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| 8 | On men frequenting OF/internet models/cam girls etc : If this were the 90s would you date a man who carried around a box of swimsuit model magazines 📖 so he could ogle them a couple times an hour??My ex had a collection of nudes of various celebrities/IG models etc. I found about them on accident, actually he mentioned it very nonchalantly. His excuse: the nudes were shared in a friend group chat (implying it’s a common thing for men) and that it was not him who shared them. Wow, slow clap for you buddy. Also, another “hero act” is that he - wait for it, ladies - delets them every two weeks!, so that I should be at peace knowing he’s not storing them permanently 😍🥰🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 10 | Shower thought: Society literally had to coin the term ‘gentleman’ in order to accentuate behaviors that show a minimal level of consideration and respect towards women. Also, it indirectly shows that the vast majority of ‘other’ men don’t care about such values.My intention behind posting was to think about today’s context of the word. Because of that, its true origin isn’t the focus here. I’m not from an English speaking country so in fact I use the dictionary a lot. Hope I clarified it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:28 AM |
| 74 | Shower thought: Society literally had to coin the term ‘gentleman’ in order to accentuate behaviors that show a minimal level of consideration and respect towards women. Also, it indirectly shows that the vast majority of ‘other’ men don’t care about such values.Oh yeah, another one of those specific terms media likes to push in that case and the one that irks me the most is 🌈family man 🌈 as if it’s some kind of saint that just happened to kill people (often said family members). Or the comments about how he always seemed calm and non-suspicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 10:44 PM |
| 122 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.Oh boy, this is too familar, especially the uglies looove to project their insecurities onto women. Examples of my ex: 1) yeah, your tits are alright, but they can always be bigger ;)) 2) while noticing a stand of gray hair on my head: (broad smile) iS tHaT gRaY hAiR? (keeps smiling and wouldn’t let it go even when I wasn’t comfortable with the convo) 3) at the beach, touching my lower back and making a comment: see, you have a bit of fat right here (waiting for my reaction) but it’s cool, a lot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:28 PM |
| 23 | LVM love to say that women hit the wall by the age of thirty, but this is Katy Perry at 36.Projection. A lot of them start balding even in their mid 20 and get huge wrinkle lines because of no skincare regimen and sun exposure. While they start to look way older than their real age, they get insecure and project that onto women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮It’s always the most disgusting, Smeagol-looking ass scrotes that write stuff like that 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Yup, same thing here. I was also 16, 17, he 21ish and he always insisted on sexual topics. When I would call him out on his behavior, he would say I’m a prude, along with his fav question, “are u still a virgin?”. It’s fucking gross. The worst part is I had a huuge crush on that guy and we had been talking for a year or two. Fortunately, he lived far enough not to see him ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 48 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.I was seeking the answer to that just like you, then realized guys aren’t that deep. There isn’t an array of emotions he felt before the date - would I really like to see her that much, am I actually good enough for her or would we maybe waste each other’s time.. They do assholeish things to get an ego boost, without ANY empathy to the woman involved. The end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 33 | Really felt for this woman. I just hope she keeps her standards high and knows her worth now.Omg I also had a date with a cop who was a part time DJ before that 🤣🤣 what’s up with that correlation? 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 14 | It's funny cause it's true... and sad, but true.I love Amy Poehler! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Saw this👏🏻👏🏻Exactly. I’ve always thought those kind of things are weird af. Like, I am sure about him and he is sure about me-we both have trust in each other. Trust. Which is earned and build gradually. I sure as hell am not looking in anyone’s phone with the thought of them cheating. Being on a verge of a mental fucking breakdown all the time. If cheating happens, that’s it. We’re done. Simple as that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Men get creative when they love you. Find yourself a man that craft you a ring as intricate as this. Historical HVM alertOmg I’m almost in your exact dating situation you described, even though I’m having some trouble with that, but now it has to do less with myself and more about him. Can I pm you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:00 PM |
| 27 | The guy didn’t confirm the date. So I didn’t meet up. What’s your policy on this?I never trust a man for ANYTHING he says that is jUsT a JoKe. Ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 91 | Men get creative when they love you. Find yourself a man that craft you a ring as intricate as this. Historical HVM alertIt’s worrying to me that women today first have to think things like “am I high maintenance” for wanting something special from time to time. Whether it be fine dining, an expensive gift, or an engagement ring which is, um, supposed to be special special since it happens once with someone lol. I remember feeling awkward and confused when an ex asked me if I wanted to go to a nicer place for a dinner and for us to get dressed up. I was frozen for a few seconds and I didn’t know what to answer. My… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 18 | I feel deeply sorry for her🤢😭Why do I have a feeling TikTok is trying to be vine but it’s not going to happen 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | this interaction >Did women come up with the term in the first place? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:01 PM |
| 58 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalJohn - the type of a guy who’s been vocal about hating girls with duckfaces yet...... he um..... makes them........ himself ? 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Big Yikes - thought I’d share the horrifying chain of messages I got last night from someone I used to see 🤷🏻♀️Say it with me again - let us have the confidence & audacity of a mediocre (at best) white guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | My female coworker had this on her social media. I hate that these type of posts are supposed to be funny. This idea women have to suck it up for guys is toxic.Saving this as an example to have in mind when hobbies and generally the things girl like are are devalued and laughed at. Just think of all those pumpkin spice latte hate train memes. God forbid we dare to say something against cars and motorcycles 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 4 | *disgusted but not surprised face*A lot of words for “I’m humorless” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 13 | You can never convince a man to love youUgh you spoke to me. I still get thoughts of a guy who was literally beautiful, plus a pro athlete. I usually don’t fall for looks, they don’t really bother me (if everything else is fine and he is not like ugly ugly). But this guy was someone who I would totally describe perfect lookswise. We also clicked 😒. Anyway of course I let myself be infatuated by him and of course he turned out to be a LVM. Ladies don’t do this! Ask yourself what does he bring to the table! The way he treats you, the wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 20 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?My mom shames other women for having sex and always mentions it in the most unpleasant way, like “she fucked her way through the top”; “they are fucking since she was 13”- commenting on one of our neighbors daughter who is a young adult now, she isn’t the brightest but I mean she’s enough mentally capable of choosing her sexual partner lol (but my mom has a problem with that somehow). I think she wants to imply that women use their pussy power to use men, it’s most likely projecting her being fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:36 PM |
| 26 | Posted an image of my icecream and this guy just starts shitting on me. And they wonder why hot girls never date themYeah, just don’t yourself spend a second answering these fools.Only today I got a few messages of lurkers, instant block&delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 34 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣They also say that since we refer to each other “queens” that we participate in hood culture 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:44 PM |
| 43 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Probably some of their shitty limp dick role models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:12 PM |
| 29 | Big shock hereShocked-pikachu.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag when they’re laying on the cheesy pick up lines/ flattery early?Same, I stopped caring and asking myself if he’s, like that guy in particular, being sincere with his compliments, or just like the rest of them who write the same stuff. Realized I shouldnt question myself so much but mens’ integrity overall. It’s funny though how they don’t seem to comprehend that and get angry at us for not being impressed 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:06 PM |
| 46 | "I like your mask": harassment during the pandemicIt’s alarming to see how many women don’t actually register this behavior as harassing and predatory. They’ll brush it off and say things like, “that poor guy was just trying to flirt and made me uncomfortable”, “maybe he’s all alone and needs some company” etc etc. NO. Please stop rationalizing such men and be truthful to yourself about your own peace and, ultimately, security. Don’t say a thing and walk off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:24 AM |
| 19 | YES you deserve a HVM!Yes! We as women tend to “stay in our lanes” usually thinking it’s what we deserve. Especially millennial women. We were taught not to question the status quo of our life, the people around us, our satisfaction and (un)happiness. It’s time we look at things for what they are and don’t take shit from anyone - also ourselves. We need to stop telling ourselves we are undeserving and not enough. We need to stop this negative narrative and free ourselves from cognitive dissonance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:17 AM |
| 70 | Who’s going to tell him?Aww, maybe go lighten up with your porn addiction, two pump chump Brad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:11 AM |
| 6 | The only time you should believe a man is when he says he’s an asshole.Oh yeah, girl. Narcs love to love bomb you so you can’t differentiate whether they’re being genuine or using it to harm you with their tactics. Moral of the story: no, they aren’t genuine and never cared about you in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 30 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaYou’d think these jerks have enough material with porn🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:54 PM |
| 74 | Just Low-Value Fuckboy Things 🙈🙉🙊Loool the emoji is exactly the Justin Bieber when he was like 17 face they always do 🤣 step aside fools, the queens are walking past you 💁♀️👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:14 PM |
| 37 | I chose myself over himListen here now. You can find someone who will love you wholeheartedly and treat you with kindness and respect. It’s a matter of looking at it like this-what can HE bring to the table? Noone needs men. Seriously. All women of all ages I spoke to and who opened up to me said that. You yourself, right now, are enough. Noone can take that away from you. Not a fuckboy who texts you ‘u up’ at 1am or a handsome athlete you fell for. I advise you to work on your self esteem first, find your strengths A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:37 PM |
| 54 | If the “squishy” girlfriend junk wasn’t enough, they’ve also made an actual MOMMY girlfriend stereotype. Does it get any worse than this?!Ughhh am I the only one who HATES the word thicc. It’s gotten so popular and used for everything that it became utterly annoying. It’s the same like ‘bae’ was a few years ago. Not to mention if curves weren’t trendy and desirable rn, people would just use the word fat instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 63 | She gets itI really like her and more important, the messages she sends out. I used to think she is over the top (like finding a rich attractive husband) but with time I realized her points are perfectly valid. Patriarchy teaches women you can’t have everything in a man; you must compromise. He can be good-looking and charming, but doesn’t need to earn much and can watch porn every night. He can be ugly af and abuse you but have a stable income. He can say I love you but doesn’t do shit in the household. W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 15 | This is the kind of man “Castle Doctrine” laws were put in place forJudging on men’s character, he was also probaby taking a dump simultaneously 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 38 | Approximately 90% of women on relationship adviceIt lacks a “I might propose YOU cuz I’m woke” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 58 | A cautionary tale about the dangers of settling for a LVMThat’s a lot of words for I’m lazy, incompetent and undeserving of this woman kind of scrote who doesn’t have any respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | I unfortunately know a worrying number of men like this 🤢🤮I get that this is meant to be satire, but the final “joke” would be that there are people who literally talk like that in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 31 | ThisIt’s sad that cosmo is among the first things a young impressionable girl is able to gain info about the adult world. Those “manuals” in magazines on introduction to safe sex, enjoyable sex, without the must be The One prince charming bs must be written by women, approved by women and owned by women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:24 AM |
| 73 | TindernightmaresLoool the AUDACITY. It’s really gotten to the point where their own hypocrisy is eating themselves. Take her to the pool so her makeup washes off kind of shit. I don’t even need to take you to the pool, Dave. 🤣The foolishness🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:18 AM |
| 5 | One of my personal dating rules:Never date a man who states he is looking for a woman with "a sense of humour"It’S jUsT a JoKe BrO, cHiLlAx, DoN’t Be A sNoWfLaKe!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | One of my personal dating rules:Never date a man who states he is looking for a woman with "a sense of humour"Gosh, since joining FDS I realized SO many sneaky little ways men use to manipulate us. It’s as fascinating as it is terrifying. This is another of them. But it also reassures me I’m not ‘overreacting’ and ‘over analyzing’ like society wants us to think. I bet you if I had this same talk with my friends I would most probably get weird looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 15 | Exercise: Send multiple men the same text and see how they replyWhat if I already have them blocked? 😁☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:47 AM |
| 11 | Jhene Aiko: Why Won’t You Marry Me?? Big Sean: Shiiiiddd, uhh, it’s in the works 🤥🤥🤥🥴🙄Poor woman. Also, he can’t even give her credit about her giving him a facial? It starts with the small things to see how much a man appreciates you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be a fanI have a question about suggesting a date with someone I’m dating seriously - is it okay if I suggest anything tied to my narrow interests? Let’s be clear, we’re talking about men. They aren’t always the most creative one and yes, partially because they tend to be low effort. My guy gives date ideas almost all the time, but he sometimes just doesn’t have a clue I might be into something or doesn’t know about an event I’d like to attend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about guys that say that women are more beautiful without makeup and that they prefer "natural" women?Omg I wish I could be that comfortable with my guy. He took me regularly on dinner dates, never expected me to pay for it. When we became closer he once wanted to ask me what my opinion on paying on a date is, but didn’t want to be so direct. I answered regardless and told him it’s not feminism that I go out of my way and ask to pay for my part bEcAuSe iT’s 2020 and I thought he figured it then. But I’m still not sure. Once I asked him to get me something from Sephora on his business trip (we do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:29 PM |
| 11 | If he reaches out after months, do not think of this as meaningfulThis post hit me hard. I spent some time with a guy around this time last year. We don't live in the same country and I just knew the would bring me trouble. Lookswise, he is my dream man. I kind of hate to admit it to myself, but I have a specific type and am just not attracted to any other. On top of that he looked like an angel. We clicked, talking to each other felt like talking to a lifelong friend even though we met on a dating app a few months prior to meeting. After he went back to his h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:50 PM |
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