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The club route is a good deal. I will go check out the flying sub. Good luck on your PPL!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 07:27 PM
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They do. I pay a monthly membership plus the hours that I rent. It is about a 40% savings vs. the local FBO we have here.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 06:43 PM
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It depends. Anywhere from $8,000 - $15,000 to obtain your private pilot license. A lot depends on your ability and where you are located. Big city, more dollars, small city, cheaper. Link to a school in Santa Monica as a rough idea: (http://www.vannuyspilottraining.com/Private_Pilot%20Course_Encore_Flight_School_Los_Angeles.html)
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 04:22 PM
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Nice!!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:31 PM
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It is a testosterone driven hobby. Haven't had an Oh shit moment yet. I suspect I will see that when I have to do my first solo and realize that I have to land that sucker without any help!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:10 PM
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You should go do it for sure. It is relatively easy, flying. Landing, that takes some work. Then throw in handling the radio and you can get overloaded until you get some savvy on flying that sucker! Good luck and let me know when you make it up there!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:06 PM
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We have a couple of guys in the club that are certified airplane mechanics, so that makes it nice. You can actually pickup some tips from those guys. I have always been more of a hammer mechanic myself. Beat it right! :-)
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:04 PM
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That is cool your son is a pilot. It definitely is a mega Alpha thing. When I chit chat with some of the women in the coffee stands, they will ask me what I am doing today. I will mention that I am going out for flying lessons, they instantly become more interested. They definitely ask a lot of questions about it. I had know idea when I got into this that that would be a result. Does your son fly commercial? I am just young enough I could do a career change and go for a commercial spot. Might ju…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:03 PM
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Here are a couple: Pic 1 Pic 2
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 02:57 PM
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I tell myself pain is just weakness leaving the body/mind. Regret is also painful, so is staying stagnate. Eat the elephant one bite at a time. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/15 07:09 PM
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She worked out consistent for about a month and then gave up. No weight loss. She will try off and on but really lacks any motivation. I really get a kick our or her unsolicited advice to me on how to be health. I usually follow that up with oh how cute. Or oh yeah ok. (Sarc)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 11:10 PM
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I like proper proportions. Too skinny isn't healthy looking either.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 06:31 PM
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Definitely some merit in this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 03:38 PM
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Yeah, I hear excuses a lot. Too tired is the big one.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 03:15 PM
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We had these kids together. I have a tendency to be shitty with my English.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 02:47 PM
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Thank you. Both of your posts put it in perspective of what my gut was telling me in this. The clarification helps a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 02:41 PM
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This is the case. I want to own this but my wife is back to how she was before we got married, and I am a way better man than I was then. Some other things to note, she just isn't feminine. I can count on one hand how many times she was worn a dress or a skirt. She hates them. She refuses to going swimming with her kids. I suspect this is because she just won't put on a swimming suit because of her weight. RP/MRP advocates that everything is my fault. I believe and buy into this philosophy. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 12:30 PM
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Yes. I believe that is the case. Sucks sometimes.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 12:19 PM
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Mine hasn't lost a single pound. We both are at 168 pounds. She is 5' 3.5" and I am 5' 9". My body fat percentage is sitting at 15%. I would like to get down to 10, definitely shooting for a six pack. I guess that is some of my loss of attraction. Her weight is an issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 12:18 PM
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Same here.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 04:54 PM
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Yeah, it looked like her heading was going to spin off. She said, "I am not into that." I wonder.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 04:14 PM
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Thanks BPP! I have been flirting with her, and she acts disgusted when I do. I do cocky funny, kind of sexualized thing and then escalate. She on occasion throws the objectification stuff on me. Which I have been just saying, "Well yeah, I am a man who likes to have sex with my wife. There is nothing wrong with that!" Hell, maybe she likes women better, or she was sexually abused. It does get frustrating on occasion when I am not even trying with other women and they are hitting on me. It is eas…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 04:13 PM
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For self amusement, I tried using the cheating on my wife idea as a role play thing to initiate sex. She wasn't overly keen on it. It might have been a timing thing, she did kind of chuckle for a second. I came up behind her and said, "My wife is away on a trip, let's cheat on her!" It was at least entertaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 03:50 PM
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From a pure appearance level, yes, I am higher SMV. The wife needs to drop about 45 pounds and actually wear some feminine clothes. She never has really been a dress or skirt woman. Perception is everything with SMV as I see it. I don't totally have my personality side exactly where I want it to be, but I am definitely making progress. I will be starting a new hobby shortly that should help immensely. I am taking up flying. I have been wanting to do that since I was a kid. It will get me out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 03:40 PM
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The measure of a man's alphaness is interesting. She has noticed several of those things on that list and hasn't bitched. The level she bitches at is about the 'mysterious' disappearances. She thinks I am out nailing other women. I may very will be in a similar circumstance to fasterpusscatdie. Something to keep an eye on. Thanks for posting that!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 03:27 PM
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I like both of those. On a side note, Jennifer Lawrence is a hottie.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 12:37 PM
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Nice! Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 04:06 AM
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Yes, I live in the US. The priority that is set for children is definitely out of line if you ask me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 04:57 PM
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You remember correctly. It is definitely better. Going slow never has been my MO. :-) As always, I appreciate your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 04:56 AM
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I wish I knew what piece is missing. The sex is coming back, it is just always on her terms. When I initiate, I get rejected probably 85 percent of the time. She usually will counter with, this weekend at x. She has been 100 so far with that. Honestly, she just seems like a power control freak from hell. All I ever get out of the PUA and seduction stuff with the wife is eye rolls and disgust. I use the same cocky funny routine I used when I met her. She loved it then. The women I don't have a hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 02:44 AM
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Thanks for the comments! The dread level is up to about 8. She sees other women interested, I flirt and easily talk with them and she doesn't seem to really care. Frustrating sometimes!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 02:01 AM
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I don't know if we will ever be on the same side, but going the same direction is nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 07:52 PM
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High T is a helluva drug. I also am a hairy bastard as a result. Think bigfoot.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 05:36 PM
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When I first met my wife, I was developing this game a little bit. She used to say "You're funny" to me all the time. When I do it now, as I have brought that back with some improvements, she is usually gives me a laugh but is also disgusted. I guess she doesn't like the sexualization that I do with almost everything. My last physical, my doctor checked my testosterone and it came back at 820. Not too shabby for a 43 year old dude. I have suppressed that drive for a long time. I will no longer b…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 10:33 PM
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I did do some teasing that seemed really effective. She wanted me inside her which I denied her for some time. Drove her nuts. I drilled her good. She orgasmed but just can't let go. She hates oral. Which I really dig doing. Some of my past relationships really enjoyed my work down there. I do miss that. Blow jobs, yeah, forget it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 10:23 PM
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Yes, tried it. She wasn't real keen on me being dominate. Surprised her when I came home from the gym and wanted some. Backed her against the wall and gave her a deep passionate kiss. She told me that she thought that I was going to hurt her. She really isn't able to open up. I have read the SGM. I would love to be able to use that on someone who wanted it. At this point with her, I don't think she is open to it because she isn't into me. Without her desire, that isn't happening.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 09:45 PM
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That was too funny! Thanks for the laughs! It would have been fun to say for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 09:13 PM
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I like this clarification. Very helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 08:55 PM
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Thanks for elaborating!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 10:18 PM
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So I am curious, how far did you take it? Did you push it further then just the general run of the mill TRP tactics? Does that question even make sense? I am trying to gauge how I can try that.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 09:20 PM
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Sepean, I really appreciate your input. The negative view of others does describe my wife. I can remember so people down in the South somewhere died of Carbon Monoxide poisoning or some such thing because the truck got stuck somewhere and it gassed them. She basically was so cold and almost said they deserved it because they were stupid. This is out of context, but that was the gist of it. I thought, my god, somebody's son, brother, or father lost their lives.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 07:20 PM
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I hear you. For me, I have found it helpful to look at my past to not make mistakes going forward. I honestly don't care all that much about her past, I care about how I handle this going forward. There are broken and damaged people out there that these MRP efforts just won't work on. I think it is important to be able to identify if it just isn't worth the investment because there ultimately isn't any value there. I know that I have a lot of work to do on myself. Thanks for the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 04:27 PM
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Good post. Like the insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 04:13 PM
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I read that doomsday clock, it was a great read and I like the analogy. For the sake of my kids, I was thinking about the Nov - Dec time frame. It may move depending on how it goes. I appreciate the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 04:00 PM
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Understood. I spoke with an attorney a couple of months back as a preliminary. Have been looking around for places to live in the event I need to pull the trigger. Also rat holed some cash.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:46 PM
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In other words, if the shit hoagies keep coming, I am gone. I think I need to work this further. I need to give this some more time, but not too much. Action over talking. I do need to have the conversation in short order that I am prepared to walk and will not return to business as usual. Thank you sir!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:41 PM
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Thanks! She is entering ovulation mode. We were doing good on the previous round, now, we are moving backwards. A couple of weeks ago, we had sex in the middle of the week. She never has done that in the past. I brought her a single red rose the following day. I wanted to build the positive with her, that I appreciated that effort as a wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:31 PM
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I used to be playful like that when we got together. I always figured that is what attracted her to me. Somewhere, I lost that. I will not go back. If she no longer likes it, we will not be together anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 09:26 PM
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Thanks! Sex is at least present. Far cry from where I was a few months ago. It will be interesting to see if she adjusts and makes changes herself. She is a control freak by nature. This has been one of the things I have really noticed since going down this path.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 09:24 PM
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Definitely. How to be Male 101.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 08:56 PM
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Yeah, chaps!! Leather pants. Too funny!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 06:44 PM
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That is an excellent point! Right, IDGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:40 PM
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It is interesting to watch other women change their responses to me. I am not even trying and it is noticeable. I still have work to do on my physique, but I am heading in the right direction. My biggest struggle right now is having to purchase new clothes. The old stuff is huge. It is a good problem to have.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:23 PM
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I can see where it might be effective. I guess I will see when I get home from work tonight what mood she is in. I am preparing for silent treatment, or possibly pissed off wife or both.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:09 PM
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I like this perspective. I hadn't stopped to think about it being her's. That does help a lot. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:33 PM
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It is easier at times. Other times, I just miss shit all together. It usually happens when I am focused on something else, work, kids doing whatever they need to for their activities, trying to figure out which flight school I will attend to get my pilots license. My brain really struggles switching gears that quickly.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:26 PM
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I know. I have always struggled with those fuckers in the past. I try to avoid them. I can eat several without really noticing I ate them. I have always tried to just leave them alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 04:23 PM
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Think I got. Nice description!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 07:34 PM
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So my question would be, have you done anything that would help her learn how to be a more RP woman, or were you just expecting that she would change (positively) in response to your changes? Because if you're not putting any effort into guiding her to a better life, then you're getting out of her exactly what you put in. RP doesn't make marriage an effortless thing. If anything, those who practice RP and choose to get married have more work to do then those who stay single. I think this is wher…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 03:57 PM
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It just seemed random. I am always trying to analyz what I am doing to make sure that I am going down the right path. I probably need to stop analyzing so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 03:26 PM
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AWALT. They THRIVE on misery. The only thing that makes them happy is being unhappy. Man, that is messed up. Seems accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 03:24 PM
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Actually, the wife gets upwards of 8 hours of sleep a night. I am at 2 - 3. She would prefer 12. My game needs work for sure. Thanks for the tips.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 02:41 PM
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I have read SGM. Last night I kind of grabbed her and just started to go for it. I think I caught her off guard, thus I got the no. Not real sure if she will come around to this or not. My mindset is starting to become more of a I don't give a shit. If this fucker doesn't work out, I will next her ass. I just have this nagging feeling that I can't put my finger on that she might have been abused at some point. Honestly, I am not even sure why my gut thinks this.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 10:08 PM
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That is brilliant! Thanks for the tip.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 06:20 PM
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This is a great post. As I see the changes myself, I have the same feelings with the OP. Just doesn't seem like my time is worth the investment in her.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 06:06 PM
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I just want her to release that inner slut on me. Problem solved if I can figure that out. I have always struggled reading her. She can be very stoic at times.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 05:21 PM
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I have definitely been flirting around more, well, with everyone. Good habit to get into. I just really don't give a fuck anymore. Good luck to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 05:04 PM
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I wasn't very clear, I should have mentioned it was a hard no. I will edit that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/15 04:08 PM
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Since reading on TRP and MRP, I have like the Captain of the ship analogy. A ship's captain shouldn't tolerate insubordination. I like the scene in the new Star Trek movies where Spock is the captain, Kirk lips off to him, Spock gives him the nerve pinch and orders the red shirts to get him off this ship. It would be nice to have the escape pod option to jettison the wife off on Delta Vega sometimes. Or, Jack Nicholson in A Few Good Men, tells Lt. Kaffee to extend him some fucking courtesy and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 02:54 PM
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Actually, I get the feeling she is looking for a divorce lawyer now. No worries, I already contacted one just in case this goes sideways.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 08:10 PM
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Fuckin' A!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 01:22 PM
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One thing is for sure, it is going somewhere different than what I have done in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 02:46 AM
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I hope that is the case. All that I know is what I was doing wasn't working. It was great for her, sucky for me. I want it to be great for both of us.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 10:11 PM
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Good one. Wish I would have thought of that one. Might have gotten a slap but would have been so worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 08:57 PM
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Been lifting and running for about 6 months. I used to do distance running when I was in college. Absolutely love doing the running. Got out of it when I got married, that was a mistake. I also got back into photography. Loving shooting pictures, scenery mostly. It can be a big time suck going out and finding stuff to shoot. The women have been showing more interest. I haven't been good about bringing that up to the wife. I guess I have a tendency to be a little 'blunt' on occasion. I am actuall…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:43 PM
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This makes sense. I hadn't thought of it from that angle.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:13 PM
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My sin(s) is that I never seem interested in the family, I am always in my office doing my stuff. She says, you don't even seem like you want to be here. I told her not when you don't want to share sex and intimacy with me. I can't be there every waking minute. That isn't healthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 07:12 PM
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NICE!! I will use that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:49 PM
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I don't plan on staying in the guest bedroom forever. I actually slept better than I have in awhile. If she can calm down a little bit I will go back in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:32 PM
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Thanks for the insight!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:30 PM
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Honestly, I am trying to keep laser beam focused on these three things, physical fitness, job, new hobbies. I believe that is one of my biggest changes. Taking on any other women at this point is not my focus. Nice to see it, I just have way to much work to do on myself to even consider anything like that. Looking to get some practice out of it to be ready for the next one if that is where this goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:28 PM
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I don't know if it was or not. Just needed that space for me. Seems dishonest to share a bed with someone when there isn't anything going on there.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:24 PM
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Nice! I like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 06:19 PM
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It does. It kind of struck me that she didn't get her needs met for one day, and goes batshit crazy, I have been tolerating this for years. I choose to look at my resolve there, even know it was not healthy, as more oak like. I just kept getting back up and taking a beating. Not going to do that anymore, but I think I can use that experience in my path forward. Yes, if she can show improvement, great!! I want that. I do love this woman, but if she is unwilling to meet my sexual needs, that is a …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 05:50 PM
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I was really glad he posted that. I am new to all this and I am in a similar situation to him. It really gave me some needed perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 08:53 PM
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Sounds straightforward enough. I can do that. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:51 PM
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Roger that. Having some difficulty coming up with the show part. About all I can come up with is cut back on things she expects. I appreciate your u input as always.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:47 PM
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I would love to show this to my wife. Not sure that accomplish anything. This is so well written it is EXACTLY how I feel. This has been happening the better part of five years. Also, why I am on here getting my shit right and start moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:59 AM
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Good times indeed! It did escalate. She would throw in some tears every now and then for good measure. The sex withholding has been the worst. Too many years have passed. I wish I would have seen the warning signs and listened to my voice before I got married. Been a rough ride. I really think she has some serious issues about sex. She can't ever talk about sex as it is just too dirty. That probably is a scam too!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 10:40 PM
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She is a control freak by nature. The TRP skills seems to be working on her. She at least is shit testing me. As I was heading upstairs she said "Grab my sunglasses!" I said,"maybe". She then follows with please. I grabbed the shit I was after, and left the sunglasses. She asked, "where are they?" I said, oh yeah, those. She just laughed it off jokingly I am going up there anyway. Did the same thing 20 minutes later. Wanted a beverage hand made in the blender. Again had plenty of time to make it…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 04:59 AM
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Tried busting a move couple nights back. Got the hard NO three times and stopped the attempt. I just said ok and dropped it. Not butthurt. I honestly wasn't feeling last night.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 02:16 PM
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Most likely.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 02:13 PM
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Interesting, the wife came home and won't even look at me. I am just maintaining. Using very quiet voice, like a whipped puppy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 12:54 AM
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Thanks for the pointers!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 12:53 AM
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Absolutely. Appreciate the comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 06:10 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. There is an interesting dynamic, the kids are just fine we are how just the three of us. My son, daughter and I have no real major meltdowns. World War II starts when the wife shows up. It annoys here when they don't misbehave on me and they do her. I get a chuckle out of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 06:10 PM
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I like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 06:07 PM
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Try for some sex? That seems like a nice touch. I do believe that would send my wife over the edge. Might have to try that. She is, however, on her period.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 06:07 PM
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It sure did induce the hamster spinning when I did that this morning. The anger looks like it has calmed down to more hurt than anything. I suspect she is looking for her lap dog, me, to come and say, "Oh, what is wrong dear?" There is No F in WAY.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:11 PM
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I am right there with you. I keep reminding myself that these are "her" issues and not mine don't own her emotion. You are absolutely right, not an easy task. I am trying not to put pressure on myself. It isn't easy to reprogram your brain of years for hard wiring in 20 minutes. I have found for myself that I do best when I can get away from all of the shit and focus and almost mediate. The gym is the best place for that. Good luck to you also bro!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:10 PM
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I have blocked it in the past, and I usually block the whole damn thing at that point. Nobody gets Internet. I have taken other things away of his before and he is just yeah whatever. He doesn't care. He did with the laptop. That finally got his attention. He did come to me later and gave me an apology which he actually meant.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:06 PM
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I totally see her doing that Beta thing. I need to get my crap squared away so that I can help my son get there. This is going to change. I can't fail this. I have done some reading on the shit test. My god, my wife does these like every 5 minutes. I have been trying to use the Agree and Amplify technique. It seems to be the most straightforward. I can't always get my brain to think fast enough to keep up. Thanks Doc for the advice!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/15 03:04 PM
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