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martinG8736/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 07:54 AM
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martinG8736/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 05:06 PM
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My experience and opinion, thats not a good decision. My current wife and i are most likely going to be getting a divorce because she held onto to many things from her previous marriage and i got the brunt of all her issues. Its probably different for a guy whos dating soon after their failed marriage but im sure the trials and recovery are pretty similar. I was never married before this relationship and we started dating soon after her divorce. Just didnt work out well for me in the end. Hope i…
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 01:59 AM
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I also can tell that yo never truly read the full post. Most likely as it was extreamly long. Its obvious that you put alot of assumption into how you choose to think. I feel you tend to look at the person speaking as the full problem and expect them to admit to full fault and move on. Truth is is that you assume to know it all and proceed to force feed me the full fault talk. EXAMPLE : " But you clearly communicated something that raised a concern with s licensed therapist, and your response is…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 02:43 PM
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Lol i guess i just have this aura that people tend to have a problem with me even though i dont wrong them and i tend to be more quiet and not opinionated. Yeah ive got deep rooted issues for sure but the vast majority i keep inside because i would personally like to avoid the drama and headaches and still that gets me nowhere closer to the peace i want.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 07:45 PM
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When we started our meeting i got the whole confidentiality spew and anything said was for an effort to help me. A few sessions later i mentioned my step daughter and how shes causing problems within the home and she has a goal to get me out of the picture because i follow up with discipline (groundings, take their things away and no friends over). To be honest i avoid talking or interacting to her or her brother anymore for various reasons. The therapist began questioning me about abuse towards…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 07:36 PM
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I can agree all the way that nothing will work out the way i would like it to and id be beating a dead horse. Im in this position for what ever reason some higher power had a plan for and i think i continued to move with it out of many fears but in the end of it all ive been deteriorating quietly. Ive spoken out to a therapist not that long ago and ended the contact after a few weeks when he started to hint towards judgement and consequences of talking to him. I wanted an ear to listen and maybe…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 06:33 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 02:26 PM
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Sounds like my wife, actually. As much as I don't wanna say it, my wife has turned me into a very beat down and worn human being from her treatment to me and its made me a bitter person. I'm no coward but hearing it come from the one you chose to live your life with can really damage you no matter how strong or durable you think you are.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 09:19 AM
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Woman are so scandalous its disgusting! Typical that they always use the kids as leverage to get what they want. Woman did us men dirty in the garden of eden and stillbto this day they know how to screw things up in the worst ways possible. Don't give her anything!
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 08:44 AM
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I'm in a slightly similar situation and all I can say is is that you have options and the best advice your gonna get and have gotten is to get out while you can. Kids involved is a hard thing to follow through with cause honestly, there are so many men out in this world that end up beat down by the woman and law just for being a male and a father at that while having the biggest heart for their children. Situations like this is exactly why alot of good men laugh at companionship. My experience l…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 01:20 PM
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Thanks for the positive thinking. I'm not a man of luck or good fortune and tend to be the negative picture the midst of others. I'm quiet, keep to myself, work hard and alot and care deeply for family values yet its never worked for me. Just trying to figure out if I even have a chance at keeping my daughter's in my life in a positive way. If that falls apart then yeah, I'm out.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 05:36 AM
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I drink but rarely and it's only on weekends. She tends to run down to the gas stations and buy 5 or 6 shooter almost every day of the week. I'm really the only one that plays with them tbh. She's never once sat down with them to play with their pony toys or barbies and has never took them out to practice soccer with them this last summer when they were in it. She loves them for sure and they love her but the extent of her interactions with them goes as far as buying them toys every now and then…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 05:30 AM
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Meaning?
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 05:10 AM
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Buddy you need to be careful and consider the harm and danger in those feelings. I am currently going through that exact same thing but my wife's ex is the problem. My wife holds onto the issues of their past relationship and I've paid the price for it. My marriage with her is realistically over and I always think of what could have been if he would have just left things alone. If your in a good relationship now then why do you feel the need to consider those feelings and hurt a woman you say ha…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 05:24 AM
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My mental state and heart is exactly where yours is at but I won't deny that the others that have posted to this thread are wrong either. I'm mad on my own behalf that fate has always been against me when my only desire in life was peace and happiness. I've been coming to terms with alot in life and I do feel what you say. Decisions and actions will be made at your own pace and how you see fit but at the same time you need to be careful on that particular mindset. I'd be a wrong to tell you to m…
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 05:17 AM
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I did seek a therapist today for the sake of doing this the right way. I'm not sure if you've ever seen the guidelines and stipulations of a therapy session in fine print but there are so many things that I feel I need to be cautious about even talking to them. Not all noble men and men of God can be trusted to confide in like that of the loley peasant who has suffered also. I hope that makes sense 😕
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 06:29 AM
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I will be open and honest with everyone that has responded to my plea and I do take it to heart. I've questioned everything about my life from the start and it is a long story of where I've been and how I got to this point. I 100% feel like a lost soul, a walking talking empty egg shell and I do sit with that stupid thing every once in a while knowing that it will happen. Sometimes it's been so damn close and others it's set with me in silence. Last night, I felt weak for not doing what I feel n…
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/23 05:37 AM
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You know man I'm going through the same thing right at this very moment at this very second. She's currently in my kids room on the phone with every person she can get ahold of and bad mouthing me and my side of the family. I can hear everything she's saying. We have 4 daughters together and she had 2 from a prior marriage with a dude that was pretty messed up abusive and heavy into drugs. I know we are both far from perfect but though when I got with her in the beginning I was interested and be…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/23 10:02 PM
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