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You shouldn’t care, but you do, and that’s normal. That’s jealousy from your primal male instinct of territoriality activating. Principles of RP require you to work against this and let go of this primal urge, but it takes an active effort to do so. I would say this behavior would disqualify from a potential LTR. Usually, women are pretty covert about their other male prospects with men they’re currently seeing so as to not introduce problems, so part of me wonders if this “main” plate is being …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:33 PM
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Up to you honestly. Just because trp is amoral, it doesn’t mean you have to live your life as such. But consider the facts first: - she told you she’s in an open relationship, but in fact lied about it - she lives with her bf (and is most likely financially-supported by him) - she sent you nudes and wants you to fuck Most likely, this woman is for the streets and you’re not the only one she’s sending nudes and such to. If she hasn’t already, she’s probably going to fuck some random dude and once…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 07:22 PM
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No copy-pasted response here bro, just trying to help. However, I can see your fragile ego won’t even allow you to critically-think and answer a question from a dude who’s just trying to help you see how you’re wasting your time focusing on the wrong thing. But do you bro, good luck with those pics ✌🏿
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:22 PM
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Well nobody says you have to be interested in women all the time. Remember that the goal of TRP is to become the best version of yourself above all else. The women are just icing on the cake. I do suggest practicing game and getting atleast 1-2 plates at your age just so you can have access to sex when you feel it necessary and you aren’t rusty when you do eventually find interest in women again. But other than that, I wouldn’t worry too much about the disinterest in women right now. I say conti…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:18 PM
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Why’re you texting a chick asking for pics instead of actually fucking her?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:12 PM
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You don’t have a relationship bro and if you’ve properly read the sidebar, you already know what to do. But if not, Here’s what you need to do, exactly as stated. Contact your LDR and end things with her. Distance yourself from your friends who’re telling you to “ride it out”. I can tell you’re new to TRP, and in order to really get this new way of thinking in your head, you have to be able to critically think and analyze behaviors of women you’ve interacted with without the outside blue pill in…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:05 PM
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Yes and no. It’s more so about continually forcing yourself out of your comfort zone. Never talked to more than 5 girls in life? Then sure, talking to 5 girls a day will be hugely beneficial and will help your overall social skills. But you’ll eventually hit a point where talking to 5 girls becomes “easy” to an extent, so then you have to push yourself further and create a new challenge of talking to 5 attractive girls with the convo having sexual intentions and making the goal for yourself to a…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 01:39 PM
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Work every day on giving less and less fucks about what people think of you. Ex. Someone judging you for something you believe in? Remind yourself that you don’t give a fuck about what that person thinks of you and continue to stand strong in your beliefs. Do this enough and you’ll give yourself a LOT of mental freedom from the expectations of society and you’ll grow to have unshakeable frame.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 06:20 AM
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Mewing and all that other jawline exercise bullshit all over YouTube isn’t real, so I wouldn’t waste my time with that. Here’s the ez guide to a sharp, model-esque facial structure for YOU (emphasis on the you part): Diet down to 10-12% body fat (Get some bodyfat calipers to determine where you actually are so you’re not just guessing.) Cut down on sodium intake (Sodium causes you to retain water, which makes you look bloated). Do these two things first, then come back if you’re still not satisf…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:07 PM
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Hard next without question. Like, delete her contact number from your phone the very second you read this and never communicate with her again. It’s one thing to respond and say you’re not able to make it to the date, but to go radio silent on the day of is a huge “I’m not that interested in you and don’t even respect you enough to tell you I’m not coming” red flag. If Brad Pitt were to ask her on a date, do you think she would flake on him? Chances are, probably not. Although, to be frank, you …
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:58 PM
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Her move was completely unrelated to mine. Our job opportunities just happened to line up; she moved for her own career move.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:31 PM
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You've got a good point. I think the maturity is a recurring issue. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:23 PM
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Facts. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:22 PM
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Lmaooo. "That's a weakass charger. Ima be here forever. I'll just use the one at ur place."
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:29 PM
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can't hurt. do you homie
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:28 AM
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You never stop hitting the gym. Your workouts may be a little too intense for your body, but you don't just quit. You're adding to your lifespan going to the gym. Why would you ever stop?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:26 AM
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She's fooling you bro. If she wanted to hang out with you, she would've made an effort to do so. A told you she was having a drink, so why get hung up on C? If your chances with C were realistic, she would've been in your bed. You missed your chance with C. Don't fuck it up with A too. Best way for you to not look needy is to make plans with A.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:24 AM
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Planet Fitness.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 12:19 AM
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Doesn't matter. Go after what you want. If she isn't down, then cool. Onto the next. Though, I will say that it's pretty hard to sustain fwb with an ex. It's fun, but it'll come to an end eventually.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:50 PM
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A ham sandwich.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:44 PM
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Your chances of closing C are extremely slim to none rn. You had a chance last night, but B was cockblocking, something you have to look out for when gaming solo. What you should've done after you won A over, was try and get B some other dick at the bar. Then you would've been golden with C. At this point, C is flaking out, so I would just make plans with A and fuck her instead. She's local anyhow, and you probably won't be fucking C anytime soon.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:43 PM
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She's gonna run all over you, dude. Having a bitchy, jealous, and insecure chick that you can't control is one day gonna lead to sexless marriage. She sees you as the provider, beta male type, and she's keeping you on the hook and making you overlook her bullshit with sex. Either man the fuck up and tell her that her behavior is unacceptable, or next her. Otherwise, she's gonna end up controlling your life.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:38 PM
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I'd do whatever's cheapest. Studios and 1 BR serve the same function. You'll be fucking in either regardless.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:34 PM
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Using a fake tinder because you're in a relationship is gonna blow up in your face one day or another. I'd advise you to either: get the fuck off tinder and stop catfishing girls. Be real with your gf and tell her you're trying to fuck other women. It's not a good look. Fake profiles scream insecurity and deceit.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:33 PM
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Don't apologize. There's ways to show you've learned something without apologizing. Just trust your instincts and do what you feel is right. When you've truly internalized red pill, you won't have to "think" about shit to do, you'll just do what's right. It's your gf, so comfort tests are going to come in addition to shit tests. You just gotta trust your gut and trust that all the studying you've been doing will guide you to the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:29 PM
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"Hey, my phone's about to die and I need GPS to get back home. Do you have a charger at your place that I could use?"
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:24 PM
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Your friends def made you look bad. She's obv into you, but you gotta take control of shit. What do you want with her? Do you want to date again? Do you want to plate her? I can't really tell what your intentions and desires are with her.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:22 PM
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Just get a $10 gym membership and get to lifting some heavy shit. You could build a home gym, but the money you'd spend on that would be much more expensive than just going to a planet fitness 3x a week.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:19 PM
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I would just establish boundaries and leave the messages out of it. What reason does she have to listen to you or take you serious? If you show her you care about them, she'll likely use them against you in some way. You were who you were and you did what you did. There's no need to be ashamed of it. It was an old version of you that no longer exists. It's all good.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:18 PM
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Why does it matter? Just stick to your guns and if she gives an ultimatum, drop the plate.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 05:34 PM
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She took college courses in high school and stacked a bunch of credits, basically. You're right. I'm overreacting.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:35 PM
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I like the motion of the background. It gets stale after a little, but that's why adding lower thirds will bring up retention. It's a video, so motion of some sort is key.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 06:04 PM
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Dude, looking back on it, this would've been gold lol.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:21 PM
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Duly noted. Thank you so much brother! This is AWESOME advice. I mean it.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:20 PM
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You're sharing some great information brother! That being said, if you could throw some lower thirds throughout the video highlighting each method you shared about building a social circle, that would help with guys taking notes and such. But again, good shit bro.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 05:07 PM
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Looool, okay! I'll break it down... She's studying journalism and wants to be a news anchor. I'm working for a real estate company and am currently working outside of my work hours to build my own digital marketing business and invest in real estate myself. I'm also pursuing acting as a passion. I'm not sure about the long-term goals. She does want children, as do I. I want them later on in life however, and the 5-year age gap complements this. But that's on neither of our minds at the moment. S…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:59 PM
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Facts. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:48 PM
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Sex is good, she's really hot (HB9-10 range), and she's very sociable and cares a lot for me. She sucks my dick randomly just because she wants to please me and is pretty down for anything I want to do sexually (Haven't pushed a threesome yet, but this situation could allow for it). She sees me as a prize and wants me for herself, which is where the exclusivity thing comes from.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:47 PM
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I get you. I guess I'm just thinking that by doing nothing, I'm giving the message that barslut behavior is okay with me, and doesn't really give the best chance of us pursuing an LTR later on. ​
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:41 PM
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You’re contradicting yourself. You just said she’s a plate. There’s no exclusivity with plates. Keep plating her if you can manage to not get oneitis. I mean as far as her wanting us to date exclusively. She's mentioned it before, so should I tell her "you lost your chance of us dating exclusively" to make it known that her actions has a consequence, or should I just say "it's cool" and continue to proceed as if nothing happened?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:39 PM
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Just keep fucking her for now. When shes done school she might just leave u True shit. Thanks bro. Should I let her know explicitly that now we're dating non-exclusively?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:31 PM
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Okay. Should I let her know explicitly that now we're dating non-exclusively or just take the hit on the cheek and keep going?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I thought about that. Even if she says she is, her environment isn't meant for it. Also, I can't expect her at her age to think the same way I am at my age. She's graduating this semester though, which kind of changes things. If she were a Sophomore like she should be, I would've said ok and kept fucking, but it's different. She's the most entertaining plate I've had yet, so do I just keep fucking her until she graduates and then try to pursue a LTR?
/r/askTRP03/02/19 04:26 PM
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This. You can't build a skyscraper if your foundation is damaged. Your body is an extremely important instrument, and should never be taken lightly. Find a physical therapist that can tell you what's going on and get you on track to healing your instrument properly. Then from there, you can begin to build again physically. As far as mentally and emotionally, what do you do daily? Meditating is a great habit to pick up, especially for your spiritual well-being, but you have to introduce it into y…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 08:24 PM
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You know what you should/need to do to improve. First, don't shit where you eat. That being said, the women at your job (be careful with this because sexual harassment) and your gym are pretty decent people to practice controlling your Aspergers around. With these women, you have nothing to lose because again, you hopefully won't be shitting where you eat, so you're free to practice game so that when you approach a woman whom doesn't know you (which would honestly yield you the best experience),…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 05:44 AM
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In regards to what? Conversations? Watching movies? Reading books? All of the above?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:47 PM
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I think what they mean is that you don't allow your emotions to control you to make irrational decisions. We're not saying to bottle up your emotions and never process them like a robot; but stay stoic in the face of adversity. It's okay to cry and feel emotional and shit if you're relating to an experience you've had from a movie or whatever, but in regards to situations with women, do that shit in private.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:45 PM
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Talk about them. Talk about things they're interested in. Here's a helpful acronym to remember things to talk about: F - Family O - Occupation R - Recreation D - Dreams
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:34 AM
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Yes, it is. Offer something of value to them. Be outgoing, or funny, or offer something of value to them. Be the one to initiate the friendship. If they're in your class, try to work on projects with them, etc. Just find a way to either provide value to them or have something they want that you can use to initiate friendship.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:18 AM
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I don't have any physical limitations personally, but from what I can tell you about guys I know who slay that do, it's all about confidence. The things you listed aren't really limitations, they're just things you THINK are limitations. Is your height a factor in attractiveness? Yes, but you aren't missing any limbs (I'm assuming), so you're good. You've gotta change your mindset and not see your physical features as "limitations", but just see them as part of you. Use them to your advantage. B…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:27 PM
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Who's your opponent and what did you lose at? Be more specific.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:24 PM
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and became the person i wanted to be. Then it's time to want to become a new person. Don't rush the journey. It takes time and that's alright. The person you want to be wouldn't be second-guessing why he's the prize. You've made great progress from where you were, so you should realize that (and I mean REALLY know it, like internalize it.) but realize that this is a LONG journey, never-ending really. So be okay with that and put yourself back into the mindset of growth.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:21 PM
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Make friends with the athletes. That'll take you much further a lot faster than trying to compete with them. Or become an athlete yourself.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:19 PM
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Take small steps and gradually improve. Dude, you're 18. You've got a LOT OF TIME to learn this shit and master it. So, take things slow and go step-by-step. What's the number 1 thing you want to learn (i.e. Cold Approach, Frame Control, Fitness, etc.) that you think would have the MOST positive impact on your life? Once you find that 1 thing, learn it with the intention of mastering it. Make it a weekly or even daily task to try and practice. And by practice, I mean go outside and FORCE yoursel…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:46 AM
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Some friends you can't do business with (bad money management skills), some friends you can't go to bars and strip clubs with (religious beliefs/self-control issues), and some friends you can't go to fancy events with, but at the end of the day, they're all still your friends. So don't act like you don't know your friend. That just shows you to be a shitty friend. You can make an excuse for him if you'd like. Have an honest conversation with your friend about his acting out and how it looks bad …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:30 AM
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Women usually never initiate things. If you want to see her again, you hit her up and make plans to do so.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:04 AM
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Chances are likely you won't fuck this girl. At least, not with that mindset. I don't understand the whole situation entirely, but she knows that her pussy has power over you (or, the lack of it). That's very unattractive to her. She knows the frustration she's causing you by not fucking you, even though you say you don't need it (Women are extremely perceptive. They see through bullshit like that. You've gotta actually KNOW you'll be fine if you don't fuck her for it to really make an impact). …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:57 AM
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I learned from a couple of pickup guys that Fun & Escalation is the name of the game in night game environments like clubs, parties, etc. Here's their play-by-play: Get to the venue relatively early in the night and go meet everyone you can (This warms you up and gets you in a social mood for the next steps). You should be opening 10-15 groups of people on average, depending on size of the place. Get on the dance floor and start ripping it up! You've already boosted SMV in the club by showing th…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 04:44 AM
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Don't overthink it. You'll have a lot more dates than just this one. Just aim to have fun, escalate, and enjoy yourself while you're out.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:04 PM
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That sounds like want to have a political debate with her. My take on it is, if you like her and want to fuck her, just be direct in asking her out. "Let's go out for drinks. When're you free?" Then from there, get her number.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:15 PM
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Bad answer. It’s best to start over new friends new job, drop social media. It’s easy to reestablish your self as an alpha. Actually, this is a bad answer. You're assuming OP has the resources and means to make that happen. If you had read the other comments and context of his situation before posting, you would have seen that OP is a freshman in high school. Chances are, he's stuck where he is until college, and I'm assuming that transferring schools isn't a viable option for him since he just …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:53 PM
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What do you think the best option is?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:45 PM
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So she made you dinner and clearly showed IOIs, and you're contemplating "text game"? (Btw, texting does not build attraction, so it should only be used for logistics.) What's your gut telling you to do?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:09 PM
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What's your purpose for calling?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:06 PM
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You've got some self-work to do brother. Confidence also comes from repeated positive experiences in something you do, which is why we talk about lifting and becoming stronger. I can guarantee you though that if you don't make it an active mission to change your mindset and view yourself as gold, your gf will eventually leave you, either physically or emotionally or both.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:36 AM
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Well I can say that changing your rep instantaneously is a hard thing to do. The best thing you can do for yourself is to not give a fuck about the opinions of other people and start bringing RP principles into your life. You've got a lot of work ahead of you, so put your head down and start grinding. You'll eventually come to a point where your natural persona will be rp and that's what your goal should be. Worrying about your reputation will only be a distraction for the work you need to be do…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:30 AM
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You're letting your doubts dictate the possibilities for your life. Who's to say what you can or can't do other than you? If you know the vision of the life you want for yourself, don't let the world tell you that you can or can't do it. Make that shit happen. No matter what it takes. If this is your DREAM, why does it matter how difficult it might be? It's your DREAM. You chase that shit till your last breath. But this is all irrelevant if you don't start with the first step: BELIEVING you can …
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:22 AM
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How do you know you have a rep as a beta?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:18 AM
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The problem is that the insecurity is controlling you and sucking your energy away. The point is, since she's on vacation (usually girls vacations encourage sexual behavior btw), the only way you'll know that she cheated is if someone spills the beans or you find evidence, purposely or not. And for the love of god, don't start acting insecure trying to find shit and sweating her when she gets back. That KILLS attractiveness. If you were secure with yourself, you'd know that it would be absolutel…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:17 AM
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You're definitely welcome here OP, but you might also find some value in exploring the redpillwomen sub. It's basically the female version of what we talk about here.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:11 AM
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Make a decision on when you want to see her and text her logistics and make a solid plan. Texting. Is. For. Logistics. Only. If you feel you need to text for any reason outside of logistics, call her instead.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:05 AM
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imo, worrying about your gf cheating is a symptom of one or both of two things: She's giving you cheating vibes and your instincts are shooting off. You're insecure with yourself and don't believe you're the prize, therefore projecting your insecurities onto her cheating on you with someone else. If you're even considering hiring a PI to find out if your gf is cheating, then just break up with her now and spare yourself the money and work. I would personally say for you, my opinion is that you'r…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:03 AM
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Great.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:12 PM
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Who said it was fake? We don't lift for the sake of getting pussy. We lift because we're striving to be the best version of ourselves as men by improving our health, fitness, and strength. You seem like you've found this place on accident, but it's alright. Please continue moving along. We'll be here when you're ready.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:12 PM
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You can even take it one step further and start a photography business. Go up to the most beautiful women on campus and ask them if they could volunteer modeling for you to help you build a portfolio to start marketing a new photography business you're creating (they'll obv say yes). You give them free pics they can post on instagram, and you have a body of work you can use to drum up business and make some money on the side while meeting lots of people. From there, volunteer to photograph peopl…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:31 AM
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Well with my female friends, I've internally established sexual boundaries that I just won't cross for the sake of keeping my social circle tight, but I'll flirt with them and get handsy a bit. There's nothing wrong with telling a woman she looks beautiful. I just have to tell her that I look better after lol. Did I answer your question?
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:25 AM
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It just applies to individual scenarios really. (i.e. if you're aware people use you for your drugs or not.) I've known drug dealers who're smart about their business and only let women smoke their weed who they fuck. I've also known beta drug dealers who let women run all over them and smoke up their whole supply. It just depends on who you are. However, I just feel that OP's friend is more of the latter type. The point I guess I'm making though, is that OP can get what he desires without riski…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 07:21 AM
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Just join clubs dude. Your drug dealer friend is just being used by those girls to get free weed from him. He's just getting game ran on him. So if you want to follow his example, you'll need to not care about the consequences and have deep pockets because you'll risk getting caught by campus police and getting fined/possibly expelled and/or going broke because as a college freshman, it's hard affording weed for more than yourself on a regular basis. What do you like to do? Join clubs that're ab…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:55 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Honestly, that's like playing with fire. You don't know who could be watching you and waiting to throw you under the bus for "sexually-offensive language" or whatever in the workplace. Trying to be your definition of a "man" at work is not worth a firing and sexual harassment charge. You can still be masculine at work, as you should always be throughout life, but that doesn't mean you have to run game and risk losing your job because someone didn't like something you sa…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:46 AM
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You can't let one bad experience haunt you and prevent you from moving forward. If you're going to swallow the red pill, it's going to be a journey. It'll be long, difficult at times, and scary. But the rewards you'll reap along the way are immensely worth it. My assumption is that when you got called out by those girls, you reacted emotionally in a way that broke your frame, inviting more shaming to happen and thus, creating a bad experience for you. Those girls said you were coming on to them …
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:33 AM
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How old are you turning?
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:23 AM
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I have. Girls see that I'm not a "nice guy" anymore and it pulls them in. I'm way more open about my sexual nature now with women, including "friends", and I'm kind of a cocky asshole that knows how to be gentlemanly. I still focus on pursuing other women since I've lost attraction to them, but seeing the women who didn't fuck with me before now want to be around me is amusing. It's never been something I've went out of my way to do, though.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 03:21 AM
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There's your issue.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:49 PM
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Lol I had to look it up too.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:17 PM
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There is. SMV is Sexual Market Value. It's a culmination of different individual standings on LMS (Looks, Money, Status). L+M+S = SMV, essentially.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 04:15 PM
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Whenever she tells me she's in town and I want to fuck.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:46 AM
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Fuck her, Kick her stingy ass to the curb, or both.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:45 AM
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Depends on what you want to do.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:39 AM
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You've just got to push yourself through the fear tbh. I used to feel petrified approaching women, but when I walked through the pre-conceived fear that I fabricated in my mind, I was 1000x happier that I approached, even if I got blown out. Just realize that your approach anxiety is just the veil of fear. Once you walk through it, you'll realize that the reward past the veil is very much worth the courage of approaching.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:35 AM
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Ice skating, skating rink, bowling, cheap go karts, etc. Just think of action-based venues where you can do stuff.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 03:32 AM
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I usually shop at thrift stores because I can usually find something that fits my particular style there, but usually any stores like Walmart, Marshalls, or Ross will have something I like. What's your style? I guess that would be the first question.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:15 PM
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Just take the hit on the cheek and move on. We can't erase the mistakes we've made, unfortunate situations life threw at us, or weak moments we've had. All we can do is make a decision to get back up and not repeat those behaviors again. It's okay to fuck up, but you've gotta be able to accept yourself and move forward. If you let the fear of your fuck ups consume you, you'll be living in fear for your whole life, and that's not really a proper path to happiness. Forgive yourself, re-align your …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:12 PM
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Go fuck other women. That's the quickest cure to oneitis. Look, we all like to believe our exes were "amazing, beautiful, kind" unicorns that were one in a million, but odds are, they aren't. Get back on Tinder and rip it up. Go hard. Get back into fucking other women. Oneitis can be taken care of by experiencing feminine energy from other women and having sex with them. Also, realize that SHE broke up with YOU over a Tinder account that you WEREN'T using? (i.e. Is it possible she was considerin…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:04 PM
1

I would challenge you to even try again with the same girls. You initiate wrapping your arm around her. What's the worst that could happen? She says no and moves your arm? Okay. You've gotta get your reps in. That means practicing on unimportant people so that when the real catch comes along, you're comfortable in your actions and words.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:01 PM
1

I'm just saying OP's dealing with problems that he doesn't HAVE to deal with.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 08:58 PM
1

Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:33 PM
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Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:33 PM
1

Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:30 PM
1

Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:30 PM
1

Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:30 PM
1

Let's shift the perspective of this question because this isn't an issue of "Why do I always attract chubby girls?". We all do. I feel like you'd be better served to know "Why am I not succeeding with hot women?" So, with that being said, what do you do in trying to get hot women and where do you feel you aren't succeeding? Is it just that you're approaching women with boyfriends?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:30 PM
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You see how little she wrote compared to how much you wrote? The thing is, you conveyed more investment in a digital text convo with a stranger than she did, which is not attractive. You also took the convo more seriously than she did by giving a serious answer. Maybe that would've been acceptable on a 2nd date/3rd date scenario, looking like you care more than the girl on the dating app text is not good. You also double messaged, which is insta-convo death.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:25 PM
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You see how little she writes compared to how much you write? The thing is, you conveyed more investment in the convo than she did, which is not attractive. You also double messaged, which is insta-convo death.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:24 PM
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Droplets when placed appropriately will place you as the authority and eventually he'll look to seek more knowledge from you.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:21 PM
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Droplets when placed appropriately will place you as the authority and eventually he'll look to seek more knowledge from you.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:21 PM
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Droplets when placed appropriately will place you as the authority and eventually he'll look to seek more knowledge from you. ​
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:21 PM
1

I'm assuming you're in high school? My guess is that you're caring too much about what you say to girls, so therefore your brain ends up going haywire and you don't even know what you're talking about anymore (at least, that's what was happening to me when I used to ramble when talking to women). The first thing is to not give a fuck about what you say and just let your brain chill and do it's thing. Your brain is smart. It might make you say dumb shit sometimes, but it's okay because you don't …
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:16 PM
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I would actually be a bit careful with this. RP knowledge requires a certain "open-mindedness" from someone for them to be open to accept the knowledge. It's pretty unconventional stuff we talk about that goes against the status quo of what is commonly believed, sometimes quite brazenly, so I believe that when trying to bring a new member into RP, do it with caution and thought. From my experience, if your cousin isn't seeking this kind of knowledge due to some pain he's felt that he's looking t…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:05 PM
3

Of all the women who smile at you, how many of them do you actually walk up and say hi to?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:59 PM
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So that means he should put up with the mental and possibly emotional stress of being with someone that he isn't even really attracted to so he can "practice" getting over his premature ejaculation issue? Chances are he could still fuck her even if he isn't in a LTR with her (not as consistently ofc, but a likely possibility.) Maybe it's just me, but I think the best way to break through a wall is to run right through it, and him relying on his LTR as a crutch is only keeping him from what he re…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 06:54 PM
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If you're having doubts about being in an LTR with her, then end it. You're in college. This is the pussy-slaying stride of your young adult life. Don't waste it.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:22 AM
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How do you find these ghost producers? DM me a link. Ghost writers too if you got those.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:19 AM
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Do what you want.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 02:18 AM
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Thought so lol. Conventional RP theory says that text is only to be used for logistical purposes, and I would agree. What do you WANT to do with this? It seems to not have much direction.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 09:32 PM
2

Is this over text or an actual face-to-face convo?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 09:27 PM
2

"Hey, you seem pretty cool. We should hangout sometime" - Take out your phone with the dialpad screen open and hand it to her. Simple as that. Text her later.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 09:15 PM
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Start escalating on your hangouts more and see where it goes. You've done enough rapport-building, now it's time to actually start going for the close.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:22 PM
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I'm not getting the logic here. How CAN she be a fuck buddy if she's never fucked you? Not wanting to be a fuck buddy implies that she's either fucked you and she doesn't want to do it anymore or she hasn't fucked you, but is willing to fuck you on the terms of a relationship. Also, you say that you would have fucked already, but how do you really know that when the last time you tried she resisted? How do you know sex is going to happen the next time? Dude, I'm changing my advice: Fuck a relati…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 08:19 PM
1

If you're gonna go, then go bold. That's... okay, I guess. But if she says she likes you a lot, then you're clear to escalate boldly and let her tell you where the line is... maybe.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:32 PM
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You can do it in a funny and teasing way. That'll show the girl that you have standards while calling her out at the same time in a way that doesn't show you as butthurt.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:24 PM
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Super fucked (not really lol). She basically sounds like a gold digger. You put yourself in a bad position brother. The good news is, you can fix all this (Given you haven't impregnated her). If she isn't pulling her weight, get rid of her. Think objectively about what she provides you: Restrictions on sex? No financial contributions? No drive to make you achieve more? Women are either going to be propellers or anchors, and this one sounds like an anchor, so get rid of her or ATLEAST STOP CO-HAB…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:40 PM
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Be straight up with her then and leave it to her on whether she wants to stay around or not. At that point, you'll know you left everything on the field and it'll be what it is. Explain to her that a LTR takes a while for you and you really want to KNOW the person before committing at that level, which means sex and the like to see if you're actually compatible. This is a side-thought, but I'm also wondering if you could just be not going hard enough on trying to escalate on sex.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:22 PM
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Why would you even consider a LTR with someone you haven't had sex with? What if the sex isn't good? How do you know you two are sexually-compatible? She may be interesting to you personality-wise, but not having fucked her yet probably means she wants to make you into the provider boyfriend. Plus, how is it a FWB if you guys havent fucked? I guess I'm just confused on the situation as a whole.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:17 PM
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Usually I just say something like "you're not so bad, either" Also a great qualifier to use. OP, just keep shit like this in your back pocket, because these kinds of statements come up a lot and you can REALLY knock it out the park when you respond correctly.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:14 PM
1

I'm probably going to get heat on this, but black guys have the lowest status by default in my opinion--by far--so they have to put more effort into their body and style to make up for it. I'd attribute default status to why I rarely see black guys running daygame. The media has given black men a dangerous edge which must have helped. White girls think you're all blade.. you mother fuckers playing league of legends at 1am not slaying vampires. LMAOO!!!!! I'm literally in tears at this!! looool
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:56 PM
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im not really sure what to say then. You sound like you don't want to change tbh.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:40 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:34 PM
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I don't think I've ever heard, "I fucked your WHITE bitch"... I've heard "I fucked your bitch" though. So you're concerned about the sexual preferences of CERTAIN WOMEN? Not even all women, but just certain ones? Are these certain women ones you've truly had feelings for but it wasn't reciprocated? There must be a reason why you care about these certain women. Also, what does rappers and rap culture have to do with you and your daily life? How does that affect you? Btw, there are white rappers w…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:33 PM
1

You are. Cold Approach is one of the most fear-inducting, but optimal breakthrough strategies in approaching women. Cold approach in dating is like cold calling in sales (there's a reason why most salesmen don't do it, but the ones who do are millionaires.) You lose outcome dependence by coming from nothing and having no expectations. All that matters is if you approached or not. Your worth as a man doesn't depend on what she says. Your value isn't determined by if she fucks you or not. That's j…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:15 PM
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You should humble yourself and learn a thing or twenty from Mike. You're a newcomer to the group. I assume Mike's been there. Don't try to assume dominance in a group that you haven't formed, especially if you aren't favored to win. Obviously, Mike's doing SOMETHING right to get the attention from the women you want, and I say if you can't beat them, join them. And it sounds like at this point currently with your level of game, you can't beat Mike. I would say become genuine friends with Mike an…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:54 PM
2

If Chad wants chlamydia, herpes, or HIV, then sure!
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:50 PM
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You sound like a victim who's blaming the world for his problems and doesn't have a purpose. Your post sounds like it would err on the side of MGTOW, but by including hatred of other men (those outside of your race, specifically), I can see that it's a bit different. You say that porn has caused you to grow hate for black men, but being black myself, I doubt that's the case for a few reasons: ​ "I do listen to rap, but secretly I started to grow hate for black men because they're shown often in …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:44 PM
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Could've responded two ways here, depending on your relationship with her: "I know," then smirk and grab her ass. (Good cocky response for a plate/HB with plate potential/HB you're on a date with. Raises SMV and increases sexual tension). Grab her, pull her tight, and kiss her. (Also good response for the above situations, but is awesome for a LTR or someone you're highly considering to make a LTR). Just smirking and ignoring was not the most optimal response though. Btw, comfort tests should on…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:18 PM
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Your issue isn't your approach, it's your mindset. Do you feel confident when you approach? Do you realize that you literally have NOTHING to lose when approaching, regardless of the outcome? Do you KNOW for a FACT that you are the prize? You care too much of what she thinks of you, which is why you fall apart when you start to notice your "imperfections" in your approach. More CA with a bad mindset will just leave a bad taste in your mouth; approaching with confidence, outcome independence, and…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:12 PM
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Get new friends. Don't fall into the trap of their negativity and allow them to alter your emotional state. You just go and get new friends is all. It's not hard.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:10 PM
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Ignore for the moment, but every few days, spark 2-3 texts of convo until you see her next week. Text should only be used for logistics, but when there's a sizeable amount of time between meetups, it's good to keep the lead "warm" and send value-texts (i.e. texts that dont require a response like memes, funny texts, w/e) just to keep you at top of mind.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:07 PM
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Why wouldn't you exactly?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:06 PM
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Not if it isn't something you want to do. You lose if you do it because you felt pressure to do so from her. I personally would even go as far as to say to not do it unless it's like a 24 hour story or something (that disappears after a day). Posting about your LTR on social media just gives false validation to you guys' relationship, imo. People comment "cute couple!" and all that other stuff, which is just her seeking validation from the internet.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:08 AM
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You sound needy and controlling. Her friend's relationship with her isn't your relationship with her, so you don't really know the significance of her going to her friend's birthday party. Also, it's her friend's birthday. It's not like she's going out to suck dick with her (at least, hopefully not). It's not that serious, dude. Just take a chill pill and hit up your bros and have a boys' weekend or something. Sweating her on it will show you as insecure.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:59 AM
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You should do d. d.) Go do some odd jobs, cut grass, tutor, whatever you have to do in order to complete one of these two things: Have $75 monthly to afford the gym. Buy a range of weights and a barbell rack to start doing lifts @ home. (Can be from craigslist or letgo). Not lifting is going to hold you back in SO many parts of your growth it's crazy.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:54 AM
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I don't care how "broke" you are. You can afford the gym. Dont lie to yourself like that. ​ If you aren't willing to work/make the commitment to invest in yourself, then you won't grow.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 02:25 AM
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You'd have to be EXCESSIVELY training (trust me, you'll know when you're overtraining) for it to negatively impact your health. You're sixteen. Your genetics will determine how tall or short you will be. That's not something weight training can interfere with. It's a myth that's been told for too many generations. Professional athletes train WAY harder and WAY longer than we non-athletes do. They don't "stunt" their growth, and they train sometimes from age 5. What I will say though, is to make …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:16 AM
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I'm assuming that since you're asking this question, you aren't seeing the results you want. From what I'm reading, your strategy seems very "approval-seeking" in nature. Here's why: You only approach girls who give IOIs (Good indicator sure, but a man goes for what HE WANTS, not for what's available to him.) You dance on them "hoping" they'll do the same back. (Why? Just dance with them with no expectation of them dancing back or not.) From my understanding, night game in a nutshell is being fu…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:10 AM
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^
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:04 AM
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Lol, it's all good brother! A lot of great guys helped me out, so I just do what I can to give back :)
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:03 AM
2

Good job! :D
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:01 AM
4

This might just be me, but I don't think getting "bigger" will heal your depression. Yes, you might feel better about your appearance, but making your emotional state dependent upon that will leave you as a wreck. I would actually REALLY sit down and explore what's causing the depression. Do you have a sense of purpose? What do you want to accomplish in your life? What will your mark be on the world?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 01:00 AM
2

Well it's not a secret that compound lifts usually trump machines when comparing possible gains over long periods of time, especially on a newer lifter. Also, everybody's body is different. Maybe the newbie has better genetics to build muscle than you, or maybe he just worked harder, you don't know. You can't really blame the trainer for that without clear evidence that it's solely his fault that you're behind someone who started after you. You gotta make the decision for yourself, though. We co…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:55 AM
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Things that make you more productive, fit, knowledgeable, courageous, rich, influential, or bold. There's really no schedule to this stuff so long as you maximize the amount of time you spend each and everyday improving yourself. Now, if you're talking about a RP crash course for a new member, sidebar will take care of you in that regard.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:49 AM
1

You talking about a steroid cycle? How will that help?
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:48 AM
2

No. Kids play sports all the time and they still grow. Oneitis comes from uninformed beliefs and expectations you have for a woman. Realize that with oneitis, it's highly likely you're assuming a certain persona of her that is likely not true (when thinking of woman we have oneitis for, we usually like to "assume" certain traits of her personality or selectively recall good experiences we've had with them, rejecting the reality that they likely aren't the women we paint them to be.) So just talk…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:46 AM
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The dating scene hasn't changed that much in the past 5 years. Your mindset is what's holding you back, I feel. You suggest that the women you meet are more or less vapid and "just want sex", but usually the things we experience in life are reflections of ourselves. It sounds like you desire a woman with substance who displays qualities worth making her a LTR sometime down the road, which is fine if that's what you want, but your mindset of that not being a possibility is going to keep holding y…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:38 AM
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If you're considering ditching your trainer, then you probably should. :/ The issue is that you're going to keep doubting him and whether he's worth your money (which by you doubting him, he probably isn't). If he were worth what you were paying him, you wouldn't be posting this (given you're putting in the effort and discipline required to transform your body). For where you are now, you don't need a trainer. A personal trainer is more of a luxury or for specific purposes only (body building, s…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 12:30 AM
3

Car ain't a bad place to start. Just make sure wherever you park is dark and isolated.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:19 AM
2

Okay, so as a man, you probably have a moral code/ethics of some sort, correct? I assume that stealing and lying to a "friend" isn't part of your code. This is what I mean by "standing your ground". Your boundaries have been crossed, so therefore you need to express that. Now, whether he did do it or didn't isn't really the issue, but the core of it is that YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM. Plain and simple. You can even say something as simple as, "Hey bro, I'm not saying it's you, but I've been noticing th…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:58 AM
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Stand your ground as a man, but don't let his dishonesty affect your emotional state. It's obvious he isn't to be trusted, so he be upfront and honest. No hate, just can't fuck with dude anymore.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:28 AM
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If a next if you want it to be. We can't next for you, we can only advise on what to do. But, this chick is obv. crazy, hard ass next.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:25 AM
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"She's not yours; it's just your turn"
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:48 AM
1

Then you need to let her know your boundaries and stick by them. If your mother is crossing the line, let her know the consequences and proceed accordingly when she violates them. ​
/r/askTRP07/10/18 09:04 PM
1

Did you ever let your mother know this clearly?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:59 PM
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Ah, I'm not sure about Europe. Costa Rica has a really safe, affordable, and pretty good sex tourism scene. Thailand does too.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:57 PM
2

Where's you trying to go?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:55 PM
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Tell them to fuck off and worry about their own lives. You don't have to go nuclear, but kindly and respectfully telling them to worry about themselves is fine. You're a grown man. You make your own decisions and do what YOU want to do. Chances are, people telling you to get married are probably married and want you to share in their misery. Now, marriage isn't a bad thing if it's framed and done correctly and it's something you WANT to do, but you should NEVER marry out of being pressured by ot…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:53 PM
1

I agree. You made a good point: Only give honest, critical feedback ONLY if it's asked for.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:51 PM
1

Is this a friend, someone you want to fuck, or both?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:53 PM
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Depends where you are locally. For the most part though, making friends isn't hard. The secret to making friends is that YOU have to initiate the friendship. 95% of people won't go out of their way to make friends because of societal expectations and whatnot, but if you have 5 solid, awesome friends, you're pretty much set. I would read How to Win Friends and Influence People for further direction.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:51 PM
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All you can do is be a supportive friend and be there for him through this inevitable crushing of his heart. I don't recommend introducing bros to RP unless they SAY they're ready for this reason: You can bring a horse to the well for the water you know it needs, but you can't force it to drink. This is a journey your friend is going to have to go on. While you think you telling him that he's fucking up and she's not into him is helping him, all it's really doing is pushing you guys apart subcon…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:21 PM
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I know what you mean. They probably get up and bee-line back to their dorms 0.0000412 seconds after the bell rings. In that case, I'd say your best bet is to just approach right after class ends. They may be busy college students, but they've got time to talk to a guy who thinks they're attractive for a little and ask them out to coffee. And a clear, intentional approach with the goal of a date is still much better than veiling your intentions under a study session. Also, usually ASD only activa…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:17 AM
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Movies also has tons of underlying connations that'll get her hamster spinning in a way that you don't want. "He wants to go to the movies? Where it's dark? And we'll be sitting next to each other? What kind of movie?" etc. If you want to watch movies, the best time to do it is when she's already at your house and you're on the bed/couch together escalating while netflix is playing in the background or something.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:13 AM
1

search bar should have a thread on this and plenty of other RP books.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:11 AM
2

Then best bet is to just ask her out and see what happens. You can't build attraction through text. It just doesn't work like that. It'll just make you into a beta-orbiter "text buddy", and I'm sure that's not what you're aiming for. So yeah, as above poster said, ask her out. If she's down, cool. If not, you've saved yourself TONS of time analyzing and trying to think of witty, slick texts to send down the road.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:09 AM
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So like, I really only text girls for logistical purposes. (i.e. Time/place to meet for a date, when I'll be arriving at their house, etc.) If she said it over text, then I can only assume you're texting her too much with the intention of trying to build attraction or for some other reason than logistics.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:03 AM
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Don't bite off more than you can chew. You're 15 bro. First off, I dunno HOW THE HELL you found us, but CONGRATS on making it in here so early on in your life! Second, just take things one step at a time. It's great to have goals, but Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither will you life you want be. Just pick 1-2 things you want to implement in your life and start doing it on a schedule. On average, it takes about 60 days of doing something on a regular basis for it to become a habit, so trying…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:00 AM
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Women are A LOT smarter than you may or may not think. She knows hitting you up could lead to sex. She just wants plausible deniability so that the sex isn't her fault. It's up to you whether you want to pursue her or not. I personally don't fuck with girls that have boyfriends because that's just the moral code I've set for myself and it saves me drama later on, but I don't judge those who do and actually encourage it if that's what they really want to do. Fucking a girl with a boyfriend has to…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:52 AM
1

As far as learning and absorbing TRP, you can do it effectively in one of two ways imo: Find content on specific subjects that you're looking to improve on and use it in your life (Immediate benefit, slower foundation-building). Start from the beginning and slowly build and meticulously implement everything you learn (Slower benefit, rock-solid foundation). I personally used method 1 to just get DECENT at everything I needed to improve on (shit-testing, holding frame, spinning plates, etc.) and …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:44 AM
2

Simple questions like that are fine to respond to (It'd be weird if you didn't), but just be sure to steer the conversation back to the way you want it to go.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:39 AM
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Imo, daytime opening is about polarizing and building rapport. As a random stranger who just approached her suddenly, you're not too far from a rapist in her eyes, so you've got to convince her in a short time-frame that you aren't. You do that by complimenting (which will communicate your clear intent so she isn't wondering what you're approaching for AND will save you tons of time in case she isn't sexually available) and building rapport. Here's what usually works for me. Me: *SEES HB AND APP…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:36 AM
1

I would A&A. First off, I wouldn't be texting her at all outside of logistics. Now, if she said this in-person or over the phone or w/e, I would just agree&amplify. Her: "you need to get out more" Me: "Yeah, I've actually been getting pretty pale. I hoping my fangs and cape will start growing soon..." Just show her you take her shit tests about as serious as a circus-clown.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:25 AM
2

No More Mr. Nice Guy has the answers you need.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:18 AM
2

Go to the campus cafe or starbucks and get a coffee with her. She should be able to handle that. Study sessions are a hit-or-miss because you're split-focused on studying and hanging out. Coffee allows you to focus solely on hanging out and building comfortability, as opposed to just sitting across from her quietly for 3 hours while you guys both read uninteresting textbooks. I mean, it works sometimes for that kind of environment, but there's a better solution. You don't communicate your intent…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:13 AM
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I don't know for sure if it's necessarily a male vs. female thing. I've seen female teachers/professors have amazingly close relationships with male students, as well as female students. Sure, there is some level of relatability on a gender-basis, but that's the same thing a male teacher would have with a male student. I think it's more about fostering and nurturing the relationship with mentors in general. Taking initiative and keeping relationships alive goes a long way in ensuring you have a …
/r/askTRP04/10/18 03:09 AM
12

Read a book every two weeks. Get a summer internship.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 07:40 PM
1

She doesn't, but it doesn't seem like she isn't really interested in finding out either.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 11:58 AM
-1

Oh right, they open first. Here's the adjusted response. "Hey little troublemaker ;-). How're you?" You'll avoid all unecessary talking if you steer the conversation the way you want it to go, and using this as a first response is good because it intrigues the woman.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:33 AM
1

That's a bad opener. Use this opener WORD FOR WORD. Ready for it? Here it goes... "Hey little troublemaker ;-)" [Use the emoji wink face] It'll change your life. You're welcome :)
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:27 AM
2

What do YOU think? Do you think this is all a joke or a front? Do you think you're wasting your time?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:26 AM
8

If she FORGOT (think about this word) about hanging out with you, then you're clearly wasting your time. A woman who's interested in you wouldn't FORGET to hang out with you. In her eyes, you're not interesting enough to even REMEMBER to hang out with, let alone actually follow through and show up to hang out.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:24 AM
7

And that's exactly why you'll be back some time from now asking the same questions. You're being willfully ignorant, and that's okay, but don't ask questions and waste other members' time who genuinely want to help you.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:21 AM
6

asktrp/trp is more catered to success with women because that's USUALLY what most BP males who have just gotten heartbroken come here for, but that's not to say that's ALL it is about. Job opportunities? Go read How to Win Friends and Influence People. (Sidebar material) Fitness? Go read Starting Strength (Sidebar material) Mastering a skill? Go read Mastery (Sidebar material) Overall just improving yourself? Go read The 48 Laws of Power (Sidebar material) You're just seeing peoples' topics abou…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:14 AM
2

And that's usually the case with guys who are financially successful, in my experience, so don't feel bad. That's one thing you can check off on your goals list. I think that if you took 6-8 months to read the sidebar and REALLY focus on doing what YOU want and saying fuck what other people think, your life with women and your life overall will be completely transformed. My prescription would be to start reading (or re-read if you've read already) No More Mr. Nice Guy and The Suble Art of Not Gi…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:03 AM
3

There's few. Most of my friends are 2-18 years older than me. When you're RP, you tend to be much more forward and growth thinking than your peers. Seek out mentors who you want to be like and can better you. They say you're the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around, so find people who are all better than you and continue to grow.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:38 PM
4

How did you manage to own two successful businesses? Did you start them yourself from the ground up? I ask because building a business from the ground up and being good with women are similar in that you need to take action. Yes, you'll fail. You'll do things wrong. People are going to judge you. But none of that should matter. You're suffering from seeking approval of other people. Your best "practice partner" is a woman who's attracted to you that you decide you want to have sex with. Women co…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:33 PM
2

Demote to plate or soft next. Asking to look in her phone? That's controlling and won't do anything but make you less trusting of her and makes her feel like she's being monitored. You shouldn't be in an LTR with someone who you'd even have to consider checking their phone. There's no such thing as "not entertaining" dudes for her, especially in uni. Dudes are everywhere. They're gonna see her walking to class, from class, at the diner, at events, etc. Even if you see it as entertaining them, sh…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:03 AM
1

Boundaries are boundaries for a reason. If you feel she was being disrespectful and she clearly knew this through you communicating it to her, yet she continued, then she knows she's overstepping and it's up to you to act accordingly, which you did. How're tattoos and social media red flags btw? You set your boundaries when she decided to hang out with you. If she knowingly violated those boundaries, there's no excuse. That's all there is to it, really.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:28 AM
2

How many approaches are you actually doing on a weekly basis? Getting better at this stuff really boils down to a numbers game. Let's say you approach 3 9s-10s a day, but you only close 1 in 10. That means in 1 month, you have 9 new beautiful women interested in you in some sexual way. Now, let's say you approach 5 7s-10s a day, and still close 1 in 10. Well, that's now 15 attractive women interested in you in some sexual way. You can work on self-improvement over a long period of time, which wi…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:23 AM
1

I would say to open your mind and get out there and learn. Obviously, if the lays are true, they're doing something right. But also don't forget that this is more about you taking responsibility for your learning. Your friends aren't obligated to teach you, nor should they be. You should be actively looking to improve your game and ask their opinion when necessary. ​ So, the best way is to do on your own, and ask for advice when you're stuck. Experience is your greatest teacher.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:05 PM
4

You're right in not blabbing about yourself because dates SHOULDN'T be about you. However, working with kids is an interesting passion that I'm sure works in your favor. Think about how you're presenting though, because it could be a differentiating factor that shows you have immense purpose and adds to your SMV, or paints you as narcissistic and arrogant. It's probably the way you're presenting. The way to come off as more genuine and honest is to ACTUALLY CARE about what they're saying. That's…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:36 AM
1

What are you REALLY trying to ask? Are you trying to befriend them to join their social group? Are you trying to have sex with them?Are you trying to have sex with someone ELSE in their group? ​ You're not very clear with what you're asking.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:31 AM
3

Dude, that's not your place. If you want to lose your friends, then by all means, tell them to read The Rational Male and try to introduce them to RP and watch them judge you and alienate you. You've been friends for a very long time, and the point of being a true FRIEND is to be there for them as support. Now, I'm not saying be a beta-bitch and sit in their sadness with them and let them deter you from YOUR mission, but I am telling you to do what a FRIEND would do, which is NOT try to push her…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:21 AM
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You're wrong. Your thinking is a bit skewed with the "all women are evil deep inside and will fuck you over", because honestly, that isn't true. Refer to sidebar for more clarification on this, but yes, you are allowed to "fall in love" to say (more like, experience the feeling of loving and being loved). However, it's a different kind of love than what you're normally used to. A woman can never love you in the way you desire to be loved, that being the unconditional type-love that you were give…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:12 AM
5

Shit's not gonna change unless you MAKE it change. It's very possible for you to have the kind of success you want with women in life and create the HAPPINESS that you deserve for yourself, but having a self-defeating attitude before you even start will get you nowhere. Whatever past experiences you've had that're stopping you from having success with women today or are making you afraid of success is something that's going to be your greatest wall you'll have to conquer. You're 24. How many mor…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:56 AM
1

By all means, carpe diem. But you'll most likely just be wasting your time.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:23 PM
2

You need to get that in check. Like, seriously. That shit's gonna do nothing but cause trouble for you. Relationships with women, work, friends, etc. I've never heard of nofap causing anger and aggression, so it's likely some other deep-rooted issue that we don't have the answer to. All I can say is, if you don't mitigate it and work to control it, it's gonna fuck up a lot of shit in your future. Stoicism is key to maintaining and controlling your emotional state.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:20 PM
1

Sounds like scarcity mindset, brother. All you can do is learn from your mistake and move on. Abundance mentality is the usual fix to neediness. Just don't make the same mistake twice and all is good.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:15 PM
1

You MAY be misinterpreting what you see. On average, the American male has sex with 6-9 different women in their lifetime. Keyword: LIFETIME. I'm not sure who you're labelling as "average joe", but the average joe isn't slaying pussy left and right. That's not to say they're sex-starved, either. You SEEM pretty well-equipped from what you say, so what's your issue? Every "slip up" is a learning experience for the next time, so it's all good.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:09 PM
4

Dont tell them. "How old are you?" "Too young/old for you, obviously." (Depending on her age, make her qualify). This is a classic shit test.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 05:05 PM
6

Why wouldn't you tell your LTR that you injured yourself? It's okay to have emotional moments, but don't be a wet papercloth.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:50 PM
1

Go read a book from the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:48 PM
1

Yes. An arboretum is like an outside garden. It's usually open to the public and you can come and go as you please. Depending on where you are and the time of day, it's usually secluded (me and my gf at the time went EARLY like 9 am lmao), but it shouldn't be too difficult to find somewhere to fuck.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:57 AM
1

Interacting with married women at work is not the best use of your time. Continuing to develop your lifting habits and working on your game is. Looks, Assets, Game. Those're the three things that attract women. You could be fugly and still bang a decent number of women if you have game, so don't let your looks currently dictate what's possible for you. Do you know how many 1's, 2's, 3's, etc. make online dating profiles with shit pictures, looking for men? Lots. They're not letting their looks s…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:49 AM
1

When I was your age, I'd take my gf at the time to a secluded arboretum and do things in the cut, so there's an option. ​ Being young, it's hard to figure out logistics, but it isn't impossible. Is sneaking girls to your room not an option nor an invite when your parents aren't home?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:43 AM
2

Ok, so first thing: she is not a plate. Second: She communicated to you that she didn't feel comfortable with the washroom when you got there. There's a difference between SAYING something, and then ACTUALLY DOING IT when faced with it. My assumption is that she was in her 'logical' mind of "We're about to go in a washroom in a mall and fuck... Really?" instead of her emotional mind of "I need dick. Now.". So, unless you've already gotten her warmed up and the sexual tension is so tight that she…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:36 AM
1

I'm confused. You took your "plate" to the mall with the intention to fuck that was sub-textually agreed upon by the both of you? I can't imagine having to "establish rapport" with your plate. Have you fucked her before? Is she actually a plate or just a girl you hang out with?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 04:02 AM
3

I don't see this as a bad thing. Tbh, it's probably what's getting you laid. Down the road, you'll want to learn some comforting behaviors if you're looking for a LTR and need to pass comfort tests, but it doesn't seem to be hindering you now.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:57 AM
2

If you read the sidebar, one of the tenets of RP is that you don't talk about RP. This is a journey of self-improvement and development to maximize happiness for YOU and YOU only. Bad things happen when you try to lead other men to RP who aren't ready. Nudging a bit is fine, but they have to discover it themselves.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:54 AM
3

Well you have SOME sexual interest, as you ranked her an HB9, but I do get your point now. As others have said, it's some menial reason, so don't waste your brainpower trying to figure it out. If you're down, by all means proceed, but if not, focus your energy elsewhere. ​
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:52 AM
9

Thanks brother. Just trying to show my fellow brothers who've decided to take this journey with me that it's never too late to start the first footsteps. :-)
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:48 AM
3

Only way to conquer fear is to face it head-on. You know what to do (or can easily figure out). It takes you pushing yourself past your comfort zone consistently to create results, however.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:45 AM
6

Why does it matter to you?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:12 AM
8

If she wants to fuck like you think she does, she'll send her details. That's all there is to it, really. Your thirstiness will be exposed if you text her first, so don't do that.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:09 AM
2

You gotta go out of your way to find out what's going on. Stay after, linger on campus after classes are done, talk to people in the lunch rooms or quad or wherever. Community college is a bit harder, but you've gotta go the extra mile to figure things out because nobody's gonna do it for you.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:08 AM
2

This. It PROBABLY was your lack of closing and leaving her "flustered" that caused the attraction to fade. Attraction really only lasts after a date if there's SOME kind of physical closing (fuck close is best to solidify attraction, but makeout-close is not the worst thing in the world). Essentially, you rubbed her up and left her to dry. You can imagine why the feeling wouldn't be the same the second time around.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:05 AM
3

It's slow, but gradual. After my introduction to RP almost 2 years ago, I went through a LOT of self-development (mostly inner while adapting new fitness habits), so I didn't really focus on building a social circle. It's only been the past week or so that I've dedicated my time to building my social circle. Since I've done so much self-development over the past two years, my standards of who I want to surround myself with are pretty high, so I'm pretty selective on who I choose to invest time a…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 03:01 AM
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Live in the sidebar for the next 3-6 months and post questions in this sub for learning purposes on ACTUAL real-life situations you've ran into. Everyone has "game", so to say. Some better than others. If your game is terrible or based off some BP notion of what game is, then you've gotta start from the bottom and build the foundations piece-by-piece. Game isn't something that you get by just "having a certain piece" of it down, nor is it something you can master in a few weeks. You can take TRE…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:49 AM
2

Great to hear, brother. I think that 6 deserves an early christmas gift from Santa lmao.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:44 AM
3

"Hey, real quick, I know this is super sudden, but..." - Then continue with approach. I believe your problem is more with approach anxiety and not how to approach, amirite?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:39 AM
2

If you knew you were going to die in 3 hours from this very moment, what would your biggest regret be? ​ And after you died, what would you want your best friends to say at your funeral?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:37 AM
5

Why do you want to look younger? Who ever said looking older was a bad thing? I mean, you could shave, I guess, but that's just you trying to cover up an insecurity about yourself, which is never good.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:31 AM
2

I'm gonna just predict the future and tell you what's going to happen: You're going to attempt to work to get out there and find more women, but her bullshit and antics is going to slow you down from REALLY going out and getting the most out of the world and yourself. Dude, there's nothing wrong with a 5/6's, especially with where you are right now. You should be spreading your dick like you're Santa Claus. Bang enough 5/6's, and you'll find one that blows your mind and is worth keeping as a pla…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:29 AM
2

Research nofap and kegel exercises. That'll do wonders for premature ejaculation. Again bro, this is all about mindset and mental state. Tbh, sex is SOO much more than just the physical penetration for a woman. This is on a tangent, but start reading the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. You'll see.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:18 AM
2

First off, stop getting Snapchats. If you're gonna go for a social media close, Instagram's where it's at (More women have IG than snap, its way more popular as a whole, and they check it more regularly imo). Second, if you're gonna approach, make sure you're intentional. Most guys don't even approach (kudos to you for overcoming the biggest obstacle), but then you've gotta ask yourself what's your intention with the approach? Are you just trying to get reps in? Are you sexually interested? Does…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:16 AM
2

No offense, but I can tell from the way you wrote that response in regards to her, you're having one-itis. Brother, the situation is simple. Who cares about what she says? She cheated. That's the end of the story. How many words in the world can undo your LTR cheating? None. (Not to mention the trickle-truth you may or may not have uncovered yet). Go out and crush your one-itis, then decide if this drama with your ex is even worth it. That's my opinion.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:06 AM
10

Two words, brother, and you're a DJ, so I'm sure you'll know what I mean when I say this: Be. Fun. When it comes to night game environments like clubs and venues and you're ridin' solo, unless you're KNOWN, you really don't have an SMV in that setting. So, what do you do? You go create it. How? By being SUPER (almost uncomfortably) social and being a riot to be around. You'd be amazed (or probably not) by the amount of chodes that go out to clubs, pay $20+ cover to get in, pound 4+ $8 cocktails,…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:55 AM
1

Good to hear. Go be great, brother :)
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:44 AM
2

It could be a variety of things: Bad vibes Performance anxiety due to nervousness Again, bad vibes Lack of attraction etc. I'm going to assume you're a younger dude and that this new RP way of life is new to you. You just gotta get used to it is all. You DO NOT (99.9999% Sure, at least) have ED. You're most-likely experiencing performance anxiety which leads to sexual performance issues. The way to cure this, tbh, is to do more of it and remove yourself from self-judgement (aka, outcome independ…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:42 AM
2

I'm a bit confused on the point of this post. Are you asking us if it's a good idea in general to keep an ex as a plate for confirmation purposes that you're doing the right thing? Live your life how you wanna live it, brother. I'm going to assume however, you're just asking from a general "what do you guys think" discussion aspect, in which case I'd say... Once a cheater, always a cheater. Hypergamy is real asf. So have your fun plating her, but be wary of attempts to re-establish the LTR becau…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:36 AM
4

It'll be a long but rewarding journey. If you think about it, not many men are on the same road we're on. I'm 24 (grad-school graduate age) and I'm beginning to build my social circle. Most of my best college buds are too blue-pilled to join me on my journey, or are in shitty LTRs that will disintegrate with time. ​ It's not about a "good group of homies". It's about the 5 or so most fuckin' awesome dudes you could possibly be lucky enough to hang out with. Building a social circle is not just a…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:31 AM
2

There's a few things wrong with this scenario: Chick has a BF. Now, that's up to you whether you want to step into that territory or not (Me personally, the world is so damn abundant with women, why even waste time with an obstacle like that? I'd only consider sniping if she offers value worth it or it's easy.) She slept at your place but wouldn't kiss/fuck. I can imagine her reasoning for this is because "she has a boyfriend" which sounds like a good girl at first, but really think about what's…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:24 AM
1

I love it. I'm implementing this now.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:34 AM
2

That's clever, I like that. I gotta store that in the backburner to use later.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:58 AM
3

You right. Good shit.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 06:57 AM
2

Of course. That's what this sub is for :)
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:14 AM
5

A few months ago, I ended a 2 1/2 year LTR with an ex of mine. Shit hurt like the dickens. But I persevered. It's hard, dude. You're just in the beginning stages of the breakup, so just know that there's gonna be temptation to blind yourself with the good times of the past as a reason to get back with her, but you can't trust your brain right now. Don't waste time looking back on what was, just look at what is and what can be. Every night, think about the blessing you got of becoming a single ma…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 05:05 AM
6

Loneliness is a natural feeling, as we're all humans. However, the RP way of combating loneliness is to embrace it and use that time to better yourself. Think of all the amazing shit you can be doing now that you don't have to account for anyone other than yourself. That's how you crush loneliness and make it through the stage of getting over your ex. You do awesome shit like lift, fuck other women, pick up hobbies, and work towards your goals. For a RP man, there is no such thing as loneliness.…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 04:55 AM
1

This makes sense. Thanks. I do agree that the best thing is to just not engage because it's ultimately a losing endeavor, even if you "win" the debate (Time wasted on nothing). I'll keep this in mind going forward. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:08 PM
1

What about it is a crock of shit? I have chick friends who would say "OMG that's so mean!" exactly as you mentioned, but for some reason, this one felt the need to try and challenge me on it. I don't think I'm orbiting, though (I have no desire to fuck her and don't really spend time around her. We work together, hence we see each other during our shifts.)
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:07 PM
1

How true this is, sadly.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:13 PM
1

It didn't cross my mind to call her out, which I should've done. I was too focused on not budging from what I believed that the opportunity passed me, but you're right. I should've just called her out and ended it there.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:12 PM
1

This is true. So the best to do would've been to ignore her opinions altogether then?
/r/askTRP17/04/17 12:09 PM
6

Hey dude, I was actually in a KIND-OF similar position as you (22M, College grad, etc.) The best advice I can give you right now is to think about YOURSELF and what YOU WANT, and just go for it. Fuck the 7.5 years invested, fuck all the memories (which serve no purpose but to shackle you back into an LTR that is not good for your growth), fuck what EVERYONE ELSE says, thinks, and feels. The ONLY person you should be worried about right now in your life is YOURSELF. I started my RP journey about …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 03:22 AM
1

Definitely an L in my book. But it's alright, I've learned from it.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 06:13 PM
1

This is great advice dude. I appreciate you taking the time to write all this out. Thanks!
/r/askTRP31/03/17 06:11 PM
1

I'm not sure. She was audibly enjoying things, but when I went for more she shut me down. I guess she didn't want to be up too late cause she had to leave early or something?
/r/askTRP31/03/17 04:34 PM
1

Got it. Thanks!
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:40 PM
1

Lmao! You're too right. Next time I'm gonna just get to the point. And not really, she was a friend of a friend of my friend, if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:37 PM
7

This. Also, start focusing on yourself too bro. Start REALLY thinking about what your purpose is and how you can fulfill it. Most people go through life and don't find their purpose until late in life. It's your life, you're the one who has to live it and die it, so all of your decisions are ultimately yours, no matter the outside influences. A lot of "not getting bored" is about having a huge, seemingly unattainable goal, and constantly pursuing it every single day you wake up. Once you realize…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:15 PM
1

Much like the others have said, the best thing you can do is just leave her be and do your own thing. Everyone's dealing with a death at your school, and even if things were fine, I would still tell you to leave her be. There's other girls to be had in the world, my friend.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 02:01 PM
1

None, but I'm not really sure how else to describe everything else but sex/oral.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:48 PM
2

I tried escalating hard, but she kept saying stop. We were at it for a good while, until I just said fuck it and fell asleep. And what do you mean by "too heavy"?
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:45 PM
1

Gotcha bro. Thanks for this advice! This'll be just another ventured quest of many in the future.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:43 PM
1

Yeah, you have a point. All of my Facebook gaming prospects have been shot. The only apps I use are the standard dating apps, but all that stuff is just supplemental to my main focus of going out to clubs/events and meeting women there. From now on, when the ship sails, I'll just let it go. Thanks!
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:29 PM
1

You're right. I already nexted her, but I just wanted to know if there was a point in the convo where I "shot myself in the foot". I tend to be extremely critical of myself when trying to learn new skills, which is why I'm analyzing this so hard lol.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:05 PM
0

I assumed it to mean that she had to go, but you're right. If she just disappeared, it was probably just circumstantial that we hooked up.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:04 PM
2

Hm, that makes sense. So as far as the message gaming, was there nothing else I could do?
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:03 PM
2

Damn. So you're saying the pursuit was fucked to begin with?
/r/askTRP31/03/17 01:02 PM
1

Good to hear. Stay strong, live long, and prosper, brother. I wish you the best of luck on your TRP journey!
/r/askTRP20/02/17 07:23 PM
6

This one's a hard next bro. The fact that she unblocked her ex right after her quarrel with you shows that when things get rough, she's flaky. If you go back, ex boyfriend drama will be introduced into the LTR, and trust me, you don't have time for that. Although, I will say that you need to really sit down and meditate on what it is that you want from women and from yourself. You need to figure out what it is exactly that caused you to become aggressive and break frame (as this is a BIG no-no i…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:41 PM
1

https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program This will help with both.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:37 PM
1

tbh, you being disabled isn't the point I'm trying to get across to you. My reply would be the same regardless of if you were disabled or not. What I'm saying is, if you want to pursue RP ideology, you first have to stop defeating yourself before you even start. We all have things that work against us in negative ways (e.g. autism, physical deformities, deafness, paralysis, general low sex appeal, etc.), but when you go RP, you conquer your disadvantages by minimizing the control they have over …
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:27 PM
1

... If you're gonna give up before you even started, why're you here? Difficult =/= Impossible. Just think about that.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:30 PM
2

Sounds like you need to just take things one step at a time. You've resolved to RP, now what's that look like for you? Do you want to be more sociable around people in general and build a social circle? Do you want to approach women without worry? What is your biggest priority right now? All those questions I asked can be solved with the proper process and measures. I'm transitioning into RP just like you and I'm also 22, but for me, I decided that I wanted to conquer my approach anxiety, so I'm…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:06 PM
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Her RA actually matched me on Tinder when we weren't dating at one point. lel. But on a serious note, since college ended, there aren't too many people she hangs out with. She usually just stays home and work, so how would this work?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:24 PM
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My ex is also not CC ridden, first time was with me at 18 y/o in her college dorm lol. My first was before this, however. I guess the only things that're keeping me asking questions is the length of time I've put into this LTR (2+ yrs consistent LTR, 4 years of knowing one another), as well as the "connection" we have. I find myself reminiscing on past times we had when things weren't bad and I was enjoying the LTR. How would I go about crushing and/or minimizing these thoughts?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:22 PM
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Why did you try to convince yourself? Was it because you thought the length of time was worth being in the relationship?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:59 PM
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Oh, now that I re-read it with a sarcastic undertone, I get it now lol. Yeah, that was a pretty rough shit test, you're right. We've been through a lot of other shit over the time we've known each other, but this is something I've always known her to do and I just "accepted" it as being part of her, but you're right.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:57 PM
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"And for the love of God DO NOT impregnate this woman." Hahahaha!!! You don't have to tell me twice! I get what you're saying, though. The ironic part is that at one point earlier in the relationship, I did have other girls who I could call up in case things ended with the LTR, but for some reason I convinced myself to stop contact with them because it was "too much work" to keep up. I was definitely in a mental marriage in this relationship. And wow, 8 years??? I have a whole 8 YEARS to play th…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:45 PM
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You made some great points, dude. I didn't realize that she probably apologized and felt the sting because she realized that she doesn't have any better options. Great analogy you posted. I looked up "soft next", and as it would apply to this situation: You're saying I should tell her I want to be single, then when she hits me up, if I feel like responding, I can? Did the 3 days I spent ignoring her not count as a soft next? Should I ignore longer?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:29 PM
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Truth. I relate to what you're saying alot. Sometimes when she's around, everything can be a-ok, but after awhile (a few days consecutively usually), I start to get annoyed. I can't tell if its her specifically, or that I just can't be around people in general for too long, but I've definitely felt the angst you mentioned. However, there are other times when she's the only person I want to be around and I'm happy with that, y'know? You mentioned a lot of good points. All of my guy friends that'r…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:19 PM
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I understand your point, but I want to ask why? Just so I can have understanding as to how learning TRP fully-focused and committed is better than learning TRP as I attempt to proceed forth in the LTR.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:14 PM
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I don't really understand what you mean by this...?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:48 PM
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