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It’s 100% Jake Gyllenhaal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:46 PM
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I’d love to engage this community in conversation about this piece. 💜 SO MUCH to unpack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:09 PM
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My friend recently went on a first date with a man who wore a 49ers Jersey to their meet at the Whitney Museum in NYC. He wore a football jersey to a first date—to a classy Museum. I bet he’d slept in it the night before. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:55 PM
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“Does she dig you?” The host wasn’t totally down with what this horrid misogynist was saying. Funny that this idiot felt completely uncomfortable and all he wanted was for Lily to return to appease his feelings of discomfort. I was talking about this yesterday with a friend: all men want to hear sometimes is “oh, it’s ok.” Don’t ever give it to them; make them sit in the discomfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:33 PM
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Anyone have a clip or time stamp for this scene, pls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:18 AM
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Because, if they’re a lawyer, I’d be intrigued about his specialty, the kinds of cases he handles, the kinds of people he’s in contact with daily, etc! One of my best friends is a lawyer for the attorney general, and I love hearing her talk about her job. I want to know about peoples lives. I genuinely don’t give a shit about a man’s salary so long as it isn’t grades of scale below mine so as to be able to assume they’d have a complex about it. That’s just not how I think. Don’t act smart, be sm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 12:33 PM
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I once asked a guy what he did for work out of sheer intro conversation and he flipped the F out. Went on a long rant about classism and how he felt taken advantage of in the past. Come to think of it—I have screenshots! Here, just saved them to Imgur: https://imgur.com/gallery/bpHvtsw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:14 AM
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Yes, I mean, this sounds like the answer. That’s why I deleted all my dating apps except Hinge. Deleting all my apps means not dating at all, which honestly doesn’t sound terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:02 AM
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Tell me about it. Tinder is trash, as is Raya-not to mention they don’t even approve your account unless you’re an influencer. Bumble helped steer this new era of male laziness and I can’t for the life of me find anyone attractive and interesting on Hinge and I live in the metropolis of all cities. Im attractive, gainfully employed and have a sense of humor. Alas, anyone I’ve matched with on Hinge I’ve quickly ruled out bc of some serious red flags. If anyone has an answer, i’d be happy to hear …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:05 AM
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Right!? The worst case scenario is NOT being alone. Why would we reduce the extent of our wants and needs for some idiot unworthy of our time and energy? The world is ours (if we have some privilege) and we can be and do whatever we want with our lives. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:52 PM
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Im convinced this describes most men-overall. Certainly my ex husband. Even married, no, I did not want to be a spacey and agreeable mom, maid, cook. Which is why I just want to retire off at a seaside country house in Spain with my dog, records, guitar, piano, sangria and all of my books. Aaaah, all.by.myself. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:53 AM
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Thank you. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 10:41 AM
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TOTAL agreement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:44 PM
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Thank you. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:43 PM
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Something relevant happened to me recently. I went to a performing arts high school and had the same piano duet partner all four years. Let’s call him “David.” We had a sweet little low key friendship throughout high school. We’re in our early 30s now and lived in opposite coasts for all 15ish years between high school and now. He reaches out to me because he’s going to live in my city for a couple of months. We meet up for a drink and have a lovely time. David seems evolved, intelligent, open t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:20 PM
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Damn, he really does seem wasted or on pills or something. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 10:30 AM
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I’d like to take this moment to post the following photo where we can spot Jennifer Garner being totally over Ben’s bullshit and driving him to rehab WELL after they had already decided to divorce and WELL after he started living on his own, free of the “trap” that was his marriage: https://imgur.com/gallery/A5SDOBk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:03 AM
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I’d like to take this moment to post the following photo where we can spot Jennifer Garner being totally over Ben’s bullshit and driving him to rehab WELL after they had already decided to divorce and WELL after he started living on his own, free of the “trap” that was his marriage: https://imgur.com/gallery/A5SDOBk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 03:57 AM
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😆 Had to Google this. So many red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:40 PM
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My apologies. I’m usually such a good speller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:10 PM
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💩 Chris Pratt 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:16 AM
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Charlize Theron. That woman does not take any shit from anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:16 AM
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What are this groups thoughts on men who have primarily female social circles? Most of his friends are large groups of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:15 AM
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You’re not alone. I’ve done it and never been happier. Not without a lot of reprogramming and readjusting, though, so feel free to reach out. You’ve got this. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:31 AM
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Link here: https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/qwp2ob/a_true_man_always_consults_with_his_homies/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:23 PM
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I’m already there. My intelligent, kind and high-powered best friend is there too. Honestly, if I provide for myself with my own nice salary, retiring off the coast of Spain with all of my books, my dog and my peace of mind sounds idyllic. I love living alone. Especially after having spent a decade with an emotionally abusive ex husband. I have therapy and all is well, I don’t carry him around anymore, but it is liberating not to be so focused on getting “a ring.” I kept the ring, it is absolute…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:07 PM
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I was messaging on a dating app recently. Guy says “so, do you want to take my number?” I sent a thinking emoji and said something like “curious, why wouldn’t you ask me for mine instead?” Then, he responded with this: “Good point. Ok, what’s your number?” ENTIRELY avoiding the question. He never actually asked me if he could have my number or if I wanted to give it to him. I don’t think I would have been able to spot something so subtle but so telling even just a couple years ago. I told him th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:18 PM
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Also, Jake G’s current girlfriend, the one he won’t stop fawning over and recently said he can’t wait to marry on Howard Stern, is 25 years old. He’s forty. FORTY! I didnt realize he was this much of a narc/scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:51 PM
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I HATE this. Instant left-swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:19 PM
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Exactly. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:25 PM
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Damn, you get it. Cheers to you! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:00 AM
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Totally, super transparent manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:22 AM
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The bane of my existence is the bro’d out group photo. Especially when there’s more than one of those photos in a single dating profile. Or when the same woman is also pictured more than once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:09 AM
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Wow, what absolute trash. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:31 AM
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What’s the name of the movie, if you remember?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 12:18 AM
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Nah, it’s a good thing. Means she wouldn’t put up with his shit in the long-term. She was developed enough as a person to know she deserved better. At the very least, she was unhappy with his bare minimum and that manifested in one way or another at the culmination of the end of their relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:50 PM
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I would suggest you evoke yourself. What do you like? What colors, fabrics, textures appeal to you? What kind of clothes do you think would amp up your confidence? When you see a certain aesthetic on someone, what do you like about it and why? What detail(s) would you like to incorporate about their style? (E.g. I LOVE Jessica Chastain’s wardrobe in the Miss Sloane movie. Powerful, edgy, chic, elegant and confident. So I learned a little bit more about what I like and how I can be more self-poss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:15 AM
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Live in NYC and $150 for a haircut is about the going rate for a place that isn’t basically a Supercuts, unfortunately -oh, and that’s w/o tip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:04 AM
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I was one of the founding members of the Women in Technology group at one of my former employers. Immediately when all (women) members sat down and we started to verbally talk through strategy, actionable goals, (like special career training, counseling, resources, etc.) there were a group of women insisting that we should invite men into the group to be more inclusive. That we wanted to appear friendly and appease any men from thinking that the group might be a threat to them in any way. 🤦🏻‍♀️N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:13 AM
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It’s funny bc my ex was the opposite. He wanted the best condo in the best, trendiest neighborhood. I think he wanted the status. I was never quite happy with what we got because we could have had a nicer, more spacious home in a safe, up and coming neighborhood that only would have added 15-20min to our commute. Because we lived in an expensive part of town, we ended up eating out a lot since groceries would have cost about the same. I didnt cook at the time and when I did, he never cared to ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:22 AM
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I just finished the third season of MoN only because it started Lena Waithe. I enjoyed it and did think it was well written. However any scenes with Aziz in them were tainted for me. His voice was more grating than I’d ever found it. His acting was cringey. I just cannot watch anything of his because he clearly lacks awareness and doesn’t even seem contrite. Lena herself said in a couple of interviews that Aziz needs a better understanding of consent. Where is Aziz doing the work to show that he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:18 PM
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I thought I was the only one who ever had this thought! Of course I’m not, but thanks for the laughs. 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:18 PM
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Those specific examples are far too real. 🤦🏻‍♀️😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:12 PM
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I’m sorry. I guess the “why” is something we always ask ourselves, but you’ve just reminded me why it isnt worth our consideration. He was disrespecting your time for no other reason except he could. We’re always at this kind of risk. Brene Brown has talked about approaching life with vulnerability, with “soft fronts but tough backs,” -to paraphrase. We should always place the highest amount of respect on our own backs so that we can confront life and men as self-possessed, confident women who k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:26 AM
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Wow. It’s hard to believe how low they will go because we would NEVER behave this way or waste the other person’s time. What nonsense did he tell you when he broke up with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:40 PM
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I met up with my ex husband and dog (that he took far away from me and I was too focused on survival to fight for at the time) last weekend and brought my new puppy. I’m doing well, expressed as much and I’m feeling a sort of survivor’s guilt. I don’t know if I laid it on too thick that I was doing well. We met at a restaurant and my puppy was getting endless attention from everyone and I chatted people up more than he ever saw during our time together. I left my ex due to emotional abuse caused…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:08 AM
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Until one finds ways to mitigate and work to solve that “social programming,” one cannot solely attribute the problem to biological components. Misogyny is socially constructed and conditioned over hundreds of years, that cannot be undone with ~five years of much debated and maligned social awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:54 AM
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Hey, I definitely don’t feel like the “cool girl” who knows better. (Gillian Flynn’s cool girl monologue comes to mind—fucking love this text.) I hear you and having learned about this group, this philosophy, this way of thinking only about 2mos ago: I am in. I’m really excited about what comes next and what this community will bring to my life and what I can contribute through my own experiences. Thank you for the confirmation! Cool Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:37 AM
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Oh, I hear you. It’s been read and I’ve internalized the teachings as they fit. As a human woman, I have minor philosophical eye brow raises regarding the handbook and my own fallible behavior, but I’m here with all of you with a giant, exasperated head nod. Anything I’ve done this past COVID year, I did because I wanted to, but any errors in my own judgment were WELL noted and not repeated. Also, to be fair, I found you guys less than two months ago. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:13 PM
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Holy shit- the “why are you always trying to pick a fight?” line is almost triggering over here... I lost count of the amount of times I became completely dumbfounded when id raise a topic in a calm, thoughtful way to be met with his inability to simply hold a conversation beyond a simple back and forth. He could not deal, did not have any skill in listening and I tried so hard to walk him through what he needed to do every single time; my needs were always weaponized against me. It’s been a lon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:31 AM
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