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Purtroppo l'Italia ha il vizio di importare cultura, mode e nonsense americani senza rielaborarli e dubitarne.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/26 03:30 PM
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I think the only division should be a class war. We should be against the very powerful and rich capitalists ( both men and women): they govern the world, pollute, exploit workers and start wars.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/26 12:46 PM
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I think that's because for women it's just too conventient to be a feminist. Some women declare to be feminists but are on some degree aware of the hypocrisy and flaws of feminism. For men is different because if you refuse the idea of feminism you are immediately framed as a rightwing misoginist fascist. I just keep quiet and don't explicitly reject feminism but I know many people are in my same shoes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/26 12:39 PM
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This is a great post. Unfortunately I've struggled with mental health all my life and I've been treated for decades by a number of psychotherapists and psychiatrists. I have to say only psychiatrists and medications have been useful. Psychotherapy is deeply flawed in many ways: if you're improving that means therapy is working but if not you're not doing your work and not making an effort. So basically patient's fault. Also therapists want to treat you as long as possible to keep getting money. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 08:22 AM
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The definition of feminism has shifted. When it was created it was about equal rights, now it has shifted to women's rights and many feminists are not even hiding it. Infact if you ask them about a men's issue they usually respond "they don't care", or " it's a men's issue, men should create a movement to advocate for them, it's not feminism duty to fix men issues". I also agree the no true scotsman fallacy is very strong. There was a parade here in Italy organised by a radical feminist group an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/26 10:16 AM
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I don't remember exactly because was a long time ago, but feminists would refuse to stop viewing everything under the patriarchy / male privilege lens basically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/26 06:15 PM
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The promise is good but hard to implement. A similar subreddit was created a few years ago with the concept of discussing egalitarism, a place where feminists and male activists under a leftwing lens would cooperate. The sub had very short life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/26 05:38 PM
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i kinda agree with this but I don't think I'm really getting your point. I have friends who are not lonely per se since they have male friends, they do hangout and have hobbies but struggle massively with women. They say are lonely because they lack a romantic relationship and crave it. What's wrong about that? I realise being totally alone is worse ( like no friends and no family), but I don't think we should go down this path because it isn't useful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/26 05:44 PM
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In reality I don't think women feminists care what males think as long they agree with them in everything. I have a suspicion women feminists are skeptical of male feminists and don't consider them at their same level since they're male so they can't understand. That's way often they refrain from calling them feminists and calling them allies instead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/10/25 11:24 AM
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A while ago I watched a video of Todd Grande who is a psychologist where he was talking about people's fascination for serial killers and why Ted Bundy and other serial killers were receiving love letters from women and lovers. To summarise the video and the study he was citing, most if not all women who are in love with serial killers, criminals and generally "bad people" are mentally ill themselves and would meet DSM criteria for cluster B personality disorders ( antisocial, borderline and nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:57 AM
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Are his clothes wrinkled? Is the color washed out? Are they tailored to him? He doesn’t have to be trendy, but does he have some fashion sense? Are his hands/nails clean and taken care of? Does he take care of his face (up your sunblock game fellas)? Is his hair well groomed? Is he always sweaty? Is his cologne pleasant and not overbearing? Well, English is not my first language but I don't think any of those things would fall under "hygiene". Other than having hands and nails clean, I would cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:31 PM
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I've been in therapy for a while and tried different therapists. I live in Italy so I'm not sure about the situation in America, but I've not met many therapists who support the idea of patriarchy or men are oppressors. Most support the idea that men and women have issues because of gender roles, which I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/21 11:01 AM
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Yes, I agree it is not necessarily done as a flattering gesture, but why are lesser attractive men more targeted compared to more conventionally attractive ones?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/21 08:33 PM
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As side note, this type of experiences make me feel bad about myself. I mean, I definitely think it's not nice or cool to be groped or to be sexually harassed, but when I read about men being groped or kissed without consent, that makes me think these types of occurrences generally happen to attractive men and that makes me feel unattractive. I tried to remember if something similar happened to me but I have an hard time. Then I think that maybe the reason is I live in a pretty "traditional" pla…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/21 01:14 PM
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I agree. I've noticed women that partake in the "80% of men are trash" idea are often critical about other women too, how other women are sluts, too naive, not smart, or envious. I'm sure there is misandry in that but I think it's just narcissism as conceptualised as "other people are stupid/trash/inferior meanwhile I'm a special person, smart and beautiful so I deserve the best there is"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/21 12:13 PM
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Adapting doesn't mean acritically agreeing with the state of things. You either adapt and accept to play a game while disagreeing with the underlying rules if you think it is worth it ( however I advise to feign complacency with said rules) or you don't play the game at all. Edit: Would you prefer we remain hopeful and ashamed of ourselves, thinking we are the problem? I don't think I'm a problem, I'm not ashamed of my sexual and romantic desires either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/20 10:35 PM
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I agree, dating as a woman is easier. An average woman ( or even below average) can easily find a partner/hookups while it is not the same for men. The problem is that while I like the spirit and aim of these types of posts in the end they are "useless". I don't think the dating market will change anytime soon and even if it changes at all we won't care because we would be out of time. I guess we might find some usefullness in this and similar other posts from a theorycal point of view, but very…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/20 07:53 PM
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Height obsession seems to be an american thing and that's something which always puzzled me as an italian. Italy and I would say Europe don't seem focused as much about height. Sure, when women mention attractive physical traits in men height comes up very often and they prefer their man to be taller ( which is basically what this study says), but there isn't an height cut-off ( the infamous "if you are less than 6ft swipe left" tinder bios are almost unseen here) like you see in america. Usuall…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/20 11:27 AM
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I don't intend to insult but I think many incels have mental issues. Many might suffer from social anxiety, narcissistic personality disorder, autism or other types of anxiety disorders. People don't choose to have mental disorders. Assuming people who don't or can't improve are not doing enough is wrong. People might go to therapy and get better in months or years. Others might never get better. That's the harsh truth. I'm not saying people should accept relationships with anyone, but self impr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/20 01:19 PM
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This summer in Italy we had a very strange and misterious crime involving a mother and her kid Gioele. It is not very clear but apparently she killed her kid and then committed suicide. At first police and people refused to think she might have killed him and looked for other reasons, like her being killed by her husband or wild animals but investigations seem to point to her killing Gioele and then committing suicide. She apparently suffered of depression and paranoia and she was struggling wit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/20 09:11 AM
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I agree with your post. I think a lack of responsibility on womens part is just a consequence of feminism, since any problem is caused by patriarchy and by men. Even if women are creating or worsening a problem is because of "internalyzed misoginy". I also think a lot of behaviours correlated with "toxic masculinity" like being too stoic and overconfident/arrogant are worsened by womens expectations. Since most women consider confidence attractive it seems pretty obvious men might try to display…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/20 08:04 AM
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As a man I prefer working with a male therapist. Not because I think a female therapist is incompetent rather because I think a same sex therapist can empathise more and has a similar lived experience ( I'm thinking about male sexual issues for example). I think finding a therapist who is not a feminist is pretty hard since most of them are feminists. I don't think it's a huge issue as long they're not too extreme or prove to despise or can't empathise with men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/20 12:25 PM
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I don't hold my breath for it. Unfortunately we live in a time where if you talk about men's issues you are accused of whataboutism at best or of being a misogynistic women hater at worst. I read this and similar other subs and I try to have conversations about men's and women's issues in real life about things I care about with people I know I can talk to, but other than that I don't label myself at all ( neither an mra or antifemminist or a feminist) and feign ignorance about most things like …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 07:31 PM
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david deangelo, style, etc make me think of 2010, have you noticed we started with PUA>redpill>exredpill? Men-women dynamics make me think of clothing fashion which works in cycles. Anyway: Bluepill says that being yourself, being a nice, respectful, smart, courteous, funny man it's basically all it gets to have successful relationships with women. Being attractive helps but personality is what is more important. A lot of men at a point thought "why I'm not getting women if I'm all of the above"…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 01:44 PM
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That's because a lot of people take the feminism definition of "a movement for equal right and treatment for both genders" at face value without any thought or cognitive scrutiny. I agree there are some who are like you say, but most people in real life who call themselves feminists don't know much about feminism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/20 09:12 AM
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In don't live in the US and I agree it's much easier for a man to do violent crimes due to brute force, but what about the more "basic" crimes? I don't know the statistics but what about a woman robbing people in dark alleys using a gun? Force shouldn't necessary in that case even against a huge man. Or stealing cars? What about telematics frauds? Do the statistics compare for these kind of crimes both for men and women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/20 12:38 PM
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Borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder are often caused by childhood trauma like emotional neglect or emotional/sexual abuse or abandonment by a parent. Trauma is not mandatory to develop such personality disorders because apparently there's a genetic component, but trauma can definetly play a role. Since a lot of children grow without a father figure I think a correlation might be possible. The worst fear for a person with BPD is fear of real or perceived abandonm…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/20 05:21 PM
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I don't understand if this post is sarcastic, a poor attempt at trolling or a serious question. I hope it is sarcasm or an inside joke I'm not getting, otherwise it would be an extremely worrying question.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/20 05:14 PM
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There's research showing that most people assume most other people either "hate" or "love" women. There's no "in between" where you're neither pro- nor anti- women. So it's assumed that people who aren't obvious pro-women in a traditional or neo-Victorian "chivalrous" sense (aka "white knighting") are automatically anti-women. could you share this interesting study? That's very true, we are in an era where slightly disagreeing with feminism puts you in the "women hater misoginist monster" bucket…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/20 12:53 PM
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I don't think I'm following you and I'm sure I didn't get what you're trying to say so I apologise in advance. But as far as I know effective and realistic IQ tests measure the general intelligence G. They're not directly influenced by education or having studied anything. This is what I have in mind https://www.iqmindware.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/RAPM2.jpg So a totally uneducated man could potentially score as high as a professor in university on this type of test. I think men doing worse…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/20 01:01 PM
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I don't know, perhaps. When I was there I had the impression he wanted to find something to invalidate what I was trying to say and blame me. Of course therapists won't ever say "It's your fault" directly but they will try to circumnavigate and use sentences and words to basically say it's your fault without saying it explicitly. I don't want to use buzzwords and I feel at this moment "emphatise" is basically a buzzword, but having a therapist capable of emphatising with you is very important. T…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/20 08:38 PM
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Yes, I'm very skeptical about mental health professionals. I mean, there are good ones but I suspect most are incompetent. I was talking to him about loneliness ( unfortunately I was diagnosed having social phobia too) and other issues, when I mentioned what I wrote in the opening posts - "(Summarizing) I openened up with my friends but I'm disappointed nobody cared" - "You probably didn't express yourself well, like you didn't care or it's not a big deal" - "Well, no. I said I'm having an hard …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/20 03:48 PM
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Not sure about modern feminists reject double standards that benefit them. I've often heard the sentence "I'm a feminist but I'm traditional in dating" or "I'm a feminist but because the patriarchy/wage gap men have to pay ( for a date)" Last summer I unknowingly went on a date with a "fucking feminist" as she stated on her instagram page. Of course I had to ask her out, picked her up with my car and payed for the drinks. She didn't even make believe she wanted to pay. Somebody might say it's co…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/20 09:46 PM
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Some will argue it's because women are conditioned to think about other people when they commit acts so they choose "clean" ways to commit suicide so it won't be a burden for others I've heard this too. I don't know, suicide it's a pretty selfish act in the first place, so being altruistic regarding avoiding others the burden of having to "clean up" seem... hard to believe. Some say instead it's because women want to preserve beauty even in death because patriarchy / internalised misoginy puts t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/20 10:57 AM
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I may go off on a tangent with this, but most "high value" men will likely not wait 6 months to have sex and pay for every single date. Exactly. Why a a guy in the top 10% would wait six months or pay ten dates on expensive restaurants ( no McDonald's of course) when he could easily find other women to have sex with much less effort? Should be patient because they're special? It's a garantuee 95% of the users in that subreddit are not special enough and live in a fantasy world thinking they're
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/20 04:17 PM
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I'm Italian, I don't have datas but I would say more men smoke than women in my age bracket ( I'm 30) but I would say not by a lot. In the 65+ way more men smoke than women. Edit https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.salute.gov.it/imgs/C_17_pubblicazioni_2173_allegato.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwiNg_aVwqzoAhUDkFwKHZ-xAvEQFjABegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw0XDQrKoRkpEVbZbo_R3Yk6&cshid=1584826582584 Just found this, it's from 2014. In the second graph you can see the age/sex distribution, men =uo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/20 09:35 PM
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To be fair, both dynamics are considered controlling. I know girlfriends who don't let their boyfriends do x and are considered controlling and a pain in the ass by most. Probably there's more "willingness" by men to suffer from these kind of behaviour since it's pretty common to hear the sentence "happy wife happy life" and many men interpret this by doing whatever wife say. My dad is a perfect example of this because he says "whatever you wish", "you decide" all the time, my mum hates it tho. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/20 12:25 PM
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Well, Doesn't matter if you don't feel privileged according to some feminists. On the contrary if you don't feel privileged that means you are such a privileged individual you don't even realise it. In my opinion there is privilege, but that is economic privilege. Having money give you the opportunity of studying, choosing a job you theorically like compared to get a job/ stay at home out of necessity, etc. My mum is graduated at university and works and earns pretty good money. She has two sist…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/20 01:22 PM
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I agree a lot of men feel guilt, but I generally don't. I identify myself as a man and I'm happy to be a man, but I don't feel bad about myself or my gender if other men do bad actions. I have responsability for my thoughts and actions: I won't ever rape or abuse a woman. I never beat up a woman, I respect and treat women as equal. I try to stay around people who think and act the same as me regarding this. Because of this I won't feel bad about myself if other men abuse or rape women. I have no…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/20 09:39 AM
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It's probably something related, maybe related to perceptions of how you appear in the world, compared with others. My theory is most men don't have that perception for a series of reasons. Women rarely give compliments about your looks even if they're attracted to you ( atleast in the first phases). You don't usually get many compliments in your everyday life as a man ( both from men, women, friends,etc.) compared to women ( yes, I realize some compliments received by women are fake). If you do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/20 10:29 PM
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I feel similar too. Since I was a kid and during middle and high school I was considered ugly. Women have made that pretty clear in gentle and less than gentle ways. I take some kind of responsability since I was ugly during my younger years because I didn't take care of myself in term of aesthetic ( long and unkempt hair, badly dressed, unibrow, etc. I was and still am shorter than average). Since I was considered ugly in school, I accepted that situation then and I genuinely thought woman were…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/20 02:37 PM
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I don't remember the last time I noticed a stranger smiling at me, I have noticed every once in a while a girl repetedely looking at me, but a girl staring and smiling? Never noticed that. I don't think I'm horribly bad looking
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:02 PM
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Are shit test usually coming from a girl who's interested or they don't mean anything?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 10:16 AM
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I would rather create a fake fb account using an old email address
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:01 PM
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Lol disregard that site entirely. It was a good laugh tho.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:44 AM
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What if you're 5ft6in
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:51 PM
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so you're suggesting to be rejected deliberately at first to state my intention, keep flirting and then ask her again a second time some time later? Not arguing, just never thought of this tactic.
/r/seduction25/04/18 09:35 PM
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Why do you think I'm her gay friend at the moment? You're probably right, just wondering. Also how I state my intention without blatantly say "I like you"? I would usually invite to a date but I can't since she is in a long distance relationship with a guy.
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:20 AM
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no, I'm planning to increase touching progressively, I'm not going for a kiss out of nowhere. Is my concern, about things turning awkward in my social circle if she refuses me overrated? Do you have experiences regarding similar situations?
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:14 AM
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I didn't care for her that much in the beginning, I liked her from a physical point but didn't care for her character. After sometime knowing her I started to like her character too because I realized she wasn't how I thought in the beginning. She is the typical outgoing girl, very flirty and she touches everyone. So it's tough to understand if she is flirting with me or it's just her flirting and touching everyone. Sometime I feel her flirting is more intense and affectionate with me, but who k…
/r/seduction04/04/18 10:02 AM
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I'm in a similar situation and I'm thinking about kissing a friend of mine I know since last year. She is a regular in my circle of friends and I'm afraid if she refuses me that would be awkward in my social circle.
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:07 PM
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I was in a fwb relationship with a girl but she wouldn't use her tongue when kissing. Always wondered why, but never asked to her since I thought it would be an awkward conversation.
/r/seduction30/03/18 01:14 PM
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I tried this approach and always been ignored. Granted I have a pretty empty profile with no pictures of me. I tried to contact them, commenting on the stories about random things and never commenting on their appearance, but no results
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:06 PM
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she was much more affectionate at the start of our "dating". After a bit she told me that she loves me, but I didn't so I didn't reciprocate. At the start for me it was a fwb scenario so I didn't have any feelings for her. I usually would went out with her and then have sex at her house, then I would leave and not contact her for a couple of months. Then repeat. After a week since she said she loved me, she ( let's call her Jane) went out together a friend of mine Laura, Laura confessed that Jan…
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:16 AM
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She didn't do nothing too bad, but I was in a mental state where I was very involved in this "relationship" like thinking constantly about her, checking her fb often, I would say I was in love with her, but that might be too strong of a word. This is what is bothering me: I was at her birthday party and she was greeting everyone in warm manner, hugging them, etc instead she basically ignored me and she greeted me with a wave and a cold facial expression. I didn't think much about this initially …
/r/seduction19/07/17 11:17 PM
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the fact is she also made some things I didn't like if she could apologize I would consider getting closer to her again, but she didn't. When I sent that last message she was very cold and basically didn't give a fuck about me.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:34 PM
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her behaviour was already as I described without I even said I love her. After all of this, my theory could be true? I think she wanted a relationship, she was disappointed by me and recently decided to be cold and distant, but she still likes sex. After all the clues I said might be possible. Also why would tell me she loves me a year ago when it's not true? What's the reason for lying?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:19 PM
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oh ok, now I understand. Actually I confessed I love her just yesterday after a year I had sex with her. We come back from the beach and after we had sex at her house. This changes anything?
/r/seduction30/06/17 04:13 PM
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could you clarify what you mean with "you don't confess love before you let it happen between you and the other person"? I should not confess I love her before having sex? and "She knows you have feels for her and she tries to chase them away however she figures out she can"?
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:54 PM
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that's very true what you are saying. The reason is that after a bit I started to develop feelings for her, I feel like I'm in love with her, I feel jeaulousy towards other men, etc. I told her I'm in love with her but she said our age gap is too big and we should just be friends.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:45 PM
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when I'm together with other people she is very distant and cold. She was much more affectionate at the start of our "dating". She told me that thing at the beach I was at her birthday party and greated everyone in a very warm manner, instead she greated me with a wave and cold facial expression. This might mean she is embarassed by me and doesn't want people to know I have something with her, afterall we are not a couple and we have many years of age gap. I forgot to mention two things: she pos…
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:32 PM
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do you think my theory could be true? I don't have the answer to your question, for many reasons no, for other I don't have any other at the moment.
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:04 PM
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it's a long story but I feel like she has an hidden plan because she "hates" me now. I went out with her for a year and she said to me she loves me but I didn't reciprocate. As I read on her facebook profile she sometime complains she doesn't have a boyfriend and I just had sex with her without explaining I'm not looking for a relationship, but I thought it was obvious because I'm 24 she is 39. She still likes having sex with me because after the sea I went at her house and we had sex. I'm not i…
/r/seduction30/06/17 03:00 PM
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well, we had sex a number of times, so I think she has an interest for me.
/r/seduction30/06/17 02:43 PM
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I'm not really a friend with Laura, more of an acquaintance
/r/seduction29/06/17 09:53 PM
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I didn't want to sound like an asshole and told her I was hoping we could go just me and her, but it's fine if her friend join us. She said "ok". Afterall her friend will come from Japan to my hometown and she is the only friend she knows here.
/r/seduction23/06/17 11:20 AM
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I'm interested too
/r/seduction04/01/17 01:37 PM
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I'm 5ft6 too. I think it is a big flaw to have in dating and life in general. How are you doing in dating and in general?
/r/seduction16/12/15 11:25 PM
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