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| 1 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meGot it now... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 36 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meIs it just me or I don't see the part where he says he wants to leave her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 7 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.This is so true. I feel like marriage was designed to be a trap for women ( ironically many men have been indoctrinated into believing it's a trap for them hahaha). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:09 AM |
| 11 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴Some people are completely delusional. The worst part is that they sometimes get lucky and find someone who is willing to level up to their delusional expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:57 AM |
| 10 | They will stay mad for 7 years and never changeTypical of a narcissist. with all respect to your father. Narcissists are deeply envious people and they do remember someone who hurts their ego for a long long time. I was with a narcissist who would remember things to the smallest detail that happened years ago, and it's usually something that hurt his fragile ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:24 AM |
| 42 | A nice summary of some of the common red flags we hear about on FDSHis harmless sexist jokes and his behavior when he is made are the biggest red flags in my books because that's what tells you who they really are behind the mask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 27 | What age range do you belong to?I'd rather be single than having a bad marriage, going through a divorce that bankrupts me and raising kids alone...If men were better maybe we could have regrets...but they are not. I am choosing peace and happiness being alone than misery being with a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Never stay friends nor let your exes stay in your lifeAmen...and most importantly, always upgrade on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 10 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡I congratulate you for playing along, offering no resistance to see what comes out of him...unfortunately I learned this way too late. but for all the ladies out there going on dates, do the same, be a good listener and play along, they will tell you everything you need to know to make a decision that is in YOUR BEST INTEREST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 14 | Don't help your man find a job. And don't help women who ask you to help theirsSo so true...I remember asking one of my colleagues to assist my ex husband when he was "struggling" to get a job, only for him to get a better job and to show his true colors and ask for a divorce. my story is way too long to share here but trust me I regret wasting my own time and energy and another woman's just to assist someone who does not need it and resents you for it, and will be ungrateful anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 8 | 5 HVW Boundaries we should all set in relationshipsThank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSAbsolutely loved your response there and I agree with what you say with regards to the difference in culture and why some men believe themselves to be what they are not. https://www.fromwithin.net/3z3e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:45 PM |
| -1 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSWhat you took for signs he might be interested are your (biased) interpretation for his behavior. Surely he was nice to you but when a woman likes a man she will take "nice" for "he is interested in me". Trust me if he was he would have made a move, especially now that he knows you are leaving soon. Not to mention "interested" is not good enough, he has to be head over heels for you. https://www.fromwithin.net/3z3e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Traits of a HVW that come off as negative in the eyes of societyI feel like being "Nice" is the opposite of being "Real" and I choose being "Real" everyday of the week. I also used to force myself to be what people expected from me which is to be nice and polite and all it got me was a painful divorce in which I almost lost my being. Now I am just me and It keeps the fakes away from me and strengthens my relationships with the real friends and that's all I care about. I even wrote a post on this topic of being nice...and yeah sorry to say but nice women fini… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Strong women 💪 👑or because she doesn't have much choice...sometime you have to trust because you have no other choice but it does not mean that you really trust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:17 PM |
| 4 | How To Stop Chasing Guys and Being A Pick Meproactive Kinda true. I noticed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:47 AM |
| 11 | How To Stop Chasing Guys and Being A Pick MeJust learn how to get these 9 powerful mindsets and you won't be a pick me EVER https://www.fromwithin.net/2019/05/12/how-to-become-a-high-value-woman-9-mindsets-of-the-high-value-woman/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | That's how scrotes see women. They really think that the worst thing that a woman can experience, is not being considered fckable by some crusty, pathetic male.Most times, men who think that the worst a woman can experience is to be considered not F* able are LVM who don't know her value. A HVM won't think that for starters, and won't reduce a woman to her level of F* ability...that's how I view it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | That's how scrotes see women. They really think that the worst thing that a woman can experience, is not being considered fckable by some crusty, pathetic male."Women are like pictures: of no value in the hands of a fool till they hears men of sense bid high for the purchase" -George Farguhas high value woman quotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 23 | Men demonizing women when we stick up for ourselves?and the classic, When we are rightfully mad about something we are "crazy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:01 AM |
| 23 | Online DatingBeware of 'handsome and too perfect to be true' men on dating apps...there is almost always something wrong going on...hence the text message asking for nudes at 2am...not saying that all are the same but just be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 15 | 9 Most common Mixed Signals you can get from a man and their meaningExactly...being afraid of falling in love is just an excuse that people ( not only men ) use to hide that they only want to take from you and not give back much... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 10 | "I don't want someone that doesn't want me"I always say it. Go for the one who wants you not the one you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:33 PM |
| 7 | Mixed signals means he’s not interestedSure...I will make a post so that more girls can see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:12 AM |
| 38 | Mixed signals means he’s not interested100%. low efforts ==> not that interested. Real interest is usually not confusing and does not give anxiety. On the first sign of mixed signals,cut your losses and move on. Check this out 9 most common mixed signals by men and their meaning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Put yourself first. Always.And nobody talks about the implations that these hormonal or devices could potentially have on a woman's fertility and ability to conceive. I am not a doctor but I read a lot of stories on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:40 AM |
| 63 | NEVER have a NVM's children: NVM red piller impregnates wife three times and complains that she is now hideous and that he has been "cucked by mother nature"I could not say it any better. Really not all men are meant to spread their seeds. Back in the stone age, cavemen had to fight and kill each other in order to have a chance to reproduce and nowadays everybody thinks they deserve a trophy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:22 PM |
| 24 | Dude dumped his girlfriend after she helped HIM get more self confidence 😐100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | No contact with ex for three years randomly reaching out and sending flowers 👎This is a typical example of a man "thinking" he deserves better in his fantasy world and getting hit by the harsh reality which does not match his expectations. Just realizing that I was right when I said that men always come back, either months or years later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Wrote a love letter to a guy that wasn't good to me, and then shredded it. Quarantine is really putting my relationships into perspective.be kind, caring, delicate, and support him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:45 PM |
| 14 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.For a lawyer...I have seen smarter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:58 AM |
| 28 | Wrote a love letter to a guy that wasn't good to me, and then shredded it. Quarantine is really putting my relationships into perspective.I understand women are romantic and all that...but I think writing love letters to a man is never a good idea. It does not make them love us more if we express our love with words, the opposite happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:55 AM |
| 45 | Don't EVER let a relationship start with "sorry"Unreal...but you did the right thing...I did not even pick up on the subtle triangulation he was trying to do...I am probably still a bit naive... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:48 AM |
| 30 | What are some pills you've swallowed about dating?I had to swallow the first 3 pills same as you...and It also felt like taking the red pill...I am well awake now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManWell it all depends on how you feel about yourself being in that situation. If you are happy and content and live your best life being in your parents...then a hvm would see it as a positive that you are happy the way you are...but if somehow it makes you feel bad or unfulfilled or whatever then a hvm would sense that and may not be attracted...so as long as you are happy you should be able to attract happy people. I am assuming that you take care of yourself and all the other basic things to at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:16 AM |
| 1 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManThese red flags are about men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Queen ( High Value Woman ) MindsetThank you ♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How much to talk about your sexual/romantic past?No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | 49 Red Flags You Are Dating A Low Value ManDo you mean the 15 points or the 49 points? Other than that, i used to buy into the redpill philosophy until I realised that most male followers are low value really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | How much to talk about your sexual/romantic past?Never talk about sexual past to anyone...and talk about romantic past only to give a high level idea if you have to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Dreams and goals you have outside the relationshipGetting my business off the ground Having children Becoming financially independent | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Wealthy LVM create gold digging environment and then complain...LVM are to be avoided, wealthy or not...And referring to the last point, we could also say that all they want is s** | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 9 | My cousin needs advice. She is 25 and her boyfriend is nearly 27. Together for three years, no proposal.Do they live together? If so, then a good but bold move would be to move out saying that she is ready to get married and thought he d be ready by now but he does not seem so so she has to pursue her goal without him because that is what she wants. If he really cares about her he will not want to see her go meet other guys and will propose...but again this is a bold move and she might be too young for this kind of moves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | All because I ignored his DMs. Left his picture up so you all can see why he’s going his own way (sure it’s not by choice 🥴) if they say they’re going their own way, can they just go? And not let us know? LolThat's good news...there will be less of them on the marketplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 5 | This really does sum up dating apps. New trend: #deletetheapps2020Go on paid ones, or matchmaking agencies...forget the free apps they attract a lot of LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 12 | This is why we need to have high standards and vet vet vet! LVM value their dicks over human decency 👏🏾High standards is just one of the most important thing for successful dating. I wrote a whole post about it which was not even popular for some reason because women are still struggling with the idea that they deserve the best and are shamed for having high standards and called "high maintenance". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 23 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!That is the proof that men are always thinking about if they can do better...and us women are shamed for asking the same question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 9 | Truth Hurts.I would say, although I don't know all the details, that your only mistake is to entertain these relationships longer than you should ( I was guilty of this myself and lost a few years of making them better for someone else) and when I got it...I simply stopped making anyone better. I started ruthlessly cutting people off at the first sign of them not taking me seriously...one of them would be to introduce me to family within a certain Time frame...also need things to happen within a reasonable … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:06 PM |
| 16 | Truth Hurts.There are no dumb questions don't worry. HVM stands for high value men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:29 PM |
| -3 | Truth Hurts.Ok but I was not particularly talking about HVM. I just said "if young ones cant see your value...check older ones cause they also get a lifetime experience and a lot of them realise how dumb they were and how many good women they left behind and so they behave themselves"...and yes HVM treat women well regardless ..but how many do you find on the market place?... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:09 PM |
| 9 | Truth Hurts.There is good and bad at every age. I know what you mean but one of my deepest belief is that men can be good or bad depending on how they value the person in front of them. I was treated badly myself in the past. The same man can be very bad to a woman and be lovely to another one. It is terrible but I have seen it in action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:57 AM |
| -14 | Truth Hurts.No that's not true...if a young woman dates an older man it does not mean she cant handle the younger one...in the same way an older man does not necessarily have a "need" to date younger...of course this is not a rule and sometimes it is very much the case. As a general advice, a woman should look for whoever sees her value...regardless of age. The comment about older men was just to support the message of the post. It is undeniable though that men mature a bit older than us women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:54 AM |
| 12 | Truth Hurts.That's why they should look for older...because most young people are too dumb to see our value...did not have enough experience for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:54 AM |
| 10 | If the (clown) shoe fits....Thanks for making me laugh this morning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Truly moving onExactly...it's none of your business anymore and while you might still be thinking of him...he has already moved on. I am a believer of RP principles but I think you need to test the guy first to see if he is worth being RP with him. Something to learn for your next relationship...don't give your all until you see reciprocity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/20 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Truly moving onHe simply "used" the TRP principles to advance his own cause which is not always to find true love and value it. Sorry you are going through this but don't worry too much because there are good men out there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/20 11:17 AM |
| 4 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineOMG this is so so true... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:42 PM |
| 11 | Just blocked the guy I thought was the love of my lifeDon't feel bad...you did what needed to be done... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on how to get over an ex - The best revenge is massive success - Frank SinatraCouldn't agree more...ps I also live in a Western Europe country...Women here might have a different view on the RP. It does not mean we cannot debate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on how to get over an ex - The best revenge is massive success - Frank SinatraI disagree...a lot of red pill men give this exact same advice to their male community | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Cute loungewear – UK/international?Primark have some decent quality cute homewear, not the best quality on the market but the best value for money. And I love how colorful and fun their homewear line is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Nice women always finish last, Who agrees?Thank you 😊 really flattered | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Nice women always finish last, Who agrees?I actually did not read " Why men love bitches" but I am glad to hear that the post has similar aspects to the book as It all came from my personal experience. and of course I agree that there is pleasure in serving a man ( I am redpilled) so long as it is done from a place of confidence and security and not trying to get his validation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/19 04:25 PM |
| 7 | How do I deal with my lingering anger?I totally agree with you, the looks is just the first thing to look into. Then there is the character. The only thing I would say is that men dont even get to look into character if looks are not there...and I even noticed that character alone is never enough for them while looks can be enough when the person is really hot...I realised that sad reality when I took the redpill. So definitely work on both. Give him a little reminder of how awesome of a person you are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/19 10:16 AM |
| 19 | How do I deal with my lingering anger?I have to agree with this...my instinct says the same. if not interested in someone else, he is not as interested in you as he was in the past. If his behavior makes you angry and uncomfortable, that tells me there is something wrong in it. And the fact that he is asking you to change your reaction and stop being angry means he disregards your feelings because he is mostly preoccupied by his own...very bad sign...it does not mean he wants to leave you or anything but his level of interest is low… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/19 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Losing myself/Codependency & Being a good wifeI feel for you and I know exactly what you mean by losing yourself. I have lost myself in a 2 years marriage and I could not recognize the person I became trying to cater for him and avoid "making him angry". Here are my thoughts on your situation and some suggestions: Congratulations on realizing that your husband is responsible for his emotional state, it can be quite a daily struggle to just get your own emotional state right, you are not responsible for anyone else. You can of course help, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Feel guilty about makeupIdeally you want to be happy with what you have "au naturel", meaning the best is to be happy with your face without makeup and makeup is extra...thats where tou get real confidence. And if nose is an issue maybe you can consider reconstructive surgery, it is usually to correct imperfections which resulted from injuries and things like that. You should not feel guilty because you did not choose anything you have and it was probably an accident what happened to you. just work with what you have b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 04:07 PM |
| 19 | Feeling uneasy about socialising with boyfriend's ONSI agree with what you said. It is not a relationship I would invest in. It is also very unhealthy to hang out with a circle of people that include girls he slept with even if you guys were on a break. If you guys are young and have been on a relationship for years, he may be feeling like he is missing out. So even if he is with you now, it does not sound like he is committed to you ( and thats totally fine maybe you should do the same) I would not want to be in a position like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/19 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Is there a pretty girl privilege?There is a definitely a pretty girl privilege and that is just how the world is ( I know it because I took the red pill and I can see things exactly the way they are) . Now that you know the rules, you need to make them work for you. First of all, you need to ask yourself why are you the least pretty of the group? Is it really because you are born like this or is it because there are things which are totally under your control that you are not doing like going to the gym, taking care of yourself… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/19 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Reassurance?To complete H2orocks3000 comment with whom I agree 100 %, it seems that you guys have different attachments style ( he could be the avoidant and you could be the anxious style) which would explain why you "need" reassurance from him while it makes him pull away from you and need space for himself. This is an unhealthy relationship dynamic and taking time to think about it is actually not a bad idea, because if you feel that you need reassurance from your bf, it is probably because you were not g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/19 09:59 AM |
| 3 | 20s to 30s: Dressing young, feminine and conservative during the summerI am also in my early 30's and I like a sober chic style ( and sometimes a bit of fun). Depending on where you live you have brands that specifically target your demographic. My personal favorites are Reiss, &other stories, WHBM I also love to follow fashion icons like Meghan Markle for inspiration. I share my style and pieces I love on my pinterest https://www.pinterest.ie/lovinfashion88/ if you want to have a look. Hope it helps | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | 20s to 30s: Dressing young, feminine and conservative during the summerI love Reiss and I agree that it is perfect for women in their 30's | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/19 12:46 PM |
| 15 | Obedient vs Doormat: Contradictory advice in RPW literatureI just would like to make a point that marriage does not guarantee the man will stick around even though it is definitely safer than just being in a relationship. I would not advice to let your guards down just because you got married to him ( speaking from experience). The two points discussed in those books seem contradictory only on the surface. From a red pill perspective, you should be doing both and almost living two life in your own head, one life where you build everything around the man… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/19 07:53 AM |
| 3 | I'm feeling really bad about a comment this guy saidThis guy's comment was definitely rude and you should not feel bad about what he said, but at least he said what he thinks...Other guys would think that and never say anything. If this comment hurt you, It means you do not like the idea of you having casual sex with many guys or the idea that other people would perceive you that way. If so then you should avoid doing things that suggest that...and apparently having sex with a guy for a year in a motel suggests that. ( a year is a very long time … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/19 09:08 AM |
| 9 | Do you offer to pay and insist on paying on every date? Or going Dutch? How do I let the man feel manly yet stand my ground?I would do exactly that If I was still dating...and I wish I knew this before. From a redpill perspective, you should order what you are prepared to pay and wait to see if he offers to pay | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/19 08:47 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsThere is an online site that has many niche sites some of which are for specific religions but I am not sure if they cover all religions. At least if you join one of them you know that you will share the same religious beliefs. http://www.cupidmedia.com/en/services | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | ‘Not Good for Dating’You should not be worried that you will never find anyone for many reasons: You are very young and you have plenty of time, many things can happen in just a few months when you meet the right person ( Meghan Markle was in her mid 30's when she met her prince). You are probably dating men your age who are not emotionally ready for a serious relationship, so do not take these relationships as a benchmark. Once you change your environment ( start working...etc) you will meet men who are at a differ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/19 04:27 PM |
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