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I think there's an article on OKC somewhere that goes into popular photos and generally it'll be a photo where you're doing something (playing a guitar, rock climbing, etc). Try not to have selfies where you pose too much as social pictures tell a story of your comfort around others.
/r/seduction13/06/15 06:33 AM
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I haven't voted either way but the language is coming across as arrogant and not confident. I agree with you that goals are important and getting what you want from life is a positive but you can always do these things with respect, the language used so far (such as 'want to get my dick wet') lacks respect for other humans and is unnecessary. We all want that so why find it in a disrespectful manner?
/r/seduction07/11/14 04:12 AM
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How about talk to them? There's this amazing tool available to humans that seems hidden from a good number of then, it's called communication. The reality is that having a trusting and open communication style means you should be able to talk about anything without the need for alcohol. Tricks are not required in order to discover hidden desired, in the right environment and with trust they will come out naturally.
/r/seduction05/11/14 07:26 AM
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Why are you not always filtering out the girls you're not interested in? That's a given! However, to know that on a 2 minute conversation is just absurd. This isn't 'advanced' it's the basics!
/r/seduction31/10/14 06:39 AM
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That article is absolutely atrocious and not something to put through as a positive approach. It's essentially pushing everything to a numbers game because as you approach enough women one will be interested. It's also not weeding out the right ones as it only suggests an interest in sex over any other important personality and physical characteristics. Taking this approach will leave you unable to have long term relationships with anyone as you simply value the wrong things and seek short term …
/r/seduction30/10/14 07:16 AM
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London here
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:38 PM
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You make a good point, maybe a direct link to a 'mission statement' of what it is to be a sedditor would clear it up directly. The basic tenets of how a person should act and the moral value of the direction being taken. There isn't anything really clear in the sidebar on the moral stance that should be adopted (as an example I love the line 'always leave them better than you find them' and think it's an apt moral starting point). There's a ton of good advice and it is advocated strongly through…
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:44 PM
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You just highlighted the issue you face, mainly that developing inner confidence is key. Gotta take yourself out of your comfort zone to do so. One word of caution, not sure I like this part "She played the "next time" card to be sure I was into her, but WOW!". So you won't see her again? Fine. Just remember that you should ALWAYS leave them better than you found them ... ALWAYS!
/r/seduction28/05/13 06:49 AM
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Yes, just be confident and fun to be around. Don't over think things and if a girl wants something more just be clear on what you want from them.
/r/seduction29/12/12 10:51 AM
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Just be yourself and talk to girls, any girl, at any point, anywhere. The more you feel comfortable the more comfortable you will come across.
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:47 PM
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I'm English, it's a turn of phrase. It's said in the context that women should be treated well, not put on a pedastal.
/r/seduction08/08/12 06:51 PM
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I really really dislike this post and the theme about it. The purpose of this thread, I thought, was to ensure you use PUA techniques to improve yourself. Also, you write like you use women as pieces of meat, which makes you sound slimy. Always, ALWAYS leave women better than you found them. This is not happening from what you are saying, particularly sleeping with one girl when another is on the bed! This is a lazy way of getting complacent as to who you are and what you want. tl;dr, HAVE SOME …
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:35 PM
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I don't think this is about being alpha but being confident and expressive, along with trying new things. Congrats on being dominant in the situation, sounds like you took yourself out of your comfort zone and it worked.
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:04 AM
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Nice work, take confidence from it.
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:57 AM
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Just talk to her, natural conversation with some escalation. Finding out what she likes can be done on a first date. Try some kino early as well, just get used to the conversations and situations to begin with so you start feeling more natural at them. That alone will give you confidence.
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:56 AM
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They're just not in the press as much anymore, don't think they like this 'celebrity' style of the current lot.
/r/seduction27/03/12 08:17 AM
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I'd love to see one of these for Europe please!
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:42 AM
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I think you miss the point of the graph, it's not just saying 'there are lots of single women', it's looking at whether there are more single men or women. It does have a small dot anyway, so there are more single women than men.
/r/seduction06/03/12 07:41 AM
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I'm 28 and I broke the spell it had on me 2 years ago. Don't be afraid of change. It can be done, and it's relatively easy. Martin Seligman's book Learned Optimism highlights how to challenge your thoughts really clearly and stop yourself ruminating on things. When you change that thought process it becomes much easier to do, rather than worry and not do. All the literature in Seddit does pretty much the same thing, they build confidence and belief to let you tackle the world head on with no fea…
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:37 AM
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Haha, don't worry I just forgot the Seddit bit ;) I live in a VERY good place for women (multiple nationalities EVERYWHERE).
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:11 AM
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I'd be happy to get a drink if anyone's in my part of the UK.
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:05 AM
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Sedditor Yes, do it. Go to the bar. Also, why at night? Go to a cafe and start talking to someone. Find other people in your area that are interested in the same things, go do those things. I made a massive fool of myself for a while when I ended up dumped, with no friends around me and lonely. The thing that changed was that I just talked to people, anyone, and got comfortable doing so. Now I feel comfortable talking to everyone, I enjoy the interactions.
/r/seduction12/01/12 12:04 AM
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Sedditor: Can I suggest something different? I was a FA for a while, I had no confidence, no belief and no drive. On top of that my mentality was to constantly question everything and see negatives in things (it's pessimism 101). You have to challenge your thoughts as much as do things physically. I can recommend some reading on that if you're interested. Also, I'm not a dick. I treat people with absolute respect. If I saw you doing exercise I'd smile and think 'awesome' because I know how impor…
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:50 PM
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Yup, works now :)
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:12 AM
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I agree that passion is needed in the conversation but another aspect is interest in the activities of others and letting them explain the things they love. I notice it in conversations with people I meet for the first time, listening and exploring the things they're passionate about has really made me learn a lot of new things in life. It's the same with women, be passionate about your interests, talk confidently about them, take pride in them, and be enthused about theirs. It should be a chall…
/r/seduction10/01/12 09:11 AM
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The link doesn't work for me...
/r/seduction10/01/12 08:58 AM
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Agreed, they aren't all angels. Was just going off the original post and his nonchalant attitude to the emotional and/or caring side of life. Be honest and up front in desires, girls like to be wanted. No need for tricksies to get them to bed.
/r/seduction10/01/12 12:55 AM
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That's all well and good but he's making it clear in what he's saying that he doesn't want that and it's been a problem all 3 times it's happened. I agree that it isn't a bad thing to sleep with them but not if they have made it clear they want something else/more and you haven't made it clear you don't. If everyone knows the score and is happy, go for it. Game isn't about sex as the goal, it's about living life to the fullest and being a complete person.
/r/seduction10/01/12 12:26 AM
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I haven't had the bf thing often and I've always respected it. We're essentially saying the same thing though, that you just need to give them respect and let them come to you. Overtly pursuing it is disrespectful in my book.
/r/seduction09/01/12 10:03 PM
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Your goals are wrong. Leave them better than you find them. If you're unwilling to emotionally attach and they want emotional attachment then find others. If that takes time then take the time. There are plenty of girls out there and there'll be plenty that will be losing, if not lost, their virginities so be patient.
/r/seduction09/01/12 06:56 PM
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I have been in the situation where everything turned to shit and picked myself up again. I was a serial relationship person. I had three long-term relationships in a row, it was because I had no inner game in my life, was a pessimist, didn't believe in myself (there are many reasons growing up why I ended up this way, I worked them all out). I took too much on one summer by working a full time and stressful job while completing my dissertations for my degree. It destroyed me and I almost broke d…
/r/seduction09/01/12 12:28 PM
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Don't think it's jealousy, might have something to do with the boyfriend ... Generally don't like the tone of using 'Bitches were just jealous', give them a little more respect that that. We're about more than that in this sub. Also, if a girl says they have a boyfriend it's respectful to leave it at that, don't just push on if they resist. We need some respect for people and their choices in here. Just tell her it was great meeting her, she's an amazing girl and you didn't realise she was taken…
/r/seduction09/01/12 12:10 PM
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Never let fear stop you. Always turn that feeling around and use it as incentive and excitement to better yourself and put yourself out there. Learn, learn, learn. And travel. The more you experience the more you'll know in love and life. Those are my learning curves. My biggest regrets were being too scared at 18/19 to put myself out there with women. Then getting into long term relationships that were completely wrong for me.
/r/seduction08/01/12 02:09 PM
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I think it's just classless to pursue a woman with a BF just for a ONS. Leave it if that's all you're interested in.
/r/seduction04/01/12 12:10 PM
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This isn't clear enough. Was the girl who's number you actually got interested in you? Was it flirtatious? If so, then it'll be hard to get to the one you want through this one.
/r/seduction25/12/11 06:56 PM
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Try holding something. In a bar have a drink, at a party have a drink, somewhere else have a different tool. It can just relax your focus away from where your hands are. One will stay by your side, most likely.
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:18 PM
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Hahaha. Nice inner confidence! Fair play.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:48 PM
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I have to ask whether you're the type girls want for sex or the type they want for a relationship. I'm the latter, which I guess I'm actually happier with, but that would be a nearly impossible thing for me to say and have it believed by a girl. I don't think I've ever been with a girl and not have her want more and more and more after just a day or two. It's fine now as I'm happily in a relationship (unsurprisingly) but was difficult when I wanted to be single and live that life. Just saying al…
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:39 PM
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