Bare with me, my first FR. So I went on a date with a girl I met on okc. I had the mentality of being alpha. As soon as I met her I gave her a hug and began the banter. I sat next to her closely, something I wouldn't have done regularly. All my answers were smart, when she asked me about my job, I told her I had a butler and fought crime at night. I had my hand on over her on the couch and played some music from my phone and highlighted each note by touching her shoulder. I had knee contact and noticed she wasn't moving it. Thanks to seddit I knew I was in. I would lean to make a point or a stupid joke quietly. I also spoke slowly and with determination. She began to place her leg even closer to mine. At one point I told her I was going to kiss her but she had lipstick, that was a bad move. After recovering from that I finally just went for it. We moved to another couch and had her sit on my lap, thanks again for the move seddit. Overall it went great and had her texting me to see me again the next day, and the day after all. Thanks seddit, I would of never tried the stuff I did on Friday, I had a mentality of beta before but truly being Alpha is key.