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markpf73/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 06:27 PM
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Basic Questionmarkpf73/r/askMRP27/04/18 11:11 PM
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Hah - I still remember before our seconds kid’s christening...my wife on her knees sucking my dick in the master bathroom while the whole family was downstairs waiting for us...ah young love, isn’t it grand .
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/21 12:01 AM
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For some yes, for me no. The feelings that make my wife fuck like a porn star: Feels sexy - proper kino and resource provisioning towards her fitness, beauty, and clothing routine. Feels optimistic - the captain of the SS good times is sailing forward to a great destination. Feels safe to be free and vocal - get the kids out of the house or get her out of the house. Feels fun - have fun shit planned as a family or as a couple or have just done some fun shit. I mix these all together and life jus…
/r/askMRP23/06/20 10:54 AM
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It’s natural to not want to fuck the oldest teenager in the house. This feeling you have is early stage progress towards outcome independence and doing what you really want in life. This feeling you have should lead you to the realization where you’ve kicked the pussy off of the pedestal, and you do things for yourself...not the approval of the oldest teenager in the house.
/r/askMRP14/06/20 01:16 PM
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The most important advice no one gave you - avoid becoming a slave to possessions and obligations so you are free to pursue risks with potential high returns. I passed on a distributorship opportunity in my line of work well over a decade ago. It would have involved scraping by financially for a couple of years. However I had some other obligations I chose to meet in lieu of that opportunity. I’ll never know how that would have turned out. Life as it is today is a success but who knows what that…
/r/askMRP13/06/20 01:47 PM
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Liquidity - have it on hand to take advantage of opportunities when they are on sale in a fire. 2010-11 I looked at a south beach condo that was on sale for 450k. By 2018 it was listing for 2.0M. Too bad I was broke then and couldn’t afford a second home...but I’m not now. Just waiting for opportunity to present.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:57 PM
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185 for 30 - put a dildo on the ground and go ass to grass on that pussy. It is good cardio for sure - my heart rate hits 180bpm by the 15th rep with no dildo on the floor. Then I hit the treadmill for static cardio with HR at 180-190bpm for 25-35 mins (no butt plug needed). Drops the body fat like clenbuterol did back in the late 90s. Fuck you and your open gym - enjoy!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 06:17 PM
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Starting over at an entry level position and rebuilding sounds like when a guy wants to nuke the family and start over from scratch with a 26 year old. Pros and cons - depends on how long you can stomach the grind of an entry level job for. But hell if I was hungry enough I’d do it to put cash in my pocket.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 06:06 PM
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If the purchase improves your consistency and frequency of lifts then it is worth every penny.
/r/askMRP18/05/20 02:12 PM
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You wanting to build a pool house sounds similar to a wife asking to renovate a kitchen during covid - is it really a desire to flex and show the public what resources you have while others may be struggling? You’re right on the hold off...Save the pool house for your bachelor pad.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 02:42 PM
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It was 38 billion - 4% of amazon’s outstanding stock. He left the divorce with 120 billion in net worth and retained all voting rights in his company. Fast forward 1 year and even after a pandemic his net worth is back above $160 billion. To boot, his ex wife has no voting rights in his business. His freedom was worth $38 billion. He made up for that divorce settlement in less than 12 months. It’s not how much it costs you to get out...it’s what it costs you to stay.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/20 01:22 AM
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I’ve been looking at (aka mentally masturbating over) the oura ring and whoop band as a way to avoid the overtraining/undertraining trap. Using HRV and some other metrics to make some training decisions beyond just my feelings or what the program guides you to do... My best training gains in my 40s have been made with heavy lifts every third day with 30 mins of static cardio. The only reason I got off that path was to have more fun training with the solid base of muscle laid down over the years.…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 12:09 AM
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As the kids grow what I’ve learned is that you praise the effort and not the result. If you only praise the result you run the risk of instilling the disfunction of perfectionism. While if you praise their effort you help develop and instill a strong work ethic while helping them develop self discipline.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/20 02:51 PM
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Kids/wives and their behaviors are a great barometer of your leadership skills.
/r/askMRP11/04/20 02:25 AM
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Is your wife being more cunty than usual because she has gone without her daily dose of strange cock whilst you two are upstate at the in-laws? Maybe that strange cock during work hours was the only thing that made being with you after work palatable? Go home, offer to watch your daughter and give her your car keys so that she can meet up with her boyfriend at a thruway rest stop. And remember it’s always your fault.
/r/askMRP08/04/20 04:37 PM
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OP deleted the comment and his account like the kid back in the day that kept hitting the reset button on his Nintendo trying to play the perfect game of super Mario brothers every time he did something stupid. Poor bastard.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/20 04:01 PM
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I’ve said it before - the corporate ladder and compensation is not a meritocracy. It can be unfair and boggle the mind. You are a fool if you give them transparency, everything they want and hold nothing back. I’m guessing you haven’t started reading the 48 laws of power yet like I’ve recommended? You’ll have one of two responses to the book: 1) this is hard I don’t ever want to play by these laws. Or 2) holy shit this is amazing, I must master these to use them and also to see them in use again…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 03:11 PM
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1) In sales your leverage with power structure above you comes when you show the ability to turn revenue “on or off” at your command. Can you show that you have this ability when the CEO or BOD is hungry or starving for revenue? 2) your goal of 220 lbs at 10%...is it physiologically possible without gear? What does the lean body mass calculator that was floating around here a few weeks ago say you can do before you add gear?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 12:16 PM
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Focusing on this will not end well for you. You’re using sex as an emotional tampon to hold back all the feelings you have inside. The feeling of “i suck”, “I’m lost”, “I have no mission”, “I’m a loser”. Let all those honest feelings out and get back to the process outlined for you in the sidebar. You’ll find your mission.
/r/askMRP30/03/20 12:55 PM
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You may be overestimating your worth at the workplace. Jobs and negotiating are a matter of abundance. If you have 3 great other options that you can pull the trigger on for better compensation, long term potential, etc...then by all means negotiate. But if you only have one option then I’d say you need them more than they need you. Career options sound a whole lot like pussy - you can’t negotiate desire/salary. It’s only when they know you have options that they work hard to keep you out of tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 01:19 PM
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Hospitals in my state are predicting peak infections and hospitalization to occur on May 1st. They are preparing accordingly. They are emptying the hospital of as many patients as possible and shutting down anything that is non-emergent. Reasonable to extrapolate a shelter-in-place date that lasts until late May early June.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 12:03 AM
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Especially for red after all that ass play of his...
/r/askMRP14/03/20 03:06 PM
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Final thought if your financial ducks are in a row...parenting is a young man’s sport.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:56 PM
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We started early here (kids by 26)...but there was a plan and vision of how it would work in place. The kids were part of this plan and didn’t slow down my professional path. I had a plan but most definitely didn’t have a mission at 26. However, the plan working well and life happening led me to the mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:45 PM
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A woman married at 25 and now asking for babies sounds like a woman who is bored (unless there is a conservative religious background at play here). She is bored by the daily life you lead her in or bored by your mission/vision for your life. Consider her asking for babies and beta bucks stuff as a barometer for you having done a shitty job getting her to believe in your mission/vision.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 06:06 PM
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Wait wait wait - your 26 with solid lifting stats. Why did you get married? How old is your wife? I ask for a specific reason and it will largely affect comments going forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/20 01:52 PM
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Thoughts: 1) leading every woman is different. Some want to be explicitly led. Others need a more subtle approach. My wife innately wants to be told how much to spend, what clothes to wear, what food to eat, what workout to do, etc... Maybe your wife just needs these explicit guidances in life. Think of it like when you take the kids out bowling and they out the bumpers in the gutters. The kids enjoy bowling a whole lot more with the bumpers and no gutter balls. 2) work...there is an underlying …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/20 01:17 PM
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1) don’t panic 2) stay calm 3) calmly get your clothes back on 4) the next part depends on if they’ve had a talk about what sex is yet. Kid didn’t know what sex was so we sat all together as a couple with our child and explained what they just walked in on...something to the effect of it’s something that married people do as an expression of love, it’s fun, and the noises you heard were mom having fun. Explained to kid they weren’t in any trouble and we weren’t upset that they came downstairs. K…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 04:39 PM
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About 5 years ago (despite my beta faggotry) things were actually going pretty well in regards to sex. Kids were both under the age of 8/9 and one night we were fucking like savages on the couch (kids had been asleep for a few hours). Just as she was coming like a rocket one of the kids grabbed her by the foot. This was a bit upsetting to all parties involved. Couch fucking was now a thing of the past (PTSD for my wife). But unless the kids are out of the house (especially now that they stay up …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 12:31 AM
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Couple of thoughts: 1) Your squat and deadlift # just don’t match. Deadlifts usually don’t lie. Squat almost equal to DL usually means you’re not squatting deep enough. 2) Side plates - I’ve started to view them as they really are just women looking to branch swing. The plate thinks half of you post divorce is a huge improvement over their own shitty position. I’m not looking to move financially or time-wise with my kids in the wrong direction. The one caveat is if the girl is in her early 20s s…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/20 01:16 AM
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When I was working 18 hour days and both kids were under the age of 2, I did two things. I Acknowledged That I felt like shit and then did something to physically feel better. In the morning I would do 100 push-ups while I was waiting for the shower water to warm up. Do them naked and the reflection in the mirror should make you angry enough to do more. Then somewhere in the middle of my work day if there was 30 minutes of downtime I was putting in a quick HIIT workout in the gym. You can do thi…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 01:09 AM
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Sounds like a good OYS post: a list of all the ways in which I fuck myself...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/20 01:22 AM
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Nah no MGTOW here. I love pussy too much to go down that road. However an old saying which never made much sense to me started to - “if women didn’t have pussy we’d hunt them like dear”. it’s a bit of an exaggeration but there’s some truth to it. My wife brings great value in the family with the way she is a mother, she brings value in the house she makes a home, she brings great value in my business with her social skills. These are the things that I shower her with praise about frequently. But…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/20 01:16 AM
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Women rarely have a vision of something bigger than they currently have. They have fantasies of fame, fortune, and success. But rarely do they have a vision of how to get there. A women who grew up in shit can not easily become a princess or a power broker because she will subconsciously and continually try to destroy everything and everyone around them. It is in the shitter where they are comfortable. It is one bad emotionally based choice after another that chains them to poverty, and unhealth…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 01:56 PM
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Mission is built by way of a similar path as the book “The Road to Character”. It is built in the process of life. But only if it is a life that has core tenants to guide your daily choices and actions. You can’t google your mission, you can’t ask someone to give you your mission (because then you are just a puppet to help them accomplish their’s). You will find it yourself in the process. But only if your process is guided by the right core tenants.
/r/askMRP20/02/20 08:40 PM
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Is this post a complaint about working with or for women? Or are you seeking advice on how to navigate? 1) For starters you sound like a big fat or skinny faggot for complaining that affirmative action is the reason why you’re not the boss of everyone. Just saying...you sound butt hurt. If you were that good you’d be there. 2) Female boss or male boss? any boss can be a nightmare or a dream. It all depends on how you play the game. 3) climbing the corporate ladder amongst men or women is no diff…
/r/askMRP18/02/20 01:47 AM
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I just wondered how fat his wife is?
/r/askMRP15/02/20 05:45 PM
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They don’t tell - they take it to their grave and they always backslide and do it again and again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 11:18 PM
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So is your question about why you suck at holding frame with 1) your wife or 2) your kids? You failed as a father and husband 5-7 years ago when your kids were 1-2 years old. Sleep boundaries are best set by the father. It’s a short term two week investment of crap nights of sleep but returns are paid out nightly for the next 16-17 years until they’re off to college. You can add this to a long list of things you’ve sucked at doing in life and your wife has mentally kept score. Do an OYS post on …
/r/askMRP20/01/20 03:51 PM
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This is her entrapment phase. OP refers early in his post on to his family being the family in the area. This statement wreaks of his weakness. We all have these families near us where the grandfather and father were the studs that built the empire with courage and hard work. Unfortunately by the second or third generation they’ve raised a lazy entitled beta bux softy. So OP may say hey I’m not lazy. Look at my bench #. Look at my entrepreneurial ventures. But sorry the big red flag is when some…
/r/askMRP12/01/20 12:07 AM
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“I learned it by watching you dad...I learned it by watching you.” Damn some of those 80s public service commercials were funny. Applies here. Why hasn’t he learned it by watching you?
/r/askMRP06/01/20 10:20 PM
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If I were in your shoes I’d fight another battle before you confront her. You need to know what you want out of life (hint: it’s not a good dick sucking and fucking. Those are all just for good fun). Spend some time on your vision of where you want to be in 10 years (career, business, nothing about your wife should be in this vision as the stay plan is the same as the go plan). Only after you’ve figured out what progress looks like in ten years can you figure out a plan. Then set up a time to me…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 07:33 PM
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Why did you let her manage the joint account for household expenses? It Sounds like you’ve made her the CFO and she can tell you what you can and can’t do with the money. Here’s my household financial dynamic that I’ve set up with my wife (she’s a SAHM and was a fucking financial terrorist - I don’t negotiate with terrorists): 1) I work and I build revenue streams. The hours are often long and unpredictable. The money flows into the household account. 2) bills and mortgages are on autopay. I ack…
/r/askMRP05/01/20 02:34 PM
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You can use one of those battery operated electrical muscle stimulators. Attach one electrode on you, the other on her (and not your balls or taint). Interesting sensation every time you complete the circuit...it is a good time.
/r/askMRP24/12/19 09:09 PM
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Don’t forget her getting fucked in wheel. And we’ll throw in a little ass eating in dolphin pose...
/r/askMRP21/12/19 10:28 PM
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So you’re asking the internet if you should compromise on one of your core tenants and values... Simple answer - No. Have a backbone and live on principle. The easy path doesn’t mean it’s the best or right path.
/r/askMRP21/12/19 12:29 PM
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Vitamin c serum does: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3673383/ Copper peptide yes - crosses. Hyaluronic acid topical is for hydration and appearance. Hyaluronic acid pill form is a systemic application - not just skin moisturizer but joint support as well (fairly cheap - jarrow brand on Amazon is only $15 for 120 capsules) - works well at minimizes my shoulder, hip, and knee aches. Infrared and medical grade red/orange light photobiomodulation absolutely. Peer reviewed published jou…
/r/askMRP18/12/19 04:40 PM
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Couple of additional hacks after the obvious for keeping your face youthful: 1) topical vitamin c serum topical application 2) hyaluronic acid topical application 3) copper peptide topical application 4) red/orange LED light photobiomodulation therapy 5) infrared sauna 6) hyaluronic acid pills All of these have some benefit to either preventing collagen breakdown, encouraging increases in collagen production, and moisturizing from the outside in or the inside out. Do some research and see what y…
/r/askMRP17/12/19 08:35 PM
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Can vouch for this. For me to maintain 6’0” 220lbs with a bench 325, squat 405, deadlift 500 it was 5000-6000 Cal’s per day all day. If I wasn’t lifting I was eating, sleeping, or shitting (an absurd amount of shitting logs). When I eat clean at 2800-3200 Cal’s per day I shrink to 185-190lbs.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 06:51 PM
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🤦🏼‍♂️ god I hope you’re just a troll. This is not even a case of giving kids dynamite. Wait did I miss that chapter in the BPP book about getting raw dog blow jobs from hookers? Which dread level is that?
/r/askMRP10/12/19 04:24 PM
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Ok - OP he’s right - you should just check an arbitrary box on a spreadsheet that says your physique goal has been attained. The real world doesn’t matter when you’re the baddest ass keyboard cowboy out there!
/r/askMRP07/12/19 05:15 PM
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Just don’t stop until random women in your day grab your veiny forearms unsolicited, compliment your calves in the summer, and find a way to run their hand up your arm, back, or down your abs. Then you’ll know your lifting goal.
/r/askMRP07/12/19 01:51 AM
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Fucking A - internet where were you when I was 16? You’ve got the world by its balls with this knowledge and understanding. Lifting together great start. It’s a harmless invitation. If you live with them I’d put a weight set in at home and start by asking him for a spot (covert contract your dad into lifting). One other thought - Rollo explains that his original intent of “the rational male” book was to have hard copy books so that it could be passed from one man to another. Give the old man a h…
/r/askMRP30/11/19 03:10 PM
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This guy is brown. It’s a cultural difference. Poor bastard.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 06:30 PM
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Spin. A great place to practice game on unhappily married women who just warmed up their pussies with the friction of their thighs and rhythmically tapping it back on the bike seat. Beyond that it’s pretty fucking gay.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 06:26 PM
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Came for the sex...left with a new existence.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/19 01:49 AM
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Remove attention from bad behavior. I’ve quit mid pump on an unfixable starfish. You want to see a hamster on meth? Do this. She’ll ask did you finish? No. What’s up? Bored, moving on.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 04:29 PM
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Get a good lifting partner. Increase protein and calories as needed for proper recovery.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 03:57 PM
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Sounds amazing. You have a world of no obligations and unlimited opportunity to engage with various people throughout the day...sounds like access to a free world education!
/r/askMRP03/11/19 01:05 AM
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🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/askMRP01/11/19 10:17 PM
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Here’s the problem with your “want”. You want a relationship with a woman who desires you. This comes from a place of neediness and not abundance. You need to crush that part of you. The pussy and desire is just a byproduct of a man’s life done right. Let these words sink in or you’ll just be back in the same place in 5 years.
/r/askMRP29/10/19 04:34 PM
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Your mind is stuck on the fucking and the I have other options (to fuck). Your point of view is still myopic. Bigger picture on mission is needed (and the mission isn’t fucking because then you are just a dancing monkey). “The stay plan is the same as the go plan” took 2 years to really become a state of existence for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 01:25 PM
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If you want more science go to your local university and see what your options are to sit in on classes in physics, astronomy etc. they’ll often let people sit in classes for free if you’re not pursuing credits. Damn if I had more time I’d do this.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 12:05 PM
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In the spring find some good old fashion clen. God damn that shit was good for spring break ‘98.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:43 PM
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And thrust 3 times to prematurely ejaculate.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 04:37 PM
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pretty straight forward since she is the mother too. Keep grinding on lifting and hit your fucking macros and calorie counts. That will help you lose the fat and the faggoty validation seeking behaviors. Dread only works when you operate out of your own mental point of origin. It takes some time to reprogram your behaviors, thought patterns, and restore your autonomy of thought. One simple rule is to ask yourself the question “what do I want to do?” The answer is NOT “I want to fuck my wife”. Af…
/r/askMRP09/10/19 12:56 PM
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This is all just a matter of FRAME. Operate from your own point of origin and you’ll learn to stop giving a shit about her response to anything. Is she the mother of your son?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 12:46 PM
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Saddest reality ever lived...
/r/askMRP05/10/19 05:11 PM
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Got my car serviced yesterday. The mechanic told me the water pump is starting to have some coolant seeping out. It’s not gushing yet. Maybe one day it will completely shit the bed, the whole engine will overheat and the head gasket will fail. He recommended a simple change out of the water pump on my schedule at my preferred time. He’d have a loaner car available for me when I scheduled the service. Do it on your terms, on your timeline and with minimal disruption to your life. The worst is tha…
/r/askMRP18/09/19 12:54 PM
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And by cake he means pussy.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 03:41 PM
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It took me 2 years to honestly hit IDGAF, OI, and to really understand “the stay plan is the same as the go plan”. That phrase finally made sense one day. Before the 2 year point I always wondered what that really meant. Now I know.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 02:22 PM
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Did you ever see a Stephen king movie called the langoliers? It was a bit of a piece of shit but the take away applies to you: You can’t go back to the past. The past may physically be there but it’s dead. It’s lifeless. And while you’re languishing in the past it will literally eat you alive. Stay in the present, Colorado, and make your future. Quit being a sad sack of shit about this one.
/r/askMRP03/09/19 01:01 AM
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A while back in our town, one of the wallish spin instructors was fucking some young trainer in the gym. Her husband found photos on her phone. He promptly posted them to all of her social media accounts with the #imawhore, #cheatingonmyhusband. I’ve gotta admire the lack of hesitation with which he chose his path and sprinted down it.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 03:20 PM
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The funniest shit I’ve seen. You started by taking an Uber in your own frame. Your wife wouldn’t let you. Then she kicked you out of the car and you took an Uber in her frame because she told you too. Hilarious. After looking back reflecting, learning and improving...sometimes all that is left is to laugh at your own horseshit.
/r/askMRP13/08/19 01:15 AM
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Are you codependent? Do you feel lonely? No family? Why are you looking to latch on to something? If you’re as great as you think she’ll still be around when your 30. Alpha widows are dumped. They don’t branch swing.
/r/askMRP11/08/19 10:54 AM
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This all sounds like you’re suffering from the inability to answer the basic question of “what do i want to do?”. Keep marching forward and check the boxes on dread. Somewhere along the path you will find the ability to do what you want to do and include your family. You will feel like a dancing monkey at times. At this point the old trope of “the stay plan is the same as the go plan” will finally resonate and make perfect sense.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 05:57 PM
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First thing I thought was those lifts suck - 6’2” is no excuse. I suspect the OP hasn’t come to really grasp what it means when someone says “the stay plan is the same as the go plan” or “what do you really want to do”.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 11:39 PM
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Crossfit WOD won’t teach you much about Olympic lifts. However it will get you shredded if your macros are on point. If the crossfit gym has a separate Olympic lifting program with certified lifting coaches then yes it’s a great place for learning. The place I started going to has been really good with teaching technique on snatch, jerk, clean, deadlift and squat. Unfortunately there isn’t a ton of linear progression in crossfit.
/r/askMRP27/07/19 06:16 PM
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Sometimes you just have to flush out that inflammation. My doc had me take 3 Advil, 3 times a day for 3 weeks and then taper off. Worked and usually do it about 1 time a year when my knees and hips start screaming at me.
/r/askMRP27/07/19 06:11 PM
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Using sex like heroin.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 01:31 PM
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Trying to fill a void?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 01:06 PM
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I don’t think you even know or can imagine what value is. Practical value: parenting, staying on household budget, not killing your children by passing out on heroin while your toddlers are in the bath. Having the mental and physical fortitude to be a good parent and not ask too much of her husband to distract or slow him from his life goals beyond family. Social value: knows how to behave in social situations to be complementary to your mission. Doesn’t have a natural tilt to fuck her best frie…
/r/askMRP21/07/19 09:37 PM
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Tell them they look like their mothers make an excellent vindalu and rice byriani. Then offer their families 3 goat and 1 cow for their hand in marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 01:04 PM
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Maybe offer them a goat or a cow?
/r/askMRP15/07/19 12:58 PM
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If you’re doing life right...perfection is always 5 yards in front of you and just a few inches out of your grasp.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 01:09 AM
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At 29% you are still disgusting to most women. Never forget that.
/r/askMRP11/07/19 07:34 PM
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When I was in college I banged my girlfriend’s older sister. What was funny was their clits were wired exactly the same with the same exact trigger point and touch preferred. They were fairly similar in their style, confidence, and piggish behaviors in bed.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 02:38 PM
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It’s the change in a pattern and behavior that creates the anxiety. The female anxiety hamster only gets going when it detects a change (like a barometer). This is just like you feel the change in pressure as your ears pop on the take off or landing of a plane. However your ears feel nothing in a steady state at cruising altitude. Hindbrain female anxiety is only produced by change.
/r/askMRP26/06/19 02:15 PM
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This is solid advice. Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 05:16 PM
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Defiant because she feels more push than pull?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 02:17 PM
1

Sex? it’s duty starfish sex whenever I want. Sure...timing her cycles, creating environments when ovulation is happening to facilitate helps but it’s not sustained. I enjoy all the layers of dread I’ve applied except the gaming. The gaming got old, felt like a dancing monkey covert contract to elicit the response. Maybe I just didn’t find the style of game I liked that was for me? Time to revisit a re-approach.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 12:51 AM
1

Gym 5 am. Don’t worry you’ll get used to it after a week. I don’t even need an alarm clock anymore. Beyond the gym...socially...if you’re still saying you can’t have 1 night a week out for your own well being than you’re two times a fag. Toughen up your frame buttercup.
/r/askMRP19/06/19 10:16 PM
1

I agree she hasn’t submitted yet to full leadership - definitely a defiant one. Appreciate your comment - thanks. Edit: a bit more gentle of a delivery than the “fuck me or fuck you...”
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 04:36 PM
4

I followed the BP Prof’s 12 step program: 1) read, re-read, planned, and put my MAP into play 2) it took awhile to find my mission but it was ultimately to find the solution of how do you get away from the golden handcuffs and hamster wheel of a very high paying corporate gig to have more free time and be a little less of the betabucks slave that I have been. My Corporate exit plan is in motion and succeeding with a multi-unit franchise operation. Involving my wife in some of the daily operation…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 03:39 PM
11

This is exactly where I sit today. This is the trap into which I’ve fallen. I’m leaning a little too hard on IDGAF which is essentially IHBNHFY. This plays out by me neglecting gaming and kino at home. And also me stalling on the next level of dread - plates. Some typical faggotry of self head talk ensues: “my shit is on point, career is on point, mission and vision is clear, body is fucking dialed in, wardrobe on point, fun times to be had here. She’s a fucking dud time to move on”. Her hamster…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/19 12:23 AM
3

Create excitement for her in ways that don’t involve choking her out or smacking her around. You can physically dominate someone without being abusive. If she really gets excited by violence or pain try some BDSM in the bedroom to satiate her appetite.
/r/askMRP14/06/19 02:44 PM
2

Yes sounds like every woman. Your claim of her trying to trigger violence is your perception and internal response. (Aka feelings). With more FRAME you may see (or feel) this differently. You can’t fix or improve your wife’s self esteem. Unless you are telling her she’s a worthless piece of shit than I’d suggest you stop doing that...
/r/askMRP14/06/19 02:13 PM
2

So many words. Here’s my back of an envelope plan for you: 1) your wife sounds like every other woman on the planet. 2) why do you care about her non-sense? You need to work on your FRAME! 3) power forward on your mission or finding your mission (HINT: it is not fixing her or getting her to behave a certain way). 4) don’t neglect the comfort and gaming your wife. I went a little too hard on a sincere IDGAF and it didn’t make life more pleasant - indifference as a state of mind while liberating i…
/r/askMRP14/06/19 01:35 PM
2

Old trope of mRP fixes the man.
/r/askMRP08/06/19 09:02 PM
1

I’d probably go with an SBA loan for capital equipment over the heloc
/r/askMRP08/06/19 12:35 AM
1

Yup - she’s been writing checks her pussy can’t cash.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 05:56 PM
13

Predictable - be reliable but don’t be predictable.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 11:43 AM
5

It’s usually an anxiety/dopamine/norepinephrine issue. Certain medications increase it while others decrease your issues. But it’s really just all in your head (which affects neurotransmitters and the reflex of ejaculation). When pussy is your mission it creates anxiety which affects neurotransmitters making PE more of an issue. More frequent sex is an obvious solution as it removes the novelty of it and the mission part of it. But if you’re in mRP this isn’t going to be an available solution. Y…
/r/askMRP21/04/19 02:13 PM
5

Crabs in a bucket / Trying to keep you under her thumb. I’m going with amused mastery on the tantrums being thrown here. Funny - I ran the starting strength linear progression over 2 years and it didn’t even raise an eyebrow (not enough change to set off her hamster’s barometer). I switched to crossfit at 5am and her hamster has gone wild. Probably a good thing as I’ve needed all of the last 2 years to get to an honest IDGAF and operate in my own frame. Once pussy was no longer my mission it all…
/r/askMRP18/04/19 12:24 AM
1

And yes forearms can be genetically gifted. There is a correlation between innate calf and forearm size and ability to get huge
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:08 PM
1

No need for specific forearm exercises for me. Bigger forearms with increased vascularity happened with HEAVY Olympic lifts and 12-15% body fat from proper paleo diet (not extreme dieting).
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:24 PM
4

Really good if you can visit their physical location in person. Really good if you value quality over quantity. Really good if you need to get out of a fashion rut (like graphic t-s with those jeans with the horseshoe on the ass). Whenever I wear their stuff random women will touch me and comment on something. But they also do that to my bare veiny forearms.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:36 PM
0

If you had options you would not feel annoyed. OP getting ready to sacrifice his wants, needs and freedoms to be a beta provider.
/r/askMRP08/03/19 08:39 PM
4

And with fucking 10s on be bar...
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 09:46 PM
1

So your wife was watching a graphic story about rape? Maybe that’s her fetish? Or maybe it’s her warmup porn to get herself warmed up to fuck her fatty...never forget how bad you suck right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/19 03:56 PM
5

I just ordered some popcorn to enjoy during the updates on the keylogger you installed...
/r/askMRP22/02/19 04:26 PM
2

Just in time to lean out for summer...CrossFit.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 05:02 PM
1

Are you a large cap buy and hold (LTR) type of guy or an IPO flipper (plates)?
/r/askMRP12/02/19 11:25 PM
4

You measure your worth by the female you’re with and how she feels about you? Never give your measure of self worth to someone else to handle. Never give your measure of self worth to something that is fleeting and false. Go live life, do something, build something, fail and try again. Your are a scared lonely boy looking for someone to make you feel less alone in this world. Your “mission” is hollow and that’s why you seek validation from another person. Keep doing and marching forward.
/r/askMRP09/02/19 01:37 PM
6

Tradeschool. Become a plumber or hvac guy/lady.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:57 PM
2

“Because you want to” is the most common denominator
/r/askMRP26/01/19 01:06 AM
3

This could be a huffington post article in the making about how a bunch of toxic masculinity and online bullying drove a man to suicide... OP hang in there. The best of your life is in front of you. But the OP was like a “dog whistle” to get the askmRP commenting.
/r/askMRP26/01/19 12:17 AM
1

Very few people will ever succeed in changing who they are
/r/askMRP25/01/19 03:23 PM
16

Troll post maybe.... This thing reads like mRP AWALT porn. Only part of this post I was hoping to see was a statement of “we fucked like animals so see she really does love and desire me”. If this is not a troll post you wreak of faggot. Your statement of “now I have to read everything about divorce” is just your mental masturbation and pacifier. You will do nothing. Don’t read about divorce strategy. Research about finding the right lawyer to get the outcome you want. But I think you just want …
/r/askMRP25/01/19 01:04 PM
1

If you can afford it travel for shoes. You should travel for good clothes, shoes and a tailor if you need it. I like traveling with a couple of buddies to a major city near me. Suits, shoes, clothes, drinks food and plenty of whoring around. My wife hates it so much she drains me for weeks before and after those trips...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/19 01:22 PM
2

Depends on what your looking for. If you want to understand why shit works the way it does between all people I recommend “the laws of human nature” by Robert Greene.
/r/askMRP19/01/19 01:06 PM
25

I suspect it’s the OP’s ego and pride that prevent him from publicly showing his family and friends he made a poor choice by getting a divorce so soon after the wedding...
/r/askMRP18/01/19 01:40 AM
2

Diet, exercise and clothes are easy. You’re right - not terrible relative to most of your peers. Now the bad news is that any change in your physical will have minimal returns. However you still do need to be more deliberate to correctly pull this small lever. Changing the beta faggot you are is going to be harder than you think. Red flags: no friends, no fun, no position of leadership in your social/parental community.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/19 01:11 AM
2

Ah yes - there is such a thing as good enough when it comes to strength and appearance. The OP has a long way to go until he hits the point of good enough. 10-12% BF with a 1000 lb club for reps (3 sets of 5) is good enough. 1 rep max testing only feeds the ego. The point at which you have diminishing returns is the point to shift some focus onto the other faggotry and weak behaviors that led the collective to this board via a sad late night drunken google search.
/r/askMRP13/01/19 07:14 PM
0

Find a social circle of the caliber of person you’d like to LTR or plate... Same advice I’d give a girl - If you want to LTR a “(insert profession of distinction here)” just become one yourself. Statement holds true for “(bartender)”, “(doctor)”, “(lawyer)”, “(investment banker)”, “(government employee)”. And in terms of your appearance maybe they just think you’re undergoing chemotherapy at 10% with a bald head...
/r/askTRP12/01/19 05:47 PM
3

Half a step away from socialism.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 12:29 PM
2

Breast feeding mom with a dry painful pussy is what it is - turns back on when it turns back on if you’ve got your shit together. I ran that obstacle course here. I have fond memories of my wife on her knees sucking my dick before our second child’s baptism while we had 15 out of town extended family members gathered downstairs. Well on my way getting back to that place in life...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/19 05:13 PM
1

Do you have to cover up bitch tits or not?
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:54 PM
14

Usually no.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:30 AM
23

I think you are mistaking his statement for TRP. It’s not. It’s an old evangelical trope from a book by James Dobson - “Bringing up Girls”. It’s really a strategy on how to coach your daughter away from the inevitable cock carousel that she’ll find through our western way of life.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:00 PM
4

Don’t ever discount what stirs envy or jealousy in you by others. It is a good identifier of areas in your life or personality that need work.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/18 10:01 PM
6

Take the child support too
/r/askMRP28/10/18 10:54 PM
3

If you like a coke whore play the part of a coke dealer.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:15 PM
10

Replace “like my wife less” with “ need my wife less”. Now for that feeling of a void you have. You have to fill that with becoming the whole person you are supposed to be. Sounds like the road to recovery.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 12:24 AM
3

Bc I heard you missed my dick pics
/r/askTRP19/10/18 01:56 PM
13

This whole thing was cringeworthy. I guess a pat on the back for progress but oh man so much to cringe at here. You are still in her frame, lots of DEERing. Search for some of the older brilliant posts on AM and shit tests. You can do so much better than this but you need to internalize more, practice and do more.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 01:25 PM
1

Blonde hair and blue eyes correlates to higher income? I only thought we got sunburned and skin cancer more often...
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:18 PM
1

Injuries happen, shit happens, financial messes happen. I maintain frame by coming up with a plan and a path to get to the best possible outcome by myself. When she says all scared and worried “what are we going to do?” You need to be able to say no worries I got this...delegate what you need to, but they need to know what and when the light at the end of the tunnel is. At no point should this involve your wife seeing you vulnerable, uncertain, or acting like a pussy. Because you know what pussy…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 07:47 PM
0

And dance like a monkey
/r/askMRP16/10/18 04:52 PM
3

Idiots - all of you focused on hygiene. That should be a given that you could serve raw bar off your taint at any given time. When does a long term relationship blow you often and enthusiastically? It’s when there is that subtle insecurity and she is just making sure you don’t taste like another woman.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:41 PM
0

Exactly
/r/askMRP03/10/18 05:01 PM
14

Sounds like she’s navigating a branch swing. When did she become confused - after she realized you’re a pussy or after Chad pounded hers?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:53 PM
1

What have you done for yourself lately?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:49 PM
3

They crucified Christ over his threat to their power but his message lived on, spread and prospered. Who are the 12 apostles of TRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 04:36 PM
5

Trade school then build a business. Money well spent.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 03:06 PM
6

It’s always easy in the beginning to maintain frame when it hasn’t really been challenged. But if you do it right from the beginning do you ever really get challenged? A shit test is just amusing. How long can you run before you have to unfuck it? The one worry you mentioned was finance related in regards to paying for kids education. Remember this expectation is part of your blue pill conditioning. You’re going to self sacrifice your own financial future or current peace of mind to pay for coll…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 01:43 PM
4

You’ve got about 10 more levels to go before the fuck me or fuck you ultimatum. If you do it right your actions and life will say it before your mouth does.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 03:41 PM
3

This is a time in your life when service blow jobs and fucks are the best you’ll do. (These are your best indicator that your on point with your frame and MAP). About 6 months after breast feeding stops and sleep patterns get back to normal it will turn into a fuck fest, but only if you play your cards right. Resist your faggotty urge to backslide into cringeworthy behavior. Stay the course. Spin plates if you must. This is for you to mess up or do right.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 05:10 PM
1

Your words were fine for a response, but I question if you sounded like a butt hurt little bitch when you said them? You’ve got a lot of complaints about your feelz: -leg day didn’t go as planned - wah,wah- now my ankle hurts - oh poor baby...or pobre cito (if you’re in espana) - do you need a hug from mommy? -I’m a big boy I just flirted with a real live woman at a gas station and now my wee wee hurts (for those of you wondering the metric to standard English conversion is 16/2.54=6.29 in - A s…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 01:55 PM
18

Sunken cost fallacy.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 01:36 PM
8

Fix yourself first the way you want to be fixed. Couples therapy is just a way for your wife to mold you with a co-conspirator into the person she wants/thinks/feelz you to be for her own self serving purpose.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:26 PM
16

And be thankful you just figured it out at age 18 and not 40.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 07:42 PM
2

Troll
/r/askMRP29/08/18 08:40 PM
2

I always thought they kept marines on the boat because sheep would have been too obvious?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 03:30 PM
1

I used and still occasionally use a higher end department store stylist/shopper. Are the clothes overpriced...maybe? But what do I get out of it...an education and convenience. It was worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 04:04 PM
2

You can increase frequency, volume, or intensity. Intensity is the best lever to pull for this guy now. Lifting partner is the best advice given.
/r/askMRP18/08/18 01:39 PM
1

An internal barometer
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 05:38 PM
2

Start simple - go make your bed. The rest should fall into place once you master that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/18 12:11 AM
6

You know...your wife sounds like my mother. She raised a blue pill bitch in an alpha body. I remember my mother conditioning me to think my dad was bad. She wouldn’t overtly say it, but she would say things like don’t ever be like him... My dad didn’t own his shit or properly handle his bitch. He was a good dad in that he wasn’t abusive, provided, and did his best to keep the peace. He was a great beta fag dad. End result I really don’t like him much. Are you a beta fag? That’s why you’re a bad …
/r/askMRP16/08/18 12:20 PM
1

Aka delivering a consequence
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 11:24 PM
3

A display of anger is rooted in feelings and emotions. It has no logical outcome other than to show how someone got you out of your frame and under your skin. Delivering a consequence is calculated and has a clear expected response from the recipient. As well as a fully understood consequence for you the deliverer.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 10:49 PM
3

Yes delivering a consequence includes unhinging someone’s jaw or breaking a neck. But it has to be calculated. If not it was just an impulsive immature and expensive move.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 10:44 PM
6

Nah - a display of anger is a childish tantrum - people should fear the consequences you impose on them for having stirred anger inside you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/18 07:31 PM
0

But he didn’t leave her after she fucked some other work boss? This is all cuck-foreplay for him.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 06:48 PM
2

Some logistics on how to use Bumble and not get caught would be appreciated. My DL doesn’t require the overt dread of Bumble but I wouldn’t mind anonymous access to it. She gets the dread from seeing it in person when we are out.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 08:05 PM
4

When you are fat or skinny fat you should be ashamed of your sad pathetic body and cover it up with body hair.
/r/askMRP12/08/18 02:19 PM
2

I’ll be done when I’m fucking dead.
/r/askMRP26/07/18 01:43 AM
1

After reading your comment i just made the same face I do when my dog farts on my lap...
/r/askMRP18/07/18 02:59 AM
1

Red pill on easy mode - #nobacksliding
/r/askMRP18/07/18 02:53 AM
6

But Whole Foods has the best alpha widowed beta bux yoga pant wearing trophy wives to enjoy...
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:12 PM
5

Remember the projects are great way to keep busy. Same thing goes for triathlons, tuff mudders, marathons, cross fit games, power lifting competitions, etc... When I keep busy I stay sober, my diet stays on point, and I have a temporary sense of accomplishment. However the dissatisfaction always returns. They are really just a distraction but still an important part of the process. If you consistently OYS...you’ll eventually run out of projects. Hopefully somewhere on this path you’ll figure out…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:04 PM
13

So if you want to experience someone else initiating why don’t you just go find your gay Chad and starfish on your back while he takes you to pound town... Now my serious response to you is: You are trying to find validation and meaning in your sex life. It will never be enough for you. Open your eyes to why you are so needy. It’s time for you to move on to bigger missions than mastering your wife’s sexuality. Think bigger - your career, your purpose in life beyond just being a consumer of stuff…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 01:23 PM
2

She has this much anger and resentment towards you for one of two reasons: 1) you have a past history of physical or sexual abuse of your family - be it her or the kids. 2) she resents that you are a leader at work but spineless at home and haven’t effectively lead your family over the past 20 years. So many words to basically say I don’t respect you and I resent the “past”...whatever that may be.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 04:49 PM
1

Give us your stats - reading between the lines on this craps table I would put my chip stack on: not alpha enough and too much beta bux body is average to less than impressive social life independence is low anxiety (the mother of female lust) is low and you smell butt hurt
/r/askMRP02/07/18 08:14 PM
6

Know your worth and have a backbone. Unless being a cuck is your thing?
/r/askMRP25/06/18 08:42 PM
2

Yes cigar smoke in her face is not much different than a dick in her ass...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 12:22 PM
1

Hopefully your business involves solving a 10 billion dollar problem. And solving that problem is something you are passionate about... You need increased focus on building your long term visions. If you fail to set this as your point on the horizon you are traveling towards you will hit the anger phase hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 03:03 PM
2

Man - take the fucking ring back and tell her to get the fuck out. Why do you have this savior mentality?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 02:45 PM
1

Clarifying the “just go” for the noob - “just go” means with a friend or alone - not with wife - and do not seek permission from mommy. If you have no friends use the “meet-up” platform to attend a gathering of people meeting over a common interest in the closest city to you. Make friends there. Then build a social life. Your wife’s lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom is rooted in lack of attractiveness on your part and lack of dread. I don’t call starfish twice a month to starfish six times a mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 02:30 PM
2

Sounds like that’s your cocaine. Forever chasing the high. Tough to come back to the sobriety of a wife and hard mode without having too much IDGAF. Sucks about your back but gear will do that to you - make you feel invincible, two girls one party and PRs in the gym. Muscles get in front of your tendons/ligaments and then injury sets in.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 12:30 PM
0

Dude your lift numbers are all over the place. How can you have a squat more than a DL? How can you with good form move over 3 plates and not even move 1 plate for OHP? You must be shaped like an eggplant...
/r/askMRP16/06/18 02:01 PM
1

LOL - age and lifting takes wisdom and the ability to listen to what the body needs to make gains and not injury. Short term gains feel good for the ego. I don’t do feelz in the gym - I do form, consistency, progress, and longevity. You might call it a piss poor excuse but go ahead and you can tuff talk your way into Shawn baker’s office for some joint replacements.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 01:51 PM
1

How old are you? I found at 40 squatting 3 times a week caused bursitis of my hip. 5x5 was good until it wasn’t. I deloaded, backed off my programming to lift every 72 hours using an app called warmup. It gives you a proper warmup. Work sets of 3x5. I only up my weights 5 pounds a month. I’m 40, not at my lifetime bests and probably will never get back there but I am making gains, feel great, strong and random women find reasons to touch me.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 12:59 AM
3

Sounds like some pretty green grass on the other side of the fence...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 07:07 PM
7

Or read like “look mommy I’m a big boy now”
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 03:46 PM
1

Look inside the book and read the words. Actually understand the words and what they really mean. It takes effort like reading the odyssey or Shakespeare. You’re still just staring at the book cover. Inside your book says I’m a loser or I’m unattractive and need to prove that I’m not.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 12:48 PM
1

You have a weak fragile ego. You seek external validation from sexual encounters with others. Your “enjoying the variety defense” of your need to seduce and bed other women with frequency is just a cover for your weak understanding of yourself. Stop feeling so much. Figure out what you want, why you want it, and go get it. But as for the I can’t stop cheating conundrum - figure out at what age you began thinking you were a loser, unattractive, and unworthy. Once you deal with your root psycholog…
/r/askMRP06/06/18 12:53 PM
1

Here’s the good news: 1) you’re fat and have room to improve. The body is easy to change. I would argue it’s easier than changing from beta personality traits. Physical pain and discipline is easier to acquire than an alpha personality. Here’s the bad news: 1) you probably lack the discipline to consistently make the right choices to change your body. 2) you probably lack the discipline to change your fiber from beta to alpha dominant slant. But if you want to start with some diet and exercise a…
/r/askMRP06/06/18 02:28 AM
2

Dishonesty to protect the fragile ego...not much different than the female described by rollo. the slippery slope of whoring: 1) rub and tug massage parlor 2) masseuse say next time I use my mouth big boy 3) then you fuck one after a massage 4) same time frame you get a blow job from a stripper for the right price. 5) you go straight out whoring Story as old as time.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 02:20 AM
1

Economist model for a socially acceptable perpetual trophy wife is date/marry someone who’s age=(half your age)+7 If I’m 40 that means my trophy would be 27.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 06:15 PM
2

We have two female dogs from the same litter. Brought one bitch home and then two weeks later brought home the sister bitch. They fought like nothing I’ve ever seen before. It would’ve even entertained Michael Vick. The pretty little red headed one was victorious. 3 years later I occasionally see the little red headed one humping her sister (even though they’re fixed). Alpha bitch won the battle early and occasionally shows all of us her dominance over her sister bitch. Quit being such a little …
/r/askMRP30/05/18 04:17 PM
3

Play the game better next time. You’re not as good as you think.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 08:11 PM
1

Invest in yourself. Stop your codependent behavior in this world. Do it on your own first. Never compromise or distract from your goals at any age. Well because then you’re just her bitch...
/r/askMRP25/05/18 09:31 AM
3

Why doesn’t she dread the thought of you being alone and unguarded while she is out of town trouncing around Europe? She obviously thinks there is no threat - you not so much...
/r/askMRP25/05/18 09:28 AM
2

I thought OP was just giving us a long winded AWALT...
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:41 AM
3

Power lifter stature with 12% BF gets the job done here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 02:06 PM
2

Meh - whatever makes panties soak when you walk by.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 01:41 PM
1

In your situation if you want to escalate you will always have to give that woman plausible deniability as to why she just fucked you (a married man).
/r/askMRP24/05/18 01:11 AM
8

Have you ever heard the scorpion and the frog fable? Never let down your guard for she is the scorpion and you the frog.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 11:21 AM
2

Tight stretch yoga pants...definitely tight stretch yoga pants. Congrats on your gains.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 04:13 PM
2

And for fucks sake OP don’t ever use the phrase “doing the deed” again.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 12:31 PM
1

When I was in college I fucked my girlfriend’s older sister. Their vaginas were identical and their clits were wired exactly the same. A different level of AWALT.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 03:25 AM
3

Yes and back to negotiating desire too
/r/askMRP09/05/18 01:20 PM
1

So he tried to negotiate her desire? Lube or booze required and no orgasm means you ain't shit!
/r/askMRP08/05/18 02:29 PM
1

1-2 years until life gets back on track assuming you don't fuck it up or let her fuck it up.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 10:08 PM
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This is a very logical and complete resource for finances. One aspect of money that was touched on but may be missed by some is the emotional aspect of money. For some people (mostly females) emotion will impact the ability to decipher a need from a want. This relates to the spending addiction crowd. The only way I've successfully managed my wife's financial sabotage efforts is to keep the guardrails up and strictly enforce any bullshit overspending. She is a sneaky bitch with money. It's like l…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 11:43 AM
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I'd give this 10 upvotes if I could
/r/askMRP04/05/18 02:41 AM
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Sounds like you have a great sparring partner to train with
/r/askMRP01/05/18 11:49 PM
2

Weight lifting - app to track my workout and weights (warmup calculator). MAP - put pen to paper in a journal and keep it somewhere safe. Every time you feel apathetic or lost revisit your MAP and take care of the low hanging fruit to keep you marching forward. What you're really asking is how do I hold myself accountable. You can do it publicly with weekly OYS posts. Here you'll get feedback on your blind spots.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 02:30 PM
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Wasn't she saying she wanted to peg him?
/r/askMRP29/04/18 01:45 PM
1

Exactly. There are some activities that the girls just don't want to revisit. Im trying to add some novelty into the equation with things that aren't old news around my house.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 12:06 AM
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Good shit man - good perspective. Good gas mileage as in the expression said here before "your mileage may vary". For me lifting, career, and wardrobe improvements only needed small tweaks. On the other hand my social activities and leading the family's free time activities needed the most improvement. It's where I'm investing the most effort and it leads to the biggest improvements in my marriage.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 11:04 PM
1

But a good observation on frame - thx.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 01:45 PM
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Yup - the "don't do stuff" was a an observation someone else here made about a ski weekend awhile back. But true - once you are running family activities or time away from the kids within the proper frame you are no longer a dancing monkey and the "don't do stuff" doesn't really apply.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 01:18 PM
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You'll get minimal returns on incremental improvements in your lifts. Female hamster has a barometer for change. Decrease your body fat to 12%. Hard pill to swallow is that it's most likely not what you look like or lift that is unattractive...it's who you are that's the problem.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 03:27 PM
1

Vaguely remember an analogy that your job as an mRP husband is to both provide the guardrails and pave the road in front of them. This is the only way to keep it running smoothly...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 02:50 PM
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By definition a reflex operates independent of the brain. Touch fire and a reflexive pathway occurring at the level of the spine withdraws the hand from said fire. But instinct is hidden in the recesses of the brain and for most people operate without conscious recognition of the process. It is analogous to a simple basic "if X then Y" programming language running in the background. In my experience you can train instinctual like reactions in people which are almost as fast and effortless as the…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 01:40 PM
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I have run the same course. You're dealing with a potentially financially destructive personality. She spends for the feeling and the thrill. I give my wife (same creature as yours) a debit card with an auto replenish of 1k a month (no overdraft fees and no ability to overdraft) to spend on whatever stupid fucking shit she thinks she needs. Over time she started sneaking charges back onto the family Amex account which was for gas, groceries and kids expenses. This was dealt with promptly with th…
/r/askMRP21/04/18 04:50 PM
1

True. What dumbfuck strips 315 off a bar for 95. On a rare occasion I hand my wife 95 from behind and she rubs her ass on my cock while she gets squared up for a set. It's a simple pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 12:19 AM
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I always outsource jobs that I don't want to do. Be more attractive. You also missed a good opportunity to AA or FOG.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:21 PM
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No kids & spidey sense going off? It's time to next this girl. If you are actively serving your country and putting your life in harms way - the minimum Requirement of a LTR or wife is to keep your spidey sense "OFF" while you execute your mission.
/r/askMRP09/04/18 05:02 PM
2

Why do you still call her your wife ?
/r/askMRP09/04/18 12:47 PM
1

YOU ARE WEALTHY. PAY FOR THE BEST PROFESSIONAL HELP YOU CAN FIND IN A GYM WITH THE mRP BODY GOAL. INTERVIEW YOUR POTENTIAL TRAINERS TO FIND ONE WITH A PROVEN TRACK RECORD WITH PEOPLE OF YOUR AGE AND BODY TYPE. NO MISTAKES WILL BE MADE, NO INJURIES WILL BE HAD, AND ONLY PROGRESS WILL BE MADE. why fuck around in the dark - get it right the first time and use your wealth to your advantage.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 03:45 PM
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How your wife treated you was your fault. No matter who you're with you'll always have live with RP truths. Maybe one day the RP will be a reflex for you and less of an effort. If your wife is a drunk with no hope of recovery next her before kids. I don't believe that you've really been an mRP frequenter because you should know to put your shit post question in askMRP with your stats.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 10:58 AM
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Forearms for sure. (Rock climbing helps here) Don't forget the calves - summer is almost here. (Torture yourself on the donkey block) After noticing the amount of dick swing or bulge in your pants women move onto forearms and calves.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 12:39 PM
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mRP sexual strategy is to be the AMOG. You make the choice with which group you want to do this. I choose a pack of people who push me up and don't pull me down. Pick your minions wisely. Just be careful that you aren't lying to yourself to protect your ego.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 12:15 PM
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When he fails she'll pick up the slack and get railed in the flatbed of his pickup while he watches.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 02:03 PM
1

Perfect formula for a woman who hits the wall hard - she's like a crash test dummy.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:44 PM
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1). If you're keto adapted your workouts and recovery can be great while on keto. They are for me. It's been over a year since I've had that empty muscle feeling and you can't find a carb in my diet. 2). At your/my age recovery is everything when it comes to gains and avoiding injury. Make avoiding injury and various "itises" at the forefront of your strategy. SL 5x5 programming three days a week was too much for me and I developed bursitis in my hip and tendinitis in my elbow. For me, recovery …
/r/askMRP18/03/18 05:39 PM
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Go to the Christian boards on Reddit if you're looking for morality.
/r/askMRP18/03/18 01:20 AM
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Man Steve you're the equivalent of the mRP crabs in a bucket analogy. Do you wanna go out for ice cream sundaes too?
/r/askMRP18/03/18 01:18 AM
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Aka - chronic illness/pain a fairly common attention seeking behavior by women
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:33 PM
1

Wait wait wait - was that a sarcastic fake cry or a well played sincere fake cry?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 02:56 PM
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A special keto snowflake. You may still be able to do keto but it involves pushing your saturated fats to monounsaturated fats. I am in the middle of this experiment myself. Traditional keto sent my LDL particle count to 2500 nmol/L (Not good).
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 12:59 PM
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And OP stop the bullshit talk about i need sex to feel close - every time you do this you throw kitty litter on that pussy. Edit: OP
/r/askMRP13/03/18 12:54 PM
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This is a great example of a BP guy trying to be a white knight - captain save-a-ho.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 01:36 PM
2

Ah yes the home improvement time shit test - A&A - "yeah that did take a long time. Without having to take commercial breaks that project should've been done in 20 minutes."
/r/askMRP11/03/18 03:03 PM
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SLC is back on the ski trip list. Until then maybe I'll just have to settle for a Jehovah's Witness knocking at my door...
/r/askMRP10/03/18 07:24 PM
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You also need at least one willing to help clean the crime scene too
/r/askMRP08/03/18 01:05 PM
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It is good form after spending a weekend at your new LTR parent's house to send something to say thank you for the hospitality (and your daughter's pussy). This rule applies anytime you are a houseguest. I do this after my family spends a weekend as a guest at a friend's cabin or camp. You have no class or refinement - and your girlfriend's mother just told her that you're a loser.
/r/askMRP07/03/18 10:19 AM
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There was a post 33 days ago by some guy doxazosin that precipitated the old advice of "My wife doesn't take girls vacations" Why the opposite advice today by everyone?
/r/askMRP06/03/18 08:03 PM
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You're an academic. So let's apply the same logic that you apply in the lab, engineering project, or god I hope not operating room. Start with asking why! Simple - why won't the drawer on the dresser close. Then ask how! How does a normally functioning drawer close? You will figure out that there are multiple designs to a drawer - both in function and it's construction. Then ask what! What is preventing the normal function of my drawer? Oh a sock has fallen behind it and prevents it from closing…
/r/askMRP03/03/18 05:09 PM
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That statement by rollo is describing women in a married comfortable state. Nothing numbs a woman's sexual desire like comfort and stability. The young single woman is driven by subconscious anxiety and trying to raise her SMV by doing the most fantastic sexual things in pursuit of Chad. ATM, anal, MFF, MMF - you name it and they do because they are insecure and competing.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:30 PM
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Comedians are the best at banter. Start listening to some good podcasts of comedians that are edgy - dente Nero & bill burr come to mind. Their banter skill sets will slowly be absorbed by you.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:25 PM
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I did - very well educated on cholesterol. Pre keto diet LDL was 120, HDL 70, TG 70. I'm okay with the keto diet having raised my LDL 205, HDL 87, TG 60. But then I had an nmr lipid profile run - and keto raised the atherogenic small oxidized LDL particles with only a modest bump in the large harmless LDL. If moving off of saturated fat to monounsaturated fat doesn't drop my T and reduces the small oxidized LDL particle count I'll call that a win. Self experimentation and quantification are the …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 09:12 PM
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Pull back on frequency , improvement on mood, and work on mRP game i agree. I started to read SGM and paused halfway through because it strangely just made horny but bitter and longing for the past. SGM techniques were all in full effect for the first 3 years of this relationship. The frequency and quality were spectacular.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 07:54 PM
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Diet has been keto for 12 months. Blood sugar is back squarely to normal healthy levels. The keto diet is the cause the high LDL cholesterol (Not the typical response to this diet but one that's documented). Met with physician today to discuss and he recommended a modified keto diet that leans more heavy on monounsaturated fats and reduces saturated fats to get my lipids back to where they used to be. Total testosterone levels came back ok at 890 and free testosterone at 13 (can't remember the u…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 06:38 PM
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ORIGIN: Lifelong career beta stuck in an alpha body. This life has been something along the lines like the old Churchill quote I aimed too low and succeeded. 39 years old, married 15 years, 2 daughters (10/12), wife 42, earn beta bux. 12 month mRP participant but haven’t OYS. WIFE: is an HB7-8 depending on where we are (like a Miami 7 vs a Philadelphia 8). She is a great mom, great cook, great housekeeper, but has poor compliance with the budget. This is improving with a self-limiting spending m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 05:38 PM
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Having just come back from a family trip on the beach I can say that I didn't see a single person sub 15% BF on the beach (except maybe a couple of those trophy wives). 10% BF on an old man turns Mom heads as well as 20 year olds. When I hit 10% (takes work and macros control) my wife starts trying to pull the crab back in the bucket.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 10:06 PM
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What would you say your body fat was before and after? I've been kicking the tires on a post on this point of inflection...
/r/askMRP26/02/18 06:25 PM
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As long a you have more than one good option then you are the prize and they will compete over you. Sounds familiar.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 11:56 PM
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Seems like many start out trying to push the 1000' rope. I did - all part of my slow learning process.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:26 AM
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Or a backwards compliance test.
/r/askMRP20/02/18 08:55 PM
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Because not everyone has the ability to make a Nobel prize worthy discovery. Across the whole population only a minority are able to understand it, internalize it, and apply it. Kill the ego and immerse yourself into these three modes.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 03:05 PM
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Because not everyone has the ability to make a Nobel prize worthy discovery. Across the whole population only a minority are able to understand it, internalize it, and apply it. Kill the ego and immerse yourself into these three modes.
/r/askMRP18/02/18 02:06 PM
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Ah yes - I still remember my first "no" It was when she asked me to rebuild the fireplace mantle with built ins on each side and to rewire the TV to mount it over the fireplace. She lost her mind and sure I DEERed a little. EDIT - I deered a lot - told her "she took all joy out of projects like this by constantly wanting to know when it would be done and being a harpy bitch". As you can imagine this didn't give her the tingles. The next one was she asked me to remodel the kitchen - AA ("sure I w…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 06:15 PM
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Bitterness and anger peak at your level three. During this time I lied to myself that I wasn't bitter. A wife sees through all of our I'm great faggot bullshit. If you are self aware enough and realize it's all a facade maybe you move on to true OI and leave behind the butt hurt fake alpha behaviors of levels 1-3. Looking back 12 months on myself...bitterness has been the best metric of my progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 01:55 PM
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She's ovulating - that's a good sign she wants to fuck you at home and not go out with the girls. Don't backslide. Don't get lazy. Soldier on with your MAP.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 01:00 PM
1

Wife's Flying ass spoon move? How does that one go?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 03:06 PM
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I wrote a poem: This marriage is turning red. It used to be blue. Some guys online tell me you're soon gonna beg to swallow my goo. Then I realized fuck I broke rule #1. So I just gave her some comfort and happily got back to my MAP.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 02:28 PM
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Brooding is a beta behavior - leave it behind you
/r/askMRP13/02/18 05:49 PM
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Maybe I'm just projecting on you but.... I really hamstrung myself while running my MAP with bitterness (even when I lied to myself and swore I wasn't bitter). Some would call it a failed shit or comfort test but my wife said I made her feel like she and the kids were a burden that I resented. Sure a quick A&A - but it was true. What I thought was hidden below the surface was not. When my mindset changed here real progress was made. Look for your blind spots. Are you bitter and resentful - femal…
/r/askMRP13/02/18 05:29 PM
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The statement of normally I would have rearranged my work day so that she could still work out brought me back to my past - man that one hurts to remember how bad I was...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 04:01 PM
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My takeaway is he finally didn't let his wife tell him how to solve his problem in a way that would best suit her by controlling him. If he followed her commands like a true BP mind would, he would be miserable and resentful. He would have compromised his mission and failed. If he had compromised to please his wife - failure, chad's cock and divorce rape were just around the corner.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 02:24 PM
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Just don't make that your only alpha crutch... lift and run the full sidebar. Nothing is sadder than the frumpy 40 year old neurosurgeon that can't figure out why his wife has no desire for him when he brings home 7 or 8 figures and made such a nice life for her...
/r/askMRP12/02/18 01:07 AM
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Apathy followed by indifference...when a man with many options arrives here he has ultimate power and happiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/18 02:15 PM
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My neighbor hired one years back. He found him by calling a divorce attorney and asking for a PI recommendation. Pretty easy to get 8x11 glossy pictures in a Manila envelope of his wife fucking her best friend's coke head husband in the family minivan. While he obviously knew the answer, this was the most effective cure I've ever seen for killing his oneitis. He also destroyed her in the divorce operating from his newfound position of strength.
/r/askMRP08/02/18 02:03 PM
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Does your wife have a fetish for balding fat men and have a pay subscription to a fat guy webcam porno site? If so then yes you have my permission to continue being a lazy sack of shit.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 01:21 PM
1

Your goal with the whole AA, AM skill set ultimately should be that it is natural and reflexive. It is a learned behavior/skil/personality. Immerse yourself in ball busting podcasts while you drive. You'll start to absorb some of it that way too.
/r/askMRP03/02/18 05:37 PM
1

If your dick doesn't suck itself, would you try to do that too? Some things are best left to women and hired help. OYS doesn't mean chore-play.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 09:21 PM
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A word of caution on the strong lifts - don't cheat on form chasing the weight goals. It's easy to let ego lead to injury with strong lifts. This happened to me when I hit 315 on squat and deadlift - my hip became a problem and now I'm back to basics deloaded to squat 185, deadlift 225. If I could do strong lifts over again i would have paid a power lifting coach to perfect my form.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 01:53 PM
2

Yup mommy is the captain - that is upsetting to a wife when her mother in law has better captaining skills than her husband. Right now your wife is thinking "I can't believe I reproduced again with this loser fucking man child." And you spent 30 minutes getting validation from a stranger at a gas station about your car? Self worth defined by a material possession is not a winning strategy in life.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 01:41 PM
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You all have been too kind to this poor fella - but maybe you have inspired him to read the sidebar - video of helicopter dicking in the cubicle a classic... I think if he got a response of "welcome to mRP, read and lift - then AM, AA, and FOG - you need to get out of her frame" he would be lost. This response would be as effective as if anyone replied to him in mandarin or Cantonese...
/r/askMRP29/01/18 04:29 PM
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You are the reason your family hates your wife. I'll bet you cried to them as a blue pill faggot about all the ways your wife was wronging you before you became "RP aware". You poisoned the well. You create your reality - well done. Not sure how you can unfuck your family's dislike of your wife since you so effectively convinced them how bad she is... But how about you start by taking 100% accountability in this (or in your language take 100% of the blame)
/r/askMRP29/01/18 02:29 PM
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Your kids are not your life's mission. Be your best self and run your best mission. That is how you'll wind up being a good dad and good model for your kids. If you come from a mindset of sacrificing everything and putting your kids first you'll act like a bitter faggot victim. Beta dads are as bad as beta husbands.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 02:22 PM
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If your takeaway from the sidebar was "if I do X then I get to touch her butt and she'll like it" I'd suggest you go back and read it all over again.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:58 PM
1

I think this guy is a troll?
/r/askMRP26/01/18 02:35 PM
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Yes being physically repulsive would be easier to accept than your situation where she finds the person you are to be repulsive.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 11:36 AM
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Wow that's the best victim puke I've ever seen. Congratulations on your honesty. You went on a bluepill bender and woke up where you deserved to be. If this is your hitting bottom and you're ready to go through red pill rehab you should start from square one. You currently have 0 alpha traits.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 05:05 PM
1

Dude - you're 20 - go out, be fucking awesome and fill that void in you with something other than planning or fantasizing about having kids one day. You should be worrying more about how not to have kids too soon with the wrong woman.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 03:50 PM
1

Only you can really distill out her true motivation to hyphenate her name. One harmless motivation of this relates to professional licenses, history of publications, etc...(in this the last name hyphenation is logistically important). However, an emotional explanation behind wanting to hyphenate a last name is a warning sign of a harpy emotional female that isn't submitting to an alpha. Understanding what the underlying motivation is behind every action of hers or yours is a great place to start…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 01:58 AM
1

Going to state the obvious here - if she refuses to step forward you must maintain your OI and carry on with your day.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:56 PM
2

Maybe add a chin-do into your sex toy collection
/r/askMRP16/01/18 01:09 AM
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My guess is OP finally realized that his MRP map began as a covert contract and OP is upset that he didn't get the result he covertly hoped for. This situation is somewhat analogous to the gym and a linear progression program like SL 5x5. When you overshoot your linear progression and get sloppy with your form bad things happen. Squatted 315x5x5 but did you really - nope. Time to deload, roll back your dread to level 1 - and reread BPPs book. This time make a MAP and execute it with better form …
/r/askMRP12/01/18 11:32 PM
1

Asking your wife for fashion advice is on par with asking your wife what turns her on. The list of shit she tells you will be a load of crap that has the opposite effect. In terms of mate guarding yes my wife did it around wardrobe - via shit testing or downright interrogations on what my plans were on a Sunday afternoon while I was running around town well dressed and owning my shit. Overtime the shit testing disappeared. I suppose it's because the female brain is barometrically wired to detect…
/r/askMRP12/01/18 09:11 PM
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No kids? Pay good money for professional help to protect your assets. Get out while you still can with little financial loss. Not mother material. Next.
/r/askMRP11/12/17 01:00 AM
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The theme of his comments are all shortcuts (steroids, tinder, facebook- exes and rooting through the garbage of his past). None of these paths build character. Walk the long road to character and you'll be better for it - you'll be authentic instead an imposter.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 06:05 PM
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Because you're not an attractive personality to her. External physical appeal is easy - changing who you are and how you behave as a man is a long road - keep marching.
/r/askMRP04/12/17 05:17 PM
2

Yes a blue pill fantasy indeed
/r/askMRP02/12/17 02:49 PM
2

Sometimes you've got a five minute window but 10 minutes of dinner remain. One day you just won't care and you'll bang her face down in the mash potatoes. Stay the course, and do as you please. Set your sights on IDGAF. If you follow the process of lift, sidebar, and build up your hobbies/social circles you will get there.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 06:41 PM
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UNAPOLOGETICALLY choosing your own "happiness" while taking care of your shit = FRAME
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 09:01 PM
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A breast augmentation can precede a branch swing. It can also be a woman repairing the destruction child rearing put on them. They are either a gift to you or to chad- that's up to you. Your wife responded to your positive changes. Her inner barometer/hamster responded to that change. Good for you. Just don't stop improving yourself. If you stop here you'll grow stale and her hamster will stop dead in its tracks. Look into those areas in your MAP you've ignored and have been lying to yourself ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 10:49 PM
1

Spring for the professional whitening while you are at it. The other upside of Invisalign is it forces planned and regular eating patterns. You have to take them out before you eat and brush your teeth before you put them back in. Planned and intentional eating means good lean gains are coming.
/r/askMRP23/11/17 12:42 PM
2

Dread is relative to your baseline behaviors. The hamster has a barometer for change relative to baseline controlling its spin. Initial returns on early dread gains will vanish. Never stop improving after the easy pickings are had.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/17 08:26 PM
2

You're too focused on the dread levels involving physical appearance (clothes, body, diet, etc). As you progress from fat to 4 pack you have large returns. Dread return on investment for going from 4 pack to 8 pack will be minimal. Get out of your comfort zone of the physical and take a hard look at what else goes into your SMV. Clothes, body, and diet are a prerequisite to laying real dread - positions of leadership within the social hierarchy of your life and beyond are areas you should explor…
/r/askMRP24/10/17 11:57 PM
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Take a look at "The tall poppy syndrome" on Wikipedia: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome It is a common response of the masses to anyone who dares to improve. A&A for sure.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 08:09 PM
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You both sound like low quality people. Best to develop yourself first. You can treat her like a sparring partner if you like - but I don't think you are ready for even that...next her, go monk mode, and go RP not mRP
/r/askMRP20/10/17 01:13 PM
1

Beta economists defined the socially acceptable age gap in dating is: (your age) divided by two then add 7. (27/2)+7=20.5 . Bitches be crazy...
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:13 AM
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Sure - have a kid...it will fix everything. All underlying problems in you and your life will be so much easier to fix once there is a kid or better yet multiple kids in the picture. If you haven't stepped up your game and fully run your MAP before a kid, good luck after.
/r/askMRP18/10/17 09:11 PM
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Married 10 years, two kids under 10, dual income family. You've come to the right place to learn the choice is yours. Go do the work.
/r/askMRP17/10/17 01:02 PM
2

Didn't the USSR try to rehabilitate those infected with capitalism and bring them back to communism? Sounds like someone is trying to rehabilitate mRPers back to blue pill so we can all settle back into BP contentment and oblivion. Fuck dat shih
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 02:49 PM
2

Congratulations you have been sucked into her frame and are a beta orbiter. A good friend would smack some sense into you. This post reminds me of a kid in high school who was convinced every stripper at the juice bar "really likes me so can I borrow $20 for another dance"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 01:18 PM
3

I only smell beta orbiter victim puke here
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 01:05 PM
1

MRP before baby is perfect - call it Preventative Medicine - lightest of dread applied while learning to avoid being unattractive sounds about right.
/r/askMRP11/10/17 12:39 PM
1

A good resource on wardrobe dread education is Tanner Guzy. I heard him on a podcast called "masculine by design" which RT had recommended a few weeks back. He covers in depth the proper approach to wardrobe for men.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 12:34 PM
2

I'm amused by the not today satan punchline; but there is not even a hint of the most powerful hamster wheel spinner in your posts... Does your wife ever catch a scent of other women of equal or greater attractiveness than her wanting to fuck you? Learn how to subtly flirt and get some reciprocity with quality women in front of your wife. You ain't shit in your wife's eyes, and you won't be again until you're pre-approved by other more attractive women in front of her. You've picked off the easy…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 02:32 AM
3

Or he's moving up a level of dread if he starts Day gaming those ladies on the train.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 07:28 PM
3

Before I offer advice I need to clarify and confirm - are you a male or a female? I could not be certain and am leaning towards female after your ramblings about your feelings, fat thighs, and fat belly...
/r/askMRP06/10/17 04:22 PM
1

How long have you run the wendler program ? I checked out his site and I like his philosophy and certainly will pay the man for his hard work, content, and knowledge.
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:45 PM
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Kids (step or biological) - you will forever set the example of what a man is - whether they become one or marry one. Soldier on, stay the course, the principles here transcend.
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:44 AM
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Have you ever heard the expression that iron sharpens iron - sorry you're not iron sister - but you are welcome to step into the foundry
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:41 AM
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I'm interested by your lift program switch - I'm looking for some help on my lift program - have finished my course with SL 5x5 - hip left a bit sore and clicky after hitting 315lbs 5x5 on squat. Any thoughts on good intermediate programs? Any trainers in the community with thoughts on transitioning from beginner to intermediate when linear progressions fail to continue?
/r/askMRP04/10/17 03:23 AM
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Yes you stay for the kids so you can control the home environment for your kids 24-7. Let's say you get divorced and your wife has 50% custody. She gets a new boyfriend and he's a creeper or has a temper - maybe he touches your kids, maybe he just makes them feel uncomfortable, maybe he yells at them, belittles them, ruins their self esteem, or beats them. This would be an epic fail on your part to lead and protect your kids through their most formative years.
/r/askMRP30/09/17 12:52 PM
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No no no - don't read the side bar - be her beta bucks and maybe come back here when you're miserable again.
/r/askMRP29/09/17 03:44 PM
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So your 6 months in based on your Reddit age - time spent lurking under a different user name doesn't count. You can either beta out and quit - have fun MGTOWing. Or you can alpha up. I'll allow you this victim puke this once on your marathon run that is your red pill journey. Take a quick swig of water, wash the smell of puke off your chin, and keep running like a Clydesdale (slow, hard working, and grinding without much finesse)
/r/askMRP28/09/17 05:49 PM
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Well you better get real honest real fast with yourself. Everything about your post rubbed me wrong.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 12:32 AM
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Well my gut hurts - sounds like someone is branch swinging to her next relationship and may already be in it. Maybe this guy is some white night DB BP-er giving her a shoulder to lean on but a couple of supportive texts don't kill a data plan. You know what you're dealing with... If there is any way to use a private detective to document an extramarital affair to better your divorce settlement please do it. My neighbor hired a PI to get pics of his wife fucking her "best friend's" husband in the…
/r/askMRP26/09/17 08:27 PM
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If you've been looking at usage do you also know the content of those texts? I don't see any signs of logic in your post? Second thought is texts don't eat up data - Snapchat and other photo/video forms of communication certainly do...
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:12 PM
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Aka butt hurt
/r/askMRP25/09/17 11:56 PM
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Yes - I pick things up - I put dem down
/r/askMRP22/09/17 02:01 AM
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I started by using this traveling hong kong tailor (cosmo suits - used him for about 15 years - does a road show around the US every year). First 14 years were outstanding prices $500-1000. But last time he sent me suits they were cut for a 10 year old church boy. Re-tailoring from Hong Kong just didn't work and it was $750 a suit down the drain. Tried this other place with US store fronts called "my suit". Had a good experience there - Price points $500-1500. But the experience hasn't been cons…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 05:41 PM
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Get your new suits custom made - not bespoke - but "made to measure". If you've never done this before it will give you the biggest improvement per $ in your wardrobe
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 07:50 PM
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Flip the story line here - wife finds box of condoms in your gym bag and says why do you have these? If you're banging randoms or have a side plate how do you quickly respond when caught off guard - she fogged you woman style... Reading this made my stomach hurt for you in a bad way.
/r/askMRP18/09/17 01:10 PM
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In any relationship (romantic, platonic, or business) you should know if you are "the means to another's end" or "the end of another's mean". I try to be the latter.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 09:09 PM
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1) anger is only warranted when her actions materially impact your MAP. 2) Isolate her finances and social circles from yours and your MAP will be unimpeded by her self sabotaging ways... 3) you will eventually transition to feeling bad for a human trapped in a mind controlled by feelings. Just listen to two hens cluck away...almost every sentence begins with "I feel like...". 4) don't worry you will eventually observe all of this from the outside in and be indifferent in your next phase after a…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/17 02:01 AM
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Dude so funny it hurts - this describes 95% of women - AWALT. The only ladies I know that enjoy my hobbies wear polo shirts and pleated khaki shorts with tennis sneakers.
/r/askMRP17/09/17 01:51 AM
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THIS IS A TROLL POSTING - ONLY USE IS TO LABEL IT AS BLUE PILL EXAMPLE - THERE IS NO HELPING THIS LEMMING
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/17 12:53 PM
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You need to read the whole side bar again. It's all your fault.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 09:22 PM
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You guys should absolutely have kids right now - it'll fix everything. Next!
/r/askMRP06/09/17 02:39 AM
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She knows when her friends want to fuck you - that spins the dread - not you bragging like some incompetent chump - go read the side bar, start being awesome, and stop being a loser
/r/askMRP05/09/17 02:19 PM
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Yeah it's mental masturbation at this point - march on
/r/askMRP01/09/17 03:18 AM
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The answer to your question of which is right is both - you have your MAP and you are at a place that isn't chased by her. So you IDGAF for now, work on your MAP, and one day you will be a man of value that is chased after
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:53 AM
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Did you read blue pill professor ebook - it lays it out in steps
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:42 AM
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You sound like a woman
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:33 AM
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There may have been a small fiber in this post of the final capitulation of a dying beta. That last covert contract that drives many mRPers early on just died for him. The question is will he come out of his lifts tonight saying and being IDGAF or will he MGTOW.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 06:12 PM
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The end goal of a MAP is you do you (not in a selfish child way but in a mRP way) and she chases you. There is a line that can be used here of "my LTR doesn't stay out until ___o'clock but you are free to do as you want." But you're not anywhere near deserving to use this line in this LTR
/r/askMRP30/08/17 02:30 PM
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Do you have kids at home that you are taking care of? Just go out and be awesome regardless of her if you're not bound by little kids. Why are you sitting home like a little beta bitch?
/r/askMRP30/08/17 02:05 PM
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You sound like a little boy scared of his mean mommy. GTFU. You've found the right place to learn how to become a man of value.
/r/askMRP27/08/17 07:38 PM
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Summed up in one line - maintain your frame = a great life
/r/askMRP25/08/17 01:31 PM
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One letter response "k". Sounds like you need another plate to spin in her place... get yourself some options and you won't be so indecisive and whiny
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:52 AM
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Yup to all of those points and advice. Outsource the help around the house and find her a support network. Set things up so she gets time away from those little fuckers every couple of days. One last point is that if your "job" is part of some bigger vision or career path don't let your wife's "needs" derail your choices or activities at work. I've seen it in my field that some guy is trying to appease his wife with newborn and kids at home. He compromises way too much at work to try to help out…
/r/askMRP25/08/17 11:20 AM
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Sure - right on - don't worry Chad showed up and comforted your crying wife on the side of the road, then saved the day by towing her car to his garage, and fixing it. Cue the tingles and the 80s porno music you angry passive aggressive drunk captain.
/r/askMRP20/08/17 12:59 PM
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Blue Pill Professors book "saving a low sex marriage." It was written for all of us on how to unfuck our marriages. If I read it 15 years ago my marriage wouldn't have required unfucking. It will show you all the wrong paths to avoid and teach you how to deliberately create a thriving easy LTR.
/r/askMRP20/08/17 12:50 PM
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It is painful to listen to the 3 hens cluck away about plans and never reach a consensus. When I find myself in this situation I give the location for the first stop of the night - drinks, live music etc. This usually makes the group forget about their lack of direction and consensus. Once having a good time at my first stop I tell them the second location (I've made reservations without asking anyone - I just do it). And by the end of the night we all had fun and they just said yes one step at …
/r/askMRP19/08/17 04:24 PM
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Check out "the beige Phillip show". It costs $2 to access the old stuff which after all was said and done I thought was worth it. It's a spin off of Patrice O'Neil and black Phillip. The Show is great to lighten your mood and the show's sense of humor is contagious. It's one of the few podcasts I've found that is rooted in red pill. It'll keep you from getting too serious and going all autistic mRP...
/r/askMRP17/08/17 06:23 PM
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Yup - more dread needed. You've listed your strengths. Now list your weaknesses. And the answer to no progress is there. 1) are you in any leadership positions in the public eye. If not find one that you love and kick ass at. You'll find that the right position results in other women looking at you and thinking I want to fuck that guy or why isn't my husband like that? Other women viewing you in this light will turn on that subtle anxiety in your wife's hindbrain that makes her aggressively and …
/r/askMRP16/08/17 08:16 PM
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If I could up vote this twice I would
/r/askMRP15/08/17 06:21 PM
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No fishing off the company pier. Get back to your MAP. Stop pursuing women at work and go out into the real world to game women before HR fires you for sexual harassment. (Redundant but if I could smack you up each side of the head I would).
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 03:27 PM
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6 months into mRP - body fat dropped from 15% down to 12% and strength is up. The whole way through my wife has mocked and shit tested all of my dietary habits and changes in appearance. As her insecurity grows so do her shit tests. I enjoy each one for what it is...insecurity creeping back into her hindbrain.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 04:00 PM
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You absolutely nailed it. This is very helpful to move from being chronically annoyed by her frequent childlike behaviors to a place of amused mastery. I had never thought of her childlike behavior and mindset as a good metric of a proper alpha state in marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 10:28 PM
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The most in depth free educational material I've found is on the rippedbody website. They've got an absurd amount of free but good diet, macros, and lifting material.
/r/askMRP01/04/17 05:41 PM
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Here is my experience in reaching IDGAF: 1) set goals in all areas of your MAP 2) when each goal is reached you are not done. Set a new a new goal. If you don't know what goal to set you need to read/research more on that area to find your inspiration. Inspiration for your goal will come from this new knowledge. When I am not inspired I am ignorant. 3) perfection and your MAP is not a fixed point. You never reach it. Perfection feels farther away each time I progress. 4) for me my covert contrac…
/r/askMRP30/03/17 04:26 PM
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Great post. mRP seems to be largely a community of men in their own respective crucibles. We all got here through ignorance, laziness and their resulting missteps. Using this crucible analogy to frame your current LTR may be useful in controlling your emotions. In chemistry the crucible can be a place of violent uncontrolled runaway reactions and transformations. The mRP principles give one the ability to regulate the reaction and speed of transformation and control the end product. Get over the…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:18 PM
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Here's the gut check - and it can be summed up in one word - congruence. Intentionally evolve into someone who is alpha on all fronts. Hit all goals physically, socially, sexually, and money/career. Until you dominate in all of these areas you will lean to heavily on one of these pillars while throwing around a BB label and vice versa. Be an AF who has BB but knows how to use them.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 09:02 PM
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"Conciseness is the brother of talent." The title perfectly summed up the intent of his post.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 02:59 PM
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Thoughts on your romantic weekend getaway plans: you should work on entering it with OI. No expectations, no covert contracts - these taint the whole experience for both people. Your verbiage stunk of personal hopes and CCs. Make your romantic weekend one that you would be thrilled with even if you didn't screw once. If your mind hasn't arrived here put your weekend plans on hold.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 01:15 PM
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Money transfers should be electronic in nature, automatic, and recur every month. Do the heavy lifting on setting this process up through your banks and it will take care of itself from that day forward. The benefit is you won't waste energy on it every month and you can apply it to other areas of your self improvement. The nature of your boundaries around her spending within the budget depends on the woman you're dealing with and just how tight the budget is around essentials like gas and groce…
/r/askMRP01/02/17 03:43 PM
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Diet, exercise, and wardrobe is where this happens first - make them cry in self loathing and move forward with your plan for personal greatness. Later it will happen when you are making all of the right choices around your career and advancing within or starting something new.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:36 AM
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Looking forward to this. A reference list of good podcasts in the sidebar would be helpful for us road warriors who have more time to listen than to read. Listening to this stuff works wonders compared to morning talk radio with beta Billy hosts surrounded by a bunch of women yapping.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 03:11 PM
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Are you the reason he is showing the budding signs of physical alpha behaviors and hopefully social confidence? Do you continue to teach him through your consistent mRP existence? Your wife should only have those tingles about you. Being proud and exited is one thing. However, I have seen some mothers locally lean towards their sport star sons for this tingle source when their husbands are henpecked blue pill soft men. It is indescribably creepy to watch. I hope you are her Chad responsible for …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 02:33 PM
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Yup, they blew me, then my wife did, and then your wife begged to blow me to after seeing the outline of my 18" bicep with a 10% BF jawline. Don't worry, that wasn't me you tasted on her, I politely declined.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 03:08 PM
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So you read the rational male. Didn't it smack you in the face that you will hit your prime SMV at 37 or later? Women SMV peak 18-25, hit the wall at 30. I think you would be crazy to stray from a path of becoming your best self and reach your full potential. From what you've said you have a long way to go. And there is nothing wrong with that. Embrace it. Why would you want to take on the obligation of a wife and the kids that will soon follow? This a prescription for misery. Don't marry before…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 02:46 PM
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I am currently watching this process unfold for another family in my neighborhood. Lessons learned: 1) lawyer up and channel all strategy and communication through your lawyer. Maintain frame, stfu, and do not engage in any way with an emotional crazy soon to be ex. You can't reason with crazy. 2) restraining orders don't reflect negatively upon you if there is no evidence of abuse. They are issued to the first person who runs to the police to secure one. Officers of the law and family court jud…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/17 02:19 PM
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If the post offers no value delete it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/17 01:32 PM
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Sure just like dreads or squats - put weights on bar, lift it or and squat it, I don't know whatever could go wrong ?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 11:08 PM
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Why not have both the arms and the wardrobe?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 11:06 PM
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A dangerous thing is not knowing what you don't know. My theory is to delegate whatever you are not an expert in to someone more qualified. Get a good teacher to avoid bad habits and epic failures. For example, if you don't know how to squat or dead with proper form pay for a good trainer to work with you so that you don't waste time or hurt yourself. Continue to do so until you become learned in the form. I believe the same applies to wardrobe skills. For those of us who say jeans that fit well…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 10:46 PM
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By show the results do you mean with pics of me post wardrobe refresh?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/17 08:14 PM
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Not much response traffic on this post. Perhaps because this post is true. Consider it a fact. Make it part of your gospel.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 02:31 PM
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Yes, this is one of the many painful moments after you take the red pill. It hurts when you realize that most of your "red pill improvements" have been one big covert contract and you're a fraud. You thought you were a new man, an alpha man, and that this would help your situation. But it hasn't had the outcome you'd hoped for in your cancerous blue pill core of a self, rooted in covert contracts. Keep choking down the red pill, keep improving yourself because you want to be bigger than what you…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/17 02:06 PM
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