This is something I'm struggling with. I don't understand how to flirt with women. I read that you should tease women and use kino. I was with a girl, a friend in my social circle and we were alone talking. I was teasing her and having fun with her. How is this different from joking with your male friends? I don't understand what's the difference? They seem the same to me. Maybe in my teasing should I convey I'm interested in her and it is not a friendly banter? How do I do that?

We were talking and she said she went to the gym for leg day. I jokingly said let me check that and I touched her legs and she was actually fine with it, she didn't seem annoyed at all. But it is just that.

It's like I do stuff which is supposed to work but I don't get tangible results.

Thoughts?