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The way he worded it as pictures that ended up on the internet (no verb actor) rather than clarifying that this was done without her permission leads me to suspect the wife might have actually put them up herself. Not that she deserved this of course. He also refused to elaborate when people asked him to elaborate on that point. I have a feeling he already knows this is not actionable. At least in the US, it's despicable but that's it. Even if they were in fact revenge porn, the neighbor would s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 07:04 PM
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idk...I think most men, especially millenials and younger, understand that. It's even a big part of incel philosophy. It's mostly women I see rushing to reassure men that women see the whole package first and not their looks second. Though I do agree that most people can find someone if they take care of themselves and don't have abhorrent personalities. What's physically unattractive to someone can be attractive to someone else. I think a bigger problem is that people assume that just because s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 04:35 PM
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Yeah it's healthy but it's boring as fuck and he would make me feel bad about enjoying spaghetti or potatoes. I don't think liking boring food is a red flag. Some people have texture problems on top of that. Criticizing your food choices all the time is. As well as making you pick out ingredients they don't like after the fact. There are a few things I don't like. If they're the main ingredient, I would rather not eat the dish but I would just find something else to eat and it's no big deal for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 03:36 PM
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It depends on where they were posted and if they had any inkling she didn't want them online. Revenge porn usually requires intent. That is, to knowingly distribute material you knew weren't available online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:38 PM
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Might be implying they're a sex worker who's not disclosing all of her income sources though the real goal would just be to discredit her with the jury. Also, civil cases are much laxer about evidence rules than criminal courts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 09:34 PM
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I want to know what the porn defenders said, especially the libfems. If porn is like all other goods, then this man must be doing something good, supporting this woman. I mean, if she had written a book and he wanted to buy it, that'd be laudable, right? Maybe he should even buy some physical copies and gift them around. If not, I wanna know what's wrong with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 03:35 AM
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I don't think he'll go for it either but while it would look bad, the charges he'd get would be better than murder or voluntary manslaughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:51 AM
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The only changes to personality FDS advocates is to stop being a pickme. That's not "tailoring your personality" for men, it's called working on your flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:39 AM
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Notice the nice guys who were applauding her for staying despite all the red flags. Where are they now? If leaving means being a POS, then call me a b***h because my bags would have been packed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:30 PM
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I'd be more careful making pseudo historical statements such as these. It pretty much absolves men who lived in societies prior to the advent of the nuclear family of their oppression of women as well as the men who currently live in such societies. I am from such a society and the men were still on top. The women got more help raising the kids and maintaining the household but the men still made the final decisions. They were the heads of households. That is to say, while there were/are probabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:36 AM
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I never thought about this but this is a good comeback for all those scrotish aspiring evolutionary biologists. Plus, if they leave and the woman gets with another man, what do they think will happen to their own offspring in that hypothetical stone age society they like to reminisce about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:09 PM
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Yes but if scrotes make it just about housing costs then they can sweep everything else under the rug and only focus on class issues. This is the only way for them to sympathize with those women because it lets them bring the focus back to them and their own issues with housing costs while ignoring their additional concerns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:05 PM
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It's also a rare complication that can occur when girls have sex too young but scrotes want us to believe menstruation means sex ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:00 PM
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It also helps that if things get too rough, the bottom is on more equal footing with the top when it comes to physical strength. I do wonder if it's due to a rectovaginal fistula, a tear in the walls between the vagina and the rectum. This would naturally only occur in women. Now for another horror story, it can occur with vaginal intercourse during very rough sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:30 AM
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I mean, definitely a lot of pervs too but it's also because of the prestige of the branch and the fact that there are way more residencies in OBGYN than urology (andrology not even having a certifying board let alone residencies). The good news is that as of 2018, over 75% of OBGYN residents were female. Not sure if it's because of the attitude in this post. I've heard more female patients are requesting female Obgyns for example. Or if it's the malpractice insurance. Obgyns pay the worst premiu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:27 AM
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I think as a privacy safeguard, it's good. However, it should come with exceptions if the person recording was doing so to record a crime (whether it actually was a crime or they believed it to be). How is that not an obvious exception?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:42 PM
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Tbh, reading her post and her other comments, I'm pretty convinced it's a bona fide pickme. She reads exactly like the ones I've met in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:29 PM
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That's why I included it. She kept arguing with that guy too. Like sis, take your L.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:15 PM
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If true, that's the ultimate flex over that pickmeisha. On the other, it's from an AITA story so veracity is doubtful. ​ Also, I guess newspapers take stories from creative writing subs now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:38 PM
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I mean, I get the thought and all but scrotes would generally be super glad for that kind of attention. A lot of those reversal scenarios just don't work because they think it's flattering. Maybe if they thought the girl was absolutely hideous but even then. I feel like a lot of scrote would only understand if it was another guy hitting on them like this. Then they'll act super offended or even get violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:58 PM
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I mean, I guess the free rent. Then he'll get to hold the threat of homelessness over the head of any woman desperate enough to take this deal whenever he doesn't get his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:38 AM
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Exercise dates just seem more anxiety inducing. Imagine worrying the entire time about whether you're sweating too much or if you're looking ridiculous running after that ball.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:32 AM
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Yeah, I notice it all the time on Reddit. Always whining about female "influencers" and ethots but somehow male youtubers and streamers are so different. I don't see how subscribing to a dude makes you a fan but subscribing to a woman makes you a simp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:21 PM
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I always lie about certain details when online. Too many doxxing horror stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:17 PM
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Europe. They don't need to attend college and get a bachelor's first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:13 PM
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It is very common for those suffering from eating disorders to state that they are suffering from both anorexia and bulimia rather than EDNOS when it would be more applicable. A lot of them disagree with the DSM classification so that part didn't raise any particular red flags. This WAS posted to a sub known for its creative writing experiments however.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:40 PM
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I mean, this is Reddit so idk why I expected better but it still shocked me how many felt bad for OP as opposed to condemning him when he could have easily walked away. He could have even just requested a different girl which would be scummy but not to this level. I guess this is the only kind of unhappy sex worker stories allowed, the ones where according to reddit scrotes, the victim is the john.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:45 PM
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Most people on those types of shows are in the entertainment biz so IDK about using his acting as evidence. Though does anyone actually break into acting going from one of these? I echo those who said signing up for this show is LV for both sexes. But I at least expected those who sign up to understand the rules, stated and unstated. Like of course, she can't just say ILU when it's not the end yet. As a cynic, I'm also skeptical of the whole thing. Surprise break up for the obvious couple? I hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:09 PM
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Men can fight other men for the pettiest shit (see how many are in jail for bar brawls) but any fight between women is a petty catfight. I have noticed that a lot of women have internalized that thought process and will talk about female colleague in worse terms than their male counterparts. Like I get that you have a serious disagreement but in no way does that mean that female coworkers in general are pettier. That reminds me of GoT where Sansa and Dany didn't get along but it was because Dany…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:11 AM
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Well there are 2 biological arguments I can think of. First, pregnancy. Men generally leave contraception up to the women and bail if it fails. Not worth the risk to most women. Second, a lot of women have never had satisfying sex so why expect better from a quickie neither of them are serious about? Men can hump once or twice and come even if she's as dry as the Sahara and think of that as an adequate sexual encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:00 AM
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Well she does get a lot of xenophobic and islamophobic hate but in this case, Somali American girls arein the top 3 at risk demographics for FGM and she represents a sizeable Somali population. I think it's disingenuous of her to act like questions on her stance about this issue are not relevant. I find it worse that the question came at a Muslim caucus conference (so issues that specifically affect Muslims should be expected) and from a Muslim activist. I thought the website was a bit iffy so I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:16 PM
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Lol, 4 days ago she was posting one a BDSM forum asking for a "daddy" who will treat her like a servant. Now I really want to know what their exchanges were like up to this date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:37 PM
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I discovered her very recently and I'm so in awe of her intellect! She's making a very good point here. What's the point of making yourself less intimidating for men just to have to go through the piles of scrotes that will attract?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:25 AM
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Women need to stop asking for advice on those popular subs. Nothing but hate awaits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:29 AM
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Yeah no. That's definitely reaching. I wouldn't say I hate cats, I even find many of them cute in pictures. I just would never live with one. Then again, I simply wouldn't get with someone who has cats. The bf probably just doesn't see pets as part of the family as many on Reddit do. In that case, the rehoming says more about the owner than the bf. I suspect many cat and dog owners don't think of pet spiders as equivalent. Well, imagine it's the same for the bf and people like him. As for reason…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:23 AM
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It occurs to me looking at the prom pic that the dad clearly likes the date. Coupled with their body language and his smug grin, date is probably just like the dad and will go on to raise daughters the same way. Continuing the cycle as it were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:07 PM
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I'm not sure how trials are conducted in France but I know if I was on a jury for a similar case, there could be video of a woman shooting her rapist/pimp father while he slept and I would acquit due to self-defense. Also, just a reminder that if you're called for jury duty, never answer in ways that would give away your feminist leanings so you don't get dismissed while the misogynistic jurors stay on. Be as neutral as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:37 AM
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Most libfems who espouse that line also understand that flat rate taxes are unfair and why a progressive tax rate is better. That is, wealthier people pay a higher tax rate so they can have a more equal burden since 10% for them is nothing while 10% can be very onerous to poorer households. Why does this principle not apply to relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:06 PM
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I do think it's counterproductive since it derailed the whole discussion on pay equality but then again, they would have found a reason to ignore their complaints regardless. Plus, notice how they were silent when Korean women were protesting men spying on them with hidden cameras. No outrage then on behalf of the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:01 PM
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Well it's Vice. Sound dating advice: never date anyone who takes Vice seriously. Also, that's a terrible picture to use. The size disparity between the two had me thinking it was a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:27 AM
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Until our country provides legitimate support for mothers of divergent or disabled children I mean, it'd be great if that happened too but even then, why wouldn't the parents try to maximize the chances of their children facing fewer hurdles in life? Plus you never know to what level the child's quality of life could be compromised. It might be that they just need some therapy and some extra help in school, or it might be that they need multiple surgeries and will have violent episodes that land…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:46 PM
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This to be honest. Sperm is cheap. If the man has some serious genetic issues, if he's HV, he should be okay going to a high end fully vetted fertility clinic instead if he wants children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:35 PM
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I mean, I assume it's because for most of human history, it was family throwing the celebrations. So of course they celebrate things that bring big changes to the family dynamics. This also tends to be cultural. In my own culture, it doesn't matter what sort of party it is, people will show up just to celebrate. It's only that weddings, engagements (those for example are not particularly common in my country), and christenings are more common. Also parties tend to be expensive (less so now but h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:17 PM
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What in the beautiful male is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:08 AM
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Speaking of, we all know damn well they're never going to vote for a woman to a high powered government job if she has sex work in her past. Getting elected as a squeaky clean woman is already hard enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:16 PM
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I mean, tons of people love fast food and would never date a fast food worker. Most people recognize the contribution of janitors and garbage collectors but there's still a huge stigma against dating them. By itself, it's really not that uncommon of an attitude. And people would also think it's terrible not to tell your SO your line of work because of that stigma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:10 AM
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Sheesh, I'd want to lock up my son too (if I had one lol). One minute they're your innocent little boy, next some NVM is online teaching them about redpill and/or alt right depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:03 AM
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If at least women were getting the same pleasure from sleeping around! Stats say they aren't. Logistically speaking, it's just that much easier for a man to get his fill and dip. So not worth dressing up for. I almost fell for that BS that women don't need to reach the zenith for the encounter to be worth it but I could have have stayed home with B.O.B. for that kind of service. Just like women cannot act the same as men when it comes to our careers. Even if we did away with sexist attitudes at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:39 PM
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“How do you know she’s not doing this for friends? Why do you assume it’s for men?” I'm so done with this. Why yes we can't tell that this half clothed sexually suggestive pic is for thirsty males. It's usually very clear when a pic is meant for the male gaze. That's not to say that men won't sexualize even the most prudish pics but we all know which ones were meant for sexual consumption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:17 AM
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There are also the ones who think any criticism of libfems mean it's open season on women. Yeah just because I don't think sex work is a viable career path doesn't mean I think "thots" are destroying civilization or don't deserve human rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:58 AM
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And if they ever break up in the future, best believe she won't find a man who would do the same. She basically killed all of her future dating prospects unless she sticks to other ogres.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:05 PM
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I wish she would but unfortunately, I can already see where this is going. "So you agreed to rough sex and he was too rough and disregarded your safe signals? Was it perhaps a failure to communicate? Did you misremember the signals?". This is why rough sex should not allowed as a defense when a sex partner shows up bruised and battered. I have read cases in the UK where men were allowed to walk after killing their partners during sex because it was "consensual". In no other circumstances does th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:47 AM
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While we're at it, the "friends" who notice how they mistreat their less attractive friends and keep making excuses for them or dismissing their friends' concern are not worth shit either. Why would you even date someone like that? The minute you gain some weight or start a less time intensive beauty ritual, you've already seen how he'll treat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:35 AM
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Why do men think that's attractive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:04 AM
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Lol at protesting topless. I mean, I get it, men get to go around topless and it seems unfair that there would be laws against women doing so. At the same time, those protests seem very counterproductive. The reason why they gain attention is mainly because men want to stare at some naked breasts which is why the law is there in the first place. I don't think it should be illegal but you won't be catching me at one of those protests getting legally photographed for pervs on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:06 AM
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When it comes to custody, the only thing ironclad is parental rights. I am not saying that to scare you but many deadbeat parents have slithered their way back into their kids' lives after the other parent's death since the stepparents usually cannot adopt unless their parental rights were legally severed (which is different from not having custody).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:00 AM
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A lot of people complete the adoption BECAUSE of the legal rights. If the bio or sole adoptive parent were to die, the child's custody would be up in the air. I have read horror stories about those legal fights too. So I guess the one true piece of advice remains, don't marry trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:47 AM
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And if that poor woman is so brainwashed that she would in fact do that, she needs some FDS in her life stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:19 AM
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This hits really close to home. Just take one look at the hatred that women who love Disney get. Reddit is the worst when it comes to that. Always mocking those people then turn around and applaud men for their legos/childhood videogames collection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:07 AM
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