I've been reading the material for a while, and despite a few miscalibrated hiccups it's made a big difference in my life, huge shout out to seddit for all your help.

My FR is kind of detailed on one interaction but a lot of common scenarios play out

I've been practicing my body language and tonality by recording video and observing hollywood actors (Drive is especially a masterclass in subtle alpha frame).

With that foundation, I focused on some other stuff this night. I read some of Brad Branson's (RSD) stuff on drawing state from within, alpha tonality, leading frame, and vomiting words.

Onto the FR...

I opened everybody I wanted (if something caught my attention, I would speak to that) to open or if they were closeby. Great warmup, met some valuable people, and built social proof. Key points: delivering statements, clear projection, no submissive body language (eyebrows raised, smiling for approval, hunching in, etc.).

This proper HB8-9 was giving me eyes from the floor, I slowly moved my eyes to her and held for as long as I wanted to then slowly broke to the side and talked to my friend for a couple of minutes because i'm the shit and hot girls look at me with sex eyes all the time

Caught her looking again, held again then 3 seconds later got up, walked over to her, "Hey", pulled her in and got her grinding on me, get closer over time then pushing her away for a spin to see dat booty werk.

Later, she has to go find her friends, no big deal, put my arm around her and give her my phone. Told her my name, # closed, and kiss on the cheek, buttery.

She comes back in with her friends, and I hold off for a bit before going straight in like she's my girlfriend and dancing for a couple minutes. Huge mistake of not defusing potential CB as her friend tried to stop her from getting a drink with me, I tell her i'm borrowing her for a couple minutes but she ain't buying that (too reactive?).

We get drinks and I lead her to a couch on the side placing my arm on her lower back, girls fucking love this.

She's giving me crappy answers to any questions I ask and I remember to just make statements and vomit words and start talking about how she's seems like a good bowler. She's eating this up but I'm bored and want to escalate. I touch her hair and try and lock eyes but she's shy, no big deal, "Wanna see a magic trick? Close your eyes and count down from 10". Take her hands in mine and kiss her once she's at 3. Pull back a little, she's into it but reserved for some reason, push pull a little more and she throws her arms around me, pushes in real close, and gives me a right proper match of tonsil hockey.

Shortly after this, she suddenly stops "I can't do this, I have a boyfriend", my body language is too reactive (eyebrows up, smiling) "It's cool I have one too". I don't even have time to process this when I feel a searing glare on me and look up to see her whole fucking group around us, godamn ninja bitches. Her friend PULLS her off of me while she protests and I just kind of sit back not reacting (WTF do you do in that situation?)

Text all the girls I met that night the standard "Get home safe girl -Feckless" and get a good reply.

Unfortunately, she's from out of town and my second text 2 days later failed to elicit a response. "Driving around listening to the Stones = Best morning". I'll keep at it though, need to practice up on my texting.

Whew. Thoughts?

TL;DR Preopening/opening everyone, good eye contact, 3 second rule, always be push/pulling, deal with CB before it fucks you up later.