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Good on him to choose an even more insecure woman, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:27 PM
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Hey, there's air conditioning and video games down here! Don't knock it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:00 PM
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Okay. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:58 PM
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Define "hate". I'll argue nothing I said so far is hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:58 PM
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I absolutely believe it, women were built to be kept indoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:57 PM
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Lol, no. Women belong barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen anyway. Let us men regain our privelege and watch what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:56 PM
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Women belong barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:55 PM
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I've experienced life in Saudi, Kuwait, Qatar, Oman, Sudan, and Dubai. The Muslim ban is an excused vacation from the states to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:55 PM
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A women's place is barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:53 PM
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Women should be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen anyway. So what about their livelihood?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:50 PM
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Okay, this still supports my point; women are easy to rile and should be disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:49 PM
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"Women should be in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:48 PM
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"Men are better off with women who know their place and submit to them."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:47 PM
1

What about the ones who overreact when you disregard them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:46 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:51 PM
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This man is smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:50 PM
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"For men"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:47 PM
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OP should volunteer to sleep with his friend's wife.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:26 PM
1

KFC; yes or yes? "Yes" = RP confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:21 AM
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I'm assuming OP got lost drifting through Reddit. Find your way back to TBP, OP. We have users here to help you find the way back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:18 AM
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"The Incredibles'" villain "Syndrome" nailed it all the way back in 2004; once the majority collective all gain access to a material, it's uniqueness takes a significant decline. Basically, the Red Pill becomes more diluted as more people bring ideas to it. If the Red Pill opens up to the mainstream; you'll probably discover everyone falls into one of four groups: The adherents. The opposition. The neutral. The unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:09 AM
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Being a Muslim gives me more comfort than these non-Muslim men; once married, I become entitled to my wife's time and sex. Obviously through means other than marital rape; if a Muslim man calls his Muslim wife for sex, and she withholds it for any petty ass reason, she invites the curse of Allah's angels upon her. Yes; " upon HER", exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 08:42 AM
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I trust women to behave more pragmatic and duplicitous, I trust other men to be straightforward if equally selfish. It kills me that women emphasize avoiding resentment built against them, but they do so by their selfishness. "I didn't want you to be mad at me!" "Bitch, why is this always about you?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:15 AM
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Yes. It's easier to keep a ho satisfied and content when she has less to compare to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 02:06 PM
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Sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:45 AM
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Death.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:45 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:42 AM
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Leave it to Beaver. Alaadin. Vampire in Brooklyn. Any media role where the male plays the hero and the female plays the damsel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:38 AM
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What do you mean? I'm confused as to how this is uncivil towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:30 PM
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The patriarchy is. Replace TRP with patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:05 PM
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What do you think? Rhetorical question: you're a woman, doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:03 PM
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Call Child Services.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:41 PM
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My ideas have always been patriachal. I've dreamed of owning the standard "Married with 2.5 kids, white picket fence," life. I noticed how reviled these ideals are, and I decided to oppose the current cultural grain. TRP, and the larger manosphere, was a meeting ground for similar-minded men. I learned to own my privelege as a man, to claim my entitlement for women and sex, and to apologize for nothing. Women wanted to make men into monsters; I'll gladly acquiesce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:39 PM
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Were this from a man, I'd say he used his brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:17 PM
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I'd suggest going full on villain; if they want to make men into monsters, prove them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:59 PM
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Rhetorical question; men are human and women are the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:56 PM
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Aw, you're bursting his liberal bubble!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:08 AM
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Good for them. I'm just going to keep enjoying my straight male privilege and free speech. All Trannies are freaks and are disgusting, horrible people!!!!🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:14 AM
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Yes, she can be one of my multiple wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:08 AM
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Make me. I'm so happy to be straight and male. I love knowing that my sexuality and life choices will be accepted most places on this planet compared to those freaks. ☺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:02 AM
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Wait. Please, stay... 🙁 ... Algeria.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:54 AM
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I've seen it work with men offering less.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:10 AM
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Antarctica.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:08 AM
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Good for him!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:07 AM
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Indonesia, Singapore, Malaysia, Bangladesh, Oman, Qatar. The options are open enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:30 PM
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Remember to consider that I am an American Muslim man and different Muslim countries adjust towards our values separately. I beleive I'd clean up in a country like Morocco or a country that wants more expats.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:42 PM
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Good for him! : )
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:43 PM
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What is the purpose of you sharing this with me; I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:32 PM
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But I'm Muslim, I can go to a Muslim country and marry 4 women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 07:26 AM
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I follow what my religion teaches me; males are men, females are women. I refuse to open to any form of debate about this. Practising transgenderism is wrong. I sympathize with anti-LGBT protesters; all it takes for evil to win is for good people to do nothing. Edit: Not enuff downvotes, so I'll say it; Trannies are freaks and they disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:03 AM
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I'm confused as to what you mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 09:13 PM
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I'd marry four women more easily than I would now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:12 PM
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I love my Toxic Masculinity. I love being expected to be better than women. I love avoiding doing weak-ass, gay-ass, faggy-ass, activities in the name of "acceptance". I love the pressure to improve myself or risk failure to be a man. Being a man is awesome, and is actually well-defined. It's always men who couldn't hack it that argue masculinity is a social or cultural construct, but even then they fail because you're in this culture. I really love my toxic masculinity; it calls for me to be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:10 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 12:55 PM
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Dalrock has been, and still is, my greatest dive into the larger manosphere outside TRP and PPD. I like his blog and appreciate how he sets up his posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 12:54 PM
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Because men are more resilient than weak women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:40 AM
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Yes, she did. Look at her list.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:29 PM
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Women need to police each other; maintaining an established position within the in-group is vital to your survival. I believe people police others when there is something of value to be lost to the one policing. Compared to women, men's worldly values are simple; eat, sleep, fuck, and whatever individual taste that man has. Assuming this to be the case for most other men, it would take more effort than it's worth to get behind every other man and police them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:28 PM
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I appreciate you seperating what Muslims do from what Islam asks us to do. I am looking to find a wife while I'm young now, and stay married. Islam encourages this more than any other model of sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:36 PM
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I wonder then, what perceptions of Islam's stance on sexuality have you been exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:16 PM
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That's an interesting take on "defeatism". Here I am, sticking to my guns that my religion is the most important thing to me, and yet it's perceived as "defeatism". I wonder what else you can enlighten me, O' Wise One.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:14 PM
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Yes. I'm a Muslim and I want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:55 PM
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Then you agree, that divorce laws are fair to women. Glad yo have C'ed your V!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:50 PM
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I'm Muslim. We court. And men have authority over women, why would I leave a frame like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:49 PM
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If what you're offering was the norm as far as women's expectation on their roles as wives, I'd pass on marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:48 PM
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Keeping house is easy, even with kids. Women just complain a lot. Should their men do it, even regularly, and she notices that it's less of a strain on him than it is on her it's his fault because he either "didn't do it right" or because some other BS she wants to spew rather than reflecting that she's a lazy bum. Tl;dr: Men, disregard this. Disregard it all, and do you. Women will come and go, demonstrating how little they actually "love" you. If holding down a house is too much for her, every…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:46 PM
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It goes for women. Angry men will have sex with women who piss them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:34 PM
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Be less compromising with women, let them kick rocks if they have a problem because once you give them an inch they'll take a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:37 AM
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I came in aware that women are selfish and vindictive. I was covering old ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:32 AM
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Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:29 AM
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Divorce laws aren't unfair to women, not until they're too unfair for women to even divorce at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:27 AM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:26 AM
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u/TheChemist158, I read this as a case study for women "having their cake and eating it too." You are prepared to reap the social benefits of marriage while giving the bare minimum (sex, maybe?) in return. Then, you ask that we contemplate asking men to assess if marriage is in their interests, because it's in your interests. I know someone else has to have seen it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:25 AM
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Are you a conformist or non-conformist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:57 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:56 AM
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I believe men enjoy enthusiastic sex partners in women. Hearing that women give unenthusiastic sex to men they love and them claiming it to be an expression of their love is irreconcilable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:56 AM
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I just want there to be a time when a woman wants to have sex with me the way a man wants to have sex with a woman. Because we're "equals" except for where it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:44 AM
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Because the only options are faking it or not doing it. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:37 AM
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👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:36 AM
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"If you're the HL person in the relationship is it an unreasonable expectation of her to be "enthused" when she isn't horny?" No, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:36 AM
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It's true. What would you like me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:34 AM
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I want to hear a woman say "I try my best to please him sexually." It's a rare sentiment in our world today. I have an idea on why though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:33 AM
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Lol. I appreciate you linking that. I hate being a virgin, but I love serving Allah. It's tough, but it does me much good. Anyway, yeah. Women are still selfish and miserly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:29 AM
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I was right. Women are selfish and miserly, especially with sex. Everything is about how "they" feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:23 AM
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Why, becasue women don't want to put the effort in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:22 AM
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Okay. And I'll observe that women are selfish. Why did you reply to my initial response under the Automod? What did you want to hear from me? What would have liked for me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:19 AM
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You're a woman, tell me why. I still want to hear that they were "enthused either by their own will." The lack of hearing that is the basis of my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:15 AM
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My observation was sound. Y'all women commented that men should be appreciate of middle of the road sexual enthusiasm because "I'm not in the mood!" I called BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:12 AM
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It was an observation. And it's sound. The women here have commented on giving low-mid sexual service to their men because middle of the road enthusiasm should be enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:10 AM
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I made an observation about the women here who commented on giving low-mid sexual service for there men. Take it up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:09 AM
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I said "women are selfish" and you responded to me. What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:06 AM
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What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:01 AM
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I want to hear a woman say "I tried my best." All I've heard was "I tried."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:58 AM
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All I'm looking for is a woman to say, I tried my best to please him. What I witnessed was that "I tried."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:57 AM
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Read the replies from the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:54 AM
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Okay. Please answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:51 AM
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Way to dance around the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:50 AM
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You replied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:49 AM
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I'm certain angry and sad are seperate emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:49 AM
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My SO has literally told me he’s happy with me starfishing when all he wants is to quickly get off. Okay then, more power to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:48 AM
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I'm assuming your man would hate for you to admit to faking enthusiasm and starfish sex. Yet if a woman is aware of this, and does it anyway, how is it done for her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:30 AM
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I'm asking if women know faking enthusiasm, and starfish sex displease their men, why do they do it and call it pleasing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:28 AM
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Yes, act. If "acting" enthusiastic pleases him, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:26 AM
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How does knowing starfish and faking enthusiasm displease their men, yet giving it to him anyway please their men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:26 AM
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Name some.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:25 AM
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Way not to be condescending. Hopefully, I grow up into a better adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:21 AM
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Women want to sit down and have men approach and do everything. Lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:21 AM
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Okay, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:20 AM
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You replied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:19 AM
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Cool. It's still selfish that he has to do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:19 AM
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Once again, women know what gets them going. It's asking little of them to work for it when it wasn't there to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:18 AM
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So, the women here are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:14 AM
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Yes, emotionally, mentally, all of it. So far you said it's unrealistic to expect that. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:13 AM
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You are arguing a point I have not made.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:10 AM
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But none of you women mentioned any attempt towards emotional investment towards your men. Every reply was either "I did it to get it over with," or "I have to be in the mood to for him to get any." I'm asking if women know they are reactive sexually, why not take action to do what gets them started? If you need to be kissed and hugged and all, why not invite him to do that yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:10 AM
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What a way to dance around the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:06 AM
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If she knows she foreplay is important to setting her up for sex, she should initiate it for him. Make it easy for him. I have yet to hear anything from the females except "I did it to get it over with," and "I have to be in the mood for him to get any." Nothing about struggling to try and get themselves involved emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:04 AM
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What is getting to me is that I believe good men will break their backs foe their wives and children and I'm hearing in this thread that women can't be bothered to look beyond themselves to work as hard as they can for the pleasure of their men. They'll put it work, but not their best. Their best is reserved for when "they feel like giving it." I am actually hurt by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:00 AM
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Why aren't women putting their everything into pleasing their men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:57 PM
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Do you believe more BPs than RPs anti-conformists and if so, how does it play into the dynamic between the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:50 PM
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It's easy to give something you don't value. Following your logic, women hate giving BJs and doggie-style (duh) but do it because "I wanted to get it over with" rather than attempting to adjust, fix, or set their sexual wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:46 PM
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"A blind man can still smell bs." Stop telling me that because I'm a virgin I'm ignorant. My argument is that for women pleasing their men sexually is a low priority for them. The other female posters here basically confirm this, many claiming they weren't in the mood but did it anyway. Why did none of you try to fix or set the mood? Because you're selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:42 PM
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Because women are saying that: They are aware enough of their own sexual triggers. They are aware of their libidos. They are aware of their male partners libidos. They make the easiest compromises; BJs, handjobs, starfishing, etc, because: They are aware of #1, 2, and 3 but are too selfish to derive any joy from pleasing their men. No woman here has even implied that seeing her guy happy was their intent! Ergo, the women are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:37 PM
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Yes, and BPillers (for all their talks about lack of empathy in Reds) are dismissive or antagonistic to them struggling to change their situation. And before we get into "They claim to hurt women!!!" I ask that you (general Blue Pillers) approach it with some good ol' BP nuance and question how many women do these men actually seek to harm? Because if we don't believe in Field Reports, we should take revenge fantasies with a grain of salt and acknowledge that they are just fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:24 PM
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I'm saying women know what turns them on but want to say "Our sex drives are reactive", throw their hands up in frustration, and wait for their men to do the heavy lifting with initiating arousal for them. Otherwise, the men won't get sex because newflash: Women are lazy and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:20 PM
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I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:18 PM
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Then, I'll assume you initiate foreplay with your husband unprompted as an act of service to him, knowing it will lead to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:18 PM
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How does this tie into the quote I posted where a BP claimed to be into anti-conforming to the extent it was a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:16 PM
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Then it's not sadness being felt, but derision and disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:15 PM
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A little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:14 PM
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I will say yes to my husband (and sometimes initiate) in green or yellow. Even in green I usually need foreplay to get aroused. "I need" Because giving him yourself is about you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:31 PM
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TBP believes that TRP views women as lesser than men, they find this both silly and sad. Why not ignore them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:26 PM
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What are your thoughts on that? I have a theory that RPillers or those leaning red, such as myself, are more used to experiencing vulnerability whether willingly or unwillingly. Red Pill, to me, is about seeking power. Especially sexual and romantic power. BPillers only experience willing vulnerability. They had that power and spent little time exposed to being without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:25 PM
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Read my response to OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:14 PM
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What do you think? How much does thinking and approaching life like this separate Blue from Red?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:13 PM
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Why do you thinks bloops are weird and reds are normal? I think that the quote in the OP demonstrates extreme individualism, or anti-social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:12 PM
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B cups at least. I notice women's faces primarily and I love a smiling and happy woman. After that, I'm into butts then boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:30 PM
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"Watch what they do, not what they say: the Thread."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:22 PM
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"I don't find women with thin lips attractive at all." Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:16 PM
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Goodness, the replies from the women here reek of selfishness and miserliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:04 PM
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"Is her being enthusiastic important to you? If you're the HL person in the relationship is it an unreasonable expectation of her to be 'enthused' when she isn't horny?" Yes, to both questions. To use the terms of u/Atlas_B_Shruggin; giving and receiving acts of service is my love language. I bind myself to duty and generosity. The kind of man to push through being sick to work and earn that $$$, even though I'd like to call in. I do so because I want that $$$ to go to people I love. To hear tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:55 PM
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"Do you assume a girl isn't interested in you if she takes a while to reply to texts?" Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 11:26 AM
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Ask your parents to help you find a suitable husband.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 11:02 AM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:16 AM
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"Name a snack that eats itself." "Les-beans." ... I'll show myself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:15 AM
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Those are the people moving us backwards while fooling us into thinking we're making "progress". I'll tell you, we certainly are making progress. We're progress to our own extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 05:45 PM
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"Because women these days aren't limited in their ability to get a job." According to posters here on PPD, women always worked. In the mines, in the fields, from home; almost everywhere one found men working, a woman could be found working nearby. Women always had a choice. And to borrow from the idea that u/Electra_Cute presented; who is the idiot man who measures a woman's self-proclaimed happiness as unit of her level of contentment? Women are fickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 09:37 AM
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Cool, holmes. As an expert on Islam and on Western life, tell me where they converge so I may rectify my revolting mannerisms in an Islamic and Western way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:45 PM
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Too late! Baby mama just finish filing for assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:00 PM
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While your at it, quote me on this; "I love to give and share, and marriage is about coming together to give the best of yourself with someone you look to do the same of themselves." And I'm surprised that the nuance of me feeling one way, yet behaving another way is too subtle for a Blue piller. So, because I believe in serving God, I must be ecstatic about holding onto my virginity as a never married man? Sounding pretty Red Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:29 PM
1

Yes. I'm finishing up school now, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:58 AM
2

Interesting. Why "can't" I get laid? Maybe you meant "won't" because I'm still single and practice abstinence until marriage. Or maybe it was easier to wake up this morning feeling snarky and combative while assuming it'd be a good laugh at my expense for believing in a silver lining for my patience somehow. In that case, feel free to "😂". Hopefully by 40, the women then will mature quicker, whether I'm single or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:53 AM
1

You lost me. I struggle to recall ever implying that I believe anything is going to happen sitting on my ass. Am I eager to put myself out there? Yes. I think it's sensible for everyone to assess the terrain as far as the cultural mating scene goes, and as someone intent on finding a "virtuous Muslimah and only for marriage" I look to do the best I can with what I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:36 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 11:29 AM
0

At 40, I'll be 30. I am a man, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:18 AM
1

I still question how this ties into anything involving me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:12 AM
0

Lovely. I believe there was a point in typing this paragraph replying to me. I'll look to find sometime never.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:46 AM
1

So, I'll assume that if we are to extend this train of logic then you supporting women sharing men to have them many kids. Or at least you can argue for men impregnating many women as a sensible goal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:28 AM
1

I'm a middle of the road, average, young man. Were I actually some above average, especially-talented prodigy, I'd agree with you more. Right now, what's right for me is what's right for most people in my demographic. I like to fantasize about being unique enough to carve my own path, but it's all too apparent now that I'm where I'm meant to be in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:16 AM
1

Someone red pilled or leaning more red than me, please correct this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:11 AM
0

40 year man dick 40 year old man wisdom ??? ??? Profit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:09 AM
1

Right. I feel embarassed for being a late bloomer. I want to be with my peers, it's just really a struggle for me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:04 AM
2

My peers are already getting married and having sex and children by this point. I'm behind a significant margin and it looks as if things will get worse before they get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 04:00 AM
2

I'm 24. I'm a virgin and single now, if by 40 I'm still a virgin and never married I'd go for younger girls because experiencing my 1st time mutually with a girl is important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:52 AM
1

I love practising Islam. I had Domino's on Saturday evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:48 AM
-1

I'm down to making NEW baby mama's, not taking in other men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:47 AM
0

Yes, you can. "Men are not hypergamous. We go for women half our age without being of equal value through having some wealth to offer." See?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:22 AM
1

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:20 AM
15

"But for a guy who gives her the same" Lol, if only women ever gave as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:19 AM
0

Why pick one? Men have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:18 AM
6

I haunt her from beyond the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:17 AM
5

Obviously. I'd look for girls into male cougars. Who knows, maybe she wants a father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:15 AM
0

Aw, I really want to say something nice. ... Damnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:11 AM
3

I would go for 20 year old girls as a 40 year old. I'm black, tall, and athletic; I can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:09 AM
6

What? Who does ANYTHING without an incentive? Who or what are you arguing against?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:05 AM
1

" can you accept that all women poop?" Never. Their butts are purely ornaments for our pleasure as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 03:02 AM
8

We men pay for women regardlessly. It's our burden to pay for you. At least in the scenario you provide, a man is conscious of the parameters of his relationship. I'd say it's a decent bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:57 AM
2

I guess you could say she's - "Salty"?😎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:54 AM
1

GIVE ME THE 9!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:23 AM
1

I'm telling you that someone is telling, not who that someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:20 AM
1

I'm fasting this month of Ramadan and I get down in the dumps when I'm hungry during the day and feel happy/sleepy after I eat in the evening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:35 PM
1

How about a rat who rats on rats?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:31 PM
0

Take everything the women say here with a grain of salt because they stay ready with an idealized version of themselves for hypotheticals. I say this because if you can trust a woman to do anything when things get real, it's that she speaks from both sides of her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:29 PM
0

The wise man says "My name's Benett, and I ain't in it. My name's Paul, and this is between y'all."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:24 PM
1

Thank you. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:20 PM
1

"if I walked up behind you and stabbed you in the butt with a sewing needle, that's a pretty clear sign that I'm a bad person." I needed this today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:15 PM
1

"Officially makes you a bad person." "I've been a BAAAAAAD boy!!!" Balthazar Bratt, Despicable Me 3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:12 PM
0

Because women are dumb and respond to pressure like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:09 PM
1

I do still want to get married. I love to give and share, and marriage is about coming together to give the best of yourself with someone you look to do the same of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:06 PM
1

When she replaces her second X-chromosome with a Y-chromosome. Otherwise, AWALT.(mods, this is not a joke.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 09:51 PM
1

Okay.👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 09:46 PM
3

Why should he? She should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:39 PM
1

I'm from The Bronx, New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:38 PM
0

Best for who? The woman, or the man? Because being my friend means that you should have sex with me so I don't feel so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:37 PM
-1

I disagree with u/Noxin__Nixon that ghosting is leaving mixed messages; it's essentially walking away from a loose end. I believe that ghosting is the best way for a woman to reject a man because of the message it sends. I'll argue that women hold the responsibility to demonstrate her interest in a man after he has approached her initially (do NOT mistake this for claiming women should approach initially). Ghosting says, "I'm interested in having things exclusively on my terms." Or in other word…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:36 PM
3

It's the best way for a woman to reject a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:05 PM
1

"Love" as in "attachment" is fluid between women. There are many variables as to why a man may love one of his women over another. Time is a big variable. A man may be more attached to "Woman #1" on Tuesday, and less attached by Friday. "Love" as in "investment" is easier to measure, though. Just monitor a man spending on one woman and compare/contrast to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:48 PM
3

I think as men we can love several sexual and romantic partners similarly to how we love several different people as individuals. Remember, men compartmentalize better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:34 PM
2

Time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:30 PM
1

👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:17 PM
9

I would swipe left. ⬅️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:01 PM
1

I'm poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:56 PM
2

"Sex happens only within marriage or else you're disowned!" Edit: "And only heterosexual marriages!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:22 PM
1

Thank you. I've been reflecting and concluded that I'm unfit to be married yet. I appreciate your acknowledgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:13 PM
3

I think, for myself, the idea is to become more than human. This explains why we men are so ready to want to believe that women are and why we seek their validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:09 PM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:06 PM
2

I'm still single and unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 05:05 PM
1

Perspective. She's human, just as full of shit as me. As a Muslim man, I believe in men calling the shots. I can be as shitty as I want, and she can kick rocks if she has a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:46 PM
0

"Sharing."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 04:32 PM
3

Oh, the sweet schadenfreude!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:37 PM
5

Damn, women are conceited!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:29 PM
1

I'd like a male teacher or counselor teach me to be mean towards girls. Mean boys are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:13 PM
1

"This better go somewhere..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:49 PM
0

Done by a woman, no. Done to a woman, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:48 PM
3

Do you, women are bred to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 10:12 PM
1

I'll let my previous post speak for my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:32 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:30 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:30 PM
3

Practices Islam with me, helps me grow nearer to Allah. Likes jokes. Can charm my family into accepting her. Likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:15 AM
1

That conclusion (1 women: 1 man) is incorrect because you forget to take into account that women who agree to this set-up would not have necessarily chose the other (single) man. Basically, some people will go without mates before we adjust for polygyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:45 PM
1

"Is wrong, or is difficult and unlikely?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:42 PM
2

"I'm saying that your assumption that a man can provide for more than one set of women and children is wrong." Is wrong, or is difficult and unlikely? Where do infertile and childfree women fit in the imperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:23 PM
1

Help me fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:21 PM
0

Yes, I am personally. If I'm going to be with a woman with her own money, I'm going to have my own other wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:20 PM
0

Yes it is. It's the concept of spinning plates extrapolated to LTRs(marriage).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:19 PM
0

"Less than two years later it all fell apart because wife #1 was extremely jealous and controlling. This whole idea runs pretty counter to the female imperative." I know. That was my point. Women fail to hold it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:17 PM
1

The one takeaway of women being in the workforce and having their own money; now they have no excuse to spend mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:09 PM
2

There are such a thing as low maintenance women, man. If she's attracted to him enough, a woman will be happy to work with a married dad of 3 kids and will work an arrangement out to be with him occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:07 PM
1

Who mentioned money?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:51 AM
1

A man should engage in multiple women and look to be the only man they engage with. That is the only polyamory worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:05 AM
2

The obvious answer for women is becoming a SAHW/M.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:59 AM
1

Ok, what are your questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:00 PM
1

I said what I meant, and I meant what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:18 PM
1

Tell me what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:16 PM
1

Maybe it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:02 PM
1

I'll assume offense was taken when I stated my disdain with transsexuals. However, I was careful to say it in a generalized manner. Any offense taken is out of my hands. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:53 PM
1

"Men should ignore and oppose their chivalrous instincts." Tell me how "men" date at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:44 PM
6

"A little giggle, a little jiggle."
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:41 PM
1

What. Do. You. Want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:37 PM
1

Debate what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:17 PM
1

What do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:16 PM
1

You called me "bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:52 PM
1

I disagree with practicing transsexualism or any of its branches. As far as calling u/Equalina a "hippy", it was in a sense teasing that she is a "free-spirit-anti-labeling" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:47 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:37 PM
1

Yeah. I can step outside and find a chick like that instantly. I was with a friend and two white couples passed by and one of the girls said to her guy "I want you to grab me like this!" and put his hand up her ass. Granted, this was in Atlanta at 1 am in the morning so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:35 PM
1

I reserve "bro" for "men" actually born with a Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:27 PM
2

Sure, I'm down to settle with a cute British chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:23 PM
2

This, but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:03 PM
0

Of the two sentences I said, I abridged my point in a teasing, jokey, and satirical manner to make light of a subject I believed ironic. Go pick another fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:33 AM
1

You're saying they lack nuance in their posts, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:26 AM
1

Hey, a hippie is a hippie. There's little moral judgement about that sort of life. There's a label for everyone. Some fit a wide range of people, some people wear many different labels, but everyone can be labeled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:25 AM
1

At least every single one of them at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:18 AM
1

How do you know that? Unless you're implying you've identified amd observed them out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 09:40 PM
0

Take your time, the world will wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 09:38 PM
1

So, you're a hippie? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:52 PM
1

I told you, it's true. I believe it, why demonstrate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:52 PM
1

So you believe that RP takes AWALT literally? That they don't take it with a grain of salt? That they are oblivious to all the women around them, demonstrating otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:50 PM
0

Quote the entire reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 07:47 PM
1

Sure. I will advise you against fornication however.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:23 PM
3

I'm glad that my fantasies do that for you. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:11 PM
1

I'd think to examine a message beyond it's presentation, or "read between the lines."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:10 PM
1

That's an interesting conclusion to come to. Certainly relative to you, is there an underlying fear associated to be stripped of a romanticized ideal of having intrinsic value as a human?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:08 PM
1

And here I thought you claimed not to stir shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 05:06 PM
0

People are just lazy and want to fornicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:45 PM
7

Vetting is poor when you approach it the way your OP describes it. Meet their parents, their siblings, extended family, friends, neighbors. Learn how they are involved with their community. Vetting works when the approach is "gaining approximate data on a new party's character and personality traits."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:27 PM
1

"Because it is dehumanizing to be seen as simply a creation for the use of others and not as individuals with our own purpose." Why do you believe so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:02 PM
1

It's true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:01 PM
2

I'm a Muslim. I learned to approach life with a grain of salt. I get skeptical about claims that too little people do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:32 PM
1

I'd consider it hyperbolic. I approach most things with a grain of salt. This is why I question who really thinks these people are out here taking RP 100% seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:26 PM
2

What do you find interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:16 PM
1

I'm trying to understand you, can repeat yourself more concisely please?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:15 PM
3

I see men flocking to RP in a similar vein to men flocking to the military; there is a comfort in routine and familiarity, especially for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:13 PM
2

It's a strawman when someone presents a claim or statement and it gets exaggerated to discredit and debunk it. If they frustrate you, why engage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:47 PM
2

I'd argue that many RP are moderate to hardcore conservatives and are in a state of confusion and shock; questioning where our political and cultural developments are leading towards. Yes, there are RPs claiming libertarianism, I'd support that they believe in freedom as a theory but still lean conservative as far as values are considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:35 PM
3

Is it that they can't or aren't usually willing to attempt interpreting circumstances with nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:06 PM
1

Do you believe RP to be capable of interpreting nuance in everyday circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:04 PM
1

On my phone right now. Do you believe RP incapable of ANY nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 12:02 PM
1

And why would you claim each group congregate on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:58 AM
-1

Why? I'd argue for things to be equal men should ignore and oppose their chivalrous instincts. We should just take what we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:54 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:38 AM
1

Men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:37 AM
5

Maybe it will when the pendulum swings back to a patriarchal society over a feminist one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:36 AM
3

I maintain that women do so less out of a desire to reach a man and sympathise than y'all like to stir trouble. When a guy knows that another guy is an ass, he keeps to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:07 PM
1

I'm lost, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:47 PM
1

What game?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:41 PM
1

Then why are you responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:38 PM
1

You lost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:31 PM
1

That's a lot of words to dance around. Ironically enough, still not the words I'm looking for. You know, the ones that you suggested were prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:23 PM
0

How does a message "fail"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:21 PM
1

I'm thinking "Where are these people telling women to 'man up!'" I'm pretty sure that this isn't a Snipe hunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:13 PM
1

I'm lost. My point was that I do enjoy the irony of us Americans, and to a lesser extent Westerners, being so adamant about individual, capitalist, and secular pursuits. It's funny watching how it loops back into a collective almost religious mentality of everyone believing several offshoots of one model of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:10 PM
1

Gotcha, You're suggesting I look on another planet. Smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:06 PM
1

Lol, right? It's why TRP teaching men frame is so beneficial. Learn to look at females attacking your character and smile, knowing that as men we determine our character. It's wonderful!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:40 PM
3

Women should not have to pay for what one woman did to you. For feminism to have won, good women did nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:19 PM
3

Why are you there to begin with as a female?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:09 PM
6

If there's anything to hate about women, it's how they argue; "I'm so saaaaaaaaad that you're a misogynist/sexist/chauvinist. You're probably not going to have a healthy/equal/fulfilling relationship!" It's like "Okay, guess I won't. I'm fine af though, so...."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:07 PM
1

Waiting until marriage is good for women and men who value it. Unless you'd have a woman who believes so go against what she values, there is little reason to assume otherwise. As for the question of sexual incompatibility, I'll pass. For as "enlightened" and "progressive" the secular population claims, it's amusing that fornication is the go to answer on how to set sexual compatibility. Because there are other ways, but y'all just want to fornicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 03:01 PM
0

Still looking, I'm sure it's out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:55 PM
1

OK, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:53 PM
1

Come again? I read a response, help me understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:40 PM
0

Ok. I'll go out and look for the people telling women to "man up!" I'm sure I'll find something soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:39 PM
1

According to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 02:37 PM
2

Why is it shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:53 AM
1

"What exactly does a woman gain by "saving herself"? If she believes in a God who condemns fornication, His favor. "Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship." It is. It can be developed during marriage, unless the argument here is that it can only be done after committing fornication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:00 AM
1

The chaste one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 08:42 AM
2

Lol @ everyone saying they were out the door ASAP. You lot sure are a fine group of "individuals".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:40 AM
0

"It's not a gender issue though" Then please rephrase the rest of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:35 AM
2

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:33 AM
1

Saving herself for marriage, dutiful, practices an Abrahamic religion = least likely to be a slut. As you take away the factors, it becomes more likely that she is. And inb4 "Catholic Schoolgirl"; adjust for how committed an individual woman is to her beliefs. The more committed, the better chances against her slutting it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:31 AM
5

I reject our secular Western individualist "live-and-let-live" policies. The argument that people should be allowed to do what they want short of harming others is flawed because we look for immediate demonstrations of harm rather than gradual. I challenge anyone claiming knowledge with certainty that our depravity is harmless or is providing enough good to compensate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:17 AM
1

I look at like "the more we fuck the more babies we have." Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 05:43 PM
1

You can as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:20 PM
2

"Women are less hopeful and less imaginative than men: The Thread"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:19 PM
1

So your view has changed that men DO notice other than the top women. Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 02:29 AM
1

I'm a man and I talk to a lot of ugly and fat women because I've noticed that they expect less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:27 PM
1

Yes, to average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 08:30 PM
1

Show any acceptable form of vulnerability. It'll draw us in like moths to a flame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 05:53 PM
1

It's a way to not feel like a bad person while still actually being a bad person. Exactly! The perfect "out"!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:59 AM
1

"Am I getting sex? Yes?" Boom. Reconciled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 05:50 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:12 AM
1

As far as the Somali girl goes, by "chemistry" is that our views are aligned well. We moved from the app to texting and phone calls. So I beleive I have a good idea of how it'd be to have this girl with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 08:06 PM
1

Yeah. That sounds really nice, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:07 PM
1

I actually really appreciate your input. I want to understand what your suggesting; that I find a wife overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:52 PM
1

The idea has gone through my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:30 PM
0

I'm using apps in conjunction with seeking help in-person. I was avoiding using any digital means to find a wife for a significant portion of my search. "Out here in degenerate secularville men getting married in their 30's is par for the course." Yes, and they're fornicating up until they do. And that's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:26 PM
2

It was actually very awkward receiving the White girl's text. I erased her number from my phone so I was confused getting a message about Homeland Security from nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:21 PM
1

Why do you believe I shouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:17 PM
2

That sounds very stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:15 PM
3

I'm actually too old. I'm a very late bloomer. Muslims court, we don't date. And we have short engagement periods. The idea is to prevent fornication and what leads to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:13 PM
1

Thank you. I'm 24 now, too old is like 30s. Getting married then is like admitting I'm slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:11 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:59 PM
1

Thank you. I agree with you about having different values and being anxious. I replied to another poster that I worry I'll take too long to find anyone of mutual interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:57 PM
1

I'm in college now. I bounce between thinking I'll die a virgin, or that I'll get married when I'm old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:55 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:50 PM
1

As a Muslim, having a Bachelor's isn't a prerequisite for marriage. I could marry and study.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:46 PM
1

I was going to college part-time struggling to determine a major.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:43 PM
1

You're correct. I'm 24 and am pursuing my Bachelor's. I'm working to be better husband material in the next 2 years, at least. I'm just putting myself out there right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:33 PM
2

I was narcissistic; the world ran how I wanted it to. "My way or the highway. " Then in 9th grade, I began learning to influence others with charisma and charm. "Easier to catch flies with honey than vinegar."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:40 PM
2

I was a bully until I mellowed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:12 PM
1

I'm 100% honest about being a virgin, Lewis. Even when I cry myself to sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 09:03 PM
1

Architecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:46 PM
1

Unemployed student.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:40 PM
1

If the women care, yeah. Many women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:07 PM
2

"she cannot unfuck the guys she fucked." Nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:30 AM
1

1) Who are these "sluts" men can pick out of a line up? Women who want to be identified as sluts. 2) If she didnt look like the basic slut, above ^ but her N count was high - how would you treat her? "Ew, get away." 3) When do you ask her for an N count? She's either a virgin or bust. I've been waiting until marriage, I'm accepting nothing less than a woman who did too. 4) If you dont ask in the beginning - and you find out later in the relationship and things have been great so far, do you chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:11 AM
1

Empathy means nothing, because women made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:56 PM
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Yes. Thank you, my English not so good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:32 PM
1

Excellently put.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:19 PM
1

No. Once I was ready, I asked my mom to help me find a wife. I've courted women with the intent of marriage and only one at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:15 PM
2

Women, the "empathetic sex" everybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:11 PM
14

Once a slut, always a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:08 PM
2

My time in the sun is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:55 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:54 PM
2

Male. 24. Virgin. I tell it like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:45 PM
1

"The women" is fortunate to find a man who will provide for her. Having her work is redundant; get another job, start a new business. Women should stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:27 PM
1

It works except for selfish, greedy, fearful, paranoid, cynical, and ungrateful women. I'm shocked!/s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:24 PM
1

Careers are a waste on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:21 PM
1

So are we ignoring the relationships and marriages that do work under that dynamic? Let me know, I'll pretend I went blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:21 PM
1

Wow. What a cynical and paranoid outlook of that dynamic. Another point in avoiding women aspiring to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:14 PM
1

Because I'm special. That's why I know I'll find me a SAHW/M and keep her. Better than her wasting her life on a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:12 PM
1

Stop over exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:07 PM
1

Were that true, it wouldn't bear being said. Stay at home women are better than career women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:06 PM
1

La.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:51 PM
1

Women should be happy to have a roof over their heads, food in their stomaches, and clothes on their backs, for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:47 PM
1

A stay at home housewife is still better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:45 PM
1

What use is a working woman? If her pros are an extra income, men can just get second jobs or more. Put women to use doing what they do best; getting nailed, popping out kids, cooking, and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:33 PM
1

Okay, so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:18 PM
1

Women should stay home, have kids, and raise them. That's the best kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:06 PM
1

Women are weaker in body, weaker in intellect, and weaker in morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:03 PM
1

And you'd better remember!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:02 PM
1

No. Women should be in the kitchen and out of the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:02 PM
1

Ask your fellow women. Be careful that you stay civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:47 PM
1

Keep on digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:46 PM
1

Until women get back in the kitchen, I will argue against cooperation between men and women. Career women are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:29 PM
1

Lol, ok. Woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:27 PM
1

Proved a point, but not yours. Why lower myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:27 PM
1

Then why argue? If being female is so great, the proof should be internal and satisfy you. Why try to prove it to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:32 PM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:30 PM
1

Okay, keep feeling sorry. Someone has to. As a man, I'll just keep being awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:25 PM
1

Okay. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:24 PM
1

Also, no female can ever credibly argue that being a male isn't better. Everyone knows women are the jealous sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:41 AM
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Women are selfish, will be selfish, and have been selfish. And what does you being sad have anything to do with anything? You prove my point; you are caught up with how "sad" YOU feel, but you make no claim towards putting in effort to improve things. You're a rich person pitying those "unfortunate lowly commoners."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:40 AM
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Men are better. Women go through this world with 3 inborn traits that separate them from ever being as good as men: menstruation childbirth menopause The world is your oyster when your a man. This is literally a man's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:36 AM
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Men and women will only ever be friends with (potential) benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:29 AM
1

Edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:08 AM
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"Being born into a gender doesn't mean shit." When that gender is female.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:00 AM
1

It was towards "women" in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:48 AM
3

Someone call Vegeta!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:38 AM
1

Why'd you personalize it like that? You're response is myopic and you're making a good case for my point; if it's weird for a female to have sex with her male friend out of consideration to him, she isn't really his friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:37 AM
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I thought as long as a comment wasn't directed at another poster and wasn't promoting violence, I was good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:32 AM
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There it is again; patronizing condescension. What good does it do for me that you feel sorry? For all their "intelligence" and "drive", women fail to realize what men want from them. It's hilarious irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:41 AM
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I love it when other people offer their false condolences, it makes it easier to disregard what ensues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:41 AM
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Why? It makes me angry because I believe my intent is pure. I'm making the right moves. If I wanted to date and fornicate it would be easy, but as someone looking for marriage it feels like I'm having teeth pulled. I hate this!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:59 AM
1

Many are misguided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:56 AM
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Further update: As I feared; Girl 3's folks rejected me. We stopped talking. I blocked Girl 1 completely after she began acting rude to me. Now, it's just Girl 2. The least involved of all 3. Why is this so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:20 AM
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The joke is that anyone would doubt men are better than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:05 AM
4

That joke was made by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:42 PM
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"Women are men's intellectual and moral equals, " No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:07 PM
1

Why? I'm arguing that it should be convient for a woman to have sex with a friend because they are already close. As a favor to her friend, why is it so much to ask for?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:03 PM
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"I don’t think it’s necessarily a benefit to take on a step kid - just not necessarily a detriment." He's allocating resources to a cause that will not yield returns to preserving his genetic lineage. That sounds very detrimental. "It might enrich a man’s life to open it to the child and woman because he’s very compatible with them." There is a woman out there just as compatible with him without children. I find your pitch for polygamy satisfactory. But what is the main wife "keeping an eye on?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:23 PM
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If I'm straight and want sex and my female friend knows I want sex, and she's really my friend, why won't she have sex with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:17 PM
2

👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:47 PM
1

"My new girlfriend is 12..." (Eyes widen) Go on...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:44 PM
2

True. She'll cook and clean too!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:41 PM
2

Seconded. u/PuleaSpataru69, either you experienced that situation yourself or through another party, or you're paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:40 PM
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Ok, sell me an idea of a woman practising polygamy to her benefit the same way you sold a man taking on a step-kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:30 PM
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1) You seem to understand that for men it's a catch 22 to seek validation. In the end, individual men have to come to their own terms as how to man. 2) If females were friends, they would have sex with their male friends who wanted to have sex. That's what friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:28 PM
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It's a catch 22; if he seeks external validation as a man he fails. If anything has to "make him a man, he's not a man." The answer is to assert his masculinity how he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:24 PM
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Woman complains that she likes a taken guy, considers polygamy, other women argue against doing so = Man complaining about unwed mother/divorcee/widow, considers step-parentage, other men argue against him doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:21 PM
1

"The wild of Chilli's", lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:28 PM
1

"What I don’t understand is why men here asking for advice at all (from anyone) are often treated like they are being babies and should know what to do and just ‘man up’. I don’t see that as actionable advice." It's meant to shame the man for failing to make his own conclusions. I look at as a challenge to strengthen his character. "And I also don’t understand why men can’t have female friends." I'll just say that a man's best female friends will either come from family or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:11 PM
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I'm following the pattern that you established asking why women feel jealous if a man wants to practice polygamy and can support and love another woman without it costing his current woman? It makes little sense for her to feel that way, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:05 PM
1

As an egalitarian, I assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:59 PM
1

I agree wholeheartedly. The fear is coming from when I was heavily BP minded and wanting to please women. Since bebeginning my RP journey, I've noticed every trait you mentioned I'd develop. Especially the aloofness, BP me would die before ever leaving a girl on "Read". Now, they be complaining about me doing it just for me to continue doing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:40 PM
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I'll concede that he's biased (as am I towards the same thing). I refuse to assign his reluctance to mention the sacrifices of being a SAHW/M as malevolent in intent. If he's interested in persuading women towards that, it's pragmatic for him to highlight the positives and neglect the sacrifices. Especially to reel in those on the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:36 PM
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"Think for yourself." I think I want to fit in because I like being around people and understanding them. Guess I'm a joiner. This also goes for when you mention; "He does contradict himself when he advises his daughter to not feel ashamed for choosing to be 'just be a housewife/mother'. It's a bit cringey to read his musing on what he sees as the 'proper' role for women." He's consistent in his meaning; if his daughter's max potential (according to her) is being a SAHW/M, his point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:40 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:35 PM
4

Out here with the real solutions!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:28 PM
2

I fear getting tangled in loose ends. I've been working on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:25 PM
1

I read Dalrock regularly and wanted to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:24 PM
1

Well that sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 01:16 PM
1

I'm a virgin, but I only lean red as a Muslim. I am an American born from Americans (my paternal grandmother was a Native American) and I grew up in North Carolina. I think my religion is what keeps me purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:58 PM
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Interesting thread. Basically, this seems to be an introduction to holding frame. People value different things, even people in relationships. There will be times when individual interests collide and the adage of "who cares less has more power" seems to ring true. Men, already more biologically and physically powerful, would have to sacrifice power as to relent to the tests their women put upon them. So rather than engage, they disengage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:40 PM
1

Women's rights are paranoia and cynicism because not all men are out to abuse/manipulate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:20 PM
1

"Well, I just don’t see why another man’s kids should stop someone being with a woman they really want to be with otherwise." Sell me a woman practising polygamy. She wants a married man who can provide for two wives and children from both. Following your perspective, am I correct to assume that you'd advise her similarly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:06 PM
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I would interpret her advice as ignorant rather than malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:03 PM
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"Your friends’ advice is coming from a good place, but it’s a female place, so likely not appropriate for you." "I have no idea why the men here are so scathing of men asking advice or having female friends." We men are usually looking for appropriate actionable advice when we ask for it. Unlike women, we have a cap for idle talk. Edit: Men are looking for instruction in our advice. Yet another difference in us and y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:51 AM
0

Once again, I find myself an outsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:43 AM
1

Love is abstract. Abstract is subjective. Subjective opposes objective. Subjective is bad for general objective measurement. Love is bad for general objective measurement. Love is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:38 AM
1

People want to help women, even old ones. Count your blessings .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:34 AM
1

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:29 AM
1

RP and the manosphere to a lesser extent mirrors some religious ideals and values which I agree with. The ones that don't are extensions of BP values and I reject those anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:25 AM
1

Yes, to the nonreligious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:15 AM
1

And it's delicious!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:00 AM
1

Women get old. Men get seasoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:51 AM
1

"I'm going to die surrounded by the biggest idiots in the galaxy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:48 AM
1

Dalrock is married. He's getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:44 AM
1

No. Schadenfreude is fulfilling af.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:43 AM
2

Women are weak, passive, and let men get away with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:41 AM
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Every major textbook calamity has pushed Americans (and to a lesser extent, the West) to be further on guard. Women have been working since WW2 for "financial security"; in case he dies, or gets hurt, or loses his job. Basically, I argue that OP mistakes the intent of AWALT. Men aren't being cynical, they're being pragmatic. For the first time (perhaps in a long time) in the West, a large assortment of men are actually acting in their own best interests rather than self-sacrificial like previous…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:17 AM
0

Third-hand experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:50 AM
2

Thank you to everyone who participated in my advice thread. I have an update; Following the majority opinion, I made advances on Girl #3 and discovered we click really well. Like, "puppy-dog-love-diabetically-sweet" well. We text throughout the day, and already got into calling each other "hun" and "babe". Still, I want to confirm her parents will go for it before closing the doors on the other two. Girl #2 actually reached out to me, causing me to put her in the back-up spot. She's the one I ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 02:09 AM
1

She's literally about be left in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:12 PM
1

So a girl who wants to stay barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen? Where do I find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:11 PM
1

Yeah. It's on some weird psychic thing, if I get into talking to either girl 2 or 3, girl 1 will suddenly take interest in hitting me up out the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:10 PM
2

All I know about Somalis are how in inclusive they are among themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:09 PM
1

I'm afraid of putting my eggs all in one basket because her parents have veto power to reject me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:08 PM
1

That's a great idea, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:07 PM
1

She's Somali. Her family emigrated here when she was young so she grew up here. But she's full Somali
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:06 PM
1

Lol. Girl#2 is the sexiest among the 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:45 PM
2

Thank you. If girl 3's parents prevent us, who would you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:34 PM
2

I replied to u/carefreevermillion that I find all three girls attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:31 PM
1

It was the kiss and that she puts enough effort to keep me interested periodically, yet not enough to get fully invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 05:29 PM
1

True
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:55 PM
1

Thank you. I worry that we get emotionally invested and they prevent it. It happened with my friend and a Palestinian girl. Now, she's married to a Palestinian guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:43 PM
1

I have no intention of having her forget or neglect her culture, I just want us to do our own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:32 PM
1

I've "soft nexted", or went distant, from Girl#1 at least 3 times now and she keeps coming back. The majority opinion on here is to hard next her, or completely end contact with her. I figured if we could fight and work it out at this stage that it would get better. We'd have experience resolving conflict amongst ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:57 PM
1

Probably the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:54 PM
1

The most I know about my lineage is that my great-grandmother was from somewhere in the states. My grandmother eventually settled in New York after having my mom, and then everyone else was born in New York. Edit: You're hunch is more or less dead-on. I like them as they are as individuals, but I imagine them as what I want and it's just so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:47 PM
1

Also, "average chick"? Describe her to me, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:31 PM
1

None of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:29 PM
1

I can only lean red as a Muslim. As for the rest, I agree with you. I stopped reaching out to observe if she would. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:21 PM
1

Was it to next Girl#1? If it was, then I got it. Edit: Sharing values. Important for marriage.👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:15 PM
1

I'm testing 2 to see if she ever reaches out to me. She quotes feminist thought "Strong men should love strong women, blah, blah, blah", but I'm predicting that she still expects me to pursue. I worry about investing into 3 and it falling flat because her parents. Everything seemed like a match made in heaven, and I got a suspicious because I know Somalis are inclusive about their culture. One of many times I was upset to be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:13 PM
1

Girl #2 asked why I ghosted her. I told her I went offline to assess the options I had in front of me and she said she understood and was happy I came back. We talk, but I'm always reaching out to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:08 PM
1

No. I want a wife for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:05 PM
1

Okay. She's going to have to really sell them her marrying an outsider. We'll see how well that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:40 PM
1

I'm struggling answer you. She kissed me the 1st day we met. I thought she was feeling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:37 PM
1

Why would you suggest her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:22 PM
2

Lol. Ok, who DO you want marrying me? Unless...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:18 PM
2

Yeah, it's already gone to shit now and by her words we were never in a relationship or dating. All those times we went out on my dime were two friends hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:17 PM
1

Girl#1 and I had a blow-up over me making a #metoo joke. I actually stopped talking to her and she messaged me asking why I was "giving up so easily".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:08 PM
1

Edit: Never mind, I see who you were replying to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:06 PM
1

I mentioned to Girl#1 that I want a Muslim wife and she jokingly said it would never happen. However, her best friend is a Pakistani Muslim and Girl#1 does actively support me practising. Here's what Girl#3 said; "I wouldn’t mind, but my parents are old fashioned, they will disagree with it in beginning. Eventually they will come around." I mean, who knows if they'd go for it. And I need the permission of her guardian(i.e. her father) to marry her in my religion. Edit: Completely agree with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:04 PM
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In Islam, there is no marriage for a woman without her guardian's consent. In this case, that would be her father to which she had to say; "I wouldn’t mind, but my parents are old fashioned, they will disagree with it in beginning. Eventually they will come around."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:55 PM
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And if they all did at the same time? Marry all 3? I mean, I know I'm a Muslim, but take it easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:53 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:49 PM
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Ok. If her parents refuse an outsider for their daughter, ("I wouldn’t mind, but my parents are old fashioned, they will disagree with it in beginning. Eventually they will come around" - her words) then who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:45 PM
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Girl#1: Wants to run things on her terms, which I'm not having. Girl#2 : Has claimed she "wants to get married yesterday", yet can be found sending short clips of herself on Instagram often. Girl#3: Her parents. I find all 3 attractive and as for the values I'm flexible enough to work a compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:42 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:29 AM
1

Are sex drives fluid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:14 AM
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If women were asked list improvements they'd like to see in their partners, would that be disrespectful for them to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:10 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:06 AM
1

It's cool, I was looking to go in as your double. Can't really lose him to another you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:38 AM
1

Is it only exposing negative traits that demonstrates disrespect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:33 AM
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How does that signify respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:39 AM
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Lol, right? What was that reply meant to be - an ultimatum?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:24 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:17 AM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:08 AM
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It did. It opened me up to caring less what others think and maintaining that what I strive for benefits more than just myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:04 AM
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Were the women to avoid posting disparaging comments about their men, it would be fine. When the women say thwy don't do it BECAUSE they don't like picturing the reverse, it becomes solipsism. It's like "Why does fear of retaliation influence so many of what y'all women do?" That's a rhetorical question btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:03 AM
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I assumed you two were geared up to share me; I did say I was everyone's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:58 AM
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How fitting that I'm actually good getting hitched to "dumb" housewives. A retard and an idiot. Good pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:48 AM
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Hey, I aim to please babe.😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:44 AM
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Oh, I'm everyone's type. It's why I'm still single; there'd be too many women I'd feel bad for not being with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:41 AM
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I told you, if I had an SO, she'd have other things on her hands to badmouth me on reddit. I'd be more concerned with her slacking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:37 AM
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Yes. As an addendum; I realized that I want to be a rich guy ro afford a woman who chooses to stay at home. I learned this by breaking down what my friends were teasing me about until I could focus on what will make me happy. Had I caved and denied what I want, who knows where I'd be psychologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:35 AM
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Yeah, it's always nice to hear a woman say that to me. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:29 AM
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I'm still single, unmarried, and a virgin. I just said something ridiculous to match what you asked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:26 AM
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An anecdote: My best friend got married. We, and a second friend of mine, discussed what I was looking for in a wife. I described what was basically a 50's housewife. They jokingly claimed I wanted "a slave". I got upset. I know I don't want a slave, but a 50's housewife. They continued teasing me. So, I thought "Fuck it. I want a slave, then." I went full blown male-chauvinist about how I was going to have her chained to a stove and all these silly ideas that I knew myself were ridiculous and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:28 AM
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Seconded. (Although, I'm Purple)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:16 AM
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I live without sex. It sucks (or doesn't) and I get on with my life. Cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:15 AM
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Moral of the story: Keep my SAHW/M in her home country and all is hunky-dory! Nice to know, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:11 AM
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That I believe women are full of it, but I take that with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:09 AM
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The simple answer is that not having kids is always selfish because for whatever challenges present themselves to deter people from having any there is a solution. It may not be one that is particularly pleasing, but it's still an out. Most people who opt out of children are just to selfish to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:08 AM
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She's been in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant. Reddit is the least of her concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:05 AM
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And the real question here is, even though a woman deciding not to have kids is selfish by your standards, can you really, for certain say that's inherently bad? Some women just don't make or wouldn't make great moms, period. And they're selfish women. Obvious solution: "Let me do some work on myself and become a better human woman. There is a reason most women become moms and have kids and love it. Let me try to improve myself." Selfish solution: "Why should I change? It's ALL about ME!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:04 AM
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It's not about the husband finding out and retaliating in kind Yes it is, it's exactly about that. Women live off fear and solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:01 AM
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Selfishness. Were they actually concerned, they'd pour their energies towards solving those reasons and having children rather than opting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:00 AM
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Becoming a parent is an active decision. There are many sacrifices involved, so it's easy to imply that people have children aware that they will be putting in work to care for them. To avoid having kids is passive and reactive. Very few sacrifices, all for the gain of the non-parent. It's selfish to choose not to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:58 PM
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Everything presented so far have been fringe cases of parenting gone wrong. To be a parent, a good one, requires sacrifice. People who voluntarily choose to actively avoid parenthood do so for self-centered reasons 99.9% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:56 PM
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Would you believe I can say this, low-key believe it, and yet still love women immensely?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:53 PM
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It almost doesn't now, what with "marital rape" being a thing. I mean, have we already forgotten the sexless spreadsheet husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:50 PM
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Ok then. Women are selfish, solipsistic cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:46 PM
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Having children requires giving and being of service to other than one's self. Not having children requires selfishness, greed, and misanthropy. Not having children is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:45 PM
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Did you just admit to shitposting and trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:42 PM
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To who, what, and why are you giving by having kids? vs. What are you giving by not having kids? To whom? Why? Not having kids is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:40 PM
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Feel free to. I'm still right. Religion is a guideline for all its practitioners, atheists decide according whatever metric the choose at a given time. Expectig reciprocation from someone who disagrees with the basic tenets of your worldview is asking to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:37 PM
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Women are two-faced. The golden rule can only apply within the confines of religion. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:32 PM
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It wasn't my argument, so tough luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:28 PM
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Keep on digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:27 PM
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All I'm doing is suggesting that selfish people own their selfishness. This handwringing is not my problem, I'm looking to do my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:20 PM
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What guarantee is there that a child develops a parent's disabilities? By that logic, any one with a history of mental, physical, emotional, or developmental disorders should be barred from having children. If the concern actually was the children, rather than a smokescreen, then the correct solution wouldn't be to stop having kids but to find new methods to tackle these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:18 PM
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Yes. Hedons are the definition of selfish people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:15 PM
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Tell that to women raped who are against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:14 PM
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Straight from the horses mouth. It's meant ironically, but as with TRP, words have meanings and it's sad to learn that this is what women think all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:13 PM
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All I've seen were excuses to not have children. There was no evidence, no dats, nothing conclusive said. If anything, the vehemence against my claim only proves ut. Otherwise, why bother attempting to refute it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:11 PM
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Just give up. Avoiding to reproduce is a mostly selfish notion. It leans dark gray to black on the spectrum of selfishness. It's the natural way to the point that we had to circumvent that with unnatural means tjat harm us. Look up the recent discoveries about how birth control affect women. All to prevent what should be taking place for selfish desires. At least, own up to it. Be selfish and proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:51 PM
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I forgive you. Just another one of my good qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:45 PM
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Notice all the women responding with a variation of "I don't like picturing HIM doing it to ME, so I won't do it to him." "Me." "Me." "Me." Never trust a female to be an altruist. Everything comes back to how it impacts them. Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:42 PM
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Having kids is giving. Giving time, giving money, giving attention, giving birth, giving, giving, giving. It's inherently generous. People who cry "Overpopulation" are using it as a smokescreen. They won't put on their big boy/girl pants and let others know rhat they are selfish because the fear judgement. Same as with people with disorders. Selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:29 PM
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I think society has gone backwards today. The people before us had ot right and we unravelled things by the seams. I never agree that our "progression" as a species is wholly or even mostly positive. I'm black, a Muslim, and working-class. I expect life to be hard. What keeps me going is knowing that somewhere at some point, someone achieved everything I want now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:23 PM
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Women who avoid having kids do so out of "concern with their own personal profit and/or pleasure." Women have kids they can't afford all the time. Try a different angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:19 PM
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"Why am I mot surprised?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:12 PM
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"What's the big deal?" Just make sure the baby comes out healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:07 PM
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Someone has to. Feel fortunate it's someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:06 PM
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"And the women of PPD responed in an unanticipated silence. For once, all was right."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:05 PM
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"Obviously everybody has flaws, I don't think anyone expects to find someone 100% perfect with no flaws whatsoever." Hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:01 PM
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I figured as much. Just know that all of what you mentioned, I'd be for. I'm one of those "born in the wrong era" millennial types.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:42 PM
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Adoptive mothers come along after the birth mother has carried and delivered the child. How is that hard? You're comparing apples to oranges. And the children men and women have become the workers and citizens we have today. Unless you are arguing that humanity should cease reproducing, I find little reason to argue that having one's own children is selfish, even more so, than opting not to. Either way, people opting to avoid parenthood are selfish. Many people are in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:21 PM
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We are discussing the women. Children asking to be born or not is irrelevant to this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:11 PM
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Define how you envision a man "manipulating or coercing" a woman back to the kitchen. And if you would, please give me a brief background on your socio-economic status and race. Because I'm picturing you as a rich white girl who sees a different world than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:27 PM
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The reason selfish people opt out of having kids is because they are aware of the sacrifices they will have to make to raise good children into good adults. Here; self·ish ˈselfiSH/ adjective (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. Yes, parents receive personal profit and pleasure from having kids. But to do so, they have to give a lot 1st. That's where the draw is; selfish people want to gain much and give …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:22 PM
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self·ish ˈselfiSH/ adjective (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. Women who avoid having kids do so out of "concern with their own personal profit and/or pleasure." They are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:15 PM
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Myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:49 AM
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Yes. Selfish women won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:49 AM
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And you've stated that you love it in your husband. Men, take note. Get you an Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:46 AM
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Selfish women won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 10:33 AM
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But why? Why do you fundamentally believe people are good? What do you draw this belief from? What makes extrapolating a type to every person narrow minded and incorrect? I expect most women to bear children because that's what women do. Why would women be forced back in the kitchen? Women's Rights weren't gained through force, neither were Civil Rights. What makes "you'll have to force women to be housewives again" the initial thought as opposed to men do so through more subtle and/or duplicito…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 09:32 AM
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Ok, you copy-pasted a few verses. What is your point? That's what I'm struggling to understand. What am I to be responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 02:39 AM
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"Good": traditional conservative girl. "Bad": modern secular girl. "Ok": egalitarian girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:23 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:18 AM
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I trust that it’s in most people’s nature/morality to try to be fair. Why? I think as long as a man doesn’t expect all women to want to be at home with kids and cooking, then it’s fine. You’ll find women who want to live that way. Just extrapolating it to ‘this is all women can or should do’ is wrong. Why? Patriarchy has worked quite well in many respects, but it just feels like that time is over - we need to move ahead with the world and everyone in it. It can’t be so black and white any more. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:58 AM
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If you want to start pulling quotes from the Qur'an, I can too. And it would make you look foolish. By all means, please do so. You seem to have the time on your hands. There's an equal amount of women to men Everywhere on Earth? Are you sure? I don't care about your cherry picked verses. Islam comes from the verses. Without them you have people even more misguided under the claim that it's the real Islam. I'll reiterate my earlier statement; please give me something to discuss or answer. You se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:53 AM
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What would you like to hear then? Rephrase my original response to a palatable manner for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:49 AM
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Fornicate away, then. I find it silly that one HAS to have sex with someone to know that their compatible. Like, really? That's the only way you could think up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:48 AM
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I'd argue that men are more forgiving of failure from women to reciprocate, to an extent (see the entire Manosphere, Men's Rights, etc.) Yes, men expect a good romp for a nice evening on his dime, but if those are the terms he set up with a woman it's as transactional as buying groceries. I think men are told to suck it up more and we grow less inclined to seek fairness than women are. As far as egalitarianism, I oppose it as I see the patriarchy a solid model to hold up families and civilizatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:02 AM
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Thanks! I'm actually sad "she" is so misguided about my religion because from what I got in our conversation, she is arguing that Muslim men get 72 virgins in the afterlife which is a bizzare notion to me. It's like there was an "Islam 101" college course that could be passed with an "A" just by attending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:53 AM
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Polygamy in Islam according to the Qur'an. Women are everywhere, bro. For the odds to be stacked, there'd need to be a mass shortage of females. And who is convincing anyone about 72 virgins? Women of Paradise If this what you're referring to, then you're grossly misinformed. As Muslims, we believe everyone will have a spouse in Heaven, that there will be no evil in the hearts of people and an eternal life that improves in quality forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:34 AM
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By that point, she's the next guy's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:10 AM
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It'd be a lot more interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:06 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:54 AM
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I am so lost right now. Please clearly convey what you mean to say or ask me, because I want to give you an answer or explanation. Your message is just very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:51 AM
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What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:31 AM
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I think it seems unfair to me to expect someone to give you oral when you absolutely won’t reciprocate, but if it’s just a no-go area entirely then fair enough. I think women get hung up on things in life being "fair" whereas few things in life are. I get striving to make life as even a possible, but for the most part it seems like y'all are just splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:14 AM
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I was only aware of five pillars. - Sumbitting to Allah and His Messenger, Muhammad(peace be upon him) - Praying 5 times a day - Fasting - Giving alms -and making pilgrimage to Mecca. Please, enlighten me about this "sixth pillar of Islam", I seem to be very ignorant on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:09 AM
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You're welcome. Tethers you to what? Islam tethers me to Earth, it fosters my love for other people of all walks of life. I may disagree with how we live, but it's on Allah to make the final judgement on each of us. Basically, Islam focuses they purpose I have in life for everything I do. I want to be a celebrity? Do so while practicing Islam and demonstrate what a positive Muslim role model looks like. Is Islam more bloodthirsty than your average religion? Fighting in Islam had to be ordered on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:06 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate you stepping in. May we all be guided right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:52 AM
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I'm still confused, what are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:39 AM
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Do you enjoy being a Muslim? Yes, very much so. I choose to stay a Muslim everyday. Does Islam elevate, empower, and energize you? Again, yes. Islam does provide these benefits to me in my everyday life. It tethers me. I only hear about the tribal nature of it, the sharia, the tribalism and brutality. I recommend you researching the period of Arabia(and the world) leading up to the introduction of Islam. It's referred to as "The Period of Ignorance", and Islam actually came along and reproached …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:38 AM
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How can you have sex when you're dead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:27 AM
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I got it, for the most part. In fact, that (waiting until marriage to have sex) was considered backwards and illogical in the house I grew up in. There lies the draw, I live the exact opposite of that. My whole life, my experiences, everything, was "wait until marriage." Personally, I was ok with the idea. I had other interests beyond girls, and when puberty struck I had those interests to stabilize me. I have trouble reconciling wanting to have sex (and firmly believing it was right at the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:26 AM
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Help me out here, what are we talking about? Call me crazy, but the tone in this dialogue just shifted and I'm lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:10 AM
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Yes. Marriage. That's the only sexual outlet when you practice Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:02 AM
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How will you know that you've found the best that you can if your selection size is 1? How would I ever know at all? There are billions of women out there in the world, each possibly better than the last. Should I be upset when I can't get with all of them? This perspective is the problem with people in this world today. What if you discover that one of you has a high sex drive, the other one has a low sex drive? Then we look to meet somewhere in the middle. Or what if you're sexually incompatib…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:01 AM
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Fornication was more important. Own it. Any shame felt is internal, otherwise what is there to argue about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:56 AM
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I'm struggling to respond to you. Please condense your point to a sentence or two so I can discuss this because I'm getting that you think people should not seek to leave positive impressions on each other which is odd...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:55 AM
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I'm confused? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:52 AM
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Hey, as long as you're honest. I mean, fornication will always be a sin, but I'm sure that's low on some priorities lists. I'm certain that waiting brings only good though, guess it's because I'm still pure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:49 AM
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"Contingency" as in...? I'm a Muslim, there's only one way this goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:47 AM
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Please, I'm only as good a comedian as my audience is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:44 AM
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Yes. I'm in the "sex should be only in marriage" crowd (small as it would seem). I've been waiting 24 years for the girl I believe will make it all worthwhile. I expect to get someone who waited as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:24 AM
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"Where does she get her hair done?" She doesn't, the headscarf has attached directly to her scalp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:19 AM
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I'm a virgin, saving sex for marriage only. If I'm waiting it's going to be for someone who I can verify is honest when she says I'm enough to keep her satisfied and content.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:14 AM
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"Does someone with their own opinions, ideas & experiences threaten you?" In context of me stating "Give me a woman I can mold and impress easily", it's likely that she'd already share similar opinions and ideas to my own. However, I can read subtext. It isn't enough that I marry a "free spirit" she has to be allowed to express whatever flight of fancy she conjures up. And I have to support that. Am I right to believe you're implying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 12:06 AM
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It's a coming-to-terms moment for us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:57 PM
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Yes. I'm insulted by your elementary-level trolling. 1/5, too unoriginal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:03 PM
1

What's up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:00 PM
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"do you automatically imagine him as chad in your heads and assume the girls he had sex with were models or Stacy's?" Yes, every time. Only beautiful people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:14 PM
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"I'd like to try this marriage thing with someone else." People who say this are bad marriage material. The examples in this response question people's ability to judge for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:56 PM
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Is that an argeement or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 09:17 PM
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Try again. If necessary, ask OP what is meant by "male-led."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:54 PM
1

I'm always feeling special.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:47 PM
1

Thank you. I'll work to improve my content.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 08:43 PM
2

Woulda believe that I'm the boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:58 PM
1

When was my 1st?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:56 PM
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All the ones actual men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:55 PM
1

Woulda believe I'm actually at work rn?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:48 PM
1

I love these scathing replies. Leaves me anticipating when I'm to hear something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:47 PM
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"Stupid shit Muslims Say" Needs a YouTube series.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:45 PM
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Stahp, I like my thin "pencil-stache"!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:40 PM
1

😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:39 PM
0

Yeah, I'd be happy with never receiving a BJ. The matter is I think of what function my junk is here to serve and getting blown is missing from that list in my mind. Tbh, BJs always rubbed me as childish, like at the stage infants want to put everything in their mouths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:38 PM
1

This part of being a Westerner I worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:32 PM
1

Right? It's so simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:29 PM
1

Hi. (Am "that one Muslim guy.")
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:25 PM
1

The virgin. Fuck the OP. Fuck the ensuing replies. Just give me the virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:24 PM
2

Finally, someone else gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:17 PM
5

More like "hates men holding frame."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:11 PM
1

1) What is this blantant attempt at reverse-psych? As someone who supports that double standards are fair, your response sounds silly to me. 2) In spite of #1, I believe oral to be disgusting all-around. Like "I want to kiss the mouth that was just on my junk, guzzling down my skeet?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:31 PM
1

Really? Was that worth the 10 seconds it took you to think that up and post it? Could've at least slung around a "sexist" or a "chauvinist" or even a "misogynist". But I guess originality is a crapshoot among females. At this point, I probably am likely to have a fun divorce from women who say stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:21 PM
2

Thank you. It means that I'm more resolute in chasing your kind (egalitarians) away. My day has been made. : )
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:37 PM
1

Waiting until marriage. Keep feeling sorry though, someone has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:36 PM
1

Would you listen were it from anyone else, lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:35 PM
-3

I side with "The King". Let women lower themselves and demonstrate their submission. It's the natural way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:13 PM
1

Are you telling this to him as a mod? I fail to see the green letters for your name. It seems like you want him to get kicked out because of personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:10 PM
5

That's still a feminine way of viewing this. "Forget commitment, forget enduring and devotion and dedication; now I have someone I like." Because of course hedonists would think more hedonism is the answer. Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:04 PM
-1

Dalrock's blog. Religious texts (Abrahamic religions). Other men who succeeded at obtaining the goals you've set for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:50 PM
3

Female solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:45 PM
2

What's the deal with people getting defensive when you judge them? If you're familiar with me (black + devout Muslim), you can understand that I've been judged, rejected, neglected, etc. All over one thing I can't change and one thing I choose to do. So, why not get over it? I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:44 PM
1

Please refrain for deflecting. If it's as great as claimed, the proof would be in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:38 PM
1

He's right, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:34 PM
1

Ew. Give me a woman I can mold and impress easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:30 PM
2

Ew. Give me a girl I can mold and inpress and look at me like the greatest thing on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:28 PM
1

I never believe when people tell me it is. If it's great, keep at it. Probably the only meaning they have in their lives now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:11 PM
1

I resent that! She claims to be mixed (part Latina)!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:02 PM
1

So, degenerate men chose degenerate women and they all lived out the rest of their spiritually void lives. Yeah, real appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:51 AM
1

Hush now! That's the PTSD talking! Every man needs a woman ambitious to be a SAHW/M.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:48 AM
4

"It's not enough for a woman to remain satisfied in a relationship" AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:25 AM
1

"it's not enough for a woman to remain satisfied in a relationship." Then women should never be in relationships. I told y'all women were selfish and greedy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:22 AM
1

What happens if she develops cancer and you have to go without sex? Do you stay? If you would, I argue it was because you already got a sufficient amount of sex from her before she was no longer of use. This is all according to you and how apparently everyone should know hos sexually compatible a couple is before marriage. Which is ridiculous. "I’m not Muslim I can’t just take more wives if one of them doesn’t pan out lmfao" Proving my point. Considers polygamy when the sex doesn't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:33 AM
2

And if that's the main priority then I agrue you are more suited to easy FWB situations. What happens when she can't fuck you anymore? Move on? Or stay because you got "enough" sex out of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:24 PM
2

AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:39 PM
0

A ho now, is a ho for life. At least loser betas don't carry other men's skeet upon reaching pseudo-alphaness! (Symbolically, for you pedants)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:37 PM
1

It would seem the problem is mostly you than waiting til marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:34 PM
1

But you are only in it for the sex. You just claimed it would turn the tide of your own marriage were you not sexually compatible. That's literally putting the sex before everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 05:33 PM
1

For some, it's best to avoid marriage altogether. Like people asking for a "test drive".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:06 AM
1

How would I know that she physically grosses me out before sex? By meeting her. I'm surprised how little y'all can deduce how you'll feel about such obvious things. Unless you believed I meant a blind-date arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:03 AM
1

Why would I marry her if I learned she grossed me out beforehand? Especially in a physical sense, I think I'd be aware before it even got to the pointof marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:36 AM
1

I guess I'm more faithful than most that I can have a healthy sexual marriage without "test driving" my prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 12:02 AM
1

That's the only conclusion. The only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:54 PM
1

Why does being sexually compatible preclude being compatible in values, outlooks, or goals? Basically, you're implying you're marrying for sex 1st and my argument is that marriage is more than sex and that sex is nice and all but what about when it's not on the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:54 PM
1

It hits too close to their reality, if they object it's to divert the looking glass away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 10:50 PM
1

But are you married? My argument is that testing for marriage via how the sex is is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:11 PM
1

I believe both concepts are intertwined; poor people are dumb and dumb people are poor. Gray thinking is for upper middle-class and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 09:09 PM
4

I tell you what a young man should do. Avoid women who worry he'll "Settle down with a "good guy" in their peak SMV years , raise his kids only for him to leave for a trophy wife after she hits the wall leaving her with a 20 year gap on her resume ." Those paranoid women will burn out decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:55 PM
1

Her are friends are normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:43 PM
0

"Gray" is for people who can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:40 PM
1

Armageddon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:38 PM
1

You just said you'd see me on /r/deadbedrooms. As I'm to be in a healthy, loving, passionate marriage (because I waited), the only conclusion I could take from your words was that you were going to be on /r/deadbedrooms seeking help. But you should know what I'll tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 07:35 PM
1

You plan on being on /r/deadbedrooms? Probably because of the fornication. Should've waited until marriage. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 05:53 PM
1

If marriage is your goal, sex is a feature. A marriage is built from sex and other significant features. If sex is your goal, why get married? Fornicate, but be honest with yourself. You just want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:53 PM
1

Compatibility is more than sex. Mutual attraction, chemistry, experience, and wisdom hold up relationships. Sex is the whipped cream and sprinkles above all that. I'm claiming that those who say "I want to see how the sex is!" and ignores the other markers for compatibility would be fine with a FWB situation rather than a marriage. Y'all priorities are too misplaced if marriage is your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:06 PM
2

Exactly. It's why I next girls who caved under pressure; I'm waiting, you could wait too!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 02:28 AM
3

Basically, the rules that made pre-Sexual revolution America changed by selfish men and women. RP enourages milquetoast men to capitalize on their own selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:55 PM
2

There's only one me. My only flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:40 PM
2

Because you don't want it to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:38 PM
1

When men do it's tactical. Women do it to be petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 06:59 PM
1

Ok. Hey everyone, u/sublimemongrel has claimed that no women on this sub has ever, will ever, or is not currently attempting to curry favor with any RP man. If you ever see evidence of the contrary, please notify her immediately so that she may be corrected. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 06:58 PM
1

Aaaaaand that's a wrap!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:53 PM
1

Are you sure? Can you speak for every women on this sub? Women invented the concept of a "frenemy". They can dislike RP men but still want to curry favor with some pf them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:50 PM
1

They're fanning the flames and pouring more gasoline. I believe it was "natural" RP men and Blue pill women who started the fire. You know; your "individualists", "capitalists", "hedonists", "nihilists", "anarchists", "secularists", and "atheists". It was them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:33 PM
2

Because women want to say or do what earns them favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:27 PM
1

I'll reiterate what I said "I have an idea of what I like." Is it subject to change? Yes. Am I interested in it changing? Only if it develops for my benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:19 PM
1

Any from a single poster?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:21 PM
1

Please explain this, as I'm understanding your argument to be that I can't know until I try. I'm trying to get across that I agree somewhat; but as with being told a lit stove is hot, I can imagine it is without burning my hand on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:20 PM
2

Exactly. Pre-martial sex tells a specific set of people if a marriage is worth it. Those are they people I recommend avoid marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 03:17 PM
1

That's a good point too! Everyone should strive to live as their idealized selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:10 PM
1

I believe you about supporting a wife. I'm happy that you found someone who was into you enough to quit her job and have your kid raise and stay at home raising them. That's what I'd like!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:08 PM
1

I don't see: Had his kids. Cleans his house. Cooks his food. Thread fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:05 PM
2

So it's just me running into all the crappy "ambitious " ones, eh? Seems like my usual luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:59 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:53 PM
1

If I could have one wish certain to be granted, it would be for ALL women to embrace "double standards" giving men the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:48 PM
1

That all sounds good! Did it come as a deal; SAHM, kids, job, travel benefits? Because those are goals right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:41 PM
1

The question for all women of our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:38 PM
1

Nope, still virgin even though my game is level 10 trillion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:38 PM
1

That's what it's about. ... As a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:36 PM
1

11 years? For attempted murder? Bruh, women have it good!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:30 PM
7

No one should have sex outside of marriage to "test for compatibility". Y'all just wanna fornicate, own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:02 PM
3

TFW they try to send me "back home" and it's a round trip from my place to the airport.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 01:00 PM
1

I'm rarely ever surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:55 PM
4

I offer everything I paid for at my mom's place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 11:07 PM
3

As a practicing Muslim in the secular athiest Anglosphere, my opinions are automatically unpopular. I guess the worst opinion I have is that our opinionated hypercritical generation is overrated. Too many people live to the saying "Be a leader, not a follower." I'd wager very few realize that they're still following an idea another person presented. I'm a follower and a leader; I look to follow what's popular and helps me fit in, it's what I want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 11:06 PM
1

I agree that I may be ignorant now as to what I will actually be into and looking to do, but I have an idea of what I like. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:48 PM
5

"Society" Careful, that's a trigger word 'round these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 07:58 PM
1

The only case for acceptable bestiality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:51 PM
-1

No one enters the world unloved, and love can't be lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:07 PM
1

Pass on both of these chicks. Now, if you said the 2nd girl waited until marriage and was into the stuff I'm into...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:05 PM
3

Glen, because Timmy forgets his apostrophes in addition to beginning his sentences without capitalization. There's badass, and then there's dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:55 PM
1

Search online for the percentages. As for me, I had a crush on a girl in 6th grade. It went as far as one would expect an Islamic school would allow. She was really cute when I was 11. I was sad when she moved away at the end of the school year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:35 AM
1

"A lot" as in "most" may be overselling it, but I'd agree that too many middle school children, esp. girls, are leaving their virginity behind as they move towards high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:30 AM
2

I turned 24 last Sunday and I noticed this. Our generation is good for maturing physically fast, yet being late bloomers mentally and emotionally. "A lot" as in "most" may be overselling it, but I'd agree that too many middle school children, esp. girls, are leaving their virginity behind as they move towards high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:30 AM
0

Rule of thumb; women are dumb. Were they smart instead, they'd use dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:13 AM
1

Srs, where'd you find #4 at? I'm trying to watch more videos with her in 'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 01:22 AM
1

True. I actually agree with you. She's got the hips, stomach, and probably butt/thighs that get my gears going. I've observed a grain of truth within the "black men love fat women" stereotype. My "average" is a white man's "chubby". My "chubby" is a white man's "fat", and my "fat" is a white man's "obese". And my "obese" is probably dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 01:21 AM
1

Lol. I've always been a chubby chaser. It's an awkward thing to share with people, but I believe my attraction to be genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 12:51 AM
1

You lost me. I was saying that Lewis's last example (the "fat" one) is my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:38 PM
2

Nikki Blonsky. Nikki Blonsky. Nikki Blonsky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:45 PM
3

I'll take a #4, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:27 PM
0

Most women have men or a man meant to protect them; a father, a husband, a brother, an uncle, etc. When women step out on their own, all bets are off. Especially for rebellious women. The cost of freedom to challenge authority is the loss of protection. So, I'll argue that it's rarely ever okay to lie at all; but that a number of women taken advantage of had it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 11:29 AM
1

Part of it is to breakdown what type of features these women possess, as far as character and personality go. Then, we go off and look for similar women for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 11:19 AM
1

Because I love playing "Armchair Doctor". It makes me think I'm like Sherlock Holmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 11:16 AM
0

This reads as if OP believes women are now nearly beyond men's influence. Were that to be true, women's behaviors would change on a scale unfathomable to us. Y'all would probably have less fear of rape, feel less self-conscious, find lesbianism practiced more explicitly, and probably live happier and longer lives. ... Lol, nah. Who am I kidding? Y'all would crash and burn if men stopped influencing women to do what they do. Men are frustrated that the bar went up from "comfortable beta bucks wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 11:13 AM
1

Is that why you still respond to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:57 AM
2

In 2018, there are two types of women that men encounter ; Ignorant Aware Ignorant women have it coming, in the same vein her ignorant "brother" does. Men will watch another man fuck up. Maybe a man will step in to cover for a friend, or if he's in a generous mood, a stranger, but that's generally the extent. With women gainning their independence, men have decided to step back. The new way is to let women either fuck up and learn, or watch her ignorance come back to bite her with a vegenace. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:42 AM
1

I have yet to mention anything about men so far, that's been all you. I said that women win by entering their marriages in good faith and with a goal to be an asset to their husbands, as well as remaining chaste beforehand and choosing a worthy man. So far, I've been presented with an argument meant to imply that men get women to leave their marriages often? That says little except that you are convinced that men should step it up or face their wives divorcing. Because women are more loving than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:25 AM
1

If the women are unsatisfied and initiating the majority of divorces, they should have chosen better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:03 PM
2

According to you, women are unreliable to hold onto a marriage as y'all are the majority divorce initiators(as you brought up). So, your solution is for men to put more work to placate irresponsible spouses rather than search for responsible ones. Once again, interesting. Dumb, yet interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:06 PM
-1

Claims without support and invokes an argument to reverse the roles on a thread titled "How do women win?" Not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:49 PM
3

That's an interesting conclusion to come to. Incorrect as hell, but interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 08:43 PM
3

Ok. I'll look for a girl who beats statistics then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 04:46 PM
1

For me, a woman who wins is one who; saves sex until marriage. marries young. remains married. makes her husband her world, with her kids coming after. Imply that she's happily doing these things because she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:40 PM
0

This is exactly why women don't "win". Men give y'all clear honest instructions and y'all do what you want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:34 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:35 PM
2

Single moms are used condoms other men left behind. Usually, attached to heavy baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:02 AM
1

Fuck step-kids! Fuck that whole arrangement! God, this white-knight, Captain Save-A-Ho mentality is disgusting! I was the resentful step-child growing up. If you want to be there for single moms and their broken families be my guest. I'll gladly claim the extra unattached women left.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:57 AM
2

To whom? Certainly not u/FI-Boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:54 AM
1

Kinda a loser. Stop shaming this man! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:50 AM
1

I have no responsibility to police my language or tone towards other people. I have a right to free speech. Why hold my tongue when the outcome could be positive? Would I be correct to assume you possess a sensitive heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:34 AM
1

That sounds like too much responsibility on the community to police language and discussion. Imagine warning a woman near to you that a guy she was into was bad for her. By your definition, that's shaming him. Going by my definition, to shame him would to criticize him unprovoked with the intent of humiliating him. Actually, that's exactly where I think the disconnect here is; intent to humiliate. Humiliating single mothers is low. However, I would stand my ground and reject her, even publicly, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:47 AM
1

I was warning men to avoid women with weak fathers. Whether her mom demonstrates his weakness to the woman, or the daughter discovers it herself, the worst case scenario is a woman who thinks it's her right to whatever she wants. All because daddy kept saying "Yes." to his "little angel".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:37 AM
1

So, if I have a cousin, and she get's pregnant out of marriage. And I say among my family "Well, I believe that was a poor series of decisions she made." Is that shaming her according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 01:32 AM
1

As a fellow human, I want you to succeed. It may sound like a dubious claim, but believe that I'm taking the time to type this because I care. Even though you could just be winding us up. You worry about appearing presumptuous, forget it. Try to imply that he wants a relationship with you as little as you want with him. Respond to him if he pushes to go steady that you'd like to wingman for him or something to divert the idea of you two hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:51 PM
1

Why did I mistake the rule to be one post per day? Weird. I agree with you about being more proactive. I have many thoughts in my head. I'd like to share when they're more cohesive. In the meantime, I'm available for an Islamic/conservative perspective on other's posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:36 PM
1

I appear to define "shame" differently than you. I'd call someone out to shame them. I'd reject someone (quietly) to shun them. Basically, it's the difference between aggressively criticizing someone vs. giving them the cold shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 10:30 PM
1

Yep. And it works for us men too! I'd recommend avoiding a beta dad's daughter. These are usually the spoiled "daddy's girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:20 PM
1

Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:34 PM
1

A viable choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:34 PM
1

Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:32 PM
1

My post about women on man rape gained me some notice (I'd hope, lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:06 PM
1

Yep. Infinity War was sick, tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:04 PM
1

Those are two extremes, two bad extremes. Imagine being asked if you want to have someone peel your face off to prevent a missile dropping on your house. Both of those options suck. Likewise, if a woman's choices are being "too picky" to the point of self-inflicting misery, or becoming a single mom, she's between two bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 08:04 PM
2

Skip to 0:33.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:59 PM
1

I get that - the sling mud before it's slung at you. I see it more as accepting the honesty I see others take. The only thing that made me not trust you was the child support law thing, which made me assume you would flout other laws as well. I'm still an American citizen, born and raised, even as a conservative Muslim. As far as that thread went, trust that I've experienced what neglectful parents leave with their kids. When I made this account(and decided to stop lurking for some 4+ years), I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:57 PM
1

Lol. "I don't know if you've ever been in a fight, but there's not usually this much talking!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:49 PM
2

I believe you are very disingenuous going off your OP. Honesty is the best policy, and you're "worried about coming off as presumptuous to a man you claim to like as friend. Were he really a friend, you'd feel comfortable nipping the bud and preventing any romantic feelings from blossoming. And had it affected your "friendship", I believe you should feel comfortable knowing that you were honest in intent and fair in how you dealt with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:48 PM
1

Totally, read what she says below.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 07:43 PM
1

Absolutely. I say she's already responsible for refusing to come forward about her WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:52 PM
1

Thank you. All of how I express things on here and the tone I use is built in anticipation of people stereotyping me. As a black Muslim male, I expect to have my perspective and opinions disliked, perhaps even hated, here in the states by the secular majority. It's like worrying about benevolent sexism, without the benevolence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:51 PM
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Who's job is it for men to provide on? If it's women, then it's women's job to choose men they are satisfied with as far as getting providing for. Men got the message, women are free agents. Women are responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:39 PM
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I'm happy you're having fun! I like having fun too! It seems like we actually have little in common, but I have friends like that who go about their lives until we run into each other. Either way, I'm content practising my religion. If you're truly satisfied as you claim to be then, good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:34 PM
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Cool. I'll just sit back thinking of all the conservative Muslims benefiting our society in all the indirect ways you take for granted. Knowing that they're happily doing their part and are examples to the next generation is all I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:31 PM
1

You have one supporter on here!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:24 PM
1

Because this is a man's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:23 PM
0

Most women are greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:23 PM
1

Ok. At least I'd look to judge by the U.S. Constitution. I believe you'd throw out anything that doesn't fit your own personal stances, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:22 PM
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I will, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:20 PM
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Yep. Which is the wrong move on his part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:20 PM
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If it takes being "too picky" to avoid ending up a single mom, then this woman led herself between a rock and a hard place. And I'd hold onto my condolences too, they'd be lost on such a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:19 PM
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Yo, u/writingtoc killed me back in her mod days when she wrote her emotional diatribe to you and ended it with "We're not so different, Lewis. You'll never agree though, becasue vagina." LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:07 PM
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And here I believed women were winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:01 PM
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Men are providers. Career women are extra bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:01 PM
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Learn about his parents. Are they together? For how long? What are their views on marriage? When is seperating/divorce a reasonable option to them? Observe them, amongst each other, amongst him. Do they go out as a family? Why or why not? Try to gather what kind of values they brought him up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:59 PM
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For a woman, yes, it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:53 PM
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The hamster is strong with OP. Doesn't want to be judged for her ego. Does little than consider her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:52 PM
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If she was a friend, she'd be upfront with him. Everything else is rationalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:51 PM
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You are already being egotistical. Step outside yourself and do what needs to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:48 PM
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You wouldn't trust me to do what? Be specfic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:46 PM
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Be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:45 PM
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Conservative, not despotic. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:24 PM
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Ok. I'm a Muslim 1st and an American 2nd. As a Muslim, we are instructed to actually apply the laws of the country we live in as far as they run with our religion. I find defending this silly because now I imagine myself campaigning for Sharia Law practised in America or some shit like this. I myself may practise, but that's just my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:23 PM
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"No, I have no plans to support ISIS today. I just want to enjoy my day off."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:19 PM
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There was a cute girl at a City Trends. I was eyeing her because she had a nice fat ass. One day, I went for it. I learned she had an 8 year old son who she birthed at 21 while in college. I gathered, not only does she have bad decision making skills (she complained about her baby daddy a lot, yet he was fine at the time before he knocked her up), she also struggled to reflect on why things went the way they did. Instead of not having kids out of marriage, she questions having kids at all. Also,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:24 PM
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I agree. People leaning more liberal will find tjis silly though. Freaking atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:02 PM
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The same way cultures and religions did it before cohabitation was accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:01 PM
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Unwed mothers, divorcees, and widows are all different categories. Unwed moms are the lowest and the ones most men are repulsed with. Even we instinctively know it's risky to have a kid(s) with no legal rights. Hence, unwed moms are dumb/trashy/slutty/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:00 PM
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Someone better will pass a woman who had an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:56 PM
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"If he won't marry you, abort his baby." Please, tell all the women of the world this. You'd be doing men a favor. Also, abort "his" baby. Because if you can count a women to be something, it's vindictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:55 PM
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To give women everything they asked for, and everything that comes with it. Women just mad it's more than they bargained for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:51 PM
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I am a man. I trust other men to be men. I trust women to be fickle. Also, women have solutions to sealing with unwanted children, y'all intelligent now. Be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:49 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:45 PM
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"They shouldnt sleep before marriage." Oh my God, someone said it! And a woman, no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:43 PM
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She's not perfect, she's responsible. Welcome to being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:42 PM
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All women raising children alone are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:41 PM
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Yes, they are. Women can abort or give away the child. It's all on them. Single(unwed) mothers are low class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:39 PM
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Not my money! The rest of y'all can pay for my 11 kids when I get married, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:38 PM
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I actually believe I go out of my way to appear non-threating to my own detriment. A man has to have a bit of an edge to get the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:36 PM
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Really? I wake up to this? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:34 PM
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It depends. I seem to do ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:32 PM
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Thanks! "Why pre/extra-marital sex corrupts society" "How to oppose LGBT and still succeed" Just some examples, along with anecdotes from the outside world of happy successful marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:44 AM
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You're interested in replying. That's something. Did I hit a nerve saying my woman is going to stay in the kitchen? Because she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:39 AM
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I'm Muslim. We look to marry rather than sate for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:11 AM
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Why? Why do men have to be interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:10 AM
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To shame is active, to shun is reactive. I avoid associating with people of certain sins aand faults because it reflects on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:08 AM
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Women are lesser. It's about the mentality. Obviously, only a man would know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:05 AM
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Ok. When I know what a "wimmin" is, I'll be glad to be exempt from their evul ways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:04 AM
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Morals are relative in atheism. I'd trust you as less far than I could throw you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 09:03 AM
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"[Q4M] what’s the worst thing about dating women in today’s society?" You've dropped your screed in the wrong thread, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:57 AM
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It has to come from them. The onus is on them to improve. From my experience, a lot of people choose the path of least resistance. I've learned to hope for those who help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:56 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:55 AM
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Ok. As I Muslim, my rules are different. Atheism and Secularism are in vogue now and practising the golden rule in this kind of anti-religious climate is like painting a target on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:54 AM
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See, I know women will never be happy. I could care less. That bitch is staying in the fucking kitchen!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:57 PM
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My empathy is from my disapproval. I don't condone the behavior and my honesty is more than they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:53 PM
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I say that's too bad for the girl in the article. Us men understand women care so little for individual unrelated men like us. The golden rule is a model that is best used moderately. Women instinctively know this, men are wising up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:51 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:44 PM
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It says Jan 1- April 30, 2012. Is this a prank?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:04 PM
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I wonder what sex feels like. I worry I won't do it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:02 PM
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That's commendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:01 PM
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I'm a fuckboy for believing women are lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:01 PM
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Women can't be evil. You don't have the balls. Ultimately, men will do something about a cheaying woman. Women will lie back and take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:55 PM
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Whatever, just leave men alone. WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:54 PM
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Men will do stupid things because we make the majority of risk takers and innovators. Women are weak pussies, I always expect y'all to bend at the slightest hint of aggression or violence. It's why we were able to keep women in place for so long and why we still do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:54 PM
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Life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:48 PM
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That's because we know women shouldn't be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:44 PM
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Nice! I'm waiting until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:37 PM
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There it is. You just excused evil men round the world. I sincerely appreciate your patronage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:15 PM
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I know. Independent women gross me out too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:13 PM
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I'm a "fuckboy", and an "asshole", and a "chauvinist", and a "misogynist". I wake up each day with a smile on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:11 PM
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Their independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:09 PM
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I say she should go all the way, down the rabbit hole. Let her go full blown "hairy legs and armpits". She's no loss to anyone. The men who have dated her are pathetic, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:08 PM
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I say she should go all the way, down the rabbit hole. Let her go full blown "hairy legs and armpits". She's no loss to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:07 PM
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Then let it happen. Let women find men comfortable sharing her. All the confusion, all the mayhem, all the pain. That's right, each man has to get a fair turn. Whatever she does for one, she does for all. No exceptions. All in the name of "fairness" and "equality".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:04 PM
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"Yes, and there are women that peg men (fuck them in the ass with a dildo), and these men love it. In fact, they’re more men that willingly become cucks either because they want to or because their wives want them to. " There are a lot of things that should be different. DJ Khalid is one man out of billions, and a poor representative at that. Because billionaire, entrepreneur, celebrity are such easy titles to hold. Just admit, me can get away with things women can't. He told the whole world, wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:58 PM
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Then he has a right to discipline that kid as a father would, and to pass on his last name as a father would. Essentially, you giving the cuck lawful possession of another man's child. And you claim to "love" children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:49 PM
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Then it would be better if we agree to disagree because I choose to believe a woman can never physically force a man to do anything against his will without risk to his life or limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:46 PM
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Yes, and men also perform anal on women. There are a lot of things that should be different. DJ Khalid just told the world he expects blowjobs from his wife and will NEVER reciprocate. Tough luck for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:44 PM
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I mentioned unwanted children being a burden at the beginning of my OP. And what powerlessness? How does a woman overpower a man? Outside of weird fringe cases, I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:40 PM
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Little else has changed externally, I just got tired of feeling sorry for myself and decided to stop being such a little bitch and get myself together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:34 PM
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Yeah, and as an American citizen, it's within my rights to be. I doubt I'll find the best kind of women I'm looking for in the US. Maybe I'll marry a woman abroad and visit her every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:31 PM
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"Wealth is a PLUS." It is. But for a woman it's only plus, for a man it's a necessity. No women wants an unemployed broke bum. Men marry housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:27 PM
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Yes, as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:26 PM
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I want to know if you belive the connotations of a man raping a woman and the reverse are equal. I argue they are unequal because men are built differetly than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:25 PM
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How did ot affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:23 PM
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If you believe children are great, why deceive them and rob them of their actual fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:23 PM
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Men are selfish. We can afford to be. Women bend like rubber.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:21 PM
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I just did neglect them. If you want to discuss that, do it with a red piller. I accept that it's society AND biology reaffirming the idea that women are less capable than men, leading to this phenomena. That's my "Women are the oldest teens in the house."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:55 AM
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I think context is more important than tone. Once again, if I were called a faggot or a nigger, I'd know what's up. It's context-sensitive. If I'm out with my homies and I start singing Meghan Trainor and they call me a fag, it's funny. If were playing PS4 and I win and someone says "How'd y'all let that nigger win?", it's apt. Basically, I'm trying to ask how can anyone accurately gage what causes another person to start devaluing other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:29 AM
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I grew up in North Carolina, dude. And you're going on some kind of weird tangent. I definitely felt some isolation, but I tey to look at what can be done and not what should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:18 AM
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Ok, so I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:15 AM
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I believe men are held accountable on a level beyond what women can comprehend. That's why the "Oldest teenager in the house" is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:08 AM
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I'll argue that tone can be separated from a message, but that it's a skill that is more familiar to men than women. As an example, were I to rephrase my previous statement as "Women suck at separating tone from the message, men are better!" I believe would lean towards my point because these two statements are functionally the same, but perhaps the connotation is different. And I believe women read into the connotation of words more than men. If someone were to call a known heterosexual man a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:05 AM
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This fits the manosphere well in that everyone is as loyal as their best option. My own thoughts are that he'll live with this for the rest of his life and what comes after. Yes, his ex-wife got the worst of it, but I'd expect to hear he offed himself or something equally self-destructive down the line from his relentless guilt. Or not. He could just be a colossal fuck-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:53 AM
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Men are winners. When we attract a woman and she stays, we've won her. The worst thing that could arise from remaining single is that a man comes to accept it and then women start approaching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:46 AM
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Hi!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:38 AM
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Care to prove me wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:38 AM
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Lol. Right? You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:15 AM
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women have very little worth other then the physical act of birthing I believed that there were a few unimportant things men could do that women couldn't. But this is where I got stuck on and why I saw myself as worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:14 AM
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'She then told me. "I have to confess something, I don't want something quick..."' Should've told her you last pretty long, bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:28 AM
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Close the circle; fuck the bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:25 AM
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So women are selfish, petty, paranoid, and greedy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:19 AM
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I know, I'm from New York. It still doesn't make it right though, either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:18 AM
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I'm an African American Muslim. Women want men to do something. Men will take a do nothing woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:12 AM
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"Though the main wife often isn't happy about the mistresses since her husband obviously doesn't love her very much." Perspective. He provides for her and maintains amongst ither women, I'd call that love if anything. "Humans have an instinct not to share mates and get upset about cheating, that's how our brains are whired." Why are women wired to not want to share? It makes little sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:10 AM
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Blackmail isn't rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:08 AM
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What's cool?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:07 AM
1

Why not polygamy where the man can provide resources and protection for each woman and tbeir offspring?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:57 AM
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Aw! How sweet!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:56 AM
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Ok. I'm still right though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:54 AM
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Yes. Selfishness and greed. Women operate on those features.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:35 AM
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As long as your husband is ok with sharing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:33 AM
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I was expecting you to go for another "rise" outta me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:30 AM
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It will never be "equally ok". Men and women will never be equals, other than spiritually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:29 AM
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Men want to validate and appreciate the beauty and joy of many different women. Women hate each other and won't share men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:27 AM
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Why do women want men to stay monogamous? Where does this drive to limit men come from? It's selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:23 AM
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1) The latter. 2) No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:22 AM
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They'll be sexualised because they signify the bearer as female. I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:21 AM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:19 AM
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If she wants to cheat, she'll find a reason before it comes to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:19 AM
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"Why is it okay for men to cheat but not for women?" Men are more justified because we are never as certain of parentage as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:17 AM
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It's harder to get a cutie who acknowledges she's a chick and knows her place is in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:13 AM
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No. Just asses, hips, and thighs. Thiiiiiiighssssss!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:11 AM
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Why are we talking about you? Women can ensure parentage, men have to wonder. Cheating is low, but that's how life is!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:03 AM
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Please rephrase this, I'd like to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:01 AM
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Aw. I knew it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:59 PM
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Like I told haunting-you, I said women know who the mother is. You reframed my statement to focus on your feelings, ignoring that I was accurate in my observation. Cheating does leave people feeling sucky, a woman feels sucky because women are selfish and greedy. A man feels sucky because he could be spending on a bastard instead of his own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:52 PM
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If you say "Tl;dr", you love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:43 PM
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I'm just surprised you liked me so much you had to tell your friends. I feel so special!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:40 PM
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Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:39 PM
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Ok. That has very little to do with my point, but I'll cede; that does happen. Somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:38 PM
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Tell me more, you seem to be onto something.... Nevermind, just ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:37 PM
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Hi, Tessie. I like how you made me popular over on TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:19 PM
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I'll raise you one bodybuilding forums. They go from 0-100 in no time at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:10 PM
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Because women will always know that they are the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:08 PM
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I have yet to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:06 PM
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I don't argree one can have sex unwillingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:06 PM
1

'the effects may not be the same' The basis of my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:04 PM
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I was serious. I felt like crap because most of the prominent figures in my life were and still are women and I feel isolated as a man. I had male teachers and leaders at the mosque but it's difficult to attach to someone who's commitment to you is a 9hr/per day paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:57 PM
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I was in Islamic school and homeschooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:54 PM
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Women can not rape men without penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:50 PM
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Is this writren as a religious law or secular?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:45 PM
1

What do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:44 PM
1

Yes, I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:11 PM
1

All girls want a guy for their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:10 PM
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As a Muslim, I believe Allah created women just as capable to be men's equals in the realm of worship. It's silly to believe that women are going to show up on the Day of Judgement and get flak for something God chose for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:06 PM
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Sex is required for it to count and men can repel women they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:47 PM
1

Moral according to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:46 PM
1

Please rephrase that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:45 PM
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There are definitely disgusting slags I'd avoid even breathing near. My argument is that I hold the responsiblity of avoiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:43 PM
1

I believe rape is purely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:38 PM
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Moral acvording to what? Religion? Because there are no morals in secularism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:36 PM
1

My argument is that blackmail isn't theft.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:35 PM
1

Yes. My argument then would be that you didn't "steal" that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:29 PM
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It seems you skipped the title, fam. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:27 PM
1

That was rhe point of my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:26 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:25 PM
0

Hello? Are you going to debate or cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:24 PM
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"Humans tend to disregard red flags because they trust people." Right. But a man trusting a woman who betrays him sexually is less damaging than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:04 PM
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I'll cede that coercing anyone into having sex is a crappy way for the aggressor. I'm arguing that it's at the same level as violent rape, moreso for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:03 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:59 PM
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Yes. I went through a phase of self hating because I lived with my mom and my dad abandonded us when I was born. I had little understanding of my significance as a man. Women were important as the sex that had babies and raised them, but I noticed in my life men were inconsequential at worst or a background accessory at best. I internalized that. I spent many a night reflecting as to why God would create such a useless being when I could've easily been a girl and taken after my mom. Eventually, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:51 PM
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Those poor cats!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:39 PM
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"communicating like an adult." More like a man(chump).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:38 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:26 PM
1

I am a practising Muslim. Sex is meant only for marriage. I believe rape is physical assault only. If I have sex with a woman, it's because I want to. No woman can force me into having sex. If a woman "raped" me, I'd have little qualms about it. When I have sex, it will be within a marriage and consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:23 PM
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I agree. However, the best men I believe tread a very fine line. It sits between "IDGAF" and understanding and respecting what and why other people do give a fuck about. I think it's called charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:18 PM
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It was wrong of the girl to do that though. I do believe in getting consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:06 PM
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You thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:03 PM
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This. This is what I mean. It's an inconvenience at worst and amusing at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:55 PM
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Agree with Atlas that there is no woman on man rape? Everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:54 PM
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There is always a time to leave before things escalate to abuse because humans are able to pick up on red flags and respond accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:53 PM
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Any who believe women and men are more than spiritual equals. Functionally, all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:50 PM
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There's always time to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:37 PM
1

Poirot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:36 PM
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Ok, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:36 PM
1

That's a misread of my argument. STDs and unwanted children are trouble. I made a point to start the OP stating such. Weapons aren't as much an equalizer as you believe because for a woman to rape a man at gunpoint she needs to get close enough for him to potentially disarm her. I think the key here; I beleive violent rape to be the real rape and women are less violent than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:36 PM
1

Uh, sure. I'm still confused .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:32 PM
1

Exactly. Agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:31 PM
1

It may be difficult, but also necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:31 PM
1

I did. I left it ungendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:30 PM
1

Still true. So far, everyone is moralizing. Except Atlas. She gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:17 PM
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It's still a decision made. It's it's up to the man to proritize which is greater; their autonomy and freedom, or the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:16 PM
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I doubt the men have much to complain about in a situation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:14 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:12 PM
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Rape is the actual physical assault against an unwilling party. Choosing to obey a coercive boss is giving consent. His job means more than his autonomy at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:11 PM
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To have M V C'ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:07 PM
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A minor is a minor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:05 PM
2

Um. I'm confused. Are there mixed sex prisons, or?...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:05 PM
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He could of found another job. It sucks, but such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:04 PM
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Yes. Edit: The physical aspect of rape is perhaps the most apparent. I argue that for an assault to be classified as a rape, it must be forced against the will of the assaulted. If you coerce someone into making a decision, they still consented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:59 PM
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It was a term of endearment; she's my elder and I respect her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:58 PM
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Thanks, I'm glad you agree with me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:54 PM
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A MAN can always leave. If she's threatening his life, body, or health, it's different. But a man can find a new job, and get away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:53 PM
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"woman on man rape isnt a thing" That's what I meant, granny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:50 PM
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It's on the men for staying and suffering abuse. Unless a woman is threatening to kill or harm him, a man can always leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:49 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:47 PM
1

I'm arguing that the men you mentioned in your rebuttal are unjustified for complaining. Short of threat of bodily harm or death, women pose less of a threat to men than the reverse. So they choose to stay and be victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:46 PM
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I'll assume you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:44 PM
1

Men can evade abusive women. It's always his choice to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:41 PM
1

The same men who would argue that it matters would believe it possible for a man to get bullied by a woman as well. And they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:38 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:15 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:15 PM
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"Women shouldn't approach men because if you have to approach a man, he doesn't like you much. Even if a guy is shy, he would find the guts to approach you if he thought you were worth it." All of this; female entitlement. I'll be generous and assume you mean to give a man subtle IOIs and leave it at that. The alternative is that you believe men should put more skin in the game than women, which I absolutely disagree with. Anyway, femcels don't exist. The onus is always on men to receive consent…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:12 PM
1

Did you not read Young Oryx's post about unattractive men performing labor for her benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:30 PM
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I always knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:08 PM
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Quick and dirty, huh? Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:44 AM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 11:16 PM
1

Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 11:16 PM
1

Lol. Sounds like I have an admirer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:57 PM
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You're welcome. Hopefully, you find what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:55 PM
1

Tell that to the women who married single fathers. Tell that to the 2nd Mrs. Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:53 PM
1

Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:41 PM
1

They admire me too much to bed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:41 PM
1

I dunno. I'm for real a virgin tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:40 PM
1

There ya go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:40 PM
1

Reply to my DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:22 PM
1

She threatened to kill me before. I'm luring her to a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:06 PM
1

Previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:05 PM
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As do you with other women to blame for us turning things around on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:05 PM
1

Nah, just explain to everyone it's your preference. I'm sure they'll understand that you love bucking tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:04 PM
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Ok. I'm sure I'll get it at some point! If you'd like, I'd be willing to read a condensed version.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:28 PM
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Women won't reciprocate your covert contracts. Ergo, always ask what's in it for you when a woman asks you a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:36 PM
1

Thanks! : ) I appreciate your- whatever that's supposed to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:31 PM
1

I'd hit that. I'd still want her to doll herself up frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:27 PM
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What does this have to do with women changing after commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:26 PM
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They're the ones who got so miserable it bent a curve into happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 01:14 PM
1

I'm confused. What does this have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 01:13 PM
1

Sometimes, that's what it takes. I wish you find what you're looking for, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:46 PM
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It isn't dating. As Americans we are individualistic, so I acacknowledge your advice to do things myself. But I'm a Muslim before I'm an American. It's why I've waited for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:45 PM
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Please avoid labeling me an incels. I want to do things with my future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:43 PM
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Why do women nag?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:24 PM
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Ignore her, squid. It is a girl thing. It's like "What happened to you liking to take care of yourself and wear make-up and dress nice? Now you just want to wear sweats and tie your hair up!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:23 PM
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If you actually listen to women give relationship advice, pay very close attention. It'll be the only moment you will find females say something genuinely humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:18 PM
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By acting rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:10 PM
1

Women want 1:1. "Oh, men can/have/do/want X? I should/have/get Y!" Look at the post I replied to. Women want to stand by our side in the sunny times and get behind us when the storm comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:09 PM
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Thank you, and I wish for you similar!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:06 PM
2

Wow, man. Was it worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:05 PM
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Thanks! : )
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:05 PM
1

Our families went out together. That's how Muslims do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:02 PM
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I'll try for the 1%. What is a believer without accepting miracles happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:01 PM
1

Nah. I'm not careless like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 11:59 AM
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What argument? It's a fact. Career women are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:33 AM
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I believe that you have a bias towards modern woman and a disdain for traditionalism like most from your time. Those women sound disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:32 AM
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I think Islam and the other monotheistic Abrahamic religions came from God. Muhammad(peace be upon him) was an illiterate orphan in the deserts of Arabia. To observe his legacy now, along with the numerous verses in the Qur'an challenges the claim that he was the driving force behind Islam and how it spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:18 AM
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What are they? I'm guessing because I'm black and Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:13 AM
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I would think menopause would kill your sex drive anyway. I really think women want SEX less than men and it seems weak when women compare holding off to when we do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:59 AM
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Tough luck, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:31 AM
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I'm just anxious to have sex. I want to meet the girl best for me and validate that waiting was worth it. I sincerely believe that God will bless us for waiting. So, I wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:30 AM
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Plates vs. Women Both are fragile, need to be kept after frequently, and eaten from. Welcome to 2018.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:28 AM
1

"A picture says 1000 words."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:22 AM
1

Stereotypes have an element of truth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:21 AM
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Yes. u/Atlas_B_Shruggin is the type of girl who would let me burn on the opposite side of the street as I judged her for being so strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:20 AM
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I loooooove Miami and Orlando. Anywhere in Florida is bomb, Fort Lauderdale, Tampa, Daytona...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:18 AM
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Where was he the entire time? Going to school/work to have the resources to afford for you to stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:16 AM
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Why would you ask a woman for advice? Mistake #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:12 AM
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If you're asking for dating advice but really mean "I want to be sexually attractive," she may understand it as "I want to be a good boyfriend" and give you advice tailored to that. So, women don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:09 AM
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I'm Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:07 AM
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According to you, who obviously wants to push that all things work 1:1 between men and women (they don't). Women may like to have a guy without kids more than one with kids. But how many men with kids are dry k with them compared to single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:06 AM
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Neither did I, but yet you mistrust me along with every other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:04 AM
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It is a disjointed perspective, because you've taken my different posts under different contexts to make a point. My point, which you have affirmed, is that being a single dad is less of burden than being a single mom. That's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:58 AM
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Lol. Cool people never admit they're cool. I'm onto you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:51 AM
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