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1

Stop using logic when it comes to women.
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:57 PM
2

You did well. The main point is to have fun.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:04 PM
2

It's always uncomfortable. For both of you, but you gotta handle it better than she does. Carry the team, hold the conversation, make it work. She'll be glad you're holding the heavy end. It's uncomfortable if you think it's uncomfortable. Act like it's fine and it'll be fine, and she'll feel it's fine too because she'll be looking to you for guidance.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:53 AM
1

Being tall/rich are actual advantages, but being good looking seems to increase a girls expectations and standards for you. Then you gotta be twice as cool, twice as confident, twice as social than everyone else, otherwise you can't meet their expectations. But you also can't be cocky or seem like base that confidence on your looks... it's a mess.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:33 AM
1

It doesn't matter why. Just next them.
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:29 AM
0

Next Her™
/r/seduction16/06/18 07:41 PM
2

It depends if you find the coach that you can identify with. For me it's Max and some Julian, because they're more about inner-game. Madison and Todd (not on RSD anymore) are too much about outer-game. Owen is... weird.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:54 PM
1

It's mostly women that have no idea WTF they're doing in bed.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:43 PM
3

Maybe he’ll feel as if I led him on That's because you did. Just tell him the truth: you're not interested.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:41 PM
1

As long as there is a woman there for you to meet.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:15 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction09/06/18 10:13 PM
1

2) Any increase in movement is a thing, because we're wired to notice movement. She plays with hair, with some accessory, with her bag. She shifts weights or moves her feet. She smiles when you look at her, even if she's talking to somebody else and not looking at you. 3) Also she tries to get herself alone, and she tries to stay in your cone of vision. In the long term: she goes to a spot you're often found at (your table at the library, or your corner in the garden, or your part of the bus).
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:58 AM
1

She wants the talking to be over.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:49 AM
1

She asks about your living situation Almost every women does that way before they show any attraction.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:49 AM
1

Six months ago I'd say "yes, do approach at the gym"... but I only managed to make like three dozen friends with women at gyms... because I didn't want to hit on everyone (the one I liked and hit on was a bad choice and just wanted a training partner) but wanted to open everyone anyway just for fun, lol.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:41 AM
1

I'm against the closing the distance part. Just present your hand palm up and let them walk/reach up to you. Like here... right in the beginning, to the distance is already close enough: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yf6UF1SGmIE (I actually googled "picking a girl to dance" and found something pickup related, lol)
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:36 AM
2

More effective than not doing it.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:10 AM
1

Next Her™
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:05 AM
1

Find one that's already interested.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:03 AM
1

Basically what I just said to the other guy. lol
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:59 PM
1

It depends if you followed rules 1 and 2 before doing that.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:58 PM
1

Use it. Answer with "thank you" (own it), "you're a very kind liar" (make her double down), "you mean innocent" (twist the subject), "I hear that a lot" (challenge her to stand out)... in any case it's all about how you react and say things than what you say.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:48 PM
1

Pay attention to what women do, not what they say.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:42 PM
1

There's hot girls everywhere.
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:38 PM
2

While you waste your time chasing her, she'll be fucking another guy she just met.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:12 PM
1

The hottest girls There's nothing hot about that.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:11 PM
2

It means she's full of shit and immature. You don't want that kind of girl.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:08 PM
3

There are better girls out there who won't play bullshit drama games.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:03 PM
2

If you did approach, you did not fail.
/r/seduction12/05/18 10:11 PM
1

Just say whatever the fuck you want. If you're going to tease her, do it because you have fun doing it.
/r/seduction12/05/18 10:07 PM
1

Begin by talking to every random person on the streets you can. Begin by just saying "good morning" to the cashier. Go to those fairs/expos/con(nects) with lots of small stands where people will try to show you their stuff, and talk to every single one of them.
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:53 PM
9

A girl that's hard for one dude is easy for another. It may sounds paradoxical but, if she's hard for you, she's not worth it for you, because she was never that much into you to begin with, and you want a girl that is very into you. Next Her™
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:34 PM
1

Yes. The thing is to get a good conversation and a good connection ASAP. How she feels does both. How you feel sets up the connection. What she's doing sets up a good conversation. What's going on gets something started. You can always keep talking and changing subjects later, or even "open" a new line of conversation or non sequitur at any time.
/r/seduction01/05/18 12:28 PM
1

All cases: How you say it > What you say With IOIs: Hi, I'm X Without IOIs: What she's feeling1 > What she's doing2 > What you're feeling3 / What's going on4 Ex.: 1 Breathe, girl! That food ain't going anywhere! / Just seeing your face I can tell how good it is! 2 How long did you wait for that order? / Is that one you ordered good? 3 I'm so hungry! This is taking really long / Oh, shit, that looks much better than the one I ordered! 4 So many people waiting for their orders already... / This fo…
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:06 PM
1

It depends on the girl, the situation, if there were IOIs. Girls make mistakes, too. Sometimes you'll be too forward, and she'll be caught of-guard and default to bailing out. Then you hear a "no", go around the corner and she slaps herself in the forehead says "OMG, I'm so stupid". It's fine if you don't want those girls, or if you go for statistics and gain two girls for each one of those you lose, but it's not their fault. Girls aren't super dating geniuses, they just have the upper hand if y…
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:55 PM
3

She's not interested. Find someone who is.
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:40 PM
8

Because they have other 300 guys texting them. Streets > Tinder.
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:38 PM
2

Above all things: be happy.
/r/seduction28/04/18 06:36 PM
1

NSYDYC
/r/seduction20/04/18 12:25 PM
3

Congrats! Yes, approaching anyone will help you ease your social anxiety.
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:30 PM
0

Only if you don't follow the two rules
/r/seduction12/04/18 07:47 PM
2

Next her.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:44 AM
1

Listening to hot music, breathing deeply, fixing posture and getting aware of whole body, and remembering girls I've fucked before in vivid detail as if it was happening right then.
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:37 AM
-1

"Not yet... (move in closer with increased eye contact) now I am"
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:34 AM
1

just to go with what she says But she said two conflicting things: 1) "she doesn't want anything serious" 2) "her fears about how guys don't really see her for who she is past her looks". She either turning you into an orbiter, or she's actually confused, or she's playing games, so you'd be best to increase the space between you and wait to see what she does next, then you'll have more information. Most likely you've failed a huge test...
/r/seduction07/03/18 01:24 PM
5

Those girls that give you a lotta shit
/r/seduction04/03/18 01:24 AM
1

I honestly don’t have a desire to do Zumba Then don't.
/r/seduction03/03/18 05:22 PM
12

Now it is.
/r/seduction03/03/18 04:58 PM
62

Creep: a guy she's not interested in.
/r/seduction03/03/18 04:54 PM
7

Sex is #1 on the list of things that boost guys' inner game. Inner game is #1 on the list of things that help guys have sex.
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:38 AM
5

Human society is a pyramid. It conditions everyone to fit in its chosen shape. The base is much larger than the top.
/r/seduction25/12/17 06:24 PM
1

Are they?
/r/seduction24/12/17 08:59 PM
1

She would not.
/r/seduction20/12/17 01:00 AM
1

Women have no fucking clue what they want.
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:47 AM
3

I basically came up with these two rules for myself in indirect openers: First rule is about figuring out what to say, ordered by quality: 1) what she's feeling 2) what she's doing 3) what is going on Second rule: if you know what to say, you have to say it.
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:18 AM
1

I know in my country, girlfriend rings actually draw many female eyes, sometimes even marriage rings. But in the end the best you'll get from it is making lots of friends with girls.
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:12 AM
1

You don't cut your losses and move on. You're always moving on by default. Abundance mentality.
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:06 AM
9

The cure for oneitis is manyitis.
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:39 PM
0

Try and find out.
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:10 PM
1

"I'm looking for red flags"
/r/seduction15/12/17 12:30 AM
1

The underage kind and the married kind.
/r/seduction09/12/17 01:37 PM
1

Girls that have excuses not to move forward with you aren't that much into you. There are things you can do if you just want to bang her. But if you want something long term, you want a girl that's very into you, which means, not those girls. If she's into you, she won't "feel a sense of guilt or obligation to keep his approval".
/r/seduction05/12/17 01:38 AM
1

Either she's into you, or she wants to introduce you to her friend. Make a move on her and find out.
/r/seduction05/11/17 10:40 PM
1

TBH, I'd simply be honest and open with her (open a talk and then eventually tell her I know if I fucked up, I don't have a lot of experience and didn't know what to do etc...) and see where it goes. Sometimes girls are thinking of stuff you have no idea.
/r/seduction05/11/17 10:20 PM
1

"We barely see each other anymore. Let's meet for some coffee."
/r/seduction04/11/17 05:40 PM
1

30 sets in 2 hours 15 sets an hour 5 sets in 20 minutes 1 set in 4 minutes
/r/seduction04/11/17 05:31 PM
1

Next her.
/r/seduction04/11/17 03:44 PM
1

Keep on kissing her.
/r/seduction04/11/17 03:35 PM
1

Number 1 is completely unnecessary
/r/seduction04/11/17 03:23 PM
1

Do whatever the fuck you want and own it.
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:20 AM
3

For me, the most important thing about eye contact is that it goes two ways. It doesn't just affect the girl, it affects you. It's like giving your strings for the girl to pull: you do the right things at the right time effortlessly, because she's "making" you do it.
/r/seduction24/10/17 09:44 AM
1

Next Her™
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:10 AM
1

A baby pig is a bit try-hard, I guess...
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:04 AM
1

"You'll find out."
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:55 AM
1

Every single time I've followed the advice of showing vulnerability ended with e losing the girl. Don't do it. I shared how my "brothers" slut shamed the shit out of the first girl I had sex with, how I got mad and started arguments about respecting people, then how I felt like shit after the girl left me for the "brother" of mine who slut shamed her. [...] However, the woman I hooked up with cut me off, saying I sounded "hung up" on my first girl. My cynical side can only read "I told her I'm a…
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:43 AM
4

Interesting, my latest night out I've been opened by a group of three girls and was doing everything the opposite from what the list says: I went by myself; I don't drink; I was yet to approach/talk to anyone that night; didn't make eye contact with them; my intention was to get some girls; I was just standing there (girls opened me by asking why I wasn't dancing, and taking me to the dancefloor)... tho I then ended up dancing, having fun and making out with another girl I found in there, except…
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:52 PM
2

"I like your X" / "You look fun". As /u/Ragonux said: something she has control over rather than something she's got effortlessly, except make up. Don't be fooled by make up, she'll look down on you.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:42 PM
1

Congrats, brother.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:39 PM
3

Somebody should add this to the sidebar.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:38 PM
2

that just means your approach sucked Or she's crazy. Or she's in a bad mood. Or she's an asshole. Or she's dumb.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:28 PM
1

women don't like it when you talk to them Except they do.
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:25 PM
2

Make eye contact and smile. If they don't take the hint to approach, well, then you do. Some of those guys are making eye contact with me and seem interested but that's all they do. Maybe I should make a move? Oh, well... I guess this means you try making a move then. Try breaking the ice by starting a convo, and then see if that prompts them to become confident and making the next move. Just go up to them and talk like you already know them. Something like "hey, sup? what are you exercising tod…
/r/seduction08/10/17 04:53 PM
1

Next time she begins with it, cut her with a kiss.
/r/seduction08/10/17 12:55 PM
1

Good job, brother! Ignore the naysayers and keep at it.
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:57 PM
1

Women like privacy. You prompted massive ASD by going "let's bang in a nasty place" in front of her colleagues. Ask her out in secret, only the two of you, don't mention or let anyone else know about it. Maybe tell her you've been into her for a while, that she has a great personality you really enjoy, and that you wanted to go fast to make up for being slow before, and that it came out horribly wrong. Be sincere, and be relatable, and she'll understand your mistake. Make sure she knows you want…
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:47 PM
1

Good job, brother! Ignore the naysayers and keep at it.
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:45 PM
6

Go over there, say "hi, I'm your neighbor and we got a serious problem to discuss... are all your roommates in there?" but don't be too serious about it. Tell them about the shower thing, they might thing you're offended, so you say you're more concerned about no invading their privacy and comfortable. But be friendly, smily about it. Invite one or two to come to your place to see for themselves how much transparent the windows look from there. You may make a joke about taking a shower on their …
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:12 AM
1

The other part I tell you in person.
/r/seduction03/10/17 10:56 AM
2

Go down on the girl, make her orgasm and then tell her you're so fucking horny from it that you're on the edge of going off at any moment.
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:07 PM
1

The thing is, some those girls regretted rejecting you or bailing out right away. Sometimes just after you turn around, sometimes a few minutes later when she sees you talking to someone else, sometimes alone in bed at home. Women are just like us, and even though they may have some field experience and some abundance (though it's only abundance if you want your options, a girl can have a thousand guys trying her and not want any of them, or what they want and what she wants doesn't match, so sh…
/r/seduction02/10/17 11:47 AM
1

I can only do pair dance and suck at dancing on my own.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:51 AM
3

Write it.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:46 AM
1

Have you even seen a girl you liked but you weren't ready to react and she passed by? Women aren't ready all the time either. Smooth gives her time to figure out what she really wants to do, rather than defaulting to rejecting you because she was taken by surprise and doesn't know how to react to it. Of course if it's night game, girls will be ready and you can be more direct.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:42 AM
1

Women go to Tinder to get validation and feel good about themselves. Forget that shit.
/r/seduction30/09/17 03:58 PM
1

Nice. The idea is to convey a "no and it doesn't affect my confidence" and throws it back a her like "but why do YOU do care a lot about it" without saying so.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:51 PM
2

Forget about them. But if you can't, shift your focus to your shoulders, chest and posture. Let your hands just obey those more important things. If they just hang, it won't be awkward, because they hand with the purpose of having your posture right, and that takes precedence.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:23 PM
1

Me: No. Why waste my money on a car? You seemed like the kind of girl that didn't care about such petty things. Good luck finding your Mr. Dollar Bills! Even that sounds defensive. How about "No. Haven't you asked that already? The answer haven't changed."
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:15 PM
1

Women want to be seduced. Not trying to seduce them is evil and wrong.[2]
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:09 PM
2

Whenever you feel like giving her a hug, but not when you feel like needing a hug. You must give, not take. And it must come from a genuine place inside you, rather than a forced act.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:01 PM
1

Just talk to her normally while holding eye contact. Let the non-verbals tell her what you want, and her non-verbals you pull you like string on a puppet.
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:53 AM
1

What the most efficient move is will depend on what move you're more comfortable with, because that'll lead to to you acting naturally and confidently. Being a comfortable move here also includes what you're simply feeling like to do, or what you enjoy, or what you want to do. You're more comfortable doing what you want, than what you don't. I'm not a big fan of words, saying stuff like your examples. Rather just shut up and act. But, when there's no mood already going on, something I like to do…
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:45 AM
7

Turn that "one" into "many".
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:19 AM
2

Nothing says "I want o kiss you" better than looking at her mouth and try to kiss her. That turns a "maybe" into a "yes", but asking may turn a "maybe" into a "no".
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:05 PM
3

Make friends with everyone, but keep an available-male vibe rather than a harmless-friend one. The girls who are interested will find ways to display it.
/r/seduction27/09/17 02:54 PM
1

What? I don't get the reference.
/r/seduction24/09/17 11:11 PM
1

For me it's been kind of detrimental in the short term: it takes 6hs off my week (can't game on week-days), makes me super tired and kills my motivation and energy to go out (no game on weekends), drops me out of my best flirty mood (I'm never ready to flirt when an opportunity arrives), and I can't walk with proper posture and be energetic and fun because I'm always physically tired (a lot less attractive). I haven't cold approached in a couple months; been hardcore at the gym for 3 months. Bef…
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:31 PM
1

It's the opposite is true for me. I get tons more flirting from females when I walk like a man, slow movements and stiff posture. But ever since I'm going hardcore at the gym and don't have energy to stand head high and shoulders out all day long, so I began to notice the difference. It's like thrice a day vs once a month, the situations a girl stares me hungry or smiles wide.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:24 PM
1

Problem is we aren't the same race. Are you both human? That'll do.
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:33 PM
1

I get asked out one to two times a week Then you have no problem.
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:26 PM
1

AAA - Always Assume Attraction.
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:22 PM
1

if a girl is playing hard to get she has to be worth it, right? Not at all. If there was real chemistry she wouldn't be doing that. If there's no chemistry, she's not worth it at all.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:49 PM
1

English isn't even my fist language and I can effortlessly tell that he meant to say "jealous".
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:41 PM
1

You've made a big mistake. That's great. Sometimes it takes those for us to learn.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:38 PM
1

It depends a lot on how you do it.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:33 PM
0

Stop becoming friends with women. Be a man to a woman, not a friend to a friend. If she doesn't want it, next her.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:02 PM
1

Places with girls in it. I like fairs/events. You get to learn about cool stuff that'll improve your talking subjects in the future, and you talk to lots of people that are there precisely to talk to you, and you can talk to women also. Win-win-win.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:10 AM
1

I open girls at gym by asking/stating something at the water cooler, asking to take turns on an apparel, or by motivating/teasing them.
/r/seduction15/09/17 01:53 AM
1

Why is this downvoted? You really don't need fucking IOIs to approach a girl. Just do it.
/r/seduction15/09/17 01:16 AM
1

She expects not to have desire for you. And she expects you to accept. Don't accept. Don't play into her expectations. Simply next her.
/r/seduction30/08/17 01:21 PM
2

It's all about inner game. Guys aren't pretending to be nice. They are being themselves. It's just that they're niceness is coming from the wrong place: putting women on a pedestal.
/r/seduction29/08/17 11:10 AM
2

Same way you open any set: begin talking with them.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:17 PM
1

Girls don't friendzone nice guys. They reject nice guys. Then the nice guys friendzone themselves.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:15 PM
11

Life is too short for that shit.
/r/seduction21/08/17 12:35 AM
3

spent hours with a girl. "You're a cute kid, but no"] Or you could have spent minutes, gotten that "no" quickly and used those hours to hit plenty other women...
/r/seduction20/08/17 03:28 PM
1

Cause they're boring.
/r/seduction15/08/17 02:04 PM
1

I have a very simple system, from great (if possible) to just ok (if nothing better comes to mind): 1) talk about what she's feeling 2) talk about what she's doing 3) talk about something going on 4) ask for information Then follow with introduction "I'm X, by the way" and a firm handshake, holding solid eye contact. Then go from there anywhere.
/r/seduction12/08/17 01:47 AM
2

Small ASD in front of her cousin.
/r/seduction12/08/17 01:40 AM
1

Either "no" (set your boundaries and don't go out of your way for her) or "I would only date you if you got fat, really fat" (turn the whole thing into a joke, and maybe roleplay from there).
/r/seduction12/08/17 01:24 AM
1

I mean, I've seen girls as tall as 5'2" say the cutoff is 6'0. Don't date girls with weird mental issues.
/r/seduction09/08/17 01:27 AM
1

5'7'' and bald... But none of them taller guys can eat a pussy better than I do, so girls are better off with me.
/r/seduction09/08/17 01:23 AM
9

Escalate immediately: "That isn't flirting... This is flirting".
/r/seduction09/08/17 01:06 AM
14

As long as you don't get oneitis, that's alright.
/r/seduction06/08/17 11:14 PM
1

Seduction implies a me vs her mentality No. It doesn't. Everyone wants to be seduced. You're giving her what she wants and making her life awesome.
/r/seduction06/08/17 11:09 PM
2

TLDR: it's just a numbers game and all outside your control. I don't like that way of viewing things.
/r/seduction06/08/17 11:03 PM
1

i told her to give me her number and she immediately said yes. After the set you can't even imagine how fucking proud of my self i was Maybe you reacted too much to her saying yes and that put her off. Maybe, as other say, it's not quite a fake number. For example, in Brazil we have recently added an extra 9 to the begining of cellphone numbers, but WhatApp will only recognize numbers without the extra 9. Stuff like that.
/r/seduction03/08/17 12:22 AM
4

It wasn't an accident. She's either into you or she's using you for validation because her boyfriend is kinda leaving her. Don't let that get in the way of your game. Keep on gaming her normally but don't let that event be a big deal or a turning point. Keep it cool not to switch a flip in your push as if you suddenly gained confidence you didn't have before just because that happened, or act as if that's all you've been thinking about all the time. She'd sense that, it'd reek of insecurity and …
/r/seduction01/08/17 01:54 PM
2

Which make you look even better for having the balls to do it and the tact to be cool with her mom while at it.
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:39 PM
3

Congrats! Keep at it! she doesn't hate you for just going up there. For some reason I thought she would hate me just because I went up and talked to her but hey she was pretty cool about it. 1 out of 50 girls kinda does just for the moment. Just don't begin thinking that's the norm if it happens early.
/r/seduction01/08/17 12:33 PM
2

Of course it is.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:47 PM
1

If you want to approach a girl, stay close to them until they give IOI and open. Don't look for IOIs. Just open.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:38 PM
1

What do you think is the worst thing that can happen? There's something worse than that: you not approaching. That's the worst thing that can happen.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:32 PM
1

Basides making you look better, it raises testoterone and boosts your confidence. Inner and outer game benefits.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:26 PM
3

Eye contact. That's because it doesn't just affect her, but also yourself. You'll naturally do more things right and you'll naturally calibrate if you hold eye contact with a girl. Her eyes you tell you what she wants and will tell you what to do, and you'll do it without realizing it. But you gotta make the effort to hold that eye contact if you're not natural at it.
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:20 PM
2

I'm on the fence of thinking she's trying to push-pull you. If she's all that not interested, why was she thinking of you to make that contact if she's into somebody else? Why contact you to say "hey, btw, just letting you know you got competition and you're behind"? I mean, this is the kind of thing that'd work on a girl, and she's a girl, so maybe she's using that on you? The rules follow: "pay attention to what she does, not to what she says", and "always assume attraction".
/r/seduction30/07/17 02:15 PM
2

I've hooked up with a girl that did that until her back was against the wall and she melted as I kissed her. There's a big mistake guys do in game, which's believe that girls are good at it and make no mistakes. They make as many mistakes as guys do. She walked back because she'd didn't know how to act, and she could have lost me and I could have lost her if I made the mistake of thinking she knew what she was doing. Sure I had solid frame and piercing eye-contact with a grim the hole time, and …
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:59 PM
1

Talk to her, escalate and find out.
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:57 PM
3

There are no leagues. I send her a text afterwards with a "have you left?" she looked at it and didn't replied back. That's the biggest mistake you've made that night. Don't apologyze for kissing another girl, you're not her boyfriend and you shouldn't act like one. Don't be needy and submissive and don't act like she's the only girl in your sights (in fact, she shouldn't be at all). Next time just act normally and escalate on her again. Stop overthinking past interactions. Sure, there's many wa…
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:49 PM
1

Big cities are better for cold approaching than small ones.
/r/seduction30/07/17 01:41 PM
6

Not only that, but you just give too much power and feel like too cheap a win for her. She can throw you out without a care. Easy comes, easy goes.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:55 PM
5

how can i escalate to get her in bed Not through text.
/r/seduction27/07/17 07:44 PM
3

no IOI eye contact / smile: 1) about what the girl is feeling. (it sucks to wait, uh? / hey, are you seriously (not) cold?! / leg day, eh? I can feel the pain just looking at your walk... penguin style) 2) about what the girl is doing. (hard choice, huh? I like the blue one... / hey, you're not looking like somebody who worked out really hard... / how can such a tiny person eat all that food?! / did you finish your set on this apparel? (gym) / wanna take turns? (gym) / how long since you ordered…
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:25 AM
1

She kind of tenses up I often answer with "Oh, you're super shy aren't you? Did I move too fast and scare you?". Sometimes that's exactly the case, sometimes it works as an unintended test or ASD that you pass if you keep your cool frame that ensures here it's alright.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:17 AM
5

Look them in the eyes with sex in your mind. They'll know.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:09 AM
1

especially since I know zilch about them or their interests. If you don't know, just guess.
/r/seduction23/07/17 10:56 PM
1

Depends on the size of the party. If it's small and private, treat it like a single set, talk to everyone, make the girls wonder who you're really interest in. They might give IOIs to raise above the noise, or even become jealous of each other.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:22 PM
2

an imbalance in the force. Haha. I'm from Brazil where there's no PUA culture, so it's probably not something directly related, yeah. But IDK, I feel like too-young (17yo) girls are more into fast advances while the girls I hit on (22-30) are more for indirect approaches. I guess the former are just more adventurous while the latter are more picky.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:12 PM
3

I can't just say "fuck you" to her face though You don't need to. I always get defensive Never, ever do that.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:57 PM
1

Interesting.
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:06 PM
1

She immediately looked down (perhaps embarrassed?) and told me she had a boyfriend She liked your move. Unfortunate timing due to her being in a relationship. Make friends with this girl, she'll talk good of you to her friends and that's great social proof to set your foot in the door with them. What should I do better next time? IDK if that was the vibe you gave, but avoid doing the "plot twist" approach were you're all seemingly uninterested and suddenly go "hey, btw, I'm only talking to you b…
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:48 PM
1

becoming friends with women help you getting other women Yes, if you're worth of note for them to tell their friends about you. You can make tons more friends with girl and leave a huge impression by approaching them cold. You also make lost of more female friends that way. Tho by "cold" I lean on the indirect vs direct approach. I'm in this for 3 months after being completely secluded working 24/7 from home for a few years. Every girl I approached indirectly ranged from receptive to very recept…
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:34 PM
1

those guys have higher chances of getting the girl Not at all. Those guys have higher chances of becoming just friends.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:09 PM
2

95 percent women date in social circle Because that's what they can get. Women have no control over guys to make them grow ball to approach them or to no be weirdos when they do. If only guys in their social circle will have balls to approach them and no be weirdos about it, then that's the local maxima they're stuck in.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:06 PM
1

I hate that the last 2 week I have done only about 2 approaches. Before that I've been doing like a couple approaches a day, often on groups of girls. All I basically do is day-game, tho, when on the way from here to there, at lunch, etc... This morning I finally re-approached again after these 2 weeks of no action.
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:53 PM
2

Hey, good morning. I noticed that everyone else already commented enough on the subject, so there's no need to go further. Also, my comment already says everything it needs to. Asking for permission to kiss a girl is very low-value, very I-don't-kiss-many-girls behavior, and that turns women off if they can attract better guys.
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:54 AM
3

"Argh, I really want to kiss you. Can I kiss you?" Pathetic.
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:41 AM
1

Your eyes and body language should be doing the push-pull the whole time regardless of what your mouth is talking about. If you do that you'll have plenty of opportunity to feedback on something she does or says. If she makes a joke or validates herself to you or spike your emotions with something she does you can follow up with "hey, you're (actually) pretty fun/cool, we should hang out/I wanna see you again, let's exchange contacts/numbers". Make sure your switch flips by something she does. Y…
/r/seduction16/07/17 11:03 PM
1

Exactly. You have better things to do with your time.
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:42 PM
2

Do you realize how needy that sounds?
/r/seduction16/07/17 10:41 PM
3

I read a couple of threads from women Of course it's not true.
/r/seduction14/07/17 10:57 AM
2

Good job! Keep approaching!
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:58 PM
1

Make sure you have nothing to be embarrassed about. Not approaching is what's embarrassing.
/r/seduction09/07/17 08:54 PM
1

"I approach girls on <place you approached her>."
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:14 PM
1

dating/talking with other girls.
/r/seduction07/07/17 09:19 PM
1

but only if that's incorporated with some kind of female input That "input" is real women behavior on the field, which's worth far more than any words.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:46 AM
1

This is why we often don't take advice from girls. It's not to offend or anything, it's simply that people don't know what they really want, which makes it pointless to ask them what they want. If your comments haven't been accepted, that's why.
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:39 AM
2

Nowadays, after getting into the "approach all the time" mindset, I treat female approaches with huge respect, specially if it seem like they're struggling with it. I also get a lot of stares from underage girls and used to just ignore them, but nowadays I sometimes "approach" them, talk for 30 second then ask their age and act surprised/ashamed to be hitting on them, just to reward their boldness and to make them not feel rejected. In any case, a girl that approaches me gains many points in my …
/r/seduction07/07/17 11:14 AM
0

Get out Meet people
/r/seduction04/07/17 03:52 PM
1

Laugh at them.
/r/seduction04/07/17 03:44 PM
3

Approach lots of women. The first stage of AM is that it doesn't matter if you screw up with this girl in the morning because you'll be talking to a different girl in the afternoon anyway.
/r/seduction04/07/17 11:02 AM
2

Focus on the senses and emotions.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:42 AM
1

I ... just really can't ... EDIT: Dunno why somebody's downvoting you. Your advice is generally good on this topic. Some stuff just won't work for me because of my specific case. Wasted too much of my youth not being interested in girls, I just can't waste any more time. Life is too short for that.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:38 AM
1

If you have an absolutely irresistible urge to text girls, you need to just cut it out. I can't. sometimes I approached women on Sunday and it's Wednesday morning and I'm "FUCK, I'm stuck at office until noon, there's no girls in here for me to approach. I got approach somebody, anybody, but I only get out at noon. FUCK! FUCK!", then I txt some girl, tell her some funny approach story, I laugh, they laugh, they say "what a hoe giving you her whatsapp when she's got a boyfriend!", and I survive t…
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:31 AM
2

I am not about pickup tactics, I don't want lots of women in my life Yet... You see a girl that makes you go "wow", and 3 seconds later you have talked yourself out of it. You need an abundance mentality and for that you need to approach lots of women. Eventually you may like one that'll like you back. But for that to happen you must be approaching lots of them, because that'll make you confident, smart and not needy.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:17 AM
5

I've been going out alone, too. Went to two shows where I met 8 girls and made up with one (and was super stupid to lose a huge opportunity with another one). Went to theater by myself and met 5 girls in the afternoon. Went to a convention/fair and met 3 in the day. In fact being by myself increases my drive to approach, because otherwise I stay alone and it's boring, and I also think it makes my approaches more bold, to hit on a group of 2-4 girls by myself and answer that I came alone when the…
/r/seduction04/07/17 12:56 AM
3

Do become text buddies with a few girls you just want as friends, then always text them instead of the ones you want to be more than friends. It should work to kill that urge to text women, and for me it kills the feeling of abstinence/wasting of youth if I don't approach anyone in a couple days.
/r/seduction03/07/17 11:34 PM
1

Because they're not worth it. Move onto girls that are.
/r/seduction03/07/17 05:52 PM
1

she had fat she didn't want me to see Lights off it is.
/r/seduction02/07/17 11:20 PM
1

Life is too short to be doing anything else.
/r/seduction02/07/17 11:07 PM
2

It's awkward if you think it's awkward. Your frame is your reality.
/r/seduction02/07/17 10:54 PM
1

Indeed. Tho she seemed super high self esteem, maybe she's just a 10 for low value guys but doesn't attract much of what she really wants. And maybe it's simply something that kicks in when she's drunk. I wasn't really teasing her on anything physical tho, just that she drank a lot most of the time. At one point I said her belly was begin to show from all the booze, but she took that one pretty fine. I really think my mistake was that I failed dialing up and being a man for her once she began to…
/r/seduction02/07/17 12:28 AM
1

maybe one or two questions That's too early to ask for the number, specially after opening with "excuse me".
/r/seduction01/07/17 11:33 PM
2

Make guesses about them and comment on what they say. If silence kicks, let it happen or bring in a new topic. Her: "I'm here on a business trip for the company I work with." Me: "Hell, then you're working the full weekend!" Her: "Haha, yes." Me: "Ask them for a raise!" Her: "Haha, damn, I so wish I could!" ... Me: "Wait, so you're not from here? Where are you from?" Her: "Place XYZ." Me: "Wow, just that I've never heard of it I can tell it's far away... is it like, two hours away?" Her: "Yes, j…
/r/seduction01/07/17 05:14 PM
2

Yes, OP. Forget that abundance mentality crap I told you. There's only that one girl in the world, after all.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:56 PM
1

2) Give yourself out-of-comfort-zone challenges and overcome them. No fap, no smoking, cold shower, no sugar, no coffee... talking to people (not just women) you see around during your day. Stuff like that. Be in control.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:55 PM
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Oh, wow. Thanks for the English lesson. It comes very in-topic for OPs problem.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:51 PM
0

'Course I've been. Most towns have around 50k people. At least in my region.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:48 PM
0

You can be flirty but you can't flirt. You can give a "I flirt with girls" vibe, but not a "I'm flirting with YOU" one. Show that you're fun to be with, but do not show intent. Game is attraction and comfort. Text is only for comfort, but attraction HAS to be in person. And self-amuse. It's no advice but I have fun telling girls about my approach stories. I just have fun doing that. I laugh, they laugh. We have fun. "Hey you have no idea what happened to me yday, there were these girls at the re…
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:33 PM
1

Yes. You should ALWAYS make lots of approaches. Specially because content only really helps once you have your own experiences to relate to what is being explained. You can't learn without approaching and interacting with women. Content helps in speeding that up so you're not reinventing the wheel. Content adds a percentage into the speed of your learning by action. But if your action is zero, any percentage of that is also zero. "I heard and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand…
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:25 PM
1

It's not a serious topic if you're in abundance mentality. It's just a girl and a night, whatever. Any small country-side village of any country has at least 50 of those girls.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:20 PM
1

If you're approaching, then it's not unsuccessful. I just go home and analyze what I did wrong to fix it next time.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:17 PM
1

Something that tells her you're not making a big deal of it. As the other guy said, make fun of it.
/r/seduction01/07/17 04:07 PM
2

I can't help but feel like I'm not getting any second chances because of my race If race was the problem you wouldn't be getting first chances. Maybe you're doing something wrong in those dates, like being too needy. Why the fuck would they waste their time with a socially awkward asian guy? They're attracted to you. It only becomes a waste of time if you bring this kind of attitude and turn them off.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:15 PM
2

"What's this one about?" to any girls standing still looking at something anime-related. "What's going on here?" to any girl standing behind a crowd that gathered around something.
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:10 PM
1

Most of the times it doesn't go anywhere in that moment Then make it go somewhere.
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:57 PM
1

I hate when I miss a set too, specially if there's AA involved. Only remedy for me is to approach the next set. Before then I just can't have peace...
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:11 PM
1

Yeah I think being self-conscious about a goal will be the only solution for me. Otherwise I really simply forget what I'm doing there.
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:04 PM
1

Indeed. Don't overthink stuff, specially in the beginning. Just go and do it. Open first, calibrate later, then figure out with time what works in your area/city/country and what doesn't.
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:57 PM
1

There's one girl recently tho, I was walking on a jogging road just to be outside and see the city commerce, and saw her getting out of a gym. So I reached an intersection and turned around, then sped up and caught up with her. I was super dumb tho because she opened super well but I had my mind set on something else and cut the interaction short, said "bye" and walked away ahead of her. But I had to change my direction in order to talk to her. I just can't yet simply stop a girl on the street. …
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:53 PM
2

I admit I haven't used real cold approaches like those very much. But they simply never worked for me the times I did. See I'm from Brazil, and I have the impression that over here women want guys to be smooth/smart about social stuff, because we're a quite social country, so unless you look really good you can't afford to sound dumb. Talking about daygame, of course. Might game I can easily get makeout without a single word, or saying stuff like "Hey, I liked you, so are we do or are we done" a…
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:39 PM
2

I'm thinking of going deep on out-of-the-comfort-zone exercises (cold shower I think... tho it's winter down here), and to try to stay focused when I go out. Most of the time I'm simply not ready and when I click to myself the girl is already gone. Other times I see them coming but just can't get the mindset right and she passes me by. Often with some eye contact at the very last second. I think I'll begin just saying a basic "good morning/afternoon" when I don't know how to open, and then follo…
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:17 PM
6

I noticed I have a very hard time approaching women walking by me. If we're walking on the same direction, or if she's standing still looking at something, or sitting somewhere, it's not a big deal. But walking on opposite directions... I can't recall a time I've approached unless it's somebody I've had at least some eye contact in a previous situation. I want to fix this so bad and I beat myself up everytime, but I haven't managed to overcome this challenge yet. :(
/r/seduction28/06/17 05:05 PM
1

The problem is I hurt my leg few days ago and even though it's healing I can't dance without feeling pain. Tell that story to the girls.
/r/seduction27/06/17 01:32 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction26/06/17 10:49 AM
3

Their lives are boring.
/r/seduction25/06/17 05:18 PM
3

You're better off without those psychos anyway.
/r/seduction24/06/17 07:43 PM
2

Make her horny and get horny too.
/r/seduction24/06/17 11:40 AM
1

Ask her to hang out again.
/r/seduction23/06/17 04:41 PM
3

Hard to know what to believe Believe what people do, rather than what people say.
/r/seduction23/06/17 12:17 PM
1

I didn't ask for a specific amount, so they offered me 16% "for now" and I took it.
/r/seduction23/06/17 11:30 AM
1

If you're asking this question, that means the answer is "yes".
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:12 PM
29

It's a place where everyone jokes about everything all the time, including the bosses. Wouldn't do it in a different company.
/r/seduction22/06/17 04:00 PM
2

To be precise: I get anxious when I want to approach women I'm attracted to. If I have to approach a girl I'm not interested in, it's fine. Funny thing, I'm exactly the opposite. I see an not-so-hot girl but I haven't approached anyone in 2-3 days and I feel like I should do it at all costs just to reset that counter, but I can't do it because I worry she'll think I'm hitting on her, or people will think I'm hitting on her. And then I get more and more nervous with the inner fight if I should or…
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:21 PM
1

Congrats! Keep the good work and keep pushing yourself ever harder.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:10 PM
2

Defending and qualifying yourself is a terrible response, and asking "why?" is not challenging enough, and it still focuses on yourself as the subject. To make her qualify herself you gotta make her the subject and playfully accuse her of something. Swap your "Why?" for "Oh... so you've been secretly judging me the whole time, uh? You're that kind of person...", let her invest, then show that you forgive it by reframing her from a judge to a detective making deductions and do some more roleplay …
/r/seduction22/06/17 11:45 AM
2

You're doing great, then. By all means shot for the girls your age but do not stop on the twenties. By the time you're their age and above you have years of experience with them.
/r/seduction22/06/17 11:10 AM
1

I'm just trying to teach him something. The specific example/case doesn't matter, but being only friendly without showing clear intent and moving forward with it won't yield different results.
/r/seduction21/06/17 08:28 PM
3

I got dumped recently because I was too only friendly.
/r/seduction21/06/17 03:55 PM
1

I was very happy. I just look back and think I must have been crazy or something, because it makes no sense.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:02 PM
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Talk to lots of strangers on the street, store, bus, etc... not just women, but everyone. Begin doing stuff you're uncomfortable with and denying yourself stuff you think you need. Something like drinking less coffee, drinking more water, no smoking, no fap, taking the stairs instead of the lift... Learn be in control and what you feel and what you do.
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:48 PM
3

Good job, dude.
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:39 PM
6

Yep, this thread is turning out pretty disappointing from the community. WTF is wrong with you guys?
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:38 PM
1

Life is too short to let it go by and not make the best of it with the little time we get. I've already wasted too much of it not living a life and I won't let it happen again.
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:35 PM
1

I mean I'm going onto my 4th month since I started. I'm on my 3rd month after being 3, almost 4 years locked up at home working 18/7 after quitting my job, dumping my GF, selling my car and going back to my parent's house to pursue personal investments, without sex, making out, touching or even flirting, without going out, only talking with a handful of people that'd show up at my house to see my family. I didn't even want women or anything. I was just fine pursuing my career dreams. Then I got …
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:33 PM
3

have being single for 3 year, to focus on my life. Are you me? Also, that's why I find all "focus on yourself, be happy by yourself" advices to be pure BS in my ears. I've been doing that for 3 years. I was happy and fine and not even interested in women or the trouble it is to have to be available to them when I rather be working and studying and not giving a fuck. But the time for that shit is over now. But the fact is: I don't drink and I really, really, don't enjoy clubs. Then do like me, I …
/r/seduction21/06/17 01:05 PM
3

Why not both?
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:56 PM
2

women never talk to anyone at the gym Does anyone talk to them? What opener would you even conceive using? Whatever... "Quite strong, aren't you?", "How long will it take me to be lifting those on my leg day?", "That effort expression suits you", "Waiting for this apparel? Maybe we can take turns if you keep up", "Now to go home walking like a penguin..." Whatever... It's about about how you say it and less about what you say. I've used this last one on a girl I saw getting out of a gym as I pas…
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:26 PM
2

IDK about you guys, but saw a girl at gym for the first time on Monday when I switched my gym hour, and next time I see her I'll make a move, fast-game style.
/r/seduction21/06/17 12:12 PM
7

Women are insecure with their self-image and often compare themselves to other women.
/r/seduction19/06/17 05:12 PM
1

Hardly a Top10 when Adriana Lima is the only HB10 in that list.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:18 PM
1

What would you do if you had a million dollars? Have a good, interesting, emotionally loaded answer yourself.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:13 PM
5

That's why it's good to have a couple text buddies. If you're bored, just text them instead.
/r/seduction18/06/17 07:04 PM
3

Trying to make it so. Perhaps it kinda is already, because it's all I wanna do in my spare time.
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:13 PM
2

Stop feeling ashamed. The entire human race has had dirty thougths through millennia or neither of us would exist. Women have dirty thoughts too.
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:04 PM
3

It's only weird if you make it weird.
/r/seduction16/06/17 05:48 PM
1

Then you drop it on the girl.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:04 PM
1

Yes, and it doesn't have to be hot women or even women. Just go talking around with everyone. Old ladies, dudes, whatever. Just talk to people.
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:00 PM
1

Look them in the eyes and smile while you talk. That's enough.
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:58 PM
1

With the little I know and what works for me... but I'm in Brazil and maybe things are different in different places. Over here daygame has to be indirect/smooth and build comfort, real cold approaches (Hi, I found you cute) just don't work, but in nightgame you don't even need to speak at all. Daygame: Comment about what she's feeling or something related, if you can guess on that. I like this one best because you jump right on her emotions and make her say the kinda of stuff you're supposed to…
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:42 PM
1

Approaching them confidently is the best first impression you can give.
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:30 PM
3

1 - Most girls don't want buff guys, tho the ones that do, really want them. Ripped is very high percentage, but also not necessary. 2 - I, for one, rather work alone than with a wingman. 3 - Wrong. They want something to fucking happen and break them out of their boring routine they can't pull themselves out of. They need your help. Be that event that changes their week. 4 - They won't, and even if they did: fuck 'em. They're cowards watching life pass by while you're taking actions and making …
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:19 PM
1

All you can do is give them space and motive. They can't chase you if you're chasing them. Give them a challenge, test them, and then reward them. Let them talk, come up with topics, make questions, hold your attention, feel like their investing. The more they invest, the more they'll want in return. If they don't invest anything, they can simply walk away without any losses. They got you for free, they throw you away for free. Make them pay something and they'll want to make use of you. In any …
/r/seduction16/06/17 12:07 PM
1

Make =/= Let
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:35 AM
1

You can't. But you can make her not chase you: by chasing her instead.
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:33 AM
2

Instead, focus on body language, your tone of voice and eye contact (probably the most important one). It's quite easy to get hang of them after short time. You don't even need to talk about sexual things, on the contrary, it's more beneficial to not talk about it. If you can look her in the eyes in a way that just screams I want to fuck you then you can talk about weather. This is my way, too. Which I learned when I hooked up with these deaf-mute girls. But I want to get out of that comfort zon…
/r/seduction16/06/17 11:29 AM
1

A fancy car makes a dude confident about women and makes him assume attraction, that's what's going on.
/r/seduction14/06/17 12:06 PM
1

It's your reality. What you believe in. What the world and the moment is inside your head. It doesn't affect just yourself, but everyone around and specially women, because they look to guys for leads on how to judge and react to situations. If you're calm, she's calm. If you believe approaching her is right, she'll believe it's right. If you believe it's fine to have casual sex, she'll believe it too. If you believe she is/will be attracted to you, she very well will begin to. If you believe yo…
/r/seduction13/06/17 12:58 PM
3

The only alternative I can think of is doing it the old fashioned way by having first contact in real life. Do it.
/r/seduction13/06/17 12:48 PM
2

Take this week to get out of your comfort zone. Approach women, do stuff you don't, approach women, walk to a different bus-stop, approach women, switch routes, approach women, eat at a different restaurant, approach women, if you like your coffee with sugar, drink it without sugar, approach women, if you eat mostly meats eat less meat and more vegetables, approach women, fight hard against all vices and easy ways out: don't smoke, don't drink coffee, don't drink, don't eat meat, don't eat sugar…
/r/seduction13/06/17 12:39 PM
1

You'll run into a thousand other girls.
/r/seduction12/06/17 02:57 PM
6

Do it.
/r/seduction09/06/17 01:03 PM
2

By meeting lots of other women and letting pre-selection fix her image of you.
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:38 AM
0

Oh, you're shit testing me... it's cool by you, but I'm not into dudes.
/r/seduction09/06/17 10:53 AM
1

Just 10min ago I had this issue with a 4-set. I've passed by their table 2 times and 2 of them were giving me a lot of sexy eye contact, and at one point I caught them and their friends were turned around looking in my direction, so one of them must have made a comment. I passed by them again, a lot more eye contact, then I came back and approached. They laughed at a pretty boring joke, but then I noticed at least two had wedding rings, and the other two were on their phones. I'm used to expect …
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:32 PM
15

Good job, boy!
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:14 PM
1

Gym and Smiling.
/r/seduction08/06/17 10:50 AM
1

Forget all canned openers. Cut all the "hey, stop whatever you doing and talk to me" stuff. Girls aren't ready for that. Instead, you have to insert yourself in her moment, or/and then later you bring her to yours and ease the conversation into something of itself. Ask yourself "what is she doing" and, more important, "what is she feeling?", then comment on that. That instantly puts you inside her immediate emotional state. You become part of her moment. Also ask yourself what you're doing and f…
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:10 PM
0

A guy who takes no risks (and gets no rewards).
/r/seduction07/06/17 05:28 PM
3

There are no leagues.
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:33 AM
1

Anything that's done on a stage and to a crowd and makes you the center of attention.
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:23 AM
9

Yes, it is. However, over time it raises Approach Anxiety in the guy because it being to feel like the longer it takes to approach, the more of a pussy he looks like. It's too intense and guys are caught off-guard. If you want to be approached by the guy, smile, wave, raise your eyebrows, say hi... (technically you're approaching in some of these).
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:11 AM
1

Depends a lot on the situation and the joke, and who's listening. I don't make those jokes around people I don't know and I wouldn't be attracted to a girl that does. But if she says it talking to her girlfriends, that's charming for me. The more human side a woman shows, the blushing, the accelerating heart, the having fun, the being mad or sad at times... the further she reaches me.
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:56 AM
1

Don't tell her. Act like it.
/r/seduction05/06/17 10:09 PM
2

Fairs/Expos/Activity Meetings. Go to all of them, no matter the subject. Become an enthusiast of all things. You'll get to know new stuff (improve yourself, become interesting, have where to set up dates, have subjects to talk about, have stories to share...) and meet women.
/r/seduction04/06/17 12:03 PM
1

Racism is phenotypical collectivism. You're not attracted to collectives, and attractions isn't the only way you interact with other humans.
/r/seduction03/06/17 06:14 PM
2

This. Address group, not just one of them. Girls dig it when guys talk confidently to a crowd.
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:34 PM
1

Most women suck at game and you have to do all the heavy lifting, which includes following /u/killzone20 's advice. A very common mistake is just not being ready for it. The same way you sometimes see a girl giving you an opportunity and don't know what to do, but when she turns the corner you snap "dammit, I should have...", it happens to women all the time, too. If there's any natural answer they got ready to throw on a second's notice it's rejection. If she doesn't know what to do, that's wha…
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:01 PM
1

UPDATE 3: Met another one today. Yes, I'm feeling fine now. Tomorrow I'm finally going somewhere on purpose to socialize. Haven't been able to do so yet. So far it has always been girls I find on the move on my way from here to there. It's good to be back at it after so many years.
/r/seduction02/06/17 11:46 PM
2

People say to get over it by meeting other women but I don't think I am capable of actually doing that Yes, you can.
/r/seduction02/06/17 10:49 PM
1

UPDATE2: So there was this other woman at the lunch place, but I couldn't have an actual convo with her because I was with the 3 crazy guys, and I didn't know what to say to keep the talk going. Still proud that I did anything at all.
/r/seduction01/06/17 05:09 PM
1

Yes, and you gotta begin showing clear interest and take action or else you'll lose that spark of interest and will become just a friend.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:17 AM
1

UPDATE: So I just went for breakfast on a different place and hit on this HB7 in there, not my usual type but I had to do it anyway. It was a brief exchange because I was out of time, and because my coworker showed up and didn't take the clue to leave me to talk with her, but I still tried to get her number, which she didn't give me, saying "I don't think it's a good idea, but I'm here everyday at this hour". I'm not coming back there, but I'm feeling better already.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:15 AM
1

meeting girls should become a regular part of your day-to-day life. Go out, and strike up conversations with girls you see. That's what I was doing, but now I can't find any women on my day-to-day life I'm able to and it's mixing me with feeling that it's my fault or that I lost steam, or that I'll forget how to do it and lose confidence if it goes on for much longer.
/r/seduction01/06/17 10:17 AM
1

I won't. Use some context.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:46 PM
1

Use an indirect opening. Just go up to her and begin talking about something.
/r/seduction31/05/17 04:25 PM
1

When a girl goes out with you, she wants you to look good because that makes her look good with you. I doesn't need to be fashion, but you need clothes that fit you well and show that you care about yourself. I personally like to wear red because women have told me I look good in the color, and because it takes some confidence to do so.
/r/seduction31/05/17 11:34 AM
1

she's a bit flirty/touchy too and she likes to spend time with me Ideally you'd just move on... but if you really want to try something, maybe ask her to Netflix and Chill, and massage the back of her head/neck through her hair with the tips of your fingers, if she's anything into you, whenever you turn to her she'll read it as a kiss attempt and may simply do the same and meet you half-way. And if that happens, don't fucking talk about anything, don't make it awkward, don't make it about tomorr…
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:56 AM
5

"I remember those days" "Fondly... or with regrets?"
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:45 AM
1

Yes, you do. Online interactions suck. Go outside and begin approaching. Girls want you do go there and talk to them, sometimes they're lonely, bored, or simply like to talk and there's nobody they know around. Just by approaching you're already better than 99% of the guys she stumbles upon.
/r/seduction31/05/17 10:32 AM
1

The same way you make friends with anyone else.
/r/seduction30/05/17 07:29 PM
6

Her "Hey _! I have a boyfriend if you are thinking of being more than just being friends haha. Thanks for being brave and approaching me though." When did this happen? You should make friends with her. She oughta have some cute friends she'll tell about you and the good impression you gave her. Social cycle and pre-selection are will be on your side.
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:02 PM
1

Do girls really reject guys for ''player'' vibes before giving him chance? More than you think. I have the same problem, the 7-8s reject me but the 9-10s don't. I'm completely different with them as in I just wanna bang the 7-8s but wanna get to know the 9-10s better and act more like my everyday self around them. Plus 7-8s have lots of guys hitting on them all the time, so they feel overrated and entitled, while 9-10s don't because most guys are afraid to talk to them.
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:12 PM
1

Yeah, I guess you're right anyway.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:48 PM
1

Don't all targets start at 0% and then you pull those odds up by opening? Besides OP's case isn't a random girl, it's somebody he knows IRL.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:32 PM
1

Aff, I keep on screwing this comment. Her saying "calm down, we can talk about that later" is a pretty harsh and patronizing response. I think things were dead at this point. I'm paraphrasing and translating, it wasn't bad at all but I figured I had to endure a bit more to get the date going. What did you text when you were "trying to escalate"? Pretty much just that "I can't even say what I'm thinking through here". It was enough for her to think I was thinking of her and some easy hoe. That's …
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:14 PM
1

Yes, it's pretty complicated because you have to figure out what kinda girl you're with. The uncomplicated liberate ones, or the ones that like to pretend their saints until they're home with you. The way to deal with one kind often burns you with the other and vice-versa.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:12 PM
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If you go home the night that you meet, it's to have sex. Yes, we know that they know that we know that. But women like to pretent it's not that till the end. So we gotta give them Plausible Deniability. The better the excuse, the more comfortable they are in going through it, because they can lie to themselves better and feel innocent about it. Just play by the rules. Don't look for reason in it.
/r/seduction28/05/17 03:00 PM
1

Yet you can't have abundance if you don't go for all the girls you can.
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:20 PM
13

Succinct and solid af.
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:10 PM
2

Have something cool at home, or that you can do at home. Talk to them about it, show pics/videos on your phone, say they would love it. Invite them to your place to check it out. It can be pets (dogs, piggies, fishes...), a skill (cooking is great), something cool nobody else has (face/body 3d scan setup, semi-pro photo studio corner), or just something fun (club lights, kinnect/dancing board, wall projector).
/r/seduction28/05/17 01:49 PM
3

I've just screwed something through text just two days ago. Did the stupid mistake of trying to "escalate" through text because she was liking me but when I asked her out she said "calm down, we can talk about that later", then I explained to her why text was awful, and then she got super fukcing mad when I said "I can't even tell you what I'm really thinking, but in person I could say anything", andswered "not you cannot, neither here not in person. Now I've lost all interest in meeting you in …
/r/seduction28/05/17 01:17 PM
1

Yes but why bother? There's billions more women out there.
/r/seduction27/05/17 10:56 PM
1

Good luck. Be confident and assume attraction.
/r/seduction27/05/17 12:06 PM
2

Then be more confident and just keep on challenging her till the end. If she smiles, you smile harder. Be bold. You can begin the whole thing asking if she's shy, then keep the whole thing in a fun mood. If you miss her either way if doesn't matter because you still win.
/r/seduction27/05/17 01:13 AM
1

I'd tell her how I find her shyness super attractive and play around with it, stand like a man a get into her personal space, chest to chest, staring her in the eyes and smiling because enjoy seeing her get nervous. Pretend I'm going to kiss her just to see her freak out, and then actually do it. But for me that d all be natural an true because I really love the sight of a nervous female chest going up and down.
/r/seduction27/05/17 01:00 AM
1

Stop making friends with girls.
/r/seduction26/05/17 10:38 PM
1

Anything in context is good. I recently tried a simple "what's your name" (bus) and it didn't work well, she answered with a smile but then turned around to sleep and never looked back. But I've recently been successful with "sup, are you one of the ballerina teacher's here?" (watercooler), "lol, are you cold?!" (streets, it was quite a warm morning), "got the result you wanted on the test?" (watercooler), "coming or going?" (airport), "do the buses from the terminal pass through here first?" (b…
/r/seduction26/05/17 11:47 AM
1

Considering I've been working and studying at home 24/7 while pretty happy/fulfilled doing that by myself for 3 years, and got back to going out and wanting to have a social life 2 months ago, not bad. Which's why I'm in this sub: to learn how to make up for the wasted time (and those "just learn to be happy alone" advices sound like BS for me, because I was happy alone for too long and now I'm mad at myself for that). I'm approaching 2-4 girls a week just on my way from here to there. But I'm y…
/r/seduction26/05/17 10:50 AM
1

The real stupid thing his friend did was saying he wanted her number, rather than saying he wanted to talk to her.
/r/seduction25/05/17 06:37 PM
1

It kinda felt easier to me because, from one POV you can't talk much, but from another you don't need to. I wish I could simply do the same with all women, but I have to speak with them, specially because all I do is day game, no bars, no parties, no clubs...
/r/seduction25/05/17 06:06 PM
0

I had Tinder for 3 days last week, then got bored and deleted it. First day I got a superlike and somehow screwed up and unmatched it IDK how. Second day I had 2 matches but then decided I don't have time for online BS anymore, already wasted too much of my life working behind a screen and just want to live in the real world now. In any case, all I had only one picture and my bio was a single line which roughly translates to something like "Send me construction-worker's cat-calls".
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:54 AM
1

Don't play her game the way she expects you to. Frame it around and push it in the direction you want, which is to move from pictures and text to the real world. Do you should have been doing it from the very first time the sent you one of those. Anyway, try answer with something like "so you were one of those kids that'd provoke the neighbor's dogs behind the bars and then run away when they got loose". Frame it such that you're the one for whom pictures and text aren't enough and her as being …
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:48 AM
1

Nah, you're fine. Just hit a gym, it'll fix your posture and maybe widen your shoulders depending on your genetics. This will also improve your confidence.
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:15 AM
3

Hooked up with these two deaf-mute girls. Not at once on bed, but on same day. They were friends, we were together, but when I had time each with one I escalate hard as if the other's presence was the only thing holding me back the whole time. Having limited ability to speak with them is what taught me how to seduce a woman. It's not about what you say, it's about how you feel, carry yourself, show intent, look into their eyes, smile and go for what you want in a way they can't resist.
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:09 AM
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These are what I love about this sub. Congrats, girl! And good luck!
/r/seduction25/05/17 10:54 AM
2

Congrats!
/r/seduction16/05/17 11:07 AM
2

Some smile, some don't... Some are serious with male friends, parents, by themselves but smile when among female friends...
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:47 PM
12

Teen girls outright stare at you nonstop. Women look at you when you're not looking. Old ladies straight up tell you that you're attractive.
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:38 PM
2

Simply act like you became available/interested now. Don't say that though, just don't worry.
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:13 PM
2

AM? Sorry but i don't now what means... Abundance Mentality. How will i know when i should try to kiss her again? What do i do wrong? That's something only you can answer I guess. It's a dynamic thing you'll have to read.
/r/seduction15/05/17 11:23 AM
2

She's confused. Keep her comfortable, keep on AM and don't oneitis.
/r/seduction15/05/17 11:13 AM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6a34ue/day_game_openers_literally_walking_up_to_em/dhbo3qq/
/r/seduction15/05/17 10:27 AM
2

Either good news and she's being overt with you. Or bad news and she's talking girly stuff about her period.
/r/seduction14/05/17 08:41 PM
1

It depends on many things. Hard to approach and close? Hard to escalate? Hard to be good in bed? All those things are different for each person.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:29 PM
22

Make her introduce you to five hot friends.
/r/seduction14/05/17 12:32 PM
3

It's a terrible feeling. Good. how to get over it? Do you wanna feel that terrible feeling again? Think about that whenever you see a girl you could approach.
/r/seduction14/05/17 12:30 PM
1

Forget cuddling. Put your fingers trough her hair and rub on the back of her head for a while with the fingertips. When you're ready to move ahead, move your hand from finger tips to holding the back of her head with the entire palm while turning your head to kiss her. She should move to kiss you half-way with a reaction time it'll seem like both of you did it all at once.
/r/seduction13/05/17 09:24 PM
3

Do the same thing again with another girl.
/r/seduction13/05/17 08:59 PM
2

There's isn't much demand for it, and unless you're talking about being a wingman for a lesbian friend, probably not worth it.
/r/seduction13/05/17 08:55 PM
1

And a pet pig.
/r/seduction13/05/17 11:34 AM
1

She liked you.
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:48 PM
1

I almost always do and it works better than when I do not.
/r/seduction12/05/17 07:12 PM
7

Use what they said to start a conversation. Something like raising your hands and saying "Ok, I want my lawyer now" or whatever.
/r/seduction12/05/17 04:00 PM
6

How would we know? Unless you've done something bad and notorious to be "that"guy, you should have played into their open right away.
/r/seduction12/05/17 03:56 PM
5

They're interested. Not all girls are the same. Some smile, some don't, some look away because they're too shy.
/r/seduction12/05/17 01:52 PM
1

Don't add her. Just approach her in person. You're on college, she's on high school. Show her you're a man unlike of the boys she studies with.
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:07 AM
2

Approach lots of other women.
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:01 AM
1

"Hey, are you new to this school?"
/r/seduction12/05/17 10:00 AM
2

Besides having more experience, know better what women want, and being more motivated after looking back at opportunities wasted and wanting to punch myself in the face, and nofap to add to that motivation, probably the two biggest effectors I had were: I hit the gym. That's a big boost in confidence and attractiveness. You feel brand new and better than the day before. I hooked up with two deaf-mute girls, that's when I really learned how to seduce and flirt using just posture-eyes-smile. Whene…
/r/seduction10/05/17 10:41 PM
1

Ask her out.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:42 PM
3

She is a very athletic Indian 19 y/o who I talk to every day. She skipped a year to pursue her sport which she is the national champion in. On our way back, my current prom date asks if I am gay. You should just have fucking kissed right on the spot. This is the right answer for such a question 99% of the time. Next time you see her just walk straight to her and kiss her without any other words. Walk like a man while you're doing it. Just fucking do it. I'm almost mad now because you remind me o…
/r/seduction10/05/17 01:06 PM
1

Never, really. I just do it whenever I'm outside: on the move, during lunch, shopping, jogging... stuff like that. Perhaps I should, tho.
/r/seduction10/05/17 12:46 PM
2

This is great advice, /u/andrewgore96
/r/seduction10/05/17 12:41 PM
2

Just 5min ago I saw this girl on the street, it's quite warm atm, but she looked cold. I asked surprised "hey, are you cold?!", she said "yes! haha" and we talked and had fun for a while until we had to part ways, but it turned out she was too young for me and still in high school (17yo is my guess), so I didn't attempt anything. In any case I hit on her just for AM boosting. But yep, context is great. Better yet if it's about her. Better yet if it's something sensible.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:56 AM
1

She might be just worried you'll either judge her, of hook up and disappear. Don't worry about that, just keep doing whatever you're doing and make her comfortable.
/r/seduction09/05/17 10:36 AM
13

Something as simple and honest as walking up to her and saying "I thought I could come up with an excuse to talk to you by the time I got here" or "I guess this is the moment I make something up just to start a conversation with you", either of those followed by spotting something around and "oh, let's talk about that over there... see? I've just solved our problem". Do this with an amused smile that tells her you're both enjoying an inside joke about how you walked up to her without knowing wha…
/r/seduction09/05/17 10:20 AM
3

"Why don't I warm up one of your hands?" Instead of saying "can I warm your hands?" just extend yours and say "give me your hands". Always state something instead of asking for something if possible. I just went for the kiss with no hesitation and she kissed me quite passionately for a solid 5 seconds or so. You should have then kissed her for 5 more. She likes to take action but try being a bit less passive when you can. What's your opinion on her interest level? 2 weeks later I get a text sayi…
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:29 AM
0

Feel better now?
/r/seduction08/05/17 04:32 PM
0

Yes, it does.
/r/seduction08/05/17 04:06 PM
0

Women are people, too.
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:57 PM
1

Heh, I have no problem with taller women, but dislike women in high heels.
/r/seduction07/05/17 10:50 PM
1

Take your own advice.
/r/seduction07/05/17 09:31 PM
1

Take a break from her, meet new girls and move on.
/r/seduction07/05/17 08:42 PM
4

What is the safest way to get into social life? Take part in something. A club, a new activity, volunteering...
/r/seduction07/05/17 07:16 PM
3

She'll say yes. There's this guy down the factory she eye-fucks everyday but she doesn't know what to do to grab lunch with him. You have to power to solve her problem.
/r/seduction07/05/17 05:16 PM
1

Ask her out for lunch.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:40 PM
1

Pretty much always. Sometimes prior to the hookup and simply give up on it, then flake or cut everything during escalations. Sometimes it's just for myself, and sometimes because the girl is cool and seems to be hoping for more.
/r/seduction06/05/17 10:20 PM
2

They want you to be their daddy.
/r/seduction06/05/17 09:14 PM
1

I've seen a good dancer just point at a girl and gesture her to come to him, then kissed her right away without a word.
/r/seduction06/05/17 07:13 PM
1

Go for physical escalation: touch his arm/leg/knee when talking, hug him when you first see him in the day. Be natural about it, but beware he might be uncertain if you like him or if you're just being friendly, so you have to do it more often and longer. Eventually, if he doesn't make a move, you should. One thing you can do is go for a and unsuspecting cheek kiss while hugging him but kiss his neck instead, hold that kiss for a while, breathe deeply and then move onto his mouth, but you have t…
/r/seduction06/05/17 06:52 PM
2

Indeed there's that, too. But going "navy" style bald makes one look more like a man and less like a boy, which women dig, and it also helps hair to stop falling, whereas hats make your head warm, causes dandruff and accelerates the process.
/r/seduction05/05/17 08:48 PM
2

Just go full bald and own it.
/r/seduction05/05/17 08:37 PM
6

I only had one "fwb", tho I think I actually just seduced her over and over again everytime we went out "just as friends". She's kinda addicted to going out, so I'd text her from a bar or something when the night wasn't going well and she'd always agree. Then the only time I was explicit about what I wanted to do, she said "nope, no way". In any case, use this power wisely.
/r/seduction05/05/17 06:55 PM
1

Heads-up! I just took my 4 wisdom teeth and won't be showing for lunch for a week or more be cause I won't be eating real food anyway. That means I won't see the girls or be hanging out with the guys.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:13 PM
1

I don't think it would look well in them girls eyes if I dumped my friends because of that, nor do I really wish to. I any case, I won't be joining them at lunch for a week because I just took all my wisdom teeth this morning and won't be eating real food for 10 or so days.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:09 PM
2

We have the same saying here in Brazil. And growing up it was exactly the same. What got me mad was not the jokes but the aftermath of them. I could stand BS all day, but it was clear the women wouldn't and rather stay clear of us to avoid that attention.
/r/seduction05/05/17 08:55 AM
1

Some would stop. Some would double down... or maybe not. IDK. I guess it could depend on how serious they think I am about said woman. I wonder if I can let it settle down for a while and still manage to catch up with her down the road. But I don't wanna think much about it I guess, it'll only mess me up.
/r/seduction05/05/17 01:40 AM
2

They're my friend from other companies. I taught the job to some of them when they were interns, and they sold me to the bosses and got me this job after I lost a lot of money trying to open a business. I've actually been turning this company down for about 5 years while trying to make my business take off, but then gave in recently when I ran completely out of funds. So yeah, we know each other for a good while prior to this job. I guess you're right about the behavior. IDK, we all bully everyo…
/r/seduction05/05/17 01:25 AM
8

The best thing about Tinder is that you can set yourself apart by not using it.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:23 AM
3

Most of the times I've been hit on by girls it was either so natural I only now years later understand what happened (they cross my path while jogging and say "oh, hey"), or overtly forward even if discrete (give a note, send a friend...). Guys like it either way and, unlike women, they don't worry if you look shy or confident. Personally there's nothing more attractive than a woman's chest and neck when she's breathing heavy and her heart is beating fast. Maybe it works the same for your goal. …
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:11 AM
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Women are human, too. They are more scared of approaching you than you are of approaching them. They need you to do it. If you can't do it just for yourself, do it for them. They're in a cell for which only you have the key. Stop being selfish.
/r/seduction01/05/17 02:59 PM
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She's saying "but how am I going to meet you if I don't speak English?" Just answer "we'll find a way", "we can learn each other's tongues together", "it's more fun/less boring that way", "even better because it's something different/new/unique". Take this as a test. Use the language barrier to be interesting and ambiguous, and to show that you're not afraid of awkward moments when they happen. Just be stubborn through them to show confidence and interest. Also, here's a free talking point tip: …
/r/seduction01/05/17 02:10 PM
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Seem like you're in an area where most women like discretion rather than something explicit and exposed, yet you're being explicit on why you're calling them home, and you're doing it in front of people they know. Your age and place it's best to just make out, get them horny and leave with their number so you can invite them later, when they're don't have their friends gossiping about, to watch a movie or check your sound system or the cool puff you ordered, or try some spicy recipe you learned.…
/r/seduction30/04/17 11:22 PM
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That video makes me want to skydive. Not game. Lol! Indeed! I actually looked up skydiving prices on my area. In any case, also, do game. Don't give up man, but also focus on you, have fun, be happy without women first.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:00 PM
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Maybe you need motivation some other way. Music and workout often makes me feel good and pumps me up. Some motivational talks can help, too. Anyway, if your can is not lack of motivation, but just that your fears is still beyond the motivation, then you'll need to work on that fear. But while you can, you can use an anchoring trick I used to have. Think of your most confident moment, something during foreplay or pre-sex seduction is good. Breathe deeply, anchor a physical gesture to it (hold you…
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:56 PM
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For me it's really like I'm going to a banquet everyday and I'm fasting at home just so I'm hungry when I see the food. Everything else just works out from then. Necessity is the mother of invention.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:29 PM
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Often a couple weeks, so I just stay in the withdraw area. If I begin getting too comfortable I reset the timer.
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:49 PM
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I've been there, lacking motivation to actually act on girls when the opportunity is there, prioritizing everything else over dating women, being a workaholic and rarely going out, wanting to stay clear of the work and time it takes to go on dates and seduce women, set up a date on Wednesday and by Friday you're not in the mood anymore... Take a shot at /r/nofap, it worked for me.
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:45 PM
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That's quite true.
/r/seduction30/04/17 01:38 AM
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I'm 1,69m (5'7). Though still taller than most women, and pretty fine with girls up to 1,71m (almost 5'8), there have been time at clubs I'd be sitting at a table and a random hot 1,75m+ (5'9+) woman would come and dance right in front me almost begging me to do something, then I get up and they instantly leave when they see I'm shorter than them. I'm not really insecure with it, but when there's a couple 1,80m+ (5'11+) guys right next to me I don't even try to seduce women because I just feel i…
/r/seduction29/04/17 08:41 PM
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First they're being sociable already, while a single woman looking at her phone isn't, which can make your approach be somewhat intrusive and disrupting of whatever her mind is at. You also catch them in their comfort zone among friends, so they won't snap and reject you for no reason. Then, approaching a group makes a good impression of you, because it seems like it takes more confidence to do so. You can also be slightly less natural in your pick up because you're kinda speaking to an audience…
/r/seduction29/04/17 08:24 PM
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There's nothing easier than hitting on girls that are in a group. Though I'm guilty of almost only approaching groups and avoiding approaching women that are by themselves. Gotta work on that...
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:44 PM
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Don't focus too much on a single girl so fast.
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:29 PM
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About Socialista Morena, check this out: http://www.portaltransparencia.gov.br/despesasdiarias/resultado?consulta=documento&docDocumento=2014NE002291&docCodigoUG=115406&docCodigoGestao=20415
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