10/13 10:03 PM
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Is there a link? I seem to be missing something.
/r/seduction15/10/13 11:08 PM
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Hey man! I've never heard of HabitRPG before, but it seems self-explanatory. Anyway, I think your first two goals are great! Your third goal, however, relies upon an outcome. What if you do everything right, and you still don't get a number? There are more things at work than just you that involve getting a girl's number. Although you can control many of the factors, cannot control ALL of them. This means that you should focus on goals that are INDEPENDENT of outcome. Change your goal to "Ask fo…
/r/seduction15/10/13 05:02 PM
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Well, like I said earlier, a "shit test" is just a theory. The term was coined in a book called "The Game" by Neil Strauss (I forget if the author himself coined this, or a guy in the book said it. Anyway, the book is worth a read if you're into this stuff). Some guys may actually think that a girl is literally testing them, but ultimately we aren't here to "hate" women; we're here to understand them, communicate with them, and ultimately seduce them! And realistically, it shouldn't matter how w…
/r/seduction04/10/13 04:34 AM
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I was going to guess you were a girl, but I didn't want to ruin a learning opportunity for a fellow brethren. I think you have the wrong idea of a shit test. Firstly, a shit test is just a theory - it is a framework that helps us guys get to the solution we want. Realistically, I highly doubt that a girl will sit back and think "I'll ask him why he's bald - THAT will prove if he's a man or not." I'll attempt to explain it from a girl's perspective. I think these scenarios happen because girls wi…
/r/seduction04/10/13 12:09 AM
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Lmao. "I had my shins blown out in Nam." Hilarious. I wish I could give you more upvotes!
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:46 PM
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In my experiences it is generally a shit test, because the scenario I'm referring to is one where I've been talking to them for awhile; they're laughing, smiling, we're having a good time, and then it comes out. It's of a curious nature. It's a test to see how I can keep the atmosphere going that I've created. That's my interpretation anyways. And trust me, I know there are "girls out there who just aren't attracted to short guys". To make a point, let's reverse the roles for a second. If you me…
/r/seduction03/10/13 10:42 PM
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Short guy here also (5'4"). Every time, I get asked/told "So how tall ARE you?", or "Wow, you're short". Is there a thread that discusses this issue (opposite of OP)?
/r/seduction25/01/13 05:38 PM
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Actually I think "independent" is more appropriate. Take approaching for example. You are going to go and talk to those girls, regardless of the outcome. You are not thinking "this is going to be bad"; you are thinking "let's see what happens", and you really don't care what actually will happen in the end. The purpose of your actions are independent of the likely outcome, or what you think. If your actions were "dependent" on the outcome, when you see some HBs and think "it's probably not going…
/r/seduction25/01/13 05:08 PM
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