You attract like people right?

BadBoyProgrammer · 2018-10-02T15:42:18+00:00

The average is very low.

It is easy to rise up and be much more.

Most however do not.

Keep improving. Read sidebar. Approach 100 girls. Lift.

It is lonely at the top.

MattyAnon · 2018-10-02T17:28:26+00:00

I can find close to no friends who not just do not get jealous of your progress but also actively give advice to want to better you.

Find people doing their own thing and living their own life.

People following the standard life try to drag you down.

People following their own path will help you celebrate yours.

looseonthemoose1321 · 2018-10-02T15:38:28+00:00

There's few.

Most of my friends are 2-18 years older than me. When you're RP, you tend to be much more forward and growth thinking than your peers.

Seek out mentors who you want to be like and can better you. They say you're the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around, so find people who are all better than you and continue to grow.

freew33zy · 2018-10-02T18:08:49+00:00

Most of the people I would call my friends are incredibly BP as well. I'm in a fraternity, and we merged with a better house though and I've been integrated into their groups more, which is good. Also though, I just don't think I get along with men that well despite that I've reached a point where I manage girls pretty well. It happens--not everyone out there is RP. Just try to find the friends you can and don't worry about the rest. Do your thing.

SpinPlates · 2018-10-03T01:10:38+00:00

I have found very few other men that let me succeed without trying to butt into my sex life.

My "best friend" who i still love dearly to this day is not the best with girls. We are both in our late 20s. I've slept with over 70 women and hes slept with like 6. All LTRs.

He has personally ran off plates of mine by injecting himself into the equation trying to be their friend and texting them behind my back. I've had to have multiple talks with him about it and it still chaps my ass years later but I try to be empathetic to him. We lived together for 2 years and my bedroom was a revolving door and he had one LTR who would barely fuck him. I just let it go. Even though he used to be clearly jealous of my success and he would try to weasel his way in I have a soft spot for him.

Finding people that are truly happy for your success in life is very rare. Doesn't matter what kind of success you have, everyone thinks they deserve it too.

Title	You attract like people right?
Author	bondbandito
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	October 2, 2018 3:18 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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