This is something that men do all the time that we need to be doing more. Send multiple men the same text. Doesn't matter what it is, could be a question, a joke, a meme, a request, anything! It helps because 1. by doing this it gets you into a more detached mindset especially when dating and 2. you can see how different men respond differently to the same thing and get more intel. Just don't make the rookie move of sending them all in one thread!