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What could go wrong other than she locks you up in her basement and you starve to death? If this movie is going to be your last, make sure it's a really good one.
/r/seduction11/07/26 02:32 PM
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If you prefer books that are more modern and written by men try these: F. Scott Fitzgerald – The Great Gatsby. The theme: Superficial charm vs. moral worth. The hero appears wealthy, charming, mysterious — and throws grand parties. But ultimately, he’s a romantic idealist, used and discarded by the female character, who returns to the shallow safety of her husband. Try these too, they're about missing out on love by being cold and correct. Their message is be warmer and more open, be yourself, f…
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:41 AM
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You need to read some of the classic literature, especially those written by the great women writers. Your problem, your sadness is the theme in many romantic books. Charlotte Brontë – Jane Eyre I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will. Jane, despite being modest and socially inferior, insists on the dignity of her character. Her strength is moral and internal — not based on looks or status. She rejects being treated as inferior simply because she la…
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:32 AM
1

How does someone get -9 karma? Oh, maybe someone who thinks rape is a possible solution.
/r/seduction05/06/24 07:16 PM
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Yes. It's called "fake it until you make it", and sort of "train hard and fight essay".
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:50 PM
1

I agree 6-8 days is the sweet spot. After that the testosterone goes down.
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:13 AM
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If you can't even write the word SEX then you probably won't have it.
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:26 PM
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It's there already. In No. 2.
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:14 PM
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If you're going to be nervous, embarrassed, scared, hesitant or even a small amount of any of these you'll lose the battle before it starts. A woman wants from a relationship with a man sexual attention, orgasms, leadership, protection, status, children and probably a few more things. The size of your penis has no bearing whatsoever on those things, none at all. With women you need to be highly confident, masculine, physically strong, decisive, high status, generous and more - again, none of the…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:52 PM
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I can only speak for myself. I have 2 sons, no daughters. I want the to be total alpha. Why would I want them to be beta?
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:09 AM
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Truth game. Works every time. It goes like this: tell the truth and you gain respect. Simple.
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:31 PM
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I didn't kiss a girl until I was 22.
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:20 PM
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I think most men are like this and women have no idea. They think we're after one thing only , they're right we just want a relationship.
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:54 AM
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Someone like you has to break the home-work-home cycle. Force yourself to do things not work related and out of the home (screens don't count). Edit. Added the word home.
/r/seduction28/01/20 08:59 AM
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Simple words and so correct.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 02:29 PM
1

The bad news: you really do have to kiss her to kiss her. The solution: accept the possibility of humiliation as a fact nature, and go ahead anyway.
/r/seduction15/10/19 06:51 PM
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Yes, my experience and others too (see nofap), is that women are more attracted to men who don't masturbate, or haven't ejaculated in the last ~7 days. Not that they get scared/suspicious of men like that, the opposite they are attracted to them. Women don't like some men, they call them "creepy", and it's the unattractive, low testosterone, masturbating men who are the creeps for women.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:02 AM
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I'm sorry, you sound paranoid. There is no connection between no fap and women being suspicious of you. There opposite is true. Do keep up what you're doing (weights, caring about your appearance, no fap and more), meet women in "easy" places (not bars, cold approach). Above all get rid of the shitty incel attitude - I'm a loser, women hate me, I hate women, I'll die a virgin - fundamentally it's your negativity that's holding you back.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:43 AM
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Keepup with abstaining from PMO. Women can tell if you are a masturbator. Your sexual energy must be focused on real women and not on the imaginary ones on your screens. And, please, please don't become an incel. They are so pathetic.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:33 AM
3

That's solid advice.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:28 PM
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PMing you now.
/r/seduction26/07/19 04:25 AM
-7

You need to learn what a paragraph is.
/r/seduction26/07/19 03:49 AM
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Nothing original there bit still good solid advice.
/r/becomeaman07/01/19 02:43 PM
1

I sign up for No. 9. I would add: listen to everyone.
/r/seduction29/12/18 08:47 PM
10

That's beta?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 06:52 PM
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Best TRP comment I've seen in a while. Of course you don't want to watch another man having fabulous sex with a gorgeous girl - be that man yourself; and of course you don't want your hand making you cum - you want a gorgeous girl doing it. Save your sexual energy for the real world. Why waste it on a screen?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 06:51 PM
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It's a positive sign that he's "ashamed".
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 03:12 AM
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I'd be happy to explain but what part of Talking TO a man is a waste of time, and will often make things worse, it's got to come FROM him, didn't you understand? It's a fundamental off all therapy, rehabilitation, behavioural change, that if the subject doesn't know there's a problem nothing will change. BTW kara (above) wrote similarly: Your husband is going to have to acknowledge that there's a problem. Sorry, but getting him there is very difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 03:06 AM
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A few points. Talking to a man is a waste of time, and will often make things worse, it's got to come from him. Porn is a relationship killer for many (not all) men or is a symptom of a bad relationship. Western society and modern media tells us that thin women are sexy, actually a bmi of 18 is not ideal at all. (Really apologise here, don't want to body shame you). You get other men to do man stuff in his house? This is not good. Agree with you that r/deadbedrooms is awful. They say grin and be…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/18 05:51 PM
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I was ... being masculine; I rode a motorcycle, lifted weights, rock climbed, and other stuff. Being masculine in SF then was frowned upon. I would guess that you would have gotten laid in any society, not just a society saturated with gay men. Women are attracted to fun masculine men regardless of political correctness!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 04:36 AM
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Man's advice is essential: approach, stop with 2 feet firmly on the ground and your belly button facing hers, nothing acting as a barrier (eg arms folded), direct eye contact, open your mouth, talk (preferably not rubbish). No, you do not have to be the biggest, wealthiest, tallest.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 12:24 PM
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This is really a forum about sex, not about how to seduce potential sex partners. (Whispers, in r/seduction they'll say this technique is likely to succeed.)
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:18 PM
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Not sure what you mean. Can you expand a bit? (Always helpful up start a post with age and gender.) My bet is that you're going to delete this post in less than an hour.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 01:07 PM
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Do the owners or your flatmates agree that you bring women home? Do you have your own room? Is your room welcoming, clean, aesthetic?
/r/seduction27/06/18 12:13 PM
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I think monk mode is important. For a short period, maybe a month. We were/are addicted to PMO. A short period without orgasms is probably necessary. I felt I really benefited from it. After the initial 90 days a full cleanse will readjust the brain to associating orgasm with another person and not with a screen.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 11:55 AM
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Nuts. Almonds, walnuts etc. also peanuts (which aren't really nuts).
/r/askTRP16/06/18 04:07 PM
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You got loads of advice here - https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/8efcsm/im_24m_never_had_a_girlfriend_or_kissed_still_a/?utm_source=reddit-android! Some is really good - exercise, lose weight, stop being sorry for yourself. Did you read the comments? Did you implement anything? Looks like that you enjoy posting the same post multiple tubes times without taking the advice. Seriously sad.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:43 PM
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Oh no. You are so wrong (except for the bit where you realise it's fake). The more a person's ego is inflated, the more they act superior the more likely they are insecure, suffering from inferiority, even shy. Look at women, approach, talk to them. They want you to make them feel secure again. They want to be rid of all that fake stuff that society forces them to display, all that business, all that "I don't need a man" shit! It's your difficult task to do that.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 08:33 PM
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What do you mean by "sarcastic apathetic humour"?
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:43 PM
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Yes. All the time. But firstly why compliment, and secondly why are you approaching girls just to compliment them?
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:43 PM
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Pay for passport. Start swiping 2-3 weeks before you arrive to your destination. More than that and your match might get bored and move on to another, less and there's not enough time to build something up via text. Move to WhatsApp within minutes. If she doesn't agree forget her. Be upfront, in your profile or first text say "I'm a tourist, here from ... ", just don't lie. Women appreciate honesty - tinder is so full of lying men (height and marital status to mention two)! London is a big city.…
/r/seduction25/05/18 12:16 PM
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Rejection. Answer - short, polite, dgaf.
/r/seduction08/05/18 03:58 PM
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You're right, they're not the enemy. It's just an expression. MRP and TRP is largely about understanding women (hamster, wall etc.) Read that post and you'll understand. Thanks for your input. Please try and keep the discussion on a higher level. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:19 PM
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Ever heard of the expression "know thine enemy"?! Women, and that one's a fine example, use that sort of whining to get their way. Most men fall for it. Glad to know you're not one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:12 PM
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"Would you prefer that I be average to you?" Chances she gets the pun are very low.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:34 PM
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I am 51 and have had dark bags under my eyes for years. They were worse, people were telling me all the time how I look tired. So I did these things and my eyes look a lot better. Stopped drinking coffee. Stopped smoking. No salt, this is very difficult but let's say I cut down a lot. Plenty of drinks. Nettle tea (yup it works). Massage with oil under the eye every evening, there are special eye creams but almond or another "quality" oil are just as effective. All the other tricks did nothing fo…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:12 PM
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Long trouser legs please. The leg of the trouser should touch the heel of your shoe. Gives the appearance of a longer leg.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:11 AM
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I find it difficult that you describe in detail your current situation but not your goals. Do you want to deepen you isolation? Do you want marriage and a family? First know what you want and then go about attaining it.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 12:44 PM
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That girl with the human rights poster is very cute, not at all ugly.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 12:13 PM
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Please, please, forgive me for teasing a bit (a lot). I really wish someone would've taught me seduction when I was in uni!
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:56 AM
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She's all yours. Well done. Your cute romantic oneitis is a winner, because women just love clingy men who idealise them from afar. Of course she knows you truly love her because you've flirted with her by "looking at her". Get her email and send her lovely messages, she'll definitely fall for you like that. Don't bother approaching, it's OK, the pretty ones like the shy type. Lucky for you she is the pretty lab instructor for dozens of horny young men but she knows you exist.
/r/seduction09/02/18 05:52 AM
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Always meet at BJ's restaurant.
/r/seduction26/01/18 11:28 AM
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Voice memos?! I hate getting them myself. Do you think they are effective with women?
/r/seduction30/12/17 10:06 AM
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But don't you need Facebook to start a new tinder account?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 01:38 PM
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Nice. I like that.
/r/seduction21/12/17 08:19 PM
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Nah. I gave up on her (reason is in the texting). Plenty of others to banter with.
/r/seduction20/12/17 10:39 AM
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Girls do that. They worship musicians, actors. Boys do it too, but girls more. If you ask me it's pathetic. Never mind. Just treat it like nothing. The most is to tease her about it, otherwise ignore. Really sounds like you're jealous, no need to be.
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:11 AM
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Sounds like she's playing with you. That's OK, shows she's interested in you. The trouble is you're playing back, allowing her to lead - you're the puppet and she's pulling the strings. I suggest you back off for a while (double the normal amount of time you'd normally interact), then message her, something like, I'm going to xyz I'd love to see you there. Add, in a friendly way: this is an invitation for you only. Don't go back to the mall until you've been on a date, enough of that.
/r/seduction20/12/17 05:06 AM
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In my experience racists are inconsiderate, very dumb and have low self esteem - not good characteristics for any inter-personal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 10:22 AM
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Great list. But, most of these aren't 'discoverable' in the space of time it takes to do a ONS. Like, how would you know if someone is racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:52 AM
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I often tell myself: "shut the fuck up". It's a wonderful thing. It's just magic in so many situations.
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:40 PM
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Why would you want that? You don't need girl friends you need girlfriends. I know men who have stacks of female friends, it gets them nowhere. They need to invest a lot into the relationship to keep up, likes girls do - lots of Facebook, hanging out with them etc.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:01 AM
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And it could be that her love at 30+ is an amazing alpha man. Alphas marry too, usually to popular pretty women.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 05:27 AM
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Not convinced. Especially if the strangest argument is "it's obvious". A woman can ride the CC and then hit the wall when she gets to that age, fall in love and settle down quietly. Happens all the time.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 04:51 AM
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Who says that oxytocin goes down each time a woman has a partner?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:48 PM
1

What is Test and Tren please?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/17 02:29 PM
4

I think this is excellent advice.
/r/seduction04/11/17 01:33 PM
1

Is he British? Yes. But couldn't you say: Are you British?
/r/seduction18/10/17 04:23 AM
1

Must admit that I've never used it irl, but it works wonders on tinder!
/r/seduction18/10/17 04:21 AM
1

Would you prefer dragons existed or angels? Do you like my cologne? I like your dress/scarf. I'm having a great/terrible/difficult/fab day. How is yours? Hi my name is Man. What's your name? Do you like getting your bottom spanked? The weather is so lovely/awful today. I'm bi but you're making me think I'm more hetro. I used to have great pick up lines, but now they bore me.
/r/seduction17/10/17 08:15 PM
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The only sensible point in your post is that even fat, short, ugly, non-American students have sex. So at least you realise that weight, height, looks and race are not essential elements here. To get laid, to pull, you need to be attractive. Go out and be attractive and remember not to be unattractive.
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:00 PM
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Awful, awful advice. Just act normal - be assertive, flirty, alpha. Acting like a needy, creepy idiot is none of those things.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:26 AM
1

That's really good advice.No. 3 is so important. It's counter intuitive but you have to keep things separate.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:43 PM
1

Yes. I read it again. Thanks. Probably the advice is not so relevant to me. I'm 50, and don't have the fear (approach anxiety) that many men have. Nevertheless, I find it almost impossible to "jump" from a vertical flirty chat to horizontal and naked. I like your blog, great stuff there, will dip into it again.
/r/seduction16/09/17 06:18 PM
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Don't quit. 2 little points. AMOG = alpha male of group unfuckable milfs This is a contradiction of terms.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 01:43 PM
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I actually think your advice is weak on two counts: (1) I am willing to bet that you are muscular, broad shouldered, young, above average good looking, charismatic and over 6 foot, or any combination of those. So, of course, you don't need more than "hi ... " to get a woman interested in you. For the 49% who are below average good looking, or the 70% who are less than 6"2' we need to put a lot more effort in. No silly chat up lines, no fake posing, just a lot more effort than "hi ... ", somethin…
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:31 PM
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Mrs Cozbi is not interested. I would like a girl friend, with both an emotional and a sexual relationship. Poly seems the obvious choice. For about a month she agreed, and then rescinded! I'm back to cheating :(
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:23 AM
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I know 2 couples where poly seems to work, one is an all male triad. I do want a girl friend and a wife. That would be a second, and secondary, emotional and sexual relationship. Better, and safer, than cheating, which is what I did in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 03:53 AM
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I've always wanted to play in a orchestra. Bach, Mozart, Beethoven. It looks easy. I'm a natural. I'm not thinking about being a first violin, just one of the guys in the orchestra scrapping away on his bow. Tomorrow I'll buy a violin and turn up I'm sure they'll let me join in. (I was thinking of using driving as an example but that'll be too scary.) If you want to be good at something, anything, learn how to do it, practise, watch and listen to others, and learn some more. There are rules and …
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:16 AM
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I thought that women like sex to be nice, gentle, sweet, that they want a cuddly, fluffy toy/man in bed. Pathetic I know. My excuse is that is what women told me they want, and what I saw on mass media. As soon as I realised the truth my sex life rocketed. The other shit that I deeply regret is porn, masturbation and prostitution. Good sex is what we need, with a real person - not an image on a screen, not a prepaid service. Sex is good for men if we've put the effort in, chase,, seduce and fuck…
/r/askTRP03/09/17 02:59 PM
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I love your style. Great punchy stuff. You're energy comes through in your tinder profile and this excellent post.
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:59 PM
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That's heavy advice. Thanks. The nice folk at r/polyamory seem to say otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 04:59 AM
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Because I love her and she's the mother of my kids and I can't afford to get divorced!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/17 04:02 AM
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I do. A month ago she agreed, quite spontaneously, but, a few days ago rescinded! Very annoying.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 09:32 PM
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Happened to me today. We went for a long walk. Half an hour into the walk, we are discussing a not insignificant topic - being polyamory - and, she blows her top, turns back and walks in the direction of home. Old me would have run after her. Today I just continued walking. When I got home she is all kisses and sweetness. (The poly thing is still contentious.)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 06:52 PM
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Read this, you can scroll down to the question about the comparison between sex and masturbation. https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/6fztw7/i_told_uloulan_that_not_masturbating_will_make_a/
/r/askTRP24/08/17 07:28 PM
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Not masturbating will make a man stronger and sexier and therefore more attractive to women. There are plenty of scientific papers discussing this and much hearsay evidence. The problem with masturbation is mostly the internet porn that usually starts it, but masturbation itself ruins a man's sexuality, his masculinity. There is a common misconception that masturbating reduces testosterone. The loss of masculinity from masturbating is not caused by a reduction in testosterone it is caused by dam…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:57 PM
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Quite true that nofap doesn't raise testosterone see https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6vqyof/girls_approach_me_more_on_nofap/dm2d7eq for a short answer about pheromones.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:38 PM
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There isn't a one fix solution. You have to find the root cause and work from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 12:06 PM
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I cannot directly help you with that. I can tell you that you need to look for the root cause. For many men this will be lack of confidence, for others lack of care for the partner's satisfaction (I was probably, partially, the latter). Another cause (older men) is weak muscles. I found my solution myself. You might need professional help.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/17 09:10 AM
3

I realized at that point that I'm the prize. That's so perfectly put.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 11:23 PM
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This is perfect. Probably the best post ever. How to be yourself. How to just be yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/17 03:37 PM
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Love to know how it works out. Good luck.
/r/seduction29/07/17 03:36 PM
2

I was waiting for that. Women love it when you can fuck them standing up while you hold them in your arms. If she wraps her arms and legs around you and she weighs about 60-70% of your weight then it's easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 02:23 PM
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The obligation became desire. She might have started off doing it out of fear or duty but her body took over. It's similar to fake it until you make it. If you pretend you're good at something you become good at it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 03:45 AM
1

Reading TRP made realise what was/is happening. Dead bedrooms doesn't provide proper solutions other than talking about it or divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 03:41 AM
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Thanks for sharing. That's a great story. You did well. All men should learn from that. It starts with 2 things: get out of the house more (preferably the gym) and no preconditions for sex (choreplay).
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:32 PM
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I've heard of that 30 day, every day sex idea. It works for women to kickstart their libido. And, well done. Excellent implementation of basic principles.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/17 04:27 PM
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being yourself, making a girl feel comfortable, making her laugh, being attentive and making her feel desired. You are so right. These 5 elements are an important part of seduction and all male interaction with women. If you can do them you will seduce women. The trouble is that for me, and many other men, they just don't come easily, naturally. So, you learn how to do them. It's called game, frame, seduction, pickup, alpha, whatever.
/r/seduction12/07/17 04:42 PM
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That's actually a good tip. Don't approach women who are trapped, don't approach women on the train. If they can't walk away don't approach.
/r/seduction24/06/17 02:00 PM
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Best chat up line ever: Hello, my name is xxxx, what's your name?
/r/seduction19/06/17 10:40 AM
1

Apart from confidence and attitude, women also initially see body size, physical fitness and musculature. Men can increase muscle size, lose weight and get fit. Also, a decent haircut, nice smell, getting rid of glasses, suitable clothes, clean skin and good teeth are variables that men can improve on. Also women are attracted to higher status men, another variable. Skin colour is very subjective. In my experience people are mostly attracted to a similar skin colour to theirs and for those that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 05:44 AM
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Don't do this. Please. It could be totally innocent, maybe to arrange something for the wedding. You're unfairly jumping to conclusions.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 04:41 AM
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Best post for ages. Thanks. When you're not reading, lifting or STFUing, try some MMA, boxing or karate. Fighting is marvelous for a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/17 10:23 AM
1

Biceps too. Women find them just as sexy.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:44 PM
3

Naive question coming up. It's this scenario possible? You: I guessed 3. What did you guess? Her: 4. Looks like you're not getting a date. You: Damn. Shit. Her: Bye bye. Please tell me you have a way of getting out of that.
/r/seduction31/05/17 02:28 PM
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What's the connection between TRP and Brexit? Good luck. Your post touched me. Whatever the result is keep going, be strong.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:10 AM
1

I read this, well skimmed it actually. It's far too long, you're repeating yourself too much. Initially I am thinking it's more of the "positive thinking" shit; just think the right thoughts and all will be good. Afterwards I realise that you're right. Quite a few times I just didn't believe it could happen, so it didn't.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:27 AM
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I'm not a scientist. I find it strange that so little research has been conducted regarding the effects to testosterone of sex, masturbation and porn.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 05:19 PM
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Ejaculation (both by solo masturbation and sex) reduces testosterone, see http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/selected-testosterone-research. 7-8 days after ejaculation there is a boost in testosterone and it then returns to normal http://www.zju.edu.cn/jzus/2003/0302/030219.pdf. The loss of masculinity from masturbating is not caused by a reduction in testosterone it is caused by damage to the androgen receptors. The androgen receptors inhibit testosterone. If a man is masturbating many times a day …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 01:48 PM
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Masturbating to porn is bad, masturbating is bad, and porn is bad. Sex is good. Regular sex is not addictive, it makes you feel good. Maybe if you constantly, excessively, have sex (3+ times a day) you'll feel shit!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 01:32 PM
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10 days is just about the worst period of time. The addiction cravings are then the strongest. You need to totally detox. Stop masturbating and looking at porn for at least 90 days. Getting past that 1-2 barrier is very hard but really worth it. Personally I don't agree with OP, it's really all or nothing for me, so I am now 100% nofap. One of the best decisions of my life, my only regret is not doing it earliery.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 01:27 PM
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At around 7 days you want to be where women can see you, and you want to have sex with those women. If, let's say, you fap on a Sunday, maybe on Tuesday you'll be at a party and will want to get sexy, but it's only 3 days since you last ejaculated. Best is just not to fap at all and you're ready to go more often. Remember the 7 day theory is not just about masturbation, it's about all ejaculation. Although, masturbation does emasculate more than person sex, and internet porn odd highly addictive…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:49 PM
3

I agree with this. PMO addiction is like alcohol, most can do it in moderation, a large minority cannot. The addicts have to abstain totally.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 01:41 PM
2

I really agree with you u/Archwinger. Thanks. It's not feminism that is the problem. Strong, independent feminist women are having lots of sex with cool, fun positive men. In fact feminism freed women and allowed even encouraged women to be sex positive and sexually active. The problem is men with inferiority complexes, men who don't understand that women (feminist or not) only respect and are sexually attracted to confident, assertive, interesting men.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:31 AM
47

Great post. Really interesting. Please, please share with us your top 10 replies to "you're short". Oh, I'm 5"7 (on a good day).
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:01 PM
2

Haha. I was waiting for that comment! I wasn't specifically talking about myself. I get more than my fair share of sex, thank you (not from tinder). And how do you know I'm not 6"?
/r/seduction01/05/17 03:48 PM
12

Not bad except for one tiny, little flaw (yes I am being cynical). How do you get dates? Step 2. Go out and actually start going on dates. Use Tinder, ask girls you already know out, stop girls on the street and ask them for coffee, doesn't matter how you find them. Just start going on dates ... . Most men, those who aren't over 6 foot and exceptionally good looking do not succeed on tinder etc. If you don't get dates the rest of the advice is simply redundant. Men are approaching, men are using…
/r/seduction01/05/17 03:17 PM
2

I started MMA/karate at age 42! It's difficult at any age but really worth it. Improves self confidence, muscle power, posture, flexibility and more. Sensei said the real age to start is under 8, those who start at that age are going to be able to kick head high for the rest of their lives. If you're older you're not going to be flexible enough for full kicks but never mind.
/r/seduction18/04/17 06:38 AM
5

I haven't even finished this and I want to see how good it is. "Sticky eyes" that's a great one.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:51 AM
1

Eye contact is good, it's never creepy (unless you lock on for too long). But, looking at woman's body, especially from behind, that is creepy. Read the article!
/r/seduction06/04/17 07:54 PM
9

I seen a few videos like this and have been suspicious of their authenticity. This one I am not suspicious of at all, I am sure it's fake.
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:45 PM
1

Is bartending status? What happened to being a lawyer, doctor or engineer?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:03 AM
1

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201503/how-the-menstrual-cycle-affects-womens-libido
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 01:58 PM
2

I agree. Online dating is difficult for older men. If you GTFO of the house and actually talk to women, approach with confidence, then you're chances go up a lot. So, yes get out of the house.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:20 AM
1

Prostitution sex is very different than sex with a woman you don't party cash to! I advise against it, especially for a virgin. A real sexual experience does not involve going to a place where you know in advance that you will have sex there, paying money and within 10 minutes you're ... naked. A real sexual experience involves subtlety, lots of emotional intelligence, a decent level of personal hygiene and outward appearance, a conversation, a slow build up of sexual tension, lots of foreplay, …
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:46 PM
2

It's not just the liberation of women and the contraceptive pill that caused this. It's also the welfare state. In the western world a woman doesn't need to marry a wealthy provider to be sure that her children will thrive and even survive. The state provides health, education and security without the need to be wealthy. (You see this slightly less in the USA, there you need a job to get health insurance, good education costs money etc.) Muscles are not the total key to female sexual attraction.…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 05:29 PM
1

Shit tests never stop. I know I'm married to a tough, sexy, pretty woman. For a good marriage you have to know how to handle them.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:00 AM
2

Thanks for sharing your story. I read it intensely and found that I have a similar notion about women and, hopefully, after 20 years of marriage, I am making similar changes. I am a feminist - women make just as good engineers, fire fighters, cobblers etc as men, and they deserve equal treatment. But what I didn't realise, is that women want 100% man at home: calm, decisive, strong, the whole package. And, also important, they want dominance in the bedroom. I'm still learning how to do be sexual…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/17 09:18 AM
3

A woman doesn't have to be a good mother. A child needs good parenting. This can be achieved far easier if both parents are there on hand, sharing. A woman doesn't need to stay at home all day to be affectionate to her man, I mean how long does it take to give a good bj (10 minutes, the other 23 hours 50 mins of the day she can do other things)?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:06 AM
4

You've forgotten that the ideal SAHM is working hard, keeping the house, cleaning, cooking and most importantly child rearing. These are not easy or insignificant tasks. The male bread winner should come home and take over looking after the children or other home stuff. The bread winner couldn't work without the home support. The home would collapse without the income. It's a partnership. The concept of the woman being some sort of slave is not conducive to anyone's happiness. Another model is b…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 09:32 PM
3

Bad link
/r/seduction01/01/17 06:31 PM
4

OK. Good. But what do I say to a woman who just announced "I'm not letting you fuck me"!?
/r/seduction31/12/16 08:19 PM
2

It depends what your buddy is looking for. Women who are happy to cheat for him usually ONS? Or a LTR with a woman who will be faithful to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:53 AM
2

There is a significant difference between the male orgasm brought on by solo masturbation and that brought on by “person” sex. The human body is subtle enough, smart enough, to know when it’s being jerked off and when it is being made love to. It starts with prolactin which is produced at each ejaculation, but 4 times the amount following intercourse than that following masturbation. There are other hormones released after sex, other than prolactin. These hormones make you feel good, satisfied a…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:35 PM
1

What does "sexualize" mean? Tell her exactly what you really want to do with her later? That's not sounding good to me.
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:54 PM
1

Your POV - gay men being closer to women and therefore understanding them better - is fascinating. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 12:57 PM
-2

Feminism is to women what extreme homophobia is to republicans. It's a loud cry for hard cock. That is the greatest. Sums up so many truths. (Of course the word "extreme" is just redundant!)
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:28 AM
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Maybe because he was gay. Can a homosexual understand women?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 09:24 AM
4

Beautiful imagery. But in reality if you want to meet a girl online then you need some decent text game. She's not going to see your you irl without the texting beforehand.
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:33 PM
1

Sometimes I think that TRP and MGTOW is the real thing. Then I read comments like this ...
/r/MGTOW03/12/16 01:41 PM
2

I was wondering about that too. What do you say? If already kissing/touching then go down a gear, reverse but don't back down, be patient? You have no idea how many times women said to me "we're not going to have sex" and, the old me, says "OK" and that's it. I was really brought up to respect women ("no" means no).
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:07 PM
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Texting is great if you're a teenage girl. Adult men should keep it to the minimum. Women don't respect men who text, or talk, too much. Approach. There is no reason not to. Women respect men who have the masculinity, the assertiveness, to come up to them and start a conversation. Eye contact melts a woman's heart. A man who maintains good eye contact is respected by women. It shows you're strong and it shows you're interested in her.
/r/seduction29/11/16 09:43 PM
1

This is an American prison problem.
/r/MGTOW29/11/16 08:53 PM
1

Separated basically means she's single so treat her like one.
/r/seduction28/11/16 06:37 PM
1

Women want validation, compliments, a sexy thrill. For some women texting by itself will supply these. Dating sites like AM are great for women as they get an ego boost, lots of men chasing them, and they don't even need to leave the house. Men also want these things - validation, ego boost etc. - but, ultimately we want to get naked. I have learnt from PUAs that texting (and FB and AM) is a woman's game, they are usually better than us at it. My advice, and you can quite consistently read this …
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:11 AM
0

If the texting is interesting in itself then why should she meet you?
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:11 PM
2

Love to know the difference between texting in N. America and Holland.
/r/seduction20/11/16 07:09 PM
1

A messy room is a totally legitimate excuse for a woman not to let you see it. BUT if she had thought of you sexually, if she wanted you in her bed, it is more likely that she would have cleaned it up in the first place. Ask her out on a 3rd date. Don't forget to tease her for being a slob before you meet because it'll remind her to clean up on the chance you'll be there (and teasing is always good).
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:22 PM
0

Excellent advice. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:13 PM
1

Do it immediately. Nothing to lose from being quick and direct. It's a clear alpha sign for her.
/r/seduction17/11/16 12:10 PM
1

OP has done a runner!
/r/seduction13/11/16 05:46 PM
1

People are just people. Or rather, men are men, and women are women. Are you, let's say a Chilean planning to move to China and date local women? Or a Saudi Arabian woman going out with a Christian European? Probably not. But in those extreme cases you will need an extra sensitivity, maybe some minor research. It's nothing that's impossible. More likely you are an American and again, let's say, you're a white Christian man planning to date local, black, Christian women. The difference between yo…
/r/seduction13/11/16 02:43 PM
3

Sex is a language, a means of communication. If someone is kind, loving, interesting, energetic (and more) - it'll show in sex. Also someone can have great sex with one person and it's awful with another. It's chemistry and biology and physics combined. I'm reminded with great embarrassment and shame of the 9/10 girl - so hot, sweet (and more) - and I would regularly fall asleep in the middle of sex with her, only girl it ever happened with!
/r/seduction11/11/16 11:22 AM
3

Thanks ten and satin for first class tips! I usually like when a guy is flirty, but relaxed as if he doesn't care which way the evening goes (we both obviously care, but it's less pressure). But if you just treat it like it's not a big deal, and take the attitude that you're a quality guy who she will want to meet up with eventually, you come across as a confident, trustworthy guy.
/r/seduction07/11/16 05:51 PM
5

I'm not a fan of TRP (women, even feminists, aren't the enemy), but this post is first rate. Alpha male fights the fat.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:34 AM
1

Haven't read that in 30 years. It's so alpha male. I'm so far away ...
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:24 PM
1

I actually moved over to contacts. Eye contact is so much better without glasses. I live in a very sunny region and I always take off sunglasses when talking to a woman (even if she is wearing them). Gotta keep up the eye contact.
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:31 AM
1

Gorgeous!
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:19 AM
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Perfect. Upvoted
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:57 PM
1

Don't talk rubbish, don't blather like an idiot. Don't say negative things, keep it all positive and friendly. To answer your question, the body language and the confidence are more important. Read this thread What's the most unique way you've initiated contact with a girl?. Some fun ideas. But really don't make a big deal out of it. And no pick up lines.
/r/seduction02/11/16 04:40 AM
3

I doubt it's what you talk about. Difficult to say exactly but the words don't matter too much. You need to stand in front of a girl, feet firmly on the ground, open stance (phone put away), your belly facing hers, keep up gentle eye contact and smile. You could start with a little compliment regarding something she has control over (not her body or anything genetic) - clothes, hair etc. Then ask her questions, get to know her without sounding like the FBI/KGB. Ask her opinion on something ("do …
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:16 PM
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Very appropriate post. Women are difficult, amazing, problematic and above all contradictory. WYSIWYG does not apply to women. It's what-you hear-is-not-what-you-get. A few months ago a woman walked into my house (2nd meeting) and says "we are not going to get touchy". I'm such an idiot, I took what she said on face value, sat a little away from her and didn't touch her. I should have - gently, of course - got closer and touched her. But, be careful, "no" doesn't mean yes, it means more like: "t…
/r/seduction01/11/16 11:35 AM
1

Take a survey. The next ten women you meet go up to them and say "hi do I like better with glasses [glasses are on] or without [glasses are off]?" Smile maintain eye contact while you're doing it.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:40 AM
1

Why doesn't this appear in r/seduction? I'm looking through the "new" posts, and it's not there!
/r/seduction26/10/16 04:05 AM
1

I've watched that vid at least twice. There is no way he's eyeing her up, certainly not her behind.
/r/seduction22/10/16 12:12 PM
1

That stuff, it's not hard - it's all easy. Only, you have to put effort into it, you have to invest. Don't expect results the easy way. Success only comes to those who push themselves hard.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:09 AM
4

What are you waiting for? For the leaves to turn brown and fall, for when your tummy next says it's time for a crap or for after the next Olympics (closing ceremony)?! Get in there today, now. Be cool, be sensitive.
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:02 AM
1

It says yes I am old but I'm still young and fun. Perfect.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:36 AM
2

Where are you? Are the Indian girls newcomers, foreign students, or are they acclimatised to your local dominant culture? When dealing with people off different cultures, especially women in a seduction setting you have to be extra sensitive. Listen and watch for little signals quirks that might not pop up in the culture that you are used to. Certain seduction techniques are universal: strong eye contact, making the girl laugh, politeness, male dominance and probably more. But always be careful,…
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:25 AM
0

What is - "a round of rolling in BJJ". Sounds kinky.
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:07 AM
3

You do care, but showing you care is counter productive!
/r/seduction12/10/16 01:16 PM
2

You have to make your own network. Sitting at home looking at a screen isn't going to help. Social media is a way to make friends but the friends must be irl, not online. Get out the house. That is the best advice. Millions of things to do out the house. Sport, hobbies, religion. Anything that involves people, preferably men! Women come later.
/r/seduction07/10/16 08:29 AM
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I don't accept this advice. At least the analogy is all wrong. Human interactions - specially potentially romantic intereactions - are fraught with much difficulty, require lots of subtlety, oodles of emotional intelligence, a decent haircut, some personal hygiene and lots more. If I state my intentions openly I will massively screw things up! Should I go up to a woman and say: "hi I am thinking of having sex with you, my penis will be hard if you smile at me and show me how you look from behind…
/r/seduction07/10/16 07:15 AM
1

Start the other way around. What do you like to do? History? Do not sit at home watching history videos or trading books, do local tours, go to lectures. Religion? Join a church. Basically any club, organisation, activity that you find interesting, that involves interaction with lots of other people. Even better are places that force you to interact on a higher level. Salsa classes, drama groups, book clubs, volunteering with people. But don't go to a church of you're not Christian, or to breakd…
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:43 PM
1

Standard, but good advice. But, what's the connection with the picture?
/r/seduction04/10/16 02:19 PM
9

As soon as I saw that it's from "The Sun" I didn't read. It's a UK tabloid, the most notorious, trashy and least reliable.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 06:29 PM
3

Accent is useful but don't rely on it. You still have to escalate etc.
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:01 PM
2

Excellent tip. I'm good at eye contact and getting better at touching. I must remember to keep the eye contact going when touching and not look at the touch! Where did you learn this?
/r/seduction27/09/16 06:00 PM
2

Please tell me you don't really use "copulate" other than when writing poetry and to rhyme with populate.
/r/seduction18/09/16 10:52 AM
1

Hot water is good at killing germs.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:52 AM
13

Live the punchline. You're the retard, not her!
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:20 AM
1

The commons advice here is to limit as much as possible screen time with a girl. You meet a girl, you like her, there are IOIs, send her 1 msg after 36-48 hours: "I'm going to x, would you like to join me". Men are not good online. All the FB, IG etc. are places women excel at. Women need validation. So, a girl posts another selfie of herself and all her friends, including beta men, say/lie "wow, you look pretty". Keep well clear of all that.
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:07 AM
2

Screenshots?
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:56 AM
1

Wow. I think I'll move to America (and join OK cupid)! Why do you think it is that black women in America are less desired than white?
/r/seduction06/09/16 09:43 AM
0

She's very beautiful. But, you are very good looking, handsome. Easily a match for her. An ugly old fat idiot is not going to get s girl on that level even with tonnes of confidence and bags of game.
/r/seduction06/09/16 05:01 AM
2

Are black women handicapped when it comes to dating in the US? How so? Are they less likely to be approached by both black and white men? I'm a skinny white older man, do I have a better chance with African-American women (next time I'm in the USA)?
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:58 AM
0

Hey get out of your basement. Well done you pulled lots of HB10s. Look around. Most couples are of the same level. A beautiful woman will go with a similar standard man. You might be exceptionally lucky, talented etc. Most are not like that.
/r/seduction06/09/16 04:15 AM
1

No pain no gain. If you want painless then don't get up in the morning (or just fap all day). You need to set goals, play hard. That's the only way to win. I think that all your questions are about playing safe, nothing dangerous, taking shortcuts. Give that attitude up. Go for the jugular. The only way is confident.
/r/seduction05/09/16 10:54 AM
0

That's not a wall of text, there are paragraphs.
/r/seduction05/09/16 03:28 AM
5

You're looking for shortcuts. The path to success, in many fields, is long and hard. Do not concentrate on one thing. Do everything as best as you possibly can.
/r/seduction02/09/16 08:52 AM
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"He can bring us breakfast in the morning"; "A boyfriend ain't no obstacle for me". Forgotten the rest, there are plenty more.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:36 PM
1

Do you kino? Eye contact? Maybe you ask them where they live too early.
/r/seduction27/08/16 03:46 PM
3

I think that's a low level IOI. So, were there any other IOIs? If not. Next.
/r/seduction26/08/16 06:01 AM
1

Something to do with complimenting? Help us out here ...
/r/seduction14/08/16 02:13 PM
1

Note to myself: take the bus (or train), a lot more.
/r/seduction10/08/16 01:24 PM
1

Wow. Very helpful post.
/r/seduction09/08/16 03:26 AM
7

Could it be a polite excuse? (I've got a boyfriend. Just come out of a relationship. Busy now. I'm a lesbian.) Women do that. Remember you've got lots of IOIs. Also many gays are bi, in other words persuadable. Don't pedestal her. She sounds lovely, keep going. Your only danger is being friended!
/r/seduction08/08/16 11:30 AM
-1

Haha. You call that a problem?!
/r/seduction07/08/16 03:38 PM
7

I love it that you helped the shy guy. Well done. And, without belittling your good deed, it made you even more alpha, a leader.
/r/seduction31/07/16 03:22 AM
2

living with dear old mum and dad made the morning quite interesting! Thankfully I sneaked her out alright and dropped her home. It's their house so you should keep to their rules. Did you ever ask if it's ok to bring a girl home, including serving her breakfast!? Ask, you might get a pleasant and positive answer. Assure them that there will be no random weirdos, or drugs/alcohol, safer sex is a priority and it's better to do it at home than in a public toilet or a park! I have two young boys and…
/r/seduction30/07/16 05:03 PM
1

Your You're reflected in them
/r/seduction29/07/16 09:42 AM
1

Wednesday (but only because it's harder to spell), although the abbreviation of Wednesday is Wed, a generally dangerous word.
/r/seduction29/07/16 09:40 AM
2

Excellent. That is NOT the best advice I've read about texting, it's the ONLY good advice about texting I've ever read. It's just perfect. TL;DR mix it up, keep her on her toes.
/r/seduction29/07/16 09:26 AM
1

100s of sources and explanations on the supreme importance of listening. Try this for starters Hostage Negotiation Techniques That Will Get You What You Want.
/r/seduction28/07/16 04:39 AM
3

Did she let the robe slip off and was naked underneath and said "take me!" then yes. Was the robe tied tightly and she said "I'm just having sex with my husband, please leave now" then no. In all probability the real situation lay somewhere in between.
/r/seduction26/07/16 11:35 AM
2

Excellent post. Thanks. I have seen HB8 - HB9 going completely nuts for a guy because he was beautiful ... he did not achieve this because he had "game". In fact tthey did not even talk much. I don't know that you're correct, difficult to ascertain. Maybe the latter, they did not even talk much is the key. A taller, better looking, higher value man, has more self confidence and it is that that turns women on. Talking too much is classic beta behaviour, the confident alpha man is quieter. You can…
/r/seduction25/07/16 09:02 AM
5

Interesting post. I suggest you delete the woman's name. It's a breach of confidence.
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:11 AM
1

I pay. At least I assume that I'm going to pay. She insists on paying for me or halves then it's no problem. I just don't make an issue out of it. Be cool/alpha.
/r/seduction19/07/16 06:25 AM
2

My eye contact is so much better now since I am r/nofap. It's important to utilise it to the max.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:23 AM
1

I've been pilloried on some subreddits for not towing the party line, saying something against the doctrine (eg I said I'm attracted to feminists on the Red Pill). I am here to learn and exchange ideas.
/r/seduction18/07/16 06:20 AM
1

That sounds good as well, nice style, I'm sure it works. Oh my, I used to be a terrible mumbler - like I talked into my beard and I didn't even have a beard. That's all behind me now, I talk clear and slow and directly to the listener.
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:03 PM
3

I think the primary is the eye contact, kino is secondary. It's simpler and more natural to keep eye contact when sitting opposite. You can touch her even when you sit opposite and when you get up to go. Also you can move round to her side if it's going really well.
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:01 PM
3

Firstly, and most importantly, I love home made pizza. Haven't had it in years! Good story, even without the pizza. Don't want to be hanging around waiting for her text when she could be likewise hanging around waiting for yours. I think I'll edit my post!
/r/seduction17/07/16 08:06 AM
1

I'm a big fan of martial arts. I am not good at the one I do, but I think it's a great sport/hobby. Karate, judo, boxing etc will give you a great workout, boost your confidence, improves posture and is social and fun. Another good one is indoor rock climbing.
/r/seduction16/07/16 04:44 PM
3

Please don't give me that bullshit - "You can have great oral skills or fingering skills". It doesn't help. In the bedroom once you've got her naked and horny various skills are going to be useful. It's not bullshit. On the way to the bedroom she won't know and wouldn't care how big your shmeckle is. It's your confidence, your sexy personality, smile, smell, social value that's going to get her to the bedroom. Do not walk around with a sign on your forehead (Tinder profile) that's says "I suffer…
/r/seduction15/07/16 05:20 AM
1

Stop obsessing about race and colour. It's a lot less important than you think. Also why besmirch white blonde American women? Some might be racist, most are probably not. If you want a woman (of any race or colour) you will need bags of self confidence and sky high self esteem. Approaching a woman thinking "I'm brown and Indian, she's probably racist and won't like me" is a superb game killer! You could even use that as a crazy opener, go up to that tall, blonde, white, blue eyed 10 and say "hi…
/r/seduction15/07/16 05:05 AM
0

You must have something to continue with once she replies ...
/r/seduction12/07/16 09:16 AM
11

I think that's a rock hard pick up line. Total truth, zero bullshit, complementary complimentary, direct. It's not weak, in fact it's strong++ because you are saying that it was hard and scary but you did it! Look her in the eye with full confidence, small smile, no hesitation and it's a winner. Will you use it again?
/r/seduction10/07/16 03:41 PM
1

OK. If I think what he is saying in simpler different words is that a charismatic sexy attractive man has a charismatic sexy attractive way of looking at women. That's obvious. If you are good looking, have amazing pick up techniques but look at a woman like you would look like an 8th grader looks at his maths teacher then you ain't gonna get anywhere. Look at a woman, but look at her eyes only, imagine she is naked etc. That is powerful.
/r/seduction07/07/16 02:09 PM
1

Fascinating article, all true and excellently written. Thanks. A little too abstract for me. What's the difference between "staring" (which you mention a few times) and eye contact?
/r/seduction07/07/16 09:13 AM
1

Best piece of advice of read here in a long time.
/r/seduction06/07/16 05:08 PM
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We obviously have different concepts about feminism. Feminists for me are women that are women++, more feminine, stronger women, they have educations and careers, (a career, for men or women, does not contradict caring for children), feminists embrace men and masculinity as an equal force but one which only a feminist is equal to, there should be no hatred towards men, they do want to change societies' laws to increase equality (so do I). A simple definition of feminism is the advocacy of women'…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:29 PM
-2

Wow you really do not like to hear a different opinion.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:18 PM
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I jerk off way too much to some very non-vanilla porn which I'm guessing has desensitized me to real women and normal sexual situations Wake up man. There are no shortcuts, no easy magic. I suggest: * that you get porn totally out of your life forever, yup, no porn ever again; * no masturbating for a long, long time, at least 120 days, afterwards very sparingly, and without porn of course; * celibacy for a short period maybe 30 or 45 days, yes zero orgasms for 6 weeks. These are the "proven meth…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 11:17 AM
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I'm always nice to workers/servers/waiters. My mother taught me that if you smile and are friendly to them they'll be nice to you back. That's not the same as trying to pick them up of course.
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:23 PM
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Love to know the answer myself. Those sort of women never even send you a lousy little "yes I had fun but you're not for me" or "thanks but no thanks" just the full, blinding, silence treatment. Might be that she's actually ambivalent, she likes/fancies you but sees no future. That ambivalence, indecisiveness, makes it difficult for her to give a clear answer, yes or no. She's not keeping options open, it's closed for her but she can't bring herself to say it. Any idea anyone?
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:12 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis#Semen_displacement
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:06 PM
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Well done. Keep it going like that. Each time you'll get more and more confident.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:24 AM
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If you flit from one eye to the other it can make you look shifty or hyper.
/r/seduction02/07/16 03:19 PM
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That's not a complement. If you're 36 and they thought you're 27 that's complementary.
/r/seduction01/07/16 05:28 AM
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You're too old for me" talk What do you say after that?
/r/seduction01/07/16 05:24 AM
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Pick up gurus are 100% alpha males. They give advice to weak beta males. Their advice might be good but it's like a seeing person describing colours to a blind person, or a lion telling a giraffe that meat is tasty, or telling an alcoholic to "just stop drinking". The levels of understanding are just so vastly different. Also, if someone has a phobia the usual therapy technique is desensitisation, scared of spiders have a look at a picture of a spider, then a toy spider, then a video etc. AA, li…
/r/seduction30/06/16 11:35 AM
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Please no "comb over". If you're partially bald you have to shave your head. It's very macho/alpha. Girls love it
/r/seduction29/06/16 05:06 PM
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Love this
/r/seduction28/06/16 11:54 AM
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Best advice I've read here. Thanks
/r/seduction28/06/16 07:00 AM
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Be aware when you go into interrogation mode with girls.. they fucking bore easily, I could literally see the lights in their eyes turn off. Oh no. That's so me. Start asking questions because I've got nothing to say, and I was always taught people like listeners. What should I do after the opener if not ask the girl about herself?
/r/seduction23/06/16 06:05 AM
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crazy homeless guy Tell us the truth. He was your wingman? Maybe a plant and you paid him!?
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:50 AM
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Always wear sunglasses when out on a sunny day. It is better for your eye health and looks cool. But if you get up close to a woman whip them off so she can clearly see where your eyes are ie looking at her, into her eyes.
/r/seduction20/06/16 09:19 PM
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You forgot one interesting and important eye feature, the limbal ring, it shows youthfulness. Your list is more like an ophthalmic examination than an eye contact hack. Can't see the point myself.
/r/seduction18/06/16 07:35 PM
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Can you tone down the talk around women. Not cool. Men don't chirp. It's sexier to be a listener.
/r/seduction15/06/16 07:43 PM
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Thanks. The good advice I needed.
/r/seduction15/06/16 07:40 PM
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You are so wrong. Try it and you'll know the difference.
/r/seduction14/06/16 07:09 PM
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Oops. Sorry
/r/seduction14/06/16 06:57 PM
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If a woman looks at you but avoids eye contact she is acting submissive and wants you to initiate, a clear sign she is attracted to you. A man should always make eye contact with a woman. For years I had a problem with this and didn't understand why women would ignore me after a first meeting and not move forward. Try this: look for 2-3 seconds at her left eye, look for 2-3 seconds at her right eye, optionally also look at the middle of her lower lip for 2-3 seconds. Keep your eyes locked to her…
/r/seduction14/06/16 11:12 AM
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The irony is that PUAs and r/redpill think that feminists are their No. 1 enemy when in fact the women we want to seduce deserve the same sexual excitement that we want, equal sexual opportunities. Now that's feminism. Do we want to go back to the old days when a woman who had sex before marriage was considered wanton, a "bad" woman.
/r/seduction14/06/16 09:33 AM
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Never talk dirty or even sexy, it does nothing for almost all women (except for the worst kind). It's not a good way to check sexuality. You need to get in closer physically, she's not your friend. Keep eye contact at all times. Either look into her eyes casually, or lock your gaze to her left eye, move over to her right eye and then her lips, a few long seconds each move. Get closer, touch the elbow, touch her hand, not like a mate, flirtatious, gently. Gradually, very slowly, get even closer, …
/r/seduction13/06/16 07:44 PM
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Ask her questions about herself. Fun stuff, you don't want to sound like the FBI. What do/did you study? Do you work? What's a really good or bad date for you? How do you exercise? What's your favourite cloths shop? Make it about her.
/r/seduction07/06/16 06:59 PM
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My friend, you have no idea how important it is. Join /r/NoFap ASAP. TL;DR if you're jacking off women find you less attractive.
/r/seduction04/06/16 03:37 AM
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Dealing drugs is a fun idea? I guess you could meet all sorts of "likable" people: drug addicts, hospital workers, police officers, lawyers, probation offices ... and some lovely sociable people to share a cell with.
/r/seduction04/06/16 03:34 AM
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Thanks that is one of the best posts I've read. Great advice.
/r/seduction01/06/16 07:07 PM
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Because you're an idiot not clever, you don't appreciate what you've got. A great rabbi said: Who is wealthy? The one who is happy with his portion!
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:48 AM
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I think the friend is unacceptable. Tell her clearly that it's a date: one on one. The date must be in a neutral, public, safe place. You want her alone but you want her to feel not threatened.
/r/seduction30/05/16 10:29 AM
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Rigid class structures and rigid racial delinitations.
/r/seduction28/05/16 06:01 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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